ellaellaellaayye Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
184	Can I just say, I LOVE IT HERE!	QUEEN SH*T	ellaellaellaayye	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/04/21 05:26 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
19	So, how’s it going these days now that you have to make women like you to get their interest? Men: This sauce tastes like freedom, I’ll stay lost in it✌🏻	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/10/21 06:38 AM
67	Sis needs help A 22-year-old will turn into a 33-year-old one day too. She will want what OP wanted, a desire for a real connection with commitment, a love that persists through age and disease, adversity and insecurity. And she too, like OP will never get it from a man like this. She might get the public affection, the social media posturing, the adornment, hell - she might even get a ring and a kid out of him, but never something real. Never will she get the kind of love that is a forever love. And that’s wh…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/10/21 08:06 PM
46	Let’s create a megathread: What is one of the best pieces of advice you’ve learned from this sub that has blown your mind or had the greatest impact on your life? There is absolutely nothing wrong with being single forever.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/09/21 01:58 AM
4	A friendly reminder on flairs. Totally! To be honest it’s not the end of the world to me. I still get to be here and learn and grow. That’s all that matters to me.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/06/21 10:40 PM
21	How do you deal with regret? But isn’t it great? You have the rest of your life to make it up to her! And you’re right, big change doesn’t come from the mundane - it comes from immense pressure and pain. This is your moment. Redirect all your energy back onto your self. Every ounce of it. From what you want to eat for breakfast to what you want to do for a living. It’s all you from here on out.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/04/21 01:49 PM
169	How do you deal with regret? You mean to tell me you’re a young woman in her 30s that now gets to live life for herself!?! You figured it out! Fuck yes! This calls for a celebration. Some may never get to this conclusion. Pat yourself on the back for the sheer recognizance of this fact! It’s a rebirth for you and every woman that has ever gotten to this point. This is the moment you get to start loving yourself. Don’t dwell, rejoice instead! That woman in the mirror has every bit of potential at 37 that she did at 13. Don’t…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/04/21 01:58 AM
3	What love song do you dedicate to yourself? I Choose You - Sara Bareilles	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/04/21 02:53 PM
13	My abusive ex sent me a cashiers check (via my mother) for 30,000 dollars. What do I do? (Besides cash it) THE ONLY ADVISE IS THE EDIT! This is abuse - this is a means to control and manipulate. Lawyer up, call the police, your mother might need to stay elsewhere. THERE IS NOTING NORMAL ABOUT THIS. A man with any integrity would have let you live your life in peace. Read that last line again. This is borderline psychotic and I fear for you.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/04/21 05:21 PM
–	Concrete initial steps for decentering men from your life I adore this list. Such a wonderful, tangible way to approach life! Personally, I’m adding some aspects of my physicality to this list. I am focusing on evolving my look and style that is uniquely me and devoid of a male focus. My hair, makeup, and clothing choices are now mine and no longer tools to “lure a man.” It’s quite liberating and I’ve never felt more beautiful. I haven’t flat ironed my hair in a few months now. Letting my curly, kinky, blonde locks flow. Haven’t seen them since I was a…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/04/21 01:57 AM
21	I have no words... Find this woman and bring her here immediately! My heart hurts reading this.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/04/21 05:26 AM
41	✩ FDS FOR TEENS ✩ PART 1: LITTERALLY ANYTHING ELSE > MEN Absolutely. Currently building a beautiful life ❤️	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/04/21 05:22 AM
213	✩ FDS FOR TEENS ✩ PART 1: LITTERALLY ANYTHING ELSE > MEN This makes me want to cry. I wish I knew this in my teens. I’ve wasted so many years on men with nothing to show for it. Finally woke up. No joke I feel like I’m 19 and starting over - it’s an amazing feeling tho :)	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/04/21 05:16 AM
176	50/50 Right! No one wants your dollar store sperm!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/04/21 05:14 AM
–	A bumble date threatened me after I walked out of the date instead of going home with him . I’m shaken up by the messages (adding a snipped here). Has anyone else experienced this and did the guy follow through with his threats? “You rejected me so I will destroy your livelihood.” The depravity of men never fails to surprise me. Unfortunately, a bad date in 2021 is also grounds for having to protect your wellbeing, reputation, and career. Save this text in case you need to defend yourself. I’m sorry this happened to you.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/04/21 05:11 AM
91	FDS has officially reached 150k members! Something is happening. Tides are changing. I feel it everyday. We’re mad as hell and we’re not gonna take it anymore.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/04/21 01:05 AM
4	Today, I broke up with my boyfriend. Proud of you. Block, delete, and never look back. This is the beginning of the something amazing for you - and there’s no turning back.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/04/21 11:35 PM
16	For those of you looking for signs of him being "Just Not That Into You": this is it! Same! I often find myself actually pretending I’ve never met some of the LVM that have crossed my path. And eventually they fade from my memory for real.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/03/21 01:11 AM
20	Block and move on! Nah, unmatching was the right move. A HVM would have texted “I just found out I have to work Friday! Is there anyway you could do Saturday, I’ll make myself free anytime you are that day!” We are all busy and booked- but if we want something, we make room for it! The same is true for men.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/09/20 09:47 PM