ellecat13 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
52	Partner says I’m like a man	ADVICE	ellecat13	/r/RedPillWomen	05/10/24 06:48 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
17	Single and Happy? Are they? For some women, yes they absolutely are peaceful and happy. I think it’s hard to relate unless you’ve been in a relationship(s) where life was not peaceful at all. Some men can be absolutely mentally and emotionally draining and abusive, and bring nothing but stress and drama. So yea, when that’s what you’ve previously had, being single and alone is heaven on earth. I love my partner and wouldn’t want to be without him, however I miss a lot of things about being single and having my time and ene…	/r/RedPillWomen	18/05/26 04:14 PM
1	How do I inspire my boyfriend? How about fostering the gym habit by asking him to go with you? As “quality time” together. Going to the gym with my partner is our favorite activity to do together, and it helps us push each other to go harder and he helps with my form when needed.	/r/RedPillWomen	20/06/25 10:27 AM
2	How do you share your desire for marriage/family without being pushy? If discussing basic dating goals on a first date scares a man away, then he clearly wasn’t one you would have wanted to waste your time with anyway.	/r/RedPillWomen	06/05/25 10:39 PM
8	What does a bodycount qualify as? I don’t understand why you are being downvoted. You are 100% right, it is absolutely NOT anyone’s business, and as soon as something like that is even remotely brought up I immediately get the ick and can’t take them seriously. It’s bad manners and trashy to even ask. I don’t need to know how many women a man has been with, and a man doesn’t need to know that about me.	/r/RedPillWomen	28/12/24 03:51 PM
4	[Discussion] the reality of the wall 39F, currently in a new-ish relationship. I am objectively hotter and better looking now than I ever was at any younger age and I was always considered pretty back then. But now, I just have so much more knowledge and money to take care of myself properly. Yes the dating pool is smaller the older you get, so that’s a thing. But while I was dating earlier this year, I had zero problem finding attractive and successful men. And I am still young enough to have more children. It ain’t over till it’s…	/r/RedPillWomen	14/11/24 02:19 PM
7	Partner says I’m like a man I love this idea. I think videos would help with his understanding of the ways that I do express myself. And you are right, I can’t imagine he would enjoy if I was an emotional basket case every day. It sounds exhausting.	/r/RedPillWomen	05/10/24 07:58 PM
16	Partner says I’m like a man Thank you for your input. This is some good food for thought that makes me uncomfortable in a good way!	/r/RedPillWomen	05/10/24 07:54 PM
12	Partner says I’m like a man Thank you! I’ll check those out. I feel the same as you, while it may not come naturally to me, I want to work on the things I can to be a better person and partner. That’s a good point about dinner also, I also find he cares less about me making him dinners, and more for affection.	/r/RedPillWomen	05/10/24 07:51 PM
5	Partner says I’m like a man That clip was mind boggling to watch. It’s one thing to defer to your partner on things and another to “ shut off your brain”! I try to be the GOFL as much as reasonably possible and I know he does enjoy it. I just can’t realistically be that 24/7, you know? Thank you for your input!	/r/RedPillWomen	05/10/24 07:47 PM
6	Partner says I’m like a man Lol this made me chuckle, thank you!	/r/RedPillWomen	05/10/24 07:40 PM
5	I think men simply find me repulsive and I have a hard time finding out why You are very pretty, this is absolutely not a looks/appearance issue. Judging from your post history, I see a lot of my younger self. This is a behavioral issue that is fixable with work. I am ND and developed a lot of obsessive behaviors until I started therapy and working on fixing my thought patterns. Find a good therapist that does CBT and DBT. You are very likely also neurodivergent, and sometimes having that diagnosis helps with understanding “why” you are the way you are so that you can b…	/r/RedPillWomen	24/02/24 02:01 PM