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Anecdotally the short pretty men I know all seem to have no trouble finding women who want to sleep with them. But they also maybe struggle a little more with forming solid emotional bonds and their sense of self worth which can definitely hinder anyone's romantic life.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/18 07:35 PM
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So what exactly motivated your comment? Btw the reason some people think these groups are hate groups are because of all the garbage members spout about the biological natures of women making them generally inferior in all areas that those members claim to value as makers for achievement. Not sure if you're aware but that's exactly the kind of rhetoric that racist hate groups use against people of color to justify segregationist policies that create systemic disadvantages for generations. You co…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/18 05:06 PM
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He's not disagreeing with my statement so I'll assume my assumption of hateful death wish is accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/18 07:46 PM
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It's too much, unless I'm at a swimsuit party or something and everyone's kinda sexed up, I'm not into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/18 06:19 PM
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I think if we had a service like that you could charge money and people would use it as long as it was packaged and marketed right. No one wants to end up in a failed relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/18 05:38 PM
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Cause he wants women with a life they enjoy to die. I'm not behaving in a way he deems acceptable for a 'female' so he literally wishes I would die. Don't forget that while this sub is all cute and debate oriented that ideologies like the RedPill and mgtow have been classified as male supremacist hate groups. https://www.splcenter.org/fighting-hate/extremist-files/ideology/male-supremacy
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/18 01:10 PM
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1 - woman, married, no pill 2 - financial independence and autonomy to pursue large creative projects. 3 - I'm in phase three which involves increasing my salary and improving my financial status towards financial independence. - for the curious phase one was get a college education, phase 2 was education # 2- do as many things as possible at burning man. 4 - become a world traveling vagrant with a blog or tv show or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/18 11:34 PM
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Obviously, this is very immature. Rather than prove how TRP is "wrong" by posting scientific articles that directly contradict TRP, they choose to chastise, berate and poke fun at the posts, content and users. But TRP is an ideology based on emotional appeal. Most TRPer's are only cable of spewing logical facilities like some kind of primitive defense mechanism when you engage them in debate. Therefore BluePill satire is the correct and most appropriate response to RedPill.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/18 07:51 PM
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The issue in this conversation is simply you do not understand the term the way we, and scientists, use it. You think it's something else. And that is driving this weird conversation where you seem to think "it can only be dominance" if someone punches someone else in the face or bullys them in some way. Thats not what this is. Super red herring. Logic fail.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/18 07:42 PM
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Ahh so you admit that you're attempting to reduce all human behaviors to some kind of dominance haierarchy. Right.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/18 07:22 PM
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Yea, still none of my examples fit your definitions, here's a wiki page you need to spend some time reading with your eyes open: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_fallacies If you want to have a real debate take that definition of yours and make an argument that any of my examples could be described as a dominance relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/18 07:05 PM
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Yes, he's very much is stretching the definition. None of the things I listed are motivated by competition for resources or sexual opportunities. They are all examples of inter-group cooperation.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/18 06:40 PM
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Maybe if you're trying to expand the definition of dominance to such a point that it loses all meaning, at which time you could claim that all human activities are dominance games. But that's a very weak argument, so you wouldn't do that, would you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/18 06:22 PM
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No they're really not.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/18 06:04 PM
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What makes you think this isn't a dominance hierarchy? You're talking about close family groups, so there are a lot of things that could be going on. Seniority and respect for elders, established patterns and traditions, understanding of group members strengths or weakness, fairness and turn taking, official roles within the group, social agreeableness, to name a few. I have two siblings who love to play dominance games, they are known bullies and professionally disreputable. Let me tell you tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/18 05:59 PM
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I guess the real debate is whether men get this way due to the way they're raised or if male brains have more of a biological disposition for cluster B personality disorders.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/18 06:43 PM
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That's more of an homoerotic male idea of the ideal male look than a woman's. Truth. Men believe women are primarily attracted to status because that's what men value in other men. TRP appeals to men emotionally because it's speaking to their own beliefs and values. Any man who claims that these belief systems provide a true representation of 'female nature' is either being deliberately disingenuous or he's a victim to his own narcissistic delusions.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/18 06:20 PM
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They get all insecure and competitive in stupid ways and then I dump them because they're no fun to be around anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/18 12:43 AM
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It's not like these criminals have huge followings compared to any average male media figure. Criminal admiration is not a significant part of popular culture. This guy got a few hundred letters. There are 15 billion women in the US. Average women are terrified of getting raped and assaulted by strangers, those women are not going to be sharing their mailing addresses with known criminals. Women on average aren't likely to commit violent crimes but dark triad women must have their own special ty…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/18 10:18 PM
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Cause everything about that is creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/18 10:09 PM
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Ehhhh, they may not be regular woman. They might also be psychotic. Writing love letters is a little psycho in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/18 09:44 PM
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What's with everyone scared of noises at night? Where do you people live? Maybe a rural thing? People are naturally freaked out by noises at night but I live in an urban area so if I gave a fuck about every weird noise I'd be dead from stress.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/18 07:53 PM
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Primary breadwinner and financial planner. Have technical certifications for work. Worked in a shop, own steel toes and as a result still have toes. Have metal working and woodworking skillz. Rational decision maker. Designated driver. Trash remover. I'm not a slob but I'm definitely comfortable with a just okay level of cleanliness rather than being totally spotless. Outdoorsy as fuck. Tall and built not short and squishy. Anyone who can't treat me with respect can fuck right off. I'm very inte…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/18 05:32 PM
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Very rarely do I see people arguing against basic facts like that. More often the arguments center around over-generalizations, tortured rationalizations and blatant misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/18 03:32 AM
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As a woman who had been banging 'betas' since the begging of my sexual history, it's because you are a lot harder to get in bed. Most of you require as aggressive approach, but not too aggressive, and also a lot of romance. And you're super insecure, so it's entirely possible for you to get too psyched or to continue. I got good at it eventually. TRP is right that women are more likely to sleep with aggressive men. Of course they are. Men have things like TRP and PUA that are entire bodies of kn…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/18 07:41 PM
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That was years ago, we were both quite young, and I certainly never intended to stick with this guy for the long haul. Also because I had already verified my own sexual identity by that age, I had no reason to believe that the problem was anything but his. And i will say, the sexual awkwardness factor with new mates has improved significantly into my 30's. Men do get better with age and experience in that arena. I feel really bad for women who marry young and get stuck with men who carry that ad…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 04:33 PM
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I've had far more of my property destroyed by angry men than I have ever destroyed. In our society men are statistically more likely to be violent and destructive. I believe that the media trope of spurned women destroying property fits easily into the absurdist category because it's actually a gender role swap. It's funny because it's not realistic and not acceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 04:24 PM
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No, those creep me out. Active. Evidence based on my single years where I'm horrifically horny all the time for no reason. I need consistent sexual intimacy on a schedule that I could probably map out on a day planner if I were so inclined, otherwise I get skin starved and thirsty as fuck. Also those new relationship periods where I have to bang it out until I literally injure myself. 3 . Yes. Zero sex drive right before my period. Very obvious when I'm not getting any and extremely horny all th…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 08:40 PM
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Yea, totally spot on with the info on how men express depression with anger, substance abuse, and risky behavior. Falling in love also produces feel good hormones that create a short term fix for those negative feelings. Women sometimes meet depressed men who can hide those feelings while in the honeymoon phase of a relationship, but once they get intimately involved and then the feel good hormones start to level out the depressed man will often start to re- engage back into the anger, substance…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 06:48 PM
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Purple have tried to shame me for intimidating them before. But I don't feel responsible for others' self esteem issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 06:23 PM
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My history of pretty boyfriends and sexual partners with literally nothing in common financially or earning potential wise says no. While some women with low economic security may still make mate choices based on her partner's money, this is not evidence for biological attraction over practicality or other factors that influence human mating. He is a repulsive gremlin. Still a repulsive gremlin. That's pure ego trip. This woman is not aroused, she's prideful that she's getting something that oth…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 10:16 PM
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You might also be interested in exploring the Buddhist view. The universe gives what it gives and desiring and striving against the nature of the universe is the root of all suffering.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 09:50 PM
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I think women who are into sex toys and women who are ani- masturbation are two separate types of women with very different values. Also 'you go girl' is code for 'I don't agree with your choices but I'm refraining from being a judgy close minded bitch right now, also let's not talk about this again.'
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 08:42 PM
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They probably think she's a bitch for not being all giggly and accomadating to their rudeness. These men were emotionally unavaible and shit testing for women who will put up with that type of behavior-- because there are many women who will.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 08:25 PM
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I find anything more than subtle physical gestures annoying and unnecessary. It's disrespectful to the people around you when everyone is acting civilly. In a situation with truly aggressive strange man, I would rather we exit the situation entirely than jeopardize my partner's safety.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 07:10 PM
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In my experience, monogamous partnerships that become open relationships are destined for divorce or split. It's the kind of shit people do when they've been together forever but aren't ready to accept that it's over. So they suck for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/18 11:39 PM
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There are two categories of open relationships that I've observed in the wild. Category one is open relationships among people who have identified themselves as polyamourous and primarily seek out partners with the intent of having and open relationship. This is the type of open relationship you see in the queer/kink community. I've seen many examples of workable poly groups that are relatively stable and fulfilling for all involved, usually because the people involved have high emotional intell…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/18 08:30 PM
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I think early maturity is kinda gross and indicates low mate value, even if the person looks decent when they've reached sexual maturity at the ripe old age of 22.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/18 04:47 AM
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We are definitely in the middle of a power struggle between a hyper conservative faction that allies itself with the old power structure of the Washington based US government and the new bi-coastal powers that came out of the info and finance spheres. But I think the hyper conservative traditionalist values and gendered work are going to go the way of the dodo, because they originate from the relatively recent post WWII era with a set of economic polices that have been defunct since the 80's. Co…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/18 02:29 AM
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It might be a decent reflection of factual reality for the very small subset of young 20- something women that trp's members are sexually interested in. That subset appears to be women between the ages of 18 and 24 who enroll in college to please their parents and engage in extracurriculars, just based on what type of woman trp seems to write about. These non-serious co-eds certainly have the time and inclination to make them selves sexually appealing to men-- personally when I was in college I …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/18 07:48 PM
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Nerdy, sexually submissive guys trying to attract the attention of and mate with basic bitches. And a whole lot of bitterness and rage.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/18 06:14 PM
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Should I not be offended by a person who insists on spilling bile and lies about my gender for whatever twisted reason? You've eventually got to learn that putting down women who disagree with you and shouting at the top of your lungs doesn't make your beliefs anywhere close to truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/18 04:05 AM
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So you're name calling and like what's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/18 02:41 AM
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Since you've already resorted to name calling and the 'hamster' defense, which is an empty appeal to female irrationality, I'm going to interpret this post as your way of saying that you're feeling a bit emotially challenged by the words trhat I have written.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/18 02:24 AM
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Yea, so some condescending shit you made up to tell yourself about the 'weaker' sex. Stop proving my points.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/18 12:44 AM
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The female imperative must be a lot like the gay agenda.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/18 11:23 PM
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Your problem isn't women bro, it's authoritarian social rule. The only reason women come into this is because the western female socialization norm is a better mental program for the sheep to wear than the male one. MGTOW especially seems like a failed anti-authoritarian movement, as their sidebar is filled with things that I find interesting as a lifetime anti-establishment thinkier. I don't get the part where RP can blame this all perosnally on the collective actions of women except that you s…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/18 10:32 PM
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I never cared about marriage. Watching my parents' messy divorce did that for me. Men have no leverage, and most of them don't know how to act like humans you'd want to spend all your time with in your home.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/18 09:54 PM
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I've had too many relationships with men who just want the cooking and cleaning bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/18 09:39 PM
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Some women are totally into being a housewife and cooking and cleaning for her partner/family and if a man chooses to support a partner who will be his full time housewife, that's totally okay. But I've encountered too many men who expect the cooking and cleaning from any woman who's unlucky enough to be in a relationship with him even while those men aren't willing or able to support financially or while in relationships with women who clearly prioritize working over housewifing. Man number 1 i…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/18 09:34 PM
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You're adorable.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/18 02:52 AM
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I learned this lesson from my mother, unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/18 11:17 PM
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Realizing I was attractive and changing my outside persona to incorporate that aspect in my adult life has probably been more of an advantage than just being an attractive but also awkward and depressed/teenager/angry/nerdy/awkward person. I also did not come from a good parental situation so that made things much more difficult than had I grown up with a supportive and loving family. The first 25 years were pretty rough and I didn't quite understand what was going on to make people react to me …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/18 09:40 PM
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I'm not suggesting incels don't suffer from their own disadvantages, I fact I would assume they are also in groups that suffer systemic disadvantage - that's why they have trouble finding suitable partners and also why they feel the need too engage in sexist rhetoric against lower status women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/18 08:08 PM
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Single mothers and overweight women are at the most disadvantaged for quality of life and economic security among the straight white majority. The men who go to great lengths to disparage these women are just participating in the age old American tradition of shtting all over a group of lower status people for their own personal gain.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/18 05:15 AM
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Men hit the wall right around 36-42, that's about the time they go a bit cray-cray from lowered testosterone, having realizations about where they are in life, and their ailments and chronic stubbornness start catching up to them. Ya don't even want to get to know most men when they're going through this stage.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/18 03:57 AM
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Men need to learn how to control their emotions and also how to take responsibly for their own actions without acting out in antisocial ways. There is no justification for the inhuman treatment of women by men. I was an angry, violent little kid cause my parents were shit- heads and readied me fuckin wrong. I learned how to be responsible for my own behavior because I realized acting that way didn't get me what I wanted out of life, could quite possibly land me a criminal record. That was a life…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/18 11:22 PM
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Actually it's mental illness and men who do that type of thing should seek help and therapy for anger issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/18 10:57 PM
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Oh look, it's a real life example.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/18 10:50 PM
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Let's ask some women on the internet to show is their in boxes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/18 10:20 PM
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Nope he's an asshole. Angry, childish prick.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/18 10:18 PM
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Neither his rejection or her response is the type of vitriolic, inhumane name calling, violent threat, or harassment that women are taking about when they talk about how men badly react to rejection. I wish all men resorted to writing butt hurt blog posts when they get a rejection they don't like. We'd be living in a far more respectful society. Not once did she threaten rape or violence, nor call him an insulting name. When you find an example of that let me know.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/18 09:53 PM
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if a man gets emotional in a masculine way (yelling, slamming his fists on the table, using insults) he's seen as passionate and committed to his cause. I call that emotionally unstable and possibly a symptom of underlying mental illness.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/18 09:02 PM
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Shrieking, irrational, rage projected at women for their own shortcomings. I assume men find it kind of acceptable considering how often I see actual examples of this in the wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/18 09:01 PM
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You think it's reasonable to criticise a woman for rejecting someone? Gross. You read the thread I'm replying to right? It's about men who insult and harass women after being rejected. That is not acceptable behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/18 08:54 PM
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An outburst? Is he a toddler? Adults know that it's not okay to let out your frustration on anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/18 06:58 PM
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Of course looks matter. Most people want to date a person at least as attractive or a little more attractive than themselves. Women who say that looks don't matter are just average to okay looking folks who know they're not going to appeal to their potential dating pool of average to okay looking dudes by proclaiming how important it is to date the handsomest men possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/18 01:30 AM
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They made a website for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/18 01:20 AM
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Super retarded. Have you talked to an average person? Most of them live at the whim of their barely conscious urges and neurosis.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/18 01:04 AM
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These men are quite young and inexperienced or otherwise stuck in relationships that fit these patterns due to their own poor life choices or they are simply mentally ill and holding on to mental constructs that don't reflect reality or they're airy fairy armchair philosophers who spend way too much time circle jerking their recursive logic sessions. In the real world you do what you need to make sure you and your partner can thrive no matter what gender you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/18 09:24 PM
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I'm a smartass, awkward, loner, no matter what so this question is irrelevant. Although is probably better that I'm a woman because a male me might be too arrogant for his own good.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/18 12:03 AM
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Interesting. Very interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/18 11:57 PM
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My female family members seem to have no issue having kids been late 20's-late 30's. We do have a gene for straight up infertility at any age but that seems to come with some pretty striking heath issues and visual markers. So anyone who had it would know.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/18 08:19 PM
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Yes. Not all women like nerds, but there are some. Though such women rarely are very feminine themselves. That's what a lot of men would have said about me in my teens and early 20's. The type of femininity that is age appropriate for young girls never fit me. It's true.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/18 08:10 PM
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I am a nerd and I don't think I've ever been sexually attracted to a man who didn't fit the beta nerd description but I wouldn't consider them beta because they're actually my preference. Yes, I am saying that a traditional jock or alpha or Chad or whatever wouldn't even register as sexual in my mind. Immediate friend- zone type of situation. I am a serial monogamous type and my experiences dating and eventually marrying one of these men have been a combination of both /u/contrasexualwoman and /…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/18 07:50 PM
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I kinda went career women because my needs for a male partner are that he look nice and gives good sex and cuddles. Didn't want to have to compromise on that for practical things like whether he can support a family with his earnings. Seems to be working out. But I've never been that permanently single woman always complaining about being a catch but never having a man. Those chicks do come off as narcissists who can't see what about their personalities is such a huge turnoff even though it's ob…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/18 02:22 AM
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