elphyleee Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
32	How do I stop falling for ambiguous “hang outs” that LVM see as dates?!?!	SEEKING ADVICE	elphyleee	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/08/20 11:11 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
11	Can we talk about how conventionally unattractive men manipulate their way into dating a woman completely out of their league, and then destroy her self-esteem so she starts to believe this scrote is the prize when really she is. “Have a crumb of pussy good sir” oh my god I’m dying! So true! 😂	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/01/21 05:04 PM
1	Can we talk about how conventionally unattractive men manipulate their way into dating a woman completely out of their league, and then destroy her self-esteem so she starts to believe this scrote is the prize when really she is. My ex started dating me in one of my most vulnerable positions. I was extremely depressed and wasn’t in contact with any friends. I only dated him for a few months (thank GOD) but at one point he bragged to me about how he psychologically manipulated me into liking him. Then he explained how he was great at manipulating people and how he was a puppet master who could manipulate people on strings. I was a total pickmeisha before this depressive episode so I kind of explained it away. Thank god I …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/01/21 05:00 PM
19	I’m genuinely confused. This thread was about making female friends. Is this supposed to be funny? Listen...I love dark humor. This is not dark humor. What kind of monster says something like that 🙄	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/01/21 04:12 PM
3	Anyone grew up with families whose parents treated their male siblings better? Let me tell you about my mom and her family because dear lord. My grandmother PRAYED for a first born son and got her wish. He never had a full time job in his life, never got married, was addicted to computers, and died early a few years ago due to the illnesses he contracted from never going out and interacting with others. He ended up just living with his mother or in his parent’s small shore house. My mom tells me horror stories about how he’d just never do laundry as a young man and his gra…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/12/20 04:03 PM
26	How to find your sisterhood? I’m in the same position. It’s so hard to find female friends in the first place as an introvert. Now quarantine has made it so much worse :/	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/10/20 12:20 AM
4	'He only bullies you because he fancies you' Can I just say though that like...your husband talking to her about it, especially in a gentle way, is literally the epitome of high value behavior. And unfortunately the woman is probably unintentionally and unconsciously passing pickme ideals to her child by telling her that. :/ This is such a great example of how high value behavior is something every gender should work towards and isn’t a phrase used to “only put down men” like the haters love to tout. It’s up to high value people to help ou…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/10/20 07:34 PM
5	It's not just LVMs we need to discard Seriously though! Kinda glad other people see it. The past few years I’ve been shocked cause that analogy applies so well to feminism	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/10/20 11:36 AM
6	i started my own business, and men are revealing their true selves! Oh god, I completely feel you girl. I’m an actress and I literally cannot handle how patronizing they can be. Do anything artistic and they think it’s a “cute hobby” 🙄 Also, I LOVE that last part about a lvm being someone who can’t handle anything out of the box. I need to put it as a quote on my wall or something lol	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/10/20 08:07 AM
2	Jewels fit for a queen! I purchased some real and fake diamonds for myself this week to commemorate how far I have come in the past 6 months in dealing with my career, food habits, exercise, and finally getting my ADHD and depression under control. Please though, that’d be literally incredible and so helpful. If you have any tips for depression as well that’d be wonderful. I have both as well and damn they feed into each other so much. Also those gems are gorgeous! And for getting through that he’ll you deserve them! 💖	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/09/20 06:20 PM
1	Bonus points for the colourful language This is my new favorite insult. I mean damn, it’s so spot on	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/08/20 07:57 PM
1	What's your opinion on having male friends (purely platonic)? Yeah I definitely agree with eyeinmaiden, that telling the wives is a very bad idea. I’m definitely the person who’d like to know as well, but sometimes the wife may take it out on you even if you did everything to reject their husband. Saw this with a couple a few years ago and my friend cut the other girl off right away and kept her cheating boyfriend :/	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/08/20 06:05 AM