elpollodiablo42 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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10	I am currently living in a warzone as a contractor. My ex tried to serve child support papers. Look into the servicemember's relief act, in 2002 (if I remember correctly), it was changed to include contractors. I seem to recall that there's a clause that states if you're supporting the military and stationed in a theatre of war, you cannot have a civil suit brought against you. There's also lots of little beneficial tax nuggets buried in the act that can help you in other ways.	/r/MensRights	15/06/13 03:45 PM
1	I pay $4,000 a month to my ex for support. In addition I pay for 78% of "other" expenses like healthcare, schooling, misc. I get my kids 25% of the time, even though I begged for 50% of the time. Fuck Yup, welcome to the club. Really sorry man.	/r/MensRights	18/05/13 02:23 PM
1	My fiancé refuses to sign a pre-nup, based on her history I insist on one. Am I out of line? Absolutely not out of line, you're simply protecting yourself and everything you've worked hard for so far in life. There's no reasonable reason why she should be entitled to half of that (or more) should she decide to walk. If you're offering to take care of any children you are part of but won't support her offspring and she's balking at that, I'd be deeply suspicious that she's looking for a sucker to foot the bill for life for her and her kid. Follow your heart but be weary and by god be car…	/r/MensRights	15/05/13 01:45 PM
4	So, I have to pay child support if she has the baby even though I don't want kids... but if I want to have the baby and she doesn't, I'm shit out of luck. Yeah, sounds fair to me. Lots of animals eat their children, that's nature too.	/r/MensRights	22/03/13 04:55 PM
2	Girlfriend stopped taking the pill without telling me, and is now pregnant. Says she wants to keep it. I'm extremely scared. Don't forget there's additional fees they can push through. I got stuck with paying 80% of all medical expenses as well as 80% of all work related daycare. I've had a couple months where I got an additional $1000 or so in support i had to pay on top of the baseline.	/r/MensRights	18/02/13 10:22 AM
3	Girlfriend stopped taking the pill without telling me, and is now pregnant. Says she wants to keep it. I'm extremely scared. "She hit the jackpot" are the exact words my lawyer used.	/r/MensRights	18/02/13 10:20 AM
1	Girlfriend stopped taking the pill without telling me, and is now pregnant. Says she wants to keep it. I'm extremely scared. You were manipulated into this and have no doubt that it was planned; but that doesn't mean anything in the eyes of the law. Support is all "for the well being of the child". I was hit with a similar situation a few years back and am stuck paying a little under 1/3 of my takehome. and based on the local laws I'm forced to send her my and my company's tax returns on a yearly basis to be scrutinized (Tried to fight this but all I got was an order to do so; failure gets me jail time for being in co…	/r/MensRights	17/02/13 10:05 AM
4	Thank you, MensRights. You've made me a better girlfriend. Thank you for getting it right. Really, thank you.	/r/MensRights	21/11/12 09:46 AM
3	Mothers get 3 chances to opt out. Abortion, abandonment, and adoption. All legal options that completely remove parental responsibility. Men get 0. Since it's a mother's choice, shouldn't she be the one who pays for it? Eh, sorry was venting. Just got my quarterly bill for 80% of all the kid's extra medical expenses and 80% of additional travel related daycare expenses (To the tune of $1800). But agreed, pushing equal rights is what's truly needed. I'm honestly saddened that there's another kid in the world that could have two adoptive parents that would love and cherish him but instead has a father with no interest in him and a mother using him for money.	/r/MensRights	02/08/12 05:37 PM
7	Mothers get 3 chances to opt out. Abortion, abandonment, and adoption. All legal options that completely remove parental responsibility. Men get 0. Since it's a mother's choice, shouldn't she be the one who pays for it? I'm now 2 1/2 years into having a kid i still don't want with a hookup that thought she could get "Money, Love and a Family" (in her own words in that order) by sabotaging contraception. The courts have awarded her around 1/3 of my monthly takehome and don't care that it was manipulation (I have proof in the form of email/chat logs from her) in addition to a recorded phone conversation stating "If I know that was all I was going to get, I would have put him up for adoption." Option to sign away …	/r/MensRights	02/08/12 05:08 PM