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/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 07:53 PM
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BEEN THERE. That’s why dating during COVID just wasn’t it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 07:52 PM
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The last two guys I dated were both engineering students actually :’) I like smart guys and I figured that they’d be emotionally intelligent as well but nope jokes on me. So you’d say LVM is a typical pattern within your degree? It was actually one of those guys who reintroduced me to Reddit. So at least something good came out of it :’)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 06:18 PM
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Seems like it 😂 wanted to hear if my assumptions were correct
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 03:59 PM
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Have you dated any HVM in uni?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 03:59 PM
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I’m so sorry to hear that. I hope you’ve found your path without higher education?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 03:58 PM
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I had two boyfriends my first year and I regret them both. Wish I had focused on my friends and studies instead, believe me! I don’t sleep around either. I don’t think you should fee the pressure too just because it’s very common in college. One night stands hardly care about you and your desires, plus it’s easy to feel regret afterwards. Stay true to yourself ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 03:58 PM
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So empowering! We’re in this together ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 03:56 PM
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Dated a guy who stated that he was a feminist on our first date. He had donated some money to an organisation which I of course thought was sweet. But now, I’m wondering if that’s just his go-to move our something. Because using a girl as your secret little toy/no-commitment girlfriend/therapist/mother really makes it look like you find women to be objects..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 09:34 PM
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SMH VIOLENTLY
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 08:55 PM
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THIS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 08:37 PM
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This was exactly what I needed to hear. Thank you for sharing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 08:27 PM
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Guess I kept him along for longer than he intended to stay, but our breakup was inevitable anyway for other reasons. Don’t drop your standard or loosen any boundaries to be chill/cool.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 09:13 PM
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So true. When you distance yourself from the situation and look at it as if it happened to a dear friend of yours.. that’s when you’ll finally understand
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 09:10 PM
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This needs to go in the handbook. Thanks, well-written
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 09:09 PM
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Self-improvement has been key for me. I’ve channeled my anger and resentment into songwriting and the gym. I’ve also been journaling a bunch. I love my body and my mind so I have to take care of them. It’s a matter of recognising your worth. Of setting a boundaries that mark your value. You got this. Step 1: forgive yourself. Step 2: Self-improve. Soul search.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 09:06 PM
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As a university student this is definitely something that I have to apply.. so hard though!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 09:00 PM
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I just want to say that’s very strong of you. I understand it must be hard but you make the right decision!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 08:54 PM
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Flew to go see him (again) midst a global pandemic only to found out I was just a rebound 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 08:26 PM
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I like to remind myself: “it hurts your ego, not your feelings!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 07:36 PM
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It's true. The reason I kept on giving so much, and the reason him leaving hurt so much, was because growing up I had a lot of people walk out of my life/neglect. Letting people in, take what they want/need only to leave was rather common for me, to the point where I no longer saw my own value. I'm totally aware of it now, but how do I work on this? How do I assure emotional trauma from my past won't resurface and shape my actions and emotions again?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 10:26 AM
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It's true. The reason I kept on giving so much, and the reason him leaving hurt so much, was because growing up I had a lot of people walk out of my life/neglect. Letting people in, take what they want/need only to leave was rather common for me, to the point where I no longer saw my own value. I'm totally aware of it now, but how do I work on this? How do I assure emotional trauma from my past won't resurface and shape my actions and emotions again?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 10:24 AM
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This is it. Wow
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 10:32 AM
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Thank you for being part of the community! Women unite :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 09:57 AM
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I can relate to this a lot. Life has become a lot about just making time pass.. like I’m waiting for someone to happen, but I’m not even sure what that would be. If you want to chat anyone I’m here :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 09:56 AM
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The hard truth many people need to hear!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 09:53 AM
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Lately been feeling so incredibly embarrassed about how I was constantly chasing, and generously giving, to the guys I dated first year of university. I felt like I always had to prove myself to be worthy of their love and attention. I love caring for others but I must admit I compromised my own worth through it. I can’t believe I didn’t recognise my own value. When my ex ended things with me he told me “everyone always said you liked me more than I liked you”. It was very hurtful to have what I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 09:41 PM
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I used to bring my worth down to build men up. Say things like “I thought you were so out of my league!” I just didn’t see my own value at all back then 😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 09:25 PM
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I found this very moving. You seem incredibly strong and I understand why you keep your guard up. If you want to chit chat about relationships I'm always down :-)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 08:22 PM
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This is definitely something I have to work on. What do you suggest talking about on first dates that makes the conversation interesting? I feel like I have to go deep to know if we truly connect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 08:17 PM
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I would love to hear more about the experience of being close with an ex! Even do you think this works and doesn’t?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 07:07 PM
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I could use some advice on dating multiple guys and cutting them off without being hurtful (like if they’re an obvious LVM it’s not hard, but if we just don’t hit it off)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 06:56 PM
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Can I asked how you dumped him? I’ve never done that before after seeing someone for that much time, so I could use the advice
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 09:32 PM
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This post couldn’t have showed up on my feed at a better timing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 09:28 PM
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