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Thank you I appreciate it
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/18 05:21 AM
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Thanks I had been wondering if I should make myself move on, a couple of guys have asked me out this week. I will definitely wait until I’m ready
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/18 05:19 AM
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Thanks this helps a lot :)
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/18 05:18 AM
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If you honestly don’t know what to do please for your own good go back to therapy.
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/18 11:36 AM
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Lol what?
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/18 06:48 PM
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Okay well I’m not from the US so I wasn’t going to look into options for them, but depending on why both of them have their views and how set they are I would hope there’s a simple option.
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/18 06:46 PM
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Uh no it wouldn’t. If you want to tell her one of them should acquiesce go for it, my thought was they could compromise together.
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/18 06:13 PM
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Yeah thanks Sherlock, that’s the general definition. She’s looking for an answer, she’s clearly open to seeing how things can work with him.. whether he’s as open I can’t say.
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/18 04:42 AM
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If he truly wants to be with you and understands that marriage is important, he will want to compromise. If not, maybe he’s not the one for you.
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/18 04:12 AM
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To be honest it sounds like your relationship has been over for a long time. If you actually ‘took the red pill’ you would have left her. I know that’s not what you came here to hear but she will never really change. Edit: also, I was horrified to read that you were actually trying to have a baby with her. I think you may need to consider therapy for yourself, I don’t know why anyone would stay in that situation. You’re at a crossroads, do something for yourself and go the other direction
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/18 01:11 PM
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I’m not matching them to compete. They have turns buying rounds
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/18 06:15 AM
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Ive been there. All you need to do is give yourself permission to let go of him. Having him in your life is feeding your anxiety and it’s not good for you. This isn’t the guy you end up with. You have nothing to feel guilty for, and you owe him nothing. Move on
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/18 03:20 AM
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Try to imagine his female friends as guys who are in no way a threat to you. Why does he have to carry you everywhere he goes with his friends just because there will be girls there? You said yourself it’s new, let him have fun with his friends, and if you want to get to know his friends better tell him that, and if he values you he’ll make opportunities to make that happen. Don’t stress, I don’t think you have reason to right now.
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/18 03:17 AM
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That was stressful to read. You know he wants to marry you. That is a fact. You know he doesn’t like you nagging. That’s also a fact. There is absolutely no reason you need to rush to get engaged, book your wedding, be married and have a baby. Realise that you are being driven by insecurity. When that voice in your head pipes up, challenge it. Tell yourself you’ve found someone you love and the rest will follow naturally. Too many people spend their lives stressing. This is the time you should b…
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/18 03:09 AM
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Personally I’d give him the happy family and relationship he wants. That might sound like faking it, but I’d be thinking about how happy and grateful I am for your husband and family, doing fun things together as a couple and family- nothing forced like therapy, just enjoy each other’s company and embrace being close to each other. If you have issues with sex try to think of it as less of a physical act and more of expressing your love. Surprise him with some sexy lingerie, be affectionate, stuf…
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/18 03:00 AM
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You don’t need to be assertive. Social skills and charisma are things that people learn; go to YouTube and watch channels like Charisma On Command, he friendly with family, say hi to strangers, when you go to a store talk to the employees (they’re paid to be nice to you so it’s a good opportunity to build your confidence). One thing I follow after being shy growing up is talking about them, it makes conversation easier and people are happy talking about themselves. No girl should feel ugly. Don’…
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/18 02:42 AM
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