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Sameeee for the race thing. I never had a father, all the men who are « my own kind » around me are super unhealthy. I never grew up seeing an example and now I’m repulsed by dating them. It’s not even on the plate for me
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 02:55 AM
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I do care
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 09:14 PM
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We do
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 01:47 PM
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True. But not every woman wants a Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 01:07 PM
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Then what
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 01:00 PM
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I’ve been called a non-trad woman before but I’m a virgin
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 12:45 PM
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How can you tell that she had sex with Brad?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 12:43 PM
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I don’t care about courtesy as long as it’s not geninune. I’ve had pretty good dates where the man was super affectionate and demonstrative. Also very courteous but next thing you know you I got ghosted without any explanation. I just need the man to have genuine interest
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 02:19 PM
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Flirting has good intentions, playing games doesn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 03:33 PM
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I don’t think that flirting and playing games are the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 09:15 AM
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Which part is it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 05:42 AM
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I was having this conversation the other day: women are naturally attracted to men who are essentially masculine. It can be the bad boys, the narcissistic guy, the unbothered low effort man or the emotional unavailable. These men can be very attractive and turn us women on but it doesn’t mean that we should mate with them
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 11:33 PM
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Alain de Button said that men who absolutely want to become rich and own cars and houses tend to be the most insecure ones. It’s performative masculinity
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 11:25 PM
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It’s simple. If you play a game it means you don’t really want a relationship. You just like the hunt and the adrenaline of making out with a new person every month.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 10:39 PM
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People act like money is the only thing that will ensure that their kid has a proper education
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 03:15 PM
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To me, teen love is quite important and I would change nothing regarding my love life if I had the chance to. It teaches you many things about you
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 07:54 AM
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Im 20 and people tell me I’m hella mature looking for my age and always assume I’m around 30 lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 09:53 PM
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Why not
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 03:29 PM
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Fair enough. We need to let our brains develop and gain maturity from experiences before becoming serious about anything
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 05:20 AM
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Hehe
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 11:54 PM
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Well you could have said gods
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 09:07 PM
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Says the woman calling her kids vampires
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 09:04 PM
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Please don’t ✨🌈❤️ it’s not you, look at me. You know better 😍
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 07:19 PM
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Huh?? Passing on dignity 😅😅
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 07:18 PM
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Dignity ?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 07:14 PM
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Why
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 07:13 PM
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Even better. Make him wear shirts with your face on it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 07:12 PM
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Oh really?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 07:11 PM
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Thanks sweet
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 03:26 PM
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Preach
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 03:26 PM
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I can understand. Even pearlythings sounds biased af
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 01:10 PM
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He gay and has short man complex
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 12:58 PM
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Who told you I wasn’t a virgin💀
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 12:56 PM
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Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 12:56 PM
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Damn. Shit escalated
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 12:48 PM
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Not reading all of that
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 12:47 PM
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😔😔
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 12:43 PM
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Sucks
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 12:36 PM
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Right. Do you watch Kevin Samuels?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 12:35 PM
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If you say so
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 12:35 PM
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Most men are not attracted to women with kids tho. Your claim is false
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 12:02 PM
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Like having to pay child support
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 11:21 AM
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I adress what I want to adress
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 10:57 AM
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At least they don’t leave with no major consequence
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 10:55 AM
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Yes. Having kids to do house chores
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 10:45 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 10:45 AM
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How
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 10:20 AM
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My children don’t have to interfere in my love life
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 10:17 AM
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Men tend to act like 6 years olds regarding things they’re not passionate about, says married women
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 10:16 AM
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:(
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 10:12 AM
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My post saying that the odds of having a kid with a deadbeat are multiplied when marriage is absent then when it’s present
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 10:06 AM
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It’s doesn’t matter how marriage is used. At least the kids are not half orphan
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 10:03 AM
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Ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 09:59 AM
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He can still leave tho
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 09:44 AM
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Bruh what? Misandric? Is it a misandric world were grown men get to abandon their kids with no consequence at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 09:22 AM
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Off course it’s a relative outcome. But it’s about putting all the chances of success on your side
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 09:03 AM
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Well good luck when you’re 70 and have no one to while your ass
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 09:02 AM
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To build a generational legacy
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 08:59 AM
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How is that contributing to my post
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 08:58 AM
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I strongly disagree. You see more often that not socially attractive women with lesser attractive men than the other way around
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 08:56 AM
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And how was it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 08:55 AM
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Those are two separate facts you can’t draw any conclusion from that 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 08:54 AM
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I dont get how you come to this conclusion
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 08:52 AM
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Done what? Marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 08:51 AM
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People divorce when they get abused
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 08:51 AM
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Somebody has to ask for divorce when it’s time to split
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 08:45 AM
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Actually you can’t hope over a border to get an official test done from and by the French government
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 07:49 AM
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Those are NOT strong reasons enough to make my children suffer by demanding a divorce. I made a choice, a commitment and I should stick to it. I believe in sacrifices
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 07:44 AM
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Well. I dont know where you live or what your family history looks like but it’s not too far off from reality actually
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 07:41 AM
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Nowadays it’s babies being created out of flings
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 07:30 AM
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I have no idea what you’re trying to say
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 07:26 AM
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How
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 07:25 AM
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It tests the strength of the relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 07:25 AM
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It’s ok to admit that you need a man
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 07:25 AM
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True. Pregnant women are at a bigger risk when the father is around of being beaten
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 06:34 AM
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Agreeing
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 06:33 AM
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That’s sad and embarassing
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 06:33 AM
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Right. But somehow we call them strong and independent
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 06:16 AM
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Socially a married man is more respected and than a 40 year old single guy who always comes to work with non ironed clothes and no ring on. Also marriage is the best way to avoid poverty since you live with two combined incomes and one last name. It’s a sure way to create a generational wealth. Regarding testing, I can understand why it’s forbidden because it’s better to have people around when the man reads the results as it can prevent a violent reaction from the father towards the mother. I t…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 06:15 AM
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It’s terrible too and should be condamned
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 06:07 AM
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You’re right thanks. I get sooo embarrassed when everybody else talk about their father and spend time with them
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 05:58 AM
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You mean time is an indicator ?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 05:54 AM
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I agree. And it’s sad and I hate being fatherless
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 05:54 AM
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First you asked if I’m aware of the dna testing laws in France and Yes I am. Dna testing is forbidden and you have to pass in front of a judge to defend your right to earn one. On the second hand, marriage for men is beneficial because it ensures that the woman will be a good, faithful and loving mother for his kids and prevents him from creating fatherless homes all over the country
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 05:36 AM
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Yes men get shamed for their preferences. It’s like they are forced to only date the tall skinny blonde or else it’s considered weird and people ask him why is he dating his non conventionally attractive girl
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 05:26 AM
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Thanks so sweet
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 05:25 AM
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I will. I don’t agree with being selfish and breaking your home just because you don’t how your husband walks anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 05:19 AM
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Those are two different things
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 05:11 AM
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You can assume whatever you want sir but it’s not contributing to the debate
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 05:09 AM
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LTR doesn’t compete with marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 05:08 AM
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Divorce is not an option for me
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 05:01 AM
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I don’t have the energy to respond
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 04:59 AM
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And I don’t doubt it. How many stories do we hear of people who don’t even recognize their spouse after big life events?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 04:57 AM
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Right that’s what I’m talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 04:56 AM
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What’s LTR
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 04:55 AM
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It’s just capitalism working how capitalism is supposed to. Nothing broken just the consequence of letting things happen for years without asking questions or demanding change
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 11:48 PM
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?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 11:45 PM
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It means your attachment style reminds them of their father. I call him my sperm donor because that’s what he ever did. You must be quite detached or emotionally absent if those women say that
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 11:43 PM
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Because we trust men when they say that they can’t wait to have kids and that marriage is just a piece of paper and that they are not ready
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 11:41 PM
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Yup thanks I just wish him a painful lonely death
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 11:40 PM
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I am the living example of a woman who will break the circle or generation curse that began with my mother. I refuse to get pregnant by a charismatic fuckboy who’s all talk
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 11:38 PM
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Yes French women are very sexually liberated. It’s true but at the same time extremely bratty and hard to settle with
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 11:34 PM
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Women are emotional and marriage takes two
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 11:32 PM
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Didn’t get it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 11:30 PM
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Also you made a joke about wanting to come live in France to have illegitimate kids and it triggered me badly. I don’t have a father for the same reasons and I don’t get what’s so appealing about being a shameful person
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 11:30 PM
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The number one cause of divorce is thinking that you can find better
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 11:26 PM
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Long term relationships is just people getting used to each other. Not necessarily healthy loving couples
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 11:26 PM
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Didn’t get it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 11:23 PM
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Yes INSEE dat com says that in 2022: 63.8% of births regarding living children were out of wedlock
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 11:21 PM
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No France lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 11:14 PM
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I am living in the west. Feminism was born in my country lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 11:11 PM
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I wouldn’t say it’s feminism. It’s just nature and hormones
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 11:06 PM
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I think that men should wait until marriage to have kids because it ensures that the woman wants kids and will be a better mother and wife than the chick he met on Instagram dms who has an onlyfan
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 11:05 PM
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Come on. Please, don’t say that. Don’t say that women enjoy being left alone to raise 4 kids on their own by the guy who promised them the moon
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 11:04 PM
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Unfortunately it’s not. Women fall for the lies of the alpha super charismatic guy more often than not and it’s a fact
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 11:03 PM
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Agreeing
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 11:02 PM
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Because look around you my friend
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 11:01 PM
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So true! And it’s usually people from two parents homes who make those claims because they’ve never experienced the shame of being fatherless
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 11:01 PM
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Funny how people comment this like there’s not whole subs on Reddit about kids from broken homes complaining about their issues all over the internet. Marriage is on the decline
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 10:58 PM
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Still better than getting knocked up by a so called boyfriend lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 10:56 PM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 10:54 PM
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But aren’t relationships supposed to evolve? Why stay at the bf/gf stage when you can get married?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 10:54 PM
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If only my opinion was obvious we wouldn’t have so many kids with insecure attachment and intense fear of abandonment. I don’t think that honoring your promise is something wrong or toxic
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 10:52 PM
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Yes I do
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 10:51 PM
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And I agree wholeheartedly. It’s a choice that falls on the woman since we are supposed to vet. Factors such as no parental example, low self esteem or disagreeable nature can make a woman become a single mom by a man who never cared about them to begin with. It’s a vicious circle that one must decide to break
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 10:49 PM
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Same for me. Babies popping out everywhere but no marriage at all and no fathers in sight either
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 10:48 PM
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How are men not benefiting from marriage. Please explain like I’m 5
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 10:47 PM
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I agree that there’s definitely exceptions, were they married? Also I didn’t say it’s a sure way but it’s definitely a greater indicator
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 10:46 PM
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I totally agree because it’s very sad when men who don’t want kids have no option but to associate with women who want kids and end up being super neglecting or completely leaving
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 10:45 PM
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Yes. Very much. How society shifts and norms disappear
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 10:40 PM
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Are you insinuating that I am stating the obvious?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 10:40 PM
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I dont understand how you feel like it’s trapping them
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 10:38 PM
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No. Not anymore. I don’t know where you live, but I can say that in France we have over 60% of births happening out of wedlock and over 30% single parent homes. The family is falling apart because marriage and commitment are not a requirement anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 10:32 PM
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Same for me. Went back to Christ this year
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/23 11:59 AM
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Learn how to choose and keep a man. My mom had a man but her attitude is so terrible that he left and never looked back
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 08:40 PM
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I was raised by a single mother and I am a POC. It really really does suck. Single mothers don’t any time to spend with their kids, they are constantly angry and nagging, the kids are miserable and abandoned
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/23 10:31 PM
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I live in France and the horror stories I hear about marriage are blood boiling. Basically cheating is casual and normalized, wives refuse intercourse to their husbands for no reason, women end up with the house, men refuse to part take house chore and some even to work
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 09:36 PM
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