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I think it has to be both biological and social construct. The social construct comes out of our biology. I don't think it should lump bisexual men and bygay men together. This report seems to indicate that gay males have a rate of 26 percent compared to heterosexual couples rate of 29 percent compared to lesbians at 44 percent. http://www.reuters.com/article/2013/01/25/us-usa-gays-violence-idUSBRE90O11W20130125 Yes men commit violence against other men but women have a significantly higher rate…
/r/MensRights12/06/13 03:21 AM
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I think there should be outcry over prison rapes jokes as well. I never liked them.
/r/MensRights11/06/13 09:01 PM
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YuRtI agree I think made to penetrate should be counted as rape adding to the percentage of rapes done to men. So that makes percent of men raped and made to penetrate and rape attempys 6.2 percent vs 18.3 percent for women. That's not as huge a difference as the other statistics seem to show but it's pretty substantial. That doesn't mean we should ignore male rape though. These statistics make me believe that it's a big problem too that should be addressed. Maybe I'll stop calling myself a femi…
/r/MensRights11/06/13 08:27 PM
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Could you tell Me what the statistics say or do you have another link I tried to open it on my tablet and it said its drm protected or something.
/r/MensRights11/06/13 07:34 PM
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Well I guess I'm curious what statistics you draw from because from what I've found according to the U.S. Bureau of Justice Statistics 91 percent of rape victims were female and 9 percent were men and 99 percent of rapists are men and 1 percent are female. I don't think women should live in fear just in awareness.
/r/MensRights11/06/13 07:12 PM
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Well I think I understand your position. I think in a lot of things we shouldn't tip toe but I do think that rape is something that a lot of women are afraid of happening and they have to be aware that there's a chance they could get raped in the future. It's just their reality if you look at the percentage of women who have been raped or had attempted rapes it's shocking. And it's something they have to try to mitigate everyday. So bringing it up won't make them all have flash backs but I think…
/r/MensRights11/06/13 06:58 PM
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Well I'm glad you brought that up. I'm real I've just realized the only way talk about these things is to be respectful. If you look at my comment history you'll see I've come a long way I was pretty angry at first but I slowly but surely starting learning how to talk to people about these issues. I guess I also just have a pretty thick skin too. I have kinda an approach where I don't insult or be rude and I respond to hostility with respect. It seems to be working out better than my previous me…
/r/MensRights11/06/13 06:34 PM
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I did notice that and changed it! I guess I feel like we have warnings set up like if you have ptsd don't watch a war movie because there may be images that will upset you. But a rape joke can come up in something like that event or comedy events that are otherwise not about rape. I just think we can use our metaphoric language but we should also have some responsibility. Like I probably wouldn't use a killing metaphor at a funeral of someone who's been killed. I think there are more rape victim…
/r/MensRights11/06/13 02:53 PM
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I think that's the point they're making is we shouldn't use rape metaphors so casually. I think that people get so worked up because they know that bringing up rape in a casual way or using it in a very specific metaphor can make people feel uncomfortable or bring back memories and they don't think people who have been victims of rape should have to have that happen so casually and people don't get offense when you say that sucks etc because that is taking it too far and seeing rape in everythin…
/r/MensRights11/06/13 02:35 PM
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I'd argue it's more of a rape joke because it's very specific. It's not equivocal to saying your screwed or fucked it would be like saying "just let me fuck you let it happen it will be over soon." I guess I understand your point of view though because you think it's a coincidence that it could be something a rapist says so why stop there but I think the very reason that phrase was used was its rape connotation.
/r/MensRights11/06/13 02:24 PM
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But I guess my point was powerlessness almost has to exist for there to be a rape. I think the reason is in fact they feel as though we shouldn't make a mockery of rape by using it in a gaming setting and that victims have to sit through jokes which may cause uncomfortableness in a public setting
/r/MensRights11/06/13 02:02 PM
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Well I think it should be discussed even if it was another guy. It is trash talk but I think trash talk uses rape a metaphor and it affects people to have rape used like that! It's not a phrase that only rapists say I admitted that in other contexts it wouldn't be a rape joke and I think he may have been intending it as just trash talk but I think people should be aware that yes of course they have right to say this rape joke in a public setting but then people also have the right to say this ma…
/r/MensRights11/06/13 01:48 PM
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Hmmm but isn't the point more can you be raped without being powerless? Isn't lack of consent in essence powerlessness you don't want this to happen but you have no ability to stop it? If someone doesn't give consent but they have the power to stop it wouldn't there not be a rape?
/r/MensRights11/06/13 06:54 AM
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Thanks for warning me about using "rapey" I won't use it. I just feel as though the sentence stands for a very specific type of powerlessness ie rape. Isn't powerlessness the most salient aspect of rape though? There are a lot of ways to say your powerless without it referring to rape like im crushing you I'm killing you you don't stand a chance or just give up already etc I guess I feel like the most damning evidence is that just saying let it happen it will be over soon in the context of just …
/r/MensRights11/06/13 06:44 AM
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He actually says "just let it happen it will be over soon" which I think is a lot worse even than "just let it end it will be over soon" that phrase when said when someone is dominating another person in that context is a rape metaphor. I think a lot of people can't even see the rape metaphor in there. The think the damning part is it will be over soon. That phrase has rape written all over it! I guess though you can't see it. Hmmm. Maybe it's just a problem of for a lot guys they don't have the…
/r/MensRights11/06/13 04:45 AM
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But I wouldn't compare the rates of domestic violence in lesbian couples to heterosexual to prove that women are as violent as men because as I understand it lesbian women have somewhat more male brains in some ways in the same way gay males have more feminine brains. Gay males have less domestic violence than lesbians or heterosexuals. That study shows that 24 percent of relationships there is domestic violence and half isn't reciprocal and 70 of the non reciprocal violence was instigated by wo…
/r/MensRights11/06/13 04:23 AM
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I guess I saw a lot of evidence in my comment. I really don't think it's a coincidence that there's a phrase that is known in our culture as something a rapist says during a rape and the fact that he said that in a situation of dominance coupled with the rape metaphor we use!
/r/MensRights11/06/13 02:30 AM
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I beg to differ sir! I really encourage you to disprove what I said. Prove what I said wrong because I don't see the flaw in what I said. Maybe I'll do it for you. But eltiempoesloco, you say, you could see rape in everything! You're putting away groceries someone hands you a jar and says put that in there. Oh rape! You were talking about putting a penis in there! No it is a very specific use of rape as metaphor when defeating in this case. You could even say it'll be over soon and it wouldn't b…
/r/MensRights11/06/13 02:08 AM
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I'm watching those documentaries! I just started watching and I do think men and women have different brains! Women are on average more verbal and have more connections from each side of the brain. Women also have greater social intelligence on average.
/r/MensRights11/06/13 02:05 AM
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Yes men have done great things no doubt about it. They have also done horrible things. I think we might have different views on history because I don't attribute the genocides and wars to just brutal dictators. I think it happened far too frequently to be attributed to a few bad apples. I think that maybe if more females were in charge as well as men it might lead to fewer conflicts. Fair point I might be trying to hard to define myself. I guess though I was rejecting my culture's values more so…
/r/MensRights11/06/13 02:04 AM
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If it wasn't a rape joke then it was still a joke because people laughed right after. What was funny about saying that? I'm a man and I think it was in fact a rape joke. There's a subtext to what he said. It's a subtle rape joke. It's about context. We have this metaphor in our culture of defeating as rape. Like oh that test raped me! Etc so it's using the context of something someone says while raping as a metaphor for him beating her. Hence a rape joke. It doesn't have to explicitly say rape t…
/r/MensRights11/06/13 01:00 AM
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I think that maybe the problem is deeper in that we have typical masculine traits leading and maybe if we had some leaders with femine traits I think it would improve things
/r/MensRights10/06/13 10:55 PM
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No it's not and I guess I shouldn't be so confident on why men rape. It's a theory and I need to look for evidence for it else I'm just making empty claims
/r/MensRights10/06/13 10:52 PM
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Hmmmm good question! I'm not sure!
/r/MensRights10/06/13 05:47 PM
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I was saying that I think masculinity traits have been in charge of countries and masculine traits have ruled I think what if we had some typical feminine traits help lead as well such as empathy. I think a lot of what we need to avoid conflict is empathy and compassion. Fair enough I wasn't trying to conflate the percentage of rulers to 50 percent of the human race I was saying there is one thing in common with all of them! Most I guess can't forget about the few woman rulers! Ah yes my comment…
/r/MensRights10/06/13 10:08 AM
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I think you might be right about patriarchy theory. I think it is inadequate now. Now I think the problem is deeper than just males dominating females. I think the problem is humans dominating humans and women are just part of the whole...system? I guess it is just biology though. But dangit I think that we need to change how we view leadership. Is that even possible? Maybe it isn't. Damn it maybe we'll never change. I think it's fair to say that the majority of leaders have been male throughout…
/r/MensRights10/06/13 08:32 AM
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No no no! I was saying that a man is valued if he is successful. A CEO is more valued in our culture than a janitor. A man is also more valuable in our culture if he is more athletic. He is more valuable if he is charming. Im judging how a man's worth is valued in our culture.
/r/MensRights10/06/13 07:39 AM
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okay!
/r/MensRights10/06/13 05:48 AM
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Patriarchy is unfalsifiable if cases of male exploitation do not count as a holes in the theory. The same is true for when women can reach the top roles and this is still not considered as being due to anything else other than patriarchy I guess the way I view it is that it's not a theory that says that men have absolute control. If that were true then cases of male exploitation would count as holes in the theory. The way i see it, it's saying that men have power in a lot of areas in our culture…
/r/MensRights10/06/13 04:38 AM
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Hey y'all I guess I would call my self a male feminist. I don't think men are all evil and I even think that some men are in fact victims of the patriarchy? I guess that's what it's called. No it's not some meeting where every guy in America gets together and decides to disrespect women as a group. It's a lot more subtle than that. It has to do with culture and the unspoken cultural norms we don't even notice because they're just "the way it is" I didn't notice it for a long time. You kinda have…
/r/MensRights10/06/13 03:13 AM
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I'm a man and I'll just offer this idea and you can reject it or whatever you want. The vast majority of domestic violence is men against women. That's not saying women don't abuse men it's just not as often. And yes I know there's that one study well actually women are more violent than men. But the thing is they lump things like throwing a shoe and yelling and slapping in with throwing down stairs or punching. Another thing to consider most men are physically stronger. Look it up or just look …
/r/MensRights10/06/13 03:11 AM
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I'm curious can you explain what you mean by monopolizing his emotional needs? I kinda almost understand but I guess it would be helpful if you could clarify. Thanks!
/r/MensRights10/06/13 03:03 AM
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Hey y'all I guess I would call my self a male feminist. I don't think men are all evil and I even think that some men are in fact victims of the patriarchy? I guess that's what it's called. No it's not some meeting where every guy in America gets together and decides to disrespect women as a group. It's a lot more subtle than that. It has to do with culture and the unspoken cultural norms we don't even notice because they're just "the way it is" I didn't notice it for a long time. You kinda have…
/r/MensRights10/06/13 02:53 AM
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im trolling for womens right men rights. im a man btw. an angry man i wont stop until women get rights ya hear that nerds? im gonna trol you guys so hard. I have a fetish that i wrap myself in an american flag make a lubricant by grinding up a bible and using a pestle and morter to make a nice goo by adding my spit then i use that lube to fuck George Washington in his flabby white butt as I make John Adams watch and masterbate. When i come I shoot my load onto the newly written Constitiuton and …
/r/MensRights19/05/13 08:19 PM
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