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urs. Can you explain to me how 2 highly successful people working incredibly demanding hours managed to make time for each other let alone kid They hire help.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 03:10 AM
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Meth is certainly illegal here. What have you been smoking?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/19 11:24 PM
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35 year - still like the pretty boys. Rugged men do nothing for me,.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/19 04:12 AM
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Started at 11, still hasn't stopped. I'm35.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/19 05:11 AM
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treme social pressure." No guy is expecting wome I had a boss (in his 60s) a couple of years ago, who insisted that any woman working for him wore red lipstick and a full face. This is more common than you think. Go ask any male CEO if he is happy with his receptionist having a bare fresh face and report back. I'd be shocked if any said yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 04:38 AM
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ping men from wearing makeup. A little subtle concealer I wish men put in more effort. So many look like slobs, and a little concealer goes a long way.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 04:35 AM
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Yeah, but I like legit really skinny guys. Like visible ribs, and the elbow being much larger than the bicep etc
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 11:34 PM
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Nah, im into skinny dudes, so someone trying to get gainzz or whatever would be turn off in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 05:48 AM
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e is that a man who does that is the object of ridicule; the woman who does that is applauded as a "strong independent woman fighting the capitalist cisheterowhiteman patriarchy" I know loads of mean currently fucking about in Europe or "working on their art" as they spin it. They do well upon their return.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 03:00 AM
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Not less attractive per se, but less likely to be someone Im going to pursue. But, I go against the grain with what TRP thinks women like. I prefer skinny guys with beautiful faces (ie non sqaure jawed). Height is pretty much a non issue for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 08:25 AM
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I'm 5'2, so a man over 6' is too tall for me really. All of my partners have been between 5'6 and 5'11. If a man is too tall it makes certain sex things difficult!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 08:14 AM
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es here where the chick decided opening the marriage/relationship would mean tons of cock for her while he sat at home getting shot down, and got REALLY mad when not only did he get added pissflap and she got no cock, but he actually decided he preferred the other woman to her, and went back to a closed relationship. Ive seen 4 where the guy opened it, wanting to sleep around with more women, and the gf ended up going along with it, and falling for one of her open partners, and left the man hear…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 05:43 AM
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First time I felt uncomfortable, I was about 11, and had been hanging out at this fair ground thing for a week during the school holidays, and I became friends with one of the performers there. After being friendly for a few days, he offered to show me some tricks, and i was veerrrry uncomfortable when he put his hands on my waist/hip/butt. However, probably not as uncomfortable as him as when he asked what my plans for the coming year (uni/trade school/work etc) and I said I would be starting y…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 03:42 AM
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Still doesn't mean its correct. The media is lazy. Millennial is no longer the term for young people.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/19 02:15 AM
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first time in more than 130 years, adults ages 18 to 34 were slightly more likely to be living in their parents’ home than they were to be living with a spouse or partner in their own household. 1 This turn of events is fueled primarily by th "Young millennial" are like 25 now.... I think you mean Gen Z
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/19 02:07 AM
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ays self pay. And loads of women have kids after 35, just may not be the first kid. My office has had a baby boom of first time mothers over 35... just this year we have 37, 39 an 40 all have their first kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/19 01:54 AM
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Im 35. He's hotter than most 35 year olds in my eyes. ​ I wish more men care about skin care...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 12:30 AM
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There was a pic posted about 6 months back of some blokes 20 year old gf... and yes, while she was young, she wouldn't be the belle of the ball among her peers. Harsh, but true.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/19 01:43 AM
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I think you didn't comprehend what I wrote - You have said many times that where you are, the good quality women are married off young (at 18) to old 45 year old men. You have repeatedly claimed that I am a low quality woman, because my partner is a similar age - you then claimed that he was low quality because he doesn't bang teenagers. I'm UMC /UC from a non US, liberal city, where people marry their similarly aged peers. One day, about a month ago, you actually agreed that both of our experie…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/19 04:01 AM
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We live in different worlds dude. You live in some fly over state, bible belt town, where the "good quality" girls are married off at 18 to 45 year olds. I cant be bothered having this argument again, but facts are facts. And factually, age gaps were not what you continually suggest they were, at least outside of where you live and what you have observed. I'm going to believe thousands of historical records over your anecdotes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/19 03:48 AM
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Good lord. It's literally factual data dude. You can easily look this shit up. If you prefer to base your history knowledge on Hollywood, go ahead. Just don't be upset when people point out that you are wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/19 03:36 AM
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So, fiction then? After spending a few hundred + hours going through actual historical records, you may have a different understanding...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/19 03:11 AM
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I find it weird when people say that “oh there used to be 5-10 year age gaps as standard”. I spend a lot of time researching genealogy, family trees etc, and that really isn’t the case, for every family line I’ve done, which is hundreds.. Maybe it was different in the case in America, but certainly all the British marriage records I’ve viewed, age gaps back then (and I’m going back to the 1300s in some cases) aren’t that big. Women even married men younger than them back then. Of course you stil…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/19 02:37 AM
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I'm not sure why everyone is being so rude, when I am do the exact thing men complain that women DON'T do. We can't win can we?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/19 08:48 AM
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rs, weekends away to other cities etc etc, and i find it a turn off. Sure, it's nice when a partner does these things for you, but to me it seems sleazy in the beginning dating stages. I've replied to another comment that I have asked out men before (including my current and previous partner), so yes, I think whoever asks should pay. Generally, I think that it is polite then, if a second date occurs, the non payer from date # 1 pays. ​ I wouldn't have an issue if a man asked me out and expected …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/19 08:20 AM
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I've asked out men. I approached and asked out my current partner. My previous boyfriend I also asked out (although he did approach me physically, but I suggested the date). I will agree though, that most women don't practice the cold approach "numbers game" that some men do. I feel like you need to live in a different area than you do. All of your responses have the same theme. Find a new area with better people.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/19 08:03 AM
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Generally I think whoever did the asking out should pay. I have no issue in paying for men, I have done in the past and I'm sure I will in the future. ​ I've had guys offer fancy dinners, weekends away to other cities etc etc, and i find it a turn off. Sure, it's nice when a partner does these things for you, but to me it seems sleazy in the beginning dating stages. ​ Why do you think that men should pay for women during courtships? That kind of thinking leads to men being paid more, because the…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/19 06:59 AM
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0-15 years ago. Tinder and social media have ruined a generation of women and made it impossible for them to successfully pair bond with their husbands. They are dead-eyed husks of the women of the near past. Emotionally abused by m 15 years ago, I was 20. Some of my friends at the time, who were also 20, had slept with 1-3 men. Some had slept with 20. I don't think much has changed. .
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/19 06:27 AM
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ssible alimony Math skills = Fail: if you think out of wedlock kids is not a smaller commitment I live in a no alimony country. Defacto couples still have to split assets when they separate, and CS is payable whether you are married or not, so there really isn't that much difference. Marriage here is more of a formal commitment/social thing, there isn't much difference in terms of asset splitting than being defacto. ​ It funny to me, because you can get married and divorced, and as long as you d…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/19 05:48 AM
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I'm from a country with universal healthcare, so delivery etc is "free" here, but I digress... Yes, I feel that WC would tend to just have the baby, and get married later. This was never going to happen in our family. I find it funny people who have kids but "aren't ready for the commitment of marriage".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/19 02:52 AM
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will not start having out of wedlock children Correct. My brother and his wife bought their wedding plans up 6 weeks from 18months when she fell pregnant. There was no way the baby was coming out with them unmarried.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/19 01:53 AM
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Ive never been to a baby shower that included men. I can't imagine many blokes would be keen to sit around and "ooh ahh" over breast pumps. Weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/19 12:53 AM
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I've dated men that expected me, and women in general, to wear makeup. one of my exes really liked the "dolly bird" look. All of his gf's have looked like that, and when I was fresh faced, he would say I was too pale. One of my other ex's, whilst said he liked me either way, he really got into the heavy made up look. I do think that some guys like the make up look. ​ I have had maaany male bosses that insist a full face of makeup is worn in the office.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/19 08:12 AM
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They have stood the test of time that’s for sure! The kids still go wild for the old tracks!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/19 03:32 PM
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I’ve never been one to hook up with band guys, especially touring bands. I was on the Killers tour for a bit in 2004, and the “meat market” grossed me out. I’ve had one serious partner that was a touring musician, but generally my boyfriends have been regular folk, that dress well and are into the arts or music in other way. For me, men’s clothes makes up about 50% of the attraction. Cute face, dark hair, skinny, cool clothes :) Of course it’s 2019, I don’t expect men to dress like Sonny Moore s…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/19 03:25 PM
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No, I thought they were hot because they were skinny, wore skinny jeans and had dyed black hair... I’ve spent the last 20 years around bands and “rockstars”, if a man in a band doesn’t have the look I like, no amount of fame can change that! Band managers/touring managers get their share. Any man with a lanyard can get laid haha. Band dudes are a dime a dozen after a while haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/19 03:19 PM
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Trust me, I know all about sunscreen. Its why I'm 35 and don't have any wrinkles myself. Most men/people don't wear sunscreen, or if they do, they just put it on in the morning and forget about it, which is basically the same as not wearing any (don't get my started on women who don't apply is, because their foundation has it in). The other major cause of wrinkles is sleeping positions. I advise everyone to sleep on a silk pillowcase,and train yourself to sleep on your back if you can. I'm not s…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/19 08:57 AM
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My ex went grey from when he was 14 (Scottish blood!), but he used to dye it. He has let it grow out now, in his mid 30s..
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/19 08:52 AM
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He was fit in terms of body, but grey hair and old face. He was the manger for a reasonably famous indie band from the early 2000s, so he should have that going for him, but he just wasn't what gets me hot. The 22 year olds in the band he managed though, hotties galore!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/19 08:51 AM
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That's cool. I'm not every woman. Most women do tend to report that they prefer men their own age, but of course different locations and social groups will be different. I'm not based in the US myself. I'm bad at guessing men's ages tbh. I always think they are few years older than they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/19 08:50 AM
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Sadly, a lot do. Especially the wrinkles, most men I know have more wrinkles than women their age (if the woman hasn't had kids- given birth ages you like crazy). Then the grey whiskers start to come in :(
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/19 08:48 AM
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Oh I hear you. I still think I'm 22.. then I remember I'm 35. I look very similar, but I certainly don't look 22. I am well preserved, but not fresh haha. We don't notice the things about us that look old. Just like how people don't notice they are gaining weight until they can't fit into their jeans or whatever. Sometimes I see older men who would have been my type 15 years ago, but now they look too rough, and i'm sure younger men feel that way about me. It's probably a good idea to avoid aski…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/19 07:47 AM
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In real life, I don't know any women that think that if you are 150kg then you deserve to be found attractive. Most women I know would be horrified if they weighed over 70kg. I don't live in the US though. This is why I think you are projecting. It's just bitter tales from the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/19 07:34 AM
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HAHAHAH I'm not that person. Fat people are visually gross. Sorry, but its true. Fat is not cute. Women who delude themselves that they look hot when they have fat rolls are just as deluded, and in for a rude shock, as an old graying man with a pot belly trying to get with a tight 19 year old. Not gonna happy sonny Jim! I'm super honest with single women my age who complain about not being able to get or keep a man. Loose some weight and put in some damn effort, and consider what you offer. I am…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/19 07:10 AM
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And yes, if men (or women) can't find a sexual partner whilst in their prime (early 20s for both) then the future isn't looking bright. This is obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/19 07:03 AM
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Older men ARE gross to me, like I would imagine I am gross to an 18 year old boy. I'm not into grey hair or wrinkles, or that weird red tinge that men over 25 get... . I like full heads of hair, smooth pale skin, and toned bodies, just like everyone else does. Age makes you lose these things. Men in their 40s and 50s + just don't appeal to me, just as 30 - 40 year olds didn't appeal to me when I was 20. Most people peak between 22-30, that's just inevitable. I've always been attracted to men my …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/19 06:56 AM
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I've never had sex with an "older man". I don't find them hot. A 40 odd year old was trying to peruse me when I was 21. I was so grossed out.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/19 06:26 AM
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Her career is going to fall off when she has children either way, ​ I'm so glad I live somewhere where women continue to work after having babies, and women (in my circle at least) out earn their men. the women I know would never agree to have babies if it meant being STAHM or taking extended time off from their career. It makes it a much more even playing field.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/19 12:54 AM
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Every engineer I've known has been boring and poorly groomed with an inflated sense of importance. Bad combo.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/19 12:45 AM
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Meh, the last two relationships I've had I asked them out for the first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/19 12:40 AM
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ting apps among other factors. I'm talking exclusively about women's ability to be receptive to an approach. I wasn't hitting on girls 20 or even 10 years ago so I have no idea what th Im not sure what you mean? What does being in the states have to do with anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/19 11:41 PM
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t women's ability to be receptive to an approach. I wasn't hitting on girls 20 or even 10 years ago so I have no idea what they were like back then. But what I've wr As someone who has been getting hit on for the past 20+ years, I don't actually think much has really changed. I get approach just as much as I did back then. It's probably easier now for shy boys, because back then if they didn't want to approach you in person, they had to get your number and call your home phone... now at least th…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/19 12:42 AM
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Ok, take your chances then. I could give you a bunch an anecdotes to the contrary regarding the Mirina, but I guess as a man, you know best ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 03:21 PM
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HAHAHA button up shirt? You better hope you're a small breasted lady, or you are going to be learning the joys of gaping and safety pins!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 12:00 AM
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I'm assuming you mean a hormonal IUD and not a copper one. The copper ones can make your periods really heavy (think blood just constantly running out of you) and extreme cramping. Being doubled over a work with a heat bad, having your max limit of ibuprofen isn't that fun... ​ The hormonal one may diminish your sex drive, and turn you off sex. And of course weight gain. You may find the hormones effect your mood and skin too. Oh, and sometimes the body just rejects an IUD, just like any other f…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/19 11:51 PM
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Ok, well that's an issue with your culture.I think cheating is common place with a lot of schools/uni, but I don't think it is a gender thing. Why didn't you dob them in if you saw them cheating? Because they are pretty girls? You let the pretty girls get away with cheating, so you think everyone does the same? The only time i have experienced people cheating, was a group of boys/young men when I was in my first year of uni. They cheated and got away with it. It annoyed me, as my marks were "rea…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/19 08:43 AM
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I think you are making a lot of assumptions there. Lots of people have thought that I cheated or slept my way to where I am, because I am a woman and I'm pretty etc, but I'm just lucky that I'm intelligent and worked hard. I've found, for me anyway, that being a "pretty girl" I have had to work twice as hard to be taken seriously. For example, it wasn't until I literally pointed out I had generated a million dollars in business more than my male counter part over the space of a year, that my man…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/19 08:23 AM
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Lol yeah, that doesn't happen here. Sometimes girls are just really smart, or have good memories (like myself) which enables better test scores. For what its worth, I excelled in math and science, so it wasn't the "fluffy" subjects I was taking. And in math, something is either right or wrong, so there its hard for there to be a bias. How do they get a boost? Do the teachers fill in their correct marks for them? Or do they just give them fake scores? Our exams were cross checked by other schools…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/19 07:13 AM
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is something else in it. I mean, my female classmate missed half of lessons, did not do homework on schedule and still got almost all A's. Guys also compete for good marks. There were a few people in my class (including me) who thought (realized) marks (above C) don't mean shit and w It was pretty even at my school. I was one of the students "competing" for Dux of the school, with a pretty even split of girls and boys. A boy did win. Apparently I was third. Oh well. I was also one of those annoy…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/19 07:00 AM
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That's nice, but I wouldn't be. I hate the look of jacked guys. I'll take a skinny dude over a jacked guy every day of the week.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/19 03:04 AM
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a West coast thing though, the names got snobbier on the East coast and went over the top in London. The double-barrel set!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/19 02:52 AM
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Sounds like you’ve let yourself go... at 28 you should be close to your physical peak.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/19 08:41 AM
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eaning 19/20 can still do it but you don't want to risk being the 1 out of those 20, do you? How old are you? I feel like you must be quite young with statements like that. ​ I talk about my sport on here all the time, but at 35 I'm still a figure skater (ice skating), and still do triple jumps and all the spins etc. Im not quite as flexible (beillmann spins are harder, but I still do them) or as lean, but mostly the fitness is still there. Anyone who thinks they are too old at 30 (LOL) to go fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/19 06:42 AM
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sex at 18? If you miss out on that you'll never ever have it. Doing crazy hikes? Can't do that with 30 anymore. Maybe you still can if you're lucky but you know... Knee and back problems are common. I mean I often wonder how great sex at 18-22 is and regret not having had that. Sex past 30 is pretty much crap from what people tell. You'll regret not having se ​ My gosh, where you you live that people are infirm by 30? I'm 35 and hard disagree with everything in your post.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/19 01:33 AM
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I base my claim having done a sport at an elite level for 25+ years, that involves a lot of strength in the butt muscles. Based on the amount of glute work I’ve done, what I could and still can lift, I should have the buggiest bubble butt, but no, I’ve still got a “white girl ass”. It’s toned and I get loads of compliments, but it’s not big or bubble. I see this with other athletes too. Others have massive asses. It depends on the body structure.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/19 03:05 AM
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That’s because your hip and pelvis structure allows it. Some people can do that daily for years, and their ass will be toned, but it will still will be flat.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 02:57 AM
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See, that's what I would think, but the men i know seem to be about 50/50 on it now, when 15 years ago, it would have been 100% the skinny girl... My ex was obsessed with her, which is why I used her as an example. One of my male friends, who Ive been friends with for 12 years used to only be into skinny girls, in real life and celeb fantasy's, now he goes on about thicc thighs... which is pretty funny seeing he used to make comment about my muscly legs haha. I did a little ask around my office,…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/19 07:57 AM
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Yeah, the WHR of .7 has been a constant. It's one beauty standard I can get behind, and Ive been/maintenance 0.7 since I was about 14 haha. I agree that the thigh gap is still there, but its not as noticed hence why I said "popular" although you right, it is still popular. Its hard to have the bubble but with narrow hips.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/19 07:50 AM
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Reply Oh they do, but skinny in 2019 is not the same skinny as 2003, or 1997, for example. There has been a cultural shift. Someone like Kate Upton would have considered grossly fat back then. Britney was consider to be fat by my male peers in the 90s when she was a teen herself. As someone who was a teen girl in the 90s, I'm often shocked at the "thicc" women men say are hot now.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/19 07:13 AM
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They very much were. I remember guys having a "box gap only" policy. Paris Hilton's body was seen as the ideal. It seems funny to think about dudes thinking she was the hottest thing ever. Men in the 90s and early 2000s were all about skinny. When I was in high school and uni (90s/early-mid 2000s) the only girls that had boyfriends, or had guys openly into them were skinny girls. Around 2010 that tide started to turn, and of course, its all about asses now.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/19 06:47 AM
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I think if men could get a few extra inches in height for only $10k and a few days recovery time, many would choose too, just as breast enlargements are common. Butt shape is largely genetic. You cannot squat your way to a bubble butt, just like you cannot run off a bubble butt. It depends a lot on the general pelvic/hip structure. ​ I would say that buts and "thigh gaps" (even though they aren't a popular now) would be like men's height. If you have close set hips, no amount of losing weight wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/19 06:28 AM
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Again, lots of adults take up this sport I do. They might not ever hit a triple in the air, but they can still learn it to a decent level. But if you wanna put arbitrary age limits on things for yourself, go ahead an enjoy the decline my friend!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/19 09:13 AM
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Actually, it depends on what age you learn a skill. Yes, adult have more fear, but if you learned a trick / move when you were a kid or teen, and you have kept up skating (or whatever) there should be no anxiety due to muscle memory, unless you are literally elderly. The sport I am talking about involved doing multiple rotations whilst being airborne. And actually, you did say older people shouldn't do things like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/19 09:00 AM
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could happen...skaters themselves even say they get more scared the older they get, its easier and more fun to learn things like that when you're young and carefree I agreed with you until this point. As you get older, you realize you gotta keep doing the stuff that keeps your mind and body young. I do a sport, that 99% of people agree is really difficult and scary, and the average age of competitors the Olympics is about 20.... ​ Im 35 and still do this sport 5 days a week (at a semi profession…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/19 01:56 AM
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because they don't want to fuck the guy but want to keep him around for attention, resources and validation but the guy will want to fuck her or have feelings, every time (and unless she's utterly naive, the Oh give me a break. I have friends who are blokes, and we hang out because we enjoy each others company and have the same interests and hobbies. I helped countless dudes move house, listen to them cry about their lady problems, feed that dog when they are on holidays etc etc. Don't project y…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/19 01:30 AM
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So my point is proven. You are cherry picking the least reliable set of data to prove your point. A self reported Reddit Survey is hardly a reliable source. I mean, all the women on this thread are saying they shower once a day, so I assume you will also take that as fact? If I make a fancy graph will you refuse all other data? ​ What about all the other data in the article that proves otherwise. "in general, the world's women shower more than men. The exception, according to a 2008 study by hyg…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/19 03:06 AM
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wait, have you even read what you have posted. The thing about the men showering more than women was due to a poll on Reddit! On Reddit! So you can take mine and the other women's responses in this thread as gospel. ​ Also from your article " In general, the world's women shower more than men. The exception, according to a 2008 study by hygiene-products company SCA, is Sweden, the only country surveyed where men were more likely to shower every day than women were: " ​ So, Im not really sure how…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/19 02:21 AM
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ur fellow women that who shower less. Lol what? I have long hair, and shower at least twice a day. 3 times if i do an extra work out.. ​ Have you been hanging out in 1700's France?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/19 02:01 AM
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Well, he claimed his hobbies are more interesting than his partners, so i'd like to hear what they are.... Although, they have not responded, so it's probably something horribly dull like fishing or hiking.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/19 01:49 AM
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Haha I got downvoted for saying I find my 5’6 parter very sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/19 12:10 AM
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their butt cheeks. 18 wasn't that long ago for m That looks was big in the mid 90s. Fashion works in approx 20-25 year cycles.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 12:14 AM
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e 90s? Vegan, Keto, Vegetarian, etc I'm sure they were around but they weren't as popular as they are now. There's also the whole social media that women attach to. Look how many IG models focus on showing th Hmm I didn't grow up in a very cosmopolitan era, but vegan/vegetarian and low carb diets were all very popular in the 90s. Diets just get re marketed to each generation.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 12:13 AM
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ties? I kinda want to go back to the time w No one wanted a big butt in the 90s and early 2000s. It was about having no butt and boy hips and no boobs. ​ A guy I was friend with back then swore black and blue he "only liked skinny chicks" and it was nothing to do with the media. Now he's all about girls who are "thicc".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 12:12 AM
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It's about what you can do with them. If she wanted to have sex with someone else, it would take 5 minutes and a cell phone. If I wanted to have sex with someone else, it would take 5 days and a cell phone. But if she wanted another boyfriend as good as me, it would take 5 months and a cell phone. If I wanted another one of her, it would take 5 days and a cell ​ I am interested in what both of your hobbies are?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 12:01 AM
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There is no way my date could do this and not be patronizing. The actual act of doing this is what is patronizing, there is no tone one could take that changes that. TBH, you sound as insufferable as your "friend".
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/19 07:48 AM
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howing care and showing knowledge all at the same time.This is like mind blowing to men here apparently LOL OH and this w My god. I would find this so patronizing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/19 04:19 AM
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I try to be decent to everyone, but when someone calls me a whore, because I'm a woman, or screams liar over the internet when I say I've never cheated, I'm going to lose patience, and assume they just suck as people. I do assume a lot on here are trolls though. I don't doubt that it is hard for young men. I knew as a 20 year old (in the early/mid 2000s) that girls had it easier getting sex, but guys had it easier getting a girlfriend. Its supply and demand. I do agree with TRP that a lot of gir…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 05:49 AM
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? Mostly BS. Most women don't cheat. Most women don't ride the CC (certainly not in my circles anyway). Most women I know make the same, or more, than their partner, so aren't looking for a provider. TRP also keeps posting incorrect data showing that women like older men, even though scores of women will come on here and say they don't. TRP is full of losers, and self fulfilling prophecies.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 05:36 AM
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Nope, very happy with my partner. More like they missed out on a loyal woman who ins't a leach and doesn't cheat. ​ I have always had boyfriend when I wanted to be in a relationship, and have always been able to secure commitment before sex, with sexy, high profile men... I'm good looking, and good looking woman have options.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 02:21 AM
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My partner is pretty much of opposite of TRP Alphaness. Firstly, he is only about 5'6 (I'm 5'2 for reference), with a slim/ slight build, and more "pretty" face (angular jaw, big brown eyes etc). So physically, he is not "alpha", but he is the hottest man in my eyes. In terms of other traits, no, he isn't cocky, doesn't do "dread games" (I have zero tolerance for cheating, so this would drive me away). He is my partner, and we contribute equally. We are equal earners and contributors financially…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 01:58 AM
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h ​ I'm so glad I always had a no boning on the first date rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 01:38 AM
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ard f Not really, its the standard for that "all american quarterback look" but that's not the type of man i want to bang. I find that look repulsive. Male models tend to have a variety of looks from super masc to androgynous.(just like a runway model will have different standard to a catalog model). I prefer slim guys, with more angular faces. More of the rock star image than the quarterback. ​ Too many men have beards now. I assume they are not pretty underneath.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/19 03:49 AM
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Its why i don't like beards. I find square/strong jaws unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/19 02:09 AM
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OMG, I WISH men would put in the effort like women do. I would advice all men to do the following! ​ Firstly, good hair cuts. Don't go to the barber and get a short back and sides. Look through fashion mags (ones women read, as you are doing this for us) and go with styles that currently hotties in Hollywood had. ​ Hair dye. I don't want a silver fox. Grey hair is gross. Is wild how many men think they can let their hair go grey and ugly. Go to the salon and sort that shit out. Wrinkles. Contrar…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/19 02:07 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 08:38 AM
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I dont want children, so I would only marry a man that doesn't want them also.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 12:12 AM
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I like skinny dudes. Slim/slight build, whatever you want to call it. Prefer pale, and more pointed jaws to a square jaw. I really hate alpha bro types. Over confident men are yucky too. I prefer the artist / musician types.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 11:55 PM
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Same!! Love skinny men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 11:52 PM
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Haha I’m being facetious. This entire post is stupid. Ask stupid questions, get stupid answers!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 07:12 AM
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nt the child or not. What happens if the man used a condom but the women broke it before or during? Just to get pregnant and tie him up for life? if he doesn't want a baby he should have a vasectomy or abstain. This is a very wild world OP is proposing!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 05:50 AM
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Finishing your education is not having a career. Its the first step. Do you include interning/residencies and working your way up to management, or just completing a bachelors or masters? Someone who has a baby after graduating, is not going to be employable when they re-enter the work force. Say woman does this, and after 5 years the husband leaves, she is not established in her career, she is merely still a grad, who will only be able to get grad jobs if she is extremely lucky, as the new, fre…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 04:18 AM
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Correct. Which is why i am being absurd. This entire post is absurd. Can't believe so many people got worked up over it. So much for "the rational male".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 03:57 AM
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No. Im being completely rational. The age of retirement n my country for my generation is 70. You said a woman should have a baby after her career is over. At best thats gonna be 50 if you make enough to retire by then, but most people will work until they are 70 or older.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 03:56 AM
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Im sharing my own experience. I would wager this entire post is based on OPs personal bias and experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 03:54 AM
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If CEO cheats on his wife, he is low status. My father was a "millionaire" CEO who cheated and ran off with his secretary. He was low value. Forced vasectomies for all boys would stop low earning men (which i think is what you mean by low status) having a kid and dipping. It would make low earning women step up to be woman worth marrying. I thought your lot would be all over that?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 03:37 AM
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orant if you think age is the primary value a m What? But thats what TRP claims, a woman over 20 (or 17 in some posts) has no value. ​ I don't see why any woman risk would have a baby with a man. Too easy to be left in poverty. Far to much risk without the work house laws enforced.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 03:12 AM
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After you finish your career? So at 70?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 03:10 AM
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It solves the problem of men being trapped by baby mamas.. Are you worried that you wouldn't be able to enforce a child onto a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 03:09 AM
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What? are you claiming that men don't leave their wives for younger and hotter options? Don't men ONLY value a woman's looks?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 02:09 AM
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men Well, by my definition, any man that cheats is low status. Personally, I know many marriages where the man ran off with someone after his wife gave him a couple of kids and her "best years" as you put it. There is a reason there is the stereotype of the old bloke leaving his wife of 20 years of the office dolly bird. Because it happens. Men over 40 cheat considerably more than women, so it would good to see them jailed for adultery with 100% garnished wages until the child is 18.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 02:08 AM
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Lots of people do this. Its very common among low status men. ​ ​
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 01:40 AM
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If the man deserts his family, then the act of leaving them needs to be punished too. 15 odd years of working for only bread and water would deter men from running off and being dead beat dads. I would also like to see all boys be given a vasectomy at 14, with it being allowed to be reversed once they are married, and can prove they can financially support a child. There would be very few men "trapped" by low level baby mommas in this instance. Are these women allowed to get educations and and h…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 01:39 AM
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I think you need to add that if a man deserts his family, he should be jailed in a work house, and sent out to do manual labour. The money earnt from manual labour is sent to the family until the youngest child is 18. After then, the man can rejoin society and earn wages for himself. ​ Would be a deterrent to running off with the 20 year old secretary!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 12:29 AM
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Yeah wow.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 06:53 AM
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ss? Is it rare in the west to have 12 years old girls like that? I learned early too,10-12? I admit I dont remember anymore. But it was a long learning curve, and It took many years so that my head could wrap around the truth. I think I am not a fast learner if someone don't t Holy fuck, where did you grow up?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 06:38 AM
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I would be grossed out by a man or woman walking down the street with no top on. Put some clothes on you slob!! I am just as grossed out by 50 year old women who prey on 20 year old boys for their fresh meat.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 04:46 AM
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Yeah, a lot of is just luck. I have my grandmothers skin - a true English rose my mother calls me! But also staying out of the sun (i grew up on the coast but always avoided tanning and the beach in general), keeping a healthy weight, not taking drugs or smoking has all helped. ​ I'm sorry to hear about your wife. Anorexia can certainly wreak havoc on the face/skin. I think having a slightly chubbier face helps slows the aging process.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 04:42 AM
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I mean, if I start getting wrinkles at 40, it wont be the end of the world. People guess that I am in my 20's now. It think its funny when old men will come up and flirt with me, thinking I am 25, and then be shocked followed by horrified when they find out I'm 35.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 03:45 AM
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People do play daddy or date here - but mostly because big age gaps are so rare they gross people out, so its a big of a novelty. I don't live in the USA.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 03:40 AM
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My life is pretty amazing, but I get that its not for everyone. I work a lot, but I also do a lot of cool stuff that many only dream of. I really enjoy the city lifestyle, I own my own place, and have a close relationship with my family and friends. I live the exact type of life that i wanted for myself as a child/teenager/young adult, which I think is what everyone should strive for - living the type of life you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 03:38 AM
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Keep telling yourself that hun.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 03:02 AM
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when the crows feet start Maybe I am an outlier,. but I have no wrinkles yet. I think if you are getting crows feet in your 20s you have lived a hard life, or treated your body like shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 02:58 AM
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I did. My partner doesn't have an issue. You are the one with the issue. Please answer my question. What do you think of my roman numeral friends situation? ​ I feel like there is a lot of projection here. Like people who wont believe that the Queen eats special K for breakfast, because THEY would not if they were her. You might only go for 18 year olds, but maybe you aren't a high quality man with standards? The type of people in my circle would never DREAM of marrying the 20 year old reception…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 02:57 AM
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There is no issue. He is hot, makes good money, is a nice guy. He doesn't want kids, but even if he did, he comes from a medical family, and understands that women regularly have healthy children well into there mid and late 30s. He is quite the catch! His dad married a woman his own age (his parents are both Drs), so maybe that has modeled what he looks for in a partner. As I said, he could have had a younger woman when we met, but guess I am hotter than all of them (I am very good looking. Hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 02:46 AM
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if you dont find some older women attractive compared to the younger ones, but this narrative that Yeah, I am currently working with 3 women, all pregnant with their first kid at 37 or 38. All got knocked up with in the first 2 months of trying (2 were on the first try). They don't have 40/45+ partners though, their men are the same age (give or take a year)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 02:16 AM
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Well, seeing as my friends are all partnered with people their own age, or men who are younger, I doubt they think that. Maybe you should learn to read comments before responding to them. ​ When I met my partner he had some younger girls that were keen, but he chose me, almost instantly. Having said that, he did think I was 26 when we met, but I bring a lot more to the table than those girls. ​ As I said, the men in my circle date and marry women their own age. Even the ones with roman numerals …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 02:12 AM
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Nice try.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 01:58 AM
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Yeah, my one friend with the husband who is 10 years + is ALWAYS talked about.. I remember at my 25th bday, after the left, everyone being like "ok hold, up, was that her dad???". The girls were creeped out!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 01:25 AM
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That's weird. I also live in Australia. I grew up in one city, lived there for 27 years, and have been in the other for the last 8. I am from a similar background. Most of my friends are from school or uni, or I met them professional since moving. I do a lot of work in the music industry, so my friendship circles includes musician/entertainment/artist types, but also a good mix of lawyers, engineers, teachers etc. The biggest toff I know married a girl the exact same age as him. And he has roman…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 01:24 AM
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In all the women I know (who are of my generation), In all the "circles" I'm apart of, I know one woman who married/dated a man 10 years older. Every single other woman is with a man within 5 years of her, the majority within 3... In my actual friends circle, a good portion of the women are in LTRs with men who are up to 4 years younger. Where do you live? For reference, I am 35. My partner is a man and is 3 years younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 01:06 AM
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or does you, exactly because you are a woman. I just know that this is the case for Austin, Toronto and Brazil as a whole. You telling me that women don't show more inter Except that we don't think they do have more value. Women in my circle earn good money, own their own houses. Men are there for companionship and to have kids (for those who wants kids). A guy who is aging and losing his beauty has less value that a younger man who is better looking. I chose beauty of wealth every time. But per…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/19 01:46 AM
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re women interested in serious relationships. And finally, those guys may be getting something. Who kno Well, as a woman, I disagree. Men can think their RMV goes up all they want with age, but, at the end of the day, it women who really decide that. And no, those guys truly are getting nothing. The only thing they are getting is bitter, much like how RP describes a post wall woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/19 11:54 PM
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I know a lot of dudes who slayed in their early 20s who don't get a look in now in their 30s. Their looks have gone, and they are still trying to hook up with the babe 20s year old girls, but the babe 20 year old girls are hooking up with the babe 20 year old guys...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/19 01:31 AM
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In all my time as a "career woman" I haven ever seen young pretty women throw themselves at old, pudgy balding men, even if they were the CEO. I have though, seen maaany old, balding and pudgy CEO's who think that young women fancy them, when its very obvious they make them feel uncomfortable and grossed out. It is far more of a fantasy for the men, that it is a reality.
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/19 06:10 AM
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s of these poor men. Suicidal older men and poor refugee young men. These are the areas MRA All of the retirees I now that volunteers are women (soup kitchens, crisis helplines etc) The men prefer to spend time fishing or tinkering with the boats etc
/r/ExRedPill14/02/19 12:58 AM
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w the years work? Yeah we don't really have "jocks" and cheerleaders over here that' I'm Brit/Aus :)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 12:50 AM
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We didn't have a "class president' at my school. Nor did we really have "jocks" or cheerleaders etc By year 12, all the "druggie" stoner types had dropped out and the kids who did well academically were also the popular kids. ​ For what its worth, my highs chool boyfriend had dropped out after year 11 and became an electrician. he actually smoked pot when we started dating, but goody two shoes me made him stop! LOL. ​ The only other boy I liked during high school didn't go to my high school, but…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/19 06:10 AM
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I know a few. My Aunt who is in her 70s. Never married or had kids. She is very active in her community, volunteers with refugee kids, sings in the church choir etc. She seems very content with her life. She has a great niece and nephew now that she takes a great interest in. She is also very wealthy. ​ All the others would be considered "career" women. I don't know them as well as my aunt, but they all lead glamorous style lives. Lots of travelling and events etc. I know most of these women thr…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 11:45 PM
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As apposed to your remedial knowledge of the English language? You've become a bore.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 07:00 AM
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Well, "Slut" was certainly a gendered term to describe a man, of unruly appearance in the Canterbury Tales.. you know, the first time the word was every recorded as being used....
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 06:58 AM
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Meh, it doesn't really matter about semantics. To me, a man that has slept with lots of over women is not a man I am going to sleep with. You can get mad all you want, but that's just how it is with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 06:56 AM
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I don't mean literally dirty. I don't want a man that has been passed around. If a man has slept with multiple people in my "greater circle", I'm not interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 05:46 AM
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u. This is basic stuff. Even under the m Call it what you want. But I don't want a dirty dick that has been around town.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 05:23 AM
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97% of my paycheck goes to student I know this isn't PF, but TBH, if you have student loans, neither you nor your SO should be giving money to the nail salon. I'm sure you are smarter than that!!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 11:18 PM
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possess the worst qualities of low-class, low-wealth men. (But remember folks, the Wall ain't real.) Even in this absolutely hypotheti ​ TBH, all the older men ive worked with have been gross. Sure they are hygienic, and some wore nice clothes, but they still smell like old men. And obviously looked old, grey hair, balding etc. Yuck!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 07:44 AM
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As a woman, I would only consider women to be my competition in regard to men. In all other things (my career for example) I compete against everyone in my field to be the best. In terms of sport, I am a figure skater, so I do compete against women in a literal sense - if a M2F wanted to compete against me, I wouldn't have much of an issue with it. Yes, they would likely have an advantage with strength (for jumps) but that is no different to a woman who is naturally stronger than me, or works ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 07:23 AM
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east like 7-8 years of schooling left. Unfortunately, I'll be done with school by the time I'm 25, so would it be best to work part-time in my mid/late 30's so that I won't have a gap i ​ What are you goals? If you want to have kids, waiting until your mid - late 30s to start trying isn't ideal. ​ What are you studying? Personally, I think every woman should work and earn her own until she is having babies or at the very least married to a very high level man who needs a wife to take care of thi…
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/19 04:23 AM
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nd scen Check out your nearest dive bar then! One that plays rock or indie bands etc But the point is, these guys hook up with hot girls because they are around them all the time, and the girls clearly like these skinny soys they go home with. ​ ​
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/19 05:38 AM
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All the "beta soy boys" I know are babes who hook up. A lot. Granted, i know them all from the band scene, but these dudes are friends with girls, and fuck girls. Make friends with these dudes. They will introduce to their fun partying gal pals if you aren't a douche. I am friends with a lot of these type of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/19 04:31 AM
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educated and leaving a really successful career and someone who has a GED and left a job at Targ Unfortunately, things can change so quickly, that if you have been out of the game for 10 years, the skills you learnt in college are often no longer relevant. The 10 year gap in work history alone is most likely going to fast track your application to the rejected pile. It is also really hard to build a "successful career" in only a couple of years out of college (assuming the aim is to get married …
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/19 01:44 AM
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Says the person using Wiki as a reference. Ill stick with the knowledge I gained through my Masters, but each to their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 03:27 AM
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Of course most people have to work. Most people are serfs. Keep telling yourself you are middle class if that makes you feel better.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 03:26 AM
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fter college and to a group of men selected for her as potential mates. I dunno, the Marquess of Blandford (future 13th Duke of Marlborough) who is 26, just married 31 year old Camilla Thorp. I don't know how much higher you get than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 03:17 AM
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Lol. no. The sad fact is MOST people are working class. The system was designed to be like this. It would only after WW2 that the notion of the majority being middle class emerged. It was easier to be upwardly mobile 50 years ago than now. The vast majority of USA citizens are working class, based on income. Other factors of course can affect class, education and accent, for example, but being able to live without working will always be the qualifier of the middle class, even if that seems unfai…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 02:30 AM
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r less of your income coming from non labor and owning outright your own home. So at least 1% of your income com ​ I actually agree with you for once Beachredwhine! ​ People seem to think that "middle class" means middle or average income. The fact is, most people are working class. If you can't afford to live without going to "work", then you are working class.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 01:40 AM
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Where do you live that 30 is even old? It's laughable to think that someone who was 31 and single would cry about it. I'm guessing you are very young. Like when you are 10 and you think that 16 is like, really really old....
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 01:01 AM
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Do people really not know that it's gross to flush with the lid up? I worry about your friend's hygiene.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 02:34 AM
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Lol what? You've completely missed the point. Of course wanting to fuck your partner should be a given. But OP can't even get a date, let alone a partner! If my partner, who is not some muscle bound meat head, had the same defeatist attitude as OP, we wouldn't be dating me. There a many women, like myself, who find the slim look attractive. OP has to find them. Not argue with women telling them their preferences are wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 05:01 AM
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Ok, so you are young. I thought that when you said that men liked varied body types - you clearly weren't of age around 2000 when it was box gap or go home alone. I have never, ever been to a hens night where the women were screaming in excitement because the stripper was hot. We scream and laugh because it is funny. You say you've "seen and heard". Well, if you saw me and my girls at a hens you would assume that we are screaming cos we thought the guy was hot too, when really, we, and 99% of ot…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 03:46 AM
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Ok, now you have lost it - strippers at hens parties? Have you ever been to a bachelorette party? The women are usually roaring with laughter at how GROSS the strippers are. It a very different vibe to Bucks and stag dos. ​ How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 03:24 AM
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t I am telling the truth. Do you think that my boyfriend cares that perhaps I am in a minority? No, he likes like, sweet, I've got a hot girlfriend who loves to fuck me. I suggest a similar attitude for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 03:12 AM
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gh. HAHAHA. No dude. I thikn you actually need to spend some time around actual women, and stop projecting what YOU find hot in men (its ok, you can find people of your own gender and it doesnt mean you are gay). ​ So, my ideal look is a very skinny man, rock and roll man. I really like young Bob Dylan for example. Young Mick Jagger. That look is HOT. For me, a man who can fit into jeans that are smaller than mine is very sexy. ​ Guys with that "swimmers" look get turned down by me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 02:51 AM
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You need to get over this. The swimmers body is not my type, I don't date men that look like that, cos im not into it. I like skinny dudes, with narrow shoulders. And yes, Im very good looking myself, have never had an issue with getting "high tier men" to commit to me. These attitudes are just stopping you from finding someone. If my man thought the way you do, he wouldn't be enjoying the daily benefits of our relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 02:45 AM
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The same is true for things like "thigh gaps" for women. If you don't have wider set hips, you are never going to get a gap no matter how much you diet. Same for bubble butts, big boobs etc. ​ Everyone looks better when they are in shape. So, there is that. Working out is never going to make you look "worse". Also, whilst that "swimmer" look may be ideal for many women (its certainly not mine) its not going to be a deal breaker for 99% if women. Just like who you see women with boyfriends and hu…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 01:58 AM
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What? You've lost it mate. Did you just ask the question so you can scream at the replies? What's your dating life like? At some point before sleeping with someone, the topic will come up, and if they are like "oh feminism, no", then again, its a no from me. Any man who believes that feminism is toxic, or means anything other than the equality of the sexes, isn't coming to pound town with me..
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 04:13 AM
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No, you are the one with issues my dear. What a wildly attacking comment! I turn down hot dudes all the time. I can afford to be extremely picky with what penis I choose. I've been off the market for a few years now, but, only having relationships with people whose values align with mine has always served me well.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 03:52 AM
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If a man does not identify as a feminist, then its a no from me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 03:38 AM
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Maybe, but isn't getting turned down at the end of the date a failure for men? I know a few women who went on dates with him, and the same thing happened.. ​
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 11:52 PM
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Meh. I know lots of dudes who despite being ripped still can't get anywhere with women as they have no social skills. I went on a date with a guy like this, so beautiful, but so dull. ​ Each to their own though, if its working for you, stick to it dude! :)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 10:47 PM
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The only way to improve social skills to to practice them. No point getting ripped if you have the social awareness of a mop.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 04:25 AM
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partner that is a better wife/husband and a better mother/father. I make it easy on myself and my partner and avoid having kids. In any case I am needy as fuck so I looked for a partner that would rather be a SAHW instead of worki Ahh, you want a band maid!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 04:27 AM
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Who are these people that must hook up with everyone they spend time with? Seems weird to me.... Jesues christ. Are you like 14? Yes, my friend who I have been friend with for 16 years have been pining away for me. ​ It sound like you need to like, just talk to one woman dude. We aren't that scary.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 04:01 AM
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ver support I wouldn't mind.. neither did my SIL or my best friend.... STAHD are quite common in my circles. No point having the bread winner stop working just to fullfill some outdated role.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 04:00 AM
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Based on what I read on here, I know must live in a weird egalitarian bubble. I do see more and more SAHDs, compared to 15 years ago, and more men being open to the idea, so maybe it will change. ​ I do think that children should spend time with parents when they are little, instead of being in most of the time, but I think its maddness for a woman who is the breadwinner to be the one who automatically had to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 03:58 AM
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My circle includes a lot of STAHDs. I know Reddit considers them the end of the world though.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 03:38 AM
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numbers. If a person that spends that much time at work can only be either a mediocre spouse or a mediocre parent, then how come men routinely do a shit job at both? Ha! Gold!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 03:22 AM
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How can a man be a good partner with only 7 hours a day? Do men have extra hours that aren't available to women? Do they get a 30 hour day?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 03:21 AM
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If you are sexually attracted to every woman you know, you probably need to get higher standards dude. I know for one of my mates, Im just not his type at all. He prefers tall lanky brunettes, and I am a petite curvy blonde.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 12:09 AM
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What? Non of them are in love with me, there is not prolonged agony. Are you in love with every woman you know? Good grief!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 12:03 AM
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I would have told them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 11:57 PM
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I'm not single. I am very happy with my long term partner. Where did you get that I was single from? More projection I guess!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 06:04 AM
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Why so bitter? Maybe if you had decent people and friends in your life, like myself, you'd be a bit happier. Some food for thought maybe. Just as I thought, cannot construct a sentence or argument to save themselves. ​
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 05:36 AM
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I've never branch swang. I'm not short on offers, but, I've never dropped a man for another, nor have a I ever cheated. I've got my own cash, so a partners income doesn't bother me, in fact, I have supported 2 different men through Uni in my time. ​ So much of TRP doesn't apply to wealthy women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 05:35 AM
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ear the norm. For every one woman like you there's at least 10 women like what I described. There's simply not enough sane women to go around and it inflates their value to encourage rampant hypergamy. It's why even red pilled women don't make the situation better on a cultural level, it's a matter of supply being low and demand being high driving the prices way up. Even if every man wants and needs one, he will not be able to afford it nor is there enough for every man to get one in the first p…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 04:57 AM
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Lol what? Not only you need therapy but you need to go back to remedial English, non of what you wrote makes sense. Why so bitter? Maybe if you had decent people and friends in your life, like myself, you'd be a bit happier. Some food for thought maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 04:56 AM
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If they did then they did the appropriate thing and kept it to themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 04:53 AM
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he more she's into me. Even more so the worse I treat her the more loyal she is. Makes no fucking sense to me at all and it's made it pretty hard to respect women as a gender. If civility is unattractive to women then it will eventually be bred out, that is the bottom line. I'd wonder what it's like in china I hear there's significantly more men than women and yet only ​ Any man who is rude to me does not even get a second glance or thought from me. ​ Sound like these girls all need a copy of Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 04:20 AM
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ou tell your friend to lay off she'll double down, triple down. But hey that did work. I did indeed end up going home, and with my friend. Who also was my same friend ten years later who got married but when I was sad and in a bad place getting divorced? She did indeed talk her husband into paying for her to come visit me. I was a very sad friend, after all. Oh the many more stories I could tell. ​ Meh, I have male friends Ive been friedns with over 15+ years. Non of the scenariors your write ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 04:12 AM
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Sorry, it doesn't happen. Yea sure guys and girls can be casual work friends and what not. But a "hey come over and let's watch a movie" friendship that isn't in a group setting? Nope. ​ I have male friends I have been friends with 15+ years, and do all the things you describe. Go out for dinner, movies, even went on a holiday just us. Zero boning or anything of a romantic nature has ever occurred. ​ Who are these people that must hook up with everyone they spend time with? Seems weird to me....
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 04:04 AM
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I have several male friends that I have maintained friendships from our late teens/early mid 20s. Never hooked up, we just mates. We hang out, have drinks, go to gigs, etc. I've helped these dudes move house, fix broken cars and listened to their lady woes among other things. Platonic friendships are absolutely possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 03:44 AM
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I'm not in the US, but yes, housing is on par with LA/NY. A studio will set you back about 500k.....
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 05:33 AM
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I fit this steryotype. I am a woman and bought an apartment a couple of years ago. I love that I have a pool and grounds etc and just pay the fees for the upkeep. ​ For me, location is key, and whilst id prefer a town house, i don't have 4 million to drop on one in my neighborhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 05:24 AM
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hamed for either being a cad or for extramaritally banging cads is some terrible oppressive outcome, as feminists claim. To me that seems like a good thing for society at large That says more about you than her. Did you try therapy to help with such unhealthy thoughts?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 06:10 AM
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I like rock and roll boys. Generally they are slim, and don't do the whole lifting "bro" look (its generally uncool in those scenes). I love slim, skinny me, so there is that. They often take more interest in fashion too, wear clothes that a cool, and again, no lame bro clothes, cargos, baggy jeans etc. Lots of women like the arty look. ​ Basicially, the answer is they ARE good looking. There are many women, like myself, who only go for this skinny, arty types, who find the bulky gym bros gross.…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 05:37 AM
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Actually he does yes. he is super hot though, and amazing in bed, and cool to be around. Bank balance means very little to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/18 12:26 AM
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good point. His neck is on the line, so its reasonable to be risk averse No neck is on the line for a woman like me. I earn 6 figures and come from a no alimony country. I have more to lose than my current partner. ​ If a man cant make it official, he 'aint perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/18 11:56 PM
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Is it because you've now hit the wall and women don't find you cute any more?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/18 03:21 AM
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If a man gives me reason to be jealous he is gone. ​ I don't put up with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/18 10:58 PM
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AHAHAHAHHAHAHA ​ I guess you don't date many men then.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/18 05:53 AM
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If men are so good at reading facial expressions, then why don't they leave me alone when they are boring the hell out of me?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/18 05:22 AM
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Have you considered migrating to a better country? The US does seem like a bad place to live, based on what you all are saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 01:22 AM
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I’m not in the US. If I go to hospital, my taxes cover it. I live in a country that has excellent worker protections. At the end of the day, each to their own. But, my parter knows that I blow him, give him sex, and cool him dinner because I want to. Not because I have to . Not because it’s “my job”. He knows I have other options, I dont have to be with him. I chose it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 01:15 AM
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I am older than you think I am. I have lived and survived a recession. ​ I have been able to amass enough capital at this point, that even if my career did taper off (which is unlikely, I am in high demand), I would be fine. I plan to essentially retire at 50. If my partner leaves me, i can just have sexy toy boys. ​ What will you do if your husbands career tapers off or implodes?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 12:56 AM
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Do you have a severance package if you get fired from being a bang maid?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 12:39 AM
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I guess I feel even more sadder for you. ​ Where I am its standard for men and women to earn and contribute the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 12:39 AM
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Holy fuck! what a reach! ​ At least if you're ugly, you might have a shot as a fiction writer. SMH. ​
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 12:05 AM
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Where do you live? I feel very sorry for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 11:57 PM
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I think what you really value is not having to do any of the drudgery of keeping a home yourself. ​ Very selfish. ​
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 11:55 PM
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Cool story. ​ I make 6 figures and can still make dinner from scratch and keep a clean and beautiful home. It's called being an adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 11:53 PM
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I prefer younger men. No one finds wrinkles and thinning hair hot. ​ ​
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 11:44 PM
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I must live among the beautiful people. He looks like trash. If 50% of men look like that or worse, no wonder men claim they can't get laid. Look in the mirror and shape up boys!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/18 07:31 AM
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I value my partner for many things, but non of which are his providing skills - which is good, because he doesn't provide from me. I'm sure he is happy knowing that I love him for his mind and body, and not what bank his balance is. Ive had men try to do that whole " i can give you a nice life, I can provide" and it's a turn off. If all you got is that, then you've got nothing. Different circles though - i guess id be considered UMC, with most of the women in my circle making more than, if not t…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/18 03:24 AM
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That all sounds very sad to me, but each to their own! :)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/18 01:49 AM
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I guess I worded it wrong - I care about my own money, and use my career to get there. For me, its not about owning flashy things (cars, luxury bags etc), its that I own my own home, and don't have to answer to anyone. I never had to fear being left destitute (I know too many women that relied on their husbands, only to be left in poverty - non alimony country) Serious question, do you expect your partner to stand by you, if you lost your job? If you no longer had the status, would she still lov…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/18 01:33 AM
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My dad put his career before his family - died when he was a millionaire at 44. His legacy is kids who don't remember him, who don't have much of a good word to say... (he was also a cheater) This is probably why I don't care for mens status, money or job. What good it is? Anyone can die and any moment...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/18 01:18 AM
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Where do you live that that's average? Dudes a 2 a best here.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/18 12:12 AM
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What does that mean? He looks like some random slob to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/18 04:02 AM
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Ha, this kinda happened to me. Supported the bum through 2 years of university - dropped me like a hot potato once he graduated and got a grad job. men are gold diggers.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/18 02:50 AM
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Their perceived level on intelligence, and their "earning potential". Jokes on them though, my career in the arts has made me a very wealthy woman, double what an engineer earns.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/18 02:31 AM
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I worked with engineers about 10 years ago. The young ones were such bores- the graduates to the mid 30s guys. Dull as a pile of bricks. Also, so arrogant. Arrogant and dull is not a bangable combo.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/18 02:16 AM
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Really? I don't see it as all. She is pretty, and he looks like a hairy thumb! Would not bone.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/18 02:09 AM
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Yeah, he hasn't aged well. I thought he was 45 - 50. Is this what they think young women are into? Because, I'm only 5 years younger than him, and he is waaaay to old and not cute enough for me to consider...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/18 01:53 AM
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I think they think of us a Unwomen...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 07:26 AM
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Given your constant rage on here, I would wager that I am happier than you...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/18 06:11 AM
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I do. I'm in my mid 30s and can't get over how much men my age have let themselves go. Gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/18 03:19 AM
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Teachers go up to about 85k here, which is about the average for lawyers as well. The teacher does get 12 weeks paid holidays though, which makes a difference. Of course there are more opportunities for an increased salary as a lawyer, however, less job opportunities over all. I find it interesting how this stuff varies by country :)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/18 11:00 AM
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Totally off topic, but where I live, a graduate Lawyer makes 50k a year, and a graduate teacher makes about 70k...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/18 02:30 AM
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really? That's like, a standard high schooler date where Im from. Lol. Imagine being impressed by a beach and fire! HAHA.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/18 11:18 PM
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But why? Men in their 20s are much hotter.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/18 11:16 PM
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You must live in a different world to me... that doesn't reflect the society I live in at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/18 11:13 PM
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I don't give cheaters a second chance. It's been a policy that has served me well.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/18 07:49 AM
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I'd say its about 50/50 for men I know. Definitely the ones that have worked out doorsy jobs have fared worse. Recently a dude who turned me when we were 16 looked me up on FB - I was shocked, dude looked about 45 to me at least, but looking by his profile, hes spent a lot of time on boats. I will say, that pretty much all the men I know are showing more signs of aging than women my age, but I put that down to self care by the women. Also, it seemed like the girls struggled with weight more in t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/18 11:46 PM
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Holy fuck. You need to stop spending money on hair straitening,and start spending it on therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/18 01:11 AM
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I thought you said you were 6?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/18 01:09 AM
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I care about looks. I'd take a broke babe over a rich ugly or even average looking man.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/18 12:58 AM
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Mid 30s - I still only like the fresh face look. Beards are a turn off for me. not into tattoos either. Prefer slim/skinny dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/18 12:23 AM
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OMG do not be a weekend warrior with a faux hawk.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/18 02:31 AM
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Well yeah, don't date liars. Someone lies, then next.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/18 03:41 AM
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12 year olds generally don't have wipe enough set hips to birth naturally. Good god.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/18 02:57 AM
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That seems very specific...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/18 02:45 AM
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Or he could be like me and earn 6 figures and have an active social life. Lifting bros are gross. Give me a skinny man any way of the week!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/18 07:04 AM
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Correct. I developed early, and looked very mature for my age, but I was not ready or interested in sex until I was 16/17. I was emotionally scared by men who thought that a 12 year old with boobs was appropriate to hit on. Gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/18 07:00 AM
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Yes, you would prefer that she didn’t love him, because that would suit your narrative. I feel sorry for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/18 06:54 AM
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same.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/18 06:17 AM
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My grandparents were married for 70 years. Ill never forget the hearbreak my grandma went through when he died. I spent much of the week following just holding her as she wept. "He was my whole life" still gets me :(
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/18 06:16 AM
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Anecdotally, I see that happening in my circle now. Have quite a few mates that thought they would be able to get a early 30s woman to have kids with when they were post 40. None of them have achieved this.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/18 01:48 AM
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If it makes you feel better, I’ve been rejected and “friend zoned” as well, and it sucks. Watching the man you care and love hook up with some over girl and you go home alone. rejection sucks for everyone. Anyway, I think I’ve revealed enough personal anecdotes for this thread. It’s been nice discussing / debating! :)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/18 09:10 AM
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Weird, every comment I have made indicated the opposite, and one small grammatical error you think I've back flipped. One thinks that perhaps you are looking to catch the women out! haha. Its all anecdotal, but, non of the girls I was friends with in my early 20's were into casual hookups. Sure they slept with guys who they weren't dating, but they were hoping that was what it would lead to. So many tears and drinks thrown in faces. Early 20s is quite a dramatic time!! One of my male friends onc…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/18 08:45 AM
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"Boy's don't like smart girls". From my mother, in about 1997.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/18 01:25 AM
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I get it. Despite what many assume about women, no one was showering me with compliments as a teenager... The first time someone ever told me I was "hot" was when I was 19, and I thought they were playing a joke on me, because no one had ever said that before. I had one bf previously, yes, but he was kinda a jerk and told me I was fat all the time (I had a BMI of about 18..). It took me until I was about 22 to realize that I actually was attractive. So I really do get it. It didn't matter how ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/18 12:57 AM
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No, Im just saying that skinny dude, who is 5'7, doesn't need to go all Rambo and think he will be a virgin until he can bench press 100kg or whatever. A lot of the time, this low self esteem is what is off putting, and then they go and try and change to be "what women want" when they were that way in the beginning. My advice I give men (who listen) works. It's brutal, but its works. Women are so much more attracted to styling (over physical features) than many realise. It does depend on where y…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/18 12:48 AM
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And yet I know "Indian" men who are very attractive. Are your clothes cool and hot, or do they just "fit", because that is a major different. Your hair is done, but is it in a current and trendy style? I know men who have paper bag faces, or zero hair, and they are getting laid left right an centre. My brother has been bald as a baby since he was 24, and managed to sleep with 100 women other than his wife over the past 10 years, so, its not everything. Most women love fashion/style etc. If you d…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/18 12:37 AM
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Also worked well for the men I've dated too. You realise I was dating/sleeping with men right?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/18 12:32 AM
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That setence is woredly poorly. I was looking for relationships. "I have certainly had sex with men that didn't turn into LTR also, however, that (LTRs) was what I was looking for" is how I should have worded it. Love how you just jumped to conclusions.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/18 12:31 AM
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Don't be ridiculous. Some of the hottest me i have known have not been white. Some of the most attractive men I know do not have "cute faces". Some of the sexiest men I know are skinny. Get your hair done, if you have bad skin go to a skin care counter, get clothes that fit. Work on your conversational skills. I have known some extremely beautiful women to cry over the ugliest of man beasts. If you aren't getting laid, cut the crap and look at what else you have to offer. What you were born with…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/18 03:00 AM
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I will agree with this. I have turned down sex with actual "famous rockstars" who wanted (just) sex - these are not men that would consider a relationship with me under any circumstances, not when they can legit date Kendal Jenner or whoever, but, on those nights, I was cute/sexy enough for them. Im an attractive lady in normal people standards, but Im certainly no Kate Moss etc. The issue is though, that the abundant dick isn't desirable. Call it supply and demand or whatever. If you think that…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/18 02:56 AM
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That makes more sense. That type of attitude is what got many of my girlfriends hurt in our early 20's - the guys just wanted sex and faked the relationship to get it. I think some men think that because women can get another penis easily (one we want though is a different issues), we aren't hurt by this. Just because the sheer number of available penis makes them seem disposable, doesn't mean we thought the man we wanted to be with was.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/18 01:52 AM
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Yeah, women want to date cool guys. That's not really anything new. That's the problem, guys think that women don't want to date nice guys. That is false. We don't want to date dull guys.... All bar my current SO, everyone I have dated has been either a musician or some arty guy, I work in that industry, so ive always gone for men with similar interests. (My current partner is an exception, because he is just so damn hot. But he is also super intelligent, and enjoys arty things). It's also worth…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/18 01:25 AM
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I am the same. Every LTR I have had started out by meeting / hanging out / dating / official / sex. Was never into casual hookups as a young woman. Am 34 for reference.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/18 11:41 PM
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Is it? I mean, I just don't find that many men bangable. I would say 2/3 is practically no standards! haha It does depend on location, there have certainly been cities where men are hotter than others.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/18 11:30 PM
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I actually don't think those are bad odds. I would struggle to find more than 1 man in 100 that I would want to sleep with.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/18 02:44 AM
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Are we really outliers though? The majority of women in my circle out earn their partners. House husbands are pretty normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/18 02:12 AM
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The man has the biological ability to walk away from pregnancy. Until that changes, the decision toe terminate or bring to birth is the woman's choice. Once we have the technology to transfer a bunch of cells from a woman to incubate to a man, it can become an egalitarian decision. until them, men can suck it like, like women do with all the other natural shit we get stuck with.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/18 04:40 AM
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I like skinny men cos i find that hot. I really like when a man has skinny upper arms, and boney elbows. Maybe its because i was a teen in the 90s when heroin chic was in. I like that skinny pale rock star look. Abs and sqaure jaws gross me out.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/18 04:28 AM
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Ew no. Also, the guys TRP seem think are hot, or think women want to bang, are generally gross to me. Id rather die than have a state appointed penis.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/18 04:25 AM
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He was on the decline in 2005 (in my eyes). He already had wrinkles around his eyes and crows feet. Too much partying, and not enough SPF maybe haha. Weirdly enough, his current 20 yer old gf looks about 30 to me! She at least looks age appropriate for him. Fun fact, her mother is younger than Leo!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/18 02:06 AM
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Agreed. Im 34, and would not hook up with Leo (obviously he wouldn't be wanting me either) as he is now. He looks old and bloated. My SO is far hotter than him. Leo at 21? Yes please!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/18 01:45 AM
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Im not having children. And I am very happy with that decision. There is no incentive for me to breed. Only everything to loose, as my friends with kids going through divorce now are showing me. If my friend with the 3 young children had of spent her 20s getting a career, she would not now be flung into poverty by the man who left her to feed her children with no income. I still think you are a troll. No one could be this obtuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/18 06:17 AM
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Holy fuck. Are you a troll? I don't live in the US, so no alimony. The issue is they didn't get their careers in order, because they relied on their man to provide for them financially. Or they had kids and took the 2-3 years off and now work part time. Well, they have zero earning potential now without going back out to re-train, which is harder to do when older, especially if you have kids. One of them married a hard working guy and stayed home raising their 3 kids - he left her 2 months ago f…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/18 05:48 AM
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Do you go to therapy for these issues? I have a similar background, except my dad ran off with his secretary and 5 month old baby when i was 6 months old, and yet, I don't have these weird bitter thoughts. My mum remarried to a lovely man (also divorced with 2 kids). They are still married 25 years later. Maybe it's a bit Brady Bunch, but despite by dad bailing and him having a new fam, my siblings and I, and mother got a happy ending. My step brothers are also very close with my mother, and the…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/18 05:21 AM
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Meh, I’m laying next to a man half his age, and he makes Sylvester look like crap. But each to their own. I’m not even American, so accusing me of being from a flyover is of zero insult to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/18 01:30 PM
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If your face looks like that at 35 then yeah, I’m gonna think you’ve been hitting the glass pipe.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/18 06:27 AM
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So, Im 34 and just googled what Sylvester is looking like currently. Holy fuck! If you think that he looks 35, then im sorry, you must have only seen 30 year old meth addicts. Dude looks a solid 75 years old! SMH.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/18 06:51 AM
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What are you smoking? I want some too.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 05:56 AM
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"Cause yeah my wife don't trust me to go to a club without her at all." Seems like a rule to me - he's not allowed to go to the club alone because she doesn't trust him. Why anyone would stay with someone they don't trust is beyond me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 05:46 AM
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Lol what? It would be tiring for me to live with a spouse that put rules on me, but each to their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 05:20 AM
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LOL you aren't allowed to go to a club? That wouldn't fly with me at all. If people gonna cheat, they gonna cheat. At the library, at work, wherever. What a tiring way to live.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 04:16 AM
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Im 34, and back when I was 16/18/20 (late 90s/early 2000s), my girlfriends and I thought that 30+ men were gross. Even a 25 year old was gross and old. The oldest I've ever gone is 2 years older. Older men still don't do it for me. I mean, there are always going to be outliers, but women with options will take the best option. And old red faced wrinkled man is not an young woman's best option.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/18 08:19 AM
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I dunno, I don't lie about those things... But you wont believe me because it doesn't suit the narrative. That's why I don't like you guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/18 01:41 AM
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Gross. Pass me the gun, I choose death instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/18 05:56 AM
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Ive had 4 LTRs. (3 years). Ended because we wanted different things . I wanted to move to the city, he wanted to stay in our little country town. He still lives there, and I now live in a major city, so it was the right decision. For what its worth, he cheated on me once. (2 years) he cheated all the time. And then dumped me. and then wanted me back. Oh hell no! (7 years). I wanted marriage, he said he did in the beginning, but then changed his mind... the classic, together in our mid 20s, and t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/18 04:57 AM
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I would. I get my fair share of amount of attention from men. I mean, in your RP terms, Ive got a spot on BMI, Hip to waist ratio and big boobs. Long hair. Little nose. Big eyes. I'm in my 30s, so I've definitely lived through what TRP would have deemed my best years (LOL), and still never cheated. I have a weekly side gig that is the the realm of performance and music (not stripping or anything close too. I'm fully clothed). and get offers at the end of each gig. Never once been tempted. Id rat…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/18 04:44 AM
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Meh, I'm a woman who has never cheated. Been cheated on though.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/18 04:36 AM
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"I then went down the redpill rabbit hole. Some things I do believe true like looks determine many things. for example I would be resentful that women would get certain jobs. to me they seemed attractive thus leading employers to hire them based on looks ie sex sells." As a woman, I'm going to offer a counter point on this. My appearance has actively hindered me in my career. I'm blonde, slim curvy with big boobs. The amount of times I have been over looked because people assume I'm a "bimbo", o…
/r/ExRedPill07/08/18 03:40 AM
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I know, however, I was referencing a very common held belief (and post above this one in PPD) by the RP that women are educating themselves out of the dating market, because they don't want to date dumb trade educated or non educated men. Even if a degree is "easy", the course load of 4 years at least takes care of the lazy and Netflix jab though, surely...? I'm just pointing out wildly different over reaching claims about the same gender on the same sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/18 06:46 AM
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Wait, i thought women were educating themselves out the dating pool... How does one be lazy and less intelligent, whilst dominating higher education and higher earning jobs. The mind boggles!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/18 05:49 AM
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Check out your own family free on Ancenestory. I was shocked when I did mine and saw how many women died young compared to men. The men whose wives died were remarried within a year in most cases, and more children were born. Sometimes these second younger wives died too. Childbirth was once not the "safe" medical procedure it is today. Also, wars end. Child birth is constant. Especially when women were having 6-8 kids each.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/18 05:40 AM
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No, not bored. But I have grown apart from people. My high school boyfriend I was with from 16-19 (almost 20), and I broke up with him. But that was because I wanted to move to the city, and travel etc. And he wanted to stay in our small town. We just had different live goals. 15 years later, I live in a big city, and he still lives in that small town, so it was the right decision for both of us. But that's not being bored though, that's people changing and growing. I've only been with my so for…
/r/ExRedPill20/07/18 01:31 AM
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Ive never cheated. Have certainly been cheated on by men though!
/r/ExRedPill20/07/18 12:06 AM
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Yep! There are cheaters of all genders. I've had men cheat of me, but I've never cheated on a man, so.... Its funny they claim men have wife goggles, but then there are loads of posts about how their wife is fat and ugly now, so they deserve a 18 year old HB10.
/r/ExRedPill10/07/18 01:39 AM
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I feel like i need to save what Im about to write, because its about the 10th time I've commented it this week... but here we go. Im not solely attracted to tall guys (i don't care either way, Im a petite woman, so everyone is tall). I am not attracted to big shoulder, I like slim men. I like men with more angular jaws, I actually find square jaws really gross and ugly. The man you are describing sounds like some cartoon "hunk", when women are varied creatures, with their own tastes and preferen…
/r/ExRedPill09/07/18 03:08 AM
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It makes you sad, because it is sad. As a woman much older than you, I can tell you with complete confidence that their pseudo science is rubbish. People are different. Of course there are some things in life that are unfair. Women do have it easier when trying to get sex (just sex) but that more comes down to men being thirsty AF. Prettier people do have it easy in life, but, that's not to say that looks are everything. Men do tend to have the upper hand with commitment. But not every case is b…
/r/ExRedPill06/07/18 01:02 AM
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Hers another insight for you... One of the most disappointing thing for me, is when I have a new friend, who happens to be a man, who then reveals that he was only looking to hook up (and then disappear once they realize I 'aint gonna cheat or leave my man) I bet those guys go off and whinge that nice guys can't get laid.. but they weren't nice guys were they? They lied and pretended to be my friend to get in my pants. So yeah, not all "nice guys" are actually that nice.. and women aren't idiots…
/r/ExRedPill06/07/18 12:16 AM
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NO, you are wrong. So So So wrong. Im actually laughing HARD at you right now. Please don't tell me what i find attractive and what makes me want to bone someone. I'm a good looking lady . Since leaving high school, I have had zero problems finding men interested in me. I've only dated men I think are 10s. Slim build, more angular jaw (I hate square jaws.. gross), dark hair.. one thing really really like is skinny arms with angular elbows. HOT! I don't care about height. Im only 5'2 myself, so e…
/r/ExRedPill06/07/18 12:06 AM
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That’s what happens when you have friends with an illness, it can become a drag.
/r/ExRedPill04/07/18 01:04 AM
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Apologies in that case. What did you mean about wasting your time?
/r/ExRedPill03/07/18 04:43 AM
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Sadly, i think he means that he is wasting his time as this friendship wont lead to sex....
/r/ExRedPill03/07/18 03:45 AM
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Nope! A weird sect of my family are in a cult where they all get married at 18 as virgins.... they mostly get divorced after cheating (both sides) and the husband beating. Literally the divorce rate in the cult is like 80%. As my Papa said, you gotta try before you buy!
/r/ExRedPill29/06/18 01:24 AM
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. Why on earth would the number matter? Think it through. I personally cannot think of any reason except for a self fulfilling prophecy where people get insecure about their partner's number and sabotage their own relationsh Please share the studies.
/r/ExRedPill29/06/18 01:22 AM
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I'm 34. Since I was 12, I liked the same type of guys (slim, dark hair). I have never had sex with a big muscle guy. I don't like the the look, i don't find it hot. You could line up all the men Ive had sex with, and they all look similar. Just like some guys like big boobs, and some like little boobs, women have different tastes also. When i look at the men my friends married, they certainly don't all fall into once category either. Ill never forget when i was 22, this man I worked with (early …
/r/ExRedPill29/06/18 01:12 AM
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Really? As a woman, i think their theories are laughable. I must be a fucking unicorn.
/r/ExRedPill29/06/18 12:17 AM
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ng, 'dreading' a girl or the out right rage, but that they feel they are entitled to their girlfriends bodies. If they want sex their girls are expected to give it. And the WRP seem to agree. I've seen som Yeah, they are quite rapey... which of course they blame on the women, cos , you know, AWALT.
/r/ExRedPill29/06/18 12:15 AM
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Well done on seeing the light! I don't know what to say to help you move forward, but, i can tell you, im a woman (post wall) who has never cheated, has never left a dude for another dude, provides for myself and doesn't want or need anyone's bucks. Objectively, I'm attractive by western standards, and Ive personally never been attracted to "big alpha types", and a smirking Chad would get no where with me. Women are all different. When i read TRP posts i literally laugh, because they are clearly…
/r/ExRedPill29/06/18 12:10 AM
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Not really. I mean, I work with young people, and have a side gig in a night club, so I’m not exactly living under a rock. Young people have always wanted sex. The young girls I work with complain it’s hard to find a guy who’s not hooking up with other girls. Most of them don’t really bother with tinder etc now, cos they want actual boyfriends. I do think that tinder has make hookups easier, and has probably dehumanised it a bit. You used to have to actually approach real life people to get sex,…
/r/ExRedPill26/06/18 11:36 AM
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I once was a younger woman... I wasn’t born in my mid 30s ;) My friends didn’t cheat back then either... we sure got cheated on though.
/r/ExRedPill26/06/18 05:54 AM
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Try not to let the paranoia overtake you and seriously try to stop reading TRP. It’s a dangerous cult that plays on your paranoias. If you read stories all day of women cheating on men, you’re going to think that all women cheat on men. It’s the same thing as if you read stories all day about Chinese people stealing bikes (random ex Imagine how much it sucks being 18 and being hit on by men 25+. Its a myth that young women are attracted to older men with money. As a teenager (and still now) when…
/r/ExRedPill22/06/18 01:03 AM
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well, I'm a woman, and even before i was "post wall" i didn't behave in this way. I've never left a partner for another man. I've never cheated. I've yet to find any RP theories that actually apply to me, or my friends.. you know, actual real life women....
/r/ExRedPill22/06/18 12:54 AM
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Agreed. I am not at all attracted to men who aren't emotionally open.
/r/ExRedPill22/06/18 12:41 AM
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Nope. My type has remained the same since I was about 13.
/r/ExRedPill21/01/18 11:07 PM
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All that article proves is that women like different things. 50% surveyed like athletic, 50% prefer a softer "dad bod". I wont what % of men out there go for the "mom bod".... Personally, I couldn't care about height, and find muscles/built guys unattractive.
/r/ExRedPill19/01/18 03:11 AM
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