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That’s why I said 6ft “PLUS”.
/r/BlackPillScience12/04/26 04:18 PM
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Women rate their affair partners as significantly more attractive than their affair partners Typo?
/r/BlackPillScience09/03/26 02:35 AM
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Being 6ft+ is playing on a significantly easier level of difficulty.
/r/BlackPillScience22/02/26 01:29 AM
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Yes. Lol I’ve seen first hand how attractive dudes get away for shit that would ruin and unattractive man’s life
/r/BlackPillScience14/02/26 09:20 PM
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In my opinion, it’s diminishing marginal returns and overall attractiveness is a multi-variable weighted equation of: looks, money, status, and social skills. Peak Leo is like an 8 or high 9/10, depending on who you ask. Jeff is like a 4 or 5. I sense that looks are the highest rated factor, perhaps even exponentially? So at a certain level of aesthetics, almost no amount of money can save you. And like you said, DiCaprio can at least provide a highly competitive lifestyle because he’s a multi-m…
/r/BlackPillScience06/01/26 06:29 PM
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In the words of Gucci Mane, “Money make ya handsome, even if ya ugly.”
/r/BlackPillScience06/01/26 06:21 PM
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Don’t even know who that is. It seems you need to take a chill pill.
/r/BlackPillScience28/12/25 01:46 PM
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Never even heard of Clair Obscur lol, and I’ve dated and gone out with a lot of “booktok” girlies. My ex used to like reading a series about blue aliens from a different planet that have multiple penises. There’s some other series about a “Minotaur Milking” or something that has like 23,000 reviews on the first book. I feel like the average female gooner is into weirder shit than the average male gooner. I’ve been watching porn for 15+ years, and I still just watch “2 people have sex, preferably…
/r/BlackPillScience27/12/25 09:04 PM
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My ex was like that. Deep down the BDSM pipeline and familiar with a bunch of hardcore sex terms I had never even heard of deep into my 20s, and I’ve historically consumed too much porn 😂 Also reminds me of the Aella Girl on Twitter. She said she hosts sex parties, and wanted to have a rape / no consent themed sex party. Said it was hard to find men who were genuinely into it and not just pretending to be into it. In contrast, she said there were far more women interested in it than men. Edit: R…
/r/BlackPillScience27/12/25 06:31 PM
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There are significant differences between what women look for in short term vs long term mates. Dr. David Buss wrote extensively about it in “The Evolution of Desire”. You can also likely find him talking about it in some of his many podcast interviews.
/r/BlackPillScience17/11/25 02:17 AM
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“Liking” them is one thing. We all know that. No shit. Giving them passes to exhibit antisocial, negative, and abusive traits is another. Especially considering so many women make claims about personality being the big factor when attractive guys can have the exact same or worse personality. This tells us personality is often extremely secondary to looks, which is what the blackpill is. That’s what we’re talking about here. Now, one might say “Guys put looks over personality too!” Many do. Diffe…
/r/BlackPillScience19/10/25 03:59 PM
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What country are you in? And yeah I agree.
/r/BlackPillScience20/09/25 09:07 PM
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Then it seems there are a huge % of women that are red flags (this isn’t to say the same dienst hold true for guys. Lol). I do have experience splitting expenses with a long term partner. And it seems like 95% of the posts and comments I see from women online regarding paying for the first date are usually along the lines of “If he asks to split, I’m not texting him back.” Lol Probably on 95% of dates (filtering for first 3 dates) I’ve been on, women indicated no interest in contributing. One gi…
/r/BlackPillScience20/09/25 08:54 PM
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It is, according to Dr. David Buss and his 37 cultures study. Women are simply far more selective than men. Even this study says women are going for (physically) stronger men. It actually reminds me of the opening to Idiocracy where the football player jock and his father produced a double digit amount of kids with multiple women.
/r/BlackPillScience20/09/25 08:39 PM
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Need Of course they don’t need it. They still effectively demand that we pay for the majority of stuff. Not only are they all saying it on social media, I come across it first hand in my irl dating life.
/r/BlackPillScience20/09/25 08:37 PM
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Yeah that’s only about 5% of guys. The rest of us have to actually work and pass all the games and tests lol
/r/BlackPillScience20/09/25 08:12 PM
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I feel like that’s a relatively normal response for a second date. By then, you have gotten your foot in the door and have established some attraction. If that were one of your very first things you said to her before establishing any rapport, that’s not sliding unless you’re a Chad / Chad-lite 😂
/r/BlackPillScience27/08/25 09:07 PM
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Lol I dated a girl with multiple sisters. I got pretty close with the family, and my gf at the time basically told me everything about their dating lives. I saw firsthand how they would get heinous/sexualized/objectifying messages from men on Tinder with their opening message, and they’d still respond to and entertain those guys because they were attractive. As a mid looking dude, I was shocked by this. I asked my gf at the time about this. I asked something like “So women will respond to guys w…
/r/BlackPillScience24/08/25 03:04 AM
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There’s a difference between being from the ghetto and having ghetto habits. It’s usually the ghetto habits that make you look bad (unless you have exceptionally good genetics where you look good even with horrible habits and a horrible lifestyle). A good example is Chrisean Rock. She was FINE SHIT, to use the zoomer term. Now, IMO, she’s high key chopped. Only a fellow ghetto dude would want that.
/r/BlackPillScience01/08/25 03:57 AM
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I think the question of interest is how attractive are these women (or in evopsych terms, their mate value). I went to school in a district that had a decent mixture of middle / upper middle class suburban kids, hood kids, and white trash kids. Of course the ghetto / trashy guys will have little issue getting the ghetto / trashy girls. They’re basically a perfect match.
/r/BlackPillScience31/07/25 12:06 AM
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true. though that's not a human thing. across most species, the average woman has higher mate value than the average man, as their ability to reproduce is much more constrained than men. it's more of a nature/biology level thing than a social thing. though, the biological foundation does, in many ways, lead to the social outcome.
/r/BlackPillScience07/07/25 05:09 PM
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When they literally are involuntarily celibate lol
/r/BlackPillScience16/06/25 10:39 PM
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Yeah, I was low balling 😂
/r/BlackPillScience11/06/25 12:56 AM
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The average woman (let alone women of above average attractiveness) literally have more attention than they know what to do with. They’ve got countless dudes trying to follow and DM them on social media, can easily get over a THOUSAND likes on a dating app in a month, have dudes flirting with them in person to the point of annoyance. It’s little wonder that this might lead them to narcissistic traits and coming up with dating requirements that are insane, arbitrary, and often ridiculously unreal…
/r/BlackPillScience10/06/25 04:52 PM
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How do you use it out in the field?
/r/BlackPillScience27/05/25 05:13 PM
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Is wet.
/r/BlackPillScience27/05/25 05:12 PM
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I’m so tempted to test the wedding ring trick
/r/BlackPillScience27/05/25 05:12 PM
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However, as predicted, single women were more interested in poaching an attached man rather than pursuing a single man. Interestingly, this indicates that single women are more interested in pursuing a man that is less available to them. Basically every guy that has been in a relationship has experienced this first hand. When you’re single, they don’t GAF about you. As soon as you get into a relationship, they start flirting with you and testing you. I basically never get more attention than whe…
/r/BlackPillScience27/05/25 10:45 AM
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In the words of Gucci Mane, “Money make ya handsome, even if you ugly.”
/r/BlackPillScience22/05/25 05:19 PM
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You ever hear of figurative language, my dude?
/r/BlackPillScience21/05/25 06:31 PM
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16 instead of 3?! 😭 “Back in the day”, the rule was “Multiply by 3” Guess hoeflation has brought the multiple to over 5 for some of these women 😭
/r/BlackPillScience19/05/25 11:37 AM
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The hallmark of a midwit is someone that needs a study to come to a conclusion that can be deduced with elementary logic or basic observation. “Birds fly and fish swim.” Midwit: “You got a study for that?!”
/r/BlackPillScience17/05/25 04:28 PM
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Do we as men not feel the same? If a girl is not attractive to me, I’m not going to be motivated to be romantic with her. Though, I think the difference is that most women are attracted to a top 10% guy, while most guys’ standards for women are inclusive of like over 50% of women.
/r/BlackPillScience17/05/25 04:25 PM
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The overwhelming majority of incels aren’t violent 😂
/r/BlackPillScience27/04/25 02:16 PM
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IMO, most men aren’t even at their peak power until 30+. If you make halfway decent decisions with your health and finances, you’ll have far more dating prospects at age 30 than you did at your younger ages. Buss’ 37 Cultures study also found this. Across cultures, 30+ is when men tend to have the best dating prospects. As far as marriage goes, a man with options will just have to be careful. If he took good care of his mind, that should be a hard but not impossible task. Just my opinion though.
/r/BlackPillScience25/01/25 11:37 PM
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It’s cope that they won’t find short term lovers and guys that want to hook up with them. There will rarely be a shortage of that for even a somewhat attractive woman. What they usually lack is a man (read: a top 1-5% guy) that is willing to commit to them for the long term. They tend to seek “overqualified candidates” compared to what they’re offering to those candidates. And those candidates usually lack loyalty due to their nature and/or the fact that the women can’t offer what the man would …
/r/BlackPillScience25/01/25 11:34 PM
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And those taller daughters want even taller men 😂
/r/BlackPillScience25/01/25 11:29 PM
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I think Dr. David Buss (evolutionary psychologist) put it well when he said that men are mostly the product of a breeding experiment by women. When girls that aren’t even 5’5 are nearly demanding that men be 6’+, we’re gonna get stuff like this 😂
/r/BlackPillScience25/01/25 11:27 PM
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I wonder how much “the parts” work in men with such amputations. I imagine it would have a significant effect.
/r/BlackPillScience01/01/25 11:57 PM
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I can say I wouldn't want a hot psychiatrist, male or female. There’s little way for them to truly understand the pain of not being hot without first hand experience 😂
/r/BlackPillScience15/12/24 03:59 PM
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It’s never been a better time to be dark skinned and tall. Lol Michael B Jordan, Idris Elba, and the like have changed the game for us. Do you lift? If I were your height, I’d be a problem for women (and myself too, probably) 😂 If you just looksmaxx and work on your social skills (read some books on the topic and practice) for 6-12 months, you’ll likely be fine. I’m 5’11, and I have to try way harder than you ever will. Lol Consider yourself blessed my guy.
/r/BlackPillScience08/12/24 03:03 AM
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Yeah. He does look like he could play an incel with that attempt of a beard I’m seeing. Haha But with stubble and/or a shaved face, he seems like a handsome fellow
/r/BlackPillScience08/12/24 12:24 AM
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True. Though, it’s women that set these insane standards in the first place. lol If 90% of women want to compete for the same 10% of guys, then that’s their problem 😂
/r/BlackPillScience07/12/24 11:40 PM
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Are we looking at the same person (https://www.google.com/search?q=jacob+elordi&tbs=imgo:1&udm=2)? Eye of the beholder I guess. I went to a college that usually ranks top 10 in hottest women and men and another school that’s usually top 10 by student population size. IMO, he looks more attractive than the average person I saw at either school. I’ve seen most of the US too. IMO, he’d stand out in most major cities even if he were 5’11. He might have some issues if he were shorter than that, thoug…
/r/BlackPillScience07/12/24 11:26 PM
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Some incels get very bitter and implicitly make basically all women their enemy. I for one see the black pill as freeing. You get to see reality for what it is. And because of that, you have a much better idea of how to operate in it. I decided I just needed to looksmaxx and careermaxx, and that turned my dating life around significantly.
/r/BlackPillScience07/12/24 09:11 PM
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If he’s 6’5, he’s still saveable. If you’re 6’2+, fat, have acne, or any other negative quality that’s in your control, you’re basically a volcel IMO. I’ve seen women date some real trolls because they were tall.
/r/BlackPillScience07/12/24 09:09 PM
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Just looked up Jacob Elordi. While he might be unaesthetic by lookism standards of measurement, he faciallly mogs the vast majority of guys. He’s way above average on face IMO (no Diddy).
/r/BlackPillScience07/12/24 09:05 PM
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Not sure why you’re being downvoted. lol Seems you made the right decision.
/r/BlackPillScience07/12/24 07:17 PM
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If you’re 6’5 and struggling to date, you have to be doing something very wrong. Are you overweight? Do you lift? Take decent care of your skin and other aesthetic qualities? You don’t even need to be that fit or facially aesthetic if you’re 6’5. Guys around your height get WAY more leeway.
/r/BlackPillScience07/12/24 07:16 PM
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He had a beautiful girlfriend that wanted to spend time with him, and he would basically ignore her to play video games and go golfing with his dude friends. Lol Also barely made time to talk to her. I do understand wanting time for yourself (I once dated a girl who wanted to monopolize my time), but he was hardly putting in even a basic level of effort.
/r/BlackPillScience07/12/24 05:23 PM
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And then go on social media and complains out being in situationships, getting used, etc. Being almost 30 years old, I’ve just stopped taking about 95-99% of women seriously now. Lol If they want to cause their own suffering and not listen to solutions to the problem, so be it. This video sums up modern women: https://youtu.be/-4EDhdAHrOg
/r/BlackPillScience07/12/24 05:15 PM
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I think a lot of guys are secretly and/or unconsciously insecure about dating women who are tall. I think many try to go for short women too because they see them as “cute”, but not just in an aesthetic way, but also like “She won’t give me much trouble about my height.” Myself, I like women of all heights (if she’s hot, she’s hot), but I’d be ecstatic to date a girl around 5’10, 5’11, or even taller.
/r/BlackPillScience07/12/24 05:09 PM
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8 inches is a very huge difference. Lol I dated a girl who I was 9 inches taller than. She had to stand on her tippy toes to kiss me. When we walked together, I had to walk at a much slower pace because her legs were so much shorter. Also, any girl who is 8 inches shorter than a guy who is, say 6’0-6’2, is setting her (potential) sons up to be short too. I’m 5’11, and I actually prefer taller women. Dated a girl who was 5’8. I’d also date a girl who’s taller than me. Though, many of the girls ar…
/r/BlackPillScience07/12/24 04:25 PM
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I’ve seen something like this FIRST HAND 😂 My ex’s sister was a bit over 6’0 and dated a guy who was around 5’8 or 5’9. When they broke up (it was kind of his fault tbh), she said she’d never date a short guy again. lol Edit: And her current bf is a 6’3 Chad-lite
/r/BlackPillScience07/12/24 04:20 PM
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Every time I’m in a relationship I get more attention from women. And almost every time I’ve had a relationship (whether a fling or long term relationship), it’s because a girl thought I was dating/talking to other girls. The girl I lost my virginity to was the friend of a girl who I was talking to first 😂
/r/BlackPillScience27/11/24 12:08 PM
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“Unexpected gains” 😭 “A meta-analysis of these studies revealed that overweight Asian individuals were perceived as significantly more American than normal-weight versions of the same people…” The title and excerpt above are hilarious. No way the study authors weren’t trying to be cheeky writing like that 😂
/r/BlackPillScience27/11/24 12:04 PM
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Yeah you gotta get the right glasses. If you just get those typical nerdy looking glasses, Jeffrey Dahmer glasses, or some with dark shades that make you look creepy, of course you’ll look bad. I get a lot of compliments on the more “fashionable” glasses I have
/r/BlackPillScience19/11/24 05:48 PM
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It’s over for spectaclecels. Lol Though, I think some people look better with glasses. A lot of people just get unfashionable glasses. I’ve actually been told by women I’ve dated that I look good with glasses on. I just got a good pair of glasses that matches my face and fashion well
/r/BlackPillScience18/11/24 01:30 AM
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They’ll have a much easier time dating, but they’ll still need to worry about getting cheated on more than a Chad or Chad-lite. And they have to worry about getting fucked in a divorce when his wife decides they’re “Not sexually compatible.” and can take half his stuff. 😭
/r/BlackPillScience17/11/24 11:46 PM
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Agreed. I have a defined jawline. I get much better reactions from women when I’m clean shaven or have a little bit of facial hair (some stubble ha Some dudes also have good beard genetics. Mine are pretty mid. haha
/r/BlackPillScience17/11/24 09:06 PM
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It makes you a more attractive mate. I’d say it’s probably about a .5-1.5 boost on a 10 point scale, depending on the amount of money. A 5’5 dude who’s a millionaire will mog a 5’5 dude with equivalent aesthetics that makes a below average income. Though, a 6’3 Chad that makes $100k would most likely give a 5’5 millionaire a run for his money, or mog him, depending on the context.
/r/BlackPillScience17/11/24 08:53 PM
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I would include height under looks. It’s partially a status thing too.
/r/BlackPillScience17/11/24 08:42 PM
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Dating for men is: looks, money, status, and social skills. In that order IMO.
/r/BlackPillScience17/11/24 08:24 PM
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I've studied this intently for years 😂 If you want a great blackpill science book, I highly recommend The Evolution of Desire by Dr. David Buss. Full of blackpills. I found it quite instructional, actually. I believe one can use blackpills to improve their dating life.
/r/BlackPillScience12/11/24 02:37 AM
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My deduction is that revealing their mating strategies is seen as dangerous to their mating goals. They put up a bunch of smoke and mirrors to: Help snuff out what men are intelligent enough (in terms of both problem solving/IQ & emotional intelligence/EQ)… to read what they’re really communicating and figure out a way "around" it. For example, I remember hearing from them all the time that they didn’t care about muscle, but if you actually watch what they do, they will most often go after the m…
/r/BlackPillScience11/11/24 02:34 PM
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