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Unfortunately you can't force attraction on a girl, even with those techniques. If you aren't her type, then none of that stuff will work. I think you were right in that, PUA's are actually simply closing girls who are physically into them. Think about how the best of the best (Julien, tyler, mystery etc) admit to getting rejected all the time. It's just because they can't close the girls who aren't into them despite their 'game'
/r/seduction20/08/19 12:12 PM
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I've personally gone out a fair bit but it kind of seems this stuff only 'works' if you are her physical type, tbh. otherwise things lke disqualifying yourself, disqualifying her, teasing etc (game) just either make her think you're a bit weird or she simply doesn't care since she's not into you lol
/r/seduction19/08/19 03:06 PM
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unless you're this guy (brabg). Another sedditer who thinks you can override a girls brain with black magic PUA and bang any girl you want :) https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/bg2ry8/whats_your_initial_conversation_starter_with/elkjukb/
/r/seduction23/04/19 02:44 PM
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You're still not okay with your own sexuality. You're afraid of being "exposed". This is a standard newbie issue. This chick might find out that I like her,, like her! I think I only really tend to struggle with this when a)there's other people in the vicinity other than just me and her (like, I felt it might look socially weird to verbalise my intent infront of her friend and my friend. Maybe i'm wrong, though., )And b) When I feel like she might actually not be into me at all. I kinda felt lik…
/r/seduction15/04/19 04:20 PM
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thanks. It sounds like your game is a fair bit like mine in terms of the stuff you do in isolation. (I also try to force certain topics and run little 'routines' etc) But I guess sometimes it feels easier/more natural than other times. When i'm getting almost zero IOI's, I can find it hard to work out how to properly escalate. I'm trying to train myself to just 'go for it!' and be bold if in isolation, even if I feel like she's not into me at all But it looks like the main error in that set was …
/r/seduction15/04/19 03:51 PM
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thanks. Yeah, isolation certainly seems the obvious answer. Would it have been weird to give her some statements of intent without the isolation and in front of our friends? I kinda felt so lol What would be your isolation method? Just felt hard to just move her into isolation without a 'reason' especially since we weren't kind of 'paired up' at all, if you know what I mean. Also, in terms of taking the interaction to the next stage (ideally in isolation) how do you tend to do it? Do you just ba…
/r/seduction15/04/19 02:41 PM
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nice, man. Keep going! ps - I also tend to use her clothes as my 'go too' in terms of opening or seconds after the open lol. Can never think of anything else
/r/seduction15/04/19 10:35 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HzzBW4yV4C0&t=1755s
/r/seduction27/02/19 12:22 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HzzBW4yV4C0&t=1755s
/r/seduction27/02/19 12:22 PM
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u/dailymanup u/wia30
/r/seduction26/02/19 08:45 AM
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lol cheers. Well, i'm not a virgin so I guess you're right! But it's a tough old slog for me. I'm not really blessed with good looks and so it's a matter of approaching a boat load of girls until one of them likes me enough to allow me to go through the various motions. I keep thinking about the Lithuanian girls and the 2 smokeshows before them. I just don't think there's anything else I could have done. How long can someone carry a conversation all by themselves?! It just gets awkward fast when…
/r/seduction25/02/19 10:37 PM
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I actually completely agree with that. I don't keep exact count, but personally it take me probably 150-250 approaches to bang a girl who is a point or 2 more attractive than me
/r/seduction24/02/19 09:34 PM
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Absolutely it's a numbers game in my eyes no matter how good you think your 'game' is. Think of 'game' as being better at closing girls who are attracted to you. Not as a way to make girls attracted. That bit's basically out of your control A successful approach basically always requires a sociable girl who is approachable to strangers and who thinks you are fairly good looking (don't worry about male model good looks). If these requirements aren't there, then you're looking at a rejection
/r/seduction24/02/19 09:31 PM
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Thanks for the reply. Yeah, I do try to make sure to not fall into the trap of being the clown/joker/entertainer. But I probably veer more to that side of neutral at times as it's so so easy for a girl to just walk away or ignore you if you don't 'spike' the interaction in the early stages of an approach in my experience
/r/seduction16/02/19 11:54 PM
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Maybe you have to be at least a 7 to be amazing with girls, I dont know for sure, but i do know that game is real as fuck. I have it, i understand it and I use it well. This is basically my assumption, too. I don't think you need to be a male model, but I think for you tot have a shot, she needs to think you are fairly 'good looking'. I think my game is very good too. If I had no game, i'd have never gotten laid from cold approach in my view. Good game is getting the girls into bed and not messi…
/r/seduction05/10/18 01:06 PM
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good stuff. Yeah, going for the instant makeout is so funny, but I've been BRUTALLY rejected when I 've tried to do that lol. I went through a stage of trying this sort of stuff after reading OzzieRSD's book, but after one particularly BRUTAL rejection ''EEewwwww...Fuck off, ,you ugly prick!!'' (followed by a surprisingly hard shove) I stopped trying that sort of thing and will leave that to the 'pre-selected' handsome dudes! Are you maybe much better looking that you makae out by the way? Not d…
/r/seduction05/10/18 12:29 PM
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"Hey, how's your night going" then you can expect to get blown out almost every time just off of the opener alone. That sort of opener is 'ideal' according lots of PUA's both on seddit and according to Tyler RSD etc. In fact, the biggets slayer on rooshV forums was a poster called 'The6' and that was his opener. Similarly, the biggest poster on NextASF forums also uses this sort of opener (although he is apparently a male model, so maybe take with a pinch of salt. He could spit on her face as hi…
/r/seduction05/10/18 11:36 AM
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I think there’s something off with your approach I do everything as per the books. I mean, there's tonnes of different 'rights' and 'wrongs' depencing on whose method you use (say mystery vs RSD vs Mark Manson etc. They all break each others 'rules') but I think I do everything right according to whatever approaach I choose to use on any given girl (direct or indirect or group of girls, etc) 7 lays out of 1200 approaches isn’t the best ratio I know, but I think that's largely out of my control? …
/r/seduction04/10/18 07:15 PM
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I tend to try too "assume attraction" and approach every hot girl I see! (on the nights where I have the balls to do so!) I like the idea of waiting for IOI's because on the VERY VERY RARE occasion I've done that, I've nearly always gotten laid without effort, but that kind of tells me that it's all about looks which isn't good for me as VERY few girls would look at me and think i'm hot!! If I was to wait for IOI's, i'd only be approaching like 2 girls per year lol. PS - What does your game look…
/r/seduction04/10/18 07:41 AM
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I often feel like having good social skills is like something you either have or you don't. A bit like being funny, maybe? (We all have friends who are just hilarious, and also friends who just aren't able to make you laugh no matter how hard they try. They just don't have the 'funny' bone!) With 'social skills', Some people are able to basically 'think of good things to say' on the spot. Able to carry a conversation in a way that makes it fun and interesting. That's basically what 'game' is (wh…
/r/seduction03/10/18 09:36 PM
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Yeah, i'm trying to tell myself that it's not a big deal as lets be real, she was like a 9.5/10 and probably bangs the 10/10 model looking guys at her college lol. I'm feeling better about it now tbh
/r/seduction02/10/18 11:33 AM
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She might have been 18 (seemed to have been at college). Would that be OK?
/r/seduction01/10/18 07:44 PM
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I failed to even open 2 stunners on the bus a minute ago, although if I was drunk, i'd have been more likely to do so. I might just have to drink non-stop, lol
/r/seduction01/10/18 03:29 PM
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