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TRP's mindset seems to be that for small things that ultimately matter little to your life, like your girl changing her mind about where to go to dinner, once, it isn't something to forgive, because you simply haven't devoted any decision-making to it and are not invested in the outcome. Where forgiveness comes into play is when you're given a challenge to something that matters to you significantly, as the person you are then and there, and the answer is to not forgive until the person in quest…
/r/TheRedPill05/09/15 01:40 PM
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How the fuck was your marriage therapist not acting in an official capacity? It's not like after your hour's up you STOP being a licensed therapist, just like if you're a medical doctor as a profession that just because you're not working on a specific day your medical degree and experience is invalid... Even if your hour's up and you're not getting paid for the advice you provide, it's still coming from a fucking licensed professional, and anyone with a brain will have a tremendously hard time …
/r/TheRedPill28/08/15 02:56 PM
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Won't happen. The metaphor for this mentality and the Matrix's unplugging breaks down catastrophically in one key place; people must be looking for the lie in this life before they can be welcomed into the fold, whereas in the movie, Neo had no problems accepting that the Matrix was real, and then Trinity brought him in and Morpheus showed him what's behind the curtain. If you try to show them what's behind the curtain before they start to see something's wrong for themselves, they double down o…
/r/TheRedPill19/08/15 01:40 PM
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If you haven't been to TRP or even heard of it, /relationships seems like the best place to ask these questions. It is a default sub, after all. Yeah she tried to cuckold him but he's no fucking mug Disagree on that. She was just a random port in the storm and instead of treating it as a ONS, he treated it like a LTR where he would get to fuck her for 2+ years once every 2 months or so. If she was that good in bed for a ONS that he would decide to come back out in 2 months, she was already bangi…
/r/TheRedPill16/08/15 03:28 PM
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Not only that, but you don't get to call your job and tell them you're going to jail for 15 days during sentencing, so the guy was dumb. Why would the judge let him off easy on sentencing AND give him more rights than other people found guilty of the same thing?
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 06:50 PM
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If the bitch isn't worth your time, why spend your time talking shit to her current boyfriend?
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 05:33 PM
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His testes were already forked over to Ms Jaynes when he tried to fisticuffs with her ex for saying she's not worth shit, so, you are correct.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 05:26 PM
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The judge in my mind was trying to force the knight to stop making dumb mistakes over a girl who's probably worth less than a teapot made of chocolate. I mean, she's not disabled, but if that's the bar we're setting for "quality" women, we found out why there's so many bad examples of men out there. I dunno how bad 15 days for misdemeanor assault is, and dont know if he would actually be fired for it if he was in jail anyway, but honestly, 15 days in jail doesn't sound that bad at all in compari…
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 05:17 PM
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Never attribute to malice that which is adequately explained by stupidity.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 11:45 AM
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I don't disagree your point, if we were talking about men. Men know whether they give a shit or not, and don't really care to bullshit about it if they don't give a shit about it. My point though is that passion often isn't enough; passion alone won't keep you working on a thoroughly taxing project with the jackass who clearly is trying to fake his credentials and experience when he's throwing your team under the bus for his failures, or when you have told the same customer the exact same instru…
/r/TheRedPill03/08/15 05:39 PM
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Any job which you can get by accident, are never evaluated at, and cannot be fired from is not a particularly noteworthy accomplishment unless one does it particularly well. With an estimated 100 billion humans ever having lived, it might be the lowest bar set for job performance ever. Never has there been a minimum set of standards for a woman to be allowed to have children. Now we see the ramifications of becoming so intellectually and physically dominant of our environment that we can turn of…
/r/TheRedPill03/08/15 01:43 PM
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I get that my field, Network Engineering, is a lot more forgiving on women than most engineering fields, because its a softer and more accepting of failures than the hard engineering fields, but it still has one really important facet that it shares with all other engineering fields, namely, passion does not equate good output. Without putting a lot of work into the studying and work experience, the passion gets you nowhere, as it should. That's why most of the women are stuck at the point befor…
/r/TheRedPill03/08/15 12:49 PM
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Since social media blew up, every 6 now thinks she's a fucking 9 and deserves a 9 or 10. I can only imagine how many girls who are a 6 are turning down 7s daily and wondering why they're single. Remember, women commit up, not sideways, if they can avoid it.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/15 03:18 PM
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Silent treatment is the way to get the best case for yourself when you file for divorce. You're allowed to be seething in a case like this until you can just let it go and drop her ass off somewhere on her lonesome. What gets you into trouble is shooting your mouth off while you're mad and either say something "abusive" or actually physically react. Dude should be getting his paperwork together and getting his ass back into the gym, all while keeping his mouth shut. Cunt of a wife keeps saying t…
/r/TheRedPill28/07/15 03:13 PM
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Notice I didn't say marry a beta, I said catch a beta; if her dad could remain her beta bucks, she still has to keep him wrapped up on her little finger. She still wants a beta bucks to keep her comfortable, and the guy that keeps her feels going. Keep in mind, like any other beta, she doesn't really consider a beta a sexual being, he's just an ATM that she can unload her feelings to.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/15 12:50 AM
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They have the beta bucks part of their dual sexual strategy covered. Scoffs Since when have women ever been able to be financially responsible? Being rich just affords women the ability to buy shinier toys and soft furnishings in their homes before they have to catch a rich beta, all while trying to screw around with higher income alphas.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/15 06:46 PM
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Sometimes, a bad idea really doesn't even deserve bad publicity. Suppose one nutjob decided that Asian people want to be slaves, and tried to preach that idea to other people. Sure, we can hope that that idea wouldn't get anywhere, but look at what not rejecting feminism has done to western society.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/15 04:35 PM
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The sentiment is still a bit of a blue-pill mindset. Remember, what you do to get her pales in comparison to the emotions you create in her when it comes to her loyalty. Take even the most red-pill of women and bend over backwards to please her, and she'll watch you break your back and then leave you for a guy who won't bend.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/15 02:38 PM
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The simple answer is to decide to be fed up with all that isn't greatness in your life, and then change it, whatever it is. It's that decision that changes who you are; the impetus that makes all red-pill behaviors is that deciding you can do better.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/15 02:32 PM
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I don't think most RP guys even hate their former selves; they just hate that we accepted the lies that most everyone told us about how relationships do and should work.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/15 08:45 PM
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RP once he realized how bad he'd been behaving as a beta.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 03:58 PM
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Unless the woman is screaming for help, don't involve the police or yourself. If what you saw was in public was bad enough for the police, imagine how pissed off the guy will be when he either gets the charges dropped, or gets out of jail for DV and that's when he'll try to beat her till she's screaming for help. A lotta these white knights think they're saving these women by jumping in once, whereas they're making it much worse for everyone; you gotta be her meatshield 100% of the time if you e…
/r/TheRedPill26/05/15 04:50 PM
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CompTIA. Very generalized computer repair type shit. Segues into Network+, Security+, etc.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/15 02:07 AM
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Or anywhere, for that matter. If a woman is willing to trade her body for money, as long as she's legally old enough to be deemed of age, and knows what she's doing, I fail to see the harm in prostitution. Sure, it's better for men to go to brothels (condoms and regular STI screenings, among other things), but if a guy wants to just save a streetwalker, a few bucks at a time, I don't see the problem.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/15 03:59 PM
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One of the duties of the "best man" is to be exactly that. If he's standing on the ledge, you can through out your arm to pull him away from the edge, or to shove him off. Maybe by you shoving him into that marriage, he'll use that backbone to stand on his own and make his wife just deal with the fledgling alpha in him, and you'll have your best friend again.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/15 01:42 PM
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See, that's the problem, a lifeline for this guy would end up having to be him getting kidnapped to go to Vegas or something. We all know you can't help someone who wants no help, and OP's friend really wants to be beta bitch to his wife.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/15 01:25 PM
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Failing, like falling, should always happen when going up, and not down. If you fail while going after something big, you might look kinda silly, but you learn and you're still improving. If you fail or fall downwards, you're that much closer to your grave.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/15 04:22 PM
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The point is, if you happen to follow the RedPill path without being aware of what the path is, you can just as easily accident yourself off the path.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/15 04:15 PM
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At least when we say lawyer up, we're admitting that we don't know the legal environment in your area, and that only a lawyer can prevent you from getting assfucked worse than his fees will fuck you.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/15 02:31 PM
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In line with what you said about sources and studies not needing to be provided; we don't NEED to provide empirical evidence, as being alpha requires making decisions and living with the consequences, good or bad. Besides which, we all have anecdotal evidence that this is true, or else we'd not be here...
/r/TheRedPill18/02/15 04:02 PM
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I actually have lived completely without pussy, for 28 years, and it's not like I'm fucking dudes or getting fucked by them either. Sure, I wanna get laid, but it's far from my only goal, and, if I'm honest with myself, not even my top priority anymore since I've gone without it...
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 06:14 PM
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GNC isn't retail therapy like women's retail therapy is; you're buying a consumable good that will help you maintain great health.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 01:17 PM
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Louis CK makes a joke about this, but why the fuck would you ever self-identify?
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 12:15 AM
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Never underestimate the amount of bullshit that a BP male can generate...
/r/TheRedPill09/02/15 08:29 PM
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If you keep defining it as such, sure. The fact that TRP is defined as sexual strategy doesn't mean that many other things that men value in addition to pussy aren't also included in as your signing bonus. I keep trying to understand why so many people here see TRP as JUST the all access pass to pussy and when anyone says monk-mode, that shit is scoffed off like it's a joke.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/15 08:25 PM
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Hamstering is not just bullshit that people feed themselves, excuses that are true also spin that wheel pretty fast. The treatment for Aspergers' is not brain surgery, it's the constant exposure to new things and learning how to cope with the condition. You made an effort to change the behaviors and get what you want, so don't go back to your crutches, keep walking, then run.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/15 08:15 PM
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Be mad as shit that you were dumb enough to think you wouldn't get played by accepting such a deal, and you damn well better learn from it.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/15 08:05 PM
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You know what the fuck you're talking about. I try very hard to show my true colors very quickly; I'm an "asshole" because I have no qualms about telling people I'm a racist and a misogynist, I explain why I label myself as such and then people try to say, oh, no, those terms don't really apply to you because their hamster wheels are working overtime trying to get them out of being lumped into such "despicable" tendencies. I still people I'm a racist because I very rarely find women with much da…
/r/TheRedPill09/02/15 07:29 PM
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We're not a movement, that much is true, but I don't think we care so much, generally speaking about the truth for the sake of knowing it; I think we are looking for the truth so that we can make the decisions that will improve our quality of life.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/15 02:20 PM
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Ever wonder why it's taboo? A lot of it is because it allows guys to have what they want, affirms that women tend to have sex with guys for some kind of gain, and it takes a lot of power away from the average woman who agrees with the consensus. If you ask me, an alpha should be thinking about taboos and deciding if his interests are better met by swimming against the tide, or with it. I suspect that most of the time, the alpha's interests are better met when he does his own thing.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/15 05:24 AM
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In my experience, women want to see that the guy doesn't have a beer belly, and then wants to see that your arms are powerful. A 6-pack does definitely eliminate their fear of a paunchy guy, but guys who have great pecs and abs have to have disproportionately larger bi and triceps to give the impression of power, which is a huge factor for women.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/15 05:38 AM
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The best female friends are those you aren't fucking because you don't want to; she would probably go along if you did want to. That, friend, is the definition of a female friend; a woman who you enjoy freely giving your time to. If you spend time with her and want to fuck her, she's not your friend, she's the woman who you are placing on a pedistal and are hiding your game for. If you don't like spending time with her, she's not your friend...
/r/TheRedPill25/01/15 05:18 AM
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If wearing your clothes makes you look less ripped than you are, you might need to change your wardrobe. Even properly fitting button-down shirt, a woman can tell more or less how fit you are. If you don't already have a tailor, get one. Your clothes should be showing you off in your best light, and a good tailor will tell you what looks like shit on you, and can alter the clothes that present you well to fit, and show your muscle tone.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/15 04:58 AM
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It's not just "as a female" that signals that their opinion is off-kilter. Any time you say something that includes "as a (insert word here)", it means that they don't understand, let alone, consider it valid the experiences of people who don't fall into their chosen category. For that reason, I have removed it from my lexicon.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/15 10:09 PM
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I think part of the problem is the perception that you get power first, but life doesn't work that way. Even as a kid, you're treated as being responsible for listening to your parents, listening in class, doing your homework, eating the food you're given, so on and so forth. Sure, a parent is responsible for making sure you're doing what you're supposed to do, but they can't eat your food for you, sit in class for you and learn for you. You get power by learning your responsibilities and meetin…
/r/TheRedPill23/01/15 09:56 PM
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I'd think using dread game as a means to convince a woman to leave the relationship would be the most ideal way for a guy to get rid of a woman he needs to trash. I mean, and this is complete speculation, but if the guy runs dread game and the woman doesn't bite, I can't see her doing nothing, so she'll probably leave him without a second's thought about what she could get out of him. Anyone ever try running dread game with the intent of getting rid of a woman?
/r/TheRedPill23/01/15 09:45 PM
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If I were going to one of the NV bothels, I probably wouldn't worry about it. Anywhere else with sex-workers, I wouldn't let that be an option... At least in NV brothels, they're required to get regular tests and won't let you fuck them bareback (I think that's a legal thing), so there's not a whole lot of risk on the line.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/15 09:10 PM
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Except for when they're direct about being a prostitute. The women who work in brothels in NV, for example are not fucking around saying that it's their first time, their tits are real, they haven't had any work done elsewhere, blah blah blah blah blah. They'll tell you directly they fuck for fun and for the money and you can't "save" them from their profession. Not that that makes them a woman you really want to LTR as an alpha, but you're goddamned right about the average sex-worker.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/15 08:18 PM
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Sadly, usually not. The accused (almost always a male) is (almost always) treated as though he was of sufficient age to consent, and the accuser was not of sufficient age, and thereby back to a male raping an underage female case.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/15 07:59 PM
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In the US,several states have what is called statutory rape; an age wherein the accuser is too young, legally, to give consent. Some states say that if one party is one age, no matter how old the other party is, it's statutory rape, and if both parties are within another age bracket, it's deemed consensual. For example, in my home state of MD, a person under the age of, I believe, 15, cannot legally give consent, regardless of the age of the other person (even if they are younger, yes it's fucki…
/r/TheRedPill21/01/15 07:42 PM
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I also think it's pretty telling that the early catch pill is such a high concentration of E that it forces the female body to menstrate as though she was still in her cycle.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/15 01:45 PM
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I don't think he's feeling sorry for them so much as trying to make the community more palatable and not making more triads. Spinning plates is fine; letting them know they are plates and are interchangeable is also fine, but they are people and someone else will have to deal with them. It benefits everyone if you don't break someone you don't intend to build up better than you found. Remember, kids, we're alphas, not triads.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/15 01:20 AM
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Eh... I had a lot of good male teachers, at least out side of elementary school. In my high school, pretty much the only teachers that were any good were male. They knew that getting teenagers to give a shit about any one topic was all about making the material accessible and interesting. Shit, my 10th grade English teacher was a publicly closeted gay man, but he wasn't afraid to point out the filthy shit that was going on in a lot of Shakespeare's plays and sonnets, among others. Male teachers …
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 01:11 AM
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He'da been in county before she got to the hospital, and wouldn't see real daylight for 5-10 years...
/r/TheRedPill14/01/15 11:33 PM
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The only people who you talk to about the pill, is people trying to swallow the pill already. Sometimes they've not heard the terms we use, and sometimes they have, but the red pill is not for blue pill mindsets.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/15 11:31 PM
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And then she goes on the internet and brags about how her bf make her asshole his spicy wing playground without any remorse. If she were legitimately mad, she'd probably be filing a police report and not a /r/TIFU post.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/15 03:12 AM
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I'm really glad to hear that there are RP married men like you who can be mature about their feelings of love. There are a lot of men who are trying to swallow the pill and come to the conclusion that women just don't deserve to be married and I think that they're not really done accepting that they're making choices, all the time, that lead them to that place. I see your example of what I think I want, but I don't know if I have the willpower to get into, and maintain high SMV and strong frame …
/r/TheRedPill13/01/15 04:53 PM
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After reading the article, I have to wonder one thing; I know women do hit a wall, hard, at ~30, but do men have one? I ask, because if men start to realize they have a bit of a shelf-life as well, that can help light a fire under their asses and follow this rabbit hole as far as it goes.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/15 01:40 AM
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The irony there is that Kate and Riki I think are both still very feminist-y. They somehow came to the conclusion that this is very close to reality, but they don't seem to have changed their behavior to adapt to the best possible outcome... Sad...
/r/TheRedPill12/01/15 01:31 AM
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I'd be the first one to say NOPE. The choice of someone's first profession should have no bearing on the financial advice as the average schmoe, and I'd tell him learn to save at LEAST 10% of that in such a way that you forget you ever earned it, and save more percentage as you earn more. With professional athletes, the trick is to ratchet up the percentage, but otherwise the advice is the same.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/15 01:25 AM
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That's why I was telling another RPer to cultivate the image of being strong-willed, but right. It doesn't fucking matter if you're right, but not strong-willed enough to see it through, and there are plenty enough people who are strong-willed and wrong. Going against the flow is hard in the moment sometimes, but so much easier long term; you get exactly what you wanted and had an excellent time doing it.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/15 01:12 AM
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I mistyped that. What I meant was to "build a reputation for being strong-willed, but right." I forget what I was saying when I first had the thought and forgot to take out the word "not". The point is that you have to be seen as both a superior intellect and a strong will because even if you're right, you're not useful to a company if you're not strong enough with your willpower to show it.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/15 12:58 AM
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The well rated comments listed so far are pretty good generic financial bits of advice, but for RP specific financial advice: 1) Find a career that is stable that you can grow in skills, and every 2-3 years, find a new company and a new position higher up the ladder to shoot for. 2) Learn to negotiate, and build a reputation for being strong-willed, but not wrong. When you go into a negotiation for a promotion, people will see that you've got a history of taking a position, and that stance resul…
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 10:50 PM
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You don't invest borrowed money. Well, to be fair, you can, BUT there's a real likely risk of completely fucking yourself over if you overestimate the value of what you're leveraging into; if you do it once, you probably were burned when you did it. If you do it 50 times, you probably made out a few times successfully, maybe, once in 10 times.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 10:05 PM
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Don't wish the Game were different, don't even wish you were better, become better. Fixed that for you, because if you don't already think this way, you'll think that wishing you were better able to fix your problems was sufficient, and we know that isn't the case. You have to make yourself capable of fixing the problems in your life.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 03:26 AM
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Your post points out to me how far I have to go still. I still don't even think about how poorly I'm maintaining frame when I get angry, but I definitely agree, getting mad isn't maintaining frame.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 03:02 AM
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I can understand he was furious, but I don't think I'd be capable of fucking myself over like that over a shitty woman. I feel bad for the guy almost. I mean, sure, he was kinda deserving of a big time fucking because he didn't just drop her when she told him she was cheating on him with you and he thought that beating your ass would fix it, but damn.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 02:57 AM
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He really is quick with them, but, and maybe this is just me, but I got the impression his intent was to put her, not in her place, but to make her realize he doesn't want her, and that he could do much better.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/15 03:08 PM
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Unless you're MAMOG, it's gonna take some work to actually get some from the sluts around your city, first and foremost, and the wifey's counting on it being prohibitively expensive either in time, or money, or both. Which then means that she can use those against you when she goes to rape you with the divorce. It's better to just get as fucked as little as possible when she suggests the open relationship, because it's coming down the road anyway; this way she doesn't burn through a bunch of you…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 07:25 PM
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If a married woman has no moral compunction about stepping out on her husband, then the man she sleeps with is not burdened with moral compunction either. He is not obligated to tell a man that his wife is a cheating whore. He is not obligated by some "bro-code" to turn down a woman's advances because some other fucking idiot was dumb enough to put a $10k ring on her finger. This assumes that we don't need to be reminded not to shit where you eat (ie. fucking your brother's wife behind his back)…
/r/TheRedPill26/12/14 02:27 AM
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You wouldn't be done with her though. She'd manufacture some story about how she was raped by you, or how you physically abused her, out of petty spite, knowing full and well that it would end your life as you know it.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/14 01:28 PM
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Not necessarily a Red Piller, but an AF regardless.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/14 01:24 PM
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That, or, as I have, you can choose, difficult as it may be, to willfully remain celibate. I mean, you can call it involuntary celibacy, but at some level, I knew that being obese was a direct result of my poor diet and lack of exercise, and while I know now that the choice to continue to either continue to try to get in much better physical condition, or seeking to date or plate women while I reach my personal goals of health will only be much more damaging to my frame, whereas I have lots of e…
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 03:36 AM
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You could find out as well if you want. Lift, learn a skill, have a personal code and don't waver from it, and most importantly, be thrilled that you're improving yourself, for yourself. Another way to look at it is that he's got abundance mentality. It matters not whether or not he actually does have a wealth of women who regret their choice of passing on him; he's let that pain forge him into a better man and doesn't regret it.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 03:11 AM
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Not that my upvote will mean anything, but people here need to realize that just because we're subscribed to TRP doesn't mean we agree with, let alone, behave in accordance with the mentality behind TRP. There are plenty of BP people that come in and comment and muddle the mixture, so to speak, as well as the not-so obvious former BP folks trying to unplug and not getting it, before they start talking about things they don't grasp. TRP is about taking responsibility for what you can change and a…
/r/TheRedPill21/12/14 07:02 PM
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Attracting women is NOT the goal here. The goal is to constantly work on being the best man you can be, every day, simply because that in and of itself is the ultimate goal. The Red Pill is a realization, an acceptance of what is and what isn't. [words ommited] When you accept reality for what it is, and you take control of your life the way we discuss here, then women will come to you. Bitches are simply a byproduct of a life well lived. They are accessories to your mission; they are not the mi…
/r/TheRedPill21/12/14 06:49 PM
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I can't wrap my head around how that can be the equilibrium point for Sweden, assuming (probably wrongly) that it IS the equilibrium point for Sweden, though it doesn't seem like Sweden is exporting its women all over the place like Asian nations or other European women. All I can say about this is, maybe I should try a stay in Sweden for a few months...
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/14 02:20 PM
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