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| 1 | How has limerence affected you?This is pretty much how crushes feel for me? Is that not normal? And then if the crush develops into a relationship I gradually see the person for what they are rather than a fantasy version and then the feeling goes away and I still like them but I have a more realistic view of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/21 10:15 PM |
| 1 | If you were reborn as an unattractive member of the opposite sex what would your approach to dating and relationships be?Wow I’m glad you weren’t born a man haha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/21 05:46 PM |
| 1 | If you were reborn as an unattractive member of the opposite sex what would your approach to dating and relationships be?Yeah you’re probably right. For a guy in his twenties it’s a cool look. Past your mid 30s it might not work so well if you haven’t ‘made it’ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/21 09:40 AM |
| 1 | If you were reborn as an unattractive member of the opposite sex what would your approach to dating and relationships be?Yeah I’m not in the US but a lot of lesbian girls here in the UK seem to have masters degrees. So whilst I was top of the class at school and I’m fairly well read and have lots of interests I’m not actually as educated as most of them. I also look ultra feminine so even in gay clubs I mostly only get straight men approaching me. And then the women that I end up liking usually have loads of piercings, dress really cool and and just have this aura about that whereby every other girl also fancies t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/21 01:56 AM |
| 2 | If you were reborn as an unattractive member of the opposite sex what would your approach to dating and relationships be?Poor doesn’t count if you’re a musician or artist. You’re seen as ‘bohemian’ and ‘above’ caring about material possessions due to the fact that you are so spiritually enlightened and hate capitalism. So your poorness actually plays into further strengthening that image. If you’re a guy with far right beliefs then obviously this image wouldn’t really work so well for you though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/21 12:47 AM |
| 2 | If you were reborn as an unattractive member of the opposite sex what would your approach to dating and relationships be?So you actually think that if you can’t get a man then you’ll have more luck with women? My tinder stats with a ratio of about 30 men to every 1 woman say otherwise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/21 12:19 AM |
| 0 | If you were reborn as an unattractive member of the opposite sex what would your approach to dating and relationships be?As for the girls, I’m honestly trying to figure that out myself haha. They were both overweight and didn’t really do much to change that. But they were also both very popular and fun to be around. Both had fairly decent jobs. Maybe that’s it? They both ended up marrying average looking rich men which is an achievement in itself given their lack of effort on their own appearance but what is really enviable is that their husbands treat them amazingly well. Pretty much exactly the way every woman w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/21 11:57 PM |
| 2 | If you were reborn as an unattractive member of the opposite sex what would your approach to dating and relationships be?I was actually just joking | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/21 11:29 PM |
| 0 | If you were reborn as an unattractive member of the opposite sex what would your approach to dating and relationships be?Winning strategy imo, musicians are sexy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/21 11:11 PM |
| 9 | If you were reborn as an unattractive member of the opposite sex what would your approach to dating and relationships be?You’ve disobeyed the rules of the game and you’re banned from all future games on this sub now as a punishment. I hope you’re happy with what you have done. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/21 10:42 PM |
| 3 | If you were reborn as an unattractive member of the opposite sex what would your approach to dating and relationships be?I’m bisexual and women are harder to pull than men. If you can’t pull men you have no chance of finding any lesbian lover let alone a hot one. I don’t think you can choose your sexuality either but that’s a different conversation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/21 10:33 PM |
| 5 | If you were reborn as an unattractive member of the opposite sex what would your approach to dating and relationships be?Females aren’t socially inept. Girls often grasp language at an earlier age than boys and generally speaking, they are slightly better at socialising. Autism is picked up in girls far less often than in boys for this reason. Obviously there are still lots of exceptions to this generalisation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/21 10:09 PM |
| 2 | If you were reborn as an unattractive member of the opposite sex what would your approach to dating and relationships be?Making a shit tonne of money is easier said than done or we’d all be doing it. Agree with hitting the gym though whatever gender you are! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/21 10:03 PM |
| 1 | Despite men and women being roughly equal in population, attractive men are seen as scarce, why is that?OP when you say ‘dateable’ do you mean there are a lot of women you would consider long term relationship material or do you mean physically attractive only (fuckable)? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/21 05:16 PM |
| 0 | Are men able to describe the behaviors they're exhibiting when they say "being an asshole" worked for them when attracting women?Basically being a ‘Karen’ but in male form then? Haha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/20 12:56 PM |
| 8 | Women put WAY more negative scrutiny on the penis than do men on the vaginaI think it’s mostly men that do this to eachother as a part of that toxic old school macho culture that unfortunately hasn’t yet died out. For the most part, women actually have a tendency to try to feed men’s egos in the bedroom rather than criticise, that’s why it’s so common for women to fake orgasms. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/20 12:50 PM |
| 1 | Men aiming for marriage should avoid women with high N counts. How to recognise them?Ok, but as a woman with a lot of female friends I know that some of my friends like sex and some just do it to please their partner in the initial stages of a relationship. The ones that do it to please their partner could happily go without sex for a year if they were single. The ones that enjoy sex probably would need to have a FWB or a hookup within that 12 months. Despite all the dating apps these days it can still be hard to meet someone that you really connect with and that is suitable for… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/20 09:46 AM |
| 1 | Are women attracted to more feminine men? If so, why?Makeup is a step too far for me unless it’s eyeliner which can be sexy on an already v attractive guy but most men couldn’t pull it off. To me, having a good sense of style and wearing something slightly feminine like a floral shirt shows conviction, individuality and confidence. Also, these men tend to be more creative, progressive thinkers, more left wing and these types are much more popular to young people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/20 05:08 PM |
| 13 | Men aiming for marriage should avoid women with high N counts. How to recognise them?If you marry someone who hasn’t had much of an active sex life surely this indicates they may not be a very sexual person and may not actually enjoy sex. If you have a high sex drive then after a few years that is going to become a real problem. You can like sex a lot but also be very trustworthy. I think the whole ‘n count’ obsession just comes from a place of male insecurity about their own ability or an obsession with women being unfaithful and completely ignores the issues later down the lin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/20 04:13 PM |
| 2 | The red pill assertion that the male prime years are between 35-45 is hogwashStatistically there is about an 18 month age gap between when a woman vs a man marries and the average age is early thirties. There are not a lot of large age gap relationships in real life. So we are not seeing women in their 20s swooning over men who are pushing 40. I definitely don’t think men look physically better after 35 but if they have established themselves in their careers and are doing well financially then the confidence boost they have from that could make them slightly more attrac… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/20 11:06 AM |
| 3 | TRP & FDS dating strategies only work a specific demographic of individuals.I don’t follow FDS but I have skim read it and it very much resembles the way that I naturally date and act in relationships. This isn’t my ‘strategy’. It’s as a result of a psychological attachment issue (insecure avoidant). I can’t function in a normal relationship. I don’t like being treated like a normal person, I like being treated like some kind of goddess or something. I can only really date guys that are capable of becoming completely pussywhipped.! I think both strategies unconsciously … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/20 11:32 AM |
| 4 | What are your biggest fears and anxieties about the opposite sex in LTR or Marriage?It’s more a case of trying to dissuade someone from getting a warped and negative view on the world. The men I know in real life that have recovered from some situations are the ones that have completely cut off the toxic ex wife and moved on and had a happy life and eventually attracted someone else who is a better person overall than the ex that screwed them over. I wasn’t victimising women or men. Some people of both genders are trash and that’s a much healthier way to look at it than decidin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/20 01:51 PM |
| 1 | What are your preferences that go against TRP theory?Men that love women are attractive to me, men that hate women are unattractive to me. Bitterness is always unattractive whether you are male or female. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/20 10:49 AM |
| 3 | What are your biggest fears and anxieties about the opposite sex in LTR or Marriage?Domestic violence / abuse obviously the number one fear as a woman. As a result, I am really careful to look out for red flags such as aggression, coercive behaviour etc and cut things off quickly if I spot these. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/20 08:25 AM |
| 6 | What are your biggest fears and anxieties about the opposite sex in LTR or Marriage?That’s awful and I’m so sorry to hear that. Can see why you wouldn’t want to marry again. That being said, as long as your money is protected and you are sure to do some serious character assessment before getting into anything long term it doesn’t mean you can’t find happiness elsewhere. If you let one evil woman turn you bitter then it will prevent you from meeting someone better. Then your ex has won. For every story about a man being screwed over I know one about a woman being screwed over. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/20 08:17 AM |
| 1 | Does the "Karen" meme offend you?No. I think it would only offend you if you were in fact a ‘Karen’. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/20 07:59 AM |
| 1 | I always wondered why women move on so quickly. I think the answer is simply OPTIONSI think that’s only a small part of the reason. Usually women are the ones to initiate separations after communicating that they are unhappy with certain behaviours. It’s probably taken her a few months to muster up the courage to leave so the process of recovery started months prior to her partner’s. Secondly, females are better at supporting one another through a breakup than males are. We can openly talk to our female friends about how we are feeling with no judgement and this helps us recove… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/20 07:57 AM |
| 3 | What's the worst take you've seen from each side/pill/strategy, including your own?i don’t think trp guys realize they’re literally just setting themselves up to get either dumped by quality women, cheated on by women who need validation, & chased by desperate women. Yes I’ve always thought this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/20 05:37 PM |
| 12 | Do you think it's a misconception that men want sex, women want relationships?You’re implying that the millions of women who aren’t rushing to settle down young just for the sake of having children are all going to be single cat ladies drinking wine in their old age because apparently not having children = single forever. So since there’s about a 50/50 split of men / women in the world for all of these millions of cat ladies there are going to be an equivalent number of single old ‘cat men’ or whatever we want to call them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/20 04:10 PM |
| 2 | With courts becoming increasingly Misandric, more men will opt out of marriage. What do you think a marriageless society will look like?I’m only on here because I didn’t really know what MGTOW was a I searched it up. So I’m guessing the question wasn’t aimed at women and you don’t care what I think but I’ll intrude and answer anyway... I think if more men opt out of marriage and more women opt out of motherhood (as is already happening with birth rates in developed countries dropping dramatically in recent years) life will become less about family and relationships and more about interests, friendships, travelling and a lot of t… | /r/MGTOW2 | 30/07/20 03:52 PM |
| 23 | Do you think it's a misconception that men want sex, women want relationships?I’ve seen a lot of articles in the news about how women are less likely to want children nowadays and the birth rate is dramatically declining so it will be interesting to see what impact this has, since many women’s drive to settle down is because they want to have children. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/20 02:45 PM |
| 3 | What's the worst take you've seen from each side/pill/strategy, including your own?Red pill: If you blow hot and cold and create a sense of ‘dread’ in the woman you are dating (even if you do it in a way that makes you look as though you are desirable to other women) it COULD make her work harder to get your attention but the sad truth is she will probably download tinder, get 50+ matches and start hanging out with new some guys and now you’re competing with 3-4 guys who weren’t even there before and you’re coming out as the worst option because you’re acting like an asshole. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/20 11:57 AM |
| 2 | What issues do you think modern women are facing?Interesting. Thanks for explaining. I’d genuinely be interested to hear more. I remember a while back there were dating nights in London based on this concept. Each man would have to submit a used t shirt and women would select a date for the night based on the scent. I’ve read that without the pill women are more likely to look for a ‘stud’ or more of an ‘alpha’ type. Somebody who is most likely to impregnate them and pass on good genes. On the pill the preference is for a stable ‘provider’. I … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/20 08:05 AM |
| 1 | Men have a much harder physical standard in order to be attractiveNo it doesn’t. For every post I see that says men have higher physical standards to live up to than women and that women have it better I see about 20 (also written by men, many of which are probably not very good looking themselves) slating women who aren’t slim and in their early twenties and rating women out of 10 based solely on their looks. I never see women writing this kind of stuff online about men’s looks. Like, ever! Am I missing a huge chunk of the internet where men slate men’s physi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/20 01:14 AM |
| 3 | Is dating down a good strategy?No!!! I used to wonder this and I have come to this conclusion it is a bad strategy. So basically, if you are in a relationship with a great looking desirable man who knows her could get another great woman if you broke up then he is less likely to entertain any woman that throws himself at him because he hasn’t got a scarcity mentality. He is likely to have ‘picked’ you for a relationship from several other options and he’s not getting into a relationship in order to trap you and keep you from … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/20 12:48 AM |
| 1 | Men have a much harder physical standard in order to be attractiveYou are right about a broader spectrum of physical attributes being considered attractive in women than men but sometimes men can sidestep physical attractiveness by over achieving in another area of life which can be harder for women to do. For example it’s easier for men to offset being fat with a non physical quality such as charisma, being funny or being successful. If you’re online dating I guess it’s harder to get these characteristics across since it’s largely based on your picture. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/20 12:12 AM |
| 1 | What issues do you think modern women are facing?What is MHC profile? I don’t know all the acronyms around here? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/20 11:58 PM |
| 5 | Do women cuck men "linearly" by riding the C.C.?There are other reasons why women don’t want to settle down at 18. Everything isn’t all about sex you know. We are actually people too. We have things we want to do in life, career ambitions, may want to travel or just enjoy being free and discovering who we are. Secondly, until you really know who you are and what you want, it’s too early to settle down and could end in divorce or a relationship where the two of you grow into completely different people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/20 11:53 PM |
| 3 | Women constantly try to water down the meaning of cc riding?The terminology just gets better and better | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/20 11:24 PM |
| 1 | I’m actually disgusted and lividOk look, it’s awful that he can’t look after his own child BUT she did choose to marry him and have a child with him! Before you marry and have a child you should check that your idea of family life is compatible with theirs. You should assume that if he expects you to clean up after him whilst both working full time that he might have a slightly outdated view on roles within a relationship and therefore may not be a great husband unless you also share those views. I know plenty of couples that … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/20 09:01 AM |
| 2 | I’m a single mum and I’ve found that if I don’t mention it until a few months into dating, men don’t actually careOk, so sounds like we are probably on the same page there then? If you get into a serious relationship with someone with young children when you yourself don’t have young children it will potentially change your lifestyle in a big way. With older children it doesn’t have so much of an impact. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/20 07:16 PM |
| 2 | I’m a single mum and I’ve found that if I don’t mention it until a few months into dating, men don’t actually careYeah, everyone has to do what’s best for them. Unless perhaps you’re over 40 it’s easy enough to find someone without kids so if that’s what you want then you should do that. I used tinder once and there were a few men that said in their bio that they didn’t date women with kids. As it happens I wasn’t interested in them regardless but if I was I wouldn’t have obviously matched with them since they had already stated this. The part where they introduced you to the kids to win you over is just be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/20 05:11 PM |
| 1 | I’m a single mum and I’ve found that if I don’t mention it until a few months into dating, men don’t actually careThat’s a shame but ultimately you have to do what’s best for you and at least you made an informed decision having got to know her and sampled what your life together would have been like | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/20 02:53 PM |
| 1 | I’m a single mum and I’ve found that if I don’t mention it until a few months into dating, men don’t actually careNo. When I become friends with a woman do I ask her if she’s ever killed anyone? Also no. People don’t generally ask that question in society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/20 02:38 PM |
| 2 | I’m a single mum and I’ve found that if I don’t mention it until a few months into dating, men don’t actually careIt’s ok, you don’t have to marry me. It wasn’t a covert attempt at finding a husband. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/20 01:37 PM |
| 4 | I’m a single mum and I’ve found that if I don’t mention it until a few months into dating, men don’t actually careThanks for your comment. Yes! This is also the other reason I wouldn’t feel comfortable putting my pictures and location online and mentioning I had a daughter. It’s also a big reason that I would wait a few years before introducing somebody. You have to be so careful! I completely relate to what you’re saying about the struggles of meeting someone who doesn’t want kids but doesn’t mind you having kids. I don’t think I want more children. I kind of think advertising that I have a child might att… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/20 12:47 PM |
| 4 | I’m a single mum and I’ve found that if I don’t mention it until a few months into dating, men don’t actually careYeah totally. This is what I think too... I’ve potentially missed out on some great guys in the past when I did use online dating because there were so many options that I didn’t see the point in choosing a guy with kids. If they had just not mentioned it for the first couple of dates it would have put them on an even playing field for me to make a decision based on THEM not their situation. Also, I’m worried about putting up pictures of myself and my location online and saying I have a child. I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/20 12:41 PM |
| 2 | The single mom contradictionMy view is that parents who leave would have caused their children just as many, if not more issues if they had stayed. My father was absent for most of my childhood. He had a drinking problem and treated my mum terribly. When she divorced him he had very little to do with me and my sisters. Within a few years my mum had re-trained and was earning more money. She no longer had the stress of having this awful man in her life bringing her down. I didn’t have to listen to them arguing as I was tryi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/20 10:25 AM |
| 1 | Being valued solely on your looks as a woman sucks, even if you are very attractive. Men do not have it harder when it comes to how they are valued in society.Haha I better move to the country then! On a serious note it’s not that bad I was just having a moan really because men always seem to have a moan about women on here and how easy it is for us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/20 08:07 PM |
| 1 | Being valued solely on your looks as a woman sucks, even if you are very attractive. Men do not have it harder when it comes to how they are valued in society.Urban... Why? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/20 07:56 PM |
| 1 | Why is /r/adultery predominantly filled with women on a male-dominated sub? Are more women cheating on their spouses than men, and are just less likely to admit to it on surveys?Probably because the reasons women cheat are usually complicated and the reasons men cheat are usually simple (sex) therefore there are more points of discussion to be had on a forum. Another reason may be that women usually want an emotional and sexual connection from an affair (again, this provides more talking points) whereas men don’t always want the emotional connection. Men on here seem sooo overly concerned about their women cheating on them but I do think it’s something that is easily av… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/20 01:48 PM |
| 2 | Being valued solely on your looks as a woman sucks, even if you are very attractive. Men do not have it harder when it comes to how they are valued in society.The third paragraph is categorically untrue. If you’re a straight woman and you are incapable of loving a man then it indicates you probably have a personality defect since falling in love is a human trait. It would indicate you may be a sociopath or have some other psychological disorder. It doesn’t mean every straight woman in a relationship loves her partner. You may settle with a sensible option if you are in your mid 30s, love children and are keen to start a family before 40. But that does… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/20 09:31 PM |
| 1 | When and why did the FWB label become more popularised?When - gradually over time in line with social changes Why- women have different aspirations now and want to settle down later and use their early adult life to develop in their career, use the money the are earning to travel and enjoy life. Having kids and cleaning the house isn’t fun and now we have the option of doing better stuff we want to get out there and do it. This leaves more single women who are not yet ready to find a long term partner. Most women have a sex drive and want some stead… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/20 05:21 PM |
| 1 | Being valued solely on your looks as a woman sucks, even if you are very attractive. Men do not have it harder when it comes to how they are valued in society.I wouldn’t say I’m struggling, no. I’ve dated enough to know that you have to accept that it’s hard to find a real connection and that many men are only interested in you for your looks and for sex. So I’m just cautious of that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/20 02:55 PM |
| 1 | Being valued solely on your looks as a woman sucks, even if you are very attractive. Men do not have it harder when it comes to how they are valued in society.What do you mean? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/20 02:01 PM |
| 1 | Being valued solely on your looks as a woman sucks, even if you are very attractive. Men do not have it harder when it comes to how they are valued in society.I understand what you’re saying about money. You sound like you earn enough for it not to have much of a dent in your finances. It’s still a loss, just for you it is a smaller lost than for most men. Men have higher levels of testosterone so the drive is higher than for women I guess. Supply and demand. My own experience is when people get paid an amount which they deem more than fair, they offer better service ofc if they are capable of which you need to decide before listening to their price o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/20 01:44 PM |
| 1 | Being valued solely on your looks as a woman sucks, even if you are very attractive. Men do not have it harder when it comes to how they are valued in society.I know ugly men without loads of money who get by with charm and charisma. Not many but enough. I don’t know any ugly poor women who get high value men through charm and charisma. And great... Loads of men on a dating app who have low standards anyway want to pretend they like me so they can fuck me. What fantastic news, I’m such a valued member of society. My own vision of myself is that I’m ok looking with good personality so I’m not sure what you mean by your last point. I don’t think I have … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/20 01:35 PM |
| 1 | Being valued solely on your looks as a woman sucks, even if you are very attractive. Men do not have it harder when it comes to how they are valued in society.-Whenever I buy anything like a nice car or a villa, I buy it for myself and my girlfriend uses it like she owns it. I don't buy it for her but for myself. Ofc, I am being used as much as any girl is being used by her boyfriend for sex- Ok. I disagree with the comparison between money and sex. As I guy, when you spend money on a woman or on yourself and the woman (such as paying for holidays or inviting her to stay in your villa) the money is gone and the woman has gained something and you have … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/20 01:23 PM |
| 1 | Being valued solely on your looks as a woman sucks, even if you are very attractive. Men do not have it harder when it comes to how they are valued in society.-Men don't want connection, they want a good girl to spend time with and have sex- Lol great 😂 Your statement almost makes men sound like sex crazed animals with absolutely no substance rather than human beings. If that’s your view your can’t really complain if a woman views you as a useful object and uses you for your money in later life. Both as bad as eachother. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/20 12:55 PM |
| 1 | Being valued solely on your looks as a woman sucks, even if you are very attractive. Men do not have it harder when it comes to how they are valued in society.I think that’s set to gradually change actually. Women have been demanding equality in the workplace for years and equal pay. We aren’t there yet but we have come a long way. From school age girls are being pushed harder and given more opportunities and encouraged in STEM subjects. There is more of a stigma around being a housewife than there would have been 20 years ago and due to advances in technology there is less of a need for a woman to stay at home to clean and cook anyway. As time goes o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/20 12:12 PM |
| 1 | Being valued solely on your looks as a woman sucks, even if you are very attractive. Men do not have it harder when it comes to how they are valued in society.Yeah. I guess if I couldn’t find true love and decided to just settle then I’d probably rather settle with a guy who was financially secure. Ideally I’d rather find a true connection with someone and not have to factor in what they earn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/20 11:55 AM |
| 3 | Being valued solely on your looks as a woman sucks, even if you are very attractive. Men do not have it harder when it comes to how they are valued in society.The wall is just a myth insecure young men tell eachother to feel better that ‘their time is coming’ and that women who have rejected them will ‘pay’. Both men and women gradually look slightly worse after about the age of 35. Both genders tend to gain weight, get grey hairs, small lines start to develop. You can’t possibly argue that those changes make either gender MORE attractive than before. If they take good care of themselves they may delay this process (ie. kourtney kardashian is 41 and i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/20 11:49 AM |
| 2 | Being valued solely on your looks as a woman sucks, even if you are very attractive. Men do not have it harder when it comes to how they are valued in society.Ok. So you’re an exception then as your girlfriend obviously doesn’t particularly mind dating someone of the same height. I’m 5’2 so I don’t give men’s height a second thought but I have some tall friends for whom it is important. The same friends have been rejected by men purely based on height. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/20 11:06 AM |
| 1 | Being valued solely on your looks as a woman sucks, even if you are very attractive. Men do not have it harder when it comes to how they are valued in society.Women get judged on height too. If you’re taller than a man he won’t date you. If you’re shorter than a women she won’t date you. Generally speaking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/20 11:02 AM |
| 0 | Being valued solely on your looks as a woman sucks, even if you are very attractive. Men do not have it harder when it comes to how they are valued in society.I’ve changed my opinion on that my initial assumption was that it must be a lot better for men. My new understanding is that it is marginally better for them overall. For example I’d rather be an ugly man than an ugly woman because at least it isn’t the only metric your worth seems to be based on. But if you were very physically attractive life would be easier as a woman because you wouldn’t be expected to also be successful and charismatic so you could get by on doing very little and be adored … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/20 09:41 AM |
| 1 | Being valued solely on your looks as a woman sucks, even if you are very attractive. Men do not have it harder when it comes to how they are valued in society.Well clearly from my post, my perception is that what you do DOES matter whereas what I do doesn’t matter. It would be a brag if I described myself as a drop dead gorgeous model who doesn’t work hard and treats people badly but has a great life. I said I’m ok looking and that’s is largely down to makeup and hair and that several men I’ve dated have even pursued better looking women when the option came up despite me treating them very well. Hardly a brag? There really is no need to call me a sna… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/20 08:34 AM |
| 1 | Being valued solely on your looks as a woman sucks, even if you are very attractive. Men do not have it harder when it comes to how they are valued in society.Yeah. I guess I thought I already put a lot of barriers in place that would mean men would give up if they just wanted sex. I wouldn’t sleep with someone who didn’t call me and text me everyday and appear to take an interest in me rather than only talk about himself. If the conversation was too sexual too early that would be another warning sign. I’d make sure he took me to nice places. If I demanded much more I think it would verge on diva behaviour and put off genuinely nice men with good inte… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/20 11:59 PM |
| 1 | Being valued solely on your looks as a woman sucks, even if you are very attractive. Men do not have it harder when it comes to how they are valued in society.Just google it. I can’t be bothered to send links to prove my point, you’re not talking enough sense to warrant the effort. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/20 11:42 PM |
| 1 | Being valued solely on your looks as a woman sucks, even if you are very attractive. Men do not have it harder when it comes to how they are valued in society.Being paid less for the same job a man does. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/20 11:38 PM |
| 1 | Being valued solely on your looks as a woman sucks, even if you are very attractive. Men do not have it harder when it comes to how they are valued in society.Feminism usually focuses on workplace and earning inequalities as one of the key arguments. Also the imbalance in unpaid labour in the home and child reading. That’s not sexual at all. Sorry I don’t agree with you on this. Doesn’t make any sense at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/20 11:35 PM |
| 1 | Being valued solely on your looks as a woman sucks, even if you are very attractive. Men do not have it harder when it comes to how they are valued in society.How do? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/20 11:27 PM |
| 1 | Being valued solely on your looks as a woman sucks, even if you are very attractive. Men do not have it harder when it comes to how they are valued in society.I waited for several dates and we had spent a lot of time together by this point. We were both acting on strong sexual chemistry. I don’t think the judgement is on me for thinking that a guy who constantly texts and calls, takes me to lovely restaurants etc and tells me he likes me a lot is actually interested. If anything, the judgement should be on him for being a liar. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/20 11:26 PM |
| 1 | Being valued solely on your looks as a woman sucks, even if you are very attractive. Men do not have it harder when it comes to how they are valued in society.I can’t speak for him but that’s my interpretation, yeah. But instead of finishing it he just kept on calling me and taking me on dates presumably to keep on having sex with me. Just seems like a lot of pretending and a lot of effort so I stopped speaking to him because it was underhand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/20 10:32 PM |
| 1 | Being valued solely on your looks as a woman sucks, even if you are very attractive. Men do not have it harder when it comes to how they are valued in society.Oh no, we were going on dates too. Like cinema and meals etc. and sleeping together. Sorry, I didn’t make that clear. We weren’t friends we were dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/20 10:15 PM |
| 0 | Being valued solely on your looks as a woman sucks, even if you are very attractive. Men do not have it harder when it comes to how they are valued in society.Ok, I’ll address it. I didn’t want to repeat myself in the comments but if you read through, another commenter asked what I have taken on board and learnt from this debate and I’ve made about 5 bullet points about intelligent points that mostly men have made on my post which oppose the statement I made. Briefly summarised, it seems like a lot of men also feel the pressure to look a certain way but in addition to this they also feel pressure to be successful, charismatic, funny and a long list of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/20 07:40 PM |
| 1 | Being valued solely on your looks as a woman sucks, even if you are very attractive. Men do not have it harder when it comes to how they are valued in society.Yeah. I mean, I’m a bit bitter about both situations because I assumed they were just comparing looks. If they genuinely did find that person to be more compatible in terms of interests or lifestyle I’d be less bitter because it’s a more acceptable reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/20 07:04 PM |
| 2 | Being valued solely on your looks as a woman sucks, even if you are very attractive. Men do not have it harder when it comes to how they are valued in society.So, he wasn’t attractive enough for you to actually pursue when you discovered that he wasn’t shutting down other potential options just because you were spending time with him and talking on the phone a lot. That’s kind of what this sounds like - like you weren’t ever really that into him and he knew it so he kept his options open while seeing where things might go with you. That’s common dating sense for men - No, I really did like him. Stubborn as it sounds, no man is attractive enough for me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/20 07:02 PM |
| 2 | Being valued solely on your looks as a woman sucks, even if you are very attractive. Men do not have it harder when it comes to how they are valued in society.Bit rude... To further clarify, if I was valued on a mixture of social skills, looks and earning potential as I feel that men usually are then at least all of the weekends and evenings of hard work I’ve put into my career and all the social connections I’ve maintained would be valued alongside my genes which determine what face and metabolism I was born with. The fact that I could have just sat on the sofa being lazy and been rude to everyone and many men would value me just as highly because I’… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/20 06:52 PM |
| 3 | Being valued solely on your looks as a woman sucks, even if you are very attractive. Men do not have it harder when it comes to how they are valued in society.That’s awful. I’m sorry to hear that. I guess when you’re dealing with shallow women and expected to be the provider it literally is the worst of both worlds. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/20 06:34 PM |
| 2 | Being valued solely on your looks as a woman sucks, even if you are very attractive. Men do not have it harder when it comes to how they are valued in society.Yes, good point and I so want you to be right. Its a far easier pill to swallow that I’ve been discarded in the past because I’m an introvert who likes to play piano and talk about the meaning of life and they wanted an extrovert who likes to drink and party than that I’ve simply been discarded because I was the best looking option available to them until another slightly more attractive option came along. Maybe I’ve spent to much time on reddit during lockdown and it has warped my sense of real… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/20 06:31 PM |
| 2 | Being valued solely on your looks as a woman sucks, even if you are very attractive. Men do not have it harder when it comes to how they are valued in society.Since you asked, I’m not dating him because I was focused solely on him and I turned away the advances of many other guys for him only for him to carry on logging onto dating apps chasing women who weren’t even interested. You could say we weren’t in an official relationship but we were spending a lot of time together and constantly talking on the phone for months so it just felt a bit wrong and ruined things before they really got started so I chose to stop seeing him. I know what you’re saying… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/20 06:15 PM |
| 1 | Being valued solely on your looks as a woman sucks, even if you are very attractive. Men do not have it harder when it comes to how they are valued in society.I’m not 100% sure that was the reason, I don’t know the other women well enough to say for sure. I’ve based it upon the fact that they were the type of women who didn’t have particularly good jobs, their only interests seemed to be shopping and clubbing and taking selfies and reality TV. They seemed very narcissistic and of little substance, you know the type. I would judge myself to be ok looking and in good physically shape and I’d judge them to be better looking than me. Personality wise I wi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/20 06:01 PM |
| 2 | Being valued solely on your looks as a woman sucks, even if you are very attractive. Men do not have it harder when it comes to how they are valued in society.Ahhh I so badly would love to introduce you to the last guy I dated to disprove your point haha. I can see you don’t believe me but he really was a bit overweight, not particularly anything special looks-wise and I don’t think he earned as much as me. The reasons I was attracted to him were not at all shallow. I’m not saying all the men I’ve dated are like this but I do try to be somewhat open minded. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/20 05:50 PM |
| 1 | Being valued solely on your looks as a woman sucks, even if you are very attractive. Men do not have it harder when it comes to how they are valued in society.I’m fairly new to Reddit. Of all the forums this one seemed to be the most relevant for gender debates. I’m a woman with a woman’s point of view. I wanted a counter view. A feminism forum would probably just second my opinion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/20 05:44 PM |
| 2 | Being valued solely on your looks as a woman sucks, even if you are very attractive. Men do not have it harder when it comes to how they are valued in society.A guy pointed out some real life examples where men are treated far less favourably than women and appear to be valued and protected far less in society. One of them was regarding sexual abuse. It stuck out to me because male victims are often stigmatised and not supported in the way that women are and I don’t think people talk about it enough. That genuinely saddens me. Also the support around breast cancer vs prostate cancer. Never really considered it but now it has been pointed out I agree t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/20 05:40 PM |
| 3 | Being valued solely on your looks as a woman sucks, even if you are very attractive. Men do not have it harder when it comes to how they are valued in society.My friends both male and female offer up some good debates but many of them hold a similar viewpoint to my own so it isn’t much of a debate and it is probably pretty biased. I like forums where people with opposing views can sensibly put across their arguments. I knew that a lot of people would disagree so I wanted to hear what they had to say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/20 05:31 PM |
| -2 | Being valued solely on your looks as a woman sucks, even if you are very attractive. Men do not have it harder when it comes to how they are valued in society.My view can totally be changed. It would take a look because I have 28 years of lived experience but I fully take on board other’s opinions. Obviously the title of my post was deliberately abrasive because I wanted people with opposing views to reply because I’m genuinely interested. I’m not deep enough into the red pill forums to know the connotations that go along with a ‘nice guy’ but without reading it I can probably imagine that it stems from that 90s esque idea / myth / whatever you want t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/20 05:27 PM |
| 1 | Being valued solely on your looks as a woman sucks, even if you are very attractive. Men do not have it harder when it comes to how they are valued in society.I’ve written so many comments I’ve lost track of what I’ve said, but I’m glad you are following at least! Haha. I still stand by my original post. I’d rather be valued for several things that one thing. Especially if they were things I had more control over than just looks for example. Yes, I agree with you that even the most beautiful women on earth would only have it easy if their game plan in life was to use their looks to manipulate men to get what they wanted in life. If they wanted to meet… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/20 05:21 PM |
| 2 | Being valued solely on your looks as a woman sucks, even if you are very attractive. Men do not have it harder when it comes to how they are valued in society.Interesting and surprising articles! Thanks so much for sharing. With regards to the rest of your comment: -yes, I guess I do have my fair share of admirers . There may be a few ‘keepers’ in there that genuinely do value me for more than looks but the vast majority tend to seem very superficial or they are just mildly interested in a lot of women -I really do think I’m open minded in terms of men’s looks, physique and earnings when it comes to dating. I look for someone who can hold a meaningful… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/20 04:39 PM |
| 3 | Being valued solely on your looks as a woman sucks, even if you are very attractive. Men do not have it harder when it comes to how they are valued in society.Haha, no there have been some intelligent and interesting comments on here that have opened my eyes to things I hadn’t considered. You just have to sift through a lot of trash... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/20 03:49 PM |
| 6 | Being valued solely on your looks as a woman sucks, even if you are very attractive. Men do not have it harder when it comes to how they are valued in society.I would rather be valued for ‘particular things’ such as my career success because in the case of my career I have put blood sweat and tears into it whereas my face and body I was born with and have slightly modified with makeup which takes about 5 minutes per day. As it happens, I look ok and I do ok in a superficial world based on looks but that’s not the point. With regards to opening myself up to being mocked by woman-haters, I’m not too fussed because a lot of what they say is nonsense so I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/20 03:44 PM |
| 4 | Being valued solely on your looks as a woman sucks, even if you are very attractive. Men do not have it harder when it comes to how they are valued in society.No, not at all. But there is something wrong with men only valuing women on one very superficial aspect of them and treating women who don’t meet up to these ideals badly and constantly trying to trade up even when they are dating a fairly decent looking girl with the only factor taken into consideration being looks. Just like it is a bit messed up that some women would leave their husband for a man who was rich due to inheriting a lot of money even if the richer man was an awful person. But I d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/20 02:25 PM |
| 1 | Being valued solely on your looks as a woman sucks, even if you are very attractive. Men do not have it harder when it comes to how they are valued in society.Overall equality. There will always be aspects of life where there are gender biases. Rape (which is the example I was discussing) shouldn’t be one of those aspects. Men and women should both be supported and protected equally and the fact that they don’t seem to be just isn’t good enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/20 01:06 PM |
| 3 | Being valued solely on your looks as a woman sucks, even if you are very attractive. Men do not have it harder when it comes to how they are valued in society.You’re being kind of harsh! And no, I don’t really want you to rate my pictures. I wasn’t posting to get a breakdown of why I’m not good enough in the dating arena. I’ve never really had a problem whereby nobody I was interested in was interested in me for a long period of time so it’s not like my love life is doomed and I need help. I was more posting to highlight how lovely people, mainly men but also women, treat me when I look good and how rudely they can treat you if you don’t. I do ok in t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/20 01:03 PM |
| 3 | Being valued solely on your looks as a woman sucks, even if you are very attractive. Men do not have it harder when it comes to how they are valued in society.Ok, thanks for this. You make some really good points. Probably the best counter argument anyone has made on my post. A male friend of mine was once in prison for three weeks. I was talking to him about it last week and he said that within three weeks he heard countless men being raped and had he been in there longer he thinks it could likely have happened to him. Like you said, I don’t think these men get the protection or support they need. The issue of male rape and how it is treated differen… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/20 12:48 PM |
| 0 | Being valued solely on your looks as a woman sucks, even if you are very attractive. Men do not have it harder when it comes to how they are valued in society.I don’t know. It’s hard to be objective when trying to explain how attractive you are. I think I’m ok looking but a lot of that is because of how my hair is done, makeup is done and how I’m dressed. I’m also in good shape. What I was trying to portray was that I’m ok looking but there are definitely women who are better looking but as a whole person they are not always a better overall package because they don’t treat others well. I think that looks are over valued so if I was born a 9 but with … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/20 12:20 PM |
| 2 | Being valued solely on your looks as a woman sucks, even if you are very attractive. Men do not have it harder when it comes to how they are valued in society.Yes, very true | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/20 12:05 PM |
| 2 | Being valued solely on your looks as a woman sucks, even if you are very attractive. Men do not have it harder when it comes to how they are valued in society.A mixture of looks, personal achievements and social skills such as being funny, telling good anecdotes. It seems to be more of a balanced picture. Women can have all of the above or none of the above and be judged on looks alone. It’s great if you’re an uneducated woman with no personality and just natural good looks. It’s a bit depressing if you’re an ok looking woman who has achieved a lot, worked hard on yourself and is great socially. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/20 12:05 PM |
| 2 | Being valued solely on your looks as a woman sucks, even if you are very attractive. Men do not have it harder when it comes to how they are valued in society.Well within my tight knit group of friends I’m obviously valued for more than looks. But in society as a whole and by the opposite gender I feel as though I’m not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/20 11:42 AM |
| 3 | Being valued solely on your looks as a woman sucks, even if you are very attractive. Men do not have it harder when it comes to how they are valued in society.Sorry AchromaticFade I don’t understand your comment. It’s really badly worded. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/20 11:34 AM |
| 2 | Being valued solely on your looks as a woman sucks, even if you are very attractive. Men do not have it harder when it comes to how they are valued in society.Are they worthless? Really? They pretty much run the world. Being successful is more attainable and slightly less superficial as a reason to be valued than looking attractive though. I was born with my face and body the way they are, I did nothing to earn my genes. Success is something that comes from hard work and dedication. So at least you have earned it and probably deserve to be valued for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/20 11:13 AM |
| 6 | Being valued solely on your looks as a woman sucks, even if you are very attractive. Men do not have it harder when it comes to how they are valued in society.It’s only easy if you look good. As I mentioned in my example, if you don’t look good you are in fact treated very badly. If you were an ugly guy at least you could hold onto the fact that I could be valued for starting a successful business or being successful in some way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/20 10:59 AM |
| 0 | Being valued solely on your looks as a woman sucks, even if you are very attractive. Men do not have it harder when it comes to how they are valued in society.Perhaps you’re right. It just seems like if I were to completely ignore it I’d be ignoring reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/20 10:36 AM |
| 1 | Being valued solely on your looks as a woman sucks, even if you are very attractive. Men do not have it harder when it comes to how they are valued in society.Not exactly. I think men are valued for a few different things whereas women are valued for one thing. At least being judged on your achievements means that it’s something you’ve worked hard towards in life. I didn’t work hard towards my face or my boobs, I was just randomly allocated them in life! Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/20 10:31 AM |
| 1 | What is your response when a man you are attracted to pays you little mind?Usually the same thing happens, I get upset, have a long hard think and decide that ultimately I don’t want to pursue a relationship with somebody who doesn’t seem interested. I would then reluctantly try to turn my attention to somebody else. Usually there is always someone else who has been interested that you’ve probably been pushing away because you liked the guy who is now paying you little mind. You might finally decide to take him up on the offer of that date. Things might go well. You mi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/20 12:14 AM |
| 1 | Women aren't less horny than men: it's just the fact that their physical standards are so high that so few men actually meet that standardWell it’s largely based on hormonal differences. Higher testosterone increases sex drive and men’s testosterone levels are far higher. So yes, they are less horny than men. Attraction isn’t based solely on looks for women. A man can be very attractive to look at but his personality can make him unattractive. So their physical standards are necessarily higher, it just isn’t enough alone to seal the deal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/20 12:00 AM |
| 1 | Do you think it's okay, for you, to be friends with your ex, while you're in a relationship with another man?No I don’t think so. I think you should try and end things on good terms and be polite if you bump into them in future and leave it as that. Doesn’t matter if you are male or female, I think the same rule applies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/20 11:54 PM |
| 4 | Q4A: At a time like this, would you rather raise a daughter or a son?When I was a little girl I used to play imagination games about magical powers, animals, new worlds. Or we would enjoy making things. And we used to have a band. My daughter plays similar games with her friends. Some of my friends who had baby brothers or sisters liked playing with babies too and nurturing games but I wasn’t really into that. I don’t think girls use their pouty faces to manipulate people, only the really bitchy girls who are the minority. You just sound like you hate little girl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/20 11:44 PM |
| 6 | Traveling brags in women's dating profilesSurely she’s just trying to get across that she likes travel in order to attract someone like minded? OR just trying to come across as more interesting. I have a few friends that are always posting pictures of themselves on Instagram in different locations. Truth is, they often work as air hostesses for a few years as a way of seeing the world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/20 11:34 PM |
| 17 | Women don't appreciate the value of sex since its so readily available to them. That's why they will never understands mens obsession with avoiding high N count women for LTRsThat’s why they will never understand men’s obsession with avoiding high N count women for LTRs - No, not at all. I’m a woman and I get why you might not want to be in a long term relationship with a woman who has slept with a lot of men. I wouldn’t ideally want to be in a relationship with a man who had slept around a lot either and for a lot of the same reasons. I don’t think the way women and men think is so wildly different as people like to make out. I try to be open minded and sex-positive… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/20 11:22 PM |
| 12 | Women don't appreciate the value of sex since its so readily available to them. That's why they will never understands mens obsession with avoiding high N count women for LTRsSurely in the heterosexual world women must be having just as much sex as men? Otherwise who are they having sex with? If men are sex starved then surely women must be just as sex starved? So is it just than men want more sex than women? Or do women just sleep with a small shared pool of men? From personal experience women don’t usually want to sleep with a guy who is known for sleeping with a lot of women, especially if said guy has slept with women she knows. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/20 11:11 PM |
| 2 | Women are both publicly and privately much more entitled than MenWith regards to the point around women being helped in public much more than men, I think you could be right. What I would add though, is that quite often it is women that help other women. For example if I saw another woman on her own being harassed in a bar or on a train for example I would usually step in. I wouldn’t physically step in but I’d ask her to come and join us, ensure she got home safely etc. Also, generally speaking men are much physically stronger and larger so may be more able t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/20 02:22 PM |
| 3 | How many of you have a truly close platonic friend of the opposite sex?But if a guy is pretending to be your friend just to pursue the objective of sex or a relationship that isn’t a friend. Sounds like a bit of an asshole to me. A friend should be someone you can come to and chat about college / work / friend / family / life issues. Imagine disclosing something really personal ie. a serious family illness or something to your ‘friend’ who actually doesn’t care about you as a friend and you later find out he just wanted sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/20 09:27 PM |
| 4 | Most seduction books are pure s**t, what you need to be doing is working on fundamental social skills and dealing with your inner demons.. | /r/seduction | 02/07/20 04:10 PM |
| 12 | Most seduction books are pure s**t, what you need to be doing is working on fundamental social skills and dealing with your inner demons.Yes!!!! I actually dated a guy who I genuinely really liked as a person but he wasn’t as conventionally ‘good looking’ as my ex’s, he wasn’t in the best shape, he earnt less and he was quite introverted. I could tell he was less experienced than me by the way he kissed, the sex, he didn’t have many ex’s and some of the things he said gave it away. None of that bothered me because we had really great long conversations, I’m also introverted so it was nice to finally meet a guy who was like me and… | /r/seduction | 02/07/20 09:34 AM |
| 0 | Do both sides of the debate matter?This is what I find difficult to understand. Men who hate women due to being rejected by women for reasons that seem superficial (money, height, looks etc) are actually very superficial themselves (want women in their early 20s with model - like looks to fall for them and show distain for women their own age and in their own ‘league’ who perhaps actually would have been interested were it not for their horrendous views on women and dating) 🤷🏼♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/20 03:52 PM |
| 10 | How to avoid 'giving your power away' after sex?My words are not ‘thinly veined toxic hate’ and definitely did not come from a place or hate, you have just interpreted them as such. My words come from a place of ‘I wish more guys opened up and had deep conversations. What a shame society doesn’t encourage this and instead encourages men to get their stuff and leave after sex and bottle in any emotions’ Obviously I’m not suggesting that he pours his heart out to a hookup buddy or a girl he hardly knows. You have to apply some filter until you … | /r/seduction | 22/06/20 03:30 PM |
| 2 | How to show u have other girls without making her feel badTread carefully... if you know she already likes you then I don’t think you need to play games. It may end up backfiring. For example, I was dating a guy for a little while and thought I was the only person he was dating so I rejected other guys advances. Something I saw on his social media and a few little clues gave me the impression there may be another girl or two he was taking to. After this, I was more open to advances from other guys. Long story short I ended up dating another guy and bec… | /r/seduction | 22/06/20 02:36 PM |
| 6 | How to avoid 'giving your power away' after sex?If you’re just hooking up and you both know that then you should just leave it at that. Tell them you enjoyed it. Get up and shower, ask if they would like a drink etc and be polite. Don’t be a jerk about it but equally you don’t want to give the wrong impression and lead that person on. If you’re dating or if it’s a person you want to date then I think it’s completely natural to open up and chat after sex. I don’t think enough men do this. As a woman I love deep conversations after sex. I alway… | /r/seduction | 22/06/20 02:24 PM |
| 1 | Can you date without the apps?I’m a woman in my 20s. Here is my opinion: yes, you can date without the apps BUT if you are approaching a women IRL I think the best way is to approach her and her friends along with a few of your friends. Don’t make it like a one on one ‘I’m interested in you, are you interested in me’ kind of thing because then as a woman you feel a bit pressured. Like, if you engage in conversation or accept a drink it might be hard to get away if the guy turns out to be an asshole, weird or you just have no… | /r/seduction | 22/06/20 02:14 PM |
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