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No but it helps.
/r/askTRP11/06/20 09:51 AM
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I am unsure whether to continue with the LTR given what has happened and given that I am so young and have cheated in past. She wants to continue but I am unsure whether it is sensible since I may end up cheating on her again. I have also had mixed feelings about this LTR for a couple of weeks, and although she brings a lot to the table, part of me wants variety and the freedom that being single provides, but I do like this girl so it is not an easy decision.
/r/askTRP10/02/20 06:25 PM
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Do you want to go? Then go. If not, then don’t. Whether you’re in a relationship or not shouldn’t really determine this if it is firmly established that you aren’t in an exclusive relationship.
/r/askTRP30/12/19 01:50 PM
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True true. It will probably mean the end of the ltr which is a very good ltr, but I do crave variety. I’m not sure what desires to act on, as they are conflicting.
/r/askTRP28/12/19 12:20 AM
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A tricky one. There is a high chance I will get caught, and I’m not sure it is worth the risk. I want the side fun but it may mean losing everything, as it is an ltr that provides me with a lot, not that I’ll feel very disheartened if I do lose it, but it is a good thing I have, I just want that variety and I’m so young to be settling down.
/r/askTRP28/12/19 12:20 AM
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Fairs fairs, I didn’t set that precedent early on unfortunately and I have already agreed to an exclusively monogamous relationship when she asked for it. Not sure how to move from this to an open LTR on my side, probably isn’t possible tbh
/r/askTRP27/12/19 12:34 AM
2

How did you manage to work that out with your LTR?
/r/askTRP26/12/19 11:37 PM
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True true. Is it worth the risk and stress of having a side chick? Or should I be open about my desire to sleep with others?
/r/askTRP26/12/19 11:25 PM
1

The moment you contemplate vegetarianism you are doomed to become a soyboy.
/r/askTRP26/12/19 11:20 PM
2

Ritalin.
/r/askTRP26/12/19 11:09 PM
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She will leave if I say this I’m sure. We are at uni together, but it’s difficult when the holidays are here and I want some action. Is the best thing to do to tell her directly and be completely open about it?
/r/askTRP26/12/19 11:07 PM
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How do you manage your LTR with this though? And how do you make sure she doesn’t find out?
/r/askTRP26/12/19 11:03 PM
8

Regretful?
/r/askTRP26/12/19 10:58 PM
5

Nice analogy.
/r/askTRP26/12/19 08:36 PM
7

I should have established a different frame early on I guess.
/r/askTRP26/12/19 08:35 PM
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We’re at uni together so when we’re there it’s good but in the holidays it’s not ideal as we live far away from each other. I also like the idea of a side chick, would make the long distance from my LTR in the holidays easier, and would be a lot of fun, but there is probably a high chance that she will find out, and I’m not sure if that is worth ruining the relationship over.
/r/askTRP26/12/19 08:31 PM
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No I don’t think they’ll tell her, but what if they are pressuring you to tell her?
/r/askTRP22/12/19 12:47 PM
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I wouldn’t go on that kind of holiday whilst in an ltr and probs not even if I wasn’t. Nothing good comes from those holidays.
/r/askTRP02/10/19 07:12 PM
2

For sure.
/r/askTRP02/10/19 01:14 AM
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A very reasonable well thought out answer. Appreciate it. Yes I must judge this inside the context of my ltr and how she acts generally.
/r/askTRP02/10/19 01:14 AM
3

The last one.
/r/askTRP02/10/19 01:10 AM
7

No. Not when in an ltr, and by the fact that nothing good comes from these places.
/r/askTRP02/10/19 01:09 AM
3

Yep.
/r/askTRP01/10/19 11:04 PM
4

Part of me really believes this.
/r/askTRP01/10/19 11:04 PM
40

I sympathise with this response. Some of the reposes are a bit OTT.
/r/askTRP01/10/19 10:55 PM
3

Obviously leave her immediately. She cheated, there’s no going back. Move on.
/r/askTRP01/10/19 10:11 PM
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Exactly we are both free to do what we like but there are consequences. She mentioned that I said I would walk to one of her friends as holiday plans came up in their conversation and then one of her friends said that o wouldn’t actually do it.
/r/askTRP01/10/19 10:09 PM
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So I should check out of the relationship emotionally but keep her for sex etc.?
/r/askTRP01/10/19 09:15 PM
2

How would you approach this now then in the situation I am in?
/r/askTRP01/10/19 09:14 PM
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Yes I think you are right-an action such as this shouldn’t have to be tales about as the assumption is that if you’re in an Ltr to don’t go to these kinds of things.
/r/askTRP01/10/19 09:09 PM
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Okay I see what you mean. Thing is, most of her friends who want to go are in relationships as well which is very strange. Makes me think they’re all just slags together.
/r/askTRP01/10/19 09:02 PM
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Note taken.
/r/askTRP01/10/19 09:01 PM
5

Lol true to some extent i guess.
/r/askTRP01/10/19 09:00 PM
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True, but I don’t see it as inserting my morals onto her as much as firstly having a discussion so that she knows my view on it and is aware of what I think. If she goes knowing that I am against then this is the go sign for me to leave.
/r/askTRP01/10/19 08:59 PM
5

Interesting approach. Is there perhaps a lack of communication in it though? You do need to let women know what you do and do not want from a relationship and their actions may question what you do or do not want so you may need to communicate this to them.
/r/askTRP01/10/19 08:57 PM
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Good answer
/r/askTRP01/10/19 08:40 PM
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Communication is key this is true. But there is a limit. We have communicated about this and it is clear that there are conflicting desires in this circumstance. Our views differ about this and we are only aware of this through communication. If we can’t get anywhere because she really wants to go and i won’t budge then it has become clear that we are not compatible for an ltr
/r/askTRP01/10/19 08:40 PM
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I see her tomorrow. I’ll let you know how things go. We’re supposed to be celebrating being together for 1 year haha what a way to celebrate it.
/r/askTRP01/10/19 08:32 PM
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I admit it is a terrible excuse. I told her if I was in her position I wouldn’t go even if all my group were, particularly if I was in an ltr (I wouldn’t go anyway face facts). What would you do if all your friends were going?
/r/askTRP01/10/19 08:29 PM
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Not gonna bother to stop her trying. I suspect part of her really does want to go but another doesn’t. Guess it is up to her which she goes with and I shall act accordingly. She knows where I stand on this.
/r/askTRP01/10/19 08:27 PM
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Indeed they are on hard mode. Yes there’s no way I’m backing down. Your point about boundaries is potentially true-she kept saying that the reason I didn’t want her to go was because I don’t trust her, whereas I gave her a list of reasons which basically concluded that nothing good could come from that holiday. Atm the ltr is good but you may be right- it will turn sour very quickly if she is adamant about going.
/r/askTRP01/10/19 08:26 PM
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Appreciate the advice, yeah I guess I just have to see what happens but if she does go I’m out of there as quick as i can. Will basically show me what our relationship means to her so that’s handy cos then I have an easy excuse to leave if she goes.
/r/askTRP01/10/19 08:24 PM
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She’s thinking about leaving, her intentions from that text are pretty clear. You might want to keep her around for sex but emotionally detach yourself from her as it looks like she already has from you. If you can’t do the sex without the attachment then just leave.
/r/askTRP18/09/19 11:25 PM
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Lawyer lawyer lawyer. Compile as much evidence as you can and build your case. The university may penalise you even if you’re innocent, so be ready for a battle to sue them if this happens. Sorry to hear this mate, you’ll get through it though.
/r/askTRP18/09/19 11:22 PM
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It’s tough but if you can do it then you know how high value a man you can be in a woman’s eyes. Also the things they do defo make it worth it.
/r/askTRP18/09/19 11:04 PM
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Nah it’s not doomed, you’ve got to be high value so that not only will she do things she’d do on the CC but that she’ll do things for you that she’s never done before. Now that’s a challenge.
/r/askTRP17/09/19 11:59 PM
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Keep your mouth shut and don’t brag about anything concerning getting women. try not to make your plate spinning known, and treat everyone with respect, you should be fine
/r/askTRP17/09/19 11:40 PM
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looool she crazy
/r/askTRP17/09/19 12:36 AM
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How many dates in are you talking about? If it’s the first then GTFO.
/r/askTRP17/09/19 12:21 AM
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Dude just ask her or check her phone. If she doesn’t let you see her phone you already gave your answer. And no, this isn’t a ‘beta’ move
/r/askTRP17/09/19 12:20 AM
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Has she been contacting this guy through Instagram or did she just give her Instagram to him? If it’s the former you need to drop that girl right now or at least distance yourself from her-messaging another guy who she’s just met and is straight is just disrespectful and has no place in a healthy ltr.
/r/askTRP16/09/19 07:36 PM
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Preach.
/r/askTRP06/09/19 11:11 PM
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Steer the convo to meeting up in person and go from there. You know the rest.
/r/askTRP06/09/19 10:59 PM
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If you are who you say you are then the root of their insults is most likely jealously or a feeling of being threatened by you-they realise that you may have a better chance of pulling than them and feel threatened so may question you and your appearance in an effort to make themselves look or feel better. It’s best to turn the joke around to them or to laugh it off, but if it is persistent and they don’t stop then fuck them and hang out with other people. If that’s all they’re doing to you whil…
/r/askTRP31/07/19 11:03 PM
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What are they saying, you need to be more specific
/r/askTRP31/07/19 10:57 PM
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No I meant envisage. Just try it.
/r/askTRP11/07/19 11:35 PM
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Envisage a life without porn that you truly believe is better than porn. Don’t just try and quit porn, create a life that is better than porn so that porn is no longer desirable for you.
/r/askTRP11/07/19 11:18 PM
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Mate it’s her birthday, wishing her a happy one isn’t going to change anything drastically
/r/askTRP11/07/19 11:17 PM
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Thanks for this, been helpful. The tour issue is going to come up quite soon and atm I’m pretty sure I’m not going-how would you suggest I answer this kind of question from my parents? My gf is coming down a week before my bday night out to stay, so will inevitably end up knowing about my curfew as I think I’ll have to sign in at a certain time-should I explain to her what the situation is, or at least give her some info? Some of my friends have already paid their train tickets down to visit for…
/r/askTRP16/05/19 06:27 PM
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This is good advice so thank you for that. I have to tell my gf/parents because my uni may stop me from going on tour in the summer which everyone knows I’m going on and I’m going to have to explain why I’m not allowed to go. Also I’m supposed to be having a night out for my birthday to which my gf and friends are coming down for, but don’t think it can happen due to the curfew. Thoughts?
/r/askTRP16/05/19 02:49 PM
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Don’t think so, no.
/r/askTRP16/05/19 02:44 PM
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Probably right.
/r/askTRP16/05/19 02:41 PM
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Exactly.
/r/askTRP16/05/19 02:26 PM
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I feel quite far down tbh, I’ve gotten stupidly drunk that’s why I’ve got into these situations. How about telling my gf/family?
/r/askTRP16/05/19 02:10 PM
1

I doubt they’ll accept that as an explanation.
/r/askTRP16/05/19 02:05 PM
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How am I supposed to tell my gf/family-the uni might stop me from going on tour in the summer and I’ll have to tell them
/r/askTRP16/05/19 02:03 PM
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Really? You think it’s that serious?
/r/askTRP16/05/19 01:59 PM
230

If ltr then good man, she was planning on branch swinging.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 04:28 PM
7

Study hard and get some hobbies.
/r/askTRP19/02/19 11:29 PM
2

Wait for her to contact you. She’s doesn’t sound like ltr material, you’re deluding yourself.
/r/askTRP19/02/19 11:28 PM
4

Go fuck another girl.
/r/askTRP19/02/19 11:27 PM
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No.
/r/askTRP07/02/19 06:48 PM
10

Start with bench press, squats, deadlifts, overhead press
/r/askTRP06/02/19 07:26 PM
1

She was talking about my friends not hers
/r/askTRP04/02/19 10:06 PM
10

Obviously I’ve already done that.
/r/askTRP04/02/19 09:26 PM
1

We’re supposed to be meeting tomorrow how do you suggest I go about this?
/r/askTRP04/02/19 09:18 PM
1

Wow you read this wrong.
/r/askTRP04/02/19 07:58 PM
1

Fair enough.
/r/askTRP04/02/19 07:39 PM
1

Some reasoning would be nice.
/r/askTRP04/02/19 07:06 PM
11

Just laugh it off and say it was a fun night. Just don’t drink like that again.
/r/askTRP04/02/19 06:45 PM
1

Depends on the woman.
/r/askTRP25/01/19 11:49 AM
1

This man knows.
/r/askTRP10/01/19 03:58 PM
2

If you’re talking about oxytocin, then yes, it is possible. Oxytocin will affect anyone who gets deep enough into a relationship (unless you’re a socio/psychopath).
/r/askTRP07/01/19 05:49 PM
2

Yeah it’s not really worth voicing your view explicitly, as people will most likely be hostile to it in my experience. If you keep on your way and live the red pill out people may begin to ask you what your motivations are, and maybe then you could say something.
/r/askTRP18/11/18 08:20 PM
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Stop getting with random girls if it’s damaging your reputation, find a purpose and mission and pursue it. Get some hobbies, go to the gym, start studying seriously. If you take other parts of your life seriously, then women will recognise that you might take them seriously as well. Focus on improving yourself, then look to find a girl. Also, game girls outside of your friend circle, they won’t have any bad feelings about you from the start which gives you a completely new shot at it.
/r/seduction26/10/18 02:34 PM
9

Stop getting so wasted.
/r/seduction26/10/18 02:06 PM
4

Read a book
/r/askTRP25/08/18 09:43 PM
1

Football.
/r/askTRP25/08/18 08:35 PM
1

Wasting your time on it when you could be improving yourself, giving attention to females, using it as tool for your own validation and relying on it for a feeling of self worth. This is actually so common.
/r/askTRP25/08/18 08:34 PM
2

Depends. How long are you listening to music for? If it's stopping you from concentrating or doing things then yes. Social media can be useful when used correctly, but damaging when misused. As for looking in the mirror, yeah, probably. But it may be justified.
/r/askTRP25/08/18 08:23 PM
2

Work in building efficiency up gradually by say a 5% increase per week. In a couple of months you'll be unstoppable.
/r/askTRP10/08/18 05:01 PM
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Reading, lifting, writing, developing and honing hobbies, meeting new people. Just try and enhance yourself in every way possible.
/r/askTRP30/06/18 12:07 PM
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