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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | An update on insecure about his exI know girl, it’s like a literal disease!! X | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/03/21 07:25 PM |
| 3 | He is not going to marry me or have kids with me for deeply personal reasons and I have accepted it. However, he doesn't seem to like the idea that I might be making more than him in the futureHonestly I feel sorry for this girl. She’s wasting her time and one day she will kick her self. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/03/21 05:10 PM |
| 1 | Long post ahead. Not sure if I’m insecure or second bestIf my partner said that ‘ they didn’t get along at all ‘ rather than the being too young I’d 100% commit myself to him completely it’s not really about him going back to her it’s more I don’t want him reflecting on her wishing he was more mature for him. That would make me second best | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/03/21 03:06 PM |
| 22 | He is not going to marry me or have kids with me for deeply personal reasons and I have accepted it. However, he doesn't seem to like the idea that I might be making more than him in the futureYou don’t want your relationship to suffer because of his pride. You’ll rather be shorter off in moneh. But he doesn’t care that you’ll be without a ring, proper commitment and children. Funny that. I know who I’d rather be in this relationship, him because he’s getting his cake and indulging in it. Big time. Girl wake up | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/03/21 02:17 PM |
| 37 | He is not going to marry me or have kids with me for deeply personal reasons and I have accepted it. However, he doesn't seem to like the idea that I might be making more than him in the futureHis ex was good enough to marry and take the risk. You aren’t is what I’m reading here. You’re suffering for the trauma she put him through. HAARDDDD next. Also sis, does he pay your damn f*cking bills for him to be mad about your earnings? | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/03/21 02:13 PM |
| 25 | He is not going to marry me or have kids with me for deeply personal reasons and I have accepted it. However, he doesn't seem to like the idea that I might be making more than him in the futureMy friends now husband used to say he has trauma around marriage and can’t marry as his parents, sister and best friend divorced. She said ok that’s fine, my parents have been married 35 years so I still believe in it. As she was going to leave him guess what? Suddenly his trauma vanished and they’re married. He’s not marrying you because he knows you’re sticking around for him because, you know, he’s the only man in the world. Sorry if I’m coming across harshly but please don’t be no ones doorm… | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/03/21 02:11 PM |
| 25 | He is not going to marry me or have kids with me for deeply personal reasons and I have accepted it. However, he doesn't seem to like the idea that I might be making more than him in the futureThis is screaming a million and one red flags at me | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/03/21 02:02 PM |
| 1 | Long post ahead. Not sure if I’m insecure or second bestTHank you this is honestly so helpful for me | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/03/21 12:49 PM |
| 1 | Long post ahead. Not sure if I’m insecure or second bestGirl I highly doubt if I had those experiences I’d have batted an eyelid at that comment. Hell I had a boyfriend in college who was lovely and sweet. If I was more mature we may have lasted too then I’d have never had my virginity taken by rape. I don’t miss him or wish we stayed together ( other than the fact that atleast I’d have lost my V nicely ) and I wouldn’t swap my husband for him. I think it’s also the fact that my husband took her virginity and didn’t get to take mine that I feel guilt… | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/03/21 12:25 PM |
| 1 | Long post ahead. Not sure if I’m insecure or second bestIt may be a possibility | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/03/21 12:17 PM |
| 1 | Long post ahead. Not sure if I’m insecure or second bestI know he isn’t in love with her but I guess it’s the possibility that if he could go back in time he’d pick her over me | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/03/21 08:13 AM |
| 0 | Still not over what he said about his exIt’s just weird to say we can’t be perfect because of age lol. Why would it be less perfect than if we were 21 🤣 | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/11/20 07:59 PM |
| 0 | Still not over what he said about his exThanks for your comment I disagree that our ages would mean we can’t have a happily ever after relationship that was a strange comment | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/11/20 07:38 PM |
| 1 | One day I hope I can be free from the pain of my past.Thanks. Why would you say to definitely not speak to my fiancé about it? X | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/10/20 08:30 PM |
| 8 | Newly separated 33 year old. How can I find love again?what country is this? He sounds awful. Therapy for you before looking for someone new | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/07/20 07:07 PM |
| 1 | Is my dealbreaker justified?I didn’t even read the rest but I wanted to comment on your title your dealbreakers are your dealbreakers and as long as they’re important to you they’re valid. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/07/20 05:12 PM |
| 2 | 24 to 30 is the golden window of finding a HVM.Myself and many other people I know found the one when we actually stopped looking. Some things can’t be forced but that’s my opinion and experiences 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/06/20 09:04 PM |
| 13 | 24 to 30 is the golden window of finding a HVM.Hmm. I didn’t date before 24 and because I felt so pressured by timescales like this one I fell into a really awful relationship at 24 because I just so desperately wanted to be taken. I guess I should have known better as I was old enough to do so.. Ladies, you date when you’re ready and don’t ever feel pressured. When it’s your time it’ll come don’t feel pressured to find love before a certain age honestly. Love yourself | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/06/20 11:49 AM |
| 1 | Ladies, am I asking for too much?Ah I get what you’re saying make it more a discussion than a dictation | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/05/20 03:46 AM |
| 1 | Ladies, am I asking for too much?Because I’ve become more spiritual over the last few months and realise that I want to remake that commitment of waiting till marriage I don’t really see the big issue I get what you’re saying about it seeming like I’m playing games though. But nothing good has ever come out of premarital sex for me. | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/05/20 03:41 AM |
| 2 | Anyone else overcompensate?Funny you recommend that I was looking into that book this morning. ! | /r/RedPillWives | 08/05/20 10:13 PM |
| 2 | I hate my own cookingNo offence but Who the heck puts undercooked chicken in a microwave lol | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/05/20 11:16 AM |
| 1 | I hate my own cookingI think its better to over cook as a beginner, I just imagined under cooked chicken and.. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/05/20 09:57 AM |
| 2 | How to get over regrets?In my earlier twenties I let a great guy go who later moved onto someone else and had a child with her and I beat myself up over it for literal years. Now I look back and I realise that it wasn’t meant to be. I believe everything happens for a reason and one day it’ll all make sense. If you two were meant to be you’d have made it through this argument but he moved on quite quickly so to me he already had one foot out. But that’s my opinion 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/04/20 09:05 PM |
| 1 | totally triggered and feel unworthyThank you. I’m going to screen shot this and keep it when I feel this way. X | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/04/20 08:24 PM |
| 0 | totally triggered and feel unworthyThe last paragraph you wrote is correct. Fiancé knows I’m not he just doesn’t know the full story. Should I tell? | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/04/20 06:43 PM |
| 2 | How do I forgive myself?❤️ relate | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/20 06:06 AM |
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