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,????
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 06:46 AM
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Idk, with me and my now partner there definitely was a spark (we both liked eachother a lot, but we were so fucking nervos that we barely hugged eachother, and we had to clarify on text after that it was in fact, a date, and that we didn't want to be just friends)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 05:50 AM
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Thats fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 04:32 PM
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Not American, so that might be why. The obesity rates in my country are not nearly as bad as in the states. The only acceptable age for that kind of weight would be 45+, if he was an alcoholic or diabetic. Otherwise, he would still get laughed at plenty.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 04:12 PM
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Fr. It's not hard to brush your teeth every night and every morning, plus maybe 2 quick brushes during the day if necessary/ate something foul. Two is the minimum. If you don't notice someone's oral hygiene (or lack thereof) during the first few dates, then you are delulu. Or if you choose to ignore it, thinking it would get better. People are on their best behaviour in the earliest stages, I imagine it would only fucking get worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 03:42 PM
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If he lost weight he would jump to a fucking 7, also if he groomed that beard. Right now, absolutely a 4.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 03:39 PM
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A 6/10?? Show me a 6/10 woman, I dare you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 03:38 PM
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That's above average?? At his age?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 03:24 PM
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I'm not sure how valuable empty sex and butchering your body is, but everyone should do whatever they want, as long as it doesn't directly impact the ones around them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 01:22 PM
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Why wouldn't I care about my pussy? Don't you care for your cock? Do you leave it unwashed or what do you even mean? As for personal feelings, obviously we care about them. I don't expect anyone else to care about them, clearly my well being is my job, isn't it? What do children have to do with it anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 12:19 PM
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Yeah??? I cant fathom how I'm over here telling this dude that I very much enjoy sex and crave it multiple times a day and he sits there like "no you dont".
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 12:18 PM
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How are you gonna sit there, a grown ass dude, telling me (a woman) that women don't enjoy sex. I've had sex with women. Clearly they enjoyed it or they wouldn't have continued having sex with me. Clearly i have wnjoyed it or i wouldnt have had sex wit them. What did they get out of it? Me smoking half their cig packet and a flannel? That seems like a stretch. Porn stars aren't the only ones buying them, single women also buy toys. I've heard women comain that they didn't have good sex, or that …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 12:17 PM
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My grandfather is italian. Thank you for making assumptions though. I highly apreciate it. Everytime I visited there, people were very courteous of me and my father. Yes, he did work around the house. He was still served. I also did. Was still served bomb food. My female friend I went there with too. She went home with a basket full of goodies. It was the first time they saw her. I don't mind making tomato sauce. I often make it. If they give me some bomb ass recipe for it, and some home grown t…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 12:07 PM
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Damn 5'2? She's gonna need a chair to be able to kiss you. You want that?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 10:53 AM
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You mean his mother will braid my hair and make delicious tomato sauce for me? Where the downside at?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 10:50 AM
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AND THEY COOK.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 10:49 AM
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Hahaha ha Arab dudes tho? If my partner left me that's what I would do.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 10:48 AM
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Thank you, this was very insightful. I'm very curious, please tell me more over how women aren't meant to enjoy sex, and please do tell me, who in their right mind would have sex with someone who hated having sex with them, or only tolerated it? Why are women the main buyers of sex toys? Why do over 60% of women watch porn and masturbate? Why do I still have the drive of a 14 year old boy? Why is my female partner the same? Why do wr have sex if neither enjoy it? Pakistan literally has a severe …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 10:38 AM
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How does one measure happiness, especially when a religious cult is involved? SSRIs? Do you think they believe in that crap? They were taught to pray it away. And that not being happy is somehow a sin, because your life is a gift from God and being unthankful is not good at all. I'm glad you brought up the divorce bullshit. If these women are scared to lose their purity, what makes you think they'd have the courage to divorce or cheat???
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 10:33 AM
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Most of those people who are rich, therefore have power, are men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 05:10 AM
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It's not only that you can't, you absolutely and utterly shouldn't. No one should.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 05:02 AM
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They would end up in a dead bedroom. She can masturbate, she will stop having shitty sex, where she isn't even able to reach her peak.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 04:58 AM
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That's not true at all. It's so far fetched I odmt even think it needs a rebutall. If the wife wants ti have sex once every 3 weeks, and the husband wants it daily, that's clearly an incompatibility. She doesn't have to have had any experience to know they're not compatible. It's going to cause fights and disappointment. Maybe she's very adventurous and wants to try a lot of things. And he only wants to pound into something for a few minutes and be done. Maybe he's literally into cucking. Especi…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 04:56 AM
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Getting backstabbed doesn't really mean shit. Men also tend to get backstabbed by other men, and by women. Having a bad feeling in your stomach doesn't mean you will act upon it. Women tend to be more forgiving amd accepting too. Once you break a dude's trust it's over, with women tho? Whole other story. Pov: red pill men when they have to admit that women are good at something that isn't breeding or serving a dude No, they very much aren't. 1)because they aren't socialized that way, 2) because …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 08:02 AM
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It's not about equalizing anything dude, it's the fact that people aren't commodities.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 04:18 PM
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You are deflective. It makes sense on how women would know better, they grew up around other women of all kinds, they read women better. Not sure where you get this audacity to think you know us better, given the fact you are likely single and can't get laid. I 100% can assure you, you have no idea what a slut is.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 02:22 PM
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I don't care. If the reasoning is feeling sexually inadequate, it means that it's wrong for both genders. If it's about the effort it takes, women should be praised everytime they lift something heavy. Or join a male dominated career. They should be praised for a lot of simple shit by that logic, really. All of my male friends had at least 3 girlfriend by the time they turned 19, and a few night stands. Almost all of them are hideous, as per men often are. You have to be a loser to not be able t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 01:37 PM
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The oldest profession was midwifery. As for the stats, look at Germany. It's completely legal, and it's the human trafficking Hotspot of Europe. https://www.politifact.com/factchecks/2013/mar/02/diane-mckeel/Is-average-age-entry-sex-trafficking-between-12-an/ No matter how many dudes a girl fucks a day, the demand is too high. Even she fucked 25 dudes a day without break, the demand is too high, and trafficking will always happen. No one trafficks accountants or astronauts or surgeons or writers…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 01:19 PM
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If she's both hot and has a nice personality, she won't have a body count of 0. If she's overweight and kinda annoying, or boring, or too anxious, or just ugly and asocial, she has higher chances of being a virgin. Even if you somehow found the perfect, virgin, mentally stable, single, young, fit hottie, and she also chooses you (an average dude into casual sex), pray that her parents also approve of you. If they don't... hm. If you think that kinda girl exists, I have a bridge to sell ya. Daugh…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 01:11 PM
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I just respond to random people, sorry if you felt targeted in any way. Hits home where exactly What do you mean by that
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 01:05 PM
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Really! Been told a lot of times that I have been the best partner at giving had. It saddens me because I'm literally gay, so the women I was fucking were also fucking women, obviously. I'm the first partner my girlfriend had that was able to give her head or finger her without causing any pain.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 12:58 PM
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This^ Especially the first time with someone new, they should be making a puddle, like, wet spots if they are wearing light colored pants. If u gotta use lube, they are not into you, or have vaginal dryness.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 12:44 PM
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If you need to use lube while she's young, and especially the first time, she either isn't that into you, or she has vaginal dryness.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 12:43 PM
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Ppd men have seen vaginas in porn, and have been in one when they were entering this world. That's about it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 12:41 PM
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^ This. Being relaxed and fully aroused helps so much
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 12:31 PM
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We already know bud. We know better than you do. Have no worries. Not only do we instinctively know, they also tend to tell us, so we know when we are right. Cheers.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 11:58 AM
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I have a friend who does drugs, parties twice a week, has colored hair (she's always either blue in the head, or green, or pink or purple or some crazy color), has multiple ear piercings, a nose ring and wear slutty clothes. She was my best friend for a good while. She has a body count of two, at over 18. One of them She was coerced into it (read rape, her then boyfriend physically pinned her down). She was 16 then, maybe. Several Years later, she's with her now boyfriend, she waited 2 months an…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 11:57 AM
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-because they can afford it and you can't
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 11:49 AM
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Yeah. But that logic can be perfectly applied to men too. If one you little sluts used to be a man whore during his better days, then she might compare herself too. Maybe the other ones were tighter, had less of a gag reflex, maybe they were more adventurous or just.. better in bed. Maybe they looked better. I honestly think we should start slut shaming men. Not only do they ruin good women, most of them can't even make them cum. Not only that, but they spread disease. Sex between men has the la…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 11:48 AM
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That she's attractive and she's also good in bed? Oh no
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 11:39 AM
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Not at all. Vaginas are a muscle canal, the more you use it, the tighter it gets. You can learn to control how it tightens and relaxes. You can even make it pulsate, kinda like a vibrator.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 11:38 AM
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Obviously. Not sure why one would argue with that, specifically excluding abusive situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 10:43 AM
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A person is not a commodity. The demand will always be higher than the "supply" (I barfed into my own mouth), so trafficking will be inevitable. The stigma will also never die down, and already most prostitutes are women who come from shitty families, women of colour, queer people, empoverished women, etc. The average age of entering in the industry is 14, the rates of rape,.murder, violence and robbery are through the roof, leaving stds aside. The health, sanity and safety of these women are mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 10:40 AM
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???
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 06:44 PM
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This!!!!!! This along with drug use, drinking, gambling, over spending.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 03:09 PM
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Have you ever thought that not having experience at all and being new to the dating scene, way past the age you will be forgiven for mistakes (teenage years) is fucking scary? Yall get so lost in your minds you forget to actually think. It would be like being locked up in your room for the first 17 years of your life, wouldn't ya be scared as shit to go outside? People are terrified to leave their job and lppk for a new one if it's shitty, some end up unemployed after their career didn't take of…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 03:06 PM
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Do I have a strong community of friends around me? Do women like me/would Daye me? Then perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 02:27 PM
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Djdhdjjdn please I pissed myself reading this
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 12:10 PM
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That literally never happens. If she wants to fuck you she will.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 12:03 PM
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Do you also take into account how men are usually the perpetrators of said creepy behaviour or does logic suddenly not matter as much
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 12:02 PM
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Womp womp womp. Ok and?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 12:00 PM
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Guess what! No one cares. None of the women at least, and none of the men who are actually date able and get dates. What are you trying to accomplish here? Cold approach in a club or something
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 09:11 AM
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Wait till one fucks you good. There will be absolutely no turning back.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 07:45 AM
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Marriage is a life long commitment. It has nada to do with sexual purity. Christmas was a pagan holiday in the past, it had everything to do with unholyness. And now it's the most Christian thing ever. I'm not a dude, but I'll still marry a woman. I'll tell you why I want to spend my life with my now partner. I want to make a vow to her. I want to raise children with her and I want to be the first one the hospital calls if something had to happen to her. I want to be able to call her my wife. Ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 08:19 PM
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I resonate with this so much. Even when I was a young teen, my drive was insanely high and it still is. My first girlfriend wasn't allowed to look at my vulva for months too. This, and the shame of being gay. Men just seem to not understand, I was so disgusted with my body dor no reason. No one told me I was ugly, I wasn't fat, i wasn't skin and bones. My body was normal. It was, and still is pleasant to look at. At that time though, u legitimately thought I was hideous.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 07:59 PM
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I understand that sentiment, I truly do. But claiming marriage doesn't make sense for half the population of the west? That's kind of a stretch to me. It's absolutely fine if it's not the kind of thing op wants, but that doesn't mean it applies to every dude ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 06:57 PM
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How would someone's virginity help a marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 06:35 PM
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The last time men were allowed a "boys" only club, the kkk was formed. Yeah no, you can't. Yall are basically dangers to society .
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 05:23 PM
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Absolutely doesn't, never heard anyone say it would make you a misogynist. Wanting a faithful partner is perfectly fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 03:46 PM
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How would hiring women hurt ones mental health?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 03:43 PM
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I dont think wanting a faithful partner is all that unhealthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 03:06 PM
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I dont think wanting a faithful partner is all that unhealthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 03:06 PM
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It's not a "you're not allowed to" kind of thing, it's a "I want a monogamous partner. If you cannot fulfill that role, it's better we part ways" kind of deal. I imagine one of your boundaries for ltrs would be "dint have another man's kid while you are in a committed relationship with me".I think that's very reasonable, doncha?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 03:04 PM
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Losers don't really get anything tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 02:42 PM
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Won't even bother
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 11:27 AM
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Have some bullshit entry level job, like a batista, but absolutely do pay 50/50 on everything. You should also want children, a few of them actually, but still want to be treated as a roommate, not a wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 11:26 AM
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Guess what! Being a good man and a good woman is the same shit. Because we are all humans, and ni good quality in a dude is a bad quality in a chick, and vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 08:16 AM
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Children ather age play all the time, they run around, might stumble and fall over. Why is she wearing dresses? She should wear comfy clothes that cover her, and that allow her to move and play freely.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 09:25 PM
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But she's five? She's expressing common child like behaviour, BECAUSE SHE'S A CHILD.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 09:11 PM
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I think it's fair go be upset if someone lies to you. By this logic, you aren't entitled to know if the kid is yours or not. You aren't entitles to bring told the truth by your partner. You aren't entitled to a paternity test.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 09:04 AM
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That's why women shouldn't sleep with a dude unless he commits first. Wait a year, girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 09:03 AM
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"Typical wimin" I won't even bother.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 11:22 AM
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Never met one woman that was at fault. It's always the dude who's shitty. This guy is projecting, and unless he is a kpop star from a male group, he doesn't get hit on half as much as he claims he does.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 11:21 AM
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My dad is decent. Other than that... My primary school teacher is also a good man.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 10:17 AM
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We were talking about getting casual sex with women. Not what it's like being a man. Aside from obvious biological differences, I assure you, it's not that difficult, or different, if you compare it to being a woman. Unless you are sent to war or working on a some oil rig, I don't wanna hear it. There is nothing you have to fight against, no crushing responsibilities, the only problems you have and I don't are the ones you either caused yourself, or you imagined.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 07:53 AM
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So you mean sleeping with men has 0 of the benefit, with added risk? And aside from yall not being worthwhile, yalk get a pass for lying too????
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 09:14 PM
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How do you know tho? I'm gay, dated women casually for a few years. Like good years, ever since I was maybe 14-15 to when I was a little over twenty and found my now partner. I was just as horny as yall, craved sex everyday, multiple times a day, and would often get bored. So I searched for the next one. Never had to lie to get a girl in bed. Never. Never had to guilt trip or push someone into it. More over, as opposed to you, I could actually give them decent experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 04:59 PM
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What price I pay exactly What did I personally do exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 04:37 PM
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Look at your grandma dude. She probably carried shit, she raised 12 kids to adulthood, and might have lost a leg on the way. She's a real woman. My views on the masculinity and femininity dynamic are more fluid and forgiving, because I'm part of a lesbian relationship. While we are both feminine presenting, I often times, take a more masculine role. I defend her. I'm the one who takes care of the spiders and other "scary bugs", I'm more stern and assertive. I pick up the heavy things. I reach th…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 04:35 PM
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Hahaha no. Absolutely not. None of them explicitly say they are only interested in one sexual encounter. None of them say "I'm Absolutely not looking for a relationship, and won't have one with you". I have dated women casually. I make it explicit that I only want sex. Did they get bitter? Yes. Called me a liar? Never. I don't think that's a coincidence. You can make it sound sexy too. "I want you to be all mine for tonight" "I would love a one night stand with you, you excite me", it depends on…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 04:21 PM
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Femininity is not about being weak. It's about being intuitive, in tune with your emotions, not being a doormat, being caring and motherly, being strong and brave, caring for others. It has nothing to do with toys, not lifting weights (???) And being scared of insects.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 04:17 PM
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Ok and?? It's absolutely still not ok to lie and be deceitful. You know what women do to get casual sex and validation (aka the same shit you seek)? They put in makeup, shave everything, moisturize and dress nicely to attract attention. They still don't actively deceit, guilt trip or lie someone into bed. Why don't you do the same shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 03:52 PM
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Yes and no. Punk people used different color shoelaces to differentiate different groups with different beliefs, and to protect eachother. It's done to find people of the same culture, similar to how LGBT+ people do. Self expression feels good, even if you get judged for it. We are individualistic, we are humans, and it's normal to feel that way. Got bullied as kid for my eccentric sense of fashion. Still felt good wearing what I wanted. I got negative feedback for it. It cant possibly be for ot…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 10:12 AM
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I'd stay the fuck away. Wouldn't be interested either way, but him being Redpill would make me want to refuse him even if he gave me drugs for free.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 11:08 AM
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Do you need a picture of my girlfriend being shoulder deep into me or ...?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 11:04 AM
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Bet.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 11:03 AM
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Pesky ahh females 💀 They're all the same aren't they? I would know since I met em all!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 09:40 AM
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I don't need to. I'm out of the dating scene.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 09:39 AM
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💀
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 09:36 AM
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This makes 0 sense from a biological standpoint. Imagine if a bunch of batshit insane clicks claimed stealing from you and other men was alright, because women are naturally gatherers, and it's in their survival instincts, not because they're cleptomaniacs.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 08:52 AM
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Exactly. I'm pretty sure im a lesbian due to the rocky relationship I had with my mom. Me and my dad were always close growing up and continue to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 08:50 AM
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Most women don't even get to cum when fucking yall, I'll tell you they know what it's like to be sexually frustrated.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 08:48 AM
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"Frmales" 🤡 These pesky ahh females and their opinions, they should just shut up and suck my cock!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 08:24 AM
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There are men who aren't interested in sex too.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 08:21 AM
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Men have 0 authority over women, unless their job gives them some sort of position of authority, but that gives them authority over other men too, to a certain point. Men as a whole aren't my daddy, they hold no authority or power over me. They might be stronger physically, but they surely don't carry a taser around. I definitely have more say than you do. Men don't admit to other men how they act around women. I watch their actions, how they treat my friends, not what yall speak. Yall lie a bun…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 07:35 AM
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Didn't say it was controversial, but I know way more femmes than I know mascs. Maybe you tend to think that exactly because you can't differentiate femme lesbians from straight women, you need a trained eye for that lol. I mean yeah, thats kinda what I meant with the difference in the beauty standards. Not making effort won't fly. You still don't need to look like a caricature or a character in a hentai, which is refreshing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 07:32 AM
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Yes, that's exactly what I'm saying. Men seek validation from other men in enormous amounts. They won't admit their feelings even to their closest peers everytime, they won't admit they were rejected by a girl, especially when it comes to a proposal for a relationship. They will claim up and down they just wanted a quick fuck or that she was ugly anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 08:36 PM
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I don't even know what race he is lmao, I'm strictly talking about his unkempt appearance. Not his color.he looks white to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 05:08 PM
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You definitely can control cancer to a certain point, similar to obesity. If you only eat natural, locally produced food, no additives no bullshit, if you don't smoke, move somewhere with clean air and drink clean water, if you don't consume alcohol and drugs, your chances to get cancer are significantly lower. It's the same with being obese. Your health is yours to take care of, point in blank. Some people are obese because of other reasons. Sometimes it's the lack of resources, sometimes it's …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 05:07 PM
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That's like saying someone with cancer isn't a good role model. Aside from her obvious health issues, she's doing good for herself. The only female model red pill men will accept as appropriate for young women would be a caricature o a Christian woman licking her husband's shoes. She would be 16, a virgin, with a breeding kink.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 04:54 PM
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I have seen mosquitoes more attractive than him. What's "objectively" attractive about him? He looks like a homeless dude that escaped prison. He looks unkemp, his hair has 0 shape and looks oily most of the time, he has this weird ass looking face, looks like he is having a dispute with both his razor and his shower... she looks decent and presentable atleast, she looks human.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 04:52 PM
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I don't see how lizzo fits into this discussion. All I can say about her is that she's dangerously overweight and seriously needs to mind her health. Jason momoa looks like an ape. Oh yeah, the red pill wet dream or old crusty men dating young women, fresh out of college or high-school. Dream big, starshine. Aim for the sun! Even if you don't get there, you'll rip the skin of your ass at your inevitable painful landing either way!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 04:20 PM
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You are right, he is ugly as shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 04:08 PM
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I feel like since you aren't a woman, men aren't hitting on you all that much. You don't really get to see how men actually act with women, and who they're willing to commit with. They often won't admit it, especially after a rejection. After being rejected, they will swear she's ugly/or that they only wanted an easy fuck. I would also guess that since you aren't a woman dating other women, you wouldn't really know either. Yeah, men will fuck anything with a pulse, they will also date plain wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 09:44 AM
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Depends I'd said lesbian is masc presenting or fem presenting, and what kind of woman they prefer. Men will hit in you either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 09:43 AM
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Two top models are in a lesbian marriage, be fr. I feel like that's true for masc lesbians, fem lesbians tho? Gorgeous. The standards are absolutely different. That doesn't mean lower, more so realistic, but not putting in effort won't fly. You see how ruthless women are with the appearance of other women? Like how they dress, their makeup, things like that. I put ungodly amounts of effort, so does my girlfriend, and pretty much every fem presenting lesbian I know. I'm talking stereotypical thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 09:42 AM
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You kinda are at fault if your partner isn't satisfied. What's wrong about wanting an orgasm dude? You're using her for an orgasm too if you don't even feel bad about not being able to satisfy her. If she's bad at communicating help her ffs. It's so easy it's painful to read shit like this. Never met a woman with flaws that weren't at worst endearing. Had plenty of experience with women, pretty damn sure I'm right. As for your opinion, unless you made every single one of them cum, it doesn't mea…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 08:36 AM
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I'm a lesbian and I have dated around. We see beauty in different things. Men are kinda straight forward, even gay men, most like lean men, or yknow, buff, in great shape. Lesbian women tho? We dig curvy women, and skinny ones. Tall or short, etc. We all have our types. And they're vastly different.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 08:24 AM
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Lesbians are actually pretty looks oriented, I would say even more so than men. I notice that men are usually attracted to plain looking girls. Girls that are easy to digest, or girls other guys around them find attractive. Women tho? They have fucking types. They're fucking specific. As for personality? The amount of times I've seen girls be walked over by other girls, and still be in awe, just because that girl, ni matter how awful, was absolutely mesmerizing is insane. I have done it myself. …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 08:04 AM
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Maybe when they're not into you or don't feel safe with you. You asking if they like whayeverit id your doing makes everything much smoother. Yes I will in fact still blame you, and men in general. I know because I have fucked women, you can encourage them to communicate
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 08:07 PM
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Glad I'm gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 08:02 PM
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Why don't I just stay home and masturbate then? My partner does way more than that, that's why o prefer having sex with her over just touching myself, yaknow?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 07:33 PM
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That's absolutely not all it takes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 07:23 PM
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I had sex without wanting anything but to sleep with that specific person. Literally just wanted to see her naked, touch her, and fuck her. That's it. I know hetero women who did shit like that too. Plenty. And I know dudes who pushed my friends into a relationship with them, even if the girls Literally only wanted a one night stand.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 05:36 PM
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Sex isn't someone masturbating into you dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 05:34 PM
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It also helps when women effin communicate yknow? Every body is different, we like and dislike different things. Speak for fucks sake!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 05:33 PM
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Really! I'm not sure how op could say things like that unless he genuinely was never intimate with anyone, like ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 05:31 PM
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Heard so many men complain about their partners. And that's absolutely fair. Imagine if you had to deal with a starfish for the rest if your life, no enthusiasm, no touching, no moving at all, not making any sounds. Basically an inflatable doll.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 05:30 PM
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What is she supposed to do? Genuine question. What shall she do?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 05:28 PM
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That doesn't work for everyone either.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 05:27 PM
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Is that an abscess then?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 05:27 PM
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God forbid we ask people to be mindful of their partners. Women as a whole don't have a sexual dysfunction. It's stupid to use that analogy, since female sexuality isn't pathological. It has nothing wrong with it. Never met a woman who didn't enjoy good sex. Know what was all that I had to do? All I had to do was give a crap. Thats it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 05:26 PM
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Literally? I mean sure, women don't enjoy bad sex, but haven't heard of a woman who is healthy and isn't on meds that would suppress her libido express distaste even in good sex, unless she was severely traumatized sexually or straight up asexual, which is a minority. I can't go one day without it, or I get grumpy and moody. My partner (also f) is exactly the same. Pretty much all the women I've been with have been the same. Sure, our young age has to do something with it, but cmon..
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 05:20 PM
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I sincerely hope this is satire. Women don't enjoy bad sex. Almost everyone enjoys good sex with someone they have chemistry with. If women didn't enjoy sex, then all my relationships were supposedly a lie and I'm an exceptionally nymphomaniacal woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 05:17 PM
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Don't you all claim that men act a certain way because women started acting that way? Which one is it then? Is everyone responsible for themselves, or are women responsible for men and men for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 12:42 PM
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Comments like these make me so glad I'm gay. I won't have to deal a single day with men who have this kind of beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 12:34 PM
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Do they tho? Most guy at that age don't want to settle down either. The ones who do already found good partners. As for going for older women, idk honestly. The age gap is iffy to say the least. Those women could very much be taking advantage of those young boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 01:08 PM
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No one said you had to ask. But then again, you really aren't that important that it's necessary. As for "I don't give a f about stray kids", it's the same as if you nutted inside someone. If you were the mother I would have sort of understood, but the kid not being from your nur doesn't change a lot for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 01:06 PM
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Your genes aren't so important that humanity absolutely needs them, unless your area is severely underpopulated, or with an aging population. Adopt dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 10:40 AM
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Men wouldn't date women older than them usually. Studies have been done, most men claim 18 year old girls are the most attractive, while women at every age think men in similar age groups to them are the most attractive . Show both sides of the coin.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 10:24 AM
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Are children involved tho?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 08:41 AM
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Yeah, you absolutely didn't live in a house full of kids, especially not ones with asthma, wiping every surface that accumulates dust isn't the only thing you have to do, and you 100% didn't own a house dog. Cheers!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 08:30 AM
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I don't buy into that shit that it's harder for most women to orgams than for men. I simply don't. It's so easy, you literally just have to be mindful of their body language and ask questions. You can literally feel their vagina contracting and relaxing repeatedly when you do something right.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 08:10 AM
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Not exactly. Me and my partner have it in slightly different places, hers is a little lower. Every vulva is different. Sure, they are all vulvas, but different nonetheless. Just like penises.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 08:08 AM
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Plenty of men out there who are great in bed. Usually they have decent physical condition, aren't boundary pushers, actively listen and are communicative. It's the same for women. Learn to speak up, and learn to listen and follow simple instructions. Learn how to ask questions. You'll be good.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 07:53 AM
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Every woman says they don't like penetration until there's proper forplay, and you finger them the right way. Most girls love the things fingers are able to do in there. As for dicks... I don't know really. Try to grind on their cervix while inside, it will stimulate their clit. Don't just pound, grind. Up and down.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 07:46 AM
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Idk, i don't have issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 08:53 PM
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Is it similar to the tip of the penis? Could ask your partner to rub that on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 08:03 PM
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Not at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 08:02 PM
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Lube?? Not touching it directly?? Being gentler???
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 07:34 PM
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Gay men have the highest std rate and gay women have it the lowest. ..? Plenty of men carry stds that they don't know about, because plenty of times they show little to no symptoms. So they pass it around. Obviously it's not their fault, and I'm not saying men shouldn't be having sex. I'm just saying that it's stupid to demonize women over this shit? And as a straight dude that you are call female genitals gross? Like dude I understand when gay men say it, I'm guilty of the same thing, but you, …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 07:24 PM
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How can you not learn the pressure and speed needed? Like not necessarily learn, but listen to instructions and read their body language??
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 07:23 PM
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Do you have a tough time finding someone who fits your standards, is single and also is really into you?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 07:21 PM
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People do stupid shit to get rich all the time, I'm surprised how they didn't choose those brothers who invented corn flakes (kellog maybe) as a way to decrease masturbation habits and made batshit crazy experiments on humans. I mean if they choose crazy why not go all the way?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 07:19 PM
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What I've noticed is that it really depends on the friend circle they have. Similar beliefs and interests, similar behaviours. This happens because they seek validation from their friends. They follow trends. They are humans lmao. Ofcourse their personalities will be vastly different, and men can't be put in categories unless there's something pathological about them. There will still be differences. Porn addicts are very recognizable, boundary pushers are very recognizable, people will low empa…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 07:15 PM
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Theirs was stupidly weak. Only a small percentage of those people actually got the disease. And btw, the study was about oral sex in general. Men give it away too. You can contract it by someone having it in their neck, and they give you oral. Does the thought of getting head also disgust you?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 06:59 PM
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I won't shame you at all. I'm just trying to see something. Won't call you the cel word until you start spewing shit about female nature as if we are all mindless nps. Or generalizations. Or dehumanizing and belittling others for their gender, race or sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 06:50 PM
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??? How would that help you or your partners?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 06:48 PM
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Are you a teenager/and/or attempting to date teenagers? You think a 30 year old woman would accept that crap? Even a 26 year old one, maybe once and done, but that shit consistently? Hell naw
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 04:48 PM
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Kinda agree and don't at the same time. Never dated/had a fling a woman that had a low libido, or heard of a happy one with a low libido. If she feels safe, attractive and loved, if the place is clean and she feels you put in effort, she will always want to be intimate with you. All of this, ofcourse, is only applicable If she's attracted to you, she isn't on meds that lower her libido or has any medical issues that would affect it. There is a saying, if a man could have sex with a woman in a ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 04:37 PM
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This ^ Women have roughly the same standards as men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 04:29 PM
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You can absolutely learn how to read her body language, and she can use her big girl workds like "harder", "softer", "faster" and "slower". Heck, you can even ask her if she wants you to be more gentle or rougher, if she wants it faster or slower. You genuinely have to not care to not get her to finish at least once.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 03:58 PM
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You are a man dude. You genuinely couldn't know, even if that shit existed. We aren't a monolith dude, we aren't some bricks on yo daddy's wall. We have different thought processes, we have different personalities, heck we even do different drugs. Mind you shit and grow up a little.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 03:53 PM
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I genuinely enjoy going down on my partner than being eaten out. Or maybe I just haven't found a good enough pussy eater.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 03:51 PM
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Vaginas are self cleaning, dicks aren't. Also, some men feel there's no need to wipe after peeing. Or washing your hands beforehand and after.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 03:49 PM
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Actually, a study has been done, someone else here with a neighbour that died from it posted a link. Out of 80% of adults that performed oral sex during their lives, a very small percentage actually developed that specific type of throat cancer associated with performing oral sex. The problem was their laughably weak immune system. Have some vitamin gummies, spend some time outside and you'll be fine lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 03:47 PM
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As someone who's attracted to women, I can't understand for the life of me how you can see it engorged, red, and the hole opening and closing begging for attention, dripping wet, and just not wanting to eat it. Like I'm sorry??? HOW? The only explanation I can fathom is being a gay man.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 03:43 PM
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How is it gross?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 03:41 PM
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Still a holy way to die dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 03:40 PM
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...? Do you know how a vagina works?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 03:39 PM
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What a holy way to die
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 03:38 PM
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Even women eat pussy sometimes dude. I genuinely think anyone attracted to women would enjoy it. I mean, just look at it!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 03:37 PM
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A few quick questions: are you single or dating around, with succes or without, are you contempt with the state of our dating market, have you ever personally met 1 woman you actually like that likes you?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 03:36 PM
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Romania is correct tho. He admitted to blackmailing them into producing porn, and he also gave them an abysmally small portion of what they made. He was also physically and emotionally abusing them during that time, and news flash, he was also raping them. Hooray
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 03:34 PM
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Or they are just too lazy to do it. Those poor necks and weak jaws:(
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 03:32 PM
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Moping isn't enough to get rid of the smell. It also gets on walls, btw. If you don't scrub that shit with bleach, it wasn't cleaned. They are weekly tasks. You have to do something everyday if you don't want to clean for 3 days straight. You don't wipe every surface in your house? Where do you live that there's never dust? On a boat in the middle of the ocean? Dude?? A FEW MONTHS? DUDE. You hold food there. Once a month is the bare effin minimum
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 01:54 PM
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Ah great idea
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 01:51 PM
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Because I wanna be taller than you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 11:03 AM
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What about alternative fashion? Especially goth people, with frills and chains and collars. They do it to express themselves, though it's often slutty. Now make it pink. The same effin concept. Goth culture also has the music behind it, just like gyaru from Japan did. They also dress slutty, and it was exactly to express personal freedom and rebellion against the strict beauty standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 10:19 AM
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I genuinely can't believe you actually know how much time it takes. As for the sock, would you really put it in the washing machine? Or touch it at all really?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 09:13 AM
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What happened to her mother?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 09:09 AM
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It's very easy if you constantly keep them on horse tranquilizers too,but hey, it's not exactly healthy or good for them, eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 09:07 AM
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Massage therapists and social media managers are paid more than both teachers and construction workers. What's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 09:05 AM
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Maybe you aren't built for construction either then.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 09:02 AM
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It is a chore though, it's a huge responsibility. I know kids who got into drugs and drug dealing (not talking about just some weed either) before they turned 14. Plenty of problematic children out there. It's really easy when they are over 4 and under 13, and when they don't have any learning disabilities, mental issues, physical issues. It's easy when they don't have some deadly allergy to stupid shit like gluten or nuts or bees, when they aren't suicidal and weren't assaulted sexually, which …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 07:49 AM
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You ever scrubbed piss, while being on your knees, from the toilet floor? Or you ever had to wash your son's cumsock? Ever had to find used pads/tampons behind the toilet and clean them? Or had to remove period blood stains from your daughter's clothes? Do you know roughly how much time it would take for you to wipe every surface in your house? Now consider a house with 3 rooms, 2 bathrooms and a kitchen. You ever had to wash the garbage can? Or behind it? Ever had to clean the pipes? When was t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 07:42 AM
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If the wife works a part time job, or doesn't work, that's something else. If she works the same hours as the husband though, I feel like it would be fair to split chores 50/50. Childcare is supposed to be 50/50 anyway, it's not to the benefit of the other parent, but mainly for the child.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 07:20 AM
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How does "putting out early" being nice? Aren't women with high bodycounts undesirable? Also going down on someone? Is that required to be considered nice? I agree that planning dates, offering to pay, asking questions, being interested and complimenting your date is a really good thing and that it shows interest. I agree that its necessary. But sexual favors for the sake of being nice and not out of desire? If someone did that shit to me I would help them find a good therapist. I want my partne…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 07:13 AM
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Do they
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 11:28 PM
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Plenty of men leave their families and have whole other families, without speaking to their wives or kids for months or years on end, without actually filling for divorce. Or they just let their wives do the paperwork. Plenty of men mentally, emotionally and sexually check out without filing. I'm suspecting it's out of commodity in some cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 07:21 PM
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None, because men aren't a monolith and they want different things. Be your best version, try to meet new people, and chances are you will find someone who likes you for who you are, and you fuck with them too. Do your best and hope for the best, have realistic standards and you'll be good.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 05:44 PM
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It depends on what rights we are talking about. The basic human right of rejecting the draft? Absolutely fair and necessary. The right to state mandated 14 year old girlfriends? That's incel territory.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 05:42 PM
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Most men partner up with women their age. I see why it would be problematic for someone to date a person who could be their son or daughter, or even grandchild. It isn't necessarily wrong though. You don't experience it first hand, but I still do, probably will for another decade or less. They treat us in a very unnerving way. Other women notice too, because there is a 90% chance they went through that crap at some point, and there is a fair chance it wasn't pretty. I'm not critiquing you since …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 05:40 PM
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Married men are happier on average than unmarried men, and it shows. They live longer, lower risk of heart attack or stroke, lower depression rates, higher employment rated, lower risk of being addicted to alcohol, drugs or gambling. Please note that isn't the case for all the married men. But for over 50% of them. I'm convinced there are plenty of married men who are unhappy. At the end of the day, marriage is not for everybody, neither long term relationships. Please, do whatever you feel is b…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 05:33 PM
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Fr. Dogs shit outside at least (*for the most part)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 05:28 PM
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