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I see a gap between your flair and your life situation. How do you deal with the gap?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 05:09 PM
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At least when they are younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 05:25 PM
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The distributions have moved around but it does not mean it always translates to lived experiences. Mens salaries as a group have been stagnating or dropping a bit. The super high earners these women tend to look for have probably increased their earnings. The guys working middle or lower income jobs have lost income especially in rural areas where industries moved out. Women have gained a lot of income in the past 40 years as they got better degrees. Also women tend to have an easier time getti…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 02:50 AM
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cough Ariana grande cough
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 07:27 PM
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I think the word nice, toxic, attractive, asshole, kind, equal etc should not be used when describing this behavior. Words like transactional, muscular, people pleasing, boundaries etc are much better as they are more specific. Esp people on the autism spectrum needs specifics.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 04:39 PM
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I’ve seen a lot of progressives poop on Galloway and I think it’s a bit… silly. I mean he is so rich he does not have to do this. I could just sit at home watch tv. He wants to be an alternative to Tate and such, which I think he is.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/12/25 09:33 PM
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Meh he has his flaws but I think he, healthygamerGG and others are doing a great job putting out content that is not insane or toxic. It’s reasonable. A lot of guys look for some kind of guidance and these people know this and want to meet that demand. His goal is not to be a perfect role model but to be a bit better then Tate etc.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/12/25 09:30 PM
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My problem with all of this is that wether you get laidback very little to do with if you are an asshole or not, or nice or not. It’s more to do with random events and luck. When people start to explain why things are in a certain way it’s like astrology. Over time though, niceguy or assholes will have dysfunctional relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 10:49 PM
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Its kind of forgettable if you do it, but if you don’t it can leave you socially scared for life. I think its a bit easier for girls then boys. Basically as a man you are still expected to approach and if you don’t start learning how to do it you will be more and more wierd and it gets harder and harder to datens actually meet someone. It’s not so much about marrying young it’s more about social training.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 11:32 PM
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I don’t know where you are coming from or what you are trying to do here. Basically what I was trying to say is that it’s not some 1% of men who are dysfunctional or somehow flawed that are not having children. It’s huge swaths of the population where society has failed to educate them so that they can’t afford to have kids. What those stats also don’t show is that poorer men have way fewer children then they would like to so even if the numbers are not that bad its not the whole picture. I gues…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 05:23 AM
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Nope this is 45 year olds.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 03:12 AM
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You are cruel
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 03:00 AM
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40% of men on the lower part of the income ladder are childless in Finland. It’s not a small proportion of humanity. It’s a mass extinction event.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 02:59 AM
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As a 40 yo who has very little experience I would say: 30. Our personalities are fixed by then and for the vast majority of people also our financial and social trajectories. Sure there will always be outliers: men who found their first girlfriends at 40 or someone who started a business at 45 and got rich. But for the most part our lives don’t change that much after that. It only goes down. It’s not that it’s impossible it’s just that things like habits (habit of cleaning, havits of hygiene, ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 08:00 AM
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Yes Vr girlfriend to be exact.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 09:23 AM
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It’s already happening. Women consume less prn and more dirty litterature so my prediction has been that women will be more into chat not type girlfriends. Personally as a man I’ve experimented with all sorts of surrogates and the best so far has been VR girlfriends. The models are really good and you can combine it with a speech to text to LLM VR girlfriend experience. It costs a lot in terms of equipment but it’s really worth it if you have a stable western blue/white collar job.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 08:58 AM
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Biologically generally health markers, low bodyfat and a masculine frame will statistically attract more women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 04:27 PM
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There are many different forms of inequality in our societies and depending on demographic and age group ”wealth” is defined in different ways. When I was 8 it was a turtles action figure. When I was 15 it was sex. When I was 20 it was university program or future prospect and coolest parties. When I was 25 it was jobs. 35 kids and house and career. Now I’m approaching 45 and it’s health. When I’m 60 it’s going to be grandkids. I also belong to the blackpill demographic. Through I have managed t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 12:08 PM
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I guess my penis but nothing else.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/07/25 03:27 PM
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I think social sciences focus mainly on women while medical sciences have historically at least mainly focused on men. I think it’s because it’s been more OK to experiment on men and that it’s acceptable that men are harmed while social sciences at least in the past 40 years have been dominated by (feminist) women.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/07/25 03:26 PM
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I grew up around feminists who shaped my sexuality and sense of self according to the ”progressive rulebook” for how to raise none toxic men. However the outcome of that process which centered on shame, guilt and neglect was that I became a niceguy. I never learned how to be flirty and sexual and how to form relationships with women when I was younger. I’ve always struggled with dating etc. If a woman shows interest I just shut down or ”freeze”. I’ve done a lot of therapy but at some point it’s …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 11:43 AM
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It’s actually happening already both in the east and west couples about male children in favor of girls as girls tend to do better in school etc. Plus they take better care of their parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 05:00 PM
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A problem with this mindset is that right and left have become increasingly polarized so that the left does not care about men at all and the right does not care about women at all. If you apply this filter then no one will ever be able to relate, communicate or build relationships across party lines which is absurd.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 08:02 PM
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”Im not a racist but …”
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/06/25 06:04 PM
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The best way to create a better pro men space is to formulate better ideas and concepts which are more accurate and results in results which men look for more efficiently. Like having more sex or earning more money or being more healthy or having better and deeper relationships etc. Telling people to shut up will never work they will just answer ”no you shut up”.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/06/25 02:12 AM
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This.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 08:57 PM
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I would agree anything men do tends to be more violent and deadly. When it comes to economic and emotional abuse we are fairly equal. Also when women abuse they tend to use more weapons than men, like knives and frying pans etc. But yes the statistics speak for themselves and it’s silly to say anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 08:53 PM
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My favorite example was the architectural university program in Sweden where they had 95% women students. They had a gender equality group made up of women. Who wanted more equality. Most of their lecturers and professors were men so they wanted to make it more equal by having more female lecturers.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 08:16 PM
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I have a super complicated relationship with feminism. I grew up with two sisters and a mom who are feminists and my mom had this idea that she would raise me to not be like those bad guys. Basically lots of trashing men and masculinity, male sexuality etc. Whenever she discovered I watched porn she got into these fits of rage and got violent. At school there was some teachers who were a bit similar who used public shaming of guys to teach us how bad porn was. Also in biology in sex ed everyone …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 08:11 PM
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I’ve never met a feminist who would date a man who won’t or can’t provide for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 12:50 AM
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I think what’s annoying is that women use the word equality and that they are pro equality, but only when it means women’s lives improve. At the same time they demand that men support equality for women or we are evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 12:47 AM
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That’s a rancid take on things. Boys fail in school because the adults in that environment don’t care if they succeed or fail. They grown ups have failed to inspire them, to give them ideas about a different future. Most of these adults are women nowadays. It’s neglect, which is a form of abuse. One of the things I really hate about feminists is how everything bad that happens to women are social constructs that needs to be torn to pieces and reassembled in a way that better suits women. But for…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 12:44 AM
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Im one of those guys. I have fits of rage from time to time, but most of my time is spent on work, porn or games. I don’t have friends. I bought a sex doll when I turned 35. At some point o will die and no one will notice that I’m no longer alive. It makes me sad from time to time but I kind of accepted that this my reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 12:16 AM
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I strongly disagree. A lot of attractiveness comes from general health and education, socialization etc. School and public programs for kids play a crucial role to uplift and compensate for kids who grow up in poor circumstancesZ Think about teeth. A guy who grew up poor on a soda diet will have rottening teeth by 20 while someone who was well cared for will not. I think we did a great job at uplifting women. They like claim they lifted themselves up by the bootstraps but the reality is there ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 12:14 AM
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Not dating perhaps but it’s nice to have a place where people think about the same things I think about. I’m older and single and have failed miserably to meet someone. When I was 35 I bought a sex doll. All my peers and old friends have married and started families including my siblings. I feel like an alien. Subs like this makes me feel a little bit more normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 12:09 AM
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Love and empathy is a form of violence which people use to extract resources and shut you up, cave to their desires and humiliate you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 10:58 PM
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Agreed
/r/MensRights07/05/25 10:55 PM
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Im 40 and I’ve lived without sex and relationships my entire life. I’m also one of those chronically online gentlemen. I used to have a lot of ambition and was really into politics and making the world a better place etc when I was younger. I used to think there was a ”we” in progressive circles but the older I got and the more therapy I did the more I realized it was all about rubbing women’s egos and making their lives better. I since then turned away from that. I no longer care about anything…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 08:11 PM
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I’ve never had a girlfriend and I’m middle age and depressed over it. But I think prostitution wrong and should be illegal. No matter how sad I am about living an entire life without sex and intimacy, it does not make it right to exploit someone else’s situation. Most people who are healthy and capable and have options would not go into prostitution. The ones who don’t have a choice should not be exploited. There are lots of options nowadays for people like me: sex dolls and vr avatars etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 07:53 PM
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I got a bit triggered by it. But overall it was good. It’s a more nuanced take on incels then what I have seen before. I think it missed some things though. Most incels are a bit older and are more on the autism spectrum and the bullying goes on for longer. The funnel starts with hope-a little hope-no hope -darkness. It went a bit too quickly here which felt unrealistic. I like the fact that it got people talking and not just in a way that repeats feminist talking points or perspectives.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/03/25 06:54 PM
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I also liked it. It was written for women mainly, so ot did not touch sensitive issues like mating issues or educational gap, and focused on anti draft which women tend to be in favor of. But still a positive article.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/03/25 06:50 PM
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I was really angry for almost 8 years. In the end I got tired and talked to a doctor who prescribed some pills. It’s draining. Now I don’t eat the pills anymore and I feel nothing/disgust more then anger. No happiness but k have more energy so I consider it an improvement.
/r/MensRights02/01/25 01:24 AM
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I think we lack good framework for talking about male issues. Feminists started as underdogs and socialism as well. The issues impacting men hits across classes in a complex way. I think the problem is also mainly neglect more then oppression, and ” that which is not” is difficult to frame. This is why we have all this incel stuff as well as men taking about being oppressed. I think it’s ok as a starting point but there is still some work to do to find better concepts to capture it.
/r/MensRights01/01/25 11:30 PM
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I worked hard for my money. The women who are interested in me typically don’t have a lot of money so…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 06:46 PM
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Yep. When a woman tells me I should just be fine with it, it’s like a billionaire telling me to accept being homeless, that I deserve it for reasons x y and z. Any other topic or injustice or sorrow is worthy government programs and what not (I’m not in the government girlfriend camp more like uplift men in terms of education, socialization, income and general health using government resources).
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 06:40 PM
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Im a middle aged dude and you certainly men are quite good at complimenting each other for looks and performance. I feel like there was a point where it became less ”gay” to do so in the past 10-15 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 04:21 PM
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Im more chill now but it was part of a 10 year mourning cycle where I gradually let go of any dreams of romance, children and intimacy. It’s like you mourn a loss of your humanity, it’s a pretty big thing to cut out of your life. Now I’m completely detached from anything and anyone and pretty dead inside. Sounds horrible but it’s better than the pain I used to feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 09:09 PM
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As far as I know the setup is that women move to cities to get higher education and start careers. Men stay in the countryside as they have things they like there (hunting, manual labour). The men living in cities either play the field or are too poor to be attractive partners to these women. One common attitude is “why should I marry these poor and uneducated men”. From equality perspective Finland has quite high rates of domestic abuse at the same time as the dads take out a lot of parental le…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 10:02 PM
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In Finland its about 50% among men at 45 years old right now and among women about 30%. In Sweden it’s like 40% among men and 20% among women. Finland has been harder hit with poverty etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 06:35 PM
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I used to live in Finland and I’m living it myself, having no university degree. It’s depressing.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/11/24 06:52 AM
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Kamala avoided pushing the message that she was a woman and black as far as I know, while Hillary was leaning into it. I think it will continue like that but maybe a more substantial section in policy programs. I think the industrial investments Biden did were great, they just failed to advertise them as “for men” as that would have angered the female base.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/11/24 06:49 AM
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If you look at U.S. statistics gen x has had a rough ride https://cy.ons.gov.uk/peoplepopulationandcommunity/healthandsocialcare/healthandwellbeing/articles/middleagedgenerationmostlikelytodiebysuicideanddrugpoisoning/2019-08-13. I think what is different for millennials and gen’z is the lack of opportunities and women taking over at universities which makes the bottom segment of men (in terms of education and money) never date when young. Some get selected at a later age but a lot will not.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 06:35 PM
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Im assuming you are a feminist and you look at all these men being angry and wondering why. From the other side it’s very frustrating. As a guy in these circles, online or offline, one moment you are part of the good guys, and the next you are the enemy. One moment feminist says “all men are trash”. As a guy listening to it you get a bit upset. Then later you talk to feminist B, and tells her this feminist A said that. She then says “she was not a real feminist”, I love men I have a boyfriend! T…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/10/24 06:17 PM
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The ones who get to set the definitions are ones who win politically. By claiming positive masculinity and owning its definition, they can control the discussion. Sort of make up the rules f the game. So it’s not about empowering men or making men’s lives better, it’s about power and winning.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/10/24 04:50 PM
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At least in US it’s already happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 11:22 AM
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I think this is what a lot of “rich but nerdy” guys fail to understand. They have all the money but live like frugal students and wonder why women don’t like them. I think it’s a very actionable advice to create a lifestyle that others want to be part of. It also works on friends btw. Of course it has to be combined with healthy boundaries so you don’t get taken advantage of.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 11:58 PM
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You underestimate the amount of relationship power women have. It’s a common line in feminist circles that men have had all the power in relationships, but it’s not true. Women make most of the big financial decisions and purchases now and in the past. Women make the decisions around kids now and in the past. Women make decisions around how the home should be styled and taken care of now and in the past (cleanliness etc). As a man your contribution was money. So in a situation where the woman br…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 11:53 PM
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I think what he is fishing for is that Adam is very often what women consider a nice guy, incompetent but perhaps convenient to have as a friend. Caleb is generally what women desire (but obviously despise at the same time), someone who is competent and attracts resources and achives things in life. This is a huge frustration and source of incel anger for a lot of men, and many of the redpill and other traps exists to deprogram the shaming and guilt trips and other forms of emotional abuse that …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 04:26 PM
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I only come here when I’m sad and bitter. And then I get even more bitter and angry lol. However I think this place is a better one than many others as there is a bit of a mix of opinions. Sometimes you can reach across the isle and feel seen which feels good.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 04:19 PM
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I would love to raise a child on my own, but I fortunately it’s impossible to adopt as a single guy. I think in the past 10 years there has been like a handful of adoptions by single men in my country. If you want a child as a guy you 100% need access to a woman’s womb.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 04:17 PM
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I think people have different goals and they vary through life. In general though there are some patterns. Both genders want people who are supportive in whatever they want. What aive noticed about women is that they primarily want men to be nice and convenient. Which means they won’t support men and boys in education and in their careers. It’s considered feeding the patriarchy. This all changes when men become girlfriends and husbands. Suddenly the pressure to be high achieving and high earner …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 03:32 PM
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I lost my virginity at 25 (m, Sweden). Grew up in a feminist household and developed a deeply dysfunctional and toxic relationship with my sexuality and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 03:18 PM
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I grew up in a feminist household in the 80s and 90s, where my mom and sisters used a lot of guilt trips and shaming around maleness and men’s sexuality to “heal me” and reduce or remove any patriarchal tendencies. At school I was bullied for being gay and nice. (“I’m straight) That’s how I ended up being a doormat and a nice guy. I was terrified of social exclusion and I totally internalized that I was defective and evil. I’m 40 now but I started going to therapy about 8 years ago and it has he…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 02:53 PM
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I would think of men’s issues as income/education, not having enough or no children and finally how long you live. The educational system up to maybe university professor level is dominated by women who have studied at universities, where you have a dominating culture of feminist/progressive ideology. On paper they will say that they want boys and girls to succeed equally but in reality I think we have had 3-4 generations of women who don’t really want their sons and students to succeed educatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 02:46 PM
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Not in a genuine way, only looking at it from a self centered way like “I’ll care about this as it benefits me”. They can care about their partner etc but not men in general and absolutely never if it could in some way make women’s lives worse. I’ve grown to really hate and mistrust women because of this.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/06/24 09:03 AM
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From a class perspective men dominate the upper class and lowest class while women dominate the middle class (which is the biggest in the west). Corporations and political parties have catered to the middle class as they have the most purchasing power. If you care about “raw power and money” then I think men still dominate, but give it 10-15 years and women will be at least equal thanks to education.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 07:23 PM
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European parliament votes in blocks so if you are unsure vote for a party in a block you like and be done with it I think the biggest block is the conservative. https://ecfr.eu/publication/a-sharp-right-turn-a-forecast-for-the-2024-european-parliament-elections/ Basically local party alliances don’t apply at eu level but all local parties belong to a eu party block. Some parties might belong to the same coalition in country politics but in eu they are in different groups.
/r/MensRights22/05/24 10:56 PM
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You can hide in this type of movement or at least parts of it. It’s ok to bully as long as the target is men. It’s all about self attention and ego boosting. You can be loud and violent as long as the target is men. I don’t think all feminists are women but there is a higher proportion of them I. The movement compared to the rest of the population.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 11:15 PM
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I think the bumble thing was a very “millennial women” dating app. Millennials are mostly coupled up now or have given up. The next generation is a lot more conservative when it comes to love life.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 11:01 PM
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I don’t think child care will have the intended effect. Look at Finland. Welfare state and Japans level of fertility. Sweden moving there as well slowly. I think the problem is that there are not enough men who are able to provide. Not like 50s style providing but just having a stable job during the small child years that generates enough income to support mothers while being away from work shortly. Even if you split equally women tend to end up doing more work at home anyways. And then it’s on …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 10:50 PM
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I think women, because of biological clock. For men that stress hits after 40. 40-50 is peak suicide age for men. Also you have impotence and other health issues kicking in. So yea women suffer more, it men catch up in their 40s.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 11:14 PM
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I can’t live up to the old ones, and I despise the new ones.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/04/24 10:57 PM
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Things have changed with women becoming more independent. Most of the autistic men I had in my family had stable jobs and kids, but I’m sure their stay at home wife’s suffered. Now that women no longer have to put up with autistic men in the same way more of us are single and childless.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 03:39 AM
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Doubt it’s as extreme as for girls, but I could imagine abortions in progressive couples.
/r/MensRights30/03/24 02:49 AM
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I have lived in Sweden and Finland. I think it depends on your generation and social upbringing. I’m about 40 now and when I grew up I was raised in a lot of feminist shaming of men. When boys failed I school this was considered good and fair and their own fault. In more recent years things have changed a bit. It’s gone further in Finland where they have realized that it’s not good that men are falling behind so badly as it’s affecting birth rates (Japanese levels). In both countries single chil…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/03/24 05:07 AM
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When people talk about falling birth rates in the western world they tend to forget about men. Conservatives talk about contraceptives and feminists fight back. Look at Finland as an extreme example. Great maternity and paternity leave, women are killing it in education and labour market. Recently there are now more women in employment then men as an example which has not happened before. At the same time men are neets and flunking out of school. Among poor men the childlessness rate is 45%. In …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 10:28 PM
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Somehow not fall into the thinking error of the just world fallacy, where men who succeed with women do so because they deserve it or are good people and those who fail are doing so because they are bad people and hate women.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/03/24 07:23 PM
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I think when the incel thing became public people associated it with mass shooters and feminists jumped on the opportunity to have a new male archetype to bash. However as research came in showing these people where disabled poor teenagers (children basically) the public bashing quieted down. But yea I agree that these groups tends to be clumped together when it’s very different demographics.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 10:26 AM
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