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He saw her make the sign. He knew she had the sign. He was next to her through the entire exchange. If he wanted to marry her, he would have already had plans to ask her and that would have been the best opportunity. This should be her wake up that she deserves better and to never wait for anyone to start your life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 09:24 PM
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My exact thoughts. He obviously isn’t your friend so he shouldn’t be texting you. Block and delete them both
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 12:49 AM
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“They can’t stand reason” How about we can’t stand when we say women only and you can’t follow directions. So stop trying to gaslight us into believing having group norms on FDS is any different than group norms on any other Reddit groups.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 03:48 AM
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When I started OLD I wasn’t sure what I was doing. My friend said if you think they look ugly just move along. I was taken back by this since my friend is not a shallow person. I even said but what if we have a lot in common!? She said don’t waste your time. She then admitted that when she was OLD she matched with someone she wasn’t attracted to but they shared similar interest so she gave it a chance. She admitted she slept with him way too soon hoping it would create spark but she just felt di…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 11:01 PM
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I’ve been in my car driving and at a stop had someone honk their horn to get my attention to tell me I was beautiful. I locked my door and quickly drove off. I was genuinely scared. I don’t see how that isn’t a bit scary to everyone. Why do you want some stranger approaching you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 12:18 PM
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“We haven’t made things official” Translation- I’ve been sleeping with a guy that doesn’t like me and expects me to pay for everything because he doesn’t want to waste money on me while he looks for another woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 12:12 PM
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The part of this that is most disturbing is that so many people (women included) believe this is funny and dare I say cute. 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 10:21 PM
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Thank you 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 12:51 AM
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The struggle for me isn’t celebrating women. It’s maintaining a bond with a Pickme. I have had plenty of years as a Pickme and after having my eyes opened it’s a place I never want to be again. However, now I am faced with seeing reality and being surrounded by friends that choose to stay blind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 05:28 PM
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I’m sure he has never given anyone a gift in his life. Pickmes: awe well maybe his love language is receiving gifts and he hasn’t found the right girl. I can change him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 05:21 PM
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✔️Manipulate women into believing all men need porn ✔️Manipulate women into believing porn is empowering and should be accepted ✔️Manipulate women into doing porn ✔️Gaslight anyone that sees the manipulation
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 05:16 PM
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“We help couples” “We help men understood intimacy” “We are in control of our own bodies” Wake up ladies and stop lying to yourself. 1) If a couple needs to have sex with a sex worker to get closer to each other than there is no helping them. 2) If a man has to pay a women to have sex he doesn’t care about true intimacy. 3) If your career is centered around your body than you are not in control of it. Elaboration: Sex work must make herself appealing to her customers. Her hair, make-up, clothing…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 05:08 PM
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So many hugs 🤗 You are doing the right thing. I have been there before and it can feel absolutely terrifying to make that big of a change in your life no matter the circumstances. Let me leave you with a little advice. I know you said this isn’t a divorce but a separation and that he is going to therapy. Get your own place, do individual therapy to learn more about you, and take this time to not help him be a better husband but to help yourself grow. Early in my relationship with my ex husband w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 09:06 PM
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Good for her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 05:52 PM
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I think the backlash they are receiving is absolutely ridiculous. They call out one of the girls for being married and saying it’s a fake band. Why? Because she can’t feel that way about men and still be married? So men can write songs about killing people and that’s considered art. However, women can’t write about disliking shitty men because it’s not good art unless she can prove it’s real??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 04:57 PM
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Yup, and It’s not a mood swing you are just reacting to them being assholes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 10:20 PM
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Pickme logic: If I didn’t have feelings I could enjoy my life with him 🤦🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 03:03 PM
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I also think it’s so stupid that we are suppose to believe that we shouldn’t be uncomfortable or irritable when the lining of our uterus is falling out of us 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 03:00 PM
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As summer approaches consider the idea that young girls will be wearing this swim suit. Pickme behavior like this is dangerous on so many levels.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 01:38 PM
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The sex wouldn’t be “vanilla” if men would actually participate in foreplay
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 11:27 AM
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Trigger Warning ** I once had a sober friend drive me home and we had a great heart to heart. Then he came on to me and I rejected him. He got angry at me rejecting him and forced himself on me. He left and tried to act like nothing happened and when I addressed it he tried so hard to deny it. My Friend and I were very close friends and had known each other since middle school. When this happened I was about 23. This was someone I considered a great guy. Never let your guard down ... even “Nice …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 02:07 AM
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Logic of Men “I’m home at noon but I’m struggling with community college. She is home all day working two jobs and attending grad school she has way more flexibility” She needs to walk away from this situation. Instead of realizing how amazing she is for her hardworking and accomplishments he is asking her for more. Instead of celebrating her desire to further her knowledge and career he rolls his eyes at her working towards a PhD. His mindset is you take care of you and I’ll take care of me. Le…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 08:33 PM
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They always find a way to blame the woman
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 05:18 PM
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Oh the last part of that is the worst Basically he is a jerk but she must have done something to make him a jerk 🤮🤮🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 03:57 PM
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Several porn stars are children maybe that’s why they have similar characteristics...... How about we get rid of this industry that exploits women and children. And raise the standard on how we treat women in society
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 03:22 PM
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I hope she leaves that flaccid NVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 11:57 PM
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I have 3 Masters degrees and working on my PhD. I am a Special Education director. While I am married my financial success was established before my nuptials. I own my own home and my vehicle. I have no debt and no school loans (never had school loans despite being in college for so many years because I’ve always worked multiple jobs). I wear what I want to work and my hair is bright red. My supervisors, coworkers, clients, and families I work with have never said anything about my appearance. I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 09:05 PM
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Why do men behave like garbage 😂🤷🏻‍♀️ answer that google
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 08:10 PM
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When I was online dating I was kind of disgusted that so many women I would match with would ask if I would be interested in sleeping with their husbands. I would immediately block and delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 12:57 AM
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Leaving will be the best choice she ever makes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 10:04 PM
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Thank you. It was difficult so many people in my life believed his fake persona and it all made me look like I was an irrational mess. My parents are very “traditional” so before I could even ask for help I was told to pray about my problems and focus on making my husband happy. But eventually my mom saw him for what he really was and realized they had been pushing me to a monster. Part of me was angry it took so long for someone to finally believe me (15 years) but I was grateful she was so sup…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 08:14 PM
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What’s weird as that I’ve told people the roach story before and in the past people would be like, “ he was just playing with you shouldn’t be so sensitive.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 11:14 AM
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My ex-husband new I was afraid of roaches. I can handle most things but not roaches. One day we were in the car and when we got to a stop sign he said, “ I have something for you babe.” He grabbed a bag from the back seat and pulled out a hand full of dead roaches and threw them on me. I jumped out of the fucking car. I was in the street freaking out trying to make sure I got all the dead bugs off of me. I was so mad I refused to get back in the car. So he left me there and I walked to the neare…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 04:04 AM
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I’m sure he has several supporters saying she is being ridiculous and ignoring his needs. “Why can’t my wife just stay my fuck toy!? Why is she being so disgusting carrying my offspring. Why doesn’t isn’t she immediately back to giving me all her time and attention now that the baby is born? She tricked me cause I didn’t sign up to be with a real person I wanted and ageless blow up doll!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 12:14 PM
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Before my divorce and before I found FDS I would have laughed at this thinking oh that’s just men. Now it’s just so disgusting. I see things like this and feel so bad for my friends that are still stuck in the mindset that this is okay. A coworker of mine spent lunch on Friday telling me how I should take care on my husband. She went on to say she spoils her husband. She said his job is hard so I lay out his clothes, do all the chores, tend to all the needs of the kids, and rub his feet when he …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 11:50 PM
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Fuck the patriarch !!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 08:57 PM
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When I was OLD I would set the first date as coffee in a public place not near my home but easy to get to for me. I was clear in the beginning that if we decided to meet up our first meeting would be for coffee. I call it our meet up because they haven’t officially proven to be worth a full date. So I wear jeans and don’t go out of my way to get nails or anything like that done. I pick the location because we are driving separately and I don’t want this person to know what side of town I live on…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 02:30 PM
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I am newly married but was a single “boy mom” for a while. I’ve worked in education for over two decades and have several nieces/nephews. Raising children is hard regardless of their gender. I would like to have a daughter one day just because I want more children. I never think to myself oh I only want boys or girls. It took me years to get pregnant and by the time I did I was just hoping for a healthy baby. I wouldn’t say it has been easier or harder being a single mom to a boy but I don’t kno…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 12:15 AM
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So I met a guy like that in a coffee shop. He was very nice and we had so much in common. But I was confused that each date he never tried to touch me in any way. We spent a lot of time talking on the phone and texting when we weren’t physically together. He never talked about sex over the phone and he never sent any sexual text messages. We kissed after date 4 and from then it was hand holding and kissing. He still didn’t push for anything sexual and I kept thinking maybe he is not into me in t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 02:27 PM
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1- why are you as a grown man playing games to the point that you can’t stop and have an adult conversation? 2- Is it suppose to be funny that you are so disgusting that you would fuck a couch? 3- Because body hair is unacceptable in our society most women feel the need to shave/wax head to toe. This on top of the ridiculous weight standards women are held to so yeah being a shave chihuahua can get cold 4- the lack of proper hygiene one reason she doesn’t want to “put it in her mouth” and also s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 01:57 PM
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This! I was a forever girlfriend for ten years. He finally proposed and we were engaged for a year in a half. We divorced in two years. It took me so long to say I want more and to tell everyone that I was done. My family kept pushing me towards him telling me to make it work. I had to finally say no to him and everyone. He married a woman 6 years younger the same year we divorced.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 02:13 AM
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I think we are programmed to go for the “under dog” to believe that going for the guy with money or a better paying job is being a gold digger. Movies always show the wealthy man as cruel abuser and the poor man as sweet and loving. The audience wants her to be with the poor guy because he is painted as the better option. That story is told to us over and over again. I believe it impacts the choices we make in partners and for ourselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 12:38 PM
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My ex husband was the same way. Almost like I made him look bad because I was unable to get pregnant. But the jokes on him. Cause after trying for 7 years with no luck we divorced and I met someone else and now I’m a mom to a healthy happy little boy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 12:37 AM
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My ex-husband would do this to me. I felt like I wasn’t allowed to speak in my own house amongst other things. I would text his questions even if we were in the same room all so I wouldn’t be bothering him. He would tell me things like my voice was annoying, my laugh was ugly, and that I should practice having alone time when he got home from work. We met when I was just 17 so he was the only man I had ever known. After our divorce I was almost dumb founded when I met someone that didn’t act lik…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 12:38 AM
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