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There is nothing about charity that goes against TRP if you can afford it. Only people with an abundance mindset donate in the first place. History is chock full of red pilled men being generous with their community. It also increases your status and SMV. Empathy trap as a concept in OP's case means not falling for female crocodile tears in an argument. It doesn't mean walking past a dying orphan and spitting in their face.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/18 05:41 AM
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I find fictional shows like The Wire, Sopranos etc. to be full of red pill content. I wouldn't avoid all media. There are some real gems out there.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/18 11:50 AM
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I don't know any liberals who believe in a flat Earth or young Earth (which are ridiculous and easily debunked pseudoscientific theories). I know plenty of conservatives who do. I also know plenty of liberals advocating unchecked immigration (which I would never support) and no such conservatives. Just taking a side and blindly aligning yourself to their cause is not rational behavior. There is much more to the world than "conservative and liberal", or "republican and democrat". As an end note, …
/r/TheRedPill08/01/18 04:24 PM
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He said many. He never said 'all'. Blindly adhering to an ideology, be it conservatism, liberalism, communism or any 'ism' is extremely blue pill.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/18 03:46 PM
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I agree, it's not going to be easy for any 39 let alone 49 year old. Unless we are talking Tom Cruise-tier genetics here which mean you look like a perpetual 25-30 year old.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/18 01:44 AM
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It depends on your genes and what you have been doing with your life. I know 35 year olds who pass for 25's because they are from rich families and basically have zero stress in their lives. They spend their days eating healthy, excercising, traveling the world, fucking women and just having fun in general. It shows physically. Most guys are not and cannot be in that situation. Even doing hard labor can put a good 15-20 years on your face when you are in your 30s. So while it is possible to be p…
/r/TheRedPill06/01/18 01:41 AM
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If you visit a place frequently and tip them as well as small talk with the employees, they will still remember you even though hundreds of people visit every day, because most people are passers-by. I also befriended two club managers who know I bring 2-4 customers to their venue almost weekly. They give me a table at no cost or set up an extra table if they're all taken, and if they are present at the club they will let you jump the queue by letting you use the employee door. There are big ben…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/18 12:58 AM
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Anyone who thinks they don't need high SMV to game 9's is coping. That's not the point of this post. The point is avoiding low status behaviors around attractive women, which they have been witnessing their entire lives and will make them write you off in a split second if you display any of these gestures or behaviors (like telling how beautiful she is; She's heard that about ten thousand times in the last few years).
/r/TheRedPill04/01/18 11:31 PM
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Having a 'cheat meal' every month or two months is not an 'excuse', it's called living a normal life instead of being obsessed about food. Seems like your life revolves around food; Most people's lives don't. Almost every single pro does cheat meals as well. The key is doing it very seldom, only a few times a year. If you think you can go the rest of your life without touching a single restaurant meal or a bar of chocolate, then good luck to you. Most people don't want to live like that. You can…
/r/TheRedPill29/12/17 07:53 AM
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3 days is definitely pushing it, and the person is no longer trying to keep at low body fat. Every 2-4 weeks is very sustainable. I usually eat a pizza every ~30 days.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/17 07:13 AM
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I am never going to fully cut out things like chocolate or ice cream. I just don't think that's a viable life goal. It will become more of a diet than a lifestyle. Ask anyone who has lifted for years. There is nothing wrong with having a pizza once a month. It becomes problematic if you do it every day. Removing every single unhealthy item from your diet is not sustainable. Sure, I will eat chicken and broccoli for most of the week. But at the end of the day, we are 1. social creatures 2. we cra…
/r/TheRedPill29/12/17 06:00 AM
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Anyone who doesn't use condoms with random women they meet is insane, especially in this day and age. I have never had an STD in my life.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/17 05:14 AM
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I don't think anyone who fucks these women cares whether they 'cheat' or how many guys they've been with. It's just a bit of entertainment. Nobody wants a relationship with them.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/17 04:48 PM
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Women on Tinder are not looking for money, they are just as horny as guys are. And most men will fuck a 6 for free if given the chance, I don't see why using Tinder for that purpose is bad. Most men will not realistically fuck anyone more attractive than 6's or 7's on a regular basis, if you want a new girl every week or more frequently. You are underestimating the fact women want to fuck just as much as men do. They are pickier, sure, but they have the same drive. Not all of them are hookers, a…
/r/TheRedPill28/12/17 08:12 AM
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People don't really go on Tinder for finding their unicorn, they go there for quick lays. Unfortunately it's not very successful for average looking men because women have an endless supply of model tier men to choose from.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/17 06:41 AM
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Good blog/article, and irrefutable stats. Anyone who has lived here for a long time can also see how few clubs there are in 2017 compared to 2005. As the site says, the economic downturn after 2008 might be to blame as well. Young men and women are strapped for cash and simply can't afford to go out -> these clubs go bankrupt due to lack of customers, and more people move to virtual dating.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/17 05:32 PM
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This thread was only about Tinder strategy. A lot of young women use Tinder. All the billions in your bank account, sense of humor and funny jokes in the world wont matter on Tinder, because they make a split second decision based on how attractive you are.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/17 04:31 PM
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POF is only trashy in the United States. It has decent girls in almost every other country. I also suggest signing up to OKCupid.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/17 01:05 PM
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While I agree that going through this amount of effort is very BP, the thread starter is doing this from the perspective of a man who looks like a 5-6. He will have to put exponentially more effort into his Tinder if he ever wants to convert matches to sex, compared to someone who looks like Brad Pitt or Nick Bateman. Hence, OP is actually being very realistic about how Tinder works. Tinder is an extremely superficial app.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/17 12:57 PM
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I am not going to even remotely attempt to go to the lengths OP has gone to in his Tinder quest, but the sad truth is, a big chunk of young western women are there. If you don't have Tinder installed you are missing out on a huge amount of women who may not be up for hookups anywhere else. Just get a few pro photos taken (shouldn't be more than $10-15) and add a few of you in a vacation resort or with high SMV friends. If you're a 7+ you'll get 5-15 matches a day minimum.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/17 12:54 PM
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Night game is still tolerable in huge capitals because there is a constant influx of tourists and outsider women every single day. In regular sized and smaller towns, Tinder is probably much more effective.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/17 12:48 PM
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Not all of us will ever pull 9's casually. That is a fact of life. I know I never will. I have had success with 6's and 7's despite getting my body fat very low and getting ripped at the gym. A 8 might occassionally match me on Tinder but they frequently flake. I rarely if ever get any attention or indicators of interest from 9's, like some men do. What are you standards for women? Are you ready to settle for women who are pretty but not model tier (if that is your natural limit without committi…
/r/TheRedPill26/12/17 07:43 AM
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"A lot of the posts that even talk about are generic garbage such as "lift, look good" Let's be real. If you ever read the sidebar or cold approached women in real life, you would know. Everything you do to improve yourself will be for nothing if you don't look your best. Looks are a massive part of TRP. If you refuse to acknowledge this, you will keep getting failure upon failure. Women these days don't have to choose from a few hundred village idiots. They have access to billions of men from a…
/r/TheRedPill26/12/17 07:26 AM
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Aesthetics and face are definitely enough to get most ordinary women under the age of 30, especially if you are in the top 20th percentile. It becomes ridiculously easy if your face is also top 5-10%. I see it in the club scene as well, you don't need game at that point. Women come up to you and not the other way around. I agree with you that something else needs to compensate if your looks don't do it. It could be anything from status to cash to gaming women (but the latter requires you to look…
/r/TheRedPill24/12/17 05:31 PM
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Yep, some pineapple juice. About a glass a day (200ml), which has 18 net carbs.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/17 01:56 PM
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If you only had to cut 6kg (since you didn't mention your bodyfat, impossible to know how much that is in %) to get abs, you were very lean to begin with. Also, you probably didn't cheat. I had plenty of cheat meals, like pizza or a restaurant meal loaded with calories when going out with friends. Maybe every 2-3 weeks. I would have mentally exhausted if I sticked to my diet 24/7.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/17 04:41 AM
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Cutting body fat is a lot harder for an average (non-pro) than it seems like at first. It took me nearly half a year to cut my last 5% of bodyfat to get into 12% territory (as measured by calipers), so that's 1% a month. That is a very long time. I wasn't exactly being sloppy either; That was at a daily 500kcal deficit while simultaneously working out, and HIIT training 2 days a week. The fact is, for many regular people it's going to be a painful, mentally exhausting journey more so than physic…
/r/TheRedPill24/12/17 03:18 AM
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It seems like your stuff is perfect then, and your height should practically put you into the top 5th percentile even if your face isn't top tier. Only a fool would even think about suicide with the numerous positive things you have going on. I hope you are not seriously entertaining that thought. As for the face improvements, how low have you tried to get your body fat? I was somewhat invisible on Tinder at 17% (very few matches, from unsavory looking women), and at 12% got a massive surge of m…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/17 10:58 AM
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I replied to your other post in more detail, but there are some basics missing from this: Height? Face? Are you a minority/ethnic in your local scene?
/r/TheRedPill23/12/17 12:07 AM
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Then your face is not as good looking as you think it is, or it could have deformities. Have you gotten it graded on photofeeler.com? If you are at least 70/100 as rated by female users then you should have no problem with cold approaches in real life or even Tinder online. If you get something like 40 to 60 or less then there is a problem which is genetic and can't be fixed. Also, you didn't mention your height. Having those attributes as a 5'4 man is much different to having them as a 6'2 man.…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/17 12:03 AM
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Going against the grain in this thread and trying to redpill you here. In just about every Tinder survey, women say they don't swipe guys in sunglasses to the right. A group photo with friends in an interesting environment or hobby = good. Face not visible = badl. Of course, I'm assuming your profile has at least one photo where your face is fully visible, in which case that photo is better.
/r/askTRP22/12/17 03:34 AM
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Oh, one more thing. Have you gotten your hormone levels tested, especially thyroid and testosterone?
/r/askTRP22/12/17 03:32 AM
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If you're eating clean it's very hard to overeat while cutting, because most of your calories will be coming from vegetables and lean protein. You would have to eat pound upon pound to go over your calorie limit for the day even if you had it set at something like 1600kcal. If you get really hungry, another thing I frequently do is eat a tomato or a few cucumber sticks, or dip them into a small amount of salt. I find salt controls appetite in an amazing way. Another trick I use to make my body s…
/r/askTRP22/12/17 02:33 AM
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Do you eat right? Not just protein powder, but everything else? Is your diet full of healthy proteins (chicken, steak/minced beef, fish, eggs) and vegetables (lettuce, broccoli, tomato, etc) and so on? Do you get enough healthy fats like avocado or olive oil? Do you get enough vitamins? Something as simple as a mineral deficiency can cause brain fog and apathy. Eating lots of refined carbs and crap like white bread can cause mental fatigue. Do you watch porn? If so, I suggest not to. It will dis…
/r/askTRP22/12/17 02:25 AM
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Anyone who says face, haircut, beard etc. don't effect things are just coping. All you need to do is go on Tinder with only a mugshot of a model with a 10 face, great haircut and some stubble, then compare your results to a balding guy with a 4 face clean shaven. We are talking about a ~500x difference in the number of matches.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/17 11:47 PM
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Sounds like a lot. I was not aware that's normal. When I was in Spain, the going rate seemed to be anywhere between 50 to 100 euros (and they would really try to push themselves onto you even if you weren't interested). I was not aware there are places where it could be as low as 30, but 280 sounds an awful lot too.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/17 01:52 PM
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Have you looked at the propositions these sheikhs make by the dozen? They are not interested in regular intercourse at all. We are talking about stuff like crapping down their throats. And that's on the mild side of the things they're being asked to do. You think they can handle it and come out as psychologically stable human beings afterwards just because it affords them a new Gucci bag? I don't.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/17 11:13 AM
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I don't use prostitutes personally, but I found that comment a bit odd too. Even in second tier European countries, 30 euros barely makes it worthwhile to travel to a location for a client. Hell, movie tickets frequently cost 10-15€ now. There is massive supply, it's probably never going to be cheaper than that. If you go to countries like Spain then you'll know these ladies will also actively solicit you. You don't even have to go online to find one you like, they do all the approaching and you…
/r/TheRedPill21/12/17 11:00 AM
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How exactly did people think Instagram models with 30k followers, no discernible income or business are paying for their trips to Dubai, London, New York and around the world? That being said, I have no issue against escorts/prostitutes advertising themselves on Instagram. You can usually tell them from regular models or civilians, because more than 90% of their pictures are of them being with minimal clothing. They rarely photograph friends, scenery or anything else besides their body.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/17 03:16 AM
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Not everyone wants to get huge. In fact it's not even a very flattering look. If you have washboard abs and are relatively buff (think underwear models, etc.) with a decent face, you already have an ideal body that 99% of women prefer.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/17 01:38 AM
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Google phytoestrogens and xenoestrogens. Your grandparents were not exposed to this shit 60 years ago. Now it is absolutely everywhere. You didn't magically undo millions of years of evolution, you have been poisoned by your environment. Fortunately you can reverse hormonal changes. No more processed, plastic wrapped crap. Eating clean, lifting weights, maybe even eating only organic if you can afford it (and using other organic products like shampoos that lack estrogen mimickers and toxic chemi…
/r/TheRedPill21/12/17 01:34 AM
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It could be location dependent as well. I have spent lots of time in the London scene and it is absolutely brutal for guys who are not tall and handsome. They can pull sometimes, but we are talking about quite ugly or overweight women. The good news is they respond to the exact same cues as anyone on Tinder does, i.e. being lean, low body fat and therefore defined and chiseled face etc., which means most guys age 20-39 can work towards becoming more attractive if they just have discipline. Unles…
/r/TheRedPill20/12/17 11:35 PM
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It's not crazy, you are protecting your own safety and interests. Besides, what difference does it really make whether she is banging a Tom instead of a Matt?
/r/TheRedPill20/12/17 10:37 PM
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Bitcoin's main demand comes from the fact it is the only reliable and safe currency for drug trafficking on sites like Silkroad. Remember that in 2013 the price crashed from 100 dollars to a few dozen cents nearly overnight, and took a very long time to recover. At 19k a pop I just don't see how you could treat it as a real investment. I would only throw whatever money I would be fully ready to lose. So it differs significantly from stable investment vehicles like Index funds.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/17 02:53 PM
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I guess it depends on how good looks we are talking about. If you google tinder male model study, they can literally say stuff like "let's fuck?" and get a positive reply 90% of the time. But these are the pinnacle of males genetically and I realize this wont work for the vast majority of men who look fairly ordinary.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/17 02:33 PM
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We've lived in organized society for a very short period of time. A few thousand years, compared to the millions of years humanoid apes have existed on this planet. Just because violent thugs do not integrate well into mainstream society today does not mean they do not confer significant genetic advantages to the next generation, such as aggression, large body size and machiavellian personality traits. In fact, as recently as 500 years ago, these very same people were highly desired as knights, …
/r/TheRedPill20/12/17 08:28 AM
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Not necessarily true. If you eat clean and lift with discipline, and maintain a low body fat.. Physical SMV keeps on lasting. Not until 25, 30, 35, but even far beyond. Jason Statham or Dwayne Johnson have very high physical SMV despite being 45-50 years old. They look better than most 25 year olds.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/17 02:51 AM
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Yep. They exist, there are just very few of these naturals. Top 1-5% looks, height, face etc.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/17 12:53 AM
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If you google his name, he has been busted using prostitutes on his pickup vids. He may not be picking up anything at all.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/17 11:25 PM
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5'9 is not that short. That's actually a pretty decent height. Not model tier, but I definitely wouldn't call it short.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/17 08:04 PM
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What about the fact most prisoners all around the world are 90-99% male? Or that most people convicted for murder, or organized crime (95-100% depending on country) are men? Or the fact no matter which country you look at, women initiate the vast majority of divorces (70-80%, except in muslim countries where they can't easily get divorced)? You are overlooking the fact biology shapes most men and most women to behave in a certain way. AWALT doesn't mean a nun will behave like a bar slut. It's ju…
/r/TheRedPill19/12/17 07:33 PM
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Thai women are much more receptive, warm and friendly than western women, so you have that going for you. Second, facial aesthetics are everything on Tinder. Everything. So if you are blessed in that department, you should have no issue picking up girls in the 21st century.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/17 07:27 PM
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You're being honest, and you know what, that is 100% true. PUA is a fraud. Most women simply wont give you time of the day if you are not conventionally attractive (height, weight, face, hair, musculature). There is a small subset of women who are into bald guys though, but they only like them if those men are tall. Let's face reality: If anyone on this subreddit was put in a short, bald body with 4/10 facial features, they couldn't pull much of anything. When it comes to one night stands, looks…
/r/TheRedPill19/12/17 07:17 PM
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You can try. But it's going to be an extremely brutal game if you aren't in the top tier looks wise. We're talking hundreds upon hundreds of rejections for maybe one phone number that may not lead to anything. Most average looking guys with average faces and bodies will never get anything out of cold approach. There is so much video material and experiments of this on Youtube as well. Cold approach can be remotely useful or work, if the guy in question is tall, buff and has great face genetics. …
/r/TheRedPill19/12/17 07:14 PM
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There is no universe where you don't pay anyway, unless you are top 1% looks wise (even then you could argue you pay with extremely good genes) there are no free women. The tens of thousands of dollars you spent on healthy eating, gym memberships, the hundreds of thousands (or more) you spent on a presentable apartment or house, the tens or hundreds of thousands you spent on a car. Most of them wont want anything to do with you long term if you don't have these. These men are paying upwards of 1…
/r/TheRedPill19/12/17 07:03 PM
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I have plenty of relatives age 60+ who said they are getting euthanasia or traveling to a country that allows it, if they can no longer walk and stand up themselves. Life is over at that point. It may happen at 70, 80, 90 or never. But if it does, there is no point continuing life. If you are demented, you cannot move without assistance, and can't even recognize those you love, then by all definitions there is no point continuing to live.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/17 09:10 AM
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If you are 6ft and your face is relatively handsome as you say, you can probably get into the 20% with minimal effort as long as you can keep lifting weights and eating clean.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/17 04:48 AM
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I was under the impression Brazil is an extremely stratified society, with women having 5 kids ouf of wedlock with 5 different fathers at the bottom, and with women who wait until marriage at the top end of the socioeconomic scale (due to religious and family pressure). I could be wrong though, I've only seen documentaries and talked to people from Brazil. Never lived or been there personally.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/17 02:53 PM
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You don't need to be a provider or have lots of money to be appealing sexually. That's a massive bluepill notion. Okay, not being able to lift due to a neurological condition is a bit of an issue, but there are other ways you can get in shape as well. You're not a lost cause.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/17 01:23 PM
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You have an amazing level of self-reflection and determination for a mormon. I knew people leave these 'cults' voluntarily but it's truly rare to see someone who not only left out of their own free will but also became redpilled and started the journey of self improvement. Kudos.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/17 01:15 PM
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I don't think I know anyone past the age of 50 who doesn't think family or their children aren't the most important thing in the world for them. Stuff and material objects are not really worth all that much. There is nothing that has more inherent worth than other people. What point does your life have if you have absolutely nobody to care about? I applaud RP men who are good fathers to their kids. That in itself can be the meaning of your life. You are nourishing and nurturing another soul and …
/r/TheRedPill18/12/17 07:52 AM
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I don't like the world. I think it's ugly, brutal, and life is quite short. I've struggled with depression for years. But it's the only thing we've got. I only adapt and self-improve to feel something. Giving up and watching TV all day just doesn't seem worth all the regret that would ensue decades down the lane. I will be dead in 100 years from now anyway. Nothing I do has any particularly deep meaning. Why would I not go the gym, eat healthy and have fun with women? There is everything to gain…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/17 07:45 AM
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26 or 27 is nowhere near "old". It's a great time to start your RP journey. The more you read this subreddit the more you will see people only hearing about RP in their 50s or even 60s. You still have your life ahead of you.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/17 05:13 AM
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Neither one is really a good look. But if I make a Tinder profile with both of their faces, the skinny guy on the right will get way more matches.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/17 04:55 AM
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Depends on facial aesthetics as well. I did not get significant attention from women until my body fat dropped to below 12%. After that they started checking me out. I was somewhat invisible at 18-20+. Being big matters, in my opinion. Or at least buff. But so do facial aesthetics. Face matters a lot. And the only way to max your face and jawline is through dropping your body fat.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/17 04:53 AM
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Bone structure is often a copout. There is video proof to the contrary on youtube. Some extremely skinny, small boned guys have become massive within just 2-3 years of lifting, given that they eat enough protein and increase their lift maximums regularly.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/17 04:48 AM
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Why are you going to bars or clubs for finding a LTR let alone a wife? Brazil to my knowledge is a very catholic country and it has a fairly good chunk of conservative women. If your endgame is not fucking lots of women but marrying (questionable strategy for most here, but you'll have to find out for yourself), there are much better venues to improve your chances. Church groups? Libraries? Community college classes? I would tread carefully though. You don't really know even if your catholic uni…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/17 03:58 AM
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Women are just human beings and they still suffer from medical conditions just like you and I do. So yeah, that one was a bit funny. Just because she lost her libido it doesn't mean she was sleeping in secret with the farm donkey or snuck out to town at night. There are countless things like stress, anxiety or depression that could lead to this without any cheating involved.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/17 03:52 AM
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No advice at all I'm afraid. I'm pretty sure it only boils down to looks, because I haven't upped my clothing game or anything else, and some approaches happen in non-social venues such as during shopping. I would guess if you have already maxed your looks, investing in well fitting business casual clothing could probably increase your success even further, at least in cities. Or if it's a more relaxed rural area or small town, clothing may have much less impact (and if it's a hot climate you ge…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/17 03:38 AM
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Yes, that's how I always perceived him as well. He looks like a thug and is one, but he still has those boyish (or neotenic) features that make him an interesting blend. Also makes him presentable in a suit and tie. That's enough to melt most women. No wonder he went viral. I have no problem admitting when someone's won the genetic lottery as a straight guy. Even if he wasn't a criminal he'd probably be getting 100 matches a day on Tinder. When you get to that level in looks, it trumps all kinds…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/17 03:31 AM
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Looks matter a lot. Just try to remember the curious case of Jeremy Meeks. Not only did this thug get hired by a modeling agency, he also left his old wife and married a young billionaire heiress. Thugs might even get very attractive or high SMV women if they are top 1-5% looks wise.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/17 03:23 AM
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I can't disagree with you there. Just look at the mugshots of organized crime figures or just regular violent criminals. They all have massive jaws, thick beard growth, strong brows. They don't look like an average Joe. They look like an extreme version of an NFL linebacker. If you studied them they'd probably have 5x the testosterone of a regular citizen.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/17 03:00 AM
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Or they're just being honest. I know far more guys that have either been in one LTR and banged nobody else or banged maybe 2-3 random girls who they later went on to date, than 'players' who have banged dozens of girls. These are normal educated, non-nerdy guys who do sports and have normal social lives. The vast majority of them haven't even been with 4 girls.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/17 02:55 AM
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I had zero until 22. I knew plenty of people who led completely normal socially active lives with plenty of girls around them who had zero and were older than me. I would have probably stayed at zero forever if I never decided to embark on self improvement. I was absolutely invisible to women when I was under 20.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/17 02:50 AM
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I had 0-1 (0) until 22. I had no idea what I was doing. Most people are simply not born as naturals. I only started getting frequent female attraction from 7+'s after multiple years of self improvement at the gym, lowering my body fat and eating cleaner food. I was absolutely invisible as a under 20. In fact, despite what my friends like to think, I had no experience at all until 23. It was only after age 26 that I was able to get multiple lays in a single month. Late bloomers are a thing.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/17 02:45 AM
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I didn't notice any difference when it comes to hairstyle. Buzzcut, classical hairstyles, longer hair, they're all fair game. No significant advantage to any of them. I did notice massive returns when it comes to facial hair though. Not just live but also in extremely superficial virtual venues like Tinder. If you can grow a decent stubble, you will get way, way more matches than clean shaven. I'm talking 3-4x increase. And those matches will be from women looking for ONS instead of relationship…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/17 02:39 AM
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Neither, it's actually financial. At this point in my life I'd rather put that $100 a week or $400 a month into stocks than escorts. It might not seem much at first, but compound interest is a wonderful thing. If you're a bit older and already have a solid financial foundation, I see no reason why not to indulge in beautiful escorts every now and then.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/17 02:13 AM
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I made another reply on this issue above. You are right. Although I don't personally use their services, many high SMV men do use escorts as well. It's a perfectly viable alternative. Some people like the thrill of the chase that comes with fucking ordinary women (or in rare cases, a woman approaching you with sexual intentions). Others want to cut to the chase and just go out with escorts. Escorts are ordinary women as well, you could probably build a fairly solid if not relationship, a friends…
/r/TheRedPill17/12/17 04:58 AM
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The vast majority of men have been conditioned into thinking their special someone or unicorn exists somewhere out there. It's not as clear cut as just reading a few RP guides and overcoming that mentality. Probably somewhere between 90 to 95% of modern men are bluepilled. You don't just switch them to abundance mentality and have them concentrate on improving their own SMV overnight. For some men this clashes so hard with their own ideas about life and women they refuse biological realities or …
/r/TheRedPill17/12/17 04:53 AM
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This is not a radical muslim subreddit. You can't ultimately control someone's wishes and desires unless you illegally detain them in a dank cellar. If a guy really feels like cheating, he will. If a girl feels like cheating and can't help it, she probably will. This subreddit is about an abundance mindset and not getting overly fixated on one woman. Even if she cheats on you, so what? There are 3,5 billion other women in the world. Tens of millions are coming of age every single day, or hitting…
/r/TheRedPill17/12/17 04:25 AM
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Whether you can cold approach or not is not just limited by your emotions or instincts. It also depends on the local culture and country where you play the cold approach game. Be honest, would you cold approach local women in Yemen or Saudi Arabia? I seriously doubt it because you could get not only beaten but killed. Cold approach is not an entirely problem-free approach. It works great in liberal western countries where women are treated as free individuals. Not such a great idea in many other…
/r/TheRedPill17/12/17 04:21 AM
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Good point. There are limits to where cold approach can be done, anyone saying otherwise is not being truthful. Would you cold approach local women in Saudi Arabia? Not if you value your life.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/17 04:18 AM
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Two years ago I watched plenty of street approach vids. It's much more looks based than any other form of approaching like clubs or social events. They just don't convert to fucks at all unless the guy was exceptionally good looking. Probably every single other kind of approaching is easier, even cold approaches at restaurants, cafes or libraries.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/17 04:16 AM
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This kind of violent society can never work. How do you plan ahead even two weeks let alone years or decades, if you are always at the risk of someone younger and stronger than you just massacring your family and friends? Society works because we have laws to suppress and punish certain deeds which are harmful towards other people. And enforcers like policemen to make sure there are consequences for breaking those laws.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/17 03:49 AM
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A ton of men only peak after 30+. You're not running out of time, if you are actually working towards dramatic improvements to your SMV. Have you started taking care of your body yet? Are you on track when it comes to healthy eating and obtaining a lower body fat?
/r/TheRedPill17/12/17 03:42 AM
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I listen to BBC almost every morning because it's the only English-language radio channel where I currently work. They are definitely very left wing and very PC.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/17 03:27 AM
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Saying words is easy. Having muscles is not something everyone has. Being tall is not something everyone has (but this is not something you or I can work on either). Being well groomed is not something everyone does. These expensive nonverbal cues do 95% of the talking for you before you even open your mouth. If you don't have any traits that are either genetically advantageous or physically expensive (and take significant amounts of effort), higher SMV women just wont give you the time of the d…
/r/TheRedPill17/12/17 03:18 AM
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It could be true, if you're just starting out. If you place 2 on the SMV scale and try chasing a 9, she is probably not viable for you or wont even talk to you no matter how much 'game' and 'personality' you have. Women only really stop being 'out of your league' once your SMV becomes really high and attractive women genuinely want to spend time with you out of their free will without doing favors or money changing hands.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/17 03:03 AM
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Where I live, russian and balkan organized crime hangs around there just as a social venue for private discussion. They don't party or drink. They just sit there at the tables talking to each other and maybe check out a random girl every now and then. You can always tell these guys. They are massive in physical stature and they show up in expensive cars.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/17 01:21 AM
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There are very few medical pros on this subreddit, but as a complete layperson I would guess it is low T. Lots of things can cause low T, such as an extremely sedentary lifestyle, being significantly overweight etc. As an all-around cure I would simply move more, lift more weights, eat healthier (lots of protein and fresh vegetables, very few if any refined carbs) and see how you feel after a few months.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/17 04:35 AM
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Correct me if I'm wrong, but isn't Russia one of the only countries in the world with significantly more women than men under the age of 30? If that were true, it would be no surprise why there have been masses of russian women voluntarily trying to marry into the west even to lower or medium income men just to get a husband for decades.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/17 04:30 AM
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Some women are aware, but most just act on their biology. There is no point fighting it. This world is what it is. It's not an injustice we can change like slavery or wars. It's a biological part of who we are. If it didn't carry evolutionary benefits, it wouldn't exist. Women seek out good genes, and they want to have a good time. That's really all there is to it. Hating them because they would rather fuck a 8 or a 9 over a 3 makes no sense. It's how the human race works. Most men would choose …
/r/TheRedPill15/12/17 02:17 AM
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Before they lock down a thirsty fat 40-something, they can still bang all the tall, handsome male models out there if they're even a 5 or a 6 though. Doesn't work like that for men who are a 5. Those men are forced to marry a subpar woman or die alone, if they never improve their SMV significantly.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/17 02:10 AM
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I wouldn't call it genocide, maybe eugenics is the correct term.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 09:59 PM
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Depends on facial aesthetics too. I've seen meatheads brushed off for skinny model faced guys all the time. It's not as clear cut as that. The ideal of course is being both genetically gifted and lifting weights, but that's just not reality for most of us. And more often than not these guys get paid fo their looks by companies promoting products, because it's so rare.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 09:55 PM
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That's true too. Different strokes for different people. I was only speaking from the perspective of physical attractiveness and lifting SMV rather than increasing your deadlift maximum.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 06:31 PM
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Some people just don't have that fear at all. I believe they're called psychopaths. Needless to say, they are usually pretty successful with women if they have an iota of good looks. For us regular folk, I think you may be very correct, even if you achieve everything you ever dreamed of in life, that nagging feeling will still always haunt you no matter how many hundreds of rejections you've already successfully brushed off. That's the price paid for having emotions like a regular human being. O…
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 05:50 PM
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It's pretty sad if you suggest the 280lbs, pasty geek should perhaps make himself more attractive to his wife instead of thinking he can gain her attraction by doing the dishes or cleaning the house, you will get banned there. As if it's a switch you just turn on by doing certain household chores. I genuinely feel bad for these men, they are completely lost mentally. They have no understanding of how attraction works.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 05:19 PM
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I drink socially. Avoiding alcohol means not having a six-pack of beer every two days or getting absolutely hammered every time you go out. That's a lot of stress and empty calories your body has to bear. Alcohol has no nutritional value at all. I only drink it when out with other people, very rarely alone.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 05:14 PM
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It's only hard if you start doing it as a low value man like most guys do. Cold approach is not just a numbers game. If your SMV is low enough it might very well be you can approach 1000 girls and not a single one will go out with you. Improve your looks, money and status. Have an awesome life that is not dependent on women. After that your cold approaches will be more successful because women can sense you are not desperate for them and you genuinely have other stuff going for you, and you are …
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 03:41 PM
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Bulk for a year, and spend a year not looking optimal. Then spend another year cutting all the fat you gained. That's 2 prime years wasted. I just don't get people sometime. Yes, you'll still get some attention as someone who has 21% bodyfat and has lifted, but it's nowhere near optimal. It's just not good for you.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 03:32 PM
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Good point. Also avoiding alcohol, cigarettes, and eating healthy can easily shave 5-15 years off your look, that's how some celebrities can play teens on TV plausibly even though they're 35.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 03:29 PM
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It's like a different person. That's a massive positive change. Congratulations. How long is the period between the two photos?
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 03:23 AM
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I also don't understand why more people don't go for the clean bulk or Lean Gains method. Maybe it's slower than pigging out on tons of calories, but your body fat will stay low while you build lean mass. It's a win/win. Why would you lower your aesthetics for even up to a year or more while bulking when you do not necessarily need to?
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 03:22 AM
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You probably have two distinct advantages, 1. you age well due to genetics 2. you are disciplined and willing to work hard towards having a killer body even at age 40. That being said, I'm not surprised. Think of men like Jason Statham. He is currently 50 and many women in their early 20s are genuinely attracted to him (not because he's in movies). That's what discipline and hard work can do. Oh, and he's gone bald a long time ago, by the way. Doesn't matter one bit.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 03:10 AM
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It also depends on how good looking that guy is. If we are talking about the extreme end of good looking, let's say Nick Bateman, he can probably fuck 16 year olds even if he's 30 at the moment. And likely does, considering his instagram is flooded with comments from 16-18 year old girls begging him to fuck them.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/17 05:46 PM
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Not sure if this is a good example. Many of the boys who were abused (yes, it's abuse especially if they're like 12-13) were very shy and timid kids. And sometimes the abuser is not a teacher in shape. It's your ugly aunt or even worse your own fat mom. Do you really think the kid enjoys it? I hate this double standard. It is still abuse.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/17 05:24 PM
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It's not a debate. It's salty ugly people refusing to upgrade their looks and living in denial. When all you have to do is go on Tinder with your ugly overweight mug and see how it gets 0 matches over a period of one week. Then try it with the picture of some obscure male model's random Instagram photo and watch your matches rack up to 700+ a week. Anyone who thinks looks mean nothing is living in denial, plain and simple. It's a huge, if not the biggest initial sources of attraction for both ge…
/r/TheRedPill13/12/17 02:18 AM
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They do approach. They just don't approach you because you're not attractive.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/17 01:43 AM
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Oh, training can be enjoyable. But cutting is psychologically painful for the vast majority of the population. The reason you see so few people with chiseled faces and ripped bodies is because it's hard and painful to do. It's months upon months upon months of correct eating and avoiding junk carbs.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/17 01:32 AM
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10-12% looks perfect on men. You will have a very chiseled face and muscle definition If you go lower than that you will start getting that pro bodybuilder look which some (many) women don't like.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/17 12:38 AM
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They don't do it because it's slow and hard. Possibly even harder than putting on mass, because restraining from eating when your body tells you it wants surplus calories instead of a deficit, is arguably even harder than lifting weights. I would rate the difficulty pyramid as follows. 3. Not doing anything (doesn't lift, doesn't lose body fat, just a couch potato) 2. Lifting weights with correct macros and calorie surplus (needs discipline) 3. Has lifted and cut down to sub-10% body fat (needs …
/r/TheRedPill13/12/17 12:35 AM
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Statham still looks better than 98-99% of guys in their 30's because of low body fat + nice facial aesthetics + stubble.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/17 12:32 AM
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True. But before attaining at the very least that base level, you have no chance of ever moving up. And sadly a lot of redditors are at a level where even their hygiene repulses other men and women around them.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/17 06:47 PM
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I never thought about this but you may be right. I know 35 year old guys who look 25. On the other hand, I know overweight 30 year old balding guys who look like they're 45.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/17 05:44 PM
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You don't need to be a genetically gifted tall model to pull casual pussy. It helps but you don't need that. You can adapt an abundance mindset just by being at the very least regular. Being hygienic, taking care of your haircut, being social, wearing decent clothes. Be someone women and men would want to hang around voluntarily. It's only a cope if you are severely overweight, can only communicate in perverted jokes or grunting and only wear fedoras. As a caricature. These people need to make b…
/r/TheRedPill12/12/17 05:34 PM
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In a way you are right, let me elaborate: You do need some base SMV to work with. You can't just be a 400 pound dungeon orc with his fedora and squeaky voice acting like you're Brad Pitt. Life doesn't work that way and you will be laughed out of the room. You need plausible displays of SMV. That means if you ask out a girl to your or her apartment instantly, there should be at least a reasonable expectation of you being a high quality individual. That means be at least a 6 or 7 looks wise. Have …
/r/TheRedPill12/12/17 05:28 PM
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That's how psychologically healthy males respond. You are just doing what is natural. Clinging desperately onto women, asking them for reasons on why they flaked etc. is needy and unnatural low status behavior. If they don't want to text you back, if they cancel a meeting at their apartment or a café, then just forget them, and realize there are billions of other women out there.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/17 05:20 PM
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Thanks. And you're right, if someone else is reading this post, know that your gut will adapt to less sugar. Replace fast carbs with something like tomatoes, cucumbers, salad and avocado and the need to eat candy, chocolates etc. will just slowly wither away.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/17 02:27 PM
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Yep, this advice seems pretty US-centric. I would not go smiling at everything and everyone in Europe. It's just not socially viable.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/17 06:58 PM
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; somebody emotionally fragile and disturbed who lifts obsessively to escape scrawniness or fatness as it used to provoke a huge sense of worthlessness in you. You hate scrawniness cos once you were scrawny and it made you feel worthless at the presence of other males that you consider superior as they were bigger ans stronger. It doesn't even matter whether you're 5'7, 5'11, 6'2 or whatever. Lifting will in almost all cases make you a better, more attractive version of yourself compared to the …
/r/TheRedPill11/12/17 06:45 PM
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I did 24h fasts with keto for the last 365 days now. It was only hard for the first few months when you break out of a constant need to snack on refined carbs, chips and other unhealthy items. It also guarantees success: You're only allowed to eat once a day so counting calories becomes very easy. If you want to eat at any time outside your feeding window, simply tell yourself "nope, wait until tomorrow". That's how I went from 100kg to 80kg so far. Still need to lose about 10.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/17 06:18 PM
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I went from 100kg to 80kg within a year of keto (though I did eat 20-40 grams of carbs a day, but I assume that still falls within keto) so that is about 40 pounds in a year. I don't think I could do 4 pounds a week without severe malnutrition. You'd have to create a huge calorie deficit to lose 2 kilos (4 pounds) a week. Losing 4 pounds a month though seems very healthy and doable in the long term, and wont generally lead to food cravings.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/17 04:59 PM
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