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Maybe you just don't have any female friends or relatives, but they often times "downgrade" too.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 02:09 PM
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Liar's definitely exist! I really only commented bc I've seen MANY people (even sex therapists!!!!!) try to claim that custom sized condoms aren't a thing just because a condom can fit around someone's forearm. It's super duper ignorant, so as someone who actually needs them I just wanted to weigh in and say no this stuff is real lol. If I try to use magnums (ie the biggest size at the pharmacy) I sometimes feel a sharp pain or lose my erection because the little rubber bit at the end is a bit t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 02:30 PM
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Can confirm my wifey has PCOS. I used to feel like the hypersexual person in my past relationships, but she outshines me by far. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 02:32 PM
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He was probably 8.5 right before nutting and at a healthy weight, but "girl inches" are a thing too. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 12:17 PM
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Actual average or biased average? I too need to order condoms online because I have a pretty thick dick, but it's not monstrous lol. If monstrous is where you consider the starting point for "big" then that may be the issue. 😂 Some of y'all really be thinking average cocks are small lol. I've seen it A LOT in social media threads.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 12:16 PM
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Not all size queens have "giant" vaginas though, some prefer anal instead. The term "size queen" isn't shaming anyone in itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 12:13 PM
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No arguments here!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 09:28 PM
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People in fulfilling monogamous relationships don't want to cheat in the first place lol that's my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 05:35 PM
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Serial cheaters aren't monogamous... TRULY monogamous people don't have a problem locking themselves down for their partner because that's just how they behave. If someone gets into a relationship and are dying to cheat or have the freedom to sleep with other people then they aren't monogamous. They're a cheater at worst and a swinger at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 05:19 PM
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Basically the only way to start a family here is the American way through brute force (money) or the "shithole country" way of living in a multi-family home so grandparents or other relatives can provide the village it takes to raise a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 11:05 PM
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Hell yeah, brother. 🤘😎
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 11:02 PM
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That's definitely not new.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 01:53 PM
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You don't think there are hot people in Asia too?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 08:39 PM
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I lowkey think women like this are comphet...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 05:00 PM
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Not every incel is a hateful piece of shit. Honestly, I'd assume most are just awkward autistic people.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 05:31 PM
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When did I say I was talking about ugly and angry people? I said WEIRDOS.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 05:00 PM
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I'm not talking about any of that shit though, I'm talking about brain rotted cringe lords who goon too much and don't know how to talk to people. Losers, cringe lords: whatever you want to call them they exist. They have a low "social status" because they make people feel uncomfortable because of their personality/hygiene/etc and not because of being introverted or ugly. I don't know why you're pretending weirdos who turn people off don't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 03:50 PM
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What the hell kind of gaslight spin is that? 😂 Are you having a stroke or something? Do you think women should have the right to vote taken away? Yes or no?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 03:30 PM
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A lot of single men ARE weird though. A lot of single women are cringe too. That's often why they're single.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 03:21 PM
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I don't hate women, I just think they don't deserve the rights other adults have. 🤡
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 11:31 PM
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Bro you responded to a comment talking about RPillers saying women don't even deserve to vote and you're saying "that's not misogyny it's just calling it like it is" like what? Either your reading comprehension is abysmal or you commented on the wrong thing because nothing your saying applies to the conversation you responded to.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 09:59 PM
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What is success in dating? People will give different answers based on their reasons for dating. Are you dating for sex? To kill time? Pure extroversion? To find a spouse?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 09:55 PM
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The wage gap discourse isn't about ALL jobs, it's about men getting paid more on average for the SAME job as a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 07:27 PM
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How does pure misogyny equal to holding women accountable?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 05:19 PM
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I'd suggest increasing the sample size 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 11:39 PM
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Have you tried dating other autistic people? It's always going to be an uphill battle dating normies.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 08:47 PM
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Depends on where people are in life. That would've been a problem bc both of us were still patching ourselves up from childhood trauma at that point. Personally, I had concerns at first because they are one of my little sister's peers, but as soon as I saw college graduation photos on my Gf's social media I was like "oh, that's a full fledged adult" and stopped over thinking it lol. It's funny, my SO is more mature than the women my age that I dated when they were her age (if that makes any sens…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 07:09 PM
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This comment somehow sounds racist, sexist, and classist at the same time. Bravo. 👏
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 01:04 PM
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I'm 33 my SO is 24
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 01:03 PM
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Enjoy celibacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 09:18 PM
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The fact that you think genuine egalitarian opinions are only for validation is a sign people aren't raised right anymore. I'm sorry you had a mean mom or teachers or whatever it was.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:27 PM
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There is a difference between general masculinity and toxic masculinity. Nobody is stripping away general masculinity, people like strong men - people are only saying no to assholes nowadays. Being a douchebag isn't general masculinity. Hope that clears things up.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 01:58 PM
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Same with men. Look at how many delulu conservative men are out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 01:41 AM
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Example: Taylor Swift
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 01:12 AM
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Only ONE attractive man in a sea of dudes? Baby, you're gay... No, but seriously, if you don't see ANY attractive men at a concert you aren't into men lol. I'm barely androphillic myself and even I wouldn't even be so bold as to say attractive men don't exist lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 02:08 PM
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Hate to break it to ya, but I think your problem is you're getting older lol. The dating pool has always been way more limited for anyone over 25 due to kids or trauma or lack of social skills etc. Oh, and the older you get the fatter you get too. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 05:44 PM
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Date autistic women at the same functioning level as yourself. Thinking on all my past relationships that's what they've been, and it's always been a drought in-between them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 07:20 PM
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This is the age difference between me and my gf. People were asking how we met at a party last weekend and how old we were - we gave them the truth, about how they were friends of my sister's and knew of me growing up, but I didn't know who they were, but I decided on the drive home to just start telling folks I groomed them just to see the shock on their faces lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 03:58 PM
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Artists of some of the horniest people, that's why they learn how to draw LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 11:07 PM
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How big is this woodland that you're comfortable with a bear that is capable of eating elk being nearby for 48 hours?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 01:25 AM
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More like would you rather be raped and killed or just killed. I don’t know if the bear would certainly kill you. And you know for certain any random man would rape and kill you?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 11:21 PM
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OP claims to have been subjected to creeps before which is totally a valid excuse for their biases, but they'd also have been attacked by bears by now too if there were 4 billion of them in the world...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 08:19 PM
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The girls in the videos just seem so unserious with how much they're laughing though, it really makes it seem as though they're just trying to be funny and edgy. We also need to keep in mind that the interviewers likely asked hundreds of people and only highlight the most controversial answers for clickbait.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 08:11 PM
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Which is why you won't catch me going to these places alone lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 07:59 PM
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Ummm, yeah, kinda. Never heard of the dodo? Those things were practically walking into the cooking pot bc they had no natural predators.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 06:38 PM
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FWIW haven't national parks and hiking trails kinda been like the best hunting spot for serial killers and freaks for like forever? From what you're describing it sounds like you'd probably be safer alone at night on Skid Row than being out on trails by yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 06:33 PM
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The term I'd use is hypervigilant since you are assuming ANY random man is a rapist and murder.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 06:30 PM
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But the question was never about a psychopath just "a man". You yourself have said you're a hiker, you've never passed friendly people on the trail before or is everyone threatening to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 06:11 PM
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I'm sure bears themselves have an instinctual aversion to humans nowadays too considering our ancestors started mass killings of basically all mammalian predators in the United States and Europe hundreds of years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 06:09 PM
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Bears eat your stomach while you're still alive FYI.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 06:02 PM
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All my best friends in college and since after have been 8-14 years older than me despite us having childhoods in different decades.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 03:55 PM
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I'm a younger Millenial and my partner is an older Gen Z, and it probably works because their life experience was similar to yours. Stress and trauma makes people older, and my SO feels more mature than the people my age that I dated when I was in my mid 20s by a long shot. Could be a generational thing too, Gen Z is more friendly toward therapy and might tackle big issues earlier than people in my generation and older. Also, I've heard that conversations aren't the most important things for rel…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 03:53 PM
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That's pretty hard when you aren't picky LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 01:22 PM
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Microplastics from containers/clothing/etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 03:16 PM
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Most Plastic Products Release Estrogenic Chemicals: A Potential Health Problem That Can Be Solved Results: Almost all commercially available plastic products we sampled—independent of the type of resin, product, or retail source—leached chemicals having reliably detectable EA, including those advertised as BPA free. In some cases, BPA-free products released chemicals having more EA than did BPA-containing products. The fact that we use plastic in literally everything (including our clothing) is …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 03:00 PM
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Divorcees date too and they aren't 18-30 (typically).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 07:24 PM
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Right, so just like every other generations low LGBT numbers being caused by society the same is true of sexless young adults nowadays. Again, like I said to the other person, incels are still technically a minority of the overall population even if the majority of young adults are celibate. I'm autistic, so I'm gonna argue semantics and technicalities all day lol. Me doing so is not a statement of how I feel on the issues, it's just pointing out there aren't any language inconsistencies going o…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 07:14 PM
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I never said it wasn't an issue, you just took issue with 10% of the population being correctly referred to as a minority of the population... 63% of a 5th isn't a majority of people, there are probably more black people than incels in this country, for example, but that don't mean either groups aren't getting screwed by the cultural zeitgeist in different ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 06:17 PM
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18-30 is only like 20% of the population. So we're saying roughly 10% of the population has opted out of dating? Technically that's a minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 05:47 PM
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Because most women are straight or bi, but only date men
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 08:40 PM
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So date other autistic people bruh. I only ever have lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 02:50 PM
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Is it wrong to not care? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 02:08 AM
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The type of person I am financially, especially right now, I'd probably consider that to be a waste of money. Plus I've got a hypersexual partner, so it's really not necessary lol. I thought about NV at my thirtiest point in a sex drought, but shit's way too expensive just to get laid 🤑 I say we subsidize the sex workers so anyone can afford intimacy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 03:50 PM
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Congrats on all your paid sex bro lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 02:27 PM
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it’s hard for me to mix up the sex of the person and their femininity/masculinity like that Hence why I said you could hit yourself with the reverse card and ask yourself the same kind of question you were just asking a lesbian lol. You realize how silly it was now.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 02:54 PM
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Because you're basically misgendering them (if they're a bottom) or their partners. I don't know why you need to be told this, but you were being rude any time you did that. I know it wasn't coming from a purposefully rude and hateful place, but you were pulling a Michael Scott anytime you did that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 02:49 PM
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You could basically ask yourself the same question: [assuming you're cishet] why don't I date femboys? Probably because you like their boobs/voices/etc and aren't attracted to feminine men just because they're wearing makeup or lingerie.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 02:46 PM
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They probably get upset because you're deliberately trying to upset them? Maybe it'd help you (and your supposed plethora of gay friends) if you switched up your vocabulary a bit: instead of "male role" or "the man" you could say "dom" / "the dominant one", yeah?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 02:40 PM
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They literally told you that they, the femme, take on the "man role" in their relationship. Butch & femme don't have to do with roles, it's an esthetics thing. It can honestly apply to straight people too, like a tomboy/femboy couple.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 02:37 PM
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As a sapphic and enby person I often wished to be bi because I could see how much simpler dating (or at least casual sex) would be if I were bi and into men too lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 02:32 PM
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But that's how you formed your opinion, it makes sense someone would refute you with their own anecdotes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 02:21 PM
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See, but I'm arguing that I don't think the standards, I think the availability has. Practically every Western woman has a little black book of local Chad's or rich men whenever they want to (re)download Tinder. My argument is that I'm sure women have always had high standards, but for most they probably had to settle. I think that's why the parents in Boomer Era shows all hate each other, it must've been so common back then to get married just because you needed a husband in order to survive, b…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 08:50 PM
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I mean feminism isn't really a thing throughout the whole world, and isn't a super old concept either, and I personally doubt that women's sexual tastes have changed THAT much: odds are (imo) that the whole "women don't find men desirable unless XYZ" thing has probably always been a thing... Therefore most of our female ancestors were probably victims of misogyny, because I doubt all of our male ancestors were desirable men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 08:27 PM
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Monogamous men exist 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 07:52 PM
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Okay, people definitely don't respect men's issues enough, but the fact that there are all these women's shelters kinda proves women aren't loved unconditionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 11:37 AM
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It's almost like men have to be a specific type of person to be loved. Yes lol literally. If you want friends it's best not to be a sociopath and/or narcissist who drives people away over time. If you want kids it's best to focus on your career early so you can afford them later and work on any trauma you may have so you're over it before kids are a thing. If you want to get laid you're going to have to be desirable i.e. attractive. That can mean something to many different people. For example, …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 11:35 AM
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Why are you even responding to me if you aren't going to ve helpful? Wasting both of our time here bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 09:56 AM
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Again, why can't herbivores fuck? Pretty sure there's countries full of them lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 09:45 AM
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It's because Japanese society is overbearing as fuck starting from childhood and then you get a soul sucking job after that. You remember Final Fantasy 7? The secondary big bad in that game is literally capitalism. Japan's gods died a long time ago to make room for the worship of money.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 12:05 PM
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Wtf does eating vegetables have to do anything? You just noticed that Japanese people have healthier diets than us or are you assuming eating meat gets you pussy?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 12:02 PM
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Perhaps women who like porn like women too. Might be as simple as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 12:50 PM
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When I first discovered porn I always preferred the "For Women" categories because those videos just seemed less stupid and more real lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 12:47 PM
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Mexico and Norway have the same average birth rate right now. Basically EVERY developed nation has the same birth rate (≈1.5). I'm arguing that maybe—when given the opportunity (i.e. the combination of modern medicine, secularism, and feminism)—the average woman only wants 1.5 kids... and that theory seems to be even more true if rich people and the middle class are having the same amount of children: the wealthy can afford to have more than others, but they don't want to have more kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 02:03 PM
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I think modern birth rates in Mexico prove most people don't want kids, or that religion is the main driving force of overpopulation, because birth rates were like 7 kids for every woman 7 decades ago, then Mexico became wealthier (especially in the 2000s) and now it's birth rate is basically the same as in the United States. I'm sure Catholicism is still going strong there though (maybe not as much as the past), so access to contraceptives, medicine, and sex education are probably the driving f…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 11:40 PM
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My roommate barely has time for her dog. She thought she was pregnant last year and all I could think was "please get an abortion" lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 01:31 PM
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....because they can't afford birth control or abortions
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 01:30 PM
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"Vergara" comes from Bergara, a town in Spain.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 02:18 PM
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In my experience, I think it's more like most women probably can't understand the male dating experience unless they themselves aren't attractive, and most women will never understand the overall female experience unless they themselves are hot & twinky/effeminate enough to get creeped on or catphished by gay men. Like, that definitely turned the light bulb on for me 😅 I like to think I'm empathetic, but I often can't fully comprehend issues until I've experienced them myself, and I feel pretty …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 11:59 AM
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More men vote for fascists than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 11:51 AM
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I'd love to work naked, are you kidding me?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 06:17 PM
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"Modesty" is subjective... whose version are you using? Orthodox Muslims don't think women should show any part of themselves, Christian missionaries forced their version of modesty on people around the world who were simply wearing less clothing because they lived in hot & humid environments. There are literally family friendly nude beaches in Europe because nakedness isn't inherently sexual, it only becomes that way when human bodies are taboo, and that's just not an issue for secular folks.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 05:26 PM
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Man, I've literally seen videos of women making fun of the whole "you shouldn't have dressed that way" bullshit while wearing the frumpy clothes they got raped in to prove that clothing doesn't matter to a sexual deviant.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 04:11 PM
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It was for me, I met my gf bc of a birthday post my sister shared for me lol. When you "give up" you tend to put less desperate vibes out there lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 03:15 PM
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I was referencing all the "Little Miss" posts that were on Instagram last year. OP doesn't have their pronouns in their bio.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 03:26 PM
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It isn't normal to not have a stable career at 30+ and not have your own place (rented/mortgage) and a car. Okay, Little Miss Classism, go off on your ignorance toward how fucked up the economy is right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 02:01 PM
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Nobody ever understands what the "nice guy" is. It's supposed to be an ironic title... as in those guys sre faking how nice they are or are only being nice because they have ulterior motives (such as sex). A "genuinely kind guy" would then be the opposite of that: someone whose nice bc they're just nice to everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 11:15 PM
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If all you're going after are women who had abusive parents, yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 04:02 AM
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There's also the idea that men don't fully mature until their 30s too - like, emotional maturity, not physical. Basically, the only groups that prefer men under 30 are younger folks who want to be with people the same age as them, or older folks with age gap kinks lol. When you yourself are mature (or maturing) a 20-something doesn't really sound appealing. I'm a 30-something dating a 20-something rn, but that's bc I'm more mature then men their age and it turns out they're more mature and emoti…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 02:07 PM
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If that were true my experienced homie wouldn't have gotten trapped by a younger, toxic woman lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 01:08 AM
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I'm sitting next to her on the couch rn, dumbass 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 01:07 AM
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It's not a bad thing to hit up sex workers when you yourself can't get laid either 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 08:09 PM
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Yeah, my parents never pushed me into doing anything, not even chores. Here I am training myself how to be an adult in a house full of other "coddled" ND people who don't know how to do anything for themselves, let alone any housework 😭 I think I kinda lucked out bc I was pretty sociable growing up with peers and family, but once we got a computer I was never off of it and I've got a bad back like a 50yo office worker @ 30 😅 I really wish my family would've, like, cared lol, but I understand why…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 04:14 PM
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If all you care about is sex move to Nevada lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 04:09 PM
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The "blue pill" is just being a regular human being who isn't constantly thinking abiut the dating market. The most obsessed about it all eventually evolve into self-loathing, misogynistic black pillers. The only folks who need to be "blue pilled" are those teetering on the edge from red to black. It's not as if TRP isn't right about some things, but too much of any one mindset isn't usually a good thing. In our hyper-individualistic, self-obsessed society it's probably a good thing to be on the…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 04:07 PM
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/u/The-Loop
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 11:33 AM
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You're not omniscient. Maybe she got dragged away bc she just got out of a breakup and doesn't need to rebound on a new dick?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 11:32 AM
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Even "plus sized" female strippers aren't out of shape, just thick lol. Being fit is just a stripper thing to appeal to the widest audience possible bc there's going to be a fair amount of patrons on any given day with different tastes, and in our society physically fit people are still seen as the ideal.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 03:06 AM
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20% isn't that small tbh, but I agree with your last point 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:18 PM
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They never said to date ugly people: Women should be looking for average men who treat them nicely and who they can get along with with similar goals and outlooks on life. You don't need a crazy sexual attraction but just enough attraction for a lasting relationship. Maybe you should reread the post a few times until you no longer have an emotional response to it, and can therefore take it at face value.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 05:08 PM
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That's your personal taste. Personally, I find BBWs attractive, and a lot of women also find "BBMs" attractive too - don't forget about the "dad bod" craze of late lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 05:05 PM
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OP didn't say to date people you think are ugly, they said date average people you're attracted to. If someone thinks they're the hottest person their significant other has ever laid eyes on that person is an egomaniac lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 04:57 PM
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It's "better" if you care more about using people to meet your own goals, but sociopathy generally isn't respected. It may get you farther in life than people without it, but assholes tend to die not surrounded by family.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 01:47 PM
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I think you took too many life lessons from 90s sitcoms where nobody is honest in relationships lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 01:44 PM
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That chart shows black men make more money than black women too, which all goes to highlight the wage gap AND white privilege are real concepts.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 12:39 AM
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I'm either not autistic enough to understand any of this data or too autistic to understand any of this language lol. I was really hoping for a TL;DR at the bottom 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 12:36 AM
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I mean, there's lots of chicks out there attracted to creeps though lol. If someone says "ew, gross" to a comment they're probably speaking from the heart - their heart, at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 11:38 PM
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I've seen someone say they're lying about being happy in their relationship bc they said their boyfriend isn't Fabio lmao. Men and women are both physical creatures, but men are 100% the ones more obsessed about other people's looks, and that's coming from someone whose been harassed by both sexes lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 11:28 PM
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I mean, we're not writing theses here, I think bringing up anecdotal stuff is okay. Otherwise there'd be like nobody complaining about getting screwed over lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 11:26 PM
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I haven't seen that yet lol, thought I seen it all here
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 11:24 PM
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And then people like you complain about sexlessness and dying alone. Social Darwinism fr.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 08:08 PM
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I only see it when women talk about how they love their boyfriends, then black pilled weirdos pop up all "that's not even real! You're just faking for internet clout!! How could a woman possibly be content?"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 08:06 PM
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If all creeps were cowards there wouldn't be rapists or kidnappers.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 03:32 PM
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“dude wtf u looking at?” Definitely easier said than done. I don't think most people are confident enough to mouth off people in public, especially on public transportation when that person could straight up follow you off the train/etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 03:07 PM
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Have you never been on public transportation before? It's the law of the jungle out there: staring at people is a sign of aggression. Yeah, it's boring being on a bus or train, but you aren't supposed to be staring at people's faces or bodies the whole time. You can look around, but bring a book, or check your phone, or look at the floor, anything but gluing your eyeballs on another human being long enough for them to record you doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 02:54 PM
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Do you honestly believe everyone with an XX chromosome behaves like this?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 02:48 PM
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Just look at monks lol those guys, like, discovered genetics with all that time lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 03:26 AM
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Have you? Outside of middle school?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 03:25 AM
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Those women are doing people a favor. It might be traumatic coming across one, but dating them would be even worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 02:00 AM
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How many people have died from Covid and how many people have died from vaccine related heart problems? I'll believe vaccines are worse if you can provide hard evidence to the claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 08:39 PM
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I know 0 people, young or old, that have died from complications due to the covid vaccine and several folks that have died who were too paranoid to get one. I mean, there's really no such thing as a "safe" vaccine if you're looking at all the examples of negative reactions from them, but I could say peanuts or gluten is dangerous by that same logic. Personally, I'd rather die of a vaccine-related heart attack than covid-related drowning from fluid in my lungs anyway, but whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 07:11 PM
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Someone who was like a mom to me growing up probably wouldn't have died from COVID-19 if they got vaccinated considering how often they got pneumonia in the past, so you can kindly STFU Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 06:38 PM
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I mean, yeah, that's what makes different cultures different. To not want to fit in with these socially accepted traditions & norms makes you countercultural. how can I say they are of my own individual choices as a person Because you still have personal taste. It doesn't matternif everyone around you loves mumble rap if you think it sounds like trash. It doesn't matter if all my family loves tamales and flan and I don't, their choices reflect their tastes. There's probably Latinos out there wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 03:12 PM
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People's entire identities revolve around where they just happened to be born. In a nutshell, that's what culture/ethnicity is.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 02:50 PM
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Because the economy sucks so there's no money to date and 3rd spaces have effectively dissolved because of the economy, so nobody is meeting each other naturally anymore either. Our parents being addicted to America's Most Wanted and Cold Case Files made us all "stranger danger" too lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 02:03 PM
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I don't think he was joking though lol. Ben Shapiro seems more the type to take things literally than be sarcastic.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 01:55 PM
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Also, the quotes around squirter are sending me 😂😂 if you make your gf piss all over the floor y'all might need to mop afterwards lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 01:45 PM
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I'm fairly certain covid brain damage ruined most of our ability to drive too lol. We're all lead brained now.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 01:43 PM
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Conservatives are the least funny people on earth, so it's no surprise he can't understand a joke and that hyperbole is supposed to be absurd.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 01:29 PM
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And that's another reason why people were making fun of him: "bring a bucket and a mop for this wet ass pussy" is OBVIOUSLY hyperbole, but for all we know Cardi B is a squirter, and if you ever come across one of those you might need a mop - some towels at the least lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 10:03 PM
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Nah, I'm good. You don't even need one, the only people who would be confused over a very wet vagina are those who don't have good sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 09:33 PM
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Because closeted men are still too scared to be seen as gay to admit they're bi lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 07:10 PM
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Ben Shapiro got mocked bc he basically admitted he has a dead bedroom relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 05:32 PM
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Very Pisces of you to still be whining about this years later... lol jk
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 02:02 PM
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If y9u aren't being judgemental why are you making multiple comments about a complete strangers open marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 03:59 PM
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That comment literally answers your question, that's why I copied and pasted it. Read it again slower or practice your English lol. Edit: if you're too lazy, it says she made the relationship monogamous longer than her husband would have liked, therefore she opened it up, but as already stated it was something he wanted to do before she wanted to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 03:58 PM
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You're pretending to not be judgemental, don't be fake.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 03:06 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/PbHNIjGNSG
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 03:05 PM
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It's not positive lying lmao The world is full of billions of people, some of those are going to have different experiences than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 03:04 PM
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He's literally my father, I know him better than you, Einstein.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 02:33 PM
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Liberal brain rot makes for some annoying people, but at leadt those folks aren't shooting up mosques n shit. Conservative brain rot is way more toxic and prone to actual violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 07:56 PM
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Then maybe it's a Marines thing lol Edit: or conservative brain rot
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 06:25 PM
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Being a wage slave sucks, but at least most of us are in this together, and many people don't care if you're as broke as they are, plus you don't have to participate in [constant] consumerism to have hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 03:47 PM
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Idk being a cishet white man who came from money and thinks he's better than everyone else for serving in the military? Or are you asking for examples of entitledness? e.g. driving like he owns the road, banging on drive through windows when they aren't fast enough, being rude to wait staff, never helping with chores while complaining about how messy my mom is when he's no better, impatient, likes to make people feel dumb, etc. Typical self-centered Karen behavior, I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 02:00 PM
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My dad is a Karen. Entitled former rich boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 01:45 PM
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Ben Shapiro seems to be confused by naturally lubricated vaginas though, so we don't actually know if his doctor wife let's him hit or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 11:22 AM
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And if that's their actual tiktok in their bio then they are pretty hot indeed lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 08:05 PM
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Their tag is literally "transexual MtF", so 1. they identify as a woman and there's no need to be transphobic, and 2. they could very well be a pretty hot woman depending on how far along in their journey and how fem their features were before they even started.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 08:04 PM
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They just said they work at a bar. Bartenders or waitresses tend to lean attractive, and alcohol lowers inhibitions, so why is it unbelievable that an attractive woman who works with drunks would be hit on daily?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 03:24 PM
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Idk about those reactions, but he does kinda seem to be autistically awkward and us neurodivergent folks are known for being misunderstood 😅 but ngl watching that interview on H3H3 yesterday made me go "Mr Beast is a passport bro?? 😂"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 02:58 PM
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H3H3 kept going off about his body language in this interview too, Ethan kept saying it was like Mr Beast felt like he owned the place lol. Got his feet up on a coffee table with food & drinks on it n shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 02:56 PM
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I'm a 5'2" nonbinary leftie who topped their girlfriend for 2 hours after making them help me make dinner last night for a party I organized & hosted. Assertive soyboys exist and I am that bitch lol. Sorry for ruining your narrative lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 12:17 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 11:34 AM
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The internet is full of hundreds of millions of people
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 11:30 AM
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Behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 11:05 AM
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Same thing with women lol. So many of them are opting to not date at all bc their lives are more peaceful that way and they have all the emotional support & friendships they already need.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 06:54 PM
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Dudes do this with hot women too. Being attracted to someone makes you a little blind to personal red flags regardless of sex or gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:09 PM
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It suggests that she's the problem and needs to self-reflect so she stops selecting for rotten fruit
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:03 PM
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Also, influencers are generally toxic and annoying as hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:01 PM
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Go make me a sandwich and suck my cock, you've had enough liberty for today.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 02:35 PM
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Yeah I'm on the app. Old reddit was the best, I miss RIF :(
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:46 PM
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Yeah, if y'all think being the opposite sex would've be an easier life I suggest hanging around /r/egg_irl for a few months 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 02:44 AM
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Again, literally has nothing to do with politics lol. You can be a leftist and assertive and/or have an inkling about dinner lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 02:35 AM
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You're making things into a progressive vs conservative thing when pretty much all women want their partners to make them feel special. It's a Mars vs Venus thing, not politics.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 12:13 AM
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Facts, just hanging out in this sub pushes weird "redpilled" / "conservative" spaces into my feed like /r/KotakuInAction, /r/MauLer, or /r/whatifalthist
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 02:38 PM
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19 year olds are idiots lol, there are a ton in my house all the time bc of my roommates.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 02:27 AM
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Honestly it's like always going off for me, but maybe the path in life I've taken is one other neurodivergent folks gravitate toward too.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 02:24 AM
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It's trending because there's billions of people on the planet and the majority of us have never been tested to prove we're neurotypical or not. Maybe people are jumping the gun, but maybe you are too and millions of different individuals online are making it seem more popular than it should be? Apparently 15-20% of the population is believed to be neurodivergent, it wouldn't surprise me if those numbers were actually higher or increased by "high functioning" individuals: https://www.linkedin.co…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 02:22 AM
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Gotta nationalize the hookers lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 05:41 PM
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Genuinely convinced most people before the year 2000 were accidents and still are lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 09:45 PM
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Can people in poverty afford $500 abortion pills? Do they even have access to them or Sex Ed in high school? The other person responding to you was only focused on underdeveloped nations, but poor folks in developed nations have "too many" kids for nuanced reasons too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 09:44 PM
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I'm like 80% certain that the height thing is only because most women prefer a submissive role in the bedroom and being shorter than your dom makes things hotter. I love it when my gf makes me feel small when I'm in a stubby mood.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 06:31 PM
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she's not a judge, bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 08:20 PM
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I can imagine that the only people interested in a sugar baby that doesn't put out have findom kinks, or don't have much of a libido to begin with and are paying for the girlfriend experience more than the sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 09:44 PM
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Whut? I've been on this sub for like a year, wth is this? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 03:14 PM
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So bears lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 08:25 PM
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I wouldn't say it's women, but people in general. It's called group think.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 07:42 PM
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Pretty sure covid made beards less sexy and trendy
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 01:54 PM
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Peaked in middle school??? Holy fuck that's such an insult
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 01:53 PM
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low sociality and/or nonverbal autistic people can be hot too. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 01:50 PM
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You realize introverted men and men interested in role reversal exist right?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 01:49 PM
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All they do for 16 hours a day is lift in dead silence? No music interests, no gaming, no other hobbies whatsoever?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 01:48 PM
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They're called himbos.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 01:45 PM
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Women's libidos peak in their 30s. Some people might not "looks max" or tackle childhood trauma until they're past their 20s. Some people are just too wrapped up in school or escaping poverty to want to date bc they're more logical than horny, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 06:04 PM
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Facts. I went to an "Stacy" ex's wedding this weekend, and sure my ego felt a little bruised when the priest said how they had "given up on finding the perfect partner before meeting" since they dated right after me lol like literally a rebound relationship, but we weren't ever a good fit relationship or lifestyle wise ourselves anyway, we were mainly just good in bed together, so it's NOTHING to mope over. I'm dating someone I've never been more compatible with now, and all that night did was b…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 02:24 PM
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Cis men typically don't have the kind of thighs, hips, or tits that women do. If you think this person looks fat at 200lbs I can only imagine you're attracted to anorexic esthetics bc she's barely chunky. https://www.the-sun.com/lifestyle/8199700/mom-used-insecure-about-weight-number-define-worth/amp/
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 01:16 PM
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My point is that these countries are Ultra Patriarchal. When wives and daughters are treated like property single men get treated like thieves, I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 03:14 AM
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If my wife wanted to get divorced because I cried in front of her she'd be doing me a favor. That's not a woman I'd want to enter my slowly dying years with.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 04:25 PM
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Humans are a social species. The whole "pack" works together to help out pregnant females. Humans, like other animals, would've dealt with borderline starvation in-between big kills, so when famine time comes and the tribe might not see another deer for a month the fatter females are going to be able to survive those periods easier with less miscarriages. Same goes for bigger males (aside from miscarriages), it's probably why dad bods are the final form of most men, men's bodies go through hormo…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 07:35 PM
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A 5'10" girl can hit 200lbs easily without looking "fat". Muscle & bone add up.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 07:26 PM
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Okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 02:26 PM
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LOUD NOISES
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 01:53 PM
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women just like evil men Not if they aren't charming, bro... Evil men don't get laid just for breathing evilly, the successful ones are just incredibly charming. Let's take a look at Elon Musk. He's got everything the RP says you need: he's narcissistic, a little anti-social, and has low empathy (i.e. does "evil" things), is rich af, tall, and handsome yet he can't hold down a relationship because he's got the personality of a wet paper towel. Y'all don't want to believe in how important the soc…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 01:52 PM
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I don't think you should compare the cringe chicks who want to fuck Bundy to all women lmao. These freaks are the Harley Quinns of society, most women aren't like that. At least not the ones you want to be dating lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 01:38 PM
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Yet half of those guys would still fuck a fat girl if the opportunity for sex presented itself lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 01:36 PM
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You're saying "us", but I already told you I think fat chicks are hot. I've always loved curvy figures and I grew up before being fat was a "fad". BBW porn wouldn't exist if you were even close to being correct lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 01:29 PM
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You think sex doesn't feel good for other animals? Plenty of them masturbate.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 01:23 PM
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Your projected insecurities about other people's weight will fade in a decade or 2
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 01:15 PM
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I don't care if people are fat if they're cute, but meth heads or bullies are a hard pass no 2nd chances.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 01:14 PM
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A dad bod is the "final form" of most men biologically lol. Most folks tend to get a littke thicker with age. These angry, young men might not be so disgusted by "obese" bodies when they're in they're 40s. Shoot, maybe I'm an old soul bc I've always been a chubby chaser lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 01:11 PM
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Nah man, fat chicks are hot
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 01:07 PM
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Kids still have fun outside, it just doesn't seem like it nowadays because birth rates have plummeted. Ain't nobody got kids anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 03:32 PM
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“It’s not the norm, but a few times, sure, I had sex with some guys on the first night. And yes, I did various sexual acts with them that I now have sworn off, but now that I’m dating this sweet new guy who seems like “relationship material”, I want to take it slow and don’t want to really be doing that crazy sexual stuff anymore. This...actually hapoens in real life? It sounds so made up of a scenario or maybe I just date sexually liberated women lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 04:05 AM
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And they didn't even get the ability to vote until 50 years after that... Also, were peasants & serfs never conscripted in the past before Europe decided to expand territories? "The Draft" isn't as young as the concept of forcing men to go to war because their leader said so.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 12:52 PM
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That's why I saud "high quality to them" - a fascist piece of garbage is gonna love a woman like Boebert.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 12:29 PM
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Yeah, I'd probably think a woman with an AI boyfriend is either narcissistic or terminally online and that they probably don't have much prior dating experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 10:47 PM
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Look, the people who are seeking out AI boyfriends and girlfriends are losers, people that can get dates (especially dates with "high quality" people for their own place in life) aren't using technology to replace human interaction. Plus it's pretty fucking vapid to want to DATE a computer program that can't actually think for itself and only exists to listen to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 10:42 PM
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It doesn't help that men hate short men too. Petite men in general. Shit like "manlet" and "soy boy" weren't started by and mainly spread by female haters, that's like a black pill manosphere thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 03:30 PM
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Again, feminists didn't make the laws or traditions we've been abiding by for generations. Like, this country has existed for longer than it's allowed women to even vote within it, I think you're gonna have to wait another 50 years in order to blame a feminist govt for not equalizing the draft for all genders & sexes lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 03:24 PM
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The way I see your comment, even if society wasn't shitting on short men you'd still be complaining about women not marrying them... they'd still be marrying or fucking who they're most attracted to and you'd still be talking about their supposed "fuck you I got mine" mentality in regards to them preferring taller men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 03:14 PM
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You're blaming 2 completely different things on women though. Women have only been in politics in for whatbthw past 60 years, the draft & conscripting has been around as an idea WAY longer than that and was male centric back then too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 02:09 PM
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Dude, I'm 5'2" and have usually been the shortest person in a room all my life - people stopped giving a fuck about it after middle school. Does it hurt my dating prospects? idk maybe, but I'm not a PUA, I date people that show interest in me (my first gf was like a head height taller than me too). Do people call me Frodo n shit like they did in 7th grade? No because adults don't really give a fuck about some rando's or their coworker's height lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 01:12 PM
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Damn those pesky women for marrying people they're attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 01:10 PM
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It doesn't matter if some magazine rag coined the term, women use it to refer to men with guts and many women find that attractive. Women with a pot belly are pretty hot too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 01:08 PM
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See this right here is the difference between male & female sexual psychology lol. You think the movement was trying to get men horned up, but it was just about trying to make women feel sexy. Big girls are hot, they shouldn't stress about the mirror so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 01:06 PM
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How the hell are you people in this sub long enough to remember each other's usernames?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 12:45 PM
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/r/egg_IRL
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 04:41 PM
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An existing sex and/or porn addiction
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 05:14 PM
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you're allowed to say porn here
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 05:13 PM
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Uhhh are attractive women not widely celebrated anymore?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 11:15 PM
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Just do some googling, they both are seen as our closest living relatives. And forgive me, but you were the trying to claim that male humans are naturally dog-eat-dog sociopaths (instead of that being learned behavior), but that doesn't describe most of the men I've ever known, so I figured you're speaking personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 06:01 PM
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I don't think anyone is praising a "lonely life" because being single doesn't automatically mean you're lonely... not if you have friends, family, pets, coworkers, etc to enrich your life and prevent that numbing feeling of complete loneliness away. Having a community makes yearning for love/dating/sex so much easier to deal with bc you're distracted by people that make you happy in other ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 05:58 PM
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Bonobos are also are closest primate cousins and that's exactly how they behave 🤷‍♀️ I do not think humans as a whole are as bloodthirsty as you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 05:50 PM
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That's the base urge for psychopaths or people molded by a brutal society, I don't really think that's man's base urge. I think Man (as a species) mainly just wants to chill and fuck, not murder each other. If you have urges like that you should get medicated fr.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 05:00 PM
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EVERYONE is attracted to the top 20%, not just women, there's really no need to shame them for it. If you aren't in the top 20% for looks then you need to get there in personality lol, that's the story behind every "ugly guy, hot woman" couple that I've met. There's wealth too, but that's chasing after a woman you don't want imo. Also, it's not like women don't ever settle, that seemed like such a weird and bitter retort to a logical take on cheating being unnecessary if you just date people tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 04:58 PM
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I don't think cheating in a relationship morally equal to sleeping with people you're unattracted to. Sure, maybe they're both "settling" kinds of behaviors, but honestly men don't even "need" to cheat in this polyamorous era... they just might have to be pickier with their partners too.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 04:48 PM
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Wasn't talking to you in the first place lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 02:38 PM
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iirc Ancient Egyptians used to shave ALL of their hair and use makeup for eyebrows and wigs. Beauty standards are cultural.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 01:25 PM
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I've git a friend who's honestly one of the hottest people I've ever known and she'll date dogs because she cares more about personality than looks lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 01:37 PM
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Most ants are infertile females that help make their little universes so amazing. I know our instincts our different, but I think humanity has sapience on its side to not dip in the dark side of nihilism if we can't meet the biological prime directive or are facing other forms of oppression. Like growing up in the ghetto, some people become beautiful souls from all the trauma and others fester.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 12:29 AM
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Not cheaper than a little slap & tickle 😜😂
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 12:17 AM
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But you're basically accusing them of lying about being attracted to their partner... but I think you mainly just misunderstood why they said what they said.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 12:06 AM
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Until they have to talk on the date lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 05:26 PM
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It's okay if your partner isn't the most attractive person you've ever seen lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 05:25 PM
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These women are just homophobic. Hateful people are always the loudest on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 05:23 PM
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Okay, I looked into things instead of asking for a source and I found a chart that does imply that overall birthrates in Latin America & China are similar to the USA, so it seems to be a global phenomenon I'm assuming due to modern contraceptives and every country has already industrialized in ways. Mexican women are having over 4 less children on average than they were in the 60s, that's pretty crazy, but it makes sense. I don't think declining birth rates are a reason to make a human being tho…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 08:48 PM
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Well it sounds like you had a pretty decent dad growing up ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 08:34 PM
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That's probably bc Millenial dads are actually way better dad's than previous generations, like they actually enjoy parenting or put more effort into it bc we're all "soft" and know a lot more about psychology than our parents or grandparents.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 03:59 PM
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tl;dr poor people have the most kids because they're too poor not to. My Nana was the oldest of 13 and had 8 kids herself - back then you needed bodies in the fields, but also nobody can afford abortions when you're dirt poor and sex is the cheapest form of entertainment. Modernization & automation make babies (and by babies I kinda mean child labor) less necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 03:57 PM
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Not worried about birth rates, my extended family south of the border will fix that issue when all the privileged Americans "neuter" themselves through whatever bs your spouting lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 03:54 PM
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Women can empathize, but empathy doesn't necessarily make sexual attraction. Courting is a thing in many species ours included.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 12:59 PM
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Attachment issues from bad parenting and/or general disregard for other people's emotions, but also sex is normal and our species would probably be pretty "hoeish" (like bonobos) if it weren't for organized religion.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 12:54 PM
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I can't believe people still make women & sandwiches jokes in 2023
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 01:07 PM
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so why dwell on it? honestly it's giving "closeted man who can't stop cursing the gays" vibes whenever people randomly bring up cuckoldry shit out of concern. I think they're concerned because they're into it and don't know what to do with that information lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 01:06 PM
1

Why do you people fantasize about these wild scenarios? 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 01:04 PM
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Men do this too, everyone does. You know soon within meeting someone if they're just friend material or someone you want to date or just fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 11:47 AM
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That dude was suffering from some major white privilege
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 12:17 PM
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Welcome to reality. It really fucking sucks, and you probably shouldn't fantasize about bringing more human beings into it lol. Personally, I think dating would be a lot easier if we all weren't payed pennies for the dollars we help create, the whole "i need a man with money" thing is a symptom of hypercapitalism as well as a rebounding effect of women barely gaining independence like 2 generations before me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 10:09 PM
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Maybe for you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 04:59 PM
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Is your brother charming at all or just a bag of flesh? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 04:59 PM
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I think it's a massive overreaction, but personally I think it's weird to be 50+ and still trying to get with 19 year olds - not because it's unnatural to be attracted to young adults, but it's just such a vast mental and/or life experience gap.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 03:14 AM
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WLW is a popular movement for sure, but that doesn't mean dating is easy lol. Most women aren't lesbians - it's kinda lesbian culture to be scared of asking people out for the fear that they aren't sapphic themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 01:39 AM
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Men are kinda going though a lesbian problem right now lol. Like, it was pretty much socially acceptable to be a dog to women throughout my childhood, I binged Fresh Prince & Frasier for the first time as an adult last year and man were the 90s problematic 😅 with the rise of social media & general feminist awareness I feel like decent guys, like a lot of lesbians, are too afraid to come off perverted or rude to make the first move, but that's mainly for the shy feminist guys, there are misogynis…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 03:05 PM
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A lifetime of douchebaggery might get you more ass than being kind and average, but that's only important if you measure your successes in sex. Ace or demisexual people aren't gonna be assholes just to get laid, but tbf sociopathic behavior is pretty advantageous in-general individually, but not so much for the community, so the only people that don't want to be an asshole despite the advantages is because they have a developed a high enough EQ to realize it harms other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 07:57 PM
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No bro, latitude is lol. If you want tall kids marry people from temperate ancestral regions 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 09:56 PM
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Please don't have kids whatsoever (you, not them)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 07:39 PM
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Does TRP not know about prenups? You gotta marry someone on the same level as you. Like, I feel like the majority of divorces can be seen from lightyears away lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 04:34 PM
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I'm not misrepresenting history, generally speaking my Spaniard, French, and English ancestors that colonized the Americas were less feminist & progressive than my Indian ancestors even if the Indian ones weren't always shining examples of egalitarianism.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 06:40 PM
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Not trying to shift the goalpost, that kind of misogynistic point of view where it's worse for women to be sexual is a byproduct of religious colonialism after the 1500s. "Savage" natives (even if they have societal gender roles) were usually more liberal than the hardcore conservative Catholics & Christians who came to the New World, even in Europe pagan cultures were more feminist than Catholic-Christians and the Romans immediately before them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 06:23 PM
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And who faces the worst social scrutiny & punishment for not being chaste? Boys or girls?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 02:21 PM
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Based on your other comments here you're a man, so you probably experienced a different Christian upbringing & education than your female peers publicly & privately.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 01:45 PM
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I'm not the one getting overtly flustered from scantily clad women in public.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 01:06 PM
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Go talk to a therapist about your sex addiction or gouge out your eyes like Jesus said lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 12:53 PM
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Do you realize you asked 12 questions in 1 post? I'm not answering them all lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 12:20 PM
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We need to get over the whole "immodestly dressed" thing fast as summers keep getting hotter and hotter worldwide. Equatorial cultures have always been tits out because it's just too hot not to be lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 11:30 AM
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Also, I feel like astrology is kinda like tarot in the sense that it should be used to understand yourself better, not some magical tool that can predict the future. If you don't agree with what your charts have to say about you that's fine, and if things ring true there's usually some advice strewn in you can learn from.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 03:59 PM
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About as attractive as anyone whose heavily into Christianity. And by heavily I mean it's ruling their everyday decisions, not the occasional invoking of their beliefs. Astrology, like organized religion, is pretty harmless when it's not mandated or zealous.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 02:27 PM
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I mean, I guess, but you couldn't still call someone who sold sex once 20 years ago a prostitute, but if you murder once you're a murderer for life.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 01:55 PM
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It sounds like this guy has massove trust issues or they'd probably already be doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 01:26 PM
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As a man who isn't as affluent as you I'm game for 500 if they're decent looking 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 01:18 PM
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Selling sex once doesn't make someone a prostitute though. Prostitute is a career, if I go do karaoke once that doesn't make me a singer.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 01:17 PM
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It's a 1 time deal, an Indecent Proposal if you will. Women who say yes aren't prostitutes because that's not what they do for a living every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 01:16 PM
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10 grand is 10 grand and from what I've seen online it's really only our faces that get OLD old, bodies kinda hold up lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 01:12 PM
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That's not weird, it's demisexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 01:11 PM
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I doubt he's seeking out people with boyfriends, most IG models only have themselves on their profile (as if it were a professional page)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 01:09 PM
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Same, like I'm sure we'd have fun, but my type is kinda the opposite of her lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 06:11 PM
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That's because guys basically want to fuck everyone they think is attractive and women don't want to take things that far with everyone because of natural selection & instincts. Pregnancy is resource intensive on women, not men. Women's bodies have to go through the labors of pregnancy and this has had an effect on our species psychologically. I'd be willing to bet that bi/lesbian women go to bed with each other faster than with men because there's no pregnancy risks involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 06:09 PM
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Well y'all could just vote for people who want to bring tuition free colleges back into America like how it used to be, get educated, and become "elites" yourselves.........................
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 11:22 PM
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Yeahhh the "worker crisis" will probably be solved by all the millions of refugees who will be crossing the border to avoid heat death near the equator later in our lives, I think the nursing homes will be staffed.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 11:18 PM
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Dopamine seeking behavior. An extremely simple way to think about ADHD in general is people like us are born with a crack addiction, and by "crack" I mean "dopamine", so the "high" we get when our brain releases happy chemicals from music or sex or really any fun activity doesn't last nearly as long as it does for neurotypical folks. In that regard, hypersexuality isn't always a trauma response, neurodivergent people can be that way simply because it feels good and we're hella prone to repeating…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 05:10 PM
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I'm not disagreeing. There's plenty of men out there that don't want virgins for the same exact reasons too, inexperience is rarely sexy haha, but cool people should be willing to overlook it if the connection is there.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 01:54 PM
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/r/ThatHappened
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 01:08 PM
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idk, I think anyone can learn to be great with their fingers and tongues lol. Hell, guys with baby dicks can even wear vibrating strap ons to make themselves bigger if they're with a size queen. Sex, like any skill, takes time to master, it's not like math where some people will just be bad no matter what.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 01:07 PM
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Hypersexuality can result from a number of things, and not even necessarily anything negative like sexual abuse, it can also stem from ADHD or autism.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 12:54 PM
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I honestly think we should start slut shaming men. Not only do they ruin good women, most of them can't even make them cum. The amount of times I've been asked "how are you so good at [oral sex]?" makes me sad for most women in the world because I don't even think I'm THAT good at it, but clearly nobody is even trying to please their partner out here.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 12:44 PM
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Have you ever even dated anyone before? People don't really bring up their body count in random conversation, it's only a lie if you ask for a body count and they lie about the number.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 12:40 PM
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Church people are weird, dude, it's really just that simple. It's only Christian women doing this dumb shit lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 12:35 PM
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I don't quite get your point, are you saying you're a relationship guy? Or are you not bull material? I find it hard to believe guys here aren't interested in NSA sex lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 02:54 PM
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I thought we got over all this "metrosexual" crap 20 years ago lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 02:56 PM
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A lot of cucks seem happy, it just depends on how sadistic and malicious their women are lol and a lot of those guys seem to enjoy the humiliation.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 02:52 PM
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It's pretty great for bulls too 😜
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 04:01 AM
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It's really good, but it's a horror movie lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 09:52 PM
2

That's Midsommar
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 06:19 PM
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Amish children aren't very healthy compared to the general population because they're so inbred because their culture is so stifling to the population at large.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 12:49 AM
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Good luck, I can tell you Filipinas probably aren't as sweet and subservient as you're thinking lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 01:57 AM
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You think making more money means you're making less mess around the house? Maybe you should pay for a maid service if you're unwilling to help with housework
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 05:31 PM
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That's not bull, it's equitable. That's literally how taxes are supposed to work lol. If people are paying bills based on their incomes in an equitable way then they both get to save the same percentage of their paycheck. If your wife made twice as much as you would you want to spend half your check on the mortgage, but she only needs to spend a quarter of hers?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 05:30 PM
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Okay, so get a lower paying job so Mommy isn't doing all the family rearing lol. I had a single mother, they were a good parent in the sense that they provided any material needs, but aside from that they were absent - that wasn't their choice as a single parent, they had to be, but working 60 hour weeks and barely having the energy to be a dad or husband afterwards is a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 05:25 PM
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Lesbians exist, big dog
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 01:00 PM
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Women like to look sexy to impress their friends too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 01:00 PM
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I had a relationship that didn't work out because it was so obvious they wanted me to be buying them food all the time and I can't afford that lifestyle lol. Not calling them a gold digger, but they're like a 2nd gen trad so they just expect to not have to spend money going out because the culture is still rebounding mentally from the days when women weren't even allowed to have a bank account. There are plenty of "evolved" women out there that won't make you feel guilty for living under capital…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 08:07 PM
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That's a capitalism problem, my guy
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 04:13 PM
2

So an unattractive person to you would be someone with a shitty personality
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 01:18 PM
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I'm sure google can help, but I know he once said we need to bring back forced monogamy to stop mass shootings, and it's not women doing that sort of thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 04:15 AM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 03:51 AM
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Schwarzenegger? The Rock? Peterson actively craps on women in order to make men feel uplifted, like you can be a voice for men without attracting misogyny claims pretty easily just by not making misogynistic comments lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 03:51 AM
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You should listen to Schwarzenegger
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 02:36 AM
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You can be pro-male without being a misogynist lol, that's the problem people have with Peterson, because he's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 02:35 AM
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I assume that's what people do. Do you not? Would you not reject someone that was unattractive to you, too?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 02:58 PM
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I'm not "surprised" i just think all these acronyms are fucking stupid and makes men look really fucking corny lol. "sexual marketplace"? lmao that's so cringe, no wonder people aren't getting laid when they make sex sound so corporate lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 02:33 PM
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Okay, I'm back, and I still don't know what point you're trying to make. Maybe you just need better friends? None of mine would try to guilt me into making out with drunk people I'm not attracted to. There's literally no reason for you to be internalizing that situation so much, they were just being shitty people who don't care about your consent, that's not how most women operate.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 02:30 PM
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Jesus Christ with these fucking acronyms. Hold on while I have to research some shit to even have a conversation with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 02:26 PM
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You shouldn't believe everything you read online.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 01:57 PM
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Would you not reject someone you're unattracted to?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 01:03 PM
1

Well, loose men lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 05:39 AM
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fwiw I met someone through it recently, so it's really a double-edged sword
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 09:11 PM
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imo PUAs came into existence because most women say no to men's advances in general, so it's probably always been terrifying for socially anxious people in a post-feminism world... I think there's just more anxious people nowadays, so maybe the answer is unplugging from social media if it's not tied to your job and experiencing more of the world - I definitely need to.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 05:33 PM
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They wouldn't know that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 04:13 PM
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Also no need to be pissy when you misunderstood the OP
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 04:12 PM
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That doesn't invalidate my point though. Online dating makes meeting people easier, sure, but you can still meet someone "in the wild" if you are personable enough. Like, I wouldn't decline someone asking me out if I was single and they were charming just because I have Tinder on my phone.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 03:38 PM
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People still meet IRL, you just need the social skills to actually woo strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 02:36 PM
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You're annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 10:14 PM
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Just because you haven't made any friendships online doesn't mean it doesn't happen, there are people on there I talk to more than friends I've made in real life because we get along better, the only thing stopping us from being "real" friends is distance and the time/money to travel.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 08:27 PM
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For the majority of people, yeah, because the majority of people are paid shit and have crazy rent (or mortgages) despite education or town and often have more than one job a la the hustle culture, so the only people who can be a part of the "bar life" that was SO popular throughout basically all time are older people with money, younger people who are interested in debt, or people who don't care about saving money in general. The massive wealth gaps between employees and CEOs nowadays is preven…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 08:25 PM
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Sure... As long as you conformed you'd have no problems, but good luck being gay or brown in the 70s.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 02:05 PM
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That's like saying pen pals aren't real people because you don't talk face to face. I know you're old and know what a pen pal is lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 02:04 PM
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The internet isn't why 3rd spaces are dying, we literally don't have the time or money to enjoy them anymore like we used to.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 02:00 PM
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It's not a generalization about all men, they're talking about men like OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 04:25 PM
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It's not women's fault that third spaces have fallen out of practice because our economy doesn't care for average joes
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 12:49 AM
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Right, just depends on where you are and your culture's relation to the one you're visiting or living amongst.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 12:33 AM
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In non-white majority countries they become "exotic" lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 12:32 AM
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Also, Asians fetishize white people too. Lots of them want a white baby because colonial racism is still rippling through society lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 07:25 PM
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There's a big novelty your post isn't touching on... race play lol. Hell, same race, but different accent is a turn on for lots of folks too, like an ugly British guy with the same personality as an ugly American man would probably have more success in America just for having an English accent lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 07:23 PM
1

So why did you guys get divorced? Was road rage not their only flaw or was it one of those neither of us like each other anymore type things?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 05:54 PM
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Keyword being little differences lol, I'm sure you wouldn't continue to date someone after finding Confederate or Nazi memorabilia throughout their home lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 02:29 PM
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Way too many men wrote romcoms where the guy gets the girl by being incessant and creepy. I just finished watching Frasier for the first time as an adult, and while I still love Niles & Daphne as a couple Niles was a perverted, hair sniffing weirdo until they finally got together.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 06:15 AM
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Nuance... They're saying these men are physically attractive, but have shitty personalities which makes them unattractive over all. A hot bod with an crap personality only works to woo the vapid and equally shitty.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 06:11 AM
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Yeah, a no-hoper just might decide to have a purely selfish one night stand if their date isn't revolting
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 06:09 AM
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And set and setting... Some people aren't into PDAs at all even if they want to fuck you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 06:07 AM
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Major Lilith from Frasier vibes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 06:06 AM
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Your... ex wife? Sounds like you still realized she wasn't for you...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 05:35 AM
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Well do you actually have any deal breakers or major turn offs? That's what would give you the "real" ick. Like idk a lot of "trad men" in this sub would probably get it after finding out a girl is a stripper or has tattoos. You realizing humans aren't perfect is normal, the ick is you realizing you don't want to fuck and/or associate with another person.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 05:34 AM
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You act like road rage makes you normal lol. I've done it too, it was unsafe af for everyone on the road.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 05:30 AM
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Stockholm Syndrome best relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 03:58 PM
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It's probably just misandry. Misogynistic men both idolize and demonize women too.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 02:09 PM
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No periods happened during the pandemic? I'm gonna need some croutons with this word salad.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 06:00 PM
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Personally I think it's a dom/sub thing. Like, it wasn't doms getting all steamy over that tall demon lady from Resident Evil... lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 03:36 PM
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You said it right there they're expected to listen about these things, not that they actually like it. Whats wrong with the color pink? Simps exist because they're sex starved lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 09:54 PM
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I'm not trying to justify, I'm scared of going on HRT because I don't want to deal with monthly cramps because I'm a baby lol. I'm just elaborating on a specific point. It's shitty and unempathetic that boomers are all "i paid muh debts" when it comes to education and healthcare that cost just as much as theirs did and wasn't hyperinflated, but it's a fact that they're like that nonetheless.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 08:22 PM
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I mean, maybe that's a part of it too, but a lot of women genuinely think men look pathetic when they can't climb out of bed over a stuffy nose and headache when they have to literally go to work in pain and bleeding and with diarrhea because of their periods lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 07:42 PM
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Being protective in an emergency doesn't mean men want to hear about the normal daily problems women have, y'all wouldn't be so quick to dismiss women's opinions if you were so "hardwired" to be empathetic towards all their problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 07:34 PM
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if you need vulnerability get a therapist Honestly, best advice for everyone. Women don't care about men's problems and men don't care about theirs.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 05:55 PM
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It's because women are sick for a week or two every single month of the year (and have to go to work through it), so they don't have any sympathy when men have the slightest cold and act completely helpless.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 05:53 PM
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tl;dr - conservatives are anti-freedom and against self-control
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 07:34 PM
5

That's why more women vote blue than red
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 03:56 PM
5

We're not going to shame women into sleeping with you
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 03:40 PM
4

Women have rights because they protested for them...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 03:39 PM
2

Women aren't Spider-Man, bro 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 03:38 PM
2

Wouldn't men do the exact same thing giving advice to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 03:36 PM
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Uhh, America is unhinged lol, did you forget the last few years? People storming the capitol and forming cults on 4chan 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 04:57 AM
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Humans were built for survival, jabroni 😂 women end relationships when they're no longer romantically interested in someone, but when men feel that way in a relationship they just get a mistress lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 11:09 PM
2

How does that make sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 10:53 PM
1

That's not any different in conservative societies, rich people always come out on top.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 10:53 PM
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Men are expendable when they give more rights to women In what way does that make any sense? When men were the only workers they were the expendable class and women were just objects.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 10:50 PM
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That's how they cope with the fact that they're only respected because of the ability to make babies
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 10:48 PM
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Because they're conditioned that way. In a society where people can form their own opinions neither men or women wre superior.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 10:47 PM
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Occasionally, but not enough to know all the corny inside lingo lol. Kinda reminds me of when I went rock climbing and when asked my hight and wingspan people started freaking out about me being a "+6", like excuse me? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 06:33 PM
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It's always so funny to me that whenever you say anything that isn't completely deplorable on this sub or disagree with any man they thinj you're a woman 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 04:12 PM
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The fuck is a 14'er? Sounds like some Epstein shit lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 04:10 PM
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Well, he's not actually being nice though, he's just camouflaged as a decent person who pretends to listen or care about certain issues lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 03:28 PM
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Idk how you can pretend codependency isn't a problem when you yourself are saying it's the only thing keeping you from suicidal ideation - I've struggled with the same issue at times in my life, I know what it feels like, and I'd much rather be able to feel fulfilled on my own than NEED a partner to give me those feelings
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 05:55 PM
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Codependency isn't a solution, it's a problem in itself. If you're saying relationships are the only thing keeping you alive you have a codependency problem. I had an ex tell me I was their only reason for living before and it ended up making me date them for a year longer than I wanted to because I want to be somebody's reason for killing themselves even less than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 05:32 PM
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Sounds like you have some major codependency issues
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 05:22 PM
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I think there's nuance to interruptions though. If Finnish people think it's rude to be asked what time it is or complimented that's pretty fucked up lol, but I understand this sub we're in you're probably thinking about getting hit on in conversation and I forgot everyone in NYC is rude themselves lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 09:43 PM
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Random conversations are only a taboo for our terminally online generation lol. Gen X and older love talking to strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 07:25 PM
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Americans are insecure as fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 10:38 PM
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About 1/4 of black women my age apparently: https://www.civilbeat.org/2019/06/number-of-women-who-identify-as-bisexual-is-on-the-rise/ That's a lot of people!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 10:35 PM
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Use some common sense here women don't want to fuck women You've only ever heard of straight people before? 😂 All my girlfriends have been bi.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 10:29 PM
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I'll have to give those a shot sometime, but I'm a big slut for pop and I don't even really like his singles lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 08:39 PM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 08:39 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 02:11 AM
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But his concerts prove that's tons of local women are lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 02:05 AM
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Literally everyone wears jeans and t-shirts, man
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 12:03 AM
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"masculine looks"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 11:42 PM
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Yeah, this guy: https://images.app.goo.gl/4aZQpaZ15jM1Ds736 Kinda queer of you to hunt for the body pics though lol, men are way more obsessed about men's bodies than women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 11:04 PM
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That dude would be crushing it in any major city regardless of fame lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 11:01 PM
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Prince is garbage lmao Michael Jackson is the king for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 10:32 PM
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I think abortion should be so normal and destigmatized that's people's first thought when finding out they're pregnant is "do I really need to be bringing a human into the world right now?" and then run through your current situation: are you in a relationship with someone who wants to be a parent? Are you financially secure? Are you still in survival mode?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 10:32 PM
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TIL mom's aren't women
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 10:19 PM
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Because I've seen who they fuck lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 10:08 PM
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And my baby sister's wardrobe, yeah, that guy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 08:05 PM
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Most straight women are subs, so that tracks. Submissive men want to feel small too.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 08:04 PM
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Are you not attracted to successful, confident, outgoing women too? Or do they all look like guys to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 07:29 PM
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I mean, I'm nonbinary trans, so I've been putting an "X of doubt" on most of what society deems masculine and feminine for years lol. I also come from a family of toxic women, so yeah, I'd agree with you that those are just traits of shitty people.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 07:28 PM
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Enby = nonbinary (NB)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 06:10 PM
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I know a lot of enbys and women that'd find him attractive even if he was broke, so you kinda missed the point I was making. I know fame makes everyone more attractive, but it's not like tons of women are getting drippy over Lil Nas X even though he dresses the same way and is arguably more attractive (at least imo) and that's because he's gay and "off the market" for them. I think my mom would still fuck Prince's corpse (hyperbole) and his music sucked lol. The fame just makes all the femboy lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 05:30 PM
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Highly successful, confident, attractive, outgoing. Those aren't "masculine" traits though, they're attractive on anyone. Harry Styles isn't masculine at all imo, yet he still has tons of straight women finding him attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 05:22 PM
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Well, by bad experiences I meant actual relationships, not just talking to men. Just like the men in here who give up because they've only encountered turds.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 05:14 PM
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Dude dresses gayer than some bottoms I know and still has millions of girls wanting his babies lol. Some chicks just like femboys 🤷‍♀️ they're rare, but they're out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 04:42 PM
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Idk. I kinda agree, but I also know from anecdotal evidence that these women are basically just giving up on dating altogether mainly because they only have bad experiences with relationships. Just like porn addicted men, it's easier to make yourself cum than talk to people and properly vet out a partner lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 04:35 PM
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Men are way more visually based than women, and everyone projects these days
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 04:31 PM
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If that's always true Harry Styles concerts wouldn't need mopped up after every show
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 04:31 PM
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Your point just wasn't very clear to me, so all I could do was infer it and ask for clarification, but I get you now lol thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 06:50 AM
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Are you trying to say you hate gays too? I seriously don't know why you keep talking about Nazis
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 06:53 PM
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And then they all fucked
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 03:53 PM
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Gay men ARE a minority though, they're only like 5% of the population. Most women probably don't even have a gay man as a friend and therefore don't deal with the fake flirting from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 03:05 PM
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In that light it makes even more sense that most people are tight with their wallets nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 06:38 AM
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Capricorn as fuck lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 05:55 AM
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And grew up during a time when the dollar had value and men were expected to pay for things more
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 05:53 AM
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Dude fucked up by dating a basically Gen X woman lol their priorities are a lot more "old school" imo
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 05:52 AM
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Are you trying to argue that killing sprees are on the same level as single case homicides? Like husband's don't also kill their wives on occassion?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 05:49 AM
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I love that this sub always assumes I'm a woman for not being a red piller, this is like the most gender affirming place I've ever been yelled at before 😂 someone even said I was "hysterical" recently lol, made my little transfem heart as happy as being called "ma'am" by customer service 😂 As someone who was living blissfully unaware of their trans identity for most of their life all the virgin shaming I ever received or heard came from guys or media catered to them, and the red pill is all abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 05:45 AM
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Yes, I really don't believe that people are constantly coming up to you asking for money
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 03:25 AM
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I don't quite understand the correlation between gay men and nazis here
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 11:31 PM
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These scenarios are all so dishonest 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 11:29 PM
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Getting aggressively hit on and even catphished by gay men opened my eyes up a lot to what the average attractive woman has to deal with, and if you have girlfriends you can see all the creepy stares yourself whenever you go out with them and random men give you dagger eyes for being too close to their quarry
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 11:28 PM
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Liberals ain't leftists
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 11:26 PM
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https://youtu.be/kw-WbC8qNqE
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 11:23 PM
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And men are the people in office, not women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 11:22 PM
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That's a huge stretch lol, but I'll kinda give it to you in regards to conservatives
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 10:16 PM
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and they have a mom that could teach them Bold of you to assume! But 1) not everyone has a mom, 2) odds are if you do her generation was a lot more misogynistic and sexist, probably why so many old white women loved Trump despite hearing him say he grabs random chicks by the cunt, and 3) who the hell listens to their parent's advice anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 09:30 PM
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You don't give me anxiety, women do lmao. Just because I'm transfem doesn't mean I'm interested in men haha, but life would be a helluva lot easier if I was because that's who hits on me 🤷‍♀️😂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 09:10 PM
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I need anxiety meds lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 07:43 PM
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What were the jokes/comments?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 07:13 PM
2

You really got a tally going on? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 07:03 PM
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Are we talking 1950s "minor" or 2020s "minor"?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 07:01 PM
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I think it's more the fact that the majority of friends and family I have are women, so it's easy for me to look at the random ass statistics you black pillers drop with disbelief Edit: plus, my mom wasn't the one who abandoned me (even if she wasn't a good parent) so I don't have much sympathy for deadbeat dads 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 04:47 PM
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It's only a dealbreaker for me if they're the kind of single mom my mom was i.e. a massive cunt lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 03:34 PM
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It's not chicks starting wars.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 02:56 PM
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so the man leaving under current conditions is not that bad It's still bad and psychologically damaging. I don't know why you'd even say this when the Red Pillers here talk SO much shit about adults who only ever had 1 parent, why are you supporting deadbeat dads?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 02:54 PM
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It's less using it as an excuse and more having your emotions stolen from you because of the rapid hormone changes. But menstruation is also why women have pain tolerances that far surpass men, because a period can supposedly be as painful as a heart attack, and if you're dealing with that every month for 40 years you're gonna be pretty damn tough.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 02:52 PM
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Dude, you're gonna die a born again virgin if you keep up with this AlL wOmEn bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 02:49 PM
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You need to educate yourself on what hypergamy means hy·per·ga·my /hīˈpərɡəmē/ noun the action of marrying or forming a sexual relationship with a person of a superior sociological or educational background.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 02:45 AM
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I know a ton of sex positive people amd only a couple of them do that sort of thing, so I don't think it's that high of a percentage and conservative areas only bring the average down even more.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 06:40 PM
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Most single women aren't moms or sex workers...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 03:17 PM
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If women are earning degrees more than men wouldn't it by hypergamy on the man's end?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 03:16 PM
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That's exactly what happened to Dennis in one of the latest seasons of the show too, women kept walking out on him on dates, but instead of working on himself to actually be a better person he just started to pretend to be one to keep attracting modern 20yos
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 06:51 PM
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In the context of the episode it doesn't work though, the woman he tries it on ditches him halfway through and I'm pretty sure he says it doesn't even work half the time, only on the most insecure people. Plus, I'm 99% positive that in the latest season Dennis actually abandons it altogether for different manipulation tactics (like trying to listen to what women have to say or keeping misogynistic thoughts to himself) because it's starting to not work on the newest generation of young women he p…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 06:43 PM
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I don't think that's sexist, I think you're taking the words of terminally online people too close to the heart
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 03:41 PM
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All I'm saying is that we're seeing a rise in women who want to be treated like kids in relationships. It's not equal to the number of men wanting the same, but it's getting bigger by the day. With that in mind, is there any way we can collectively stop romanticising the notion that a partner should act as a surrogate parent Just stop dating 20 year olds lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 02:31 PM
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And just how prevalent do you think that is? Maybe try dating women thar have processed their trauma instead of getting into DDLG relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 02:29 PM
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How is an emotionally intelligent man getting wrapped up with emotionally immature women?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 02:27 PM
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Not recognizing satire has got to be a disability
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 01:00 AM
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I don't think you understand the point of the show, everyone of the main cast is a garbage tier human being who only have each other because they don't have anyone else (because they're such pieces of shit)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 12:59 AM
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Getting offended by someone is usually a turnoff though. They answered the question, you're just being argumentative.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 03:31 PM
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I mean, big dudes look like gorillas. I'm built like a gibbon. We're all apes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 03:26 PM
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There's a massive difference between fashion models and supermodels. For fashion, their only job is to be a walking mannequin and that's why they're all tall and lean, they're sought for their bodies, but most of the time it isn't to actually show their bodies off. Other models are selling their faces or bodies or whatever and if they can sell clothes too even better (but they're probably more expensive)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 05:42 PM
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There's a reason Australians call us "seppos" haha
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 05:35 PM
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Ain't nothing wrong with wanting to actually get off
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 05:22 PM
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Short buff guys look like chimps lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 03:13 AM
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Ans women with/of color stay baddies twice as long because melanin is natural sunscreen lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 09:03 PM
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Well it's good that you don't! but it's still an immature perspective to have, especially since the guys who have it probably want younger women while they themselves keep getting older and hitting their "wall" lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 08:51 PM
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I know a lot of big dudes that are married though, but they're all well kept
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 08:49 PM
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then capitalism is dominated by the psychopaths, narcissists, and sociopaths of the world. It is lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 08:47 PM
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Seeing all those "Free Top G" bozos marching the other day is a total sign that RP is a cult
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 08:38 PM
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Where do you guys pull these stats? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 08:35 PM
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What's borderline obese to you? If you're only into fit chicks then that's going to limit your dating pool a ton, but chubby girls are cute too 😍 some "big girls" actually just have huge tits and barely any stomach because shirts can be deceiving lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 08:31 PM
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Turning 32 and idk ±6 years? I'm not really interested in a massive age gap for anything serious, there are a few of those in my family and it makes things hard when when age starts to hit someone hard sooner than the other, but for fun? 21+ as long as they're attractive to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 08:25 PM
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Edit: Why are you guys willing to date post wall women 30+? This feels a little….contradictory. Everyone has avoided this question 👀 This is such a little boy perspective on life and relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 08:21 PM
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What else was this snark supposed to entail? ^ when people using use the term "bigot"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 08:14 PM
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My first girlfriend was a lot taller than me and it makes walking together uncomfortable lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 07:33 PM
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All the RPers here are from conservative areas lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 07:31 PM
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Date shorter women?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 07:28 PM
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Let's not act like testosterone is so much better though, it makes men act irrationally, do stupid things for clout, be violent, cheat, etc. Not all men of course and not all women either. I think just assuming the sex you're attracted to is a bad person is only going to attract bad people toward you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 04:21 PM
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This seems like a nuanced problem. Maybe women just aren't as "simple" as men are require more - looking at our history men worked together to hunt while women stayed home and worked together doing everything else, so maybe women need to put more effort into their social lives to be more happy in general? Or maybe the modern man is just kind of lazy and doesn't put in enough effort to begin with? The poetic, Byronic souls of the past that were probably drowning in women are pretty dead nowadays,…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 03:56 PM
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With that kind of attitude, yeah. I'm 5'2" and my first gf was 5'8" lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 03:36 PM
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Ke Huy Quan is pretty handsome, I just don't think you're into Asian guys lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 03:35 PM
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tbf their might notneven be any multiversal shit to begin with and this is just a kung fu Walter Mitty
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 03:32 PM
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Depends on how much sex is important to them. If you're ace being an incel isn't a big deal, but not having a partner could be.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 03:31 PM
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What is the govt forcing you to watch on tv?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 03:28 PM
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So you've dealt with them too? I've known 4 Pisces my whole life, and aside from my Nana (who probably was fucking psycho in her youth) all of them are 1) the most confusing people to talk to, I thought it was just because my cousin is drunk all the time, but no, none of them make any sese because they try to sound like poets half the time and 2) they're so fucking wishy-washy!! This chick, my cousin, and an old coworker all have been the kind of people to want to end a friendship over extremely…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 03:10 PM
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I can't honestly say that's a women issue, but it is for every gemini I've ever met lol. Definitely not a thing for codependent women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 03:04 PM
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But also, maybe she was trying to teach you what she likes because you weren't doing it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 01:58 PM
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Basically what the other person said. In a general sense, it's the dominant one in the bedroom and/or penetrator, but there's always exceptions to the rule: a service top is more like a sub who penetrates (they "live to serve") and a power bottom is a dominant receiver
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 01:57 PM
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They weren't really my crush, but they were trying to smash and then they questioned if they even wanted to be friends for the 2nd time, like what? Begone! I'm not giving any more Pisces my time, they're nuts lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 03:38 AM
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Anyone whose offended over the word "bigot" is probably one themselves lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 03:35 AM
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It sounds like she's just more of a top 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 03:33 AM
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If my partner was bored of me I wouldn't want to be married to them anymore 🤷‍♀️ and if they aren't willing to work on it even less, so it's still a failed relationship. I think men are just more likely to cheat on than divorce their boring spouse lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 03:28 AM
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You know it's not really acceptable for men to beat each other over minor squabbles right? No need to fantasize about egalitarianism here
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 06:10 PM
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lol you can believe what you want, but that guy definitely groomed his little Cuban "son" (who he never actually adopted)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 05:29 PM
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Trans dicks are beautiful. Cis dicks are mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 05:28 PM
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Condoms exist lmao. Do you think gay people are walking STIs? They probably wrap it up more than straights because of AIDS
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 05:26 PM
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It's called homophobia lmao. Being gay is only cool if you're a lesbo, donchaknow?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 05:25 PM
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Is this really what you guys sit and think about?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 05:24 PM
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A fucking Matt Gaetz apologist in the comments, holy shit 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 05:22 PM
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What does that even mean? Making you feel guilty about not giving her grand babies is totally manipulative and mean regardless of the fact that she birthed and fed you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 05:42 PM
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I don't identify as a cis man anymore, but it's not like being trans makes being a "social sub" any easier since most women are still expecting me to behave like a traditional man... i.e. doing all the planning, courting, and spending by myself, and I was never into all that bs. I'm like the only male in my family, so I know women are flawed people too, and that "old school" let-me-pay-for-all-your-shit mentality might work for people who started making money when the dollar was worth twice as m…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 02:43 PM
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Your mom sounds like a selfish person
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 02:38 PM
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I never said to persuade your children into becoming baby factories.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 01:38 PM
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I absolutely agree. I'd want to be married (or basically feel like i am) before even trying that sort of thing. I friend and I sorta had a thing for each other and are both on the same page for this sort of thing, but they're asexual and I don't think I would feel fulfilled in that relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 08:37 PM
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they're out here golfing and sailing So you're a little rich kid then lol... Yeah, dude, age effects poor people the most because their lives are stressful to begin with and stress literally ages people.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 08:34 PM
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Well foster kids need more kindhearted people stepping up to the plate regardless of how much it may hurt them (despite the fact that the children are suffering the most) otherwise the system gets full of parents who only care about the money
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 08:19 PM
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All we ever did was make out lol, I blew the only moment we ever had for sex by being a shy dweeb, didn't lose my virginity until my 20s lol, but I still felt pretty freaking cool for YEARS after that summer camp fling 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 08:11 PM
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I've literally had the same thought, but child abuse and OCD makes me hypersexual, so that's why. If I never got horny or had a brain that lied to me to convince me I was I'd have learned so many skills by now.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 08:09 PM
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It's not for you to decide whether or not you can afford something? How about this: don't leave the house expecting other people to pay for you that way it's a treat when they do it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 08:08 PM
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Your point is just shitty
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 08:07 PM
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I'm still waiting for you to elaborate on that, because I don't know what the fuck you're talking about and I don't think you do either lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 08:06 PM
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Cities are progressives for one reason only: there's a shitload of different people in them. People who demonize sex workers the most do it because they live in little bubbles. So the people that need to befriend and empathize with sex workers are those that shit on their work, same way racists need to expose themselves to different cultures so they aren't such xenophobic pieces of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 08:05 PM
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Pretty sure married people are on the sub too, but go off 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 08:01 PM
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I think that depends on the individual and you know it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 08:00 PM
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I don't think it's as hard to foster and they pay you
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 07:59 PM
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So gay men? Gay women certainly seem to be a lot happier than the cis ones too lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 07:59 PM
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One of my best friends is a stripper. Sex workers are often more than not really nice people with a lot of empathy and love to share. Like, I don't think a miser could ever get into sex work.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 06:18 PM
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Okay, I see my mistake now, but what kind of fuckin Disney program are you talking about? 😂 cishet women decide who goes inside them when they decide to sleep with someone, and cishet men decide who to put themselves into when deciding to sleep with someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 06:16 PM
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You might going to hell for that one 😂 the most famous figure in the world had a step dad lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 06:10 PM
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Yeah that makes sense. Parents shouldn't expect grand babies, but actually being able to move and interact with them if they get them is probably a plus haha
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 06:09 PM
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Consent..? Do you only rape the people you fuck or what?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 06:04 PM
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That's not what I said
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 06:02 PM
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So human males are no more advanced than wild beasts, got it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 06:02 PM
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tf does that even mean
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 06:00 PM
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Men can be autonomous, it's only misogyny when they're saying "because of gold digging whores" whenever they talk about being tight with their wallets lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 05:59 PM
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Children aren't even guaranteed lmao, this should be obvious
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 05:56 PM
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the /r/antinatalism sub is all in agreement that procreation is a narcissistic act when done on purpose since there are so many foster kids who need a parent
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 05:31 PM
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How come? Biological narcissism? There's plenty of kids in shitty situations in need of decent parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 05:28 PM
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Who the fuck wants to be 70 years old by the time you get grandchildren ,you can't even lift them up at that point lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 05:09 PM
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It's like everyone forgets adoption is a thing lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 05:08 PM
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100%, dating an 18yo when I was 15 for a summer gave me confidence I didn't deserve the rest of high school, now I'm in my 30s and it's all disappeared hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 05:07 PM
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Housewives aren't prostitutes, but I'd love to see you call one that 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 05:05 PM
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If their man is sleeping around shouldn't they be able to too?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 04:40 PM
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That's because testosterone blocks human emotion lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 04:39 PM
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Not everyone regrets it though, I could link a handful of NSFW subs that don't 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 04:38 PM
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I've been waiting for this shit ever since they first started talking about it when I was still a teenager half a lifetime ago... Still waiting though, this technology is bad ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 04:31 PM
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It'd be the same for me because I'm autistic and hate small talk 😂😂😂 my partners have mainly stuck around for my prowess, not my conversation skills 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 04:29 PM
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Why would a stranger you're paying to fuck want to listen to you whine? Sure they have a customer service job, but people can drag you down too
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 04:27 PM
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that's what prostitution is Well yeah, OP is talking about normalizing sex work...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 04:24 PM
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They're "in some counties" but the majority of men in Nevada probably aren't using them because of the stigmas.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 04:23 PM
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Befriending sex workers instead of demonizing them? They're pretty nice people for the most part lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 04:22 PM
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You're not even saying anything here, this is just like a con man word salad
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 04:20 PM
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If you can't afford to eat at a 5 star restaurant then don't lol, nobody is forcing anyone to go into debt over dinner
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 04:19 PM
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Interesting, because conservative leaning i.e. "traditional" women here are the ones expecting to be paid for
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 04:18 PM
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Honestly, that's not even an American woman problem, it's an American problem in general and why dating here sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 04:16 PM
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I don't think there's anything wrong with what you're saying, but there's also a ton of 3s out there linking up with each other in perfectly happy relationships because their threshold of attraction is either low or goes beyond the physical which is ultimately what every 10 couple needs to accept at some point since there's no bangable 80yos out there unless you have a fetish or are old yourself. I think it's pretty commendable tbh, but like you said you can't force attraction (but tastes can ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 06:03 AM
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Ah. It's my life, so I tend to miss these things.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 02:16 AM
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For enjoying the most popular media franchise in all of human history or for calling someone out on being a weirdo? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 02:15 AM
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If all you're willing to date is a 10,yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 02:11 AM
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A creep and a liar?? The green flags keep on rising 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 05:05 PM
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I was a lot more confident in my slut days, yes hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 04:32 PM
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and single creeps always love looking into people's profiles for some sort of "gotcha"... I like video games, big whoop.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 04:27 PM
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It's happened to several family members. The older a narc gets the less friends and overall relationships they have because their warped perspectives only get worse over time if they aren't working on themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 04:24 PM
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You ordered her? lol I didn't know pizza hut had a thot category 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 04:16 PM
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Do you remember being a kid having to ask your parents for money? And sometimes dad would be an asshole about it? And then remember when you got your first paycheck and could buy things for yourself? Remember how liberating that was? That's all it is. People like feeling in control of their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 04:11 PM
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Y'all can still find a woman who doesn't work and stays home all day, but RP men don't want that either lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 04:09 PM
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I imagine that a lot of women weren't very happy back then to be economically dependent upon men Yeah, if they were then divorce rates probably wouldn't have skyrocketed when women entered the workforce and gained other rights men had. Some women were okay with things because their husbands were decent, and others probably loved it to be a dependant - we call them "gold diggers" nowadays and they are still available for young men to marry and take care of lol. Edit: responded to the wrong thing,…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 04:07 PM
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People stuck at home the last 4 years: "what do you mean I gotta 'get out there'?"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 03:59 PM
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Men are probably the most shallow tbh. Y'all assume that only ugly people must not get laid because y'all don't want to fuck ugly people yourselves. It's classic projection. Fact is you can be hot and still be undesirable due to personality quirks. If I was raised by somone who loved me and had teachers/etc who'd make me feel good about myself instead of feeding my neurodivergent anxieties then I never would have, or continue to struggle with dating. I get swipes, sure, but from there is always …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 03:56 PM
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Bruh, dating apps are local
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 03:45 PM
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Maybe you should pick up chicks at church or a war torn country if you're against progressive women?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 03:43 PM
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Well, based on your username dating as an autistic person is never easy. You're gonna have to work on your social skills harder than other people in order to have a fulfilling life with others whether it's a friendship or romantic relationship. Being hot only ever got into the interview, but you land the job through social skills, you know what I mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 03:41 PM
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Attractive narcissists die alone too
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 03:36 PM
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"working on yourself" isn't only about physical appearances...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 03:34 PM
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Listening to music and dancing is fun. I don't go out trolling for poon, but you can easily see those that are and not even enjoying the surroundings, only the bodies inside.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 11:59 PM
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tbf I have an anxiety disorder and autism, and if I wanted to be gawked at in public I'd have already started HRT, so yeah, I do care somewhat about eyeballs staring at me and making me feel uncomfortable. One of my old coworkers had a baby with someone barely older than his barely legal kids, it's just weird regardless of how well their relationship works and it kinda drove the older kids away. I think your example about baby fever makes a lot of sense for your age, OLD men consistently picking…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 06:04 PM
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Oh yes, absolutely, but females only mature a few years faster, not 8 lol. There's always nuance of course, not every age gap is a case of daddy/mommy issues and sexual predation. I've seen articles that men don't really get their shit together until their 30s anyway; could be related to a natural drop in testosterone and therefore recklessness and short-sightedness? 🤔 If we're going by the old "Half-your-age-plus-seven" rule you're "allowed" to date 20yos right now, 22yos when you're 30, 30yos …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 04:42 PM
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Absolutely. Still doesn't mean it isn't weird when a 30yo is dating someone 2 years into college lol or someone that could be the same age as your kids with even wider age gaps
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 12:50 AM
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"beloved" lmao I don't go there either. TRP and FDS are full of angry losers Edit: tbf, I think there's (stereotypical or average) factual advise on both subs, but the communities are toxic as shit because they apply bad traits from half the dating pool to the other half when decent men and women do exist and are linked up out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 06:35 PM
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Ehhhh idk about that. I only have a few close friends, but I have friends who are close to dozens of people - if I didn't have social anxiety & CPTSD I'd have probably had way more friends and partners growing up or in my adult life like they have. If you have a big friend group that absolutely loves you then I don't think it's all that conceited to refer to yourself as the "life of the party" - can't be any more conceited than saying you're physically attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 06:01 PM
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Does /r/TheRedPill not exist anymore or something? All the incel subreddits are toxic as shit regardless of their userbases' chromosome combinations.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 05:43 PM
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Okay, fair, but most people aren't self-aware at all - I'm responding to someone saying "i have money, muscles, skin care routines, etc, so why won't people fuck me?" but they never said they were actually a joy to be around... I don't care how hard up I am, if you give me "the ick" we ain't fuckin
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 05:41 PM
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Have you ever been to a nightclub just to relax? You can literally smell the desperation in the room and it's honestly funny, but in one of those long german words embarrassment kind of funny ways. Attractive guys can get laid, sure, but a desperate attractive man isn't attractive to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 05:39 PM
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I literally just said we're in one of those communities right now lol. Only reason this place hasn't been shut down is probably because of the debates against the RP mindset
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 04:24 PM
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Idk wtf you're talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 04:23 PM
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You blamed everything else except the biggest factor lol capitalistic greed. If workers in America actually had rights they might be able to spend more time with their children.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 04:20 PM
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It's hard to have family values when wages don't rise with inflation and we don't get holiday as a worker right. When mom and dad are working 50 hour weeks (with traffic) they don't even want to talk to you when they get home.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 04:18 PM
1

Rather than trying to lecture and shame men into wanting things that they don’t want Like?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 04:15 PM
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My favorite quote regarding Andrew Tate fanboys: mfs want pussy so much they're obsessed with dick
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 04:12 PM
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"get a therapist and a blowjob machine, boys, because it's gonna be a long life"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 04:10 PM
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I wish I was attracted to men and didn't feel weird about the finesse because gay men want to spoil me 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 04:03 PM
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And the age gap thing... It is weird when they're 18 and you're 25, but nobody really gives a fuck about a 40yo shaking up with a 50yo. I have a friend a decade younger than me whose probably the most beautiful woman I've ever met but I wouldn't even consider dating them until they're in their 30s because they still have maturing to do
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 03:47 PM
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Okay, but spending 10 minutes in this sub today I've seen a dozen or more instances of men shaming women for who they date lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 03:44 PM
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I feel like that mentality might ve your issue though lol, like if women get the sense that all you want from them is sex then they might not gravitate toward you...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 03:41 PM
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I think the same thing applies to men though. If your partner or love interest is someone you want to be with then you'll prob put up with more i.e. lower your standards for them compared to someone you don't even know.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 03:41 PM
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Must be a personality thing then
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 03:38 PM
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From a biological standpoint it's better for women to be picky because well, they can die from pregnancy and you want a solid life if somebody does get you pregnant. Males of most species, on the other hand, are just trying to get a nut, they don't have to bear the child and deal with being sick for 9 months
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 03:21 PM
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You said 90s sitcom wives were perfect, but they weren't. I don't think you actually watched 90s sitcoms. They were just hot, that's it. Signed, a latchkey kid who was raised by the TV.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 09:06 PM
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Your inability to answer the question doesn't make it a difficult question to answer. You either have an example or you're being purposefully obtuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 08:12 PM
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"What is better? To be born good or to overcome your evil nature through great effort?" Paarthurnax, 'The Elder Scrolls V: Skyrim'
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 09:03 PM
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Can you give an example of TV manic pixie dream wives that aren't hella crazy though? All the sitcoms that were airing when I was growing up the wives were kinda turds too lol, but gilded ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 09:01 PM
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Right, but this sub isn't only for single people
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 08:58 PM
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I guess I just don't know why you're bringing up single moms lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 06:39 PM
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I just had to look at all the shitty parents in my family to know I wouldn't be any better
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 06:17 PM
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They're referring to the child's father in the scenario
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 06:16 PM
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That's why the phrase "it takes a village to raise a child" exists. Poor people know all about having a grandma and several aunties and cousins around to help because there's really no other option but to live in a big household, but capitalism makes it pretty impossible if you aren't dirt poor and/or don't have a big family full of helpful retirees and happy, childless relatives that can babysit because daycare is expensive as fuck and we don't get enough downtime in general, so daycare is even…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 06:14 PM
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Ain't nothing wrong with settling with someone as attractive as you are. American sitcoms made everyone think dumpy, low-romantic effort idiots can land 10s who put up with their crap, but that's not really reality
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 03:20 PM
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I think single men struggle because all they care about is getting laid. I was out on NYE with some friends, and ofc I'd love to go home with somebody, I haven't had any physical intimacy since before the pandemic, but I was there for the hangs and the music - at some point in the night I looked around and noticed all the friendless men standing everywhere with wolfish eyes looking around for their next meals, and it just made me laugh over the fact that they're so desperate for sex that it's pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 03:15 PM
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Because men are sad and desperate - because it's easier to attract trash than work on yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 03:06 PM
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I do, but despite what most men think girth is typically more important than length. A long dick looks impressive, but most people don't want their cervixes punched, it hurts. They've got sleeves out there for long-donged people that sits at the base of the penis to remove a few inches in case it's too much. There's a couple that posts porn on one of these subreddits and the husband has a very short penis, but it's really thick and his wife loves it, so like I said the "extending" sleeves are pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 08:30 PM
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Hookups, sex, whatever y'all want to call it, if girth is a huge issue for someone then sleeves are probably their best friend, and you don't need to be in a multi-year relationship to bring up sexual requests, that seems like a bad idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 03:46 PM
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You think the average woman is gonno accept that lol. Y'all are complaining about not being well endowed enough for hookups, so it seemed like a good solution and the reviews seem to be good for the folks/couples that "need" them. You have to be in a multie year relsionship to get that done. I find that hard to believe considering I've used sex toys on people I've been in relationships with that didn't last nearly that long.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 04:55 PM
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I'd love to hear your non-idiotic way of letting people know how big your dick is so I can judge how weird you are lmao And yes I have social anxiety disorder & childhood trauma, a big dick doesn't make you superman lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 11:09 PM
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If you're casually dropping it in conversation or attempting to make it obvious in person then you're a weirdo, bro 😂 I don't really wear any underwear, so I'm sure it's obvious to people staring at my crotch, but I'm not trying to make my crotch this highly visible thing either lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 09:08 PM
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I don't know if you're paying attention, but I'm telling you the kind of women I want to attract wouldn't only be interested in my cock, and I don't live in some European nudist colony, so the odds of random women knowing how big my dick is before I ever have time to "let my personality shine" is pretty close to zero
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 08:33 PM
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OP talked about that... Not every woman in the world even cares about sex, and one woman's girthy is another woman's thin, vaginas have sizes and limitations too, I'm in no way interested in men who are as endowed as me, I prefer the little ones, so you gotta shop around some more, or get one of those over-the-cock dildos if you only have bad luck running into size queens, I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 08:31 PM
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If I used my cock like a fishing pole I'd probably attract the low-hanging fruit I just mentioned lol. As much as I love and miss sex I'm not just a big dick with legs, and if you only mess around with people who only care about physical attributes you're bound to need penicillin at some point
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 05:19 PM
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I mean, my personality sucks and I've got a huge cock - it isn't a magical cure for anxiety issues lol. I think your friend just talks to low hanging fruit
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 05:07 PM
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Not in the way gay men do where they legit worship it Facts lol dick size is important to women, but it'll always be a bigger obsession from men
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 05:06 PM
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Have you ever thought about trying one of those dildos you can wear over your own cock?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 05:05 PM
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That depends on the woman. Big dicks fit better in big vaginas. Some vaginas are tiny and can't fit anything up there without it being a painful experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 05:03 PM
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Maybe you should have read what they wrote lol. They said having a big dick didn't really influence meetups/dates, but after sex was established it helped
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 05:02 PM
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Women know toys will always be more satisfying than anyone's natural equipment anyway, so it's probably easier for them to get over it, but because it's a male anatomical thing men prob just care more in general - like girls making fun of each other for being flat chested, that's not something men care about as much
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 05:00 PM
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It's testosterone
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 02:05 PM
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Why wouldn't you respect sex workers? They make a lot of sad people happy with the services they provide. A lot of people are "undateable" for whatever reason, but unless you're asexual then intimate physical contact is necessary for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 02:04 PM
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Girls are the ones who usually have the cleaning chores
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 02:03 PM
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It's also very common for narcissists to accuse everyone else of narcissism
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 09:58 PM
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And that's why conservatives raise their children to believe in power hierarchies between men and women so their boys cam only wife down people that are already in the cult. All those religious girls growing up got married right outta high school for the most part, and with no other potential mates around (because you're a dbag) you'll just dive deeper into the comfort of the party.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 11:13 PM
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I don't know if I ever felt loved by my mom. Realized I was girl/love crazy long before that one
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 11:56 PM
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It's called /r/TheRedPill
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 12:05 PM
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You realize dildos exist right? small dick men can even wear vibrating prosthetics giving them way better fake dicks than my real big dick could ever be
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 12:04 PM
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You're still not listening lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 12:02 PM
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My last partner would constantly ask me "how are you so good at that..?" whenever I'd go down on her... it made me feel like she'd never had good oral sex before, like, I'm just putting in effort over here.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 12:02 PM
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Yeah, lesbians expect their partners to actually put in some effort
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 11:59 AM
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I really hope this girl has a son and he goes through self-image issues so that she can see what this type of thing does to people. You want a kid to suffer through self-image issues to prove a point to some random woman? Yeah, you're an asshole, dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 11:57 AM
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Hey, sounds like me and my last ex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 11:55 AM
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I am a physician and am also engaged to another physician. My mom and dad are both doctors as are most adults in my family Okay, Richie Rich
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 11:54 AM
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it literally did not allow men to post Isn't it obvious why? They wanted a place for conversation, not debate
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 11:53 AM
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For me it was like reading TRP posts. Like, sure 80% of what you're saying is good dating advice, but the rest is super sexist and hateful
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 11:51 AM
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I lurked in there for a while. I'd say 90% of what they had to say was accurate, but a lot of them take things way too far at times too. It's really no different that TRP, just a bunch of people who loathe the sex they're attracted to. I mean, there's definitely some gold nuggets in there, it's easy to see why some women wouldn't want to associate with men when every male friend they've had has tried to fuck them at some point - one of my roommates is constantly fawning at the other's feet in an…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 11:49 AM
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I was thinking less cult and more general narcissism lol, but confidence is key everywhere ya go
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 07:19 PM
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I don't think it's increasing at all when wealth inequality is at an all time high - or maybe that's part of it. I'd just think it's more visible now due to social media, like police brutality.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 07:12 PM
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Because that's basically what I said when I said most men have personalities only other men can tolerate. And by the way other comments sound here I'd argue most men don't want to really be friends with women either, they just want a mate to fulfill the biological imperative.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 06:58 PM
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I can relate to mens and women's issues as a nonbinary trans person. I'm sorry if saying "men are from mars, women are from venus" is offensive to you, but it's an old phrase for a reason: men and women often have such drastic personalities that they are incapable of shooting the shit together - I've always vibed hardest with feminine men and masculine women because I'm nonbinary
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 06:53 PM
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And those people can die single as the world continues to progress, I guess? So many conservative leaning people don't even acknowledge that their congressmen are trying to take away people's rights, I have no idea how my dad - someone with 3 daughters - could affiliate themselves with those who brag about sexual assault and want to take away abortion access.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 06:48 PM
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Most people with god complexes die without any worshippers. Shit gets old if you don't have the money to buy new friends all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 06:45 PM
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Relationships are a learning experience for sure, I cringe at memories of things I've said or done to past partners all the time and part of you wants to forget the embarrassment, but you have to have those dumb, teenagery experiences in order to reflect on your shortcomings, and you need to get them over with when you're young.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 06:44 PM
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As for C1, i think it works if you're both willing to grow together, but yeah, I couldn't imagine dating someone whose never been in a relationship before. Maybe 8 years ago when I'd only ever had 1 gf before, but not now.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 06:34 PM
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You'll certainly wean out a lot of fuckboys at that age, but that's not a bad thing. If anything, the "red flag" might filter more high quality people your way, but there's also the other side of things where you might interact with 30 year olds that haven't even been in a relationship before and probably still have teenagery expectations and reactions towards dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 06:32 PM
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I'm not virtue signaling lol. I'm trans, I've been an undercover agent in the manoverse for 30 years, and the problem most of y'all have is the fact that you only know how to talk to other men. Women know how to be friends with anyone, they're raised to be able to communicate (that's why autistic girls get overlooked so much, they aren't really allowed to have issues with selective mutism or eye contact like I was), but I know for a fact that testosterone ruins my perception of the relationships…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 06:29 PM
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Um, maybe don't do that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 06:11 PM
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You judt described most of the men in this sub lol If it helps, I am male and have interacted with men my whole life - you can check my post history if you need to see for yourself 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 06:07 PM
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Okay, how should I say this..? Don't pretend to be a decent person, just be a decent person lol The only reason anyone becomes a conservative is because their parents told them to and/or they came into money and/or are angry at social progress. Right wing politics aren't friendly toward women or minorities. Studies show most conservatives have an infantile level of empathy because their parents were abusive, there are more moderates in America than Conservatives, and women lean left in general, …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 06:05 PM
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Now I can see guys doing just as much work I did to improve themselves only to find them being disqualified based on political ideology... If voting for people currently affiliated with racism, misogyny, xenophobia, and religious authoritarianism doesn't get you a life partner then maybe you should change Parties bro... Or only date old women who want to reverse social progress.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 05:51 PM
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I'm honestly surprised the Trump Era didn't get my parents divorced, but they're both codependent douchebags regardless of political affiliations
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 05:42 PM
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Yeah, but what's their personality look like?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 05:41 PM
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Yeah, it's women's fault most men have personalities only other men can tolerate lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 05:12 PM
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That's no different than guys staying with someone they're not really into because that's all they can get too. There's a clear lack of respect across the board (probably because we're still rebounding from the fact that some of the people who didn't want women voting or divorcing their husbands are still alive) but libido and porn addiction skew things QUITE a lot, and I shouldn't have to say which direction that is
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 05:04 PM
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So you're one of the ones who just wants "a woman" from the sounds of things
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 04:58 PM
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Take a look at the comment I responded to
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 01:40 PM
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That’s how you get girls complaining about their guy “friends” who have just been waiting for the their entire “friendship” to confess their love Nah, you get that when ALL their guy friends have done that over the course of their life. My one roommate has been orbiting the other for years, like, dude, you can honestly do way better lol. Testosterone tends to make men constantly yearn for physical attention, so they're more open to fucking all their female friends than women are to having sex wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 01:37 PM
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The world is full of idiots, yeah. I think i'm the only person in my family smart (read: responsible) enough to have gotten an abortion
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 01:32 PM
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Who needs kids when the ecology is collapsing all around us right now?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 12:49 PM
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I don't think it's a good trend overall for society until we figure out exactly what's wrong and how it can be fixed. Yeah, y'all get back to the kitchen where you belong /s
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 12:48 PM
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Honestly, not really, you don't have to be a different person to your partner or potential than you are with different people
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 12:45 PM
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I knew this guy in high school who was genuinely unattractive, but FUCK he was the coolest dude around and dated SO many people lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 12:42 PM
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/r/burnward
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 12:40 PM
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Or actually said with their words that they're interested in you instead of leaving clues. Most people aren't mind readers, regardless of gender
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 02:16 PM
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For me it's less "this race is unattractive" and more "my family is so fucking large most Hispanic women remind me of a relative" lol I went out with some friends a couple weekends ago and my buddy's wife is like "okay, your date tonight is my friend Becky", like, "oh shit, word", and then when we all link up she looks LITERALLY like one of my cousins, just a little skinnier lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 12:09 PM
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A relative I live with is a workaholic with borderline CHS and minimal oral hygiene and dating experience, and I worry because they're pushing 30 and you kinda need to overcome all your "teenagery" inexperienced-with-romantic-relationship issues and dumb decisions out of the way before you can truly settle down with someone, and the older you get the more glaring of a red flag that inexperience becomes...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 12:03 PM
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Here's what I assessed out of the situation: drunken man with tons of insecurity and marriage issues gets caught laughing at his wife, feels like a kid who got caught doing something bad (even worse when you're drunk) and then tried to save face with his wife for letting her down by slapping the guy who made the joke that made him laugh in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 11:37 AM
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Idk where these people get this stuff. Maybe they all had narc moms?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 04:18 PM
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just a little PSA that biases against short men and/or small dicks is now turning transphobic since that's going to be the body type most trans men will ever have. Kings and queens come in all shapes and sizes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 01:44 PM
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I know I have biased expectations on here, but I don't even disagree with you that prostate cancer isn't popular. It's the internet, if you aren't direct and clear (or use an /s when you're being sarcastic) you're going to get confused responses a lot of the time. Sorry for bothering you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 01:26 AM
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If you explained your positions better from the beginning people wouldn't misinterpret you
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 01:12 AM
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You assumed women don't care about men dying from prostate cancer, which led you to ask why should you care about more women dying from lack of access to abortions. It all makes me to believe you think women are just misandrists who don't care about men dying from cancer when I think—or at least want to believe—that most non-sociopathic people care about all forms of cancer and would like to see it eradicated. Treating life as a zero sum game is pretty weird and you might want to check that out.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 12:45 AM
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lol whatever dude Real life isn't greek mythology, most women aren't the man-eating monsters y'all make them out to be
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 12:35 AM
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I literally have a prostate lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 10:35 PM
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anyone that thinks a fetus deserves more rights than the adult woman who will be sick and or possibly die from it being inside her probably isn't a high quality mate for modern women
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 10:02 PM
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after Roe vs Wade was overturned, abortion was pretty much an issue only Catholics cared about - until the late 70s when Evangelicals got into politics and shifted America to the right after the liberal culture boom post WW2: In fact, the Southern Baptist Convention, they actually passed resolutions in 1971, 1974 and 1976 - after Roe v. Wade - affirming the idea that women should have access to abortion for a variety of reasons and that the government should play a limited role in that matter, w…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 06:32 PM
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lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 04:36 PM
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The Nazis weren't leftists lol. They used a socialist sounding name just like North Korea or China, but we know those places aren't pillars of freedom
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 04:23 PM
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I definitely feel that people with conservative biases project more than aby other group
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 04:22 PM
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I'm not disagreeing with any of that if anything, we're still rebounding from women gaining control from an abusive society. Like, my grandma was born around the time women were allowed to vote, and those men in power controlled the cultural zeitgeist for so long that even millenials are still repeating their great grandpa's bullshit. I've been told by red pillers here that if you make more money your wife should be cleaning all day, like what? It's like generational depression/trauma, but for m…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 04:16 PM
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Yeah, but the way you worded your thoughts it's hard to tell that's not your opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 04:01 PM
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It's admittedly hard not to do that, especially when they're American
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 03:58 PM
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If red pillers were awesome they wouldn't have ever needed the pill. Quality links up with quality early in life, i keep seeing y'all say that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 03:50 PM
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/r/EnlightenedCentrism
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 03:48 PM
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The truth that abortion access is a right all women deserve to have since pregnancy and back alley abortions can be fatal, let alone the fact that it takes a LOT of money to raise your kid to adulthood sans welfare.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 03:46 PM
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I was JUST thinking in the shower how being an only child probably didn't help my dad's attitude problems lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 03:43 PM
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Pretty sure I lost the a chance with an old coworker after I didn't buy her drink at a bar lol, but I'm not trying to buy people's affection, so if that's all it took to lose their interest then they probably weren't ever worth my time And I'm not a guy lol, so I've subconsciously been turned off by male expectations our society has on me just because I have a cock
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 03:41 PM
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So you think more women should die from lack of abortion access simply because prostate cancer exists? And y'all wonder why you're single...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 03:39 PM
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Well depends, do you think most people are bad people? ngl, i think most Americans are shitty people. Our culture emphasizes individuality and consumerism so much that when your partner isn't exactly what you want you just find a new one or choose to be alone to "do you", and self-reliance or not wanting to settle aren't bad things, but we give up on everything so quickly. they call us "seppos" overseas for a reason ("seppo" referring to the septic tank that is America) and A LOT of that has to …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 02:13 PM
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What exactly does abortion access have to do with prostate cancer?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 02:02 PM
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Only modern extremist religious people think a barely developed clump of cells without memories is a human being.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 02:01 PM
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Your first sentence in your last comment
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 01:50 PM
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Being able to interact with people in a professional setting isn't the same as trying to talk to people any other time imo. Like, socializing at work is Spocky, but trying to make REAL friendships or relationships outside of business takes Captain Kirk's touch, if you know what I mean. The second you treat social interaction like a game is the second you lose the game. People love genuine people, and trying to interact with people because you find them interesting won't give the impression that …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 11:26 PM
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It took nearly a month after scheduling an appointment before we could get the abortion... In the 6th biggest city in the United States The shit is not a simple, quick process, and many people give birth to kids they would've rather not have had because of the lack of access and education
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 10:43 PM
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You probably don't have much social skills in general if you're struggling. No judgment from me, I was forced to be a latchkey kid growing up and can't even talk to people who are interested in me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 10:40 PM
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Well, there are plenty of 30 year old female weirdos with minimal dating experience too. My roommate is going to be one of them in a couple years.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 10:38 PM
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It's a great time to be a gay man, I guess lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 10:35 PM
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Don't forget all the craziest Christian nutjobs left Europe to found our country lol. A lot of RP shit is just good old fashioned biblical misogyny
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 10:33 PM
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There are good quality people everywhere you go. You just need to become one of them to attract one of them. And there's sooo much cognitive dissonance here and in our dating culture. Nobody wants to think they're a piece of crap, it's always someone else's fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 10:31 PM
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ALL Americans are narcissistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 10:30 PM
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lol you make it sound easy. There's 1 abortion clinic in Arizona and if we didn't realize she was pregnant when we did it'd have been too late to get 1 and my ex and i would have a 6 year old
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 10:15 PM
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I don't date men, honey
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 03:00 PM
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Oh, my mistake lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 02:59 PM
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For a minute, but our communication and trust was shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 02:58 PM
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this is a place where red pillers and blue pillers debate, hence purple pill debate
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 06:15 PM
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It's literally part of RP teachings that high body counts don't hurt men when it comes to dating & relationships It could just be that our society is misogynistic af and women get criticized more often than men for the same behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 06:12 PM
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Women don't real care about men's history, it's men who obsess over it because of whatever conqueror complex they have
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 02:16 PM
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yep. people just hate women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 02:14 PM
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It says a lot you think someone would go for the most attractive mate without thinking of anything else lol right? screams "I've never dated anyone before" I'm pretty hot, but childhood trauma made me dismissive-avoidant af, so I'm never the perfect partner. The hottest person I ever dated was dysfunctional af too when it comes to communication & trust from their own upbringing. I've come to realize in life that EVERYONE projects their bullshit on people, so the men who think looks are everythin…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 02:13 PM
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It's a DEBATE subreddit - there needs to be non-RP opinions here
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 02:09 PM
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Everything about it is better imo, just no chat feature or avatar. The new (as of like 5 years ago?) reddit UI is just fugly and frustrating to me, it's trying too hard to be fancy
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 10:43 PM
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Ahhhh! I use Reddit Is Fun, I can't stand the official app or website's UI - terrible UX
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 10:02 PM
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It is to me, but I'm not attracted to men or a man
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 08:17 PM
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Don't end up with a womanizer
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 08:14 PM
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Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 08:13 PM
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Why do y'all memorize each other's usernames?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 08:12 PM
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women think men are bad at sex. No, men simply don’t care. theyrethesamepicture.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 02:49 AM
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May I suggest dating asexual people? The fact that physical attraction doesn't matter to them might be a saving grace for a lot of folks.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 02:45 AM
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This is fucking sad lmao. All adults with jobs make money, that's what a job is. Nowhere was I comparing my parents sallaries. All my mom did when I was a kid was make money (i.e. go to work), yell, and watch tv too, but go ahead and take your little akshually "win", bro
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 09:01 PM
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Right... because I responded to someone who asked me: He’s bringing in the majority of the income? You wanna be outraged, I get it, but I never brought up money, you and some other bloke did. Context clues, man.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 08:09 PM
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Probably not lol. You'd be better off in a van if you want that life wherever you go haha. Well, if you can charm the pants off of people lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 08:03 PM
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Um, no, you're the one that brought up money, silly goose: >They are also making more money, but that's beside the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 07:34 PM
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The second thing if your looks manage to gain her interest and you live in a fucking shack with a car that's falling apart, she's probably going to bounce I wish I could remember which account posted it, but I remember this snapchat story recently about a South Asian man who lives in a cave and fucks so many tourists that locals called the cops on him because they thought he was involved in sex trafficking lol. He was not a physically attractive man imo, but he was incredibly charming and happy-…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 07:32 PM
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"I'm average and women don't like me because they only want the top 20%" is simply an easier to swallow pill than "women don't like me because I'm part of the bottom 10%" So I'm just going to become an even less attractive mate and grow to hate women 🤡
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 02:44 PM
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it's much easier for TRPers to blame women for having high standards instead of accepting that they are on the very bottom of the scale. You guys just desperately want to believe that you are part of the 80% that's struggling, because no one wants to admit to themselves that they are far below average Soooo much this. If red pillers simply had attractive personalities they wouldn't be single. I assume many have a great deal of childhood trauma too with how conservative the whole thing is.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 02:41 PM
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I want to read all the incel comments to know what not to become
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 02:36 PM
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My dad only ever cooks on special occasions and literally never cleans the house or does dishes. He just makes money and yells
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 02:35 PM
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Do you think you are appealing to men? This sounds like a personal attack
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 02:34 PM
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Every woman I know in a relationship right now isn't dating some alpha bro, they're dating nice, sensitive men
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 02:32 PM
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Preach, sis
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 02:30 PM
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I lost mine at 22, but I'm pretty sure it grew back after 3 years of COVID lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 04:43 PM
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If that's what you want to call it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 04:33 PM
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I think I'm allowed to critique the way my country of origin is ran
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 04:32 PM
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it wasn't much different than talking to someone closer in age to me A lot of people say nowadays in regards to the gender gap that "he only goes after 20 year olds because women his age won't put up with his shit", so there could be a maturity thing at play here. I've had several great friends who are nearly a decade older than me, but they're all kind of man children, so that's probably why they got along with me lol. A lot of people will say there's a power dynamic too since one person has ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 04:26 PM
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How am I shitting on it?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 04:16 PM
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If you're a creepo, yeah. There are plenty of single people who aren't weird or stink of desperation.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 01:33 PM
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Otherwise you run the risk of committing to someone you shouldn't just because they'll sleep with you. Oh wow, hello my 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 11:15 PM
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despite being told their entire lives that women are not capable of evil, they are angels and perfect creatures. In what reality is this a thing? Idk, maybe it's because I was basically the only male in my family, but I never thought that growing up lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 11:13 PM
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But that's not all women, that's just getting manipulated by sociopaths, anyone can fall victim to that
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 11:12 PM
1

Sounds like your buddy has a kink
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 11:10 PM
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I know multiple people who say they really hate men but also have a bf. And their bfs are always a lot more emotionally mature and empathetic than the majority of todays low quality males
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 11:10 PM
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men just barely stopped calling each other fags on tv, y'all got like 60 more years (maybe 20 with the internet?) before you kill misandry like feminists started doing with misogyny 100 years ago starting with the suffragettes i know I'm being a prick about it, but I don't really know how else to come across tbh, I'm either making everyone laugh or pushing people away
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 10:17 PM
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I thought you were fucking insane bro lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 10:09 PM
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That's because women have been trying to rise over misogyny, at least in America, for 100 years. On the other hand, Men barely stopped calling each other fags over showing the slightest bit of emotion like 10 years ago, so of fucking course it isn't the same. Y'all need to put in 2-3 more generations of work before a man can go see a romantic drama just to have a good cry and not get ridiculed by his dad/peers/etc, but the internet can speed things up A LOT and normalize "femininity" in men - if…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 10:03 PM
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No where in my comments did I say you were privileged, you must be talking to someone else..?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 09:57 PM
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Isn't your kind against sex work and think guys are creepy bad people for getting prostitutes? My kind is hypersexual trans lesbians lmao, I'm in full support of you paying to get your rocks off 🤪 The only feminists who judge sex workers are the oldest, most christian block of feminism. In the 18-22 category 46.7% of women and 34.8% of men have not had sex in a year do you think that many people are not normal? Dude, did you forget covid was a thing or what? This thing has only been around a cou…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 09:55 PM
2

Do guys just never try to make their partner's cum? It's not that hard if you're attentive...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 09:50 PM
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All those things have been in gay men's asses too tho lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 09:49 PM
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Women are rarely seen in clinical and forensic settings for concerns pertaining to their sexual interests or misbehaviors (Statistics Canada, 1999) You'd probably have to look at the sample size of that specific study since that's what the hypothesis is centering around.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 09:47 PM
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I saw a dump worker put his dick in a dumpter fleshlight on /r/wtf one time
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 09:42 PM
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Unmet needs leads to bad results similar to experiencing scurvy only it tends to screw with the mind more. Then dudes should take a trip to Vegas or get a massage instead of becoming a violent, rapey asshole if they're going through musth like a rogue elephant I have dealt with former university classmates who were normal at 20 but still a virgin in their 30s and they turned into weird or crazy guys because of it. They weren't ever normal to begin with or they probably would've had sex as teenag…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 09:41 PM
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Women were pressured to be nothing but pretty because men didn't want to share power with them. I wish more men were this honest about history
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 09:37 PM
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She's not getting the Chad because Chad's aren't ever satisfied
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 09:36 PM
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I don't see why femininity = dependence housewives work pretty fucking hard for free, so it's not like both sides aren't putting in time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 09:35 PM
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Men invented high heels for horseback riding. They used to dress WAY fancier than women too. The fashion shift happened after the French Revolution - if you dressed fancy you were rich and feminine. Only women could still dress like they were wealthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 09:29 PM
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Well, stop dressing like Professor Snape and people won't think that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 09:22 PM
2

What does the world have to do with having abusive parents?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 09:19 PM
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The reason people mock men is because men don't talk about their problems enough. Men having feelings only became acceptable for some here in like the past 2 or 3 generations. I get downvoted and told to kill myself all the time just for saying I'm trans online, if I keep stuffing my feelings away, even out of fear of other's reactions to me, it will make life worse. If no trans people ever come forward we can't change the zeitgeist to accept trans people - only visibility will lead to change. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 09:16 PM
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Ohhh okay. Yeah, I had no idea you were circling back to the OP
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 09:11 PM
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I still have no idea why you're thinking about crossdressers in response to my comment
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 07:22 PM
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These people have been absolutely failed by society. They have been promised false hopes and lies. People detransition when their friends and family abandon them when they start living externally how they feel internally, so they just go back into the closet because it's easier to not upset the status quo of our lives. In general it keeps getting worse unfortunately. Going back to what I just said, yeah, if I tried transitioning here in AZ I'd probably want to kill myself more than I already do …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 06:37 PM
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The cult of self-acceptance lol Most people detransition because the people around them won't accept them, so i see where you're coming from based on numbers alone, but I also think it will drop back down as trans people become less taboo in society, so I guess we're on that upward section of bell curve right now. Edit: fuck me for thinking trans people will become more accepted in the future, i guess lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 06:31 PM
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I don't think the transphobia was necessary, pretty much has nothing to do with what I wrote lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 05:57 PM
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As long as you don't give up on you is what matters most. I often think animals are making their lives harder with their biological urges and wonder if there are any birds or bugs out there that'd rather vibe than have to go through all that work lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 05:53 PM
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Karma over completely random (and innocent until proven guilty) men is still the same as revenge. Actually, i think the best word to describe this is hypervigilance. If you grew up around shitty or abusive men (or women) you just aren't going to trust any of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 05:47 PM
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the empathetic man is a relatively new occurrence... men ended slavery before they even allowed women vote a generation before my grandmother was born. Ending the macho image toxic masculinity upholds isn't going to be a painless process, you're gonna have to deal with ridicule from sociopathic people of all genders, but the conversations still need to happen otherwise the hurdle of making fun of men's feelings won't ever be overcome. That's right, men need a "The View" of their own where deep c…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 05:44 PM
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I'm hypersexual, possibly from abuse, I can't remember. It's always a burden and never a blessing—I've totally wished to be asexual in the past so I can just focus on the things that actually make me happy or improve my life. I'm hitting that age where the most traumatized people in my family start to nope out of society too, so I hoping my 30s will be a time for me to actually learn how to love myself and do the things I actually want to do with the time I have left on this rock.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 05:31 PM
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Men talking about their issues and problems are considered whining, and are shamed by both men and women. Who in their right mind would talk in that scenario? I literally just responded to someone saying women need to stop "acting like fragile babies" so it's not as big of a win as you think... If women can get things done while still dealing with misogyny then men should allow themselves to open up too. Yes, there will be misandry. There was a fuckload of racism leading up to the first black ki…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 05:22 PM
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We can't blame the people who programmed us for the way our operating system runs as an adult? They take all the blame, they built us, but we have to fix their mistakes 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 05:18 PM
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dismissive attachment I was raised by someone who only ever wanted to watch tv or yell at me when they weren't at work, so I've been taking care of my own emotional needs for like 30 years. Little kids shouldn't have to do that... I can only have conversations with my pets because people make me so uncomfortable, but even then I'll still want to push them away when they get needy because that's all I ever recieved from my family when I tried to love them. I fucking love my cat, but god his deman…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 05:14 PM
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There are studies that show women with great social circles don't seek out romantic relationships, so I think it's totally normal to give that up and focus on the other things in life that make you happy. I'm sure priests still get morning wood, but they'd rather focus on other stuff lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 05:05 PM
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Everytime I see a couple I see nothing but fakeness ... faking what, exactly? Having a happy life with someone whose company they enjoy? Yeah, ngl, this has some "Catcher in the Rye" everyone's a phony kind of vibe. I definitely feel this way A LOT of the time, and it sounds like me, OP, and that character dealt with child abuse. Can't trust people or even myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 05:02 PM
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Revenge is too personal imo. I think "karma" is a better way to look at it. All the men in successful relationships right now that I personally know are all good men who had decent upbringings/parents. That's what makes high quality partners, and quality is all people want these days because they've seen so many failed or incompatible relationships in the past. Once that equation changes (bad parenting/trauma/etc) "red flags" start appearing regardless of gender or sex, and I feel the current mi…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 04:56 PM
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A huge percentage of trans people have CPTSD from their upbringing, so yeah, it is my fault, but it's also not because I didn't raise myself. Well, actually, I kinda did, that's a huge part of the problem
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 04:47 PM
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Women are a lot more willing to talk about their problems in public or private, but machismo prevents most men from it, so if you grew up with emotionally stunted men, well, good fucking luck, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 04:45 PM
2

Hell, seasonal depression is just the fact that modern society keeps us, a migratory species, in one place year round.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 04:43 PM
3

Why's that?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 04:40 PM
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America is like a house - facism, racism, misogyny and homophobia are the leaks in the roof - I'd like to see those holes get patched instead of buying a new property. Also, it's not that easy to just emigrate to different countries, you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 04:39 PM
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I'm just writing what I know, babe
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 04:33 PM
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God, conservatives are fucking annoying. iF yOu DoNt LiKe iT LeAvE With what baby, my good looks? You wanna fund my adventures, Daddy?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 04:04 PM
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From her own wallet? Yeah, no, their society has put women on such a low social hierarchy that fathers pay off their daughter's husbands for the burden of having to take care of her for the rest of his life.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 04:00 PM
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No matriarchy that started as a matriarchy made it out of mud huts. And capitalism is going to kill humanity and 90% of extant species in a few generations lmao, the mud huts sound pretty nice right about now
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 03:46 PM
0

Women were not treated as property that's just feminist brainwashing Explain dowries
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 03:44 PM
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Amanda Bynes talked about having a lot of gender dysphoria while filming she's the man and watching the movie makes her uncomfortable, so yeah, pretending to be dude for EIGHTEEN months when you aren't trans isn't going to be great for your mental health, and I'm sure a lot of their dates noticed their feminine traits like you said and lots of people are transphobic, so that probably didn't help either.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 03:41 PM
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That's not what I was trying to say at all, and I'm not sure how you came to that conclusion. Matriarchal societies are a thing and were way more common globally before agriculture & Christian colonialism despite the superior strength of males because their societies actually respected women instead of equating them to property.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 03:35 PM
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I'm not talking about Illuminati bullshit, ya dork. It ain't a secret cult that pressures women into wearing burkhas to hide their shame, it's misogynistic society itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 03:24 PM
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Women might fuck you if you weren't an asshole
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 03:21 PM
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They were "seen as" these things because they were feminine or because they objectively were these things in comparison to men at the time? As if misogyny wasn't the root of upholding the male power structure
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 03:20 PM
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Pretty sure it's all, not half, Einstein 😂 That's what they're into—having a personal pornstar to watch—and someone literally asked for examples of women seeing multiple men at once. There's /r/cuckquean for women who like to watch their partners have sex with other people. Also /r/StagVixenLife
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 02:44 PM
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Omg, MY point was you don't need to have children to be the best man or woman possible. Many people that do have kids are pieces of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 05:11 PM
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And voting GOP lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 01:48 AM
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I understand we're animals and that procreation is a part of our biological drive, but not everyone can procreate due to whatever reason, or be attracted to people they can conceive with, or even have a sex drive to begin with, so that's why I said what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 09:39 PM
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They're saying people can't live their lives to the fullest without being parents, and I think that's some bs tbh. Not everyone has the ability to procreate, but that doesn't need to stop someone from being nurturing or order to become the best person they can be. Endometriosis? Sorry, babe, you can never be a complete woman now /s
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 09:28 PM
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/r/rolereversal /r/hotwife
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 07:03 PM
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Ehh. Sounds like religious breeder crap to me tbh. I think human relationships in general complete us ‐ that's why women with great friendships aren't desperate for relationships, and I think that logic kind of applies to the "manosphere" because they finally have people to talk to, so women/love/marriage/sex stops being an obsession.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 06:56 PM
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This was definitely the case with my last partner. She'd never initiate, but if I ever started to caress her or ask to go down on her she would always beg me to fuck her. I admit, it did kind of bruise the ego a bit because the only partner I had before initiated often, but it bought out a submissive/service-oriented side to me that I absolutely loved, so I would love to date another switch in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 06:09 PM
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There's nothing wrong with wanting to worship your woman, but not a lot of women are into being the dominant partner, so that's why "beta males" are often complaining about being overlooked. I'm a nonbinary twink, I might even call myself lesbian if I ever go on HRT, but I pretty much ONLY ever attract sexually aggressive gay men - probably because of my body type and energy I put out in the world. I don't want to compromise and date guys tho, or change my personality/dress/etc to appear more da…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 07:01 PM
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Have to admit, if you put two 6s together and one had funky teeth she'd probably be an 8 to me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 06:54 PM
1

my friend who admitted to me that he does not find his fiance attractive but just "took what he could get" That is horrible, but I don't think OP was saying "find yourself a dog face", they're just saying a lot of young men are shallow. Would you feel good knowing that your partner thinks you are not desirable sexually? I've dated asexual people before. It's kind of a load off not having to worry about being hot in your partner's eyes and being liked for the you inside.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 06:41 PM
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I don't have any unattractive friends tbh, and I'd only want to fuck a few of them lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 06:33 PM
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Maybe... They're talking to them like future fleshlights and not like people?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 06:30 PM
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I'm hot, but I was raised by neglectful abusers, so I can barely even talk to my friends
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 06:25 PM
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How do you know he's being cheated on? Are you fucking her?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 06:21 PM
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