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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 53 | I love herYea lol, by “childish” he meant “a dream since childhood” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/22 10:38 AM |
| 19 | I love herYour job is damn fantastic. People like you are angels and heroes and deserve all the praise this society instead diverts to men running behind a ball for two hours and sociopathic men with guns shooting at brown children. F that guy. As someone whose mum is alive today because a tumour was noticed early, the fact you were subjected to this behaviour (by such low lifer on top!) just boils my blood. You’re making a tremendous contribution to society every day and I’m so glad you’re having an awes… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/22 10:35 AM |
| 80 | I love herI think it has more to do with “insulting your job isn’t personal” because she isn’t “a person” as far as he’s concerned. What a prick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/22 10:32 AM |
| 0 | I don’t know what to say other than ewwwww!No, don’t. There’s no way to exploit ethically. Don’t pay more for the illusion of ethics. Veganism can be done very cheaply, and on the unstoppable rise. There were never more reasons to go vegan than now. Let me know if there’s anything that you’d appreciate knowing, helping with, or discussing if you feel like it. I have contact options turned of here (creeps and incels) but I can message you first if you wish at any time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 06:17 PM |
| 103 | There would be so many cockroaches with J namesI’m vegan so I’d just get a rock with his name and throw it to a lake | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 09:53 AM |
| 33 | Spotted this ad under "housing" on craigslist 😬Rents where I live are about £70 a day (that’s like 85$ i think?) so he’s willing to “pay” about £35/day to have a live-in maid and can’t-say-no prostitute. Shame that there are many women so desperate that this guy doesn’t seem to be the worst deal of it all, given another commenter wrote that it gets way worse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 09:51 AM |
| 134 | I don’t know what to say other than ewwwww!Indeed, so disturbing. Another day being glad I’m vegan. As for this poor woman, she says another cowboy… terrified for her as well as for and of the boys and men these parents will raise. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 09:12 AM |
| 248 | I wonder why he wants to date someone 10 years younger than him…“Communicate that to him so he can gaslight you or accuse you of being prude and end up making himself be the victim” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 12:24 PM |
| 73 | RIP Lauren. 💔 Shame on the Bridgeport PD for not taking this seriously. PLEASE be safe with dates you met through OLD, ladies.The amount of victim blaming on posts about her around is staggering and heartbreaking. I dread to think what her last moments were. I will never forgive liberal feminism. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 12:03 PM |
| 63 | Negatively branding FDS in forums leads other women wary of joining and checking it out.Similar! I saw a woman on Reddit write an awesome rant (on a misogynistic post) that I fully agreed with, and someone literally calling her “a crazy FDS bi*ch.” So I though, well, time to check out this whole FDS thing. If they hate it, it must be pretty damn good place to be at. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/22 12:35 AM |
| 220 | Don’t ever let a man make you think you need him for ANYTHING. Women everywhere are raising their standards and LVM are getting desperate. This one in particular is trying to use fear and coercion to find himself a lower income wifeOf course he doesn’t know that women are “currently dominating higher education and the workforce” as he likely never set foot in either. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/22 10:53 PM |
| 78 | On "Roasting"As someone said: “Everyone is way too sensitive nowadays. You can’t even make a joke without someone getting offended, triggered, angry. That’s why personally, I only ever joke on the matter of straight white men, whose famously thick skins and good spirits when ridiculed make them impossible to offend.” Again, men just think anger isn’t an emotion (but some sort of manly logic assertion), and that’s why they think they are the rational ones. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/22 10:48 AM |
| 24 | you're not toxic.Hear hear! This was beautiful! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/22 07:53 PM |
| 38 | Awww, this poor baby! Let’s guess what actually happened.I wonder what’s his view on the freaky realistic sex dolls tho. I bet that’s not an issue, but “the perfect woman.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 09:35 PM |
| 61 | What is it about South Asian/Desi culture that makes the men so depraved?On the topic of pickMe aunties - I often find Desi women are either the most fierce of feminists who don’t take anybody’s shit, or completely victimised by the patriarchy. It is staggering that unless girls have a good female role models, they will often not pick up on the oppressive nature of their surroundings because these are simply so omnipresent. If they however do, they will go so in depth into the most radical of feminism, because they see on the daily just how terrible men are when patr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/22 09:59 PM |
| 307 | Indian men threatening that they won't get married as an opposition to the marital rape laws being heard in the high courts. I just have two things to say - interesting reaction and I hope these people are identified and made public so literally, no one ever marries themGood. Don’t get married then. Love it when the trash threatens to take itself out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/22 07:32 PM |
| 127 | The absolute bare minimum, and an automatic dealbreaker. NEVER, no matter the circumstance. Do not ever let a man think that it is justifiable to try to physically intimidate you. There exists not a single excuse for violent behaviour. It will always escalate.Indeed. As someone said, “the definition of a bad date for a man is that he doesn’t get laid. The definition of a bad date for a woman is that she gets raped or murdered.” We live in different words. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/22 03:10 PM |
| 22 | The absolute bare minimum, and an automatic dealbreaker. NEVER, no matter the circumstance. Do not ever let a man think that it is justifiable to try to physically intimidate you. There exists not a single excuse for violent behaviour. It will always escalate.So sorry! I hope you’re in a good safe place now ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/22 02:21 PM |
| 278 | What could be better than this? India Plans to Criminalize Marital Rape, So Some Men Are Boycotting Marriage - VICELove it when the trash takes itself out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/22 02:03 PM |
| 10 | Part 2. I blocked him, but he used someone else's phone to have the last word. Like I was going to let him 😘Hi, here (it is outside Reddit, the original was deleted) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/22 10:47 PM |
| 50 | Part 2. I blocked him, but he used someone else's phone to have the last word. Like I was going to let him 😘That post lives rent free in my head and is very much thriving | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/22 04:29 PM |
| 77 | I Regret my Plastic Surgery: The Impact of the Patriarchy & LVM FathersAs someone in a similar situation to OP, thank you so much for writing this out. That’s a really helpful, kind perspective. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/22 03:02 PM |
| 14 | Strangest icks and dealbreaker?Oh indeed. Barely interesting sports yet with tons of loud, obnoxious, crude, primitive and often violent fans. Clearly just an excuse for these men to act disgusting and not only not get ostracised, but even applauded by other morons as “patriots” or some other pseudo-value. Pathetic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/22 09:27 PM |
| 33 | This man is 24. His “best friend” was 14 while he was a 20 year old man waiting for her to be legal to call his GF. This man is a pedophile.This gave me chills. Spot on. What a spineless bastard. That poor girl. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/22 12:33 AM |
| 17 | FDS: thank you for helping me to open my heart to womenSimilar here! I had a strict, stressed out, sometimes quite mentally torturing mother and a calm, chill father. Later realised much of her stress was due to him being so laidback, not that he somehow managed to stay to calm despite her behaviour. Formed almost fear of women and then began to pseudo-intellectualise it by going down the anti-SJW antifeminist path 🤢 I don’t even know who first cracked that shell, but so glad for every woman who helped me along the way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/22 09:09 AM |
| 3 | “Women like you give feminism bad name” shut up - effective feminism always had a “bad name.”Will check her out, thanks! x | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/22 11:24 PM |
| 10 | “Women like you give feminism bad name” shut up - effective feminism always had a “bad name.”What an excellent conceptualisation. Never thought of it that way, thanks for sharing! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/22 10:23 PM |
| 79 | “Women like you give feminism bad name” shut up - effective feminism always had a “bad name.”Hah, I like how that one with the man doing the laundry with the “I’d like to vote but my wife won’t let me” clearly acknowledges that having to be a house slave without agency or rights on the full mercy of your partner is horrible, but ONLY in the hypothetical scenario it would happen to men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/22 10:20 PM |
| 43 | “Women like you give feminism bad name” shut up - effective feminism always had a “bad name.”Spot on! Men always violently opposed female emancipation. I just hope they messed with the last generation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/22 10:19 PM |
| 229 | He knows he’s hurting her but he enjoys it 🤮Lol I guarantee that the vast majority of these “kinky” men would squeak at the very thought of just a finger up their bum, while expecting women to act all horny and porny about them stuffing their dick in there with no lube or foreplay. No Jimmy, you’re not “kinky and open-minded,” you’re just a pathetic coward who likes hurting women, and whose peepee doesn’t work proper from the years of deathgrip to abuse porn 🤗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/22 07:59 PM |
| 187 | “Women like you give feminism bad name” shut up - effective feminism always had a “bad name.”Indeed! They will yell all about how “some women just enjoy doing porn, stop being such a hater” and all the such to defend their precious pornography, but then you see them en masse trashing women with OF as all the sexist slurs one can imagine, competing in how to most clearly state that they would never respect let alone date such a woman, and bring up how sad their dad must be. Men know damn well porn dehumanises and ruins, they just don’t want us to know that they know. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/22 03:59 PM |
| 196 | “Women like you give feminism bad name” shut up - effective feminism always had a “bad name.”Hear hear! There is only one kind of “feminism” the average man likes and supports, and that’s the “Do everything the patriarchy wants you to do but feel empowered by it” kind. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/22 02:43 PM |
| 40 | Don’t waste your time or energy debating about sex work to men and libfemsIndeed! You always see men online yelling how they would “never date a b**** with OF, she’s for the streets” but in the same breath claim that sex work “empowers women” and feminists are “just petty she’s making the bag just showing her butthole.” Like sure Steve, if it’s so easy and we supposedly want to do it so much, why aren’t we doing it? Why aren’t you doing it? So jealous I don’t have to pretend to be attracted to middle aged coomers constantly claiming violent access to my body for few p… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 10:34 AM |
| 306 | I’m so sick of hearing praise for the most basic behaviourAnd that’s how all men benefit from the actions of the vile, abusive ones among them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/21 09:56 AM |
| 118 | We're not doing it anymoreExactly. In my ex’s book, me “being a ride or die” meant being okay with verbal abuse on the daily and a physical one when he was drunk okay with (better yet enthusiastic, but letting him do it will suffice) degrading sex acts spending time with his dangerous friends that I’ve hated, just because he had a good time with them - if I left, he’d invite a side-girl, and complain to me how bad a sport I am cutting off my family and friends, because he knew they don’t like him and if they knew one bit… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/21 09:58 AM |
| 44 | Why are men like thisHear hear. When people show you who they are, believe them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/21 04:24 PM |
| 58 | From the dad of one of my daughter’s friends, out of literally nowhere.I guess the weirdness was intentional. His logic was that “it will be too obvious if I just say I was sending it to my wife, don’t want to drag attention to the fact I’m married/ in a relationship” because OP could talk, so he wanted to derail her by adding such a confusing excuse. This is what Boris Johnson (kinda a mascot of these types) referred to ask his strategy: “if you can’t win the argument, put a dead cat on the table. Now everyone is just confused why there’s a dead cat on the table.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/21 02:56 PM |
| 22 | What I posted versus a reason for a permaban from a large “feminist” subreddit. Wow I wonder why :)Oh they banned me ages ago for being anti-porn. All the 3 mainstream “feminist” subreddits are jokes modded by men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/21 09:57 PM |
| 9 | What I posted versus a reason for a permaban from a large “feminist” subreddit. Wow I wonder why :)Honestly, should do that. Hundred percent serious. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/21 10:48 AM |
| 7 | What I posted versus a reason for a permaban from a large “feminist” subreddit. Wow I wonder why :)Just got that one now lmao, a different big sub I wasn’t even a part of for like 3 months by now because they keep giving space to male advancement all the time. Trash taking itself out😉 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/21 10:46 AM |
| 9 | What I posted versus a reason for a permaban from a large “feminist” subreddit. Wow I wonder why :)It was a man 100% lol. I asked after that “Yes you may” because I thought there’s a chance it is a woman, after all they could be concerned that I’m mentioning these subreddits because maybe lurkers will go to them, so maybe she’s typing a paragraph about that. But no, he just didn’t like it because he uses them lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/21 10:45 AM |
| 43 | What I posted versus a reason for a permaban from a large “feminist” subreddit. Wow I wonder why :)I just got a notification that I had also been permabanned for “participation in misogynistic subreddits and brigading” from another big “feminist” subreddit lol. “Brigading” with censored usernames, misogynistic subreddit FDS with their hate for rape porn! 😄 Good riddance. Yep, certain now that they are just modded by men, probably the same men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/21 10:37 AM |
| 28 | What I posted versus a reason for a permaban from a large “feminist” subreddit. Wow I wonder why :)I used to wonder how these people sleep at night, until I realised the answer is always “cuddled up to an anime underage girl body pillow, covered in their own crusted jizz, stinking of sweat and piss on a dirty mattress in their mum’s spare room.” Now I just wonder why they keep waking up to terrorise this world. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/21 01:22 AM |
| 68 | What I posted versus a reason for a permaban from a large “feminist” subreddit. Wow I wonder why :)Oh you mean the Dean Browning guy who wrote the legendary “as a gay Black man” and forgot to switch from his official account? That never fails to make me giggle. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/21 01:18 AM |
| 20 | What I posted versus a reason for a permaban from a large “feminist” subreddit. Wow I wonder why :)It was well established profile, defo a human (if you can call it that way) but there are bots of this sort too, there’s that VeganSJW something that’s basically negative karma farmer and every time I see people believing it I want to throw a cup of water at them lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/21 01:15 AM |
| 22 | What I posted versus a reason for a permaban from a large “feminist” subreddit. Wow I wonder why :)Haha exactly. After the first message, I thought they are maybe typing, after the second I realised that lol boy, the only thing you hate more than women is yourself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/21 01:10 AM |
| 78 | What I posted versus a reason for a permaban from a large “feminist” subreddit. Wow I wonder why :)Indeed. Any human with empathy finds that to be the explicit abuse material it is, provoking disgust, fear and nausea. They find it hot. And Reddit finds it to be less of a danger than radfems. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/21 01:07 AM |
| 156 | What I posted versus a reason for a permaban from a large “feminist” subreddit. Wow I wonder why :)Honestly, the amount of times someone writes some “as a woman/gay/POC” statement that sounds ridiculous and when you check their profile they are actually not woman/gay/POC… Funny story. Scrolled by a person on vegan sub who said something like “I’m vegan but if my friends are having a BBQ I’ll join and be happy for them! Let people live when they aren’t hurting anybody” blah blah blah, it obviously sounded so of colour I couldn’t believe a vegan would say that (as “meat is not hurting anyone” i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/21 01:03 AM |
| 43 | What I posted versus a reason for a permaban from a large “feminist” subreddit. Wow I wonder why :)Sounds like an incel who never spoke to a woman in their life, imo. They must be loving moding “feminist” subs. I didn’t respond after the “No” because I just know he sat there hoping I’ll pull on a fight to stay in a subreddit he was given by the site mods or for inclusivity points lol. Tough luck, I asked because I thought I missed some rule (like, maybe no subreddits can be mentioned in any context, or something of the sort), but when I saw this, boy bye, you hate yourself more than you hate … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 10:49 PM |
| 132 | What I posted versus a reason for a permaban from a large “feminist” subreddit. Wow I wonder why :)Thanks so much for everything you do, you’re a legend. I so wish I had an access to a community like this when I was younger instead of being fed patriarchal BS. As you said, this place is rock solid. Men ruining everything, tale as old as time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 09:50 PM |
| 224 | What I posted versus a reason for a permaban from a large “feminist” subreddit. Wow I wonder why :)I think they are definitely a man and get off on banning women from the platform, probably thought I’ll beg to be unbanned and that power trip will make his dick feel something for a change lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 06:34 PM |
| 366 | What I posted versus a reason for a permaban from a large “feminist” subreddit. Wow I wonder why :)Absolutely positive the mod is a pornsick man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 06:33 PM |
| 85 | What I posted versus a reason for a permaban from a large “feminist” subreddit. Wow I wonder why :)Indeed. Men get power, women get “EmPoWeRMeNt” I’m sick of it. If a man said “I love hitting and choking women, particularly X race of women” he would get the cops called on him. If the same man said “I love hitting and choking women, particularly X race of women, during sex because it makes my peepee feel something for a change” then he gets a round of applause from libfems. “Don’t let the rude kinkshamers get to you king!” 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 06:32 PM |
| 85 | What I posted versus a reason for a permaban from a large “feminist” subreddit. Wow I wonder why :)You’re spot on. I mean, of course those who support pornography are racist too - they are so used to seeing women lined up in categories for consumption and seeing WOC fetishised. Any racism is not only okay but woke to them as long as it is tied to male sexual supremacy. You’re right it is a blessing in disguise. Not gonna waste anymore time with “moderates.” Typical “meet me in the middle, says the unjust man…” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 05:39 PM |
| 228 | Great to see more young men speak out against porn !! 👌“Your sister or mother” is sadly true, because they can only appreciate the value of women as “somebody’s someone”, not as humans on their own. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/21 10:10 PM |
| 73 | Great to see more young men speak out against porn !! 👌Oh exactly. Most quit because their dick stops working, not because they start seeing women as people. But I guess we got to take whatever steps towards deprogramming we can get. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/21 10:09 PM |
| 141 | They really tell on themselves. They do not find sex work empowering nor do they respect it. Yet, we are told the opposite.Oh they don’t want to consume the paid stuff either, do they. They much prefer the abuse material that is either free, or ideally, leaked. They love power over women way too much to feel like “simps” compensating the victims of the porn industry for a change. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/21 04:01 PM |
| 245 | They really tell on themselves. They do not find sex work empowering nor do they respect it. Yet, we are told the opposite.Men will do anything to protect their precious porn that “women love to make” (sure, coomer), yet the women who create it are the lowest life form to them. If this doesn’t prove that liberal feminism is a tool of the patriarchy, I don’t know what does. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/21 03:58 PM |
| 121 | Now that's a movie I'd want to watch!Wait, you want women to derive value from something else you than men??? You think a life of freedom, self-confidence, learning, prospering, developing stable friendships, lifting other women, setting your own goals, relaxing and luxury is better than being someone’s dishwasher??? You want that to be presented as an option to girls? Burn the witch. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/21 10:11 AM |
| 206 | Compared to what women bring to the table, sadly money is really one of the very few things men have to offer 🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️“You can’t turn a wh-re into a housewife!” the men with no house who call every woman who rejects them a wh-re. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/21 05:18 PM |
| 21 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 33 - How to Level Up Your Pick Me Friends + Hair of the DogIncredibly grateful for this topic being addressed by you. It is so disheartening seeing amazing women being brainwashed so much that it bleeds into their daily lives. I was once “that (internalised misogyny) friend” and am enormously grateful to women who pulled me out. I reckon it is harder nowadays than it was back then because the last couple of years gave us all many opportunities to reflect, so the women still in that camp are often the ones rather deeply caught. Nevertheless so worth tryi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/21 09:53 AM |
| 51 | I can't think of anything I could say that would be better than her responseExactly. Once whichever woman "wins" the mum- therapist-sex doll-housemaid role gets sick of his bs, he'll try to groom another. Women are like phone models to him. Is it so frustrating that he legitimately believes his outlook is anyhow valid, when in reality he's just a pathetic predator. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 02:01 PM |
| 55 | I appreciate FDS for being one of the few places to actually be FEMALE ONLYA million times this. The mods here are doing awesome. So in love with this community | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 01:32 PM |
| 143 | *Cries in spinster.*Funny how every single study on the matter shows that single men over 50 are almost on the very bottom of life satisfaction lists, while same age single women score near the top. Yet some men still think they are doing something when threatening women with being single forever. Such a crazy concept to them that women's existence and happiness doesn't evolve around men's presence. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 11:20 PM |
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