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Omg I felt better after leaving those subs. It’s horrible for women’s self esteem reading that crap. Bc you start out reading thinking “wow these dudes are so wrong and unhinged” but the more and more you read, it becomes less and less of a joke
/r/ExRedPill11/02/25 06:55 PM
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Honestly I think that’s when women have children. Not that it devalues a woman as giving birth to a new life is selfless. But it’s the woman who’s tired, doesn’t have time to take care of herself bc she’s taking care of the kids, plus her man child of a husband, doesn’t get help or days off and she’s angry, bitter, out of shape. And then her husband has the audacity to complain about her body, while she’s doing all his cooking, laundry, dishes etc. All he has to do is work and then come home and…
/r/ExRedPill11/02/25 06:54 PM
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Yes absolutely unsubscribe, unfollow, and scroll past this content. It’ll only make you angrier. I say that from experience. Also take your time getting back into dating. Sometimes you have to break off from the world around you and just focus on yourself. Also make sure you don’t have any repressed trauma. I repressed a lot of trauma from DV when I was little. Then I was manipulated and controlled by one of my parents to hate the other parent. Anyways, I repressed this during my 20s and finally…
/r/ExRedPill12/11/24 07:52 PM
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Your explanation sounds pretty spot on
/r/ExRedPill23/10/23 02:14 PM
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Ok so go have sex with a man, still better than no sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 03:15 PM

Wow someone’s butthurt they can’t cheat on their non-existent gf while still being below avg in looks
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 11:02 AM
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Women are rejected all the time. Ever heard of being fuck-zoned?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 10:57 AM
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Also you don’t apply the same analogy to men, why is that? I think a man who’s bedded over 100 women is gross
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 09:46 AM
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Idk man every girl who I’ve known (or seen comments on Reddit from) who dated an old dude when she was 18 said they were toxic af and maybe at her time of low self esteem it made her feel good to ba called “mature for her age”, but they never went out for long, and DEFINITELY never married
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 09:45 AM

Women aren’t fucking cars. They’re human beings
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 09:01 AM

So a 40 year old going for an 18 year old is perfectly acceptable bc she’s a virgin? Gross🤢🤢🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 07:06 AM

And how old is said man?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 07:02 AM

I mean how old are these women supposed to be anyways. Having a body count of 20 when you’re 35 isn’t that much. But at 18 that’s a hell of a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 06:39 AM

Yes because getting married to another woman while you tell your gf you’re going to visit your sick grandfather and meanwhile your gf deep cleans your apartment to make your life easier if somehow my fault. And then when the gf is sus that you’re cheating and confronts you and you gaslight the fuck out of her calling her crazy, somehow the woman’s fault. And I did self reflect. Self reflected on how to avoid men like that in the future. And no he was not a chad. He was a below average geeky dude…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 06:38 AM
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Yeah I would say most people have suffered with anxiety/depression at least at one point in their lives. Having this, taking your meds, going to therapy does not make you disadvantaged. However someone with untreated/refusal of treatment with a severe mood disorder like schizophrenia/bipolar/psychosis is not of sound mind to consent to anything, and I personally don’t think they should be dating. Specifically women who have these disorders date these type of men that think they can “save them” (…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 05:45 AM

Right? As Ru Paul says “if you can’t love yourself, how in the hell are you gonna love anyone else?” Or something like that. But it’s true, you have to love yourself first. And part of loving yourself is setting up boundaries and really thinking about what a partner can do to fit into your life. As a woman who had a really nasty break up (his fault completely) I took a year and a half off from dating completely to work on myself and recover from the hurt I was caused.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 05:04 AM

Sure. I would agree that you would want to be with someone that has a similar sexual past based on experiences had etc. But it’s not the be all end all of relationships, it’s so much more than that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 04:50 AM

Well then you’ll have no problem posting them again no?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 04:20 AM

Can you please provide these statistics with a statistically significant population sample? Like n=>10000 (n in this case talking about population size, not sexual partners)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 08:24 PM

Ok and do you also have a body count of 2? Bc I was just reading a post a few weeks back about a virgin woman who was dating a guy that had a promiscuous past and she said she couldn’t get over it and felt kind of grossed out
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 08:18 PM

Was gonna say… there’s a whole lot more to a woman than the amount of dudes she’s banged. How narrow minded of a view is that to reduce her to her sex partner number. It’s dehumanizing. But you gotta protect that fragile ego because they’ll always be riddled with anxiety thinking that she’s thinking of “cHaD” when she’s having sex with him
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 08:15 PM
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99% of women are not attracted to flashy cars and “knowing the right things to say”, in fact most can tell that it’s a facade and can spot the fragile ego from a mile away. And younger women may be attracted to these things bc it’s new territory compared to guys their own age who still live at home and have a part time job at McDonald’s. Or they think that the “yOuR rEaLly mAtUre fOr yOuR aGe” is a genuine compliment.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 04:32 PM
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You literally posted the study to refute the above posters claim that increased age in fathers is a contributory factor in the child’s Dx of autism. So you’re wrong that it’s only the mother
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 01:12 PM
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This study literally says that there is a 2.2 fold increase of autistic children to fathers over 50 and only 1.2 in women over 35. Did you read the full article?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 10:02 AM
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Wrong. Not everything is to impress a man. You need to relax. It’s a factor but you also want to look presentable for the occasion. Would you go to a black tie event wearing sweatpants and an old ratty t shirt, no, you wouldn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 09:29 AM
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I’ll admit that when I go out and get dressed up it’s 1. So I match the looks that my friends are going for (don’t wanna be bare faced in pics with my friends who are all dolled up) 2. Yes, for male attention 3. So I can catch myself in the mirror and be like “damn I look good” Skincare and working out though should be for yourself. I do my skincare so I don’t get dry flaky skin, and working out so I can be strong and healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 05:33 AM
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I’m talking about the music videos. If you watch them it’s clearly about the nerdy guy who gets the hot girl in the end. And no most popular edm songs do have lyrics
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 05:26 AM
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Meaning he’s good at manipulating younger women into a relationship, he knows the right things to say, flashes his car/apartment etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 05:25 AM
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Uhhh have you even watched love after lockup? There are plenty of men going for female felons. And a lot of these ppl going for felons have either criminal pasts themselves or criminals in their family so it’s relatively normal for them and doesn’t deter them because they believe that that person made a mistake and can change.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 05:36 PM
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Exactly the same reason these red pill men justify dating younger women. When a 19 year old women dates a 25 y/o man, he’s got baggage and is probably jaded about relationships so they don’t want that bc it ruins the woman’s view on relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 12:53 PM
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Also “kiss kiss” by Chris brown, “cool” by alesso, the list goes on..
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 08:29 PM
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Not to mention these cosmetic procedures like breast implants and BBLs can be extremely dangerous and literally kill a woman…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 01:30 PM
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Oh so it’s ok if y’all have a hoe phase or hoe life before you met your wife then so be it but if women wanna have a one night stand once every couple of years she’s “not men” whatever that means. You do realize that if all women were “untouched” your idea would combust.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 12:22 AM
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If one woman replied saying “he ghosted me” its meh but if three different women do and DM you screenshots then it’s a bit different
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 12:19 AM
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Oh tbf I didn’t read your comment in detail. No ghosting women shouldn’t get you fired. But also what kind of employer would fire someone based on their dating life?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 12:18 AM
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So sleeping with 20 ppl in 10 years is considered being a cock carousel rider? I would say many med aim to sleep with far more women than that before settling down.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 01:52 PM
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Well if he’s ghosting every woman and I saw that on “are we dating the same guy?” Then why tf would I want to go out with someone like that? It’s not all just cheaters and abusers on that group yk, it’s also to prevent women from wasting their time
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 01:25 PM
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This is a perfect analogy! No games just legit having fun, and no hard feelings after, idk why it’s so hard to even find that these days :(
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 08:03 PM
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Was looking for this comment. It’s like casual is meant to mean you go over to this persons place at 2am, hook up with them and leave. If both parties are on board for that type of arrangement then cool. That then frees up a lot of time to go and pursue other ppl. Some people don’t want to fuck a bunch of people at the same time. I personally don’t like it nor would I want to casually date someone who on constant mode to do so. I’ve always been relationship minded but currently cannot be looking…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 07:50 PM
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😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 12:53 PM
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I beg to differ
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 02:52 AM
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Idk ive seen plenty of 30 year old white women look younger than they are
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 02:22 AM
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I know you’re thinking about the height thing on this one, it doesn’t count if its something you can’t change or its a character trait. Boundaries are usually about cheating/texting/sex whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 01:45 AM
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Ok white girls addicted to tanning is like less than 1% of women…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 01:41 AM
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Lmfao you’re talking 33? This whole fucking post I’m thinking a 70 year old man because all this talk of “droopy this saggy that” makes me think of the elderly, tf you think happens to women when they turn 30? ETA: the respect your elders thing I also think of respecting my grandparents
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 10:58 PM
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Ok well I live in Eastern Europe and kids, chores, you name it heavily lies on the woman, even if she works.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 09:22 PM
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There’s nothing wrong with wanting a woman who values marriage and family. And yes men can choose to be with those women instead of a career driven woman, theres no problem there. Ok so if he was saying his “boundaries” why be hypocritical? Is that not ironic to you? You can’t want someone to do something and then not do it yourself you see?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 09:20 PM
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I never said all fathers, I said the majority. I also pointed out that I have seen fathers extremely involved with their child’s healthcare
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 08:47 PM
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Oh well we had a man comment under my comment that seemed to think that the guy I dated was “expressing his boundaries” 🤣🤡
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 06:55 PM
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Also those aren’t “boundaries”. That’s trying to completely change someone’s lifestyle, I didn’t lie about anything and he knew this when he met me, he probably shouldn’t have asked me out then bc I didn’t mesh with his lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 06:12 PM
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Lmao so double standards are how you want a relationship, that’s controlling! He’s allowed to have sleepovers with his female friend in his bed but I’m not allowed to sleep in a guest room of my male friend. Telling someone what to wear=controlling. Also a 30 year old who has somewhat established herself eg. Lash tech, nurse, business administrator might also want to focus on her career, not every woman wants to have kids/abandon her career to have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 06:09 PM
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Lol it was 3 months total but I went to Europe for one of those in between so it was a nice break. Although he interrogated the fuck out of me for breaking off from my cousins to do a bit of solo travelling asking if I was “fucking anyone”. Regardless I just kept being me and told him his rules were stupid af.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 03:44 PM
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Lots of red pillers here. I don’t think the majority want an uneducated woman unless they themselves are uneducated. Also if a man has to work hard to achieve his goals and make lots of money it takes time so they look for a wife when they’re 30-40… so either they’ll go for a woman their age who idk was sitting on her ass for 10-15 years but in most cases they want a naive 18 y/o. Idk why someone would want a partner without any life experience unless they are extremely insecure. I dated a 36 y/…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 02:46 PM
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As a med student I’ve only seen a handful of fathers who are extremely involved in their children’s care. A lot of them don’t even know their kids birthday or medications they take.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 02:37 PM
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Wow I didn’t know that you surveyed every single doctor and nurse out there as to whom they would choose career-wise for marriage, care to share your data?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 04:09 PM
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Lmao. Keep believing that education is not important to men. Also millionaires are not the average.. so maybe for the few percentage of men they’re looking for some sort of SAHM and have a mistress on the side, how about all the others? I know plenty of female doctors that are also married to male doctors who both make well over 6 figures on their own income.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 04:04 PM
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I would say there’s a pretty decent pool of women that age who are pursuing higher education/career advancement who can’t settle at this moment due to time constraints/travel, and just simply changing their mind of what they’re looking for. I can say that what I wanted out of a relationship at 25 is not the same at 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 06:16 AM
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But I think the question refers to casual hookups not relationships. And I’m pretty sure a woman who had a one night stand years ago with an objectively hot guy isn’t gonna be that memorable that she’s thinking about it while with her husband of years
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 02:23 PM
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I think that’s what they mean by submissive, she won’t speak up about how shit he is in bed
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 02:40 PM
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r/ihavesex
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 02:26 PM
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High value women don’t want man whores either 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 02:26 PM
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They like to believe all women think this way bc they’re being rejected. I highly doubt it’s because his “voice cracked”. Are there women who get the “ick” over stupid things, yes. Are these the women looking for marriage? Likely not.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 07:19 AM
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And lmao women can’t like sex? 🤡 Also everyone is allowed to have phases where they’re hooking up with people more or less. It’s a problem when someone can’t spend time alone and needs a constant rotation of sex partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 09:22 PM
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Yes man or woman, doesn’t matter. It’s usually a sign that you’re insecure. Men do it to show off to their buddies and women do it for validation and attention. Neither can be in a secure relationship until they’ve gone through therapy/spent time alone to get over their issues
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 09:12 PM
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Well yes, this is the actual way. Most men arent redditors who love on Andrew Tate/redpill forums all day. Most people don’t actually care unless it’s a crazy high number.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 08:47 PM
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It’s also not about “getting laid”. That’s the whole problem right there. If you don’t care about forming connections with people and are instead focused on impressing your friends with “how many chicks you’ve fucked” then you’re going to be a sad empty shell of a human.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 08:45 PM
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Yeah I don’t see a man who slept with over 100 women as “high value”, I see him as someone with mental issues that have yet to be addressed
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 08:41 PM
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Here’s the comment I was looking for! Exactly it’s usually men with high N counts that want a “pure virgin woman”. I totally understand if you want someone with similar numbers as yours but that’s usually not the case. Also I would say most people lose their virginity in high school/college so if you’re years past that (in your 30s) and are looking for a woman in her early 20s, yes this is pretty creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 06:49 PM
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Ugh don’t even waste your time with this one, he’s just trolling.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 10:23 PM
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Please provide a medical journal article to back up your claim bc that’s just nonsense
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 07:37 PM
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Lol they like to think that women want a guy who has a high N count as they’re more “experienced” when in reality it’s a turn off to most women. Quality over quantity. I would assume if you’re hooking up with a different woman every week, you’re bad in bed and lack respect for a woman. Not something I am a fan of personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 06:12 PM
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Exactly! If sex was all he was after then it’s better to pay a woman who’s literal job it is (and she gets compensated) rather than trying to lie to a woman and play games with her head. Obviously if he was doing this regularly and has never had a relationship with a woman, that’s another story.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 07:52 PM
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I’m pretty sure all women can agree that he’s a total loser POS. Also I’d like to add that he’s getting what he wants, attention. Even if it’s bad attention it’s still attention. I avoid clicking on any links related to him to avoid giving him more likes/views etc
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 01:32 PM
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Exactly. Or tinted moisturizer, super light and moisturizing. I would actually find it preferable if a man I was seeing used it regularly.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 08:22 PM
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I mean with the amount of manipulation out there it’s like you have to police background check, interview parents/friends of the individual in question, talk to their exes etc bc sometimes it’s so hard to tell. Lying, gaslighting and manipulation from someone that’s been in the dating game for a while is a mindfuck. I think it’s a little easier if you’re platonic friends with the person first to guage how they are in relationships, how they treat their friends/family, do they have healthy coping…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 08:34 PM
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Yeah so many different opinions in here depending on the woman. Everyone is individual and has different preferences. Personally, I like more introverted men with smaller social circles, like IT guy in OPs example. I’ve dated some guys where it felt like I was being dragged to social events all the time and it was mentally exhausting as I struggle with social anxiety.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 06:33 PM
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I used to feel stupid for hating this. Like if my bf at the time would do this I would think it was my problem for getting mad about it, bc they always argue “it’s just natural/I’m just looking/ wow am I not allowed to look/ should I wear blinders? Etc” so I began internalizing it and then being angry and saying nothing was the matter even though there obviously was. THEN comes the “omg women are so complicated they never say what’s actually wrong” ....we don’t wanna say anything because we get …
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/20 11:37 AM
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Yeah I feel like today hookup culture is so popular it’s considered rude to not want to date someone with a high count. Personally, I would care at least a little, not that I would go around judging or make that person feel bad, but I would probably say were not a good match, that’s all.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/20 08:59 AM
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I think it’s perfectly fine the care about N-count, HOWEVER, it’s NOT ok for men to think it’s excusable for them to hook up with many females while saying it’s terrible for women to do the exact same. Practice what you preach.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/20 01:49 PM
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Welp, his father apparently was “cool wit it” ...so I guess the apple doesn’t fall far from the tree🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 08:36 PM
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Ugh good for you ! Don’t let stupid people waste your time👍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 02:23 AM
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