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Not what I said but whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 05:19 PM
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Quit being so dramatic lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 10:04 AM
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It depends how ugly we're thinking... if the person is deformed then sure, but most people are either slightly below average to slightly above average. Being confident, dressing well, going to the gym and getting a nice haircut are all things that can bump someone a few points up the scale if done correctly.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 09:33 AM
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He's really not that bad looking. First off he isn't overweight which is uncommon for men his age and puts him in a separate box and he still has some hair on top of his head. He could probably pay for some hair transplant surgery too... At the least he is a 4.5 to me, aka slightly below average.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 09:26 AM
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I think blood type is a common prompt in some Asian countries because they regard it as a "trait" like zodiac signs.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 10:16 AM
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I think some of it is because men will do everything to deny they're actually balding instead of doing something proactive about it like shaving or getting a transplant or hair system. Putting a hat on top or having a combover isn't attractive. By the way I say this and I have a huge crush on a balding dude currently. I find that it's just another part of him that I like. When I think about him I don't think about his bald spot 😂 I think about how hot he is in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 10:12 AM
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I get my groceries delivered at home and answer in PJs.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 01:21 AM
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Is this meant to be sarcastic? I'm sorry, I'm not able to detect sarcasm through text ^^'
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 10:29 PM
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I meant to say that it's not something that has happened as often as I've heard other women say... I've heard some women say it happens pretty much every time they leave the house all done up, which isn't my case at all. It happened mostly when I worked a customer service job. Also recently I dropped some weight (around 25 pounds in total I think) and I've noticed that I get more stares, more men generally paying attention to me and WAY more compliments when I'm out and about, but not just from …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 10:28 PM
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I personally haven't experienced it, I never said it doesn't happen...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 04:59 PM
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Maybe to you but honestly I would rather do things we both like when we hang out. We won't always be out on dates or fucking.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 04:57 PM
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It's not to me... if you leave it at that. Ofc you can never know which women will take it the wrong way so it's best not to say anything I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 04:50 PM
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I thought it had to do with taxi drivers 😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 12:40 PM
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Same here, my mom had me at 37 and I'm an only child although she tried to have more. I like it that way though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 12:31 PM
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Good for the most part. I said thank you and they moved on. I've had a couple of guys give me their number as well and I did go on a date with one of them, however I quickly found out we were incompatible so told him that. He was good-looking and friendly and everything, we just had nothing in common. Personally I need some things in common if I'm going to get more serious with someone... One guy invited me to his place to play video games because he knew I was into old games on the SNES and he …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 12:13 PM
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The primary biological drive is to procreate. Women of a certain age (late 20s-early 30s) start thinking about it more and more and want to find a man to settle down with and have children with. That man must be marriage material since they want to have kids with him and kids is the highest form of commitment, even stronger than marriage... thus you can't do it with just about anybody. Of course not all women want children, but a decent amount does. Most people will think about whether or not th…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 11:27 AM
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A lot of people want kids, especially at your age. Women will want to procreate earlier in life because it's easier to give birth/take care of a newborn when you're under 35. 35+ pregnancies are considered "geriatric" for a reason. Would you have a kid with a random person or hookup? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 11:22 AM
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Men will typically help me carry stuff around if I'm visibly struggling or hold the door for me but it stops there. I've never had a man directly stop any form of harassment or SA while it was happening, but that's to be expected as I was alone with other men when it happened - it typically doesn't happen in public, or if it does the man will not be open about his intentions and will try to hide it. I haven't been cold approached much in general in my life but I have been complimented by random …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 11:16 AM
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It's very true that men tend to expect you to look after themselves and "monitor" them whereas most women won't expect it of their partners. Personally I almost always go dutch or alternate 50/50 for who's paying for dates, however I feel like I always need to make the first move in planning said dates with women + maintaining a conversation flowing whereas with most men that are clearly interested I don't have to think about it as much as they are more proactive. I like taking charge, just not …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 02:24 AM
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I can say I completely understand how most men feel when dating... Idk if it has to do with the fact that I prefer femmes and I'm femme myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 02:17 AM
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I'm typically the one who initiates everything in my relationships with women and it... gets old very fast LMAO It's part of the reason I don't seriously date women. I would be way more open to it if the reciprocation was there, but it's oftentimes not.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 12:10 AM
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Yep. I know. My point exactly. I mean like I said I could always be wrong but... yeah. I don't usually hang out with male friends one on one on a Saturday night anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 07:53 PM
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Lmfao yepppp that was the plan. Also I always make sex jokes when playing billiard since the way you say everything billiard related in French is a double entendre 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 07:23 PM
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Honestly same!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 07:00 PM
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Errrrr okay let's see. He compliments me often, I have caught him looking at me sometimes, he teases me, he compares me to his ex in positive ways, he offers to give me a ride pretty much everyday, he blushes if I compliment him, he remembers a lot of little details... and most importantly he has never outright said anything along the lines of seeing me like a little sister or something like that. I mean maybe I'm wrong, but I know what he's attracted to and I think I check those boxes. I also k…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 06:59 PM
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We're not there yet :/
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 06:52 PM
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I'm in charge of planning an outing on Saturday evening with a male friend I like as more than a friend and I told him it's gonna be a surprise... please help me choose where to go! 1) beach + drinking beer 2) beer + billiard 3) restaurant 4) something else or a combination of those? And wish me good luck because I'm gonna tell him I see him as more than a friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 06:49 PM
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Missionary isn't my favorite position, but it's one of my top 3 for various reasons. 1) We can kiss during sex which heightens the pleasure 2) I can wrap my legs around him and push him in deeper 3) He can easily whisper things in my ear 4) It's a very intimate position where you can look in your partner's eyes The people who find it boring are the uncreative ones imo. Any position can be great or bad depending on how much effort each partner wants to contribute. The only reason missionary isn't…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 11:46 AM
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In dating I give myself three times to ask someone out/invite them to an event. If they refuse three times out of three no matter how good their excuses are, I either wait for them to ask me out or give up entirely. Honestly I'd be ready to give up if I were you, she doesn't seem that interested. Personally I would've cancelled any work-related plans for a date unless it was mandatory.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 11:33 AM
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Ugh that's so weird... is he keeping her around just for sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 10:26 PM
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If you became a millionnaire would you still work the same job as the one you do right now? Personally I wouldn't, I would work way less and in something that I actually care about. I like the field I'm in but most of the actual tasks are boring af. 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 10:17 PM
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Absolutely! I just wanted to point out that normally people can agree on who's conventionally attractive regardless of actual attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 11:10 PM
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I mean without saying that Chris Hemsworth is the best looking man out there, he is at least conventionally attractive and looks good for his age, no? Even if the Rock isn't personally my type I can still say that about him.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 10:36 PM
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I guess I can get behind that. 🤟
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 12:30 PM
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Legally there's no issue, but morally it's another story. I'm not the type of person who wants to ban everything I disagree with, I'm all for freedom of choice and personal accountability. However, you cannot ignore that there is a vast power imbalance between a 19 year old who most likely doesn't have a career, a place to live on her own or a car, let alone any meaningful relationship experience compared to a 61 year old. The 61 year old will clearly have the upper hand in this relationship, no…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 12:08 PM
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Earning an average/slightly above average income will cover that. If not, there's always other ways to work out for practically free and if you eat the right amount of calories you won't gain weight. The thrift stores around me sell nice clothes and accessories for cheap prices... You don't need to be extremely rich to be in shape and decent looking imo. It goes for women as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 11:33 AM
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Would you mind if she dyed her grey hair? I've had a grey streak since I was like 20. It's genetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 11:25 AM
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I am not against age gaps in general but 61/19 is pushing it and if you can't see why then nothing I will say will change your opinion on it. That 61 year old would willingly date a minor if it were allowed, just in case you didn't get that part.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 11:24 AM
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Not necessarily. 42 isn't 62, plenty of men (and women) that age are hot and not just celebrities.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 10:37 AM
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I'm gonna be honest and say that I don't mind but I don't particularly seek it out. Ever since I changed my style and started dressing more colorful and feminine, I've received a bunch of compliments from complete strangers and friends ranging from old ladies to men my age. So far no one has made any weird overtly sexual comments which is what I want to avoid especially. It's always awkward when some dude comments on your boobs or ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 04:38 PM
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Don't you have deep talks with your friends? Can you not open up to them about your struggles? To me real friendship includes those things by default.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 04:18 PM
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I much prefer men that naturally show their emotions rather than emotional robots who bottle everything up. That's unhealthy and is likely to lead to outbursts if it goes on for too long. Unless a man is constantly crying, whining and asking for validation I think it's more than okay for him to be as vulnerable as he feels comfortable with. Any intimate relationship (friendship or more) requires both parties to feel comfortable enough to be 100% themselves without having to always wear a mask. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 05:55 PM
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I'd like men's opinions on a situation but would rather post privately about it... DM me I guess? I can give an opinion on something in return from a female perspective! I don't know if this is allowed in here, but oh well.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 09:25 PM
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That's very refreshing to hear!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 09:00 PM
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Look, my boyfriend has a porn folder entirely made up of pictures of me and he told me it's his go-to when he masturbates soooooo honestly I don't care. Even if he used porn or thought about someone else I wouldn't care as long as he doesn't tell me who it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 08:43 PM
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Good luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 11:36 PM
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I mean I know a lot of skinny women who don't have flat stomaches. They wear a size 2/4 and don't have a flat stomach because that's how their body fat is distributed. Some women were genetically gifted to have all their fat go into their thighs and boobs - good for them, but that's just not how it works for everyone... and that's okay. I'm tired of pretending I'm fat because I don't have a perfectly flat stomach. It would be like telling men they're fat if they don't have their abs showing, com…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 11:51 AM
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Only the very top % of those women actually make decent amounts of cash and it takes way more time and effort to get there than you would think. I've been propositioned by random men on the Internet to have sex with them for 200$. That's roughly what I make in a day of work, which means I would have to entertain one client a day to make as much money as I do now with my degree. If I were on OF I would need to promote my shit everywhere for days, months on end and I might only end up making 500 b…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 11:37 AM
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Some straight women are into feminine men and some straight men are into masculine women. Are they bi as well? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 11:26 AM
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I'm bisexual and quite feminine (I wear dresses, some make-up, I have long hair, etc) and the vast majority of the women I find attractive are feminine as well or androgynous. The hyper masculine butches are not my thing. Lots of lesbian couples are fem/fem. I haven't seen many butch/butch ones but they probably exist out there. Short hair can be cute if you've got the right face shape though!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 11:25 AM
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A lot of them have a strong preference for Asian women and they're not even trying to hide it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 11:20 AM
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Being slim is certainly easy-ish to maintain, however having a flat stomach, no stretch marks and a perfect hourglass figure isn't and I feel like a lot of men don't realize that. A lot of y'all don't even realize when a woman has gotten work done or is wearing make up (because it looks "natural"). This wasn't directed at you specifically I just wanted to vent a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 11:16 AM
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Honestly from experience this is so true. On top of that if the woman embodies "motherly" qualities or looks like someone who gave birth (i.e. she has a belly pouch, her boobs aren't as firm, she has stretch marks, her vagina is looser than before, which yes can happen for some women) the man may even lose sexual attraction to her. I've seen it happen too many times to count. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 11:08 AM
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I really don't think that's him though...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 10:58 AM
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Yeah like wtf this ain't the 1940s.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 10:54 AM
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I suppose you're talking about sex work? It's not for everyone for very obvious reasons. If you just meant why didn't she just become a dental assistant, then maybe it's because she has dentists or other doctors in her family or she wants to earn a high salary. Some people simply prefer the "hard way" for various reasons - feeling fulfilled is one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 10:50 AM
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I used to play the clarinet... but frankly I suck at playing instruments. I'd loooove to play the piano but I'm just not musically inclined
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 02:29 AM
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Oh actually I'm very well aware that hypersexuality is a form of self-harm and can come from trauma/PTSD induced from rape and abuse amongst others. However I'm not anyone's therapist and I can't stop my friends from engaging in behavior that I would find questionable for myself, a partner or a potential child. I can guide them to help or listen to them vent now and then but realistically I can't do much more than that. But nice generalizations there! :')
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 02:22 AM
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I'm gonna be honest and say that I wouldn't recommend it as women will rarely be sexually satisfied by a random man who only wants to get his rocks off from my experience. However, morally, I don't really care either way. I wouldn't date anyone who engages in extremely promiscuous behavior but I wouldn't care if a friend of mine or a complete stranger fucked a different man every night provided that she gets tested + is on birth control.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 02:14 AM
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The sexiest things a man can wear are white dress shirts with rolled-up sleeves and the first two buttons unbuttoned and tight black t-shirts, preferrably made in some sort of stretchy fabric and not cotton. Men, take notes. :') (Yes I know it's very specific lol)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 02:00 AM
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Bud, it's not over! There's options out there. I'm a woman who's dealing with hair loss myself so I can 100% empathize - it's likely related to stress and hormonal issues in my case and my doctor doesn't take it seriously. :/ 1) You can get on minoxidil and/or finasteride. 2) You can get a decent hair system for like 300$. 3) If you have the means you can get a hair transplant. 4) You can embrace the bald look and work with your strengths - do you have a nice beard? do you dress well? are you we…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 01:00 AM
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It's a known phenomenon that trauma/PTSD can cause changes in sexual behavior and sexual orientation as well, though the latter to a lesser extent from what I've read. I know it might be extremely controversial to say but sexuality is more fluid than we'd like to admit. Some men who have gone through traumatic events involving men have later on expressed desire for men which didn't exist prior to said traumatic events, just like some people feel repulsion towards sex after being raped and some n…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 12:54 AM
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I think one of the only chubby dudes I find genuinely attractive is James Corden. I'm not French from France but my ancestors are. I'm from Québec.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 12:43 AM
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I don't understand the low ratings, I would give him a 5. He's average. I'm obviously taking into account that he's on the older side so I don't judge him by 20 yo standards. The fact that he's bald isn't a problem at his age, it would be if he were 25 though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 11:52 PM
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Those are some pretty neat hobbies!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 11:48 PM
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A lot of people enjoy being active in individual sports though. For example if you take me, I like going to the gym...as far as I know there's no "gym world cup" or whatever. I have watched some YouTube vids about some techniques but that's it. My boyfriend is a fan of kayaking and running, two disciplines that don't have world cups or clubs for them either or if they do they're not popular at all where I'm from (Canada). He has a running buddy and they bond over that interest but that's it. My …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 11:45 PM
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I second that. Personally I'm into athletic, lean and skinny body types on men - overall a low body fat % is required. What I find weird as a bi woman is that I am not attracted to super skinny women and find some overweight (not obese) women attractive, but not men. It's weird how attraction works. 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 08:54 PM
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This looks pretty dope! Just throwing it out there in case a man considering it cares about a random woman's opinion but I would totally not care if a man got a toupee. Some balding/bald men are quite attractive too even if I will admit I do prefer a full head of hair. I have experienced hair loss myself and I know how soul-crushing it can be and sympathize. 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 08:45 PM
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So you would rather be used for your dick? You're getting used either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 03:53 PM
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I'm 24 and I'm dating a 33 year old man. I tend to prefer older men physically speaking, between 30 to 50-ish. I'd say I'm fairly independent and I'm not looking for a sugar daddy like a lot of people first assume. I've got my own car, savings (35k) and a job that pays well. I have no problem paying my half on dates or anything of the sort - I like the 50/50 approach. Oh and on top of that I don't have a daddy kink. Ask me anything if you want!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 01:16 PM
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Could you elaborate about friendship being low risk dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 12:05 PM
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I've had casual sex with people I was attracted to and I've always been disappointed. Sex is not the same without an emotional connection, even if that connection is just a friendly one and not a romantic one.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 12:04 PM
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My parents met at a bar and my mom was already pregnant with me a month after. She was 36 and my dad 40 at the time and their internal clock was ticking. They lasted 7 years together before they separated for 12. My dad never stopped loving my mom and trying to get back with her - then they got back together around 5 years ago I think. My mom never hid that she immediately got pregnant with me and moved in with him. I've never wanted to have that sort of relationship because I think it's a huge …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 11:33 AM
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Where do you pick those sex crazed women? 😂 Idk, most girls I know like talking about other stuff with their partners... unless you two have nothing in common?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 11:58 PM
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Body count matters to some people and not others. As for myself I have had 7 partners, two of which were from LTRs and two others which were from short term relationships. Three of those were ONS, something that I am completely over with now that I have matured. I'm not ashamed of it at all though. If someone breaks up over 7 partners that's too bad I guess. It's not like I have 50+ partners or triple digits, which I agree is a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 11:56 PM
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Jeez that's a lot of sex. 😅 I would just tell her that you are very attracted to her and you love having sex with her but you need some "off" days so you can recharge and get the mojo back. As for talking about sex, maybe try telling her you prefer subtle flirting instead of directly talking about fucking?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 11:50 PM
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No one would break up over a fake favorite basketball team though 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 11:42 PM
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I think the woman is completely overreacting. I'm a bi woman and I have so many "types" that I can't count them. I'm attracted to a wide variety of men and women. It has never been a problem with my boyfriend. We point it out when we find someone attractive and I've never felt jealous (nor did he) because we know that finding someone random attractive (especially a celebrity) means literally nothing. Finding a close friend attractive... that's another story. I would never admit that I find my bo…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 11:59 AM
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I say this as a woman who's decently in shape (i.e. I'm not model thin either): I wouldn't date an overweight or obese man and am very rarely attracted to them so I don't expect men to be attracted to overweight and obese women especially if they're in shape themselves and put effort into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 11:50 AM
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I can't hold hands while walking it distracts me :') I prefer holding hands when we're alone and cuddling on the couch.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 11:28 PM
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Tits.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 11:19 PM
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Lmao you must be trolling. I work at a university and around half of graduate students are women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 04:16 PM
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There are plenty of women with Master's degrees and PhDs. Why don't you date them?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 04:09 PM
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A lot of body hair especially on hands and back. It gives me the instant ick. Being too open about body functions (i.e. loudly farting or burping in front of your partner) - I don't mind that they do it in front of me, just don't go out of your way to be gross you know. It's not "masculine" behavior per se, but I've rarely seen women do that. Being stoic. I strongly prefer expressive people in general. Don't be afraid to express your emotions - positive or negative.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 12:34 PM
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A lot of older celebrities are pretty universally loved and they're in their late 30s/early-mid 40s. Like Jensen Ackles for example - I don't think I've ever heard of a woman that didn't find him attractive. He's currently 46 but looks objectively quite good for his age. I see maybe between 5-10% of men in that age range that are on that level irl. If on top of that they're well-dressed, educated, funny and generous (not necessarily crazy rich, just enough to impress a younger woman lol), they w…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 12:13 PM
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If he's attractive and charismatic he'll have no issues attracting younger women, either for a LTR or just for fun. I've seen it multiple times. However there is a caveat : only a minority of young women like older men and they usually like the more "well-preserved" ones. Older men that have let themselves go are not going to be considered at all by those women. Source: me and my peers.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 10:10 PM
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How many times does he have to cheat for her to file for divorce without it being considered juvenile?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 03:26 AM
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It's great that you were able to recognize this about yourself and now you're willing to put in the necessary work to get better. Good luck with that! <3
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 12:41 AM
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I have a thing for men in glasses... I'm sure I'm not the only one lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 12:52 PM
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I feel like it really depends on the amount of weight gained and the reasons behind it. It's normal for women to gain weight during a pregnancy, for example, and it's also normal to gain weight more easily as you age. Not all women are made equal and some of them will feel better at certain weights than others. Some men (and women) have extreme expectations when it comes to women's weight, such as a woman should never weigh more than 130 pounds (never mind that she's 6'). If she's gaining weight…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 02:17 AM
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I work at a university and unfortunately I have seen way too many college-aged girls (most of them undergraduates) dress very provocatively in the labs, like wearing revealing tank tops and short shorts where they could be exposed to chemicals. It's cringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 04:39 PM
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It only happens if I post something sexual or a picture of myself... I'd say at least 10% of the men in my DMs will escalate with a dick pick. Lots are just sending pics of themselves or pick-up lines.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 04:35 PM
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Keep in mind that in Northern America most people are overweight. If you keep seeing overweight people everywhere you become more accustomed to it and might develop an attraction to it even, just because it's so widespread. In countries where being overweight isn't the norm, I doubt they have the same percentage of women going after dad bods. It's just a theory though.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 01:09 PM
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I mean as a woman I see clear benefits to being friends with other women as opposed to only being friends with men so I will have to agree there. You usually get way more emotional support with female friends, with some exceptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 12:46 AM
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Probably because they assume we're selfish/entitled/brats.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 04:16 PM
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I try not to be gross about it but eventually we all do it, so I'd say the sooner the better. If you plan on having kids with them I can guarantee you'll see and hear way worse than your partner burping/farting.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 08:38 PM
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If she responded with your personality traits to why she loves you would that be okay as well? For example, she says she finds you kind, intelligent and funny, but handsome too.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 02:29 PM
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Hmmm I guess it really depends on my own opinion of the dude in question and if it's meant in jest or he's being serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 02:23 PM
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A lot of people with kids. I've heard some say it went down to once a month once they started having kids, some saying no sex for up to a year until they wanted to conceive again... :/
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 01:48 PM
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I think it really depends on the context. Picking on someone because he's an asshole would be different from picking on him because he's in a wheelchair. Which is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 01:45 PM
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I've seen some people use it in the context of marijuana use. I'm personally a defender of most age gap relationships as I am in one myself (24 - 33) but I also recognize that there are some people who engage in such relationships with nefarious intents, just like all relationships. The issues specific to age gap relationships are usually different from issues that people within the same age bracket will encounter, especially when thr older partner has a lot of baggage (i.e. divorced, with kids,…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 01:42 PM
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I would want to hear their side of the story first. Sexual harrassment is a very borad term that can encompass many things and I'd first like to know what went down between my friend and the presumed victim before I can form an opinion about it - is there anything that could have been mistaken for harassment I wonder? Is the presumed victim wanting to get revenge on my friend? How could the presumed victim benefit from accusing my friend of harrassment? Are they credible, and so on. In any case …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 10:26 AM
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He's paying for everything so it's all good with me lol I've only ever flown economy anyway so it's no biggie. I'm not a luxury person. (But realistically speaking I make more money AND save way more so if someone's paying for a vacay alone it's gonna be me and we're gonna fly economy to save since I don't think a bit of champagne and whatever is worth doubling or tripling the ticket price)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 12:02 AM
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Not an issue I prefer round butts to flat ones anyway!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 11:56 PM
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Personality absolutely matters to me though. If I don't vibe with someone there's no way it's gonna work out no matter how cute they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 04:33 PM
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I think I find ~40% of men attractive and ~50% of women attractive... I guess I have low standards 😂 Obviously I'm only counting people that are in my age range for dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 01:22 PM
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Cute but there's no way in hell I'm paying that much for any type of clothes. Like I regularly find similar dresses for 10 bucks at thrift shops.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 04:32 PM
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I'm friends with a coworker who's 40 and I'm 24. We never run out of topics to talk about AND we like similar music and movies. We can talk about finances, politics, taboo topics, work, relationships, sex, fitness, friends, hobbies, food & drinks, the meaning of life, philosophy, kids, science and probably a lot of other stuff I'm forgetting about.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 12:49 PM
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I feel like there is some threshold for my initial attraction to someone but it can increase or decrease based on my interactions with them and how we vibe. I would rather spend time with someone average that I'm sexually attracted to and who I can vibe with than someone way above average who has the personality of a lamp (whom I'm also attracted to).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 12:31 PM
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My current partner moved in with me after 2 months of relationship because he had problems with his roommate. We had known each other for around a year before that and were close friends already. If it hadn't been the case I would have wanted to wait at least a year before considering moving in with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 08:03 PM
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I mean, sure, but I'm not the type of girl that would actually care.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 07:56 PM
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Then I don't think you'd have any problem getting a part-time job, like around 15-20h a week. Like others said try to prioritize work that's somewhat related to your major (like working at a Best Buy selling computers lol) and internships!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 06:06 PM
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I think it depends on several things. 1) is your major "easy"? 2) do you need good grades to get into an honors program or to complete a Master's? 3) do you need to study a lot for every exam? I know some people are fine studying a few hours just before the exam, but that's not the case for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 05:16 PM
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I literally cannot distinguish between 5'10'', 5'11'' and 6' and I doubt the average woman can.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 04:20 PM
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This is how I first approached my ex and it led to us dating for 3 years... I say do it. Just sitting down would be rude imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 02:38 AM
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It would be great to pay the stay at home parents some sort of salary to compensate for giving up their job and being there for their children's formative years.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 09:07 PM
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100% agreed. We don't need more broken homes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 08:55 PM
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You're enforcing the narrative that only women's emotions matter which is weird as a man... like do y'all actually think y'all don't have emotions? Barring sociopaths and other fringe cases, most humans are capable of a wide range of emotions and they affect your decisions whether you're conscious of it or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 08:54 PM
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I didn't think it was anything special. I expected better...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 01:49 AM
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Ofc it's not a real one 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 01:47 AM
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He's not bad looking, the only thing I would do is trim the beard more... but that's personal preference. I don't like big beards.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 01:45 AM
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I'm the one who's more worried about FOMO out of the both of us. He's the type of person that knows exactly what he wants and what he wants is me. He pursued me for around a year before we became official haha I do not feel like either of us is wasting the other's time. We have a mature, fun, enriching relationship. If it does not end up working out in the end I will not resent him, unless he did something really awful. Marriage has been talked about but it's not very prevalent in our culture so…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 07:39 PM
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Well I picked the guy with zero relationships and next to no sex experience at 31 when I was 22 and we've been together for 2 years now. It has worked out pretty well all things considered, obviously with some adaptation on his part (it was hard to go from never having had a girlfriend to living with her).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 02:36 PM
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Probably not realizing that it's okay to be hungry sometimes and you don't need to eat until you're extremely full... also exercise is fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 02:31 PM
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I had a great time at my boyfriend's family's, played with his nieces and ate some top tier food.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 02:08 AM
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Ohhh. Yeah, that's fat alright. :/ The average weight for American women is pretty high at 170 lbs too. It's all very concerning.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 12:41 AM
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The average weight for American women is around 170 pounds, while the average height is 5'4''. Yeah that's fat, although I guess not in the morbidly obese range.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 12:36 AM
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Well it might be different for certain women. For example, a recovering alcoholic won't want to date someone who's always out partying (with alcohol), a childfree person won't want to date someone who has kids and someone who is allergic to dogs or hates dogs won't want to date someone who has three dogs. They're all clear, obvious dealbreakers that have nothing to do with personality but more to do with lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 12:32 AM
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What's your definition of fat? Like how fat are we talking?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 12:18 AM
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What's your definition of short for a man? 'Cause to some people short = average height.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 12:15 AM
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I usually read them looking for signs that we would be fundamentally incompatible. I'd rather not waste my time.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 12:10 AM
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My parents also got pregnant within three months of knowing each other, lasted for 7 years then separated for 12 (never married). Then 12 years later they got back together and are now happily not married and not living together but dating (their words). I've never seen a couple with a similar story but honestly I'm happy that in the end they reconciled.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 10:48 PM
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We started living together after only 3 months of dating, but knew each other for close to two years before that. I would say that I am now considering marriage after two years of living together, but I'm in no hurry 'cause I'm only 24. I believe that it's more important to have cohabitated with your partner before marriage than anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 10:45 PM
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Sure. I helped my ex who's 5'7'' with his Tinder profile and he managed to get a couple of dates. He's a very average dude. He has good pics + a good bio though, which helps a ton. If you're facially attractive and have good pictures I believe you'll manage to get a few dates as well, though if you want casual sex only it might be more difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 10:41 PM
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The last time I outright rejected a man he sexually assaulted me (touched my boobs + vagina) and told me I wanted it because ''all girls want him''. He knew I had a boyfriend and didn't care. It happened when I was 18 and it has made me wary of rejecting men ever since. I know my situation is extreme and not common, but it happens to enough women that it's a concern.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 10:35 PM
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Lots of men are naturally skinny... my bf is one of them. The only sport he does is kayaking and running once a week maximum. He hates the gym. No need to be a high level athlete to be skinny, you mostly have to watch what you eat and not be a couch potato.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 02:18 AM
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What's your definition of nerd and what's its opposite?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 01:07 AM
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Literally all of them can go. Just give me Reddit + a messaging app and I'm good.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 01:03 AM
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I'm not attracted to 6 packs though, I strongly prefer lean/skinny dudes. Ofc I can only speak for myself...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 11:46 PM
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Yeah he looks like he goes to the gym minimum 6x a week... that in and of itself is unattractive (to me at least).
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 10:06 PM
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My dude just wear a dress suit with the arms rolled up and if you're cold put a cardigan on. It's literally the sexiest thing ever and makes even the least attractive dudes more attractive by default. Check out r/manhands and r/forearmporn (most of it is pretty SFW) for inspiration. A lot of women are more into hands & forearms than biceps and chests. Also... make sure you do a lot of squats and get a nice round butt. That's another thing that makes women stare at a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 10:03 PM
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I don't want to make fun of you... you are expressing very normal & healthy emotions and now you just need to communicate those to your partner because she can't read your mind. She might think you don't want a hug, for whatever reason. I don't know her, nor do I know you. The best course of action is to speak to her. Good luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 10:00 PM
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If it's your gf then you should feel comfortable asking exactly for what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 09:47 PM
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Don't care one bit. I'm frugal so I'm not impressed by the latest version of anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 06:43 PM
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Maybe you could ask her for a hug then? Is this a female friend or a girlfriend?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 06:36 PM
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Don't use too much tongue, playfully bite on her bottom lip (not too hard!!!! I cannot stress this enough) to escalate things, touch her face gently when you kiss her and play with her hair. Also just in case : always close your eyes during a kiss.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 12:08 PM
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Don't worry, we know exactly what a lot of men think of us. Dumb ass bitches that they keep around just to fuck. Thankfully not all men are like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 12:05 PM
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Not weird!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 08:43 PM
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Go to that sub for inspiration : r/manhands
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 08:42 PM
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So childfree men can't be Chads?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 08:29 PM
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I love brown eyes <3 Green and brown are my fave colors, I'm not a fan of blue and grey eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 08:27 PM
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Really depends on how young/old we're talking here. I'm dating a man 9 years older than I am and I'm barely noticing any difference at all with men my own age (I'm 24). There is no sugar daddy thing going on, we practically graduated at the same time and I'm even making more money than him (not that it matters). I'm also attracted to older men that are in their 40s/early 50s and I would not hesitate to make the first move in the right circumstances. I might be in the minority though.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 10:32 PM
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Yeah I prefer to date men that are in my league. However if we met in person and really clicked and I get all the positive signs he's into me... then why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 08:09 PM
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Good job! I'm at 146 now, with the goal being around 130.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 03:46 PM
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I think it's similar to how women view sleeping around past 25 for both sexes - it's mainly seen as immature, which is not an attractive quality in a LTR partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 03:42 PM
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I'm into it. I would try to shorten it a bit but otherwise it's great. I like that you have more feminine/neutral interests because it means we have more in common than if you were into idk wrestling, hunting and car racing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 02:43 PM
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I've rarely heard men being critical of other men's sexual habits unless they're predatory/creepy, but then again I don't know how dudes interact when there are no women around. I feel like most adult men would be indifferent to men who sleep around more than anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 02:37 PM
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Most men wouldn't want to date a female freeloader in this economy. What planet do you live on? Rent costs 2k+ in a lot of places and the vast majority of people cannot afford to live on their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 10:39 PM
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It's gonna come up eventually anyway at some point.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 10:32 PM
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A lot of popular tattoos are of meaningless shit like a sundae or a paper airplane or a quote in Chinese when the person is the whitest white lol Am I at least allowed to find those a bit cringe?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 11:36 AM
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It's so weird. I had never heard of this outside of PPD before.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 11:31 AM
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I've had a FFM threesome, the guy seemed to thouroughly enjoy himself! I'm sure most men would do it if they were offered and both women were attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 01:27 PM
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How is that any worse than men with the same fantasy but with two women?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 01:21 PM
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I would if they were both bi honestly like this is a dream come true 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 12:53 PM
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I fully agree with all those points. However I literally see no men talking about it except for a few people on the Internet. It'd be great to see men speak out against circumcision and for them to challenge how we as a society see men who need help. I am all for male victims seeking the support they need and I am all for men taking the initiative to build male rape victims shelters or male domestic violence shelters. I see you and I stand by you. Know that many women think like me and you're no…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 12:41 PM
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The way I see it is that there are different types of friends. Best friends, work friends, old friends that you see 4 times a year because they're busy with family life and work and hobby friends who you only see when practising your hobby.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 12:16 PM
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I thought I was a picky eater because my parents hated all sorts of seasoning and cooked bland food 9 times out of 10. Then I went to my Mexican friends' and ate everything there because it tasted great. Actually I love meat and vegetables when they're properly cooked + seasoned. <3
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 12:01 PM
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Same here. TMI probably but from experience it's also not fun in the bedroom when the guy is way taller because it can make some positions awkward. I'd say the ideal height for a man to me is 5'10. Tall enough, but not too tall so as to tower over me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 11:58 AM
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I personally have zero problem with men building/managing male-only hospitals if they so wish but I think it would be an extreme minority of males who would actively be in favor of that. Most people just want someone to treat them at the end of the day, regardless of sex, race or religious beliefs. Since most healthcare workers are female (which has almost always been the case anyway, we're only now noticing a spike in female doctors in recent years), I wonder how they'll recruit all the male nu…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 11:51 AM
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Most young reckless drivers are male (you can get a license at 16). Young men are more likely to kill themselves than young women. Young men are more likely to die by accident because they are risk takers and young women are risk-averse. This is true even among children and adolescents. I think you get the picture. I doubt it's because female doctors "don't treat men correctly" or whatever agenda you think they have.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 11:16 AM
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The gender life expectancy gap can primarily be explained by thr fact that men are on average more reckless and tend to take more risks and work in more dangerous conditions than women. Women also typically look after their health/diet more and are less likely to be addicted to alcohol, cigarette or drugs. Those are all important factors. But sure let's just blame it on female doctors lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 10:40 AM
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Annnnd this is why I hire someone to clean my place 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 09:22 PM
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I'm sorry but if the husband is losing sleep over some things on a counter he probably has deeper issues that would need to be professionally addressed. This is not normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 09:10 PM
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That's been my stance with my partner who is more of a clean freak than I am. If he would have his way we would do chores pretty much every day but he's calmed down a bit and we're down to once a week which is more manageable. He does most of it and I pay for a cleaning lady once a month on top of that. It works well for us.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 09:04 PM
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I have the exact same issue with my boyfriend but he's the one with the higher standards for cleanliness. As such I've decided to hire a cleaning lady once a month to help and we don't have arguments about chores anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 08:50 PM
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The fact that you have a deep voice is even better lol Hope you meet your match :)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 07:32 PM
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Pretty sure he won't respond cause he'll only embarrass himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 11:16 AM
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A lot of people here think asexuals don't exist (I'm not one of them). What do you say to that?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 10:38 AM
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I compliment men that I'm not attracted to on their appearance fairly often. 😅 I'm someone who compliments people a lot in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 12:45 AM
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It's very specific but I guess that looks great!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 12:44 AM
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Start your own company!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 12:00 AM
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You're assuming that the 'pump and dump' guys know how to make their partners come, but it's not always the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 11:59 PM
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Out of curiosity, do you see a woman complimenting you as a sign of interest?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 11:57 PM
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Physically, I love long hair on men and I prefer when they have little to no body hair - whether it's how they just are or because they shave doesn't matter. I appreciate it when men have a good fashion sense and when they're willing to rock bold/bright colors or cute patterns. I love love love smaller/dainty hands on men! In terms of behavior I enjoy the company of men who are nurturing, soft spoken and a bit submissive in the bedroom. I have never found it weird or off-putting for men to cry i…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 11:40 PM
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I mean most serial killers are ugly af. I'm fascinated by morbid stuff and I watch regular police shows too, I think I just enjoy a good mystery/drama and the fact that it's real makes it even more chilling.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 01:29 PM
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Well the older men are more likely to have baggage such as ex-wives, kids, a mortgage, etc etc. Not all young women would be equipped to deal with that (nor do they want to), so having sex with no strings attached sounds like a good option. I'm pretty sure the men in question are happy to be getting any kind of attention from 20 somethings.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 01:04 AM
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Frankly I don't. The best looking one is the one on the far left imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 11:15 PM
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That was a good one, I'm just notorious for not noticing jokes :')
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 09:15 PM
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r/RoleReversal seems right up your alley. I'm not saying that in a mean sarcastic way just in case it seemed that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 09:13 PM
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In the meantime you can do basic kegel exercises. It can't be bad for you. Google it if you don't know what I mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 08:51 PM
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Are you a role reversal fan by any chance?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 08:49 PM
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Have you looked into seeing a phyisiotherapist? Where I'm from you don't need a doctor's referral. I hope you find a solution!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 08:30 PM
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Cool story bro. If you were truly making millions you wouldn't be wasting your time on that sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 08:14 PM
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I can't take you seriously because you willingly chose to pay 200k for a damn car. LMAO (10/10 trolling my dude btw)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 08:00 PM
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Usually people with that mentality tend to be abusive and manipulative. I sincerely hope that's not your case.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 07:16 PM
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I've always found tipping to be dumb because it doesn't require more effort to bring meals that cost more than ones that cost less and yet I'm supposed to give you a percentage of what I bought? Ridiculous. I'd rather give a flat rate tip every time or literally anything else (like increasing their wages).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 07:10 PM
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I add chocolate chips only on top !
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 06:48 PM
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I add chocolate chips only on top !
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 06:26 PM
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Your last sentence is nothing but the truth. If I'm really into a man I want to get off the app ASAP usually.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 04:34 PM
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I mean Tom Cruise is probably one of the best looking 61 year old men around. Your average 61 year old doesn't look like that. (I say this as a woman who prefers older men by the way, I'm not jealous or anything lol)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 04:29 PM
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I went on a hike near a waterfall 1h away from home and I baked some banana bread!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 04:25 PM
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That's why you need to get off the platform ASAP and plan a face-to-face meeting, or at least text her on her number/Whatsapp/Snap/Messenger. Anything but the OLD platform where she's inundated by other men's messages and thus more likely to ignore you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 04:24 PM
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Artificial wombs come with a monetary cost, though. Only rich peeps will have access to them (in the beginning at least, might be different hundreds of years from now). I'm pretty sure poor (aka middle class, lower middle class and everything below) mothers will still birth children the old-fashioned way because they can barely afford a mortgage and are most likely living paycheck to paycheck. Also your assumptions seem to be pretty anti-choice. A lot of women are not career-oriented and a lot o…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 04:15 PM
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I would absolutely tend to agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 04:10 PM
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Do you count women in there as well or does it just count when there's a dick involved? ''If the dicks were small enough'' leads me to believe that you think dicks can stretch out the vagina which... oof. Not even gonna go there champ. At this point do gigantic dildos count?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 04:09 PM
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Absolutely, because it seems like we have similar values. I'm 24 and have 30k in savings (nowhere near as much as the hypothetical dude but a decent amount for my age imo), next to no debt and I am planning on retiring early as well, but from my calculations it would be more around 45 than 33. I would LOVE that actually, it's an ideal scenario for me because I have disposable income that I'd like to use on travel and other leisure activities. I also don't want kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 04:06 PM
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You seem to be operating under the assumption that there is no biological drive for women to be more attuned to the baby's needs and to "force" her to bond with it. A mother will produce more prolactin and oxytocin during pregnancy and her brain will literally change during which again serves as a mechanism of bonding with her offspring. Furthermore the same hormones are being released when the mom breastfeeds. This is how we evolved. It's only been a couple of years in recent history where men …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 02:27 PM
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Because some people care more about animals than humans. There's no other explanation. They will say something like "it's not the animal's fault, it's the owner's fault" and yet bad owners of every breed exist but you don't see golden retrievers going crazy at the same rate. All breeds have core traits that define them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 01:37 PM
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This is the first time I've heard of someone bringing their friend to tag along on a date. Ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 01:23 PM
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What's the cut-off number between being a nice prude vs a mean slut? I'm curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 01:19 PM
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My friend works in graphic design and she barely makes 20 bucks an hour, in Canada so that's even less in US dollars. Not all who graduate with an art degree will be successful or even find a job in their field. It might be better to find another job and do freelance work on the side. I'm glad that some people are doing well though, good for them. However I would encourage people to be more realistic about the actual job market in art. An acquaintance with an art history degree found that out th…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 04:30 AM
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I don't want to hijack your comment because it's a good reply and I agree, but a unibrow is extremely easy to fix and can 100% make a difference for the better in the looks department whether you're male or female. Buy a tweezer and pluck those hairs (or get some Nair, or wax it). It's done in less than 10 minutes. Of course no one should be shamed for it but it's one of the easiest "fix its" ever, like brushing one's hair or trimming one's beard. (Unibrows are sexy for some cultures, sure, but …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 04:06 AM
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That's right around average.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 03:54 AM
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Mental illness (especially depression, BPD and anxiety) seems to affect more women than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 11:49 PM
1

Yep it's happened a couple of times when the waiter/waitress was rude but I usually always tip at least 15% and 18% if it was exceptional service.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 10:56 PM
1

I would feel weirded out cause he doesn't want kids 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 10:25 PM
1

I believe there are other sites similar to Omegle. I've had some good conversations on there too!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 07:25 PM
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Most rapists aren't spending a day in jail so I highly doubt a groper would. Groping someone can't be proved in most cases anyway. Both are assault though.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 11:24 AM
1

Do you also drink vinegar? (I do it)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 11:02 PM
2

If you go to the dead bedroom sub you'll see plenty of HLF aka high libido females stuck with low libido males, unfortunately. A lot of LTRs/marriages end up in dead bedrooms it seems.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 10:35 PM
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I talk about finances, the state of the world, movies and shows, politics, nerdy stuff (besides video games), work, gym/fitness, food and drinks, relationships and plenty of other topics with men all the time. Do you think women only talk about make-up and guys they find cute? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 10:29 PM
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Most 18 year olds look like kids with their puffy cheeks and acne. I feel like the best range is between 22-30 years old. (I'm a bi woman who's 24 for reference)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 08:23 PM
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If all you want from women is to fuck them then you're right, 18-24 might always be for you. Just be prepared to pay the price because once you start declining in looks (most men start balding by 30 and lots of them have a beer gut and not ideal physique, this ain't limited to women) not a lot of young women will prefer you. However most people on this Earth want to have genuine connection with other humans, with intimacy, love, romance and commitment, maybe even children and a mortgage, so they…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 12:56 PM
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I mean women who are 18-24 can be pretty... dense and superficial. A lot of them are in their party/hoe phase. That's all I meant. And tbh the older you get the more you realize that hotness isn't everything especially if you want a relationship to last and go deeper than fuckbuddies.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 11:17 AM
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Maybe young women who expect to be treated like princesses are offended but most average women past the age of 25 don't give a damn about the location of the date if it's within their interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 10:44 AM
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Well she must have extremely low self-esteem then :/
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 10:23 PM
1

Ooooh I say come to Quebec you will probably love it - lots of beautiful women as well. I highly recommend Sherbrooke/Magog which is somewhat closer to the boarder. If you need any more recs you can DM me I love hyping up my province lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 06:12 PM
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Québec City is famous for looking like an old European city if you're into that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 06:06 PM
1

Wellllll she might want a MMF threesome at some point. Would you be alright with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 08:40 PM
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They most likely have sex on their minds when being so overt, yeah. Like I get it at some point they will make a clear move but I'd rather assess whether they're interesting to talk to first.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 07:43 PM
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Less likely. I prefer when their intent is not disclosed in the very first message. There's not much to say to that either. Thanks? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 07:37 PM
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I specified I prefer men that are 10 to 15 years older. Maybe re-read my comment. My dad is 65, he had me at 41. 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 07:14 PM
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This is 100% my experience. I'm 24 and have a stable job + savings and plans for my future. Men my age are often living with parents, still in school or just not taking life seriously, so I tend to prefer older men for that reason (older being 10-15 years older, I don't think I would consider more than that).
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 06:47 PM
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A, I'm already dating an older man and prefer older men in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 10:51 AM
1

95 pounds seems quite low unless you're like 5'0 or below tbh. What's your goal?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 12:22 AM
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It's normal for your weight to plateau for a while, maybe around a month... so you might just need an adjustment. A higher muscle mass will increase your BMR which means you'll burn more calories at rest. So I would suggest going that route. Build that muscleee!!! Since you're a woman you don't need to worry about 'bulking too much'. You'd need to be a high level athlete or take testosterone for it to be quite noticeable ime. If that doesn't work I guess there's always fasting for extended perio…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 10:28 PM
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A few things to consider : Are you eating enough protein? Are you short? If so you might need to reduce your daily calories more than average (so eat 1000 cals in deficit) Are you currently considered a healthy BMI but you want to go lower? The lower you want to go, the harder it will be to lose weight. Your period can make you gain +/- 5 lbs Intermittent fasting helped me a lot to reduce my caloric intake
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 09:48 PM
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Suki is quite hot imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 09:08 PM
1

If it gets very long and thick I prefer that he at least trims it down but I've never asked him to shave completely.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 09:07 PM
1

Yep.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 09:04 PM
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That's my real answer too.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 04:05 PM
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Stay far away from her then haha
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 02:53 PM
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I don't want to jump to conclusions but I've heard way too many stories of male colleagues being friendly with certain female coworkers only to later confess their feelings/desire to have sex to said coworkers. Some women would rather break off a friendship early than get to that point since it can get awkward if you're forced to interact with them on a daily basis at work no less. Maybe the guy made a move on her and you'll never know because neither of them wants to talk about it. In any case …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 02:44 PM
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That was my first thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 11:30 PM
1

All I can say is you look pretty good based on this picture alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 11:28 PM
1

I'm pleasantly surprised by it. I didn't expect much from it and I watched it without expecting it to be an exact replica of the cartoon and thus wasn't as disappointed as I could've been. It's nowhere near the godawful 2010 movie. The costumes, CGI and make-up aside from two weird wigs are pretty dope and the casting is spot-on especially for Aang, Ozai and Sokka imo. The atmosphere feels true to the original, with some liberties being taken which I enjoyed - watching a carbon copy of the carto…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 11:24 PM
2

A villain with one of the best redemption arcs on TV imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 11:10 PM
3

Do you deny that people with next to no libido exist?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 01:15 PM
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Whether you believe in asexuality as a valid identity is your prerogative but you can't deny that some people have a nearly nonexistent libido. Some people could go without sex for years, some people are deeply traumatised by sex, etc etc. They are asexual ''in practise'' without labelling themselves as such. I 100% agree that not everyone in a relationship is in love, that's quite clear from all the relationships imploding left and right lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 12:52 PM
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How would you explain asexuals who fall in love?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 12:40 PM
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I don't mind insecure men as long as they don't constantly complain about their insecurities. I have some as well and I'm actively working on them in order to boost my self-esteem and I would expect a partner to do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 12:35 PM
2

If she's mid-looking then most women are ugly :')
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 12:00 AM
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Yep. Students even approach employees and vice versa. I speak from experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 10:06 PM
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I feel like this girl simply enjoyed the attention she got but didn't actually intend on going somewhere with it. There are also a lot of women who are super friendly with their male friends in a way that most people would associate with bf/gf behavior. They usually don't know that they come off that way (or pretend like they don't lol). I know a couple of women like that, all of them have their male friends convinced they're showing interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 10:02 PM
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I mean yeah they are attractive, the same way that female celebrities with lots of make-up and work done are. I'm an average woman looking for average men, I know how hard it is to maintain a 6 pack and be the top 5% of physically fit men. I'm not looking for that in a partner, 'cause I know he would have to go to the gym 6 days a week and eat clean 100% of the time lol Not my type of guy at all. I strongly prefer lean/skinny types anyway. He just needs to have nice hands and a round booty + nic…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 01:35 PM
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That alone is extremely weird :/ I hope all goes well.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 02:34 AM
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I'm sorry :/ it certainly doesn't look good. I feel like you're probably both young (early/mid 20s at most) right? Or I hope so haha
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 09:14 PM
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You need to have a talk with her. Are you in the early stages?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 09:16 PM
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Honestly as a woman I think this advice is pretty spot on but I would encourage OP to keep one "cute" pic where he smiles and looks at the camera. However the rest is 👌
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 09:12 PM
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The men in question aren't starved for affection, they're starved for pussy. This isn't the same thing as being lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 07:49 PM
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I'm glad I don't like red meat.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 05:50 PM
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What's your take on why men have oneitis syndrome? I'm very curious to understand that part of male sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 05:38 PM
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Not creepy. I work at a university and I have trouble distinguishing between 1st years (18-19) and people doing their Master's (23-25). They often look pretty similar.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 05:08 PM
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I like all body types on men except for overweight and obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 12:41 PM
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I can't speak for all women but I've always preferred older men that look after themselves. I'm 24 and anything in the 30-55 range could be quite attractive to me depending on style and level of fitness. However I'm not a fan of bald men and huge guts, so it removes a lot of options from those age categories.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 08:48 PM
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Well if he were in a dead bedroom or an abusive relationship for years I would be more understanding. Ofc it doesn't excuse cheating but it's a better reason than typical ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 11:20 PM
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Can we know why the friend cheated? That will change my answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 10:56 PM
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Wellllll none of my straight partners wanted to :/ My bf who is super comfortable with his sexuality and has even admitted to a few "crushes" on men won't do it so I just don't think it's realistic. Maybe I'm just dating the wrong guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 09:57 PM
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Some men are like that as well. I had a casual thing going on with a friend and I had to end it because he became jealous and wanted more. Sometimes feelings get involved when intimacy, chemistry and good sex are on the table. Consider it a risk of having casual sex just as much as getting someone pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 11:31 AM
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Yes and I would be open to MMF threesomes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 09:29 PM
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I mean, in my fantasies the people are indeed consenting. I don't have non-con fantasies.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 11:04 AM
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They're both what I would consider cute but not hot. They're quite attractive indeed imo (like in the 8+ range).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 11:02 AM
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Not OP but I'm curious to know who these men are according to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 01:29 AM
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6
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 01:26 AM
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I've never seen this point of view before but it's interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 12:58 AM
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I'm a woman and I have masturbated to the thought of friends before (male and female). It's called finding people hot/having a crush. No one's harmed unless you go around telling people you masturbate to them. Please don't equate that to rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 10:38 PM
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If he keeps it to himself I won't mind (because I don't know) but telling me would be weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 10:28 PM
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Yikes. There really are men who fetishize near-underweight women. I see it everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 09:51 AM
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Coming from a woman, if we genuinely like you as a friend we won't think it's creepy unless you're confessing while we're in a relationship or have trouble understanding our cues that mean we're not interested. I would also wait at least a couple of months before confessing because it can come across as desperate to say you have feelings right away in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 11:20 AM
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Men do sex work too though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 10:43 PM
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I doubt it. OF girls tend to be pro-sex work at large and some of them do other types of sex work outside of OF.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 10:07 PM
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Exactly!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 08:27 PM
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Almost all of my relationships/crushes were my friends first. In fact I think I struggle to be truly attracted to someone I'm not friends with first. The attraction to someone I don't know well will be shallow and not genuine which means I will move on quickly from it and it might disappear the moment they do something that gives me "the ick". That doesn't happen with friends. When I truly like someone as a friend and find them attractive on top of that, my attraction tends to grow with time and…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 06:01 PM
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Do yourself a favor and don't have kids with this man-child. Please.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 01:06 PM
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I'm 24 and I have more friends who don't want them than friends who do want them. I also don't want them unless I'm dating someone that already has children - I wouldn't mind the step-mom role.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 01:01 PM
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They date and live together, just... without getting married? People are legally considered to be partners (on the same level as married couples except for a few legal differences) after having lived at the same home while being in a relationship for a year. My parents were never married and they've been together for decades. I don't think their relationship would be much different if they were married.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 02:18 AM
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Yeah if he sucks at everything maybe he's just too lazy to put in the effort to get better.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 02:03 AM
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I care about my partner being passionate about something - anything really, but he doesn't need to be super good at it. I hope he's at least able to keep a stable job because otherwise that'd be a red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 02:01 AM
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In my culture it's not the norm to get married. It's never been something that I've desired much honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 01:47 AM
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Interesting! I'll check that out.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 09:07 PM
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Not a lot of guys read erotica. If you're comfortable answering what type of erotica do you read and on which platform? (Just being curious lol)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 05:25 PM
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Yeah just don't overdo it. "You're the most gorgeous woman I've been on a date with" is cringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 04:58 PM
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Your friend is 100% NTA. The girlfriend's expectations are too high. If she wanted something specific she should have been clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 04:55 PM
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It doesn't physically make sense for a woman who just gave birth to get back to work immediately. Her body needs to recover for a certain period of time before it's ready. It's crazy to hear that in some places in America you get back to work after two weeks. I strongly doubt most women would actively want that. Most women at that stage want to be with their newborn all the time if they can (unless dealing with PPD - post partum depression or some other condition). Where I live (Quebec) daycare …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 12:36 PM
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My take is that staying at home part time with the kid(s) while working part time would be the best of both worlds. The woman gets to keep her career (it would be even better if the government could compensate the loss of two days spent at home but I know that's unrealistic) and the kids get to interact more with their mom, which is good for their early development. In many countries, including mine (Canada), moms get one year of maternity leave and I believe that should be the minimum. Not all …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 12:04 PM
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Would you say that homeschooling also does that? Personally I was raised by a SAHM for the first five years of my life and I don't see much of a difference between myself and my peers today. I'm also an only child so I didn't get to experience growing up with siblings.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 11:56 AM
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That's why I specified partner, meaning someone you've already established a relationship with, whether casual or more serious. Do you only look at their faces? I'm curious!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 01:24 PM
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Have you never liked a specific body part on your partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 10:57 AM
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I mean I'm pretty sure most women find a round ass more appealing than... no ass. 😂 I don't associate it with femininity any more than leg training. What would be feminine for a guy from my perspective is wearing make-up or dressing in a feminine way. Liking yoga and meditation sounds pretty dope. I'm a bi switch so maybe that explains why I'm not put off by some "effeminate" traits, but honestly I feel like most people are a blend of masc/fem with men tending towards masculinity more and women …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 10:54 AM
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She might be a 5 simply because she doesn't tick the right boxes for him. Some men are quite specific about what they like - for example with hair color or breast size.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 12:02 AM
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This has not been my experience as a woman. Lots of men sit next to me on the bus, some even attempt to talk to me (I'm usually not in the mood at 7 AM though). I also don't mind sitting next to anyone on the bus. Taking the bus has made me throw away the concept of personal space for my 45 min ride.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 11:57 PM
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Oh I'm well aware hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 09:32 PM
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I mean a size eight can be 100% healthy depending on height, body fat %, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 11:49 AM
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That's sad to read :( I'm 24 with a 33 year old but have a decent amount of friends and have no problem making more. Guys my age are interested in me as well but I'm (usually) not. All of this to say that your issues seem to stem from within and might have nothing to do with the age gap in your relationship. Idk if you think it's worth it but maybe talk to a therapist about this or if you're more proactive just join some type of club/hobby group and make friendly connections. Good luck <3
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 11:44 AM
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"Rapists, stop raping us" would work just fine too.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 11:14 AM
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Drinking lots of water, moisturizing everyday and never sleeping with wet hair. Also getting a haircut that compliments your face shape and teeth whiteners.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 02:03 AM
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I like things that have a strong taste, like black coffee or spicy stuff, and alcohol is like that. Put some juice in it and it becomes even better, plus it acts as a social lubricant and makes parties a lil more fun. I drink maybe... once or twice a month.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 10:52 PM
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I was supposed to but mine is closed due to a holiday :( (I will go tomorrow instead)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 10:47 PM
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I've heard of some women not wanting them because in their minds they're more likely to be promiscuous and cheat. (I am not turned off by bi men myself...would be quite hypocritical of me)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 10:46 PM
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Yep! Mostly Chatroulette.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 10:42 PM
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Erik. I don't want kids of my own and I would love to move to Europe. I couldn't date a religious person also.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 08:11 PM
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Not all women think that it's bad for friends to develop sexual attraction or romantic feelings for them. However, most women will be turned off if those friends hit on them even if they're in a relationship or if they can't take no for an answer. Two of my relationships started out as friendships and most of my crushes were on friends. I need to have a deep connection with someone before I want to sleep with them in most cases. I've also slept with one of my friends but he wanted more while I d…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 01:31 PM
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I don't care as long as it's not an addiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 01:14 PM
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Cloud. I'm a r/linkiscute gal.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 12:48 PM
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I think it's true that some women are like that, but I think there's a simpler explanation for why your girl is unsure about pursuing a LTR with you : you live in different countries and being in a relationship with you would mean one or both of you would need to uproot their lives if you wish to be together, and she might not be ready for that for various reasons. LDRs are messy by default so it doesn't surprise me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 11:51 PM
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Super comfortable. I need to be because we have period sex. I'm also an oversharer with people I feel comfortable with.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 11:17 PM
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What about women that date partners that make less than them? Are they still gold diggers somehow?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 11:08 PM
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Do you have reading comprehension issues? Looking at someone for 5 seconds is not staring or leering, I am not even looking up and down nor am I trying to establish eye contact nor anything threatening. If she's (or he's) standing right in front of me with tight pants I will notice yeah, I have functioning eyes. I'm tired of people thinking literally everything under the sun is sexual harassment. As someone who's actually been sexually harassed and assaulted, it trivializes real creepy/threateni…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 04:12 PM
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I've never made anyone uncomfortable by looking their way for 5 seconds - if you read my post I said looking and nothing about staring/leering. I do not appear as a threat to women as I am a feminine woman myself. Most straight women won't even think about the possibility that I'm thinking naughty thoughts about them (i.e. "wow nice ass"). If you found out that the woman next to you found you attractive would you really feel threatened/grossed out automatically? That says more about you than it …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 03:51 PM
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I know other women will hate me for this probably but I'm bisexual and I cannot help noticing women when they wear booty shorts and bras at the gym just like I can't help but notice when a man rolls up his sleeves to show his arms or has tight pants with a nice ass. I look at attractive people alllllll the time and I shouldn't be made to feel guilty for just looking - not staring, not commenting, not touching, just looking. Like sorry boo if you think people "shouldn't notice you" but you're bei…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 03:24 PM
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Does it count audio porn and Reddit because that's the way I consume it?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 01:42 PM
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This is very much surface-level talk like "are you an ass or boob guy"? This is rather safe to answer. However, if your friends had kinks that were considered out of the norm (like being a sub man) I don't think they would tell you so eagerly.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 01:37 PM
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This is really sad because it doesn't reflect the real world at all. Barring some exceptions, most couples I know are somewhat close in terms of income and social standing. I don't see many doctors (or equivalent) dating cashiers or waitresses, I see them dating women with PhD's, Masters or at least a Bachelor's or some type of education (I work at a university). Most men tell me they may find a woman hot but if she's dumb or can't hold a conversation that attraction disappears. "When she opens …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 01:30 PM
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My partner (male, 33) also cares about his partner being educated and generally being able to hold a conversation on various topics. We work in the same field and I make more than him (like ~20k) which has never been a problem in our relationship. He says that he likes that I'm not just some cashier working odd hours and he would not want a LTR with a woman who lacks drive/ambition. I understand that for some men a cashier might be the best looking, funniest woman around, but if he's a doctor, l…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 12:43 PM
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You read about it, you talk to people who have experience, you watch videos... DM me if you want specifics.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 12:30 PM
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I have no clue but I'm in the same boat.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 04:40 AM
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Full head of hair but clean shaven. (Also... some guys with thinning hair look hot too!)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 04:36 AM
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I really like tying up my partner and biting them (or them biting me) + getting my ass slapped but that's it. The choking part is scary to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 04:32 AM
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Don't mention it at first, but make sure you know what you're doing and are willing to learn what she's into... then if you prove you're good it won't matter that you're actually inexperienced.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 04:22 AM
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Those were my exact same thoughts. Poor woman :(
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 04:15 AM
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I'd love to do a similar experiment with women and men to see how my attracion differs between the sexes. (Also work at a university haha)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 04:12 AM
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To me FWB is a step above casual because in many cases you go on dates and have a friendly connection with them and the only thing that distinguishes that relationship from a monogamous "normal" one is the lack of exclusivity and commitment/responsibility. Like idk about you but I've always been friends with my FWBs which implies a deep connection.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 03:14 AM
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Some women may want that, sure. Honestly even if I could have casual sex with hot dudes I don't think I would want it because I require some type of connection to them before I want to fuck. It doesn't mean I need to be in love or even that I need to think of them as a potential partner, but I need to be aroused with my brain before my panties get wet, ya feel? That typically takes more than one night to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 05:35 PM
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Absolutely, I agree! I tend to gravitate towards older people for friendships for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 05:27 PM
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What do y'all think about friendship between men and women, and specifically when there's a significant age gap (around 15 years)? Just curious to hear different opinions on the topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 05:20 PM
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I don't think many men nowadays would like being in a relationship with a woman who makes minimum wage, because you need two decent incomes to buy property (or even rent a nice place) in most Western countries. Plus if they want to have a family, it typically requires two decent incomes as daycare is expensive and most couples cannot afford to have a stay at home mom. Sure they're not looking for a woman who makes more than them, but I doubt men would choose the woman who makes minimum wage at a…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 04:27 PM
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Yes but you have to come up with a valid reason why, because if you get hired and you give them your info they might become suspicious as they will see your real name and the name on the job application/resume don't match. If your name is something from pop culture or hard to pronounce I would go for a similar name or nickname or use your middle name instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 03:59 PM
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What do you want with these women exactly? To have one date that ends up with sex and then you both ghost each other? Most women past a certain age don't want that, like at all. First it opens the door to STIs and unwanted pregnancies but it also opens the door to bad sex for us in a lot of cases. Unless you're perpetually going after 18-24 year olds it's never going to be like that forever. In any case you can avoid feeling like an ATM by prioritizing low cost dates and always splitting the bil…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 01:12 PM
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I mean personally I don't mind dates that don't cost a lot because I'm a saver so... win-win? I would prefer a coffee date to a McDonald's one but that's simply because of the differences in the menus not the price. I much much prefer someone starting with a non-expensive date than going to an expensive place and realizing halfway through that you're not a match and then I have to pay 50+ bucks (I always split the bill if not interested in a second date out of respect).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 12:45 PM
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Old men who groom themselves well and stay in shape are extremely hot. I'm 24 and would rather date a 40 year old than a guy my age. I will admit that 50 is too old for me though, since at that point it would start to become too close to my dad's age, however I might find him hot anyway. One of my professors was 62 and I thought he looked smoking hot. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 12:04 PM
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Well women past their 20s/early 30s aren't going to want to keep doing this forever. At some point most people get the urge to settle down and have babies, or at least get in a serious long term relationship, regardless of their wild past. You don't have to date them if you don't want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 11:52 AM
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So most men want 10s regardless of how they themselves look? Isn't that part of the problem in and of itself?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 11:34 AM
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I like some anime and video games but it's not my main hobbies. I'm also a Star Wars fan and I play MTG occasionally. I'm mostly into board games, the gym and outdoor activities. Maybe you should go after someone like me who enjoys your interests without having it as their number one hobby/personality trait.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 11:04 AM
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Board games nights are the best! In my experience a lot of people there organize their own at their place, so you might get invited to one at some point.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 10:56 AM
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She may want to sleep with you, but deep down want more because you are of higher value than the guys she used to hookup with. I hooked up with a coke addict once. It was one of the worst experiences I've ever had, in all the ways you can imagine - the sex wasn't even good. I would never ever settle down with a coke addict. I've only done two one night stands - this one and another with a perfectly normal guy and after I was left unsatisfied by the normal guy I was attracted to, I concluded that…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 10:49 AM
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Brian is more my type of guy based on this description alone. The fact that Anthony still lives with roommates at 27 is the biggest dealbreaker, closely followed by his cockiness. He seems like a gym bro also which... ugh. No thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 10:53 AM
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​ Being healthy. This means hitting the gym at least twice a week and eating less junk food and more homecooked meals. You don't need to be jacked, you just need to look (and feel) healthy. Looking his best. This means improving his hair (getting a haircut that compliments his face shape is a plus), dressing fashionably (there are multiple subs and videos about that out there) and GROOMING. An unkempt, untrimmed beard is a turn-off to most women. Having a healthy social life. A man with no frien…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 12:56 AM
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I was called Dumbo because of my ears in primary school and I feel like being compared to an elephant would make me flinch at first, but with this reasoning I would find it cute. It's all about the reasoning behind it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 12:32 AM
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I'm not the jealous type so I wouldn't mind. I'm also bi so very likely to be attracted to her as well :')
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 12:21 AM
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Idk man a lot of people I know tell me that once kids get involved the sex (and sometimes affection too) starts to dwindle until it becomes once a month or even less than that in some cases. A lot of men aren't attracted to postpartum bodies as well - not all women's bodies "bounce back" super quickly either, or at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 10:59 PM
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Congrats dude you're above average. Like at least in the 8+ range.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 09:45 PM
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My kind of man right there!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 09:43 PM
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Are you only friends with men?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 09:39 PM
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No. My current partner had his first relationship (with me) at 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 10:55 AM
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I went on a date with a guy who gave me his number when I was working as a cashier and we had... absolutely nothing in common. He was decent looking (average to above average) but that was about it. Our conversations were not interesting and we didn't share the same interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 10:39 AM
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Ehhhh honestly I glance at a lot of people at the gym because I generally don't like staring at myself for long periods of time (there's a wall of mirrors in front of the machines). I don't think it means anything unless there's other signs of interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 08:33 PM
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I would find it weird that he's too traumatized to at least compliment me and I think I would reconsider our relationship. I'm the kind of girlfriend that gives gifts and compliments quite often in relationships and I expect the same in return.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 04:30 PM
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Most of my crushes have had brown eyes. I think brown/dark eyes are lovely in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 01:49 AM
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The only FTM celebrity I know is Elliot Page. Are there any more I'm not aware of that are fairly popular?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 01:46 AM
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I'm a woman and I'm exactly like you to a T and my current partner was a friend for around a year and a half before we got together. I've had many crushes on friends as well and they tend to be way more intense than crushes on strangers/near strangers because we have things in common for starters and enjoy each other's personalities. All of that to say that I don't think there's anything wrong with it. As long as you're respectful of their own feelings/boundaries and you take rejection well (if …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 09:39 PM
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As a counterpoint, you're also only 23 and 6'1''. A quick Google search shows that a healthy weight for a 6'1'' male would be around 166 pounds to 202 pounds. So assuming you'd want to be on the high end of healthy (as a first goal), you would need to lose around 80 something pounds, which could take you around 10 months to lose in a healthy manner. (Btw I'm also currently on a weight loss journey and wish you the best, if you need tips you can DM me)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 01:39 PM
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A well-groomed beard can absolutely enhance some men's beauty in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 01:25 PM
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I think it depends on how we define 'age gaps'. I'm in an age gap relationship myself (my partner is 9 years older than me) and I feel like they're relatively common but not as common as partners being close in age. Huge age gaps (20+ years between partners) aren't common though.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 08:30 PM
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A lot of bisexual men prefer relationships with women and only fuck dudes casually.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 07:51 PM
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There's two different types of IUDs, one with hormones and one without (the copper one). Personally I have the copper one and it makes my periods heavier and more painful but it's the only form of birth control I can stand because I cannot take any hormones due to medical issues. I don't have any experiences with hormonal birth control as I've never taken any and don't intend on taking any in my entire life if I can avoid it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 11:16 PM
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Honestly I would be perfectly content with that house. I just want to be able to own a house, any house lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 05:32 PM
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Being physically stronger means that one can defend themselves more easily in case they're in an abusive relationship or in case of assault, which sadly happens to a lot of women (and men, I am not forgetting about them, but again they are typically at an advantage physically in a hetero setting). I don't think you're aware of the extent of the damage that a woman can potentially sustain after pregnancy. I've heard of some women developing autoimmune diseases after pregnancy, or losing teeth, or…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 05:19 PM
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In the West it's easier nowadays to be a woman socially speaking. In fact I'd say in most developed countries it's easier to be a woman socially speaking. As a woman I think both women and men have to deal with sexism, but for different reasons, and it sucks to be on the receiving end of both. However, physically speaking I still think we deal with more crap than men (we're physically weaker, we have periods that can sometimes be debilitating for some women, we deal with pregnancy/childbirth and…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 01:51 PM
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I've been followed by a guy who jacked off in an empty public place while looking at me once. I was 13. It's really sad that almost all women I know have stories like that.
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