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YES
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/24 01:00 PM
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Trophy gf
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/24 04:26 PM
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Ahh so she just competes over general attention even though she doesn’t even like those kinds of men I’m attracting, interesting. I’ve never thought about that
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/24 12:10 AM
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Facially I think we are on the same level of attractiveness but I guess she became overweight over the years and I’ve maintained my weight. She’s very beautiful though and I never thought she would see me as competition. We are also not into the same men, I date predominantly black men as a black woman and she dates white men or Asian. We don’t even have the same type of men 🤣
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/24 12:01 AM
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I agree but I’ve never felt like that about friends, I can admire qualities they have but I’ve never been jealous of a friend or envious of them nor the attention they get
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/24 11:58 PM
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We are a sum of our actions and not our thoughts, thank you that was profound. No I haven’t seen anything suspicious from her in my life and I’ve known her for almost ten years. I appreciate your comment
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/24 11:13 PM
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Oh my god that’s awful, I’m sorry you went through that. Nothing worse than assuming someone is a good friend only for them to bite you in the ass when you least expect. Wow your last comment is valid, that’s why I was worried because why would any good person say they are not kind 🥹
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/24 11:12 PM
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Thank you, I appreciate your well thought out comment. I thought the exact same, she has never shown me any nastiness and bad vibes at all and has been consistently a good friend. A moment of vulnerability shouldn’t make me worried I agree ❤️
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/24 11:09 PM
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Would you continue to be friends or be wary?
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/24 11:02 PM
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Haha that’s great, honestly I need some of that luck to find me asap
/r/RedPillWomen20/01/24 01:17 AM
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Love that for you, living the dream. Manifesting this for myself ✨✨
/r/RedPillWomen20/01/24 12:16 AM
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You know what you’re absolutely right, he is completely capable of doing those things and chooses not to. He’s not even in the right mind frame as you said he just smokes and plays video games, the poor kid doesn’t even have his life sorted nor his priorities straight. The last thing that’s in his mind is doing sweet sentimental things for you. If you want him to do those those things you’re gonna be waiting a lifetime. You’re still very young, use your prime years to your advantage and find a b…
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/24 12:17 AM
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You’re absolutely right. He cannot provide those things because of his age/maturity. She needs to date an older more established man
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/24 12:11 AM
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You’re dating the wrong man
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/24 11:58 PM
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I’m a woman who isn’t a virgin and I’ve never had problems with men taking me seriously, nobody has ever asked me my body count or what I do in the bedroom. They just know i am someone who respects themselves and they have treated me accordingly. Please get off the toxic online manosphere, these things don’t happen in real life
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/24 05:19 PM
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You’re not acting like the prize, why would anyone treat you good when you have offered yourself like this. You also take no accountability in your role in this, choose better men( women are the choosers), stop sleeping with randoms. Cut them off if they’re not courting you. Lose the weight and commit to glowing up, start respecting your body and your mind. Do some inner work and stop having a victim/inferiority complex
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/24 01:17 PM
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Don’t think I’m interested in any critique from a grown man that asks different subs if his 🍆 is big or small.
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/24 12:05 AM
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Thank you, I’ll keep this in mind. You made valid points
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/24 10:06 PM
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Better leave then regret it years down the line, your body is already telling you that this relationship isn’t for you and you want more out of life. It doesn’t matter if you’re 31, what matters is knowing how destructive your life could potentially be with the wrong man. I doubt you will regret it, just know that many married women particularly on Reddit are in these awful sham marriages and most of them had a feeling something wasn’t quite right but they still settled only to regret it and end…
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/24 09:43 PM
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My sister is autistic, we just found out quite recently. She was always different but didn’t seem rude, people would often think she was shy or very reserved. She doesn’t start conversations or try to keep people engaged, if somebody was having a conversation they would have to keep it alive or she will just go back to being quiet. Sometimes she looks really uninterested and knowing what I know now I realise how hard communication is for her. She’s really struggled with friendships and hasn’t go…
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/24 06:02 PM
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I’m not worried about ageing in the slightest, I already look 9-10’years younger and so do my whole family. I cannot rush divine timing, if I meet the right candidate I will be happy to date them but I’m not gonna now rush into something that could later destruct my life in ways that are unimaginable. Perhaps give me examples of different things I could try?
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/24 05:57 PM
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I don’t care good night.
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/24 12:40 AM
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If you read carefully you would know that the things I was requiring had barely anything to do with looks but more so about morals + values. I don’t ever want to use apps, I want to meet someone organically. When I did use apps I was overwhelmed with the amount of matches I got and deleted it. Please learn to read and not get your knickers in a twist before typing all emotional and jumping to conclusions. As I said, I was looking for an older man, who is happy being a provider, has emotional int…
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/24 12:32 AM
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Yup I totally agree. I’m very self aware and know exactly what I bring to the table. I’m a slim girl who takes pride in her appearance, I work out 4/5x a week and eat very clean. I get my hair and nails done regularly and maintain myself. I read regularly and have many interests e.g painting, badminton and strength training. I love reading and acquiring different kinds of esoteric knowledge and I’ve dedicated this time to self development until I meet my person.
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/24 12:28 AM
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You’re projecting heavily here. Not once did I mention anything about a man being exceptionally handsome, I asked for very reasonable things. I am very attractive, the reason I’m single is because I got out of a relationship few months ago and I barely leave my house. Attractive ≠ taken. Clearly you have comprehension problems
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/24 12:19 AM
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You’re definitely broke and ugly, nobody wants to settle for you so cope somewhere else loser!
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/24 12:11 AM
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I’m the chooser, I actively don’t want these men.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/24 11:30 PM
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Yes I feel way more in control when I’m not having sex, I get to choose better and have clarity. Sex defo clouds your judgement and makes you feel all the love feels for a clown. I had this epiphany after I dumped my last ex 8 months ago. Exactly men will literally act like the perfect man just to have sex, well if sex is off the table let’s see if you’re really here for the right intentions.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/24 10:09 PM
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It’s always 3 months right, mine started acting up around the same. I’ve decided to never have sex during relationships now. Saving myself for marriage now x
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/24 10:05 PM
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Thank you, I agree. I’m not looking for perfection, just someone who has my non negotiables ✨
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/24 07:34 PM
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Yeah I’m okay with never marrying too. I guess I appreciate your advice but honestly I’ll be as picky as I want because ultimately the choice is mine. My looks are also not declining anytime soon, I am very very attractive and I maintain an active lifestyle (I also look about 20, women in my family just look really young). I have lots of options so do the women around me who are even older, they are being courted by affluent men daily and choose their best pick. Women are the choosers and I’ll c…
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/24 07:04 PM
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Yes, men are loved for what they can provide and women are loved for their beauty and body, isn’t that also shallow? Lmao wanting stability is shallow but a man being attracted to women and wanting her based on her looks isn’t. You sound silly as hell
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/24 06:46 PM
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If you’re unable to provide just stay single, I am not responsible for the male suicide lmao. Not you trying to guilt trip me because of my standards. I don’t care about your silly hypotheticals to make you cope. Even if you post the same comment on 100s of subreddits women are always going to want providers and if she doesn’t she’s settling. This is biology and argue with yourself.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/24 06:45 PM
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Yes women are biologically wired to want provider men, I want a man that can provide for our offspring SHOOT ME, why should I choose to struggle with a man when I can do better for myself and my future kids. Why would I bring them into an unstable home. You’re clearly in your feminine energy, you need to work on becoming masculine and stop arguing with women over there standards. Use that time to make more money kiddo
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/24 06:31 PM
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That’s your experience and I can’t invalidate that, this doesn’t mean these women want to marry you. Most people are on tinder to have fun …
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/24 06:29 PM
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There are also thousands of women on Reddit who are extremely lonely in their marriages, dysfunctional households and incompetent husbands. So this fear mongering about being lonely doesn’t really work on me because I’ve seen married women who are lonely and sad. Statistically married women are unhappier than single women. I also have no plans to date a man who cannot offer me anything in life, I do not want to “build” with anyone as I would rather just be single and take care of myself. Women w…
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/24 06:21 PM
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I love that you mentioned this because I’ve truly opened my eyes last year after watching the likes of Shera Seven and other feminine coaches I’ve realised that I must get clear on what I’m looking for, no more dating guys just because they are “cute” or make me laugh, I want to live a life where I am a kept wife and live lavishly so I need to date very selectively and mindfully. I don’t use apps anymore because I’ve noticed there are a lot of dusties on there who aren’t serious at all. The jour…
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/24 12:52 PM
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Yesss I’ve also noticed im much happier when im single, genuinely don’t want to settle for just anyone because of my age. I want to marry someone because of how compatible we are and aligned morals and values. Thank you for sharing your story
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/24 10:57 AM
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Thank you for sharing that, it’s nice to know it can work for people as long as they try and have the right mindset. No I do not have a single good marriage around me that I can look up to, nothing but dysfunctional extremely unpleasant marriages 🙁, I’m sure that adds to it.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/24 10:56 AM
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Doesn’t need to be filthy rich but knows his role as a masculine man is to provide and protect his family. Can afford to raise a household and treat his wife from time to time comfortably
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/24 03:24 AM
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This has given me a glimpse of hope, thank your sharing. Sadly we become very brainwashed by our environment, seeing the same pattern unfold over and over again has probably given me some ptsd.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/24 03:01 AM
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I ABSOLUTELY LOVE THIS. This is exactly what I’m doing, I’m taking advantage of my most selfish years, I know my life will change dramatically once I’m married and having kids. I want to read, travel, look hot and workout and go on dates with myself and just live love and laugh. I want to meet him when I am at my peak, stronger sense of self, feeling and looking my best. I left a relationship nt too long ago too so I’m still kinda healing from that mess.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/24 02:57 AM
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Thank you, glad you met your person and hopefully if i do too ❤️
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/24 02:39 AM
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Thank you I appreciate your well written out post, I don’t mind settling with minute things but I just want a generally healthy relationship. I also don’t mind dating older men but I’m not even sure where to find them. How much older would you say is a good range to find a mature man?
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/24 02:01 AM
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I respect the honesty
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/24 01:57 AM
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Wow thank you so much, I really appreciate it. ❤️❤️❤️
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/24 01:34 AM
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I’ve taken a break from dating recently after I broke up with my ex 8 months ago. I’ve decided that i wanted to focus on healing and glowing up before I can start dating again, tbh I haven’t dated after the breakup because I’ve just been working on myself. In the past it would be dates from apps or other social media, I barely go out and meet people or find what I’m looking for 🥲
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/24 01:29 AM
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Thank you so much for sharing that. I defo need to look within and figure out what I want in life, I do want a family but I want a good family. I’m scared of repeating similar family dynamics or falling into the trap I’ve observed most women around me are falling into. I’ve had two bfs and none were what I’m looking for, if I found a good man I would hold on tight but I genuinely haven’t met him yet. I guess the search goes on.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/24 01:27 AM
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I know but reading all these stories on Reddit genuinely gives me anxiety, I’ve noticed a pattern about how the guy always seemed so nice in the beginning then after marriage everything turns into a shit show
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/24 11:46 PM
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Yes, I don’t want to be a single mother. I want to break generational curses( don’t wanna marry a narcissist just like my mother ) did. I don’t want to have a man who isn’t a provider who leaves me stuck with kids and just walks away. I want a happy healthy home
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/24 11:26 PM
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By me not settling I guess I’m looking for a faithful partner, who subscribes to a traditional role, who can lead + assertive, is emotionally intelligent, isn’t a narcissist, who values family and is a provider. I don’t think I’m asking for the world, but apparently even this is hard to find according to the relationships around me.
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/24 10:46 PM
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This would give me the ick omg 😩
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/24 10:14 AM
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I would say save yourself, I definitely wish I did. You have more clarity when sex isn’t involved, you get to vet them better and more importantly you can share your body with someone who you believe deserves it.
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/23 01:22 PM
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It’s best not to just say things like this, Men are not a monolith and I’ve met divorced women who have become abstinent and found more compatible partners.
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/23 01:10 AM
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I dealt with a man like this, his family also kept gaslighting me and saying he’s under so much stress and I should just be patient. He was extremely narcissistic and abusive and his family just wanted him to get married to a good woman like me( doormat) I left shortly after. This man will NEVER change, he will cheat on you forever and if that’s something you’re willing to accept then that’s that, but don’t think for a second he will change and magically turn into the man of your dreams, this ki…
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/23 01:34 PM
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Thank you, You made so many valid points. I certainly did not spend my years rotating men at all, if anything I’ve been waiting for the right man and it hasn’t been easy after being met with the type that just want to waste your time. I guess I just need to lose myself into the right man, a man who is worthy and able to reciprocate the energy I give. My heart hasn’t hardened but I’ve been disappointed twice and it’s been tough 😩. I pray I meet him too
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/23 09:24 PM
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YESSSS I need to channel that energy into something else. I’m already addicted to the gym so I should just keep pouring into that and stick to my solid routine. Tbh I don’t want to lose all my hard work and gains just for another man anyway. I might take up swimming too. My alone time is for me, it also makes you so much more magnetic when you focus on yourself
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/23 01:16 AM
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Oh I love this mindset. I have adhd so I get addicted to the dopamine hit of texting a new lover, I’m gonna be more cautious about it. You’re so right, it s a low vibration to be waiting around and giving all your energy. I also need to work on zoning out too when they do something I don’t like, I’ve always been the person to communicate and be very straight forward but I don’t think men have ever received it well.
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/23 01:09 AM
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I definitely am because I don’t care about male validation same way you do, the only men who impress me are the high value men I attract. You’re such a loser, it’s painful to see your comments
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/23 11:47 PM
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You’re cheap and easily impressed. I never attract losers, clearly you’re happy with crumbs and anyone breathing your way. We are very different
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/23 10:57 PM
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What’s hard about understanding it’s about the quality of man not the attention itself that’s a problem. Are you going to be impressed if three drunkies said you’re not, because I sure wouldn’t
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/23 08:53 PM
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Sis I couldn’t agree more, I hate when a dusty blinks my way, I work far too hard, I’m pretty and I work out and maintain a good physique, I am classy and respect myself and I carry myself very well. In a blue moon when I do attract a low value man, who isn’t attractive/fit/clearly looks broke I get offended, what part of him thought he would ever have a chance? Is he insane? My head starts clicking 🤣
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/23 08:50 PM
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What a loser, I would leave him immediately. I’m sure he’s shown signs like this a few other times too, people also don’t change so don’t waste your valuable time
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/23 07:05 PM
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I dated a man like this, he was very insecure and made up most of the stories. Sounds like he’s trying to convince you of this and probably sees YOU as out of his league. Remember true confidence is quiet and it’s an inner radiance, it doesn’t go around reminding people how many people have hit on them. I as a fairly attractive woman get lots of attention from men but I never told my bfs/exes or anything because I’m sure they know that I’m a catch and other men will want me so … Personally I wou…
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/23 01:29 PM
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I honestly think it’s not the age but how you look and present yourself, if you’re looking good and fit men will want you regardless of your age. Also 28 is still very young, it’s not the age where we are getting overlooked however LOOKS matter to men so yeah
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/23 06:48 AM
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Bruh literally the same, men think I’m 23 and I’m turning 29 soon. As an East African I love our genes
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/23 06:47 AM
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Yup I’m rarely horny unless I’m ovulating. When I’m single I rarely think about sex and I have no care for it, but when I’m in a relationship oooofffff my mind is going crazy. I’m definitely more responsive as are many women and that doesn’t always mean we are asexual
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/23 07:31 AM
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I can only give you my personal opinion, I would leave right now whilst is early so you save yourself the heart break. The social media stuff is already triggering you, imagine what’s to come later, the fact that he’s describing other women in front of you means he lacks consideration and self awareness. He isn’t traditional which is fine but it seems like you are looking for a traditional man, why waste your time? I definitely would not want a man that expects me to work after having kids then …
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/23 04:12 AM
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Oh wow I’ve dated a man that you described in number 1, dated for 8 months. A few months after he was implying that I should take him out and the whole time he was pretending to be a provider ( I guess he wanted to win me over) anyways i left
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/23 02:44 AM
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Speaking eloquently, being kind, leaving something to the imagination when dressing, spending her time wisely
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/23 06:40 AM
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I would suggest you leave this relationship if you’re looking for a more traditional role. This would also give me the Ick, he’s showing you what his expectations are and you can’t be too surprised when he starts making these propositions in the near future. It certainly doesn’t feel romantic or special but yeah
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/23 05:22 PM
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I would suggest you leave this relationship if you’re looking for a more traditional role. This would also give me the Ick, he’s showing you what his expectations are and you can’t be too surprised when he starts making these propositions in the near future. It certainly doesn’t feel romantic or special but yeah
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/23 05:21 PM
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I’ve read somewhere that men’s penis is shaped like a mushroom to scoop out another mans sperm out of her vagina in terms of evolution. I guess we are made to have multiple mates too 👍🏾
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/23 06:40 PM
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You cannot make anyone more masculine, it’s either there or it isn’t. What you need to figure out is if this is something you can accept and work through or a complete deal breaker. I totally understand why your partner wearing a thong is a complete turn off and the fact that he is forcing you into your masculine energy isn’t it 🤮
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/23 04:39 AM
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He’s swiping right on everyone on the app and realised it’s you, that’s why he unmatched.
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/23 06:35 PM
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