enolaholmes23 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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6	Women's ability to attract men anywhere they are gives them way more freedom to do and live wherever they want. Oh my. I think you may not have realized that most of the world is dangerous for a single woman. We for sure can not just travel around in a van and do what we want without getting raped or worse.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/05/25 01:41 AM
–	The orgasm gap is because women genuinely need fantasy level attraction towards the man they’re having sex with and physical stimulation It's more that women are trained subconsciously to be sex kittens. We see it in every magazine and every movie. Very rarely is a man shown what sexy looks like. So it may be harder for them because they weren't raised that way, but we do put in work constantly. Buying lingerie, doing our hair, practicing how to stand just so in a way that looks flattering. It's a 24/7 job to women, we just rarely acknowledge it because a lot of it is hardwired in our subconscious at this point.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/25 01:55 AM
–	The orgasm gap is because women genuinely need fantasy level attraction towards the man they’re having sex with and physical stimulation I disagree. I think most married women over 40 are rarely satisfied. Media only very recently started discussing female orgasms, so couples who got married a couple decades ago never even learned about it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/25 01:52 AM
–	The orgasm gap is because women genuinely need fantasy level attraction towards the man they’re having sex with and physical stimulation Men don't realize that missing the clitoris is as big a mistake as if the woman missed the penis. Aim matters.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/25 01:49 AM
–	The orgasm gap is because women genuinely need fantasy level attraction towards the man they’re having sex with and physical stimulation Ok, let's try flipping the script. Imagine a girl grinded on your belly button for 20 minutes and never once touched your penis. Then she finished and dismounted, and walks away. Would you get off? Would you be frustrated at the blueballs/lack of satisfaction? Would you maybe be less enthusiastic about the next encounter? Because that's what the average sexual encounter is like for a woman. A man grinds for a while, never once touching her actual erogenous zone (clit) and then just stops when he…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/25 01:47 AM
2	Size doesn't matter to women until it's their own partner who's small. She's allowed to be not attracted to him. You can't change what turns you on. People acting like we all have to change our sexual preferences in order to be more egalitarian is messed up. We can say no for any reason at all, and any pressure that we should force ourselves to want to have sex with someone despite our feelings is really not cool. I have a non binary friend who recently confessed they weren't attracted to penises and preferred vaginas. They actually thought they were being discrimi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/25 01:21 PM
3	Size doesn't matter to women until it's their own partner who's small. It's more complicated than that. Penis size is just a physical trait. But vagina tightness has long been (incorrectly) associated with how pure/slutty you are. So historically judging women for being loose went hand in hand with slut shaming. Context matters for things like this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/25 01:18 PM
7	Size doesn't matter to women until it's their own partner who's small. My guy friend said he went to a gay club once in China where he couldn't really speak the language. So he just went up to guys and held up his hands to demonstrate how big his penis was. Then they'd hold up theirs to respond with their own size. Then when the 2 parties found each other acceptable they went home together. A very straightforward system.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/25 01:15 PM
1	Size doesn't matter to women until it's their own partner who's small. I don't see what's wrong with preferring a big penis. Men say they like big boobs or big butts all the time. I feel like we've been told we're not allowed to say we like big guys, because all of society bends over backwards to support men's fragile egos. But to be frank, a lot of us do have preferences and that's ok.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/25 01:12 PM
1	How can men seduce women? Have you tried casually touching your neck? What about rolling up your sleeves to expose your arms? Licking your lips? Once you've established touching, you can of course try casually touching her arm etc. Then you can learn the meaning of the word caress...	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/25 06:09 PM
1	How can men seduce women? Several movies could help. Magic Mike, 50 Shades of Gray, Crazy Stupid Love, Hitch might give you some ideas. If you think asking for consent isn't sexy, you should see Christian Gray do it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/25 06:07 PM
0	Arrested development has led to grown adults STILL looking outwardly to others for their loneliness. It’s ENTIRELY down on YOU to fix it. I go on reddit so I don't bother my real life friends with my stupid thoughts all the time. This place exists so we can vent.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/25 09:43 PM
3	The current generation of daters are frustrated and entitled because we are in an uncomfortable transition period where what was standard, successful monogamy, is now the exception They are currently trying to repeal that sadly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/25 09:30 PM
-3	The current generation of daters are frustrated and entitled because we are in an uncomfortable transition period where what was standard, successful monogamy, is now the exception There are literally more women than men. People who think the dating pool favors women can't do basic math.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/25 12:38 AM
15	The current generation of daters are frustrated and entitled because we are in an uncomfortable transition period where what was standard, successful monogamy, is now the exception The reason it used to be easier for average men to find a wife is because staying single didn't used to be an option for women. We had to settle for men we didn't really want because we weren't allowed to support ourselves.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/25 12:34 AM
1	The Just World Fallacy is one of society's biggest barriers to Dating for Men I feel like it's also a factor in people believing they deserve to be rewarded with a mate just for being a decent person. Like, no a big part of it is luck and finding the right person. And both people have to want it, it's not one person getting the other as a prize.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/25 12:37 AM