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The financial side of things are a question for r/personal finance. I'm not qualified to give you advice about that. But honestly, if you're spending 45-50 hours a week doing something you're not passionate about, that would be one of the first things I would think about changing. I'm not saying quit your job today, but what's the harm in looking around at competitor's positions? Or are you in a field that you simply don't enjoy as much as you thought you did in college? If you don't want to say…
/r/seduction05/11/14 02:33 PM
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I want you to really think about this: Does what you do for 10 hours a day make you happy? Are you passionate about your work?
/r/seduction04/11/14 11:39 PM
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I think you're both making good points here, but I think that by definition if they say they're not having sex with you, they are thinking about having sex with you. Not necessarily in a positive light, they could easily be thinking that "I like this guy but I'm on my period/it's too soon after my breakup/I'm cheating/whateverthefuckwomenthink and so I'm not going to have sex with him tonight. In that moment, that's what she believes. In an hour when heavy petting happens she reserves the right …
/r/seduction26/09/14 07:53 PM
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right sentiment, wrong phrasing. never hurts to be respectful to women, especially here.
/r/seduction26/09/14 06:00 PM
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Omg a girl thinks I sound creepy I'm going to go kill myself now You're right, you do have to calibrate most of what you say. But if you're worried about everything you say to a woman being interpreted exactly the right way you're going to give yourself a hernia.
/r/seduction26/09/14 02:38 PM
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Dudes over thinking this, just walk up to her and say hi, and invite her over again. Worst that can happen is she rejects you...
/r/seduction25/09/14 03:10 PM
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Fucking a, you portly man of African descent.... I'm tagging you as bad rap puns when I get home, I want to see more of this behavior
/r/seduction25/09/14 03:08 PM
2

yes approach more and work on yourself
/r/seduction13/09/14 08:56 PM
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It's not shameful to say to a girl that approaching makes you nervous. It does, it's scary as hell, and if A. you're confident enough to admit it makes you anxious, B. you're still approaching/kinoing/kissing her even though it scares you. That takes courage. Girls love brave men. It's authentic. Try it!
/r/seduction13/09/14 08:54 PM
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Dude. You're entering a very important stage in your personal growth. Fuck everybody who's disrespecting you. If someone busts your balls in a friendly manner, that's fine, but if you're being put down in ways that legitimately hurt your feelings that's not okay. When you say your friends are disrespecting you, what do you mean by that? Goals I like. Never hurts to have goals. Tofu Tofu's guide is great for starting down the road to self improvement. Don't change who you are unless you want to. …
/r/seduction13/09/14 04:11 PM
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mmm. This is an internalization problem. You need to form good mental habits to avoid this type of thinking. The first thing you should say to yourself when you catch yourself forming this pattern of thought is: "I am my own person. They are their own people. Their thoughts, feelings and actions have nothing to do with me, and they have no bearing on my thoughts, feelings and actions." If you can tell yourself this, take four slow, deep breaths, and try to just relax the tension in your body and…
/r/seduction13/09/14 03:58 PM
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Well, we're at an interesting point here. I respect your opinion, and also totally disagree with it. There are more important things than clothes, such as being unashamed of who you are, but I think that taking care of your personal appearance is important to a lot of men. I personally find it very important. If you don't feel the same way, that's fine, but don't you dare try to impose your opinions on others. I say that with love. I'm sure you're very happy with how you dress, but don't discour…
/r/seduction13/09/14 03:49 PM
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You need to make some moves, my man. Strike up conversations with people!
/r/seduction13/09/14 03:17 PM
9

Even gay guys don't like a dick. Keep it civil.
/r/seduction12/09/14 08:21 PM
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It's not a real response. Dude, if gay guys approach you you're hot. Are you expecting girls to approach you? That's not a very realistic goal.
/r/seduction12/09/14 08:21 PM
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hahahaha I mean you're not wrong but it ended so abruptly after the cuddles... I guess we're just not into cuddling mang. but seriously. Take the goddamn chance and just say what you want to do together.
/r/seduction05/09/14 01:33 PM
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do your best to be yourself and not try to force yourself to be someone you're not. but that's also my top tip for being human so take it with a grain of salt
/r/seduction30/08/14 12:08 AM
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Yeah this post isn't adding anything productive to the sub
/r/seduction21/08/14 05:26 PM
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I'm now conflicted. I see your point, though authenticity has always been hard for me personally. It certainly sounds beta when I read it out loud. I'm trying to be true to myself in all aspects of life, including women, and I can say only that I'm learning from my successes and failures.
/r/seduction25/07/14 07:07 PM
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I see your point. I didn't know it was something out of her control when I commented, and I understand how some of my responses certainly come off as butthurt. I guess I do have the problem of taking life too seriously sometimes, and it probably does hurt my game. I'm a work in progress, perpetually, so I think reevaluating how serious a small flake is in the grand scheme of things is probably something I should do.
/r/seduction25/07/14 04:52 PM
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https://i.chzbgr.com/maxW500/5236253952/hC432D48E/ But seriously, I understand the desire to keep it light. But in this case, I think you're going to benefit more from a serious response. Flakes are not to be encouraged, period. Whatever your future with this girl, you don't want to make it seem like you're the type of man she can cancel on and it's totally fine with you. That being said... "Oh, really? And how are you going to make it up to me? ;-)" "I only take visa, american express, and back…
/r/seduction25/07/14 03:45 PM
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"That's okay, but I really hope you do make it up to me. I was looking forward to spending time with you." Then you wait a day or two to reschedule. Edit: Rereading this, it sounds beta as fuck. I deserve my downvotes
/r/seduction25/07/14 03:21 PM
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As a corollary to this, start trying to be self aware and endeavor to be happy with who you are, faults and all. A lot of the advice in here is very short term, but this is a lifelong quest to embark on. From "The Rules for Being Human", Adapted by Dan Millman: !. You will receive a body. You may love it or hate it, but it will be yours. It is the only thing you truly own, guaranteed to be yours to keep for your whole life. If you can't be comfortable in your own skin, how can you expect others …
/r/seduction25/07/14 02:51 PM
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On this vein, small personal victory for the day: went for a run for the first time in ages! OP, I hope I don't have to call you a massive pussy tonight. just in case... Remindme! 11pm 7/16/14 "call Diece a huge pussy if he doesn't post an FR"
/r/seduction16/07/14 05:16 PM
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Muay Thai was a huge confidence booster for me. There's no way to become comfortable in your own skin like kicking ass and getting your ass kicked. Also, a quest for becoming true to yourself and finding what you want in this world helps.
/r/seduction28/05/14 04:26 PM
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Backseat freestyle by Kendrick is a must for me. Love your taste.
/r/seduction21/03/14 05:41 PM
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Look harder, find another decent human being. They're there. Just because something is incredibly difficult does not mean it's not worth it to try. In fact, the hardest things you'll do in life will often yield the greatest benefits.
/r/seduction20/10/13 01:05 PM
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I think he means that he acts impatient in an exaggerated manner because it's fun for him.
/r/seduction19/10/13 03:56 PM
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Maybe try this: Pretend that the cute girl is someone you actually met a while ago and had a couple good conversations with... But dang it, you've forgotten her name and everything about her. In your mind, you already know her, so it would be weird NOT to go say hi, and then you just have a nice little chat with her about how she is/how her day's going/what she's been doing with her life recently, THEN you ask her her name. It's not weird to meet up with an old friend randomly on a bus or in a c…
/r/seduction18/10/13 05:55 PM
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alright, the dude has interpersonal issues, that's very clear. I'm in agreement with almost all of what you say. But fuck, dude, why do you have to put the poor guy down? Why can't people just be nice, even when they don't have to be? Also, you really didn't offer any advice. Personally, I would recommend that he see a therapist if he can afford it. It's really fucking fantastic if you can keep an open mind. It has honestly helped me become the best version of myself I can be. Maybe it would hel…
/r/seduction18/10/13 04:53 PM
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Hahahah damnit, I should probably know that
/r/seduction13/10/13 09:56 PM
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What...? Is this a comment on his arrogance? I really just want this poor s.o.b. to get his head out if his ass...
/r/seduction13/10/13 09:46 PM
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haha, no idea, it's in the orange now.
/r/seduction13/10/13 08:55 PM
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"How to make friends and influence people" might help you.
/r/seduction13/10/13 06:24 PM
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This is a good, implementable, and practical solution to a problem lots of guys have. Thanks for sharing! I wish you success in your future.
/r/seduction12/10/13 06:27 PM
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questions about stealth fighter jets and what they do in combat. This is a huge red flag for me. I think anyone reading this can gather why I had to get away from this person. Wait. What? Do you work for the government doing secret shit or something? Was he a spy? Was he gay and trying to pick you up, "Under the radar"? so confused... Edit: I tell her I am military. Should have told us, ya dingus!
/r/seduction11/10/13 07:35 PM
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I get having a type, but jesus. Please, for your own sake, open your mind a little. If you don't like a girl, don't hit on them. Just meet girls who you are attracted to personally. In a city as big as NYC, there is no such thing as a 'typical girl'.
/r/seduction10/10/13 07:26 PM
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Best advice I can give is just try to be yourself, and not hide what you're thinking or feeling. If you want to ask her something, just ask her. Say what's on your mind, without worrying how she will feel about it. Flirt with her, I'm sure you can do this at some basic level. If you make a point or laugh at something she says, touch her on the arm or lower back. At this point, this girl seems super significant. She isn't. She's just a girl. If you fuck it up, forget it and move on. If she is lau…
/r/seduction09/10/13 05:20 PM
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interesting. Any thoughts on how much eye contact is too much? I've been told that my eye contact is like getting into a staring contest with a cat... so now I just try to use it to emphasize something I'm saying or that I'm paying attention to what they are are saying.
/r/seduction09/10/13 05:15 PM
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r/askseddit/ will probably be able to help you much better! you should probably post this there and then delete this post, also, read the FAQ.
/r/seduction09/10/13 04:08 PM
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Hey, can you elaborate on overbearing body language? I've noticed that I sometimes make women uncomfortable because (I think) I give off some kind of an aggressive or scary vibe... any tips on how to build more comfort right off the bat with my body? I don't get in their face or talk loudly, I think, but I do smile a lot, and I think it can look almost predatory. Thoughts?
/r/seduction09/10/13 04:00 PM
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Go talk to a therapist, if you can afford it.
/r/seduction09/10/13 12:17 PM
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I even bought “No More Mr. Nice Guy” and “Models” and read both, but I still don’t feel like I’m worth anything to any woman. Well this is awkward
/r/seduction09/10/13 12:13 PM
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so tell them how you feel. If they change their behavior, great. if not, find ways to turn the jokes back on them, or learn to not let them effect you at all.
/r/seduction09/10/13 03:30 AM
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Alright, I think a valid point to make here would be the NEED for power vs simply having power in the minds of others as a result of the strength of your own authenticity. I can see people treat me incredibly differently now that I'm much more confident in who I am, in many ways. Girls check me out more, people just kind of move out of my way when I walk across campus, and I while I notice it, I try not to let it go to my head. I try not to care if a girl doesn't check me out. i'm not perfect, b…
/r/seduction08/10/13 02:47 PM
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because I'll do whatever I want That's why you were a natural that night. You were comfortable with what you wanted and acted like it. Keep this shit up. Do et.
/r/seduction03/10/13 08:21 PM
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Your post makes no sense, there's no context at all.
/r/seduction03/10/13 08:14 PM
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IMHO, females are females are females. That being said, every person looks at life in their own way, and part of that individual perspective is shaped by where you're from. So sometimes you can make some generalizations about girls from X and girls from Y, but once you get down to it there are going to be many exceptions to every rule. There are going to be girls everywhere who are totally closed to talking to you, even if you're Ryan Gosling with the conversational skills of Don Juan. Conversel…
/r/seduction03/10/13 07:19 PM
1

Let it go. Nothing you can do now but learn to calibrate better in the future, and feel bad for the guy who's dating the crazy bitch friend.
/r/seduction29/09/13 01:45 PM
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Let it go. Nothing you can do now but learn to calibrate better in the future, and feel bad for the guy who's dating the crazy bitch friend.
/r/seduction29/09/13 01:44 PM
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hahahaha. I'm just crazy enough to say this... but I'd probably do it when I was ready to bounce a girl back to my place, and then follow it up with "Nah, I'm fucking with you, let's go watch 500 Days of Summer." Unrelated note, who the fuck has a 50" mirror next to their bed?
/r/seduction23/09/13 04:58 PM
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The best way to talk to other people at your school, and consequently make friends, is to start conversations with them. For instance, the people in your classes! Or the people in line at that popular pizza place! Or anyone, pretty much anywhere! Just be friendly, fun, and only try to sleep with girls you're actually attracted to, and you'll have so many friends. edits for clarity
/r/seduction23/09/13 04:51 PM
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Actually, I might use this... "Hey, I want to take you out." "Uhhh... what will we do/where will we go?" "An orgy. I know this great group of people over in the south side... Nah, I'm fucking with you. Let's get drinks at that shitty dive bar near my place!" Obviously, cocky smile the whole time.
/r/seduction23/09/13 04:48 PM
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Good damn it, this is entirely a limiting belief. Nothing is weird unless you convince yourself it's weird.
/r/seduction20/09/13 11:00 PM
1

So do you have a good grasp on who you are? What are your dreams? What are you passionate about? start with those things.
/r/seduction16/09/13 11:54 PM
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"If you're the same person you were five years ago, you might as well be dead." No idea who said it, heard it once and it echoed.
/r/seduction16/09/13 11:51 PM
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Dude. This is all in your head. I just assume they will think I'm strange. Yep, that's your problem right there. You're making baseless assumptions about things you can't control, and it's making you pussy out. If they ask you what year you are, just say you graduated and are working nearby/taking a year off/looking for work. You've got to own everything about yourself. If not, you're going to have AA. Simple as that.
/r/seduction16/09/13 11:45 PM
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In that case, just ask her out Wednesday in person. =)
/r/seduction16/09/13 11:28 PM
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We love you too, Banana_Slut. Great post, and I love that you can look back and call out your mistakes like a man. I've been trying to do this, and it's shown me how far I've come in my quest for self improvement. I'm in a great place in life right now, and I'm pretty stoked for things to come.
/r/seduction16/09/13 07:32 PM
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girl encounters "And now, we see that the male Homo Sapien has encountered a female of his species. Unfortunately, this young male has no proficiency at attracting the females of his community, and defers mating rights to the Alpha males." I couldn't resist a NatGeo Voiceover there
/r/seduction15/09/13 07:34 PM
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I like this post. This ties in to a lot of what's been on my mind recently, and that's authenticity. If you're not comfortable in your own skin, you can't make others be comfortable with you. Hard to understand, but life changing. Love yourself so others can love you is another way I like to put it. Never feel bad for being who you are. Every time a doubt about how someone else perceives you enters your mind, try to remind yourself that you can't control how other people view you. Everybody is l…
/r/seduction15/09/13 07:07 AM
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haha, it was just an example. I have a fuck-tonne of family issues.
/r/seduction11/09/13 05:03 PM
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Seems to me like you know your strengths and play to them. Just because you Kino less, iron out logistics more, and prefer warm approaches, that doesn't mean that's right for everyone. That being said, I love finding out about different styles of seduction, so I think posts like yours are valuable to the community! thanks! But maybe you could try to be less degrading of other people's style, saying that techniques which are geared toward getting new guys more comfortable with women are 'creepy' …
/r/seduction10/09/13 12:48 PM
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Also, if you are coming from the aforementioned confident non-needy core, it shouldn't really matter if some people perceive you as creepy. You probably wouldn't like them much anyway, even if they are gorgeous. So, let em think what they want and keep gaming.
/r/seduction09/09/13 06:58 PM
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Great analysis! Also huge are eye contact and smiling! This just started happening to me on campus, I'll make eye contact and smile and girls will just blurt out 'Hi, how are you?' To which I reply 'Good thanks'. It never happened before I corrected my posture, eye contact and smile. =) it's the little things that show you have self assurance.
/r/seduction09/09/13 06:52 PM
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Thank you for your input, but... you're NOT supposed to be doing it in a fucking gym I'm sorry, where is this written in stone? This sounds like your opinion, which I disagree with. If you get annoyed with it, just reject guys who hit on you. The rest of the time, ignore them. You are, after all, just there to work out.
/r/seduction09/09/13 06:46 PM
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huh. Right. You do realize that this guy literally wrote the book on this shit?
/r/seduction08/09/13 10:00 PM
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I fear Fuck your fears. In the face. With your confidence. Do what you want to do. If you wanna talk about your family issues, do it. Fuck your fears. the gay best friend area Are you gay? no. Are you also making moves? You should be. Also, this is totally out of your control. you can't control how others perceive you, you can only control how you present yourself. So just be true to who you are as best you can and try to be authentic!
/r/seduction08/09/13 09:59 PM
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Did you get a little bit personal with them, build some comfort? A hugely important step I struggle with a lot.
/r/seduction08/09/13 09:05 PM
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Step 1. Get him alone. Step 2. Cuddle with him. Step 3. point your face towards his and kiss him. Step 4. Gauge his reaction. If he's into it, go HAM. If not back off. If he's not into it, he's not into it. You can't really do anything about that. You can't change what other people do, feel or think. You can only be comfortable with who you are enough that it really doesn't matter what others think. After that, it's all about finding mutual attraction. Just my 2 cents.
/r/seduction08/09/13 08:56 PM
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I actually got my first blow job like that. hahahah, classic. Mine was in the bathroom at Medical Camp (don't even know) when I was 15. Blew in her face... I watched way too much porn back then. As for your tactics, that actually makes a lot of sense. That's really what you should be doing. That's what I did last night, and I had a blast.
/r/seduction08/09/13 08:49 PM
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how do you open? Do you touch the girls at all, ever? Or do these girls just kind of slowly kneel and start sucking your dick? Sorry, that was rude. but seriously, I want more details here. I don't see how your game works, and I'd like to. I don't doubt you get women, I just want more info.
/r/seduction08/09/13 08:06 PM
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New Goal: Write an FR!
/r/seduction08/09/13 07:59 PM
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The best way I can describe it is it's how I imagine someone like Kobe Bryant sees a basketball court when he has the ball... Yeah, I love this analogy. I know my game's not perfect by any means, but I rarely have to seek around for something to say or how to proceed. Maybe I should start writing FRs, to better isolate my weaknesses. Kind of like watching the tapes of recent games for a baller, I guess. Anyway, thanks for the response, I think you're awesome!
/r/seduction08/09/13 07:49 PM
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Oh, I would milk the shit out of this. So many good teasing opportunities here. "You dance so strangely in this country, show me your American Dirty Dancing!" "Excuse me, can you please teach me to twerk?" "In my country, we dance like THIS!" [ridiculous demo here] Just say fuck it and have fun experiencing something new!
/r/seduction08/09/13 07:39 PM
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not give a shit that they think you're too young. Or flip it around, and say that you ARE too young, you'd probably break their hip getting them into bed. Or something. Call them old. If they didn't want to sleep with you and were using that as a convenient excuse, NEXT. Otherwise, just plow through it like a boss.
/r/seduction08/09/13 07:21 PM
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Getting over AA is one of the best ways to build confidence. you don't need confidence to beat AA, if you did, nobody would ever beat AA. You just need approach. Only way to beat AA is to approach, approach, approach.
/r/seduction08/09/13 07:16 PM
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As always, great FR. I don't care if it's a move from middle school - that's good kino, my friends! now that I think about it, back when I was in HS, before I was aware of pickup, I had pretty decent game. I just didn't have the balls to use it 90% of the time because of social anxiety. Lucky I found you guys, cause now I'm just a BAMF. Question: when you're out adventuring, how much are actual pickup techniques on your mind? I find that I don't actually think about things like being nonreactive…
/r/seduction08/09/13 07:06 PM
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all the rest are good, but #2 is shit. Total shit.
/r/seduction08/09/13 12:24 AM
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for the anxiety, start talking to someone. A therapist has helped my anxiety so much, and it's really worth the money. If you have health insurance, try to figure out if it covers mental health. Failing that, try finding a close friend who is willing to listen.
/r/seduction08/09/13 12:19 AM
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she'll find you. Text her "here" when you get there, and as soon as you see her, go for the makeout. FUCK IT DO IT LIVE. the only way you're gonna get anywhere romantically with a girl is to show her you're interested. a great man once said to his son... "Kid, you gotta make a move." no use putting it off. Just fucking go for it, be the crazy hot frat bro she's always wanted. She's probably dying for some sex, she just moved out of her parents house, and she's in a transition period in her life.…
/r/seduction08/09/13 12:15 AM
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What is the biggest limiting belief or self doubt you've faced down and conquered, and how did you do it?
/r/seduction08/09/13 12:10 AM
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Doing so many things right in this FR. I'm proud of you, man. You may think of yourself as a newb, but you're damn good. You've really got club game down, and it sounds like your conversations were interesting. Closing doesn't matter. It's about having fun. That being said, closes will come when they come. Don't stress about it. Call the girls, set up dates, and do your best to be yourself! Fucking great FR!
/r/seduction08/09/13 12:08 AM
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decent content, but your formatting could use some work and your prose is very hard to understand. Try separating your numbered list, for instance. Good job with the banter, if you have good eye contact and joke with her about almost anything she's gonna start sending those IOIs you talked about. Read some more posts and then try again with better formatting and you might get a better response!
/r/seduction07/09/13 11:50 PM
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Dude, you don't have to go to clubs if you don't like dance floor game. Dance floor game is all about putting huge energy into your vibe and not giving a shit if girls like it or hate it. Lots of crazy/fun dance moves, dance-offs, twirling random girls, picking some of them up, grinding your ass into girls, and the hand of god are all great tactics. Personally, I love dance floor game, but I get tired really quickly when I go dancing. I prefer a good bar or house party. I spit game fairly unconv…
/r/seduction07/09/13 11:42 PM
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How's your posture? do you make a lot of eye contact and smile easily? I noticed a night and day difference in the amount of IOIs I get on the street or in clubs. Practice good posture all the time, it becomes second nature.
/r/seduction07/09/13 11:23 PM
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and you trying to bring him down accomplishes what exactly?
/r/seduction07/09/13 05:35 PM
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if he's asking people to bring girls, chances are it's gonna be shit anyway
/r/seduction06/09/13 09:55 PM
1

Being able to take an honest look at yourself and acknowledge that you are not perfect but still being truly happy with who you are and what you care about.
/r/seduction05/09/13 04:22 PM
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Be somebody you would be a loyal friend to.
/r/seduction05/09/13 12:22 AM
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well now I feel like an asshole... I'll just delete that comment.
/r/seduction05/09/13 12:21 AM
2

On To The Next One - Jigga Shit's my theme song these days, my abundance mentality has been really good this year... =)
/r/seduction04/09/13 11:01 PM
1

Sounds like you need to either have a serious conversation with him about why you honestly don't believe you wronged hiim, or reevaluate your friendship. If you want to change the friends you have, maybe it's time for a change of friends.
/r/seduction04/09/13 10:54 PM
2

What if I told you... you don't have to be physically beautiful to be attractive
/r/seduction04/09/13 10:49 PM
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I went to a therapist because I had issues I was struggling with. Namely, my relationships with my friends, my family, and my sexual partners, and with myself. I really just wanted someone to talk to about things I was having a hard time sorting out on my own, and it ended up with me being able to take a much more honest look at myself.
/r/seduction04/09/13 09:59 PM
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different strokes, i suppose.
/r/seduction04/09/13 08:30 PM
1

I feel that your goal should not be getting laid x number of times, but learning to love yourself regardless of the number of women you've had sex with. This will actually get you laid a hell of a lot more, and make you a happier more confident person.
/r/seduction04/09/13 08:24 PM
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Ask your client if he knows any club staff in Chi-town who can get you in the back door! If he's that much of an animal, I'd bet he does.
/r/seduction04/09/13 08:22 PM
4

Well, your sentiment is right, nobody can pick up every girl they approach. But I don't think having a target success rate or even keeping score is especially productive. You just need to train yourself to become outcome independent. that being said, it's not easy or quick. all you can do is practice.
/r/seduction04/09/13 08:18 PM
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I think this is what the seduction community is all about, making better quality guys, and through this you become more attractive. This is a great summary of the community. It's sad that so many people, be they women or nice guys or naturals, dismiss this community before they know what it's about. On a related note, I've found that going to therapy helped me be introspective in lots of new ways, leading to much faster self improvement. Understanding yourself leads to loving yourself, and that'…
/r/seduction04/09/13 08:12 PM
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seen ;-)
/r/seduction04/09/13 05:14 PM
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first semester on campus as a 21 year old, I've been phrasing this as forming a drinking pose/club.
/r/seduction04/09/13 05:14 PM
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I don't know the situation like you do, but it might be worth considering the worst possible outcome. Even if you see it as a 0% chance, it's worth thinking about.
/r/seduction04/09/13 04:59 PM
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That doesn't make any sense. So the only relationships in your life you've learned anything from have been romantic?
/r/seduction04/09/13 12:15 PM
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You seem to be suffering from the misconception that to learn something from an relationship (however brief), you need to have sex with the girl. This is wrong. Every interaction which you are a part of is chance to learn something if you go into it without preconceived notions and try to be authentic.
/r/seduction04/09/13 12:52 AM
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No, from what you said, you did the right thing. I approve. Always be honest with yourself about what you want and are comfortable with. You were there, I wasn't, and you trusted your gut. Good on you.
/r/seduction04/09/13 12:48 AM
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keep in mind, it's useless to worry about things you can't control. Great post on the subject
/r/seduction04/09/13 12:07 AM
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First question: were you attracted to her on both a sexual and personal level? Being drunk doesn't mean you don't know what you want. I don't think anyone could have faulted you for going over and fucking her brains out, even if she kicked you out of her bed in the morning. She was clearly into you and not blackout drunk... In my opinion, you would not have been taking advantage of her.
/r/seduction04/09/13 12:05 AM
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This is a new account, but I've said it before and I'll say it again: Recyclable Bantha knows his shit. Listen to this man, he is wise and eloquent.
/r/seduction03/09/13 11:52 PM
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It has been said that anyone who is the same person they were 5 years ago might as well be dead. I love this, never heard that anecdote before. It goes hand in hand with the recent personal growth I've experienced after a long stagnant period. Makes me want to be authentic, but realize that what is authentically me is constantly shifting.
/r/seduction03/09/13 11:34 PM
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actually, I was joking around last night about apocalypse openers with a somewhat seduction savvy friend, and we came up with a challenge for me: open a girl with the line, "You make my dick erect." Didn't end up doing it last night, but early this morning I was using my cig to light this cute Syrian girl's cig (we'd been with them for like ten or fifteen minutes) and I took that chance to look her dead in the eyes and ask "Have you ever buttfucked before?" no idea if she knew that term, but she…
/r/seduction03/09/13 11:24 PM
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A short and sweet FR, just don't get oneitis. Also, remember, whatever happens with this girl doesn't matter as long as you learn from it. Hell, oneitis is a good thing if it teaches you how to avoid putting a girl on a pedestal in the future.
/r/seduction03/09/13 11:16 PM
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Yeah, my situation was kind of similar.
/r/seduction03/09/13 09:15 PM
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hahaha, when I saw his user name I knew that he was too cool to be called OP
/r/seduction03/09/13 07:13 PM
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Agreed. If you are telling people you're a nice guy, you A. probably have nice guy syndrome and B. are probably not all that nice.
/r/seduction03/09/13 05:29 PM
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21YO male here. My relationship with my mother is similar to what Banana Slut is describing, but seddit actually helped me to gain some perspective on the matter. Once I realized that my parents are just people, it was a lot easier to figure out more of what motivates them. Specifically, my mother has always been very controlling and protective, and i felt oppressed by that for years. Once I started to internalize that I have value and that I should try as hard as I can to be authentic, I starte…
/r/seduction03/09/13 04:33 PM
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