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Up to last paragraph I was in agreement with you. However, your advice to start looking for a new partner doesn't sound like a good plan. She would be repeating the pattern again in the new relationship. I feel like she should listen to her husband, separate for awhile and go to therapy. In my view, jumping trains this easy is never good idea.
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/19 04:11 AM
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"Good advice" cut your loses, really? What is the longest relationship you have been in? We only heard her side of the story, people don't just change 180. There seems to be more to the story than told above.
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/19 04:04 AM
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Maybe then it could be physical. How do the other girls in your circle differ? I'm referring more to looks aspects I guess. Like based on 10 scale, how attractive you are? Maybe you can experiment a bit more in this area. For example, I know that I look my best in certain weight bracket, when the dresses that I ware accentuate flattering parts of my body and hide whatever is necessary. Men are first attracted by looks. It doesn't mean to look sexy (that actually can be a red flag for a quality g…
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/19 01:04 AM
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Maybe try remembering what sort of guys like you in real life. Guys who seem to try to be your friends are actually the ones who like you. You might get some insight from this exercise.
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/19 03:54 AM
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We met via internet at 17, since then 12 years together. It feels like a short span of time.
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/19 06:15 PM
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There are ways to increase your income, maybe if your SO will hear of these fears and despair he may try to improve his skill set. You can also move to a less expensive town/state. Maybe somewhere where he will be paid more. Don't give up..
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/19 10:08 AM
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I feel like you just need to continue to give him time to relax whenever he is home. Men usually recharge at home. It does sound smart to have the second kid now. However if I were in your shoes, instead on focusing on your husband I would focus on optimizing my routine, maybe there are things that you should delegate, or stop doing all together, maybe there is something were you're pushing yourself too hard for no good reason. I feel like your husband will get more relaxed after you get happier…
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/18 12:09 AM
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Lol that's my issue in a sense, I don't know where this type of women go. Personally I mostly spend my time at home keeping myself busy with chores and hobbies. In my view old-fashion women don't broadcast their location because they don't like this sort of attention.
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/18 05:35 PM
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That is an inspirational reply, thankj you. I just looked on meetup.com, and I couldn't find any of suggested clubs to join in my area unfortunately. Starting a club might be an option, let me know if you maybe have any experience with those and/or suggestions. My only experience with clubs comes from college times.
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/18 05:24 PM
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That indeed seems like a place for conservative women. However, to be honest I will probably not go there just because I'm uncertain about my religious views. Don't get me wrong, I respect religion but I still foggy about my spiritual perspective. Thanks for Jordan Peterson's YouTube lectures, many atheists seems to get inspired by religion once again. Thank you for your feedback though.
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/18 05:14 PM
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I think this is a great advice, it worked for me in a similar situation.
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/15 11:58 PM
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I think I know the feeling that you described, it is easier for me to be myself with my SO than with any other person too. It is also probably because I feel save and protective with him (this thought makes me smile), I did not think before why it is so. I could care less if my fellow workers see me as "feminine enough" - my SO's opinion is what matters to me. I like your attitude! I need to learn how to care less, it seems like this is my problem.
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/15 06:13 PM
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Why not swear? I mean do it in the context and with certain people only, but sometimes it is difficult for me to find a perfect word that expresses my inner most feelings at that moment. At this point, I am not sure why it is told that girls should not swear. It is not like we do not know these words. I have trouble with this subject.
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/15 06:05 PM
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Yes, of course! I just wish in America they had feminine endings for the last names. Like Mr Smith and Mrs Smitha. There are various endings in different languages for that, it doesn't sound right in English.
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/15 06:02 PM
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Regarding #5 Act feminine, I think for some people this is more natural than for others. When I read this bullet point I imagined women in 70s or so who are very feminine but also not aware of the real world. They are naive and in some way it makes them more childish than a modern red pill women would be. Just be nice, polite, smile and all other feminine characteristics is all good but if you don't try to fake it. It's natural to be feminine with my husband, however at this point, I'm starting …
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/15 02:37 PM
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You make very interesting points and I agree with one but must disagree with another. What I mean specifically is that it is very wrong to smack boys for any reason. Most of the world societies physically abuse their children, same was true in my family (for accidentally breaking something or telling what they hated to hear) and I don't think that anything constructive can grow from someone else's pain. I am for peaceful parenting and I believe that this the road to a healthier society. I think …
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/15 03:28 PM
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You are very right about my extreme views of genders, I can see that now too. I guess growing up without a father made me idealize men more than some if them deserve. Also, I really have a wonderful husband and our male friends are all examples for me of how great males could be. My experience growing up in my family, as well as making bad decisions to be friends with untruthful women had shown me how dangerous and egoistic women can be. However, I'm still having a few close female friends now. …
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/15 02:33 PM
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Alright, I think you might be on something. In my life so far, I just don't really have female role models that would inspire me and who would also share the red pill attitude towards life and so on. I know I have female powers, which are at the same time manipulative in some ways. Like my look, for example, putting on make up, and using pushup bra seems like manipulation to me now. Regarding behaving with my SO or other people in a way that I know will get me what I may want, seems also like a …
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/15 10:35 PM
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It seems like you're very stressed with school.. relax, its not the end of the world and its temporary. In some time it will be over for the rest of your life. Do some rescheduling with your time and stick with it. It's hard but with small steps and books like "habit now" is possible. Maybe start with a small routine like 3 min meditation after you brushed your teeth in the morning. As a proverb says, a smart woman keeps her husband's stomach full and testicles empty.
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/15 12:19 AM
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I have a similar experience as you do and cannot recall to be discriminated against. I would say even further, in life I came across of a higher number of women who tried to manipulate people around them and kept a double agendas than I saw men with such behaviors.
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/15 04:30 PM
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Life is about little things. I show appreciation to my husband's presence in my life by listening and doing what he asks for (like do laundry earlier than scheduled), do a back massage, go down on him at least once a week, taking care of lunches and snacks for upcoming week and so on. Consistency is important. But I guess the real long term trick is to understand were your emotions are coming from. Deal with childhood trauma, because this is really to what everything usually boils down to and ta…
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/15 08:27 PM
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I am curious to read this book. No one taught me about my true nature and it might be to be submissive.. Sounds sexy, I would give it a try.
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/15 03:03 PM
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I find myself in a similar place. Childhood was not so great. I didn't see my dad since they divorced when I was 2 years old. No emotional connection with mom whatsoever, I realized she just can't have a serious conversation. I remember when I was about 6, I wanted to commit suicide. Realized that I don't want to ruin my mom's consciousness and didn't do it. She immigrated here when I was in third grade, didn't see her for more than 8 years. I still have a messy room, leave my homework later tha…
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/15 04:19 AM
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We dated for about four years and married when we were both twenty one. Now we're happily married for almost four years and I feel so lucky to meet him early in life.. If you both want it and trust each other, go and build your nest and forget the rest.
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/14 03:31 AM
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I remember asking "why do girls care so much about boys?" when I was an inexperienced and naive boy at 13. Women give so many fucks about us because they are completely dependent on us to obtain their highest goals. At age 13-16 I'm don't think women are attracted to men to pursue their highest goals, their behavior is governed mostly by hormones. At older age about 18-30, I think most women on subconscious lever at least notice that guys are more successful in getting physical results of their …
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 04:42 PM
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Read No More Mr Nice Guy, instructive book for anyone
/r/askTRP04/12/14 07:41 PM
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Maybe just maybe some women need to be woken up to the reality, and maybe just maybe they will see the new brave world that we live in and make their men happy. You can't deny that many women don't use logic and critical thinking in their personal life. But we can learn, I damn hope we can.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/14 12:17 AM
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I think it's not only about attracting but also understanding your impulses. Through evolution we have been conditioned to be attracted to alpha males, but there are many shy and wonderful guys who would make a more loyal, understanding, open-minded, and strong husbands than most alpha behaving once will ever be. I know it from having male friends some of whom are more like beta type from outside and like lions in their hearts and actions.
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/14 03:39 PM
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