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| 1 | LTR Advertises the Zoom call on social media for her cheater BPD friend and orbiter to join. Advice on how to handle or continue to ignore?a | /r/askTRP | 26/04/20 07:52 PM |
| 1 | LTR Advertises the Zoom call on social media for her cheater BPD friend and orbiter to join. Advice on how to handle or continue to ignore?a | /r/askTRP | 26/04/20 07:41 PM |
| 1 | Is this is shit test? Am I overreacting? Best choice to move forward?a | /r/askTRP | 18/03/20 05:15 AM |
| 1 | Is this is shit test? Am I overreacting? Best choice to move forward?a | /r/askTRP | 18/03/20 05:01 AM |
| -2 | Is this is shit test? Am I overreacting? Best choice to move forward?a | /r/askTRP | 18/03/20 04:55 AM |
| 2 | Finding good LTR/Family-Starting Material Overseas?a | /r/askTRP | 02/02/20 03:03 PM |
| 2 | Women not wanting me to sleep over after a fuck.Theres still good content. Doesnt mean people cant enjoy some simple funny ass comments like these. | /r/askTRP | 25/01/20 03:36 PM |
| 0 | Made out with another girl. Thinking of going further. Am i just asking for trouble here?Man without a code? My code is to FUCK THESE THOTS! | /r/askTRP | 25/01/20 03:33 PM |
| 1 | Made out with another girl. Thinking of going further. Am i just asking for trouble here?Can you elaborate more on how to handle being caught cheating? I had an experience where I did something(not related to fidelity, had a fight partly about a certain topic and i did something she told me not to do that may have hurt her reputation). I was like fine if this is a reason to break up we break up. Instantly she was like NOO THATS MY DECISION TO MAKE. Remembering shit like this sometimes makes me feel like the anger phase again. | /r/askTRP | 25/01/20 03:15 PM |
| 1 | Made out with another girl. Thinking of going further. Am i just asking for trouble here?When did i ever say i was looking for affirmation? All i said i enjoyed the respect they gave me afterwards. It is natural for a man to derive pleasure from gaining respect. I agree overall, I shouldnt risk getting involved any further with this thot. | /r/askTRP | 25/01/20 03:00 PM |
| 1 | Finding good LTR/Family-Starting Material Overseas?a | /r/askTRP | 24/01/20 05:20 PM |
| 1 | Finding good LTR/Family-Starting Material Overseas?I believe I am being realistic. I know AWALT, but it seems that if i can manage this LTR, managing a more traditional LTR would be similar. Just that if I find one in my country(post communist european, a country where most chicks are hot skinny babes) i would see it as the same thing minus the problem that is bothering me. | /r/askTRP | 24/01/20 05:17 PM |
| 2 | I had a slip up. Feel like I failed myself. How do I fully get over the past?a | /r/askTRP | 23/01/20 01:52 AM |
| 1 | How to handle getting caught cheating? Also looking for an article of it.a | /r/askTRP | 22/01/20 06:03 AM |
| 1 | How to handle getting caught cheating? Also looking for an article of it.a | /r/askTRP | 22/01/20 05:45 AM |
| 1 | Everything is going good. Should I break up?a | /r/askTRP | 18/01/20 01:24 PM |
| 1 | Everything is going good. Should I break up?a | /r/askTRP | 18/01/20 01:20 PM |
| 1 | Went to strip club without girlfriend, guilt, is there coming back?Had a lap dance. Guess that's not cheating so I shouldn't mention anything? | /r/askTRP | 19/11/19 03:51 PM |
| 1 | LTR's mom says if she were to dress better, she could find a better man. Shit test?You misunderstand. Her mom was talking of how she dresses, saying if the LTR were to dress better, she could get a better man. | /r/askTRP | 30/07/19 01:57 PM |
| 1 | Trying to break up with girlfriend, insucure and oneitis.Should I start seeing other girls while still with her? It's easier to get a girl while you already have one. | /r/askTRP | 23/07/19 04:46 PM |
| 1 | Trying to break up with girlfriend, insucure and oneitis.I don't believe that would be a problem. I have a family member who had a previous n count of 1 before marrying a virgin. She still was with him, I feel women wouldn't care like men do due to biology. | /r/askTRP | 23/07/19 04:44 PM |
| 1 | Trying to break up with girlfriend, insucure and oneitis.What would be the best way to break up? I'm thinking packing her remaining stuff she left at my place, drop it off at hers, and tell him it's not going to work with no explanation and move on. | /r/askTRP | 23/07/19 03:55 PM |
| 1 | Lost respect for gifriend. It hurts when I look at her. Do I break up?How do I get the balls to do it? I'm afraid I won't find anyone else as ltr worthy as her. Especially since we are compatible physically. As of now i just feel like the main reason I'm staying with her is for nasty sex. | /r/askTRP | 23/07/19 03:37 PM |
| 1 | Lost respect for gifriend. It hurts when I look at her. Do I break up?I am seriously considering breaking up. How do I go through with it. I realize I have oneitis and scarcity mentality. Like I don't know if I will find anyone else as sexually compatible, supportive of my flaws, etc. Her ex regretted breaking up with her, especially after me the frat guy fucked his ex in the ass. I want to know she would have sex with me after breaking up with her like she did with the person before me. I feel she doesn't respect herself. | /r/askTRP | 23/07/19 03:34 PM |
| 1 | Have trouble making her cum (LTR of 9 months). If an opportunity to fix my E:D Comes up, should I take it?Yes. They help a bit but not much as the injury was physical. Dick is softer, looser, wobblier than before. | /r/askTRP | 19/06/19 12:08 PM |
| 1 | How do I accept the past?Elaborate what makes you think so? | /r/askTRP | 23/05/19 03:36 PM |
| 1 | How do I accept the past?Chances seems slim | /r/askTRP | 23/05/19 03:36 PM |
| 1 | How do I accept the past?Yes, when her ex found out what i did to that booty he had a huge crazy meltdown and went all whiteknight trying to make her leave me. I maintained frame when she discussed breaking up with me and still fuck her in the ass to this day, | /r/askTRP | 23/05/19 03:34 PM |
| 1 | Feeling guilty after going through girlfriend's DMs and not finding anything. Does this warrant me telling her? Are my feelings of guilt rational?I wanted to see if she lied to me about ignoring and orbiter and if she was entertaining his attempts. The convo appears deleted now, no signs of dishonesty from her. Now i feel guilty and ashamed, as if i am in the wrong because nothing showed up and i scrolled way back to her ex's conversation. even though i didnt open it, i feel i shouldnt have even seen that and if she's being honest with me, ill feel as if im morally wrong now because my suspisions of her lying were not shown to be true(unl… | /r/askTRP | 01/02/19 05:44 PM |
| 1 | Did I break frame when an orbiter messaged my girlfriend? Do I bring it up so she knows I acted out of a joke and not insecurity, or do I just drop it?I am considering going through her phone and seeing if she really ignored the guy or continued to entertain his messages. That way, I can know if i should continue to trust her if I know if she lied to me. However, Is this just normal female behavior? Should I even bother checking? If she has lied to my face I want to know if its true. If it turns out she didn't just ignore the messages, would that warrant a next? | /r/askTRP | 26/01/19 10:51 PM |
| 1 | Did I break frame when an orbiter messaged my girlfriend? Do I bring it up so she knows I acted out of a joke and not insecurity, or do I just drop it?Ill drop it then, thanks for explaining. However, lets say he keeps messaging her in front of me in the future, and she still doesn't block him as she said she "might". Would't that be considered disrespecting me? Maybe she likes the validation, so red flag? Wont bring it up to her again. | /r/askTRP | 25/01/19 05:38 PM |
| 1 | Should I get surgery to fix a penis injury from a couple of years ago? Girlfriend doesn't know about it so far, but has made comments that make me want to get it fixed.The thing is, I don't know if its necessary. Perhaps the fact I use sex god method is enough for me to rock her world. I am worried that she will lose attraction to me when hearing my dick is injured and need to wait 2 months without sex for it to heal if I go through with it. | /r/askTRP | 24/01/19 12:54 AM |
| 1 | Girlfriend suggested she goes to a crazy party without me, but ended up not going to it when I said to come over straight to my place as planned. Do I still tell her going without me to a crazy party isn't okay and set a boundary, or would that be seen as mate guarding?The parties are crazy. The first one I went to with her this one guy was so fucked up he tried to make out with both of us. And later one time we were chilling on a couch and one drunk guy takes a couch pillow that someone nutted on and tried to touch her with it and I had to push it away and stop him. | /r/askTRP | 20/01/19 05:33 AM |
| 1 | Girlfriend asked "why is it so small". feeling really hurt/emasculated. Please read important details. How do I bounce back from this?Thanks for the reply. I do GAF because of the reasons I wrote above. What would you suggest I do to improve my inner game to bounce back from this? Now I feel like there is a voice in the back of my head saying that she thinks I am small. How do I stop being insecure about this? When I was with her for the first few months I felt like I had an abundance mentality and could get other girls if i wanted to but now I feel that abundance mentality is shattered. After her comment I dont know if I can … | /r/askTRP | 24/12/18 08:43 PM |
| 1 | Feel detached from girlfriend after reading something she wrote about her sexual past, even though she did more stuff with me.When you say it doesn't phase you, because it doesn't matter, do you mean it now doesn't matter for you since you have slept around more, or it really doesn't? | /r/askTRP | 03/12/18 06:30 PM |
| 1 | Feel detached from girlfriend after reading something she wrote about her sexual past, even though she did more stuff with me.How would someone actually go about demoting a girl to a plate, after already being exclusive? Would she not see it as a breakup and then it will all end? | /r/askTRP | 03/12/18 02:53 PM |
| 1 | Would this gift be too much and too early?During school she has come to me to give me food in between my classes a couple of times before. At home she has cooked before and really cared whether I liked the food or not. Sex has been often so far as well. Still, After reading these comments, I agree that those things don't warrant a gift and I won't be giving her the gift. Thanks for the input. | /r/askTRP | 15/11/18 04:12 AM |
| 1 | Girlfriend going to eventThanks for the detailed replies, I appreciate responses like these. I have an update and I would like some input on this as well. My gf has no working phone at the moment, so on the trip she logged into his phone on her social media account and messaged me that she's using his phone and sent me his number in case I need to reach her. Seemed like a good sign, but now I know she's got his number in her and my chat history. The night after the trip she told me she is house sitting again and told me… | /r/askTRP | 12/11/18 11:50 PM |
| 1 | Girlfriend going to eventThanks for the detailed replies, I appreciate responses like these. I have an update and I would like some input on this as well. My gf has no working phone at the moment, so on the trip she logged into his phone on her social media account and messaged me that she's using his phone and sent me his number in case I need to reach her. Seemed like a good sign, but now I know she's got his number in her and my chat history. The night after the trip she told me she is house sitting again and told me… | /r/askTRP | 12/11/18 11:48 PM |
| 1 | Girlfriend going to eventThanks for the detailed replies, I appreciate responses like these. I have an update and I would like some input on this as well. My gf has no working phone at the moment, so on the trip she logged into his phone on her social media account and messaged me that she's using his phone and sent me his number in case I need to reach her. Seemed like a good sign, but now I know she's got his number in her and my chat history. The night after the trip she told me she is house sitting again and told me… | /r/askTRP | 12/11/18 11:46 PM |
| 1 | Girlfriend going to eventThis is what I was leaning towards as well. I wanted to tell her about it earlier when I heard, glad I didn't do that. Do you believe I should still stick with the dread game written in the post and tell her about the thing i'm going to with my co worker? I wouldn't word it as strong as I did in this case. | /r/askTRP | 10/11/18 06:01 AM |
| 1 | Any tips or advice on handling rejection ? How do you not feel like shit when you get rejected ?At some points you have to put yourself in a position of being rejected, but it doesn't have to be a big deal depending on how you make it. For example, if you want to ask a girl out don't say "Hey do you want to go do this thing with me?" Instead say "Hey lets go do this" or "We should do this on this day" In the first example, that puts pressure on her to say yes or no and pressure on you for the possibility of rejection. By utilizing the second, she will say yes if interested or have some exc… | /r/askTRP | 08/08/18 03:37 PM |
| 2 | Scared to give girls validationI found the best thing to do is to just power through your feelings of why not to do it, and just do it. In real life. Also, when asking someone out do it casually, talk a bit and then tell them hey lets do this at this day. You're not asking, so there is no pressure on her to "accept or deny" your invitation. | /r/askTRP | 06/08/18 01:13 AM |
| 1 | Soft nexted a girl who always checks my snaps. Reflections on last dateUseful advice, ill remember it. | /r/askTRP | 06/08/18 12:59 AM |
| 1 | Soft nexted a girl who always checks my snaps. Reflections on last dateI meant like what positive actions did i take to make him think i did well, so i know what may be good to repeat and know what specifically i am doing right. I was thinking I had a crazy amount of interest after she said yes immediately as well, but that doesnt seem to be the case when trying to set up a third date with her. https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/91xoct/got_my_first_im_busy_but_ill_let_you_know_text/ | /r/askTRP | 05/08/18 06:51 PM |
| 1 | Soft nexted a girl who always checks my snaps. Reflections on last dateCan you specify why you think I did well? Any suggestions on how I could have made it go better? | /r/askTRP | 05/08/18 04:46 PM |
| 1 | Implementing red pillGet out and do shit and you will find opportunities presenting themselves. | /r/askTRP | 05/08/18 03:41 AM |
| 1 | Girl getting mate guarded, good idea to try to move forward?I believe you're right about that. That and scarcity. I recently decided to drop a girl from my college from this post: https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/91xoct/got_my_first_im_busy_but_ill_let_you_know_text/ Even when I was seeing her, I have been trying to keep building abundance, but all my tinder dates flaked. I think your're final paragraph gets to a lot of important stuff. Mind if I PM you about it? | /r/askTRP | 29/07/18 09:34 PM |
| 1 | Girl getting mate guarded, good idea to try to move forward?She was away in the car in, what A called a time out, when he confronted me. Before at the party, wasn't seeing any important body language, probably didnt give ioi's. We were all in the same room. She did laugh when I showed her a joke I made on snapchat that she probably didnt understand. I never hung out with this type of crowd, felt like me and the other guys were on different wavelengths. I really dont give a shit about them except my neighbor. We always seemed cool with each other. The thi… | /r/askTRP | 29/07/18 09:16 PM |
| 1 | Girl getting mate guarded, good idea to try to move forward?sidebar of our Parent Sub: /r/TheRedPill What do you mean by my app? | /r/askTRP | 29/07/18 09:07 PM |
| 1 | should I feed my social media more?You can buy Instagram followers for really cheap. I'de say its worth it. If a girl seems interested in you and would see you got tons of followers, more than her, it would make her seem even more interested. Celebrities do it to look better, girls wear make up to look better, nothing wrong with you making your social media look better. | /r/askTRP | 29/07/18 01:47 AM |
| 1 | First wet dream, i am confusedYou say its fine he's a virgin because he's 16. At what age does it not become fine? | /r/askTRP | 29/07/18 01:45 AM |
| 1 | Do some men just NATURALLY have higher testosterone than others?If you need drive, Prescription ADHD amphetamine meds can fix that. Wouldn't always be a good idea to go down that rout though. | /r/askTRP | 28/07/18 01:24 AM |
| 1 | How to escalate with a girl?Is your question geared towards general escalation on dates, or escalating to sex once alone? | /r/askTRP | 27/07/18 08:00 PM |
| 1 | What to do when ugly and depressed?Try to power through any negative feelings and try to make some progress. Once you start making progress you will get more energy and want to go for more. But just dont get lazy after you see improvement, never stop. | /r/askTRP | 27/07/18 07:56 PM |
| 2 | After you open a girl?Try to remember that real progress feels 10x better than reading about it. | /r/askTRP | 27/07/18 06:27 PM |
| 1 | Is it possible to internalize RP thrusts without first getting burnt?Learning from failure is a surefire way to learn. I had RP knowledge when I started dating my oneitis but felt that she was different and RP may not be true. Real life experience through you is internalized stronger than any observations one might see or read. | /r/askTRP | 27/07/18 06:25 PM |
| 1 | Crazy Idea For a Response?You say you don't care, but you're asking if it would be bold enough to work. If you don't care and want to have fun and see what would come out of it, then why not just do it? | /r/askTRP | 27/07/18 06:23 PM |
| 1 | Date flaked. What can I improve on?Oh, I just saw that as the right time to get her number. I guess I could have gotten her number without saying theres room to mean more. | /r/askTRP | 27/07/18 06:21 PM |
| 1 | Date flaked. What can I improve on?By "single validation seeking shit test" do you mean the flake excuse or something else? | /r/askTRP | 27/07/18 05:49 PM |
| 1 | Got my First "Im busy but ill let you know" text.I saw it as already in her court so thats why I dint respond. Texted her again and no response. Nexted her. | /r/askTRP | 27/07/18 01:31 PM |
| 1 | Should I have sex with ex-gf that cheated on me?If you feel like you want to, but leave right after the deed to avoid attachment. | /r/askTRP | 26/07/18 07:40 PM |
| 1 | Got my First "Im busy but ill let you know" text.Good observation. I was thinking the same thing so thats why I was setting up dates with other women from swipe apps during that time. | /r/askTRP | 26/07/18 06:34 PM |
| 1 | Have Courage to be AuthenticBeing authentic, would that include also displaying emotions and weaknesses? TRP advice is to not do that, can you elaborate more on how being authentic fit in? | /r/TheRedPill | 26/07/18 01:47 AM |
| 1 | I can't handle being in groupMight help to verbalize your inner monologue. There is probably some natural social anxiety going on when someone is in a group. Once you get going and say shit thats on your mind, people would be conversing back and forth and make it easier from there. | /r/askTRP | 26/07/18 01:32 AM |
| 1 | Don't Tell Her Shit - The Fallacy of DisclosureI heard someone say that if you're new, treat women like cops in the sense to keep in mind that they can use information you share against you. Don't open up. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/18 09:39 PM |
| 1 | My interaction with women shows the truth that shocks me, yet I cannot swallow the pillAn earlier comment of mine may help you with the pill if you're still going through the phases. I was having a hard time when unplugging as well. Here's a comment I made earlier with advice that helped me deal with it, may help you too. Here's a message for those who recently unplugged and may be having a hard time going through the phases. If anyone here is feeling down taking in all the info and realizing it, it may help to focus less on the reasoning and "way things just are" and focus more o… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/18 12:41 PM |
| 1 | To live as a wolf, or perish as a lamb.More people sheep, the more you wolf by comparison. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/18 12:25 PM |
| 1 | How to not get emotionally attached to plates ? got my first plate recentlyDon't get attached by continuously creating more options. Aside from meeting women in real life, keep using swipe apps to supplement abundance. | /r/askTRP | 25/07/18 11:34 AM |
| 3 | Newly Unplugged - WTF is the point then?I was having a hard time when unplugging as well. Here's a comment i made earlier with advice that helped me deal with it, may help you too. Good stuff. Some of it may give off a nihilistic vibe which may not help those who are in the stages of being recently unplugged. Here's a message for those who recently unplugged and may be having a hard time going through the phases. If anyone here is feeling down taking in all the info and realizing it, it may help to focus less on the reasoning and "way… | /r/askTRP | 25/07/18 10:37 AM |
| 2 | The World Shouldn't Be Like Anything, It Is As It IsGood stuff. Some of it may give off a nihilistic vibe which may not help those who are in the stages of being recently unplugged. Here's a message for those who recently unplugged and may be having a hard time going through the phases. If anyone here is feeling down taking in all the info and realizing it, it may help to focus less on the reasoning and "way things just are" and focus more on applicable strategies rather than the logic and philosophy behind it. Don't focus on why things are and d… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/18 05:23 AM |
| 1 | The World Shouldn't Be Like Anything, It Is As It IsGood stuff. Some of it may give off a nihilistic vibe which may not help those who are in the stages of being recently unplugged. Here's a message for those who recently unplugged and may be having a hard time going through the phases. If anyone here is feeling down taking in all the info and realizing it, it may help to focus less on the reasoning and "way things just are" and focus more on applicable strategies rather than the logic and philosophy behind it. Don't focus on why things are and d… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/18 05:18 AM |
| 1 | Extreme Case of OneitisGood way to put it. Nothing makes you learn better than your own experiences. Knew about trp before I met my oneitis and tried to implement some before thinking "nah that trp stuff isnt real she's different" . I really internalized it after experiencing it myself. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/18 02:53 AM |
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