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| 1 | Women are the victim, no matter who the victim is!This is the critical insight. | /r/MensRights | 06/12/12 06:20 AM |
| 1 | You're saying that if I'm getting it on with a girl and she's not into, I'm a rapist?That was her standard of safety, and that sort of thing is important if you have multiple partners. | /r/MensRights | 16/11/12 03:45 AM |
| 1 | You're saying that if I'm getting it on with a girl and she's not into, I'm a rapist?There's no helping some people | /r/MensRights | 05/10/12 05:54 AM |
| 1 | You're saying that if I'm getting it on with a girl and she's not into, I'm a rapist?Funny how you are so defensive and yet do such a piss-poor job of defending yourself. Are you saying that your partners always express clear enthusiastic consent? Then I am not sure why we are arguing. Or are you saying that you do not get clear enthusiastic consent? Then you do not and cannot have certainty about having genuine consent. Which is it? Or are you going to evade again, and instead accuse me of sexual immaturity without even attempting to address what I have said? | /r/MensRights | 05/10/12 05:29 AM |
| 1 | You're saying that if I'm getting it on with a girl and she's not into, I'm a rapist?You have the reading comprehension of a twelve year old. You've not addressed my actual point, which is that without clear enthusiastic consent you can't be sure that you have consent at all. | /r/MensRights | 04/10/12 05:26 PM |
| 1 | You're saying that if I'm getting it on with a girl and she's not into, I'm a rapist?Apparently you're assuming the state of mind of the women you've been with. Incidentally I've been talking in generalities in this latter part of the thread. "If you're not, you probably should have a think about that". So how come you're being so defensive? | /r/MensRights | 04/10/12 06:30 AM |
| 1 | You're saying that if I'm getting it on with a girl and she's not into, I'm a rapist?Congratulations on your coherent post on reddit which made sense in the context it was made. Or something. | /r/MensRights | 04/10/12 05:54 AM |
| 1 | You're saying that if I'm getting it on with a girl and she's not into, I'm a rapist?There's no strata to consent. There's consent, and there's nonconsent. There is, however, strata to what you can infer about whether someone is really consenting willingly. Coerced consent is not consent. Reluctance is a big fucking clue. And like I said, you should probably think about that. | /r/MensRights | 04/10/12 05:07 AM |
| 1 | You're saying that if I'm getting it on with a girl and she's not into, I'm a rapist?You're okay with reluctant consent? I'm not sure why it's unreasonable. I obtain that level of consent on a regular basis. If you're not, you probably should have a think about that. | /r/MensRights | 04/10/12 04:44 AM |
| 1 | You're saying that if I'm getting it on with a girl and she's not into, I'm a rapist?You think it's reasonable to have sex with someone when you're not sure if they've given consent? | /r/MensRights | 04/10/12 04:35 AM |
| 1 | You're saying that if I'm getting it on with a girl and she's not into, I'm a rapist?I for one would rather not have any confusion about whether the other person is consenting. | /r/MensRights | 02/10/12 08:05 PM |
| 0 | You're saying that if I'm getting it on with a girl and she's not into, I'm a rapist?You need examples to tell you how to ask someone to engage in sexual activity with you? I ain't gonna write out a full encounter, but as a rule I check in for every new thing. For example, last week: things are getting frisky with a cute girl I've met. I ask her if she likes biting: she does. I bite. She asks me if I like having my nipples bitten: I don't, so I tell her to stick with licking. I ask her if she'd like me to finger her, and she says she'd like me to wear gloves. We fetch gloves. Sh… | /r/MensRights | 02/10/12 07:42 PM |
| 0 | You're saying that if I'm getting it on with a girl and she's not into, I'm a rapist?So, uh, literally nobody in this thread has thought of actually asking first, and checking in every now and then? | /r/MensRights | 02/10/12 07:18 PM |
| 2 | Is there anything I can do? My wife wants a divorce because she caught me watching porn.I hate that women have every advantage and we have none and that they can just destroy our lives in an instant. Uh, it sounds like this woman has every advantage and you have none. | /r/MensRights | 13/02/12 04:42 PM |
| 0 | WTF. TIL that you can go to the courts to force a 12 year old to be Genitally Mutilated.I'm surprised he got custody at all now that the feminists have infiltrated the court system so thoroughly. | /r/MensRights | 13/02/12 04:34 PM |
| 3 | Had A Painful Conversation With This Girl TodayBoard of directors has nothing to do with it. | /r/MensRights | 13/02/12 04:30 PM |
| 30 | Had A Painful Conversation With This Girl TodayTrue CEOs take the job, by killing the old CEO. | /r/MensRights | 13/02/12 04:12 PM |
| 5 | Had A Painful Conversation With This Girl TodayOr had previously been the (successful?) CEO of a company that they founded before becoming the CEO of another business? | /r/MensRights | 13/02/12 04:11 PM |
| 2 | Czech Railways to introduce women-only wagons in their trains (Source google-translated)Ah sorry, I didn't notice you were the OP and therefore replied without context. And yep, it's a band-aid. The real problem is that the sorts of guys who assault women genuinely seem to believe that everyone else does it too and they're just bad at covering it up. | /r/MensRights | 06/02/12 05:10 PM |
| 2 | Czech Railways to introduce women-only wagons in their trains (Source google-translated)It sounds like there's a women's only car precisely because there is a problem with assaults. They're not going to institute such a thing as a random act of sexism, but rather because they're starting to make a loss or look bad. So if it does send such a message, is it entirely unjustified? | /r/MensRights | 06/02/12 04:41 PM |
| 2 | Czech Railways to introduce women-only wagons in their trains (Source google-translated)A train is a confined space where you can't easily get away from an assaulter, so I don't think that special handling is unmerited. Could you clarify how this would increase distrust of men? | /r/MensRights | 06/02/12 04:07 PM |
| 2 | How laws concerning the age of consent actually act as an economic subsidy on female sexual market value starting @ 31:40"How laws concerning the age of consent actually act as an economic subsidy on female sexual market value" Have you looked yourself in a mirror lately? | /r/MensRights | 05/02/12 02:04 PM |
| 2 | My new girlfriend had sex with me while I was passed out drunk. What should I do?(cross-post)There's three separate sets of rights going on here. The right of people to not be raped. Obviously this one was violated, and that's totally shit. The right of a woman to choose to have an abortion, or to choose to not have an abortion. This is basic bodily autonomy, just as much as not being sexually violated is. The right of a child, an innocent in all of this, to have support. I don't think these three things are inconsistent, however. I think (1) makes the woman in question unsuitable to be… | /r/MensRights | 05/02/12 02:01 PM |
| -2 | Czech Railways to introduce women-only wagons in their trains (Source google-translated)And what a nasty punishment it is too, being unable to use one carriage of a train. | /r/MensRights | 05/02/12 01:12 PM |
| 0 | The Female Privilege Checklist:) | /r/MensRights | 06/01/12 10:58 AM |
| 0 | The Female Privilege ChecklistSee the problem with trolling is that you're either subtle and remain indistinguishable from people who genuinely think stupid things, or you go blatant and everyone dismisses you as a troll. Is there any fun to be had by walking the line? Edit: silly question when directed at you. Nevermind. | /r/MensRights | 05/01/12 10:49 PM |
| 0 | The Female Privilege ChecklistI think I see how this works… | /r/MensRights | 05/01/12 10:44 PM |
| 2 | The Female Privilege ChecklistJust to clarify, you think that "female supremacists" unknown have subverted the scientific method and thereby convinced the medical profession that they have a higher pain threshold, and this keeps men down how? Especially in the light that you think it's backfired… | /r/MensRights | 05/01/12 10:28 PM |
| 1 | The Female Privilege ChecklistYou're my new favourite troll :) | /r/MensRights | 05/01/12 10:19 AM |
| 8 | The Female Privilege Checklist"I will never be friendzoned"? Really? C'mon, evaluate this one critically. It's suggesting that any woman can, at any time, initiate a romantic or sexual relationship with anyone that they're friends with that they take an interest in. That's frankly offensive and ridiculous, not least because it suggests that any man would, at any time, reciprocate romantic or sexual interest from any woman, regardless of his relationship status. That's what "I will never be friendzoned" implies. | /r/MensRights | 05/01/12 01:23 AM |
| 2 | The Female Privilege ChecklistThose feminists. Keeping the men down by suggesting that they have higher pain thresholds. Grr! | /r/MensRights | 05/01/12 12:48 AM |
| 2 | The Female Privilege ChecklistI think patriarchy (or kyriarchy as a whole) is an entirely useful concept that is worth exploring. It basically refers to the invisible set of attitudes that we're all brought up with which impose harmful gender roles on everyone, and crucially, are also policed by almost everyone. I think to resolve issues on both checklists requires people to become conscious of these attitudes and policing, to develop the self-awareness to know when one is engaging in them, and to bring attention to it when … | /r/MensRights | 05/01/12 12:46 AM |
| 69 | [FR] Extremely WTF-almost-F-close. Please, please read Seddit. (1000 words)You fucking nasty violent transphobic rapist. | /r/seduction | 21/12/11 04:53 PM |
| 1 | Transphobia project trash /mensrights then drop banhammer when I defend /mensrights.… … … … I concede all points. I clearly can't compete with your intellect. | /r/MensRights | 16/07/11 06:37 PM |
| 2 | Transphobia project trash /mensrights then drop banhammer when I defend /mensrights.Okay, I see a list of anti-male legislation. I'm not quite sure how many of those could even be supported by feminists, let alone caused by them. | /r/MensRights | 16/07/11 06:31 PM |
| 1 | Proposed new motto for mensrights: "oppose feminism wherever feminism opposes equality."Reading comprehension fail. And I might add, you failed to quote my edit where I explicitly clarify that I was making a claim about how MRAs perceive feminism, not about how feminism actually is. I considered it an absurd and hyperbolic statement, one that'd get a "hang about, that's a bit off" from the MRA crowd, not violent agreement that yes, yes you really do think feminism explicitly aims for that. | /r/MensRights | 16/07/11 08:47 AM |
| -4 | Transphobia project trash /mensrights then drop banhammer when I defend /mensrights.Oooooooohkaaaaaaaaaaay… | /r/MensRights | 16/07/11 05:25 AM |
| 0 | Proposed new motto for mensrights: "oppose feminism wherever feminism opposes equality."It also rather misses the point. What men's rights issues genuinely come from the advances of feminism? Why not define as a positive movement? | /r/MensRights | 16/07/11 01:19 AM |
| 12 | Transphobia project trash /mensrights then drop banhammer when I defend /mensrights.She, actually. I wasn't claiming that feminism aims to place women above men. I was hoping that statement was absurd enough to be self-evidently ironic. What I was claiming, with very little seriousness, was that the denizens of /r/mensrights actually think that's what feminism is about. The last thing I was expecting was for y'all to come and pile in shouting "see! see! Didn't we tell you!" | /r/MensRights | 16/07/11 01:15 AM |
| 4 | Transphobia project trash /mensrights then drop banhammer when I defend /mensrights.Okay, this is the facepalm moment for me. I think there's been a misunderstanding. Hands up if you think that in that comment I am claiming that feminism is actually trying to make things better for women than they are for men. I'm not saying that at all, but perhaps context is lost here. What do y'all think I'm getting at? | /r/MensRights | 16/07/11 01:11 AM |
| 0 | Should a 'Trans-girl' let you know that she used to be a man before sex? Not according to the folk of /r/transphobiaproject.Yeah, I get it that you're concerned that there's even some internal debate. I get it that there's going to be discussion once the post has been made. But the problem is that it's promoting a dangerous and unrealistic portrayal of us that frankly gets people killed, and the fact that it's being asked at all is somewhat offensive in the same way that a post entitled "should muslims be allowed in airports" or "should men be allowed to be alone with women they're not married to?" would be. Sure it'… | /r/MensRights | 09/05/11 07:53 AM |
| 1 | Should a 'Trans-girl' let you know that she used to be a man before sex? Not according to the folk of /r/transphobiaproject.Now now, everyone thinks they're being objective. I mean, look at you. | /r/MensRights | 09/05/11 07:07 AM |
| 0 | Should a 'Trans-girl' let you know that she used to be a man before sex? Not according to the folk of /r/transphobiaproject.Well, let's say the trans person has made the effort to ensure their partner does know it's a possibility, then. I doubt your scenario is going to cause great emotional distress, though. Someone who hasn't been exposed to all the sensationalist, negative and wildly wrong media tropes might actually deal with the matter with unclouded eyes. We're kind of getting down to an unrealistic scenario within an unrealistic scenario as it is, though. | /r/MensRights | 09/05/11 12:49 AM |
| 2 | Should a 'Trans-girl' let you know that she used to be a man before sex? Not according to the folk of /r/transphobiaproject.Oh come on, really? 6_o spends all his time trying to troll trans people, posting intentionally hurtful stuff and generally being an ass. All this thread is doing is promoting the tired old idea that trans women are 'really men' out to trick people into 'gay' sex. As if dating guys as a trans woman is somehow easier, less fraught, less risky and painful than just being a gay man. As if the pain of transition and the rather obvious hatred, dislike and misrepresentation is anything anyone would fa… | /r/MensRights | 09/05/11 12:37 AM |
| 1 | Should a 'Trans-girl' let you know that she used to be a man before sex? Not according to the folk of /r/transphobiaproject.Yeah, what is with people thinking that just because they have an opinion, it's more valid? I keep having to tell people exactly what you've just said, that my beliefs are equally valid, when they tell me that evolution exists. | /r/MensRights | 08/05/11 11:31 PM |
| 1 | Should a 'Trans-girl' let you know that she used to be a man before sex? Not according to the folk of /r/transphobiaproject.And that transgender person has a right to know before having sex with you. If you don't disclose that, you're being immoral. | /r/MensRights | 08/05/11 11:24 PM |
| 0 | Should a 'Trans-girl' let you know that she used to be a man before sex? Not according to the folk of /r/transphobiaproject.So the issue here is just the inability to have children thing? | /r/MensRights | 08/05/11 11:23 PM |
| 1 | For a boy to look like a girl is degrading (crosspost from 2X)See also: Orlando Bloom, Bill Kaulitz. | /r/MensRights | 13/04/11 08:36 AM |
| 1 | For a boy to look like a girl is degrading (crosspost from 2X)Men in dresses are displaying something powerfully attractive, of course: the self-confidence to defy all the gender policing that inevitably follows. | /r/MensRights | 13/04/11 08:06 AM |
| 1 | For a boy to look like a girl is degrading (crosspost from 2X)I dunno, it seems kind of odd of us to place the entire blame for societal problems on women. <troll>In /r/mensrights?</troll> You've got the right idea: why the hell not just go out wearing dresses, and who cares what people think? Gender policing comes from both genders, and it's bullshit. And if you do, take careful note of people's reactions and the reasons they give. People have weird ideas about what one 'ought' to do or who one 'ought' to be based on gender. | /r/MensRights | 13/04/11 07:57 AM |
| 1 | For a boy to look like a girl is degrading (crosspost from 2X)Really? I chase the fuck out of feminine boys, especially the ones in skirts. | /r/MensRights | 13/04/11 07:52 AM |
| 2 | She had her penis removed and then proceeds to have sex with men without disclosing it. MRA issue?That's a fairly unscientific measure. Just it seemed that every other name read out at the last TDOR was someone from Brazil. | /r/MensRights | 26/02/11 12:19 AM |
| 3 | She had her penis removed and then proceeds to have sex with men without disclosing it. MRA issue?Yeah. Trans people have a good reason to be invested in countering transphobia and do a good job of engaging in discussion on reddit. What 6_o's reason for being invested in the subject is remains unclear. | /r/MensRights | 25/02/11 10:49 PM |
| 1 | She had her penis removed and then proceeds to have sex with men without disclosing it. MRA issue?common misconception of "trans" as innocent … … wrongfully labeling me as a bigot Wrongfully? | /r/MensRights | 25/02/11 10:45 PM |
| 3 | She had her penis removed and then proceeds to have sex with men without disclosing it. MRA issue?I can only assume some people have triggers due to repressed sexuality and/or internalised homophobia, and it's only polite to warn them if you think facts about your medical history might cause them to have a massive sexuality crisis. I'd say it's also probably problematic if they've explicitly asked about one's status or otherwise made clear that they'd have an issue, but otherwise quite frankly it's not deception. | /r/MensRights | 25/02/11 10:43 PM |
| 6 | She had her penis removed and then proceeds to have sex with men without disclosing it. MRA issue?Ah, it's nom-nom-nom, we've seen him before. He seems to spend all of his spare time posting in trans-related threads, apparently getting some enjoyment out of upsetting and annoying a group who are already worn down from dealing with such attitudes in their everyday lives. Trolls gonna troll. | /r/MensRights | 25/02/11 10:38 PM |
| 3 | She had her penis removed and then proceeds to have sex with men without disclosing it. MRA issue?Damn straight. Transition isn't deception, it's one of the most courageous forms of honesty there is. | /r/MensRights | 25/02/11 10:19 PM |
| 3 | She had her penis removed and then proceeds to have sex with men without disclosing it. MRA issue?Brazil seems to be the world leader in transphobic murders. It's no wonder that some people don't want to disclose. | /r/MensRights | 25/02/11 10:14 PM |
| 6 | She had her penis removed and then proceeds to have sex with men without disclosing it. MRA issue?Dude's gotta be in one closet or the other, that's for sure. | /r/MensRights | 25/02/11 10:09 PM |
| 2 | “… So I had decided to become a woman and earn money”The whole article doesn't quite ring true. In most places being trans makes it much harder to get a job. The author also seems to conflate transition with "the surgery" as though an operation would change the gender one is perceived as; if the objective was to pass well enough to get a job, just hormones would do - and those are expensive enough. Finally, surgery takes at least a year of living as a woman and two psych letters (based on internationally recognised WPATH guidelines), making it qui… | /r/MensRights | 03/01/11 11:22 AM |
| 1 | “… So I had decided to become a woman and earn money”I've always wondered why people think that about trans people. | /r/MensRights | 02/01/11 10:39 PM |
| 1 | This attitude is why women are awarded crazy amounts of child support.What? Traitors! Link? | /r/MensRights | 11/11/10 06:39 PM |
| 1 | What do you think of this, r/mensrights? I'm curious.Feminism is so thoroughly misunderstood in the mainstream that the term itself is becoming near-meaningless: if Sarah Palin can work against women's rights (y'know, such as by ending free rape kits in Alaska) and claim to be a feminist because she's a woman in a prominent position and still not be laughed out of the room, then yeah, you've got a point. | /r/MensRights | 09/11/10 08:08 AM |
| 3 | What do you think of this, r/mensrights? I'm curious.I hope she doesn't think she's being a feminist, playing off gendered tropes like that. | /r/MensRights | 08/11/10 09:58 PM |
| 12 | This attitude is why women are awarded crazy amounts of child support.Health insurance is not a need. Only an american… | /r/MensRights | 08/11/10 09:55 PM |
| 2 | Calling boys fags has more to do with masculinity than homosexualityI hear he has a walk-in closet. | /r/MensRights | 08/11/10 10:07 AM |
| 1 | Calling boys fags has more to do with masculinity than homosexualityPerhaps I should clarify that I was using the impersonal "you". What I am suggesting is that the range of feminine and masculine traits is independent of sexuality, but the expression of feminine traits in men is more common among out gay men. When much policing of masculinity comes in the form of being accused of being gay, and one is already comfortable with that, why pay attention? Taken in the large, the correlation between feminine expression and being gay has led to a belief that there is … | /r/MensRights | 08/11/10 08:17 AM |
| 0 | Calling boys fags has more to do with masculinity than homosexualityI suspect that if you've already dealt with being gay, it's much, much easier to be yourself with respect to gender expression. | /r/MensRights | 07/11/10 11:35 PM |
| 6 | My mom told me about a rule in some women's shelters, and I'd like to talk about it with reasonable people Reposted from TwoXChromosomesExactly! There's a difference between a safe space and a space that is merely deliberately exclusive. Is everyone here really claiming that they ought to have the right to march into a battered woman's shelter and… do what? Visit their ex girlfriends? If their mothers, sisters, daughters, or friends were in such a shelter, would they really consider having to meet them outside to be such a trial in exchange for the knowledge that their ex cannot ever get in and beat them to a pulp, and for that … | /r/MensRights | 13/06/10 11:52 AM |
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