epicgamergamingtime Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	Q4Men: Would you truly spend a year or more with a woman with zero intention of being serious/ married? And let her think otherwise? Being a not super attractive man in the friendzone devalues men as well. Also again she is chosing this life. Its her responsibility as well if she suffers negative consequences. Women have agency.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/26 02:50 PM
7	Q4Men: Would you truly spend a year or more with a woman with zero intention of being serious/ married? And let her think otherwise? This is like the genderbent version of the friendzone which is the fuckzone. Since people usually dont blame the woman enjoying friendzone benefits I will not criticize men enjoying fuckzone benefits and will put all the agency here on her just like people do with men in the friendzone. Personally would never do it though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/26 12:30 AM
0	LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD Blue eyes with blond hair and especially blonde eye brows actually ends up being a sub optimal look due to low contrast.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/26 12:24 PM
3	What do you mean exactly when you say that men are “disappointing”? When asking women I suggest specifying if youre asking about their disappointment during a relationship or before a relationship during selection. Because they are likely completely different things and women usually answer about inside relationship things which essentially boil down to not being a anti social, inconsiderate ass which is easy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/26 11:26 AM
0	Why is there such a massive asymmetry in how men pursue women vs. how women pursue men? I never said that facial attractiveness doesnt matter at least I didnt intend to. I agree that women are on a primal level attracted to those hunter gatherer physical traits e.g. lean, tall, facially attractive, hair and skin. What I am saying is that currently most men dont have a lot of those traits genetically because in recent history it was not relevant for reproduction as women didnt have free choice of who they reproduce with. Yeah I dont think women generally objectively more facially at…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/26 09:33 PM
0	Why is there such a massive asymmetry in how men pursue women vs. how women pursue men? Usefulness not attractiveness depends on the era I would say. If youre a farmer in europe in the medieval period its probably decently good to be on the shorter side to bend down easier, wear out your joints less to avoid injury and consume less food. Facial attractiveness etc. also doesnt matter as much as competition is low and someone will be interested because of your income. Same for if youre a hunter gathered in africa or a short fat person living in a tundra. The limiting factor isnt musc…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/26 07:27 PM
-1	Why is there such a massive asymmetry in how men pursue women vs. how women pursue men? I guess cause most mens genes arent optimized for visual attractiveness since procreating mostly depended on being useful enough to provide for a woman in the past. And genetic histories of famine also dont help since they keep men small lessening visual attractiveness.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/26 04:53 PM
2	Women have very little to gain from heterosexual sex & relationships and men don't care Youre right women dont gain much from being with men anymore. But men work and behave the same way as always (Perhaps a bit less social on average due to economic and romantic hopelessness but mostly the same). Men have only become more emotionally aware and smart. So what do women want from men?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/26 04:48 PM
2	I don't get why men are surprised with womens behaviors or actions. I think we are long past protecting and providing in the western world. Women can do that themselves thanks to living in a first world society. Its mostly about looking good and being entertaining now for men. Providing can still work if youre in the top 1 percent earners or something though Im sure. I think saying you may as well not exist takes it too far though because humans benefit from culture and information that has been passed down. So even if you dont procreate you can make a differenc…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/25 04:51 PM
1	Women have not somehow artificially manipulated the dating market to increase their perceived value, the modern dating market simply revealed that women are more desirable than men I think in the past men may have been on a sort of equal attractiveness playing field to women because there were more avenues they could go down to be attractive rather than just be born handsome, be entertaining or have access to luxury. All of those avenues were also less inflated due to social media not existing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/25 04:36 PM
2	I think there is something that needs to be said about how many men approach dating: the “be as appealing to as many women as possible” approach Its probably true that most men in general could pursue more things that they are intrinsically motivated by more but thats really only useful for personal fulfillment not attracting a woman since most of the stuff that fulfills men women dont care about. A good amount of dudes are already on that path to be themselves though and have been for a long time and still dont attract anyone. Then they turn to cast their net wider by becoming universally more appealing. But I do actually think you are …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/25 11:07 PM
–	I think men act and feel more entitled to romantic success than they realise I agree for the most part. There are too many pillers who are actually perma stuck in redpill rage because it feels good to be angry. And that translates into feeling entitled. And I know that there are also plenty of pillers who arent stuck in red pill rage but we have to admit that the amount perma stuck in red pill rage is big, growing and is constantly giving people bad inpressions which leads to posts like these.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/25 04:51 PM
2	Women will bennefit the most, from sex bots. Maybe they will be able to work around their social shortcomings but idk. Women date lawbreakers because they think its cool that they work dangerous professions and likely are at the top of their low income areas hierarchy and a woman who has sex with her students is more similar yes but there is also a taboo appeal that is being enjoyed here which is a classic female fantasy. So Im staying on the side of not believing women will not be fine with robots. Its hard to say though since reality is …	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/05/25 12:07 AM
1	Women will bennefit the most, from sex bots. Its hard to say imo. On one hand women enjoy character driven porn writing more but on the other hand I think that since the sexbot for her cannot go against her will, work a high end job, get status etc.. she will very quickly get bored of the robot and demote him to sexfriend/sextoy. Not to mention having a male sexbot would be akin to social suicide for a woman if her friends found out. My guess is it will only be a thing for the rare super isolated women without any friends at all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/05/25 11:35 PM
8	Root cause of male loneliness crisis? Yeah its two similar problems really. One is the loneliness crisis refeering to lack of close friendships and one is the "partner crisis" refeering to lack of partners I guess. Both problems are also intertwined. Reasons for the partner crisis are that people stay at home instead of go out because of good home entertainment, dating apps minimize mens personalities and due to women getting into better and better careers men have to be beauty and entertainment objects as well as the traditional su…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/25 09:40 AM
3	Q4M: What significance does a social network have to you? Just hanging out with the boys can be fun but I generally have more fun alone. Increasing my social circle and getting to know people has always felt like networking and marketing work to me. So yeah I do view extending my network as more work. Also I think you just have to get lucky with your friend group. If you luck into a mixed friend group in high school then your chances of getting a partner rise astronomically. If its all dudes then you wont get anywhere.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/25 10:24 AM
1	Q4M: Do you maliciously withhold compliments from women when out in public? I only compliment people and things when they impress me. A womans looks or clothing usually dont impress me so I dont compliment them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/25 07:07 PM
5	What going to happen to the dating scene in 10 to 20 years? Its kinda sad yeah but thats just how human nature works imo. Its only logical that women prioritize filtering the gene pool after enough ressources have been acquired to survive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/25 05:16 PM
10	What going to happen to the dating scene in 10 to 20 years? If there is no financial collapse then we will further trend towards a lookism society where mens beauty and entertainment factor is their entire value so plastic surgery will boom. Good looking men and men who can afford plastic surgery will have their pick while most other men will live on the internet. Some ugly men will form roaming packs of thugs which will harass women though. I hope that we can reach a world where we can make all men handsome, tall and lean though gene editing so they don…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/25 02:39 PM
0	What should we do about men approaching way less woman than back in the day? The key things that are different now are dating apps and loss of affordable hang out spaces people in their twenties can go to. People were also much more inclined to go to those places because media wasnt as entertaining back then. So demonize media and make gathering places affordable and sociable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/24 01:33 AM
-1	Most of unrealistic beauty standards are imposed on women by other women I have heard that large parts of the fashion industry are controlled by gay men which like to tell women that the stick thin model look is attractive and good. Essentially creating beauty standards that hetero men dont even care about.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/24 04:37 PM
1	How do you think the men mental health crisis is going to end? I think its better to call it a socialization crisis because these men dont have anything when in a time before the internet and remote working they would have had a community. I think men will keep committing suicide until the neet problem threatens the economy which is when systematic socialization will somehow be offered by the governemnts to reconnect people. Its not going to fix itself because systematic problems dont get fixed by individual solutions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/24 01:40 AM
3	Will AI boyfriends make males obsolete? Not until those AI boyfriends could be fully fledged and respected members of society who could hold acquire at least a decent amount of power and status. Women would slander other women who walk around with a subservient AI boyfriend who does nothing but try to be with her.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/23 06:12 AM
1	Are men making their best offer? I think men are making the best offer they are willing to make. I say willing because the reward of getting a nice family is getting more and more unlikely. In this time where everyone is kinda content to just look at social media or netflix at home and the middle class fades away due to cost of living increases a man can only really appeal to a woman by either earning enough money to significantly increase her lifestyle or offer an experience that she will enjoy e.g. shades of grey esque, beaut…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 04:03 AM
1	How come TRP doesn't teach betas in how to become alphas? Im pretty sure TRP stated from the beginning that you have to have money, be jacked and have social skills and a social life. Making money is just the hardest part of it and standards have risen which is why its a focus right now.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 03:27 AM
1	Most guys struggle with modern dating because they struggle to adapt to modern society itself I would say the sedation with porn etc. is primarily an effect caused by respect and family being so hard to obtain that it can appear as unachievable to many guys.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/23 05:06 AM
4	Women want to be loved, but they don't want to love. I mean all love is conditional and you are your actions. A woman loves a man because of his ability to provide and lead. A man loves a woman because of her ability to bear children and nurture. And parents love their children because they are their own flesh and blood. If you stop providing you are a different person now which doesnt deserve the love of your partner anymore.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/23 06:05 AM
1	Do men actually want love? Men have historically always romanticized their partners. Countless works of art speak to that. Nowadays women regularly teach men that they prefer detached players to romantic guys though. So more guys give up on romance.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/23 05:09 AM
2	In the end, all men want is to feel needed. How do we help men cultivate a new purpose? I dont think national service would help tbh. You spend months with some dudes and become friends and then move away from them to never see them again. Dont they have national service in south korea which has worse mental health problems for young people than the west? More apprenticeships can help sure. But the obvious problem is that young men have to work harder for less money and arent likely to have a partner while they are young. So both economic and intimate success are so hard to have fo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/23 04:37 AM
2	Nonverbal consent Women like risk takers, confidence and being social. This is a way to test those traits for them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/23 09:06 PM
1	Okay am I really high rn or do women do shit that would be really cringey if men did it? Horoscopes and crystals are pretty cringe but the rest I dont personally care who does it. If you do feminine things as a man women generally wont want to have sex with you. If a woman does masculine things she will still get sex just probably not from the guy she likes and she probably also wont get relationship from the guy she likes. In general though women tolerate less feminine behavior from their men than men tolerate masculine behavior from their women nowadays in my experience. So you ar…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/23 05:47 PM
1	What's stopping men from posting nudes and thirst traps online? You have to have a lot of diet discipline because anything but low bodyfat with muscles isnt going to give you results on average. Also you have actually have the skill to shoot a good picture. When you see influencers who arent perfectly in shape get thirsted after by women its their social influence that turns the women on. Being at the top of your niche is a massive turn on for women in that niche. But all the guys who arent in that social position dont cause arousal as easily.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/06/23 04:07 PM
1	What is your opinion of incels? Yeah I really think most redpillers dont actually leave the rage phase and are really effectively blackpillers.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/23 03:45 PM
1	Why do women invade male spaces and it is almost never the other way around? Women invade male spaces because groups of men like that are usually entertaining. Men dont invade womens spaces because men dont want to do feminine things and will also protect womens interests so they will accept and support female only spaces. But I dont think your ballooning club is inherently a boys club so women are okay to join.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/23 11:12 AM
1	"Touch grass" is awful advice. Social interaction and getting better at social skills is a two way street. You need two people who are BOTH willing to have a social interaction, it's not something you can do on your own. People seem to forget this. Alright. I only saw it once online so I thought I might mention it. Point still stands that there are opportunities to have interactions out there.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/23 06:17 PM
1	"Touch grass" is awful advice. Social interaction and getting better at social skills is a two way street. You need two people who are BOTH willing to have a social interaction, it's not something you can do on your own. People seem to forget this. There are still ways to develop social skills even if you truly have zero skills. If you have it medically bad then go see a therapist or some sort of support group. Otherwise I acquired practice by working the cash register at a liquor store. There were lots of recurring customers some friendly and some unfriendly and that already helped. I also made youtube videos. Its done alone but every video is essentially a joking session where you can review your actions and go from cringe to funny. No n…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/23 05:29 PM
1	Are short guys more likely to be superior in other genetical aspects? Right, my bad. Its the cubic power.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/23 04:54 PM
2	Are short guys more likely to be superior in other genetical aspects? I disagree a taller person will generally have more width and depth proportional to their height. All I can say here is go look at examples.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/23 04:11 PM
2	Are short guys more likely to be superior in other genetical aspects? Its because of famines and lack of nutrients. As hunter gatherers there werent as many famines in the savannah so humans were tall. As farmers in europe there were a decent amount of famines and our diet was really bad so humans got smaller. This is even more true for asia. And nowadays people are getting bigger since we have good nutrition and access to food.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/23 04:06 PM
6	Are short guys more likely to be superior in other genetical aspects? It is exponential since when we increase one dimension like height others follow suit and also get bigger e.g. height x length x width = volume. Taller people have to be wider and thicker otherwise our biomechanics dont work out. And volume as you can imagine is directly responsible for mass since density x volume = mass.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/23 03:58 PM
1	It wont be men abandoning women when the AI sex revolution hits. Youre right ofc Ai would be able to keep things fresh.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/23 12:28 AM
13	It wont be men abandoning women when the AI sex revolution hits. I really dont think so tbh. Women will still want to get pregnant and even more importantly women want to love a guy with a career, passion and social status which robots dont have. I also dont think a robot can continually introduce new things in the bedroom and relationship to keep it fun for the woman. Men are essentially fine with a dynamic sex toy that talks to them and sometimes gives compliments. Ai is going to have a harder time satisfying the needs of women than men. But maybe in the fa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/23 02:55 PM
3	How different would historical gender dynamics and modern dating be if the size/strength difference between males and females were reversed, but everything else had remained the same? At some point men would just have evolved to be bigger again. If you drop a tribe of big women and small men in our home the savannah the men will still form all male hunting parties because they are still faster and less prone to injury due to a physique that doesnt have to take giving birth into account. With famines coming and going big women die out due to non optimal energy usage with both being big and giving birth requiring big amounts of energy. Women will also notice that taller men per…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/23 03:13 AM