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5

Go download one of those apps that show you what she’ll look like in 20 years. That’ll sort ya out boss
/r/askTRP12/01/19 10:50 AM
7

I dunno man could be over thinking it. I blindfold my LTR in bed and I’m not worrying about stuff like this.
/r/askTRP08/01/19 08:24 AM
4

There’s only one reasonable answer to this question “I want to cum on your face and declare you my girlfriend” - Anthony Johnson
/r/askTRP08/01/19 08:20 AM
1

It’s your call. Personally I couldn’t reward disrespectful behavior by continuing to let her have sex with me.
/r/askTRP01/01/19 12:50 PM
1

I think it’s bullshit but let’s assume for a second it’s true. She shouldn’t be letting guys get that close to her in the first place so either way she’s disrespectful.
/r/askTRP01/01/19 12:32 PM
2

If you let this slide she won’t respect you again and will do worse next time. Yes it sucks but that’s the way it is
/r/askTRP01/01/19 12:29 PM
3

You already know the answer. Have some self respect and never speak to her again
/r/askTRP01/01/19 12:26 PM
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I think it’s a combination of factors Society no longer places value on the nuclear family. Instead we’re taught to party and consume and put up with shitty behaviour in men and women. Men of this generation aren’t the same either. Mostly Netflix watching , pussy worshipping weaklings who let women get away with murder. Women of this generation are either social media addicted, over weight, drunken vulgar sluts or desperate to settle down post wall creatures. Seems to be fewer in the middle anym…
/r/askTRP25/12/18 10:35 AM
58

I think most men do want that but you need to remember the women of this generation aren’t like the women of previous generations.
/r/askTRP25/12/18 10:14 AM
1

Steal them
/r/askTRP22/11/18 07:45 PM
1

I don’t. But I believe she’ll overcome her reason for being a virgin and bang the right guy if he comes along. Hint: be the right guy
/r/askTRP15/10/18 06:20 PM
3

Yes they will. Who cares. Pass the tests as normal. Be attractive. Don’t be needy. Be the prize. I stole a girl from a 10 yr relationship once. As in she cheated and then left the dude a few months later and asked to get with me. Anything is possible. Don’t limit yourself to single women.
/r/askTRP15/10/18 04:31 PM
3

The only two ‘weapons’ you have are your attention and your commitment. When you’re disrespected or not getting what you want/need simply withdraw one or both. She’ll either fall in line or not.
/r/askTRP11/10/18 02:34 PM
4

Attraction is subjective so hard to answer that. Women at my level of SMV or above have been either non responsive or take longer to come around. That’s the best way I can explain it. But Men can usually increase SMV so I’d just focus on that. I’ve had women reject me and I’ve had a woman destroy her relationship, tear a family in half and sell her house to be with me. Biology is efficient. Focus on on speaking to their feelings and if you’re higher SMV in their minds then you’ll be seen as attr…
/r/askTRP05/10/18 01:27 PM
9

Nope. It’s geared towards using knowledge of biology to achieve your sexual strategy. You can use what you learn here to bang a bar slut or steal a girl from the high school sweet heart she’s been with for ten years. I’ve done both
/r/askTRP05/10/18 12:50 PM
3

I know. It’s hard to enter an LTR having been the other guy and knowing what’s possible. Most women I’ve experienced this with have left the relationship shortly after and showed signs of checking out. So you could look for that? But to be honest, if you’re at the point where she feels she wants to cheat is it worth saving? My only advice is that you need to keep gaming her every single day until the relationship ends or one of you dies. The burden of performance is on men unfortunately. She alw…
/r/askTRP04/10/18 03:25 PM
6

I wouldn’t put so much emphasis on her not texting. Every taken woman I’ve slept with has text their boyfriend while with me. You’ll never fully know where she is or who she’s with ALL of the time. It sucks but it’s part of the game.
/r/askTRP04/10/18 05:09 AM
3

Unlikely
/r/askTRP16/09/18 07:16 AM
5

If you contact her again you’ll have lost her attraction for good. If you don’t contact her again she’ll probably get back in touch at which point you’ll have the option to bang or ghost Resist the urge to double text.
/r/askTRP15/09/18 04:57 PM
0

Don’t quit the gym. Stop drinking so much. Sort your diet. Learn sales. Is what I’d tell my younger self
/r/askTRP02/09/18 09:08 PM
2

“Ive enough friends. But I’ve a vacancy for a FB and a cleaner, which are you applying for?”
/r/askTRP02/09/18 09:07 PM
3

Shouldn’t have dropped your other plates in the first place
/r/TheRedPill02/09/18 08:21 PM
6

Keep it on the back burner for a while but keep gaming other women. Minimal effort that might pay off.
/r/askTRP02/09/18 05:17 PM
1

I’ve banged women with bfs before. Basing my assumption here on the complete mental breakdown she had for two weeks after we smashed. Constant texts about her guilt, crying etc. Never experienced anything like it. Of course I could be wrong. Doesn’t matter.
/r/askTRP02/09/18 03:11 PM
2

Exactly. The last co-worker I slept with said the exact same thing, it was a fantasy of hers to hook up with someone at work. One time I got attached and started becoming jealous of her spending time with other guys at work. Dumb as fuck on my part and seriously impacted my ability to get the job done.
/r/askTRP02/09/18 01:31 PM
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Brilliant post. This is exactly what it’s like. Put it better than I ever could. The dopamine hit is better than anything I’ve ever experienced but the come down as described above is also worse.
/r/askTRP02/09/18 01:12 PM
8

Some of you guys are flat out fuxking bonkers
/r/askTRP02/09/18 12:40 PM
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Yes. Let my stupidity be a warning. Girl at work. Boyfriend of 10 years. Living together. Never cheated. N count = 1. I was bored said fuxk it I’m gonna get her into bed. Took me 4 weeks. Made my move and got told “I’m very happy with my boyfriend and I’m not putting that at risk for you.” “You’re a player only looking for sex” “Why me?” You get the idea. I kept building attraction, giving her the feelz. Kept light texting and kept asking her to hang out after work. (Dangerous game here, one cha…
/r/askTRP02/09/18 11:41 AM
1

I’d have to get the lay. Just for completeness. Figure out what she needs to get over the line. Is it that she’s looking to like you up as a replacement bf? If so you can use that. Build up the emotional connection etc As always. Keep gaming other women
/r/askTRP01/09/18 06:11 PM
2

Book https://www.amazon.com/Attached-Science-Adult-Attachment-YouFind/dp/1585429139
/r/askTRP29/08/18 12:02 PM
2

Because they’re fun. Because we need intimacy. Because it’s in our biological programming.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 10:15 AM
5

Read ‘Attached’ it will give you a better understanding of why you’re like this and what to do about it. https://www.amazon.com/Attached-Science-Adult-Attachment-YouFind/dp/1585429139 Every single relationship and friendship in your life will end at some point. Either one of your dies or leaves. Enjoy what you have and try to understand that your attachment issues and neediness will lead to your fears of abandonment coming true.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 08:13 AM
1

Yeah probably. Assuming you’re just after a fuck and don’t mind sloppy seconds. No way in hell I’d LTR this one
/r/askTRP28/08/18 05:21 PM
2

It’s a test to see if you’re jealous of her going off with the other guy. She knows full well how she got home. I’d ignore this childish nonsense.
/r/askTRP28/08/18 02:46 PM
2

I deadlift
/r/askTRP21/08/18 07:47 PM
11

You’ll find his number in her phone under ‘janet’ in about a week
/r/askTRP20/08/18 02:03 PM
3

Just open what’s app and you’ll see their profile pic.
/r/askTRP19/08/18 03:57 PM
6

Jesus Christ. If you don’t want to be fucked in the ass then that’s ok. As for your relationship. Well. I’d be seriously reconsidering it.
/r/askTRP18/08/18 10:45 PM
15

Dude get real. Please. The last girl I fucked just signed a 30 year mortgage with her boyfriend a few weeks before I met her. One screenshot and I could ruin the rest of his life. They don’t fucking care like we care. Loyalty is not a female concept. Hypergamy doesn’t give a fuck about your love.
/r/askTRP18/08/18 05:31 PM
1

Yes I’ve done it. Fucked her down an alleyway on Christmas Eve and came in her mouth. Ho ho ho Myself and the dude are no longer friends.
/r/askTRP18/08/18 04:09 PM
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You’re fucked. I’ve been the guy that women put in their phones as a girls name so their boyfriends won’t get suspicious. I was fucking every one of them. Also. The fact that you verbalised how much you don’t want her talking to him only means you’ve increased his value in her eyes. If you see him as a threat he must have value right? That’s how women think. Dread is the only viable option at this point . Assuming she hasn’t fucked the guy already.
/r/askTRP18/08/18 04:08 PM
1

This is my fav
/r/askTRP17/08/18 05:02 PM
20

“I’m open to it. Let’s have fun and see where this goes” Technically not a lie
/r/askTRP16/08/18 05:32 PM
1

Honestly. The way to do it is build attraction over a few messages then use the “meet me at x place at y time” thing If that isn’t working then either you’re not building attraction or the women are attention seeking with no intention to meet anyone. Online dating is horrible. I do ten times better in real life.
/r/askTRP15/08/18 09:34 PM
3

By asking if they’re busy you’re giving them an obvious out. And you’re communicating that you’re low value by admitting there are things more important she could be doing than meeting with you
/r/askTRP15/08/18 09:22 PM
1

Replied below. Mobile Reddit sucks
/r/askTRP15/08/18 09:10 PM
3

Are you a actually asking them to “let’s meet up”? Instead say @meet me at X on Y Day 8pm” Men lead.
/r/askTRP15/08/18 09:02 PM
1

Persistent but not creepy. And most important: there has to be initial attraction, speak to her primal sub conscious brain with your actions, not her conscious brain. Make her biology and hypergamy work for you. Shit tests:l, all said in an angry tone with straight face in a 20 min conversation: “I’m NEVER having sex with you, your dick will never be inside me” <- means she’s thinking about sex with me. Good “I’ll never cheat on my bf, never!” <- means she’s already thought about it “So what if …
/r/askTRP15/08/18 08:59 PM
1

We work together so had some contact before I made my move. I lift and have unshakeable confidence. This is important. Before I gamed her I would tease her constantly every time we spoke. Tell her about dates I went on (not details just that I was dating). Key here was to get across the idea of me as the prize. I date a lot but can’t find anyone good enough is the idea I got across. I basically came across as a cocky but fun prick every time we spoke. I do this with everyone at work. I never tre…
/r/askTRP15/08/18 08:37 PM
2

The thirst and validation they display on social media every second of every day
/r/TheRedPill15/08/18 05:06 PM
1

I did this last month. Let my stupidity be a warning. Girl at work. Boyfriend of 10 years. Living together. Never cheated. I was bored said fuxk it I’m gonna get her into bed. Made my move and got told “I’m very happy with my boyfriend and I’m not putting that at risk for you.” “You’re a player only looking for sex” “Why me?” You get the idea. I kept building attraction, giving her the feelz. Kept light texting and kept asking her to hang out after work. (Dangerous game here, one change of heart…
/r/askTRP15/08/18 03:18 PM
0

Wouldn’t have worked in this situation. it would have placed value on him which I wanted to avoid. I’m the prize. I was trying to get her to cheat on a 10 yr relationship so had to frame myself as being higher value. Her comments were just her talking to herself, trying to make sense of why she was attracted to me even though on paper her boyfriend was ‘better’. She was attracted to me due to my frame, confidence and attitude. It was primal and she couldn’t quite understand it herself is my gues…
/r/askTRP15/08/18 01:44 PM
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Do it. The key thing to remember here is this: And don’t worry if it takes you a while to internalize it, I still fuck up from time to time. Women are unbelievably insecure. About everything. Every part of their body. Every part of their life. They NEED a strong man to quieten that insecurity so they test for strength by acting ‘confident and bitchy on the outside”. They have to do this to weed out weak men. Your job is to see right through this bullshit and not let it affect you in any way. Act…
/r/askTRP14/08/18 07:34 PM
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Don’t worry about it. Don’t mention it again. Act as if it never happened. And next time you get some shit designed to break your frame, don’t let it. I’ve had some hurtful shit said to me by women, comments that stung hard. I never react and I always get the lay. You’re made of solid fucking steel. Don’t forget that.
/r/askTRP14/08/18 07:24 PM
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It’s a test. Don’t react beyond laughing. I was once told by a girl that her boyfriend had bigger muscles than me, was much taller, and had more hair. (All 100% true) It almost got me. But I laughed instead. Few hours later I was balls deep in her. Never break frame.
/r/askTRP14/08/18 07:20 PM
8

33 here. Think the average age is much lower here. If you’re here in your early 20s you have no idea how fuxking lucky you are
/r/askTRP14/08/18 07:08 PM
2

Maybe he is an 8/9 and you just can’t see it
/r/askTRP14/08/18 08:40 AM
6

Women are out of their minds. Ruled by emotions that change every five minutes. Try not to get caught up in figuring stuff like this out. Waste of time
/r/askTRP14/08/18 08:24 AM
3

I’d like to add to my earlier comment. Girl I was fucking over the summer had a boyfriend and changed my name in snapchat to a female name so he wouldn’t get suspicious if he saw a notification. A woman who wants to cheat will find a way.
/r/askTRP13/08/18 03:59 PM
10

Impossible to tell based on that. Could be some creepy orbiter. Could be the guy from work she’s fucking. Do nothing for now. Keep observing and see if her behaviour changes.
/r/askTRP13/08/18 01:41 PM
4

Could have seen the dog in a picture. As for cheating it seems that she wants it. Whether he has crossed the line or not nobody here can tell you for sure. Texts seems a bit dodgy tho...
/r/askTRP11/08/18 06:03 PM
1

I’d wait
/r/askTRP11/08/18 10:36 AM
1

I’ve banged women with boyfriends at 5pm on a Wednesday. Get your head out of your ass. Get some self respect and dump her
/r/askTRP11/08/18 10:11 AM
3

Jesus Christ in his heaven just ignore the 200 line text. That’s her talking to herself. Today I got the “i don’t kiss guys I just met” line. 23 seconds later do you know what we were doing?
/r/askTRP10/08/18 07:50 PM
5

Microdose LSD. Changed my life
/r/askTRP10/08/18 06:28 AM
1

June 6th 2019
/r/askTRP08/08/18 06:56 PM
0

“Sup loser”
/r/askTRP05/08/18 10:06 PM
1

When she asks that text her “why don’t you call over and find out” She’ll say no at first. Don’t push it. Let her reach out again. Eventually she’ll call over.
/r/askTRP02/08/18 09:01 AM
1

It means she wants you. Text her. Game her. Fuck her
/r/askTRP01/08/18 05:54 PM
1

Why does she think that? She’s absolutely down to fuck. No question. It’s just a matter of time and you not messing it up.
/r/askTRP01/08/18 04:09 PM
3

Ah ya I wouldn’t worry about that. Last taken girl I fuxked said the first time I asked her out “I’m really happy with my boyfriend and I’m not putting that at risk” Two weeks later I was inside her after she said “please fuxk me” Keep building attraction and making opportunities for you guys to hang out.
/r/askTRP01/08/18 01:58 PM
2

Have you text her something like “x place. 8pm”
/r/askTRP01/08/18 01:14 PM
26

Fuck her like you’re being shipped off to Normandy in the morning.
/r/askTRP01/08/18 01:04 PM
1

You’re free to set your own boundaries and it seems like her lack of communication crossed a boundary for you. Which is cool. Your reply to her seemed a little butt hurt. Just demote her if you’re not getting what you want.
/r/askTRP31/07/18 06:32 AM
9

“I only look young standing next to you”
/r/askTRP27/07/18 07:48 AM
26

Last month I was bored at work and wondered if red pill game would work on the young cute office girl in a committed 10 year relationship. The answer of course was yes. Serious dopamine hit while it lasted. The forbidden-ness of it, the cheating on her side. The sneaking around the office to fool around. Huge rush. Of course it all came crashing down and although nobody found out, things are awkward as fuck and I’ve the constant fear of a HR report hanging over my head. Just don’t fucking do it.…
/r/TheRedPill26/07/18 08:39 PM
2

The medium is the message. Walk away and become more attractive
/r/askTRP24/07/18 08:18 PM
14

Muscles and frame
/r/askTRP24/07/18 05:38 PM
2

Meet and text her less. Tho this may cause her to chase you more. If you wanna get rid of her tell her you love her and can’t imagine life without her. She’ll run pretty quick
/r/askTRP24/07/18 04:35 PM
3

Don’t be too hard on yourself. Happens to all of us. I’m in my 30s and still get lazy, forget to cultivate new options. It’s constant improvement. It only ends when you die
/r/askTRP24/07/18 03:41 PM
1

You got lazy man. Took the easy road to the guaranteed pussy. You have to take the hard road. Put in the effort to keep attracting other women. It’s fucking hard yes. It never ends.
/r/askTRP24/07/18 03:28 PM
1

You solved your own problem in the post. You haven’t been speaking to other girls. You have one source of intimacy which makes you fear losing it, this translates into oneitis. We’ve all been there. Meet more women. Then decide, from a place of abundance, is she really is that special after all.
/r/askTRP24/07/18 03:18 PM
2

I did this once. Here’s what happened: I didn’t approach directly at the start as I liked going there and didn’t want to risk the awkwardness. Instead I made sure I was always chatty and funny with ALL the staff over a number of weeks. Eventually I was on first name basis with a number of the staff. I invited them all to an event I was organising at the time. Took their numbers. Messaged the target and arranged drinks with her one on one a few days before my event. At this point I saw enough ioi…
/r/askTRP23/07/18 06:49 PM
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The brain is weird. If you had one source of food your brain would make you do anything to not lose it. Same with intimacy. We’ve all been there man. Just recognise is as your programming and correct course. Meet more women.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/18 06:22 PM
4

Just take the week off without verbalising it
/r/askTRP23/07/18 06:05 PM
2

“I’m picky, are you auditioning for the position or something”
/r/askTRP23/07/18 06:05 PM
1

Sup loser is my go to first message
/r/askTRP23/07/18 07:41 AM
2

same girl dumped that bf and is now married with kids to a dude she was fuxking while also fuxking me. And she looks like shit now. I mean I played hard on her insecurities. She was 29 at the time, looking to settle down but her bf was broke as fuxk so she was looking for a more stable provider. I played the alpha man who opened up his soft sensitive side only to her. Hinted I was open to long term commitment. I wasn’t. We fucked for months until she figured out I was also fuxking other women an…
/r/TheRedPill22/07/18 02:38 PM
1

You can eat any fruit in the garden except the fruit on that tree....
/r/askTRP22/07/18 02:32 PM
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It’s beta if you’re putting on dog ears and adding stupid attention seeking shit to your story. It’s alpha if the girl you’re fucking is communicating with you on snapchat to avoid her boyfriend seeing your messages.
/r/askTRP22/07/18 12:16 PM
6

Walk away. Withdraw attention
/r/askTRP20/07/18 09:59 PM
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They don’t hate them no. It’s a defence mechanism. They assume, due to their insecurities, that you couldn’t possibly be interested in them and even if you were, you’d probably leave her when a 9 shows up, so they act bitchy to avoid getting invested.
/r/askTRP20/07/18 06:46 PM
3

She doesn’t belong to anyone man. He may never find out, he might find out. I don’t know. I didn’t make any commitments to him. She did. She hasn’t attempted a branch swing to me yet but watch this space. The survival of the species is based on hypergamy. Start seeing it as a good thing, something you can use.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/18 02:15 PM
1

I don’t understand the question. If I see something I want I go after it and try to take it. Sometimes I get it sometimes I don’t.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/18 12:15 PM
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I fucked a girl last week who is in a 10 yr relationship. The years don’t matter. Hypergamy is all that matters. Women are biologically hard wired to find the best possible mate. Add social media to the mix and all of a sudden it’s endless hypergamy.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/18 07:40 PM
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She might come around yet once she’s given you a taste of your own medicine. Probably what shes doing. Don’t message again. Don’t act needy. See what happens.
/r/askTRP19/07/18 04:17 PM
3

I’d go with “needy much?”
/r/askTRP19/07/18 07:43 AM
2

We’re all learning and that never stops. Just don’t forget to keep up the teasing. Dial it back to 80% teasing 20% connecting. Be unpredictable. Good luck out there
/r/askTRP18/07/18 09:13 PM
1

Good advice there. I tend to lean too much into the asshole side and too much can turn women off. To balance it I consciously make an effort to show my “sensitive side” now and then. I don’t show weakness I show sensitivity. There’s a difference.
/r/askTRP18/07/18 05:00 PM
1

I’d call it a test. Reply with something ridiculous. Don’t take it seriously. It’s a stupid question and she knows it. I’ve had the exact same question before and passed the test doing what I said above
/r/askTRP16/07/18 03:57 PM
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Was delivered dead pan. Eye contact. Serious face. Hold frame like your fuxking life depends on it
/r/askTRP15/07/18 05:15 PM
3

I laughed
/r/askTRP15/07/18 04:25 PM
14

Reminds me of a few weeks ago I got hit with “I’m NEVER having sex with you, your dick will never be inside me!” Few hours later....
/r/askTRP15/07/18 03:49 PM
12

Jesus man. Even I wouldn’t do that. I don’t think there’s any coming back from this for you. Accept it. Own it.
/r/askTRP12/07/18 08:43 PM
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I’ve been on the other side of this too where women left me to be with the ‘better option’ it’s biology there’s no point in getting upset about it. Your gf may not have fuxked this guy yet but it seems like he’s a threat. When I say walk away I don’t mean dump her. What I’d do, if you care enough about maintaining the relationship, is: Slowly withdraw attention from her in a non needy way. Embark on a serious self improvement journey More gym Dress better Become the best option she has right now…
/r/askTRP12/07/18 11:44 AM
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Walk away. It’s the only way you’ll keep your value. This story is very common, girlfriend starts new job, meets hot guy, you know the rest. I’ve been the ‘guy at work’ twice with girls in relationships. I fucked them both senseless because I could. You can’t negotiate with her Hypergamy. And guys like me know how take advantage of it.
/r/askTRP12/07/18 11:31 AM
3

You’re planning on asking her out after this? Are you out of your fucking mind. Forget about her. You’re young. Work on becoming a man girls chase
/r/askTRP11/07/18 09:11 PM
2

Who gives a shit game her normally
/r/askTRP03/07/18 10:02 AM
1

poorly worded. edited. I mean flakiness in women generally turns me off. not her in particular. I don't want anymore contact from her. Just want to make the right power move.
/r/askTRP30/06/18 10:41 AM
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Lift
/r/askTRP28/06/18 06:29 AM
253

You big teddy bear you come here
/r/askTRP26/06/18 07:07 PM
8

1955
/r/askTRP26/06/18 12:22 PM
2

lol
/r/askTRP26/06/18 07:51 AM
18

Stop asking for her time and tell her when you’re meeting instead. I’m going to X tomorrow. Wanna tag along? Meet me at Y at 9pm Friday. Take the fuxking lead for Christ sake. You’re begging her for a sliver of her time which communicates that you see her as higher value. It’s not going to work.
/r/askTRP26/06/18 06:29 AM
2

Well yes and no. You should read the material, put it into practice, read it again, put it into practice again etc etc All this material and the many books recommended serve as living documents that you should constantly refer to in conjunction with your real life trial and error.
/r/askTRP25/06/18 07:28 PM
9

Solid article thanks for taking the time to put it together. One of the highest quality posts in a while. Once you internalize this information it makes gaming ‘taken’ women super easy. You’re just using biology to do the work for you. It’s an amazing sight to watch her biology take over her decision making process and direct her to your cock.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/18 07:20 AM
0

I’d ask again in a week. Keep texting short and fun until then. If it’s a second no then good luck
/r/askTRP18/06/18 08:58 PM
1

Most are willing to cheat. I’ve been gaming a girl in a seven year relationship for the past two weeks. I now get daily pics of her half naked in bed. Texts about how she is falling for me and wants to leave her Bf and be with me. Seven year relationship self destructed in two weeks of game. I’ve spent less than 5 hours with her in this time and I ignore half the messages she sends. I’ll probably seal the deal next week. If I’m bored. The sidebar is a superpower, use it wisely.
/r/askTRP16/06/18 07:18 AM
1

She could still flake. I wouldn’t text to confirm plans, it looks needy. Stay in your frame and she will most likely text to confirm. If she doesn’t then there’s no magic words that can increase her interest level anyway. Your behaviour is your secret weapon. Behave like a high SMV man, even if you’re not yet, and the rest will work itself out in time.
/r/askTRP16/06/18 06:11 AM
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Too vague. Be a man with a plan. I have most success with “hey I’m doing X tomorrow wanna tag along”
/r/askTRP15/06/18 10:02 PM
10

Your people pleasing pussy worshipping room mate seems like the loser in the story to me. You’re here so you’ve already won. Keep lifting. Stick to a program and get bigger/leaner Keep approaching and working on your game Find hobbies that you genuinely enjoy - don’t just sign up to meet women Work on finding a job or developing an income stream Feel pity for your roommate. This will take time, months even years. But you can increase your SMV significantly.
/r/askTRP15/06/18 05:09 PM
5

I’ve had the most success when I’ve behaved the exact opposite of how I thought I should. The conditioning is strong. Every fibre of your body and mind will urge you to reply. You have to resist yourself.
/r/askTRP15/06/18 04:32 PM
1

Phone is fucked I replied below in the thread
/r/askTRP15/06/18 03:15 PM
8

You’re operating from a place of fear. Fear of pissing her off. You’re in her frame. Stop it. Recent example where I used this. Me: We’re meeting for lunch today. 1pm. X place. Her: blah blah blah not sure blah blah blah maybe blah blah Silence. 1pm comes. Guess who shows up.
/r/askTRP15/06/18 03:14 PM
8

I’ve had much more success with strategic non-responding compared to always responding. I wouldn’t reply. You’ve stated your wants that’s enough. You shouldn’t have to negotiate for someone to want to spend time with you. And if you do it anyway then your value plummets
/r/askTRP15/06/18 02:50 PM
1

Pets: Cat I’m dead 😂 poor cat
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/06/18 10:14 AM
1

Lol not every workout. I push myself every 7/8 workout
/r/askTRP12/06/18 06:55 PM
1

How long have you been NC?
/r/askTRP12/06/18 05:57 PM
2

What makes you so sure she wants the D
/r/askTRP12/06/18 05:53 PM
2

Eat Steak. Eat Good fats before bed. Sleep properly every night. Eliminate alcohol. Push yourself to your limit in the gym every week or so., you’ll know your limit when you’re on the floor over a bucket. Above worked for me YMMV
/r/askTRP12/06/18 05:51 PM
7

Social media
/r/askTRP10/06/18 08:40 PM
3

“You mean this week?” “Sorry, I didn’t realize I was supposed to be keeping count” “1 million million” “5 a day” Etc etc
/r/askTRP05/06/18 06:17 PM
13

20-27. I’m 33. The women I’ve dated over 30 were all a little cooky
/r/askTRP28/05/18 09:39 PM
7

5 dates is a bit much to be waiting. Also, you can reduce your costs by not paying for dinner 😉
/r/TheRedPill28/05/18 05:19 PM
1

Yes. It’s like being in an alternate reality. Men and women respond completely different to you when you look ‘jacked’. The discipline you earn can be transferred to other areas of your life. The health and mood benefits are an added bonus.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/18 06:04 AM
4

They suck right now. Whether they suck in 2 years from now is entirely up to you and in your control.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/18 04:34 PM
1

Maybe women don’t see you as a potential provider. This can be good or bad depending on what you want
/r/TheRedPill11/05/18 08:54 AM
26

Early 30s, high salary, new car, own property and yes I’m in decent shape. My answers work because it’s obvious they aren’t true based on how I dress, carry myself etc and women respond to a challenge. It’s amusing that every woman has the same questions yet they all think they’re the first to ask them. It’s only women 28+ who ask these questions. Young women just want fun
/r/TheRedPill10/05/18 04:53 PM
75

Every single woman I speak too will ask these questions within 30 mins What do you do for a living? What car do you drive? Do you own a house? Husband hunting check lists. Best answers: I wash windows I take the bus I share a houseboat with 6 people
/r/TheRedPill10/05/18 03:22 PM
2

Your WTF comment on the shower is worth talking about. If a girl goes for a shower in a situation like that it usually means she’s planning on having sex with you shortly. I misread this once in my bad old days and missed out on bedding a 21 yr old.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/18 09:15 AM
1

Video is cool, great job! There’s a small typo in it though
/r/TheRedPill27/04/18 04:49 PM
2

Has she come back since?
/r/TheRedPill27/04/18 01:53 PM
1

Why did you post this twice?
/r/TheRedPill25/04/18 05:35 PM
1

I get that and I do this at work but I’d rather pay $10 to an app developer than spend my time writing in a note book and then copying to a spreadsheet and then analyzing. It’s a convenience thing. My time is better spent doing other things in this area. Same reason I don’t grow my own vegetables. Useful skill yes but not an intelligent use of my time
/r/TheRedPill19/04/18 12:02 PM
1

It looks great but the yearly sub is pricey
/r/TheRedPill18/04/18 06:37 PM
1

I considered that but I’d lose the notebook! Also the app can help with trends and other data analysis that might be useful
/r/TheRedPill18/04/18 03:42 PM
1

Just downloaded this. How much does it cost to just get all the features without any subscription?
/r/TheRedPill18/04/18 03:19 PM
1

Nothing special. Logs. Cloud backup. Half decent UI. Pre loaded exercises. I looked at a few and am using Stacked right now.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/18 03:14 PM
2

I’ve read this before somewhere....hmm
/r/TheRedPill18/04/18 01:57 PM
3

I’m at my wits ends looking for a decent app to log my workouts. Has to be iOS and not have a monthly subscription. Thanks!
/r/TheRedPill18/04/18 01:52 PM
2

Before this gets deleted: The gifts reaction could be because she has a bf already and doesn’t want him asking about random gifts showing up. Diagnosis: Serious Oneitis Prescription: Get yourself to the nearest gym ASAP
/r/TheRedPill12/04/18 02:33 PM
3

Rollo covers this pretty well in his third book, Positive Masculinity.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/18 11:34 AM
3

No no this is all lies. My friend told me a few weeks ago that women don’t like muscles on men because it scares them and that they prefer a beer gut as it reminds them of a Dad bod which is what they really want :D Three hours later as a girl in a relationship was rubbing my bicep while her BF was in the toilet he looked on in disbelief. He still won’t lift though.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/18 05:21 AM
7

Let’s say that happens. Do you really want to be someone’s second choice? Someone’s temporary boyfriend until another boxer shows up? You owe it to yourself to be better than that.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/18 11:32 AM
3

Think he means his ex’s stepdad
/r/TheRedPill03/04/18 07:36 AM
2

Who said they left me? a man can leave a relationship too if he gets tired of listening to hints and pressure for rings and babies
/r/TheRedPill30/03/18 06:42 AM
655

I had three opportunities to get married in my 20s. Three different LTRs putting the pressure on over the course of ten years. I declined the opportunity each time which led to the end of the relationship each time. Still the best three decisions I’ve ever made. Don’t gamble your livelihood and potentially your actual life out of fear of being alone. The alternative is worse. Ever married male friend I have? “Miserable.” “Trapped. “ “Made a mistake.” “Staying for the kids.” One life gentlemen. D…
/r/TheRedPill29/03/18 09:20 PM
3

Thanks for our daily reminder to never marry
/r/TheRedPill29/03/18 03:58 PM
1

Posts asking for help or advice should go in the weekly thread. Check the rules on the sidebar. Your time and commitment are your most valuable assets. Don’t give them up lightly. Demand the best.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/18 09:49 AM
1

Your post will likely be removed as it’s against the rules. But. Dude, you’re 21 fucking years old! Your SMV won’t peak for another 10-12 years. You have time, so much time. Get rid of her if she’s disrespecting you and find someone else. Or don’t. It doesn’t matter. Focus on yourself and what you want in life. Nothing else should matter right now.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/18 09:44 AM
2

I’ve visited most of them and Poland would be my preference. You planning on staying once you finish your studies?
/r/TheRedPill26/03/18 08:38 AM
2

I’ve mulled over moving there. How are you finding it? Easy to pick up work?
/r/TheRedPill26/03/18 07:55 AM
8

Yes quite possibly especially back then. Though once I saw her try to make me her new man pet I put some distance between us.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/18 05:56 PM
6

He sure did! In my experience they have more traditional values in their home environment. Expose them to western values by removing them their environment and they will change. That said. I’m noticing the next generation of EE women are indistinguishable from western women. It’s all lost.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/18 05:51 PM
7

I don’t use the word husband once in my post because she wasn’t married
/r/TheRedPill25/03/18 05:33 PM
33

The only thing you should be crushing is your workout. Get back to it
/r/TheRedPill25/03/18 11:39 AM
79

Respect. I’ve used that waistband move before. Never fails me
/r/TheRedPill24/03/18 09:53 PM
1

Oh and by all means quit the gym but never quit working out. That’s the physical and mental foundation the rest of your life is built on don’t destroy it. Cost per workout of a home gym is very good. All you need to keep in somewhat decent shape is a bench, bar, pull up bar and some kettlebells/dumbbells. Buy them all used and you’ll save more money. Buy cast iron weights and you’ll still be lifting them when you’re 70.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/18 03:46 PM
1

No but she may inspire them to do so
/r/TheRedPill24/03/18 03:42 PM
2

No problem man. Be sure to read up on spices too. Plain chicken every days gets real old real fast. I buy spice mixes, sugar free ones, that add some flavor and mix it up every cook.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/18 03:39 PM
3

I didn’t pay up, I built a home gym instead. Pays for itself after 18 months. I keep my diet very simple and very consistent. Here’s a typical shopping list: Chicken/Turkey breast - 500g/day I average. Steak if I have the cash Green veg - mainly Broccoli Nuts Brown rice Black beans/lentils Eggs - I eat 35 eggs a week Peanut butter Every week or so I’ll have a cheat meal. Usually a greasy take away pizza all to myself I cook in bulk. This forces you to buy in bulk which is cheaper and forces you …
/r/TheRedPill24/03/18 02:53 PM
5

quit stopping off at the drive thrus? that's a choice and entirely in your control. 25 bucks a month is really cheap. My local gyms are 70-90 bucks a month.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/18 01:52 PM
15

Not at all. This commentary doesn’t faze me personally. But I do think it can have a negative effect on wider society by demonising masculinity and we all know how that ends up. Men built twitter too right? 😂
/r/TheRedPill24/03/18 01:38 PM
163

what a grade A piece of shit right? /sarcasm. RIP
/r/TheRedPill24/03/18 01:09 PM
79

my new favorite comment "It is...every man, even men in my family and the men in my city are let downs.As a woman you do feel it an awful lot and you see it a lot.Even my husband he has let me down before so I'm allowed my opinion on men.Just saying." I think I know the common denominator in this situation and it isn't men...
/r/TheRedPill24/03/18 01:07 PM
7

This has been a central conflict in my own life for a number of years. We all mostly agree on two things: Never marry Many problems in society are due to boys growing up without a positive male role model/father figure I want a son. I want him to have a father. But I will never marry. So it looks like I’m out of options right? Are we then to just accept further societal decline by handing over the raising of all boys to the state and their mothers? There has to be another way.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/18 12:35 PM
10

I'm at least a full point higher on the scale when I rock a beard. I wish it were not so. I'd say do what works for you, try a few different styles and see what works best. Always be experimenting
/r/TheRedPill04/03/18 10:03 AM
7

The fundamental flaw in your thinking is assuming that those rock solid friendships and relationships in place in your early 20s will always remain that way. Total nonsense. People change. Everyone has to start over now and then. It’s just life.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/18 01:03 PM
56

I don’t lift for the big arms or the six pack. I see those as secondary benefits. I life because it instills a sense of discipline , a sense of goal setting and forces me to commit to self improvement. The hours after a hard session I’m in the best mood of the week, more positivity more certainty. This spills over into other areas of life which can make a huge overall difference to your attitude and trajectory. I lift because it forces me to eat right, which keeps me sharper and more energetic t…
/r/TheRedPill21/02/18 06:37 PM
3

Online and real life are two different realities. If you focus only on online you’ll become very depressed very soon. I get nowhere online, absolutely nowhere. I only got messages from overweight women, it was uncanny. Yet in real life I do well. Why? Every online date I’ve been on I’ve been told “you look much better than your pictures” I’ve only once had a second date request turned down. My pictures suck. I can’t take good pictures. I’ve hired professional photographers and still nothing. I j…
/r/TheRedPill10/02/18 06:15 PM
5

I did, total waste of time and difficult to escalate
/r/TheRedPill06/02/18 05:52 PM
53

Enjoyed that read. I’d also note that almost all women who say they won’t respond well to coffee dates will respond well if your game is sharp. Watch what they do not what they say. $20 is the high end of what I spend, I try to max out at 5. I earn good money just don’t see the point in spending it on strangers
/r/TheRedPill06/02/18 05:17 PM
1

Comments like this give me hope for the next generation of men. If had TRP at 16 I’d have saved a lot of time. OP - Jesus Christ you’re 20 years old, you have more time ahead than you’ll know what to do with. Get your life sorted, lift, don’t make women a priority, eat right, don’t pay for dates, develop an abundance mentality - you are the prize and always will be, lift some more and you will be fine.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/18 11:23 PM
73

You need to walk away at the first sign, trust your gut. Wasting 3 months here and there all adds up.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/18 11:56 AM
45

I’ve had this with single moms. Passing tests decreased their interest. Obviously they were looking specifically for a man to play the provider role and when you demonstrate your value they know it’s not You. They want a provider they can control. It’s a good thing either way for you.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/18 06:52 PM
15

That’s all great but what results have you seen? Any changes in behavior?
/r/TheRedPill02/01/18 01:40 PM
1

Yup good call. Good gains come from good recovery
/r/TheRedPill12/12/17 08:21 AM
4

Voice and eye contact are where I struggled most but made a huge difference when fixed
/r/TheRedPill12/12/17 08:19 AM
4

Always remember if it’s not a hell yes it’s a no
/r/TheRedPill03/12/17 10:52 AM
2

All the people in the OP are EU citizens living in the EU. There’s a whole wide world outside of America Come see it sometime 😊
/r/TheRedPill03/12/17 10:38 AM
19

Yup, wasn’t that into her. Might have re-engaged otherwise
/r/TheRedPill02/12/17 10:11 PM
31

Was hoping this would come up. From a certain point of view it does seem cruel. If you look at it the way I did you see a woman who had no problem trying to manipulate me into an LTR by withdrawing herself. In my book that’s emotional manipulation and the second she did that all bets were off.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/17 08:59 PM
11

After all that why the Christ are you engaged?!
/r/TheRedPill02/12/17 08:26 PM
0

Yes but you’re defining ‘better’ in your terms. The other guy was ‘better’ in her mind as he had what she wanted...a shiny ring!
/r/TheRedPill02/12/17 06:06 PM
1

Never been to Canada and not sure if it’s a popular destination for economic migrants but here you find them working in every service job imaginable
/r/TheRedPill02/12/17 06:05 PM
3

Western Europe so supply isn’t abundant. But to be honest I’d seriously consider a move given the state of the native women here.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/17 05:27 PM
4

Interesting but if you own the company then doesn’t that in effect mean she gets half the company, and its assets if you marry?
/r/TheRedPill02/12/17 05:26 PM
32

Move on to another plate! I see too many guys lacking an abundance mentality who cling for dear life to any woman who agrees to touch his dick. Fast forward five years he’s in a miserable unhappy marriage and can barely answer the phone without requesting permission. So many of my friends live in these unhappy marriages and deserve better. My point is nipping this shit in the bud by maintaining strong boundaries and not being afraid to walk away. There will always be more women if you’ve been fo…
/r/TheRedPill02/12/17 05:25 PM
1

If this is real, which I'm still not convinced it is, and not some TRP fan fiction then you need more time. You're looking for a top 10% man who's not a pussy yet complain you can't find one after meeting 10 guys from Tinder? Odds are you'll need to meet more men before finding someone with the same mindset.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/17 05:04 PM
5

That’s been the set up here for a few years. You are truly fucked no matter what you do. If you buy a house and move your gf in she will be granted a legal interest in the asset after 2 years. It didn’t apply to my situation as I didn’t own the place. I now own a property so have to be more careful
/r/TheRedPill02/12/17 04:35 PM
2

Lol thank, figured I’d miss one
/r/TheRedPill02/12/17 04:32 PM
1

That could become negative if they start to lose their femininity though? Where I live it’s full of the entitled, overweight, self absorbed or all three in one. Nothing feminine about seeing your gf drink 10 pints and stuff her face with a kebab I’ll tell you 😊
/r/TheRedPill02/12/17 03:53 PM
4

100% correct! All her sisters back home were married so the pressure on her was incredible too I imagine. Western women seem more open to living together without marriage for longer. Most of my friends have this set up.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/17 03:32 PM
4

Who said it was irrational? It’s perfectly expected. My point was to dispel a small bit the idea that women from this part of the world are radically different
/r/TheRedPill02/12/17 03:30 PM
6

Ok to clarify We were both EU citizens so there was no question of green cards etc.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/17 03:05 PM
3

Good question and I realise I’m using the term in a very general sense but for me it means: Poland Lithuania Latvia Romania Hungary Slovakia Slovenia Czech Republic Ukraine Estonia I don’t include Russia in my interpretation
/r/TheRedPill02/12/17 03:03 PM
12

I’d rather live the rest of my life without women than spend it trapped in a marriage at the mercy of the state
/r/TheRedPill02/12/17 03:01 PM
14

Yes you’re right about the wall she was 31. At the time it seemed quick but as I later learned she was ‘friends’ with this guy for months before she left. They always line someone else up before jumping. What’s CEE?
/r/TheRedPill02/12/17 03:00 PM
11

Jesus Christ no pussy is worth this much drama.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/17 04:30 PM
29

Let me speak on this from personal experience. It’s true yes that they enjoy the freedoms on offer in West and I’ve seen some Eastern European women who take that too far and turn into party girls after relocating West. Good for them but not my thing. Here’s the rub. Some of them want the party lifestyle AND the ‘real’ men they are used to back home. This is difficult for them as they seem to want it all and end up disappointed and single. Others don’t adopt the party girl lifestyle and want to …
/r/TheRedPill25/11/17 02:03 PM
4

This woman is ruining your life. You need to take back control for yourself, ignore her, leave her, whatever it takes you need to set your own path and stay on it. Do your own food shopping, your own meal prep. Join a gym and go. Two things will happen, she’ll suddenly become attracted to you again or someone else. Either way you’ll be the man you used to be. Life’s too short to let anyone dictate how you live.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/17 10:24 AM
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Every Eastern European woman I’ve dated over the last ten years have said the same thing about modern western men. “They’re not real men” What I’ve found this to mean is they want a gentleman not a nice guy, there’s a difference. And sure enough, every time I became too sensitive, they pulled back immediately. Be RP AF because that’s what their culture is used to in general. Here’s to the next ten years!
/r/TheRedPill24/11/17 10:37 PM
91

This is at least the third story on here in as many days about similar circumstances. It’s mind blowing how messed up it is.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/17 02:23 PM
1

No bother man. Most women use dating sites for validation so don’t use online as your main source of dates. Keep 90% of it in the real world and use online for the rest. That’s easier said than done but it’s the only way.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/17 12:10 PM
3

Similar experience here. You have to remember that the validation women get online is insane. Which is why the 5s think they deserve a 10. Literally hundreds of messages a day telling them they’re beautiful/cute/sexy whatever. I have much better success offline than on as my pictures suck. I’d recommend getting better pictures and stop asking boring questions. This is where you can be different to the hundred other guys she has as options. Never mention her looks keep the messages light and funn…
/r/TheRedPill20/11/17 11:57 AM
3

“Menacing behaviour” is what I make out.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/17 05:45 PM
4

eyes closed, mouth shut and wallet open please ;)
/r/TheRedPill18/11/17 12:39 PM
26

You can get thrown in jail here for staring http://www.heraldscotland.com/news/15622122.Man_jailed_for_creepily_staring_at_Glasgow_pharmacy_assistant_through_window/
/r/TheRedPill17/11/17 07:07 PM
2

Good point. My photos suck, every time I’ve met up in person I’m told “wow you look much better than your photo” which hinders me online. Time to get cracking on some quality photos
/r/TheRedPill16/11/17 09:14 AM
2

When using online dating sites how important are pictures versus the profile description? Are we talking 50/50 or is it all about the photos?
/r/TheRedPill15/11/17 05:56 PM
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