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| 1 | Your Family & Your WivesFrederick Douglass' famous quote about children is, "It is easier to build strong children than to repair broken men". This statement emphasizes the importance of nurturing children to build a stronger society and has been interpreted as a call to invest in education, emotional well-being, and positive values in youth to prevent future social problems. The phrase you're likely thinking of is a well-known African proverb: "The child who is not embraced by the village will burn it down just to fee… | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/10/25 06:05 PM |
| 1 | Your Family & Your WivesIt is the whole nature vs nurture agruement. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/10/25 05:39 PM |
| 3 | Hopeful there's a light in this darknessAny kids and how long were your married and divorced | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/10/25 05:31 PM |
| 1 | 1 year laterYou need to seek so you do not lose your house especially in this market and your sanity plus getting back on your feet monetarily so you pay for them and enjoy your life again. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/10/25 02:01 PM |
| 1 | It's Over!Any kids | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/10/25 01:52 PM |
| 1 | What's the "Silver Bullet Method" in a divorce and should we be concerned about it?Godspeed always | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/09/25 05:03 PM |
| 2 | Update to my previous post of my wife taking off…Godspeed always | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/09/25 04:11 PM |
| 1 | What's the "Silver Bullet Method" in a divorce and should we be concerned about it?How are things with your son now? | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/09/25 11:27 AM |
| 4 | Update to my previous post of my wife taking off…How is your daughter with this mess? | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/09/25 11:20 AM |
| 2 | Called my kids to pass along the news.How long ago was your divorce and how old were your kids? | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/09/25 11:17 AM |
| 1 | The day finally came that I felt grateful to my ex wife...How is your kid doing? | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/09/25 09:48 AM |
| 1 | My wife is whoring aroundAny kids | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/09/25 04:10 PM |
| 2 | My wife is whoring aroundAny kids | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/09/25 04:06 PM |
| 2 | My wife is whoring aroundDam I love for you to post your crazy story. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/09/25 04:01 PM |
| 2 | Regrets?Of course there is expectations your married with kids and as the saying goes with great power comes great responsibility. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/07/25 07:33 PM |
| 1 | Regrets?George Orwell famously stated, "If liberty means anything at all, it means the right to tell people what they do not want to hear," “The human capacity for burden is like bamboo - far more flexible than you'd ever believe at first glance.” — Jodi Picoult “I can be changed by what happens to me. But I refuse to be reduced by it.” — Maya Angelou “Strong people alone know how to organize their suffering so as to bear only the most necessary pain.” — Emil Dorian “One’s dignity may be assaulted, vand… | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/07/25 07:24 PM |
| 1 | Anyone else get financially wiped after divorce and have to start over? How did it go? I may have to as well. My situation is described.It is crazy that divorce has reduced you to hate your kids and exwife so much after all the effort in build everything up. Godspeed always. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/05/25 08:07 PM |
| 1 | Anyone else get financially wiped after divorce and have to start over? How did it go? I may have to as well. My situation is described.I read some of your other comments. I hope one day your daughters and you can repair your relationship at least. What happened to you God what a mess? Godspeed always. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/05/25 07:45 PM |
| -1 | Very happily married and wife suddenly in big rush to leaveu/ConstantCrafty4298 I sent you some info in a DM | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/05/25 11:20 AM |
| 2 | Wife left me but kept some posts.I hope this helps. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/04/25 02:35 AM |
| 2 | Wife left me but kept some posts.The things mentioned or discussed below may help you or they may not so like everything on the internet and on reddit take it with a grain of salt good luck. There is an entire sub called EmotionalAffair that is deals with topic then there is subs like SupportforBetrayed, SupportForWaywards, AsOnAfterInfidelity, UnhappyReconciling, Infidelity and more plus websites like survivinginginfidelity, marriagehelper and therapies the gottman method, CBT, CPT, EDMR, IFS, ketamin, ART, NET, DBT, Somatic t… | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/04/25 01:39 AM |
| 8 | What should I do?She was probably seeing this guy before she asked for the divorce. She is good at DARVO, breadcrumbing and giving you false hope. It is time to let go and go no contact for a time. Godspeed always for you and your kids. PS. There are three needs of the griever: To find the words for the loss, to say the words aloud, and to know that the words have been heard. Michael Corleone: Just when I thought I was out, they pull me back in. Margaret Atwood - "A divorce is like an amputation, you survive but… | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/04/25 11:10 PM |
| 4 | Divorce in TexasSometimes anger is a good substite for courage. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/03/25 12:45 AM |
| 1 | She PlottedDam i hope she is doing ok now. PS. How bad did her retirement get destroyed and were any kids involved. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/03/25 07:22 PM |
| 1 | My attorney has failed meSorry for the shit you had to deal with. Were any kids involved? | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/03/25 07:19 PM |
| 1 | My attorney has failed meHow did it turnout and did you file a complaint against your attorney? | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/03/25 06:58 PM |
| 1 | My wife is leaving meYou were proven wrong how does it feel. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/03/25 01:46 AM |
| 1 | No fault divorce and 50/50Texas ⚖️ system at work. They actively seek glory but hate to get involved in small things that bring them no benefit. Unless you hound them and file lawsuits, then you get their attention. What is a female judge who screwed you over or a male one. The judge who denied the woman the protective order was it the same judge who screwed you over. Those judges are just about the same or worse than the cops who failed you and the woman. They have a super inflated ego and do not really help anyone with… | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/10/24 07:20 AM |
| 1 | Surviving the cost of divorce with two young kids. How did you do it guys?😅😂🥲🫢😋 | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/10/24 02:09 AM |
| 1 | No fault divorce and 50/50God damn, she had good reason to be there and was not a threat to him, yet the police gl9ssed over her assault for that shitty reason. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/10/24 02:07 AM |
| 1 | Surviving the cost of divorce with two young kids. How did you do it guys?Do you have kids? | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/10/24 05:13 AM |
| 1 | No fault divorce and 50/50What the hell and hur abused was not charged. God dam, I hope she and her kids are better now or will get there. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/10/24 05:03 AM |
| 1 | Ending Spousal Support in the case of remarriageI hope things are better for you and your kids? | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/10/24 09:00 AM |
| 2 | I miss her. I f*cked everything up and just want my family back 2 years post divorceI hope you made strides into reconnecting with your ex-wife and getting back together or making plans for it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/10/24 01:33 AM |
| 1 | I'm so....lostI hope you find your way through this fubar or catch 22 situation to better days. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/09/24 09:16 PM |
| 1 | Serving papers, any advice?Has been served divorce papers yet? | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/09/24 06:13 PM |
| 1 | Good things can happen tooHow or why did your marriage exactly? How long were you married for? | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/08/24 04:08 AM |
| 1 | I miss her. I f*cked everything up and just want my family back 2 years post divorceYou never know these days but the way it is written exudes deep heartfelt emotion to me and alot of people who have the post. I am rooting it to true and not fake plus for OP to get his wife and family back. As I and many others like underdog and redemption stories. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/08/24 03:45 AM |
| 3 | I miss her. I f*cked everything up and just want my family back 2 years post divorceDo not let this chance slip away go get her back. In fact prove this study/news article wrong. PS. https://www.nbcnews.com/health/health-news/clueless-guys-cant-read-women-study-confirms-flna1c9460567 | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/08/24 03:38 AM |
| 1 | Love at First Sight-Need advice from random internet strangersHow are things now? | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/08/24 03:45 PM |
| 2 | I miss her. I f*cked everything up and just want my family back 2 years post divorceUpdateme | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/08/24 03:15 PM |
| 3 | I miss her. I f*cked everything up and just want my family back 2 years post divorceGodspeed always my friend. I think you have a shot at making it work. PS. I like quotes a lot. I find they can express certain things more easily than I can with that being said. I collected a few quotes that hopefully will hopefully help in a way that gets you this mess and unto better days. You can make heaven out of hell,or hell out of heaven. The choice is yours.” Shannon L. Alder Where the willingness is great, the difficulties cannot be great. — Niccolo Machiavelli There seems to be some p… | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/08/24 03:05 PM |
| 2 | Every goddamn time--will it stop at trial or just keep rolling her way?You need to get away from this situation either for or forever basically you are taken advantage of by the system and or your ex-WIFE. Godspeed always. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/08/24 11:06 PM |
| 2 | Letting your kids goYou may need to go back to your hometown because was is happening to you. It is basically torture from all sides where you are now. The system is railroading you every time, no what you do. Your ex-wife and your kids are stonewalling you, if not worse, for your piece of mind and physical health. You need to separate yourself from them. Maybe back home, you can regroup and come back swinging live to fight another day. I read a post about a similar situation. Hopefully, you will have a better stor… | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/08/24 06:26 AM |
| 1 | Every goddamn time--will it stop at trial or just keep rolling her way?UpdateMe | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/08/24 05:55 AM |
| 1 | Every goddamn time--will it stop at trial or just keep rolling her way?PS. I like quotes alot. I find they can express certain things easier better than I can with that being said. I collected a few quotes that hopefully will hopefully help in a way that gets you this mess and unto better days. You can make heaven out of hell,or hell out of heaven. The choice is yours.” Shannon L. Alder Where the willingness is great, the difficulties cannot be great. — Niccolo Machiavelli There seems to be some perverse human characteristic that likes to make easy things difficult… | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/08/24 05:53 AM |
| 1 | My ex-wife is talking pretty serious about suicide and I have no idea what I am supposed to do with that information.How are things now? | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/07/24 08:10 AM |
| 1 | I can’t take this shit anymore… I feel like giving up almost every single day.I hope you are doing well. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/07/24 07:37 AM |
| 2 | My ex wife has moved on with someone elseHow are things now? | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/04/24 02:14 PM |
| 1 | Why is it so hard to watch recent ex wife date?Good for you, I am glad you successfully got on with your life despite the shit your ex did to destroy you and the family you built. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/02/24 08:08 PM |
| 3 | Ex Wife showed her true colorsShit the trials that were forced upon you by your ex-wife and her bullshit. I hope you are doing better now, godspeed always. | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/02/24 03:21 AM |
| 1 | Why is it so hard to watch recent ex wife date?How long ago was this? How long were you together? How old were kids? How was coparenting? | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/02/24 12:44 PM |
| 1 | My Ex Had Me KidnappedWhat the hell? | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/12/23 04:34 AM |
| 1 | Ex wife health scareOk | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/11/23 11:59 AM |
| 2 | Ex wife health scareCan you share the post you got that Zinger from? | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/11/23 12:37 AM |
| 1 | How did you get out?!Shit, my friend, that is crazy. PS. Did you do the paternity tests? If so, what are the results? | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/10/23 04:11 AM |
| 1 | What to do…..Did you tell the husband about his wife shady activities. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/09/23 08:17 PM |
| 1 | Dad committed Suicide after parents divorce of 18 years.The sad part is that she pushed for the divorce and probably blames herself, whether correctly or not, for your dads death. 8 years on, she still punishes herself and her relationships with other people for her perceived role in his death. Survivors guilt and alot of it still. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/07/23 02:11 PM |
| 1 | Dad committed Suicide after parents divorce of 18 years.How did your mother take your mother take your dads suicide? | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/07/23 05:05 AM |
| 2 | Moving past the hurtDam this sad my friend and fucked up as well. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/11/22 01:25 AM |
| 1 | What does one do when you’ve lost everything?I remember reading you story on another sub. I hate how it ended and has to turned out for you, your family especially for your kids and others like you going through the same problems with sometimes better or worse outcomes than yours.This sub and others are full of great, decent and horrorible stories ranging from the very amicable to the very terrible ways things that involve divorce, cheating, coparenting and kids can go or turn out or headed to. Godspeed to you and your family truly. I hope… | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/11/22 04:41 PM |
| 1 | Moving past the hurtHave you explained your feelings to your family and our friends or do they simply do not care? | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/11/22 01:41 AM |
| 1 | 15 years of marriage down the drainShe does not get how badly she betrayed you and your are not likely to get over this anytime soon. Fifteen years of marriage is nothing to laugh at all. The emotions, memories, actions and etc. over that long period of time raising kids dam. She expects you to move on as quickly as she did. What an idiot or just delusional or very misguided by how much damage her fucking actions have caused and how long it will take to even to partially recover from her mess. Please keep me and or us posted and … | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/08/22 06:11 AM |
| 1 | 15 years of marriage down the drainHow are things? | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/08/22 01:39 AM |
| 1 | 15 years of marriage down the drainUpdateMe! | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/08/22 03:43 AM |
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