epochwin Archive

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2	New to NYC, Need advice on second date 4th of July Fireworks on the East River coming up soon....totally free so might as well try hanging out there. If she's competitive, Fat Cat is my favorite second date spot. You have games like pool, ping-pong, board games, great beer and live jazz. It's quite cheap as well.	/r/seduction	01/07/14 02:40 PM
1	What are some very good books on the topic of self esteem/confidence? How to Win Friends and Influence People The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People The 21 Irrefutable Laws of Leadership Models by Mark Manson No More Mr Nice Guy Those are few I could think of. Like others have mentioned you'll have to go out and practice, experience failure / rejection and use that as a learning experience instead of giving up. I'd suggest working in a volunteer group or participate in a meetup group. Try networking with the leaders and influential people of that group and starti…	/r/seduction	27/12/13 10:42 AM
3	A Beginners Guide for What to Say I posted this on one of the AskReddit threads a while back: http://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/1oj6e7/introverted_shy_guys_of_reddit_how_did_you_end_up/ccsrhqq	/r/seduction	11/11/13 06:38 PM
1	Tips for Introverts Try to pick up on them and ask her to expand, especially if it's something she sounds excited to talk about. Also add them into your answers/statements if you find yourself in the habit of being too concise. This is one of the best things I learned in improv. You learn to listen very closely and take it from there without going into question mode.	/r/seduction	03/08/13 02:32 AM
6	Tips for Introverts Make small talk in a fun way. Banter or talk some crap. I use observational humor that guys like Carlin, Louis CK, Bill Burr and others use. We love those guys because we relate exactly with what they say and find it funny to laugh at ourselves. I use a lot of Carlin's material on things that are common to all of us (not in his angry tone of course). The jokes usually break the ice. This is where you can work on moving towards knowing more about her. As an introvert you want to end an interactio…	/r/seduction	03/08/13 02:25 AM
6	Tips for Introverts I found one of the best ways for introverts is to use some of the techniques we guys in the InfoSec space use for eliciting information in social engineering situations. I also know of several Business Analysts and Business Intelligence professionals and military intelligence guys use these techniques. The idea is to be an active listener and lead the conversation without even having to ask questions. If you can get your hands on the book Confidential by John Nolan, I'd highly recommend the tech…	/r/seduction	02/08/13 11:56 PM
1	As a 5'3 Asian male virgin in his 30s, am I doomed? It's good that you're talking to your friends about this. Head out with your successful male peers who can be a wingman for you and give you feedback. If you're in a city, then there's got to be a lair. Saying that you don't have time is a lazy excuse (you're on reddit after all...you definitely have time). Work on your inner game one step at a time. Small things like body language make a huge difference. Analyze your game end of an evening and tweak it around. Women want to get laid as much as …	/r/seduction	19/05/13 11:38 PM
3	Do. Not. Deal. With. Shitty. Women. Period. Looks a lot like Histrionic Personality Disorder. I dated a girl like that before. And more than oneitis, it's really brilliant manipulative tactics that are used on you. They're good at feeding your narcissism and when you're more comfortable with them, they slowly find out and pick your vulnerabilities. If you think you're too good for this, think about yourself running game. Basically they're running their own game on you, using similar hooks. It isn't called the song of the siren for nothing…	/r/seduction	11/03/13 09:47 AM
2	Need a guide for body language! Just listed something similar on the Social Engineering sub-reddit: http://www.reddit.com/r/SocialEngineering/comments/11bfz0/best_social_engineering_books_or_videos/c6ou5np	/r/seduction	21/10/12 07:06 PM
2	Be honest peeps: fat guys should we even bother? A lot depends on how you come across to people. Body Language makes a huge difference here. You could either come across as a fat slob with a front-ass who plays video games all day or you can come across as a power exec / leader sort of guy. I read the book, "What Every Body is saying" by Joe Navarro. Some great advice there on body language. It's already mentioned here about fashion, grooming and having the right bunch of friends. Research has also shown that people hanging out with exercising…	/r/seduction	17/10/12 11:45 AM
1	A brief psychology lesson to demonstrate why you should stop reading and start approaching Sounds like what junkies do for a fix. I tell the same thing to novice programmers. They keep reading a lot of books, taking online courses and tutorials. But the best experience is to actually put the theory into practice and learn from mistakes and failure.	/r/seduction	10/10/12 03:30 PM
1	I would like to learn more about body language That and the one by Barbara Pease is great. Unmasking the Face by Dr.Ekman another great one for basic facial macro expressions	/r/seduction	28/07/12 10:20 PM
2	6 Things That Nice Guys Can Learn from Assholes It's not about being an asshole. Doesn't mean go to a high level of dickish narcissism but to also do things because you want to without giving a fuck about what others think. Being assertive vs being a pushover and still be a nice person.	/r/seduction	21/06/12 04:18 PM
-4	Night Game, the "Are you here alone" question You could say you're new in town and saw good reviews of the venue on yelp so decided to try it and meet the locals	/r/seduction	15/06/12 11:00 PM