| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 173 | My life philosophies on becoming a better man | epsil119 | /r/seduction | 25/02/13 06:51 PM | |
| 15 | Taking a step back: the more experience you gain in-field, the less you approach. | epsil119 | /r/seduction | 05/01/13 07:59 PM | |
| 15 | [FR] Rainy night in the city. | Field Report | epsil119 | /r/seduction | 25/02/13 04:29 AM |
| 10 | [FR] Too many rejections: Just another entry in my pickup journal. | Field Report | epsil119 | /r/seduction | 04/03/13 02:11 AM |
| 0 | Anyone in New Jersey? | epsil119 | /r/seduction | 20/05/13 01:09 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | A great talk to help with fear of rejection/AA. Jia Jiang at TEDxAustin - Surprising Lessons from 100 Days of Rejection.His videos are great: http://www.entresting.com/blog/100-days-of-rejection-therapy/ | /r/seduction | 20/10/13 08:24 PM |
| 1 | Anyone in Columbus, Ohio?Oh god I went through that post and that dude seems to be creepy as hell. That's not what seduction is about. | /r/seduction | 19/10/13 09:58 PM |
| 1 | ARGHH. Went down to Wal-Mart to start getting in to opens, found two worth opening, backed out.Relevant | /r/seduction | 18/06/13 11:59 PM |
| 4 | Unfortunately, I've reverted back to an AFC.I feel you man. It is important to go out 3-4 times a week. | /r/seduction | 02/06/13 04:43 PM |
| 1 | The pickup philosophy for Asian (and other races) men on picking up the ever so elusive white woman."How many white guys are in this world? Typical white males? Don't you think girls are fed up with dating white guys?" I'm pretty sure there are more Asian guys in this world than white guys. | /r/seduction | 02/06/13 04:42 PM |
| 2 | Big shout-out to the Seddit Local Lairs, or, Why you shouldn't go about this aloneIf anyone is in New Jersey, check out our new subreddit. We have about 9 members on the GroupMe and is looking to expand. Our first meetup is this Friday. | /r/seduction | 02/06/13 04:01 PM |
| 4 | Simple primer on winging - Lots of beginners ignore it, but it's so freaking importantGreat article man! A lot of PUAs have no clue how to wing and it turns into a competition when in set which I absolutely hate. | /r/seduction | 09/04/13 02:26 AM |
| 3 | I can lead, get physical and make women laugh. My interactions are generally pretty solid. However, the moment my attention wavers, and I focus on my friends or another group, the girl wanders off. Am I doing something wrong, or is this just typical of night game?Here you essentially ejected the set without closing. Remember always try to close before you eject if you want to see the girl again! When I'm in set I'm 100% focused on the girl. If friends come up, I generally waive them off. | /r/seduction | 08/04/13 01:44 AM |
| -1 | Julien RSD How To Get Her Addicted. Watch @ 3:46I like Julien's stuff, but he is a good looking (no homo) white dude from Switzerland which is a big advantage when picking up chicks. | /r/seduction | 26/03/13 02:30 AM |
| -4 | Seddit, be a part of my Friday night!"Hey have you ever had sex with a clown?" or "Do you know what sharting is? [Explain what it is if she doesn't know, then say the following:] I just sharted in my pants. Do you have an extra pair of underwear in your purse?" I've used both of them before just for shits and giggles. | /r/seduction | 01/03/13 03:13 PM |
| 1 | My life philosophies on becoming a better manIt's never to start your journey towards a better happier person. Intellectual growth is high dependent on your work ethic and dedication. I am not the smartest person in the world or in my town or even in my neighborhood, but I have great work ethic and time management skills, which allowed me many opportunities. In terms of personal growth, I found traveling, especially solo backpacking in foreign lands (I enjoy developing countries a lot), really helped me grow. Solo-traveling is beneficial b… | /r/seduction | 27/02/13 02:10 AM |
| 21 | Keys to (winning) at the game. "A Ha" realizations.For beginners with AA: it doesn't matter what you open with as long as you deliver your opener in a confident relaxed manner. Nowadays, I get lazy and just open with "hi!" | /r/seduction | 26/02/13 05:44 PM |
| 24 | Eye contactYou are giving too much fucks. You are only approaching girls if they give you an initiative to (eye contact) because you fear rejection. Fuck that approach girls you think are HOT not because they INVITE you to approach. Also, in a club/bar setting your body language is very important when you approach. Be relaxed and confident. Kino immediately when you open and always remember: stay in set until you get rejected (NO PREMATURE EJECTION). Lastly, don't think too much about being Asian. I'm Asia… | /r/seduction | 26/02/13 05:40 PM |
| 1 | My life philosophies on becoming a better manYou won't be afraid of death if you lived a good life! | /r/seduction | 26/02/13 05:20 PM |
| 1 | My life philosophies on becoming a better manI'm 25 now. Throughout my life, I've mostly focused on intellectual growth, i.e., working hard and getting good grades in school and become successful in my career. In my early 20s, I started to focus a lot more on personal growth, e.g., traveling (a LOT!), social skills, fitness because although I'm quite successful on the career front, I wasn't extremely happy. Last year, I wrote this list after getting into the seduction community to really try and bring everything together and grow even furt… | /r/seduction | 26/02/13 05:14 PM |
| 2 | My life philosophies on becoming a better manYea who cares in 100 years when you are dead! | /r/seduction | 26/02/13 04:05 AM |
| 2 | My life philosophies on becoming a better manI'm getting an advanced degree in chemical engineering. I'm actually planning on applying for consulting firms this year haha. | /r/seduction | 25/02/13 07:09 PM |
| 3 | [FR] hard work and missed opportunity. Valuable lessons learnedYou could have definitely gotten a number during mid-conversation with Robin since it seemed like you built enough comfort/rapport. I hate getting numbers when you are about to leave because of missed opportunities like this. | /r/seduction | 25/02/13 05:43 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Rainy night in the city.Yea I could definitely gone for it. But ironically I was giving too much fucks about my breath. I had run out of mints after the OKC date lol and wasn't feeling too hot my breath lol. | /r/seduction | 25/02/13 05:04 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Rainy night in the city.English, Mandarin and Spanish. It was definitely a bad ass moment. | /r/seduction | 25/02/13 05:03 AM |
| 3 | How to change your mindset to not be infatuated or too much focus on one girl ?Abundance principle | /r/seduction | 12/02/13 04:56 PM |
| 10 | Significance of race on seduction?This has been brought up over and over again. Here's my personal opinion: anyone who says race doesn't matter at all in seduction is fucking lying, particularly in areas which aren't as diverse as say NYC. As an Asian male, I get the vibe that some women just aren't as attracted to Asian males. In many cases, I have to work extra harder than my non-Asian buddies, and it works out fine in the end since when I'm out, I have fun and DGAF all night. tl;dr: Race does matter to some extent. Just don't… | /r/seduction | 09/02/13 12:08 AM |
| 1 | Anyone want to start a lair in Philadelphia?http://www.facebook.com/groups/rsdphiladelphia/?ref=ts&fref=ts They have monthly meetups. | /r/seduction | 16/01/13 03:31 AM |
| 1 | My two friends unfortunately don't really game properly. Lot of AFC stuff. I almost feel like their afc stuff is rubbing off on me and ruining my mindset in talking to girls and keeping a proper frame. what to do?I agree with this. Get rid of this elitist mentality and stop bringing down your friends. Don't make PUA your life; rather incorporate the stuff you learned from PUA into your life. I am currently making the switch from the former to the latter and my inner game is rocketing. | /r/seduction | 14/01/13 01:11 AM |
| 2 | What are some male iois? Also how can i attract a guys attention/seem approachable?Yes I don't bother talking to girls I don't find at least attractive. My time is too valuable. | /r/seduction | 11/01/13 03:49 AM |
| 1 | Taking a step back: the more experience you gain in-field, the less you approach.Hey man thanks for the feedback. Social momentum and "talking to everyone" is very important particularly for beginners because it allows them to get in state and lessen their AA. This is what I've been doing when I first started...I talked to everyone from guys to HBs 1-10. However this is a lot of work!!! I get very tired after talking to many people, especially since I typically sarge sober; I just can't keep up with the energy. Another downfall of talking to everyone is once you start doing … | /r/seduction | 06/01/13 01:53 AM |
| 1 | Taking a step back: the more experience you gain in-field, the less you approach.I think you can't make PUA the sole focus in your life. It needs to naturally embed within your hobby, work, and life in general. | /r/seduction | 05/01/13 11:50 PM |
| 1 | Taking a step back: the more experience you gain in-field, the less you approach.Yea I've been pretty burnt out doing mass approaches in nightgame. It seems like daygame may be the better choice for a LTR. | /r/seduction | 05/01/13 11:47 PM |
| 1 | Looking for a seddit bro in Madrid Spain to roll withThere's also a lot of prostitutes near Sol...don't pick them up. | /r/seduction | 03/01/13 08:43 PM |
| 1 | When someone says "they're out of my league", what do thry mean by that exactly? What defines a league and how many different leagues are there?Yes, especially for guys. If you have good game (or alternatively a lot of money), noone is out of your league. | /r/seduction | 02/01/13 05:18 PM |
| 5 | When someone says "they're out of my league", what do thry mean by that exactly? What defines a league and how many different leagues are there?Noone is out of anyone's league. Just do it. Approach/escalate/close with confidence. | /r/seduction | 02/01/13 03:34 AM |
| 2 | How did you guys begin to improve and change yourselves? What did you stop or start doing?My take on how to become a better person in this world; I focus on two approaches: personal growth (social skills, relationships, appearance, etc.) and intellectual growth (career, degrees, learning, etc.): 1) Carpe diem, YOLO, etc. – I know this is cliché, but you have one life; make the best out of it every single day. When you are on your deathbed, the ONE question you want to answer yes to is “Did I live a fulfilling life with no regrets?” Be impulsive and spontaneous in life. Do not lead a … | /r/seduction | 28/12/12 06:41 PM |
| 2 | Live without regrets.Regrets are like scars. They will haunt you for the rest of your life. | /r/seduction | 18/12/12 02:43 AM |
| 2 | What do hands in jacket pocket say in body language?I don't like it. It's a very closed stance. You should be kinoing the girl with your hands. | /r/seduction | 18/12/12 02:23 AM |
| 8 | What useful, easy-to-learn, skills should a well-rounded gentleman have?Changing a flat tire. | /r/seduction | 18/12/12 02:21 AM |
| 2 | Wing find post is dead/old as fuck, can we have a new one?South Brunswick | /r/seduction | 30/11/12 05:21 AM |
| 1 | Any Chapel Hill PUA's out thereMan wish I had knew about the community when I went to UNC. Good luck sarging there. The ratio doesn't hurt either. If I'm ever back on campus, I'd be down to sarge all day errday. | /r/seduction | 18/10/12 02:11 AM |
| 6 | [Technique] One of my favorite methods of keno and escalation: Palm ReadingOne of my favorite methods of keno is to bet on one number. Yea, I'm a low roller. | /r/seduction | 16/10/12 01:54 AM |
| 2 | Are you afraid of making a fool out of yourself? Don't be.DGAF | /r/seduction | 12/10/12 03:35 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Epic Night - "Screw it, zero fucks given"Good job man! Now just gotta keep this momentum. | /r/seduction | 24/09/12 06:59 PM |
| 1 | The Book that Helped Me the Most Wasn't Even About Pickup.Just picked up A New Earth. Gonna see whether it can change my life. | /r/seduction | 20/09/12 08:15 PM |
| 2 | When to hugI usually hug girls when I'm leaving them or when I'm seeing them again for the second time. I have also started to implemented two kisses on the cheeks a la European style and it hasn't backfired yet. | /r/seduction | 20/09/12 08:11 PM |
| 1 | Losing the gameHey man I was exactly in the same position as you a couple years back when I started graduate school for a PhD. My program was (and still is) filled with dudes. Sure there is a lot of stress involved in your first year because graduate school is much much different than undergrad, but you have to learn to manage time very well to have a balanced life. For example, I would work my ass off during the weekdays and daytime during the weekends and still managed to go out on average three nights a wee… | /r/seduction | 04/10/11 08:38 PM |
| 1 | Am I hopeless? - Introvert w/ AAYou really need to work on your inner game and seriously cut out all the excuses as to why you won't approach women (aka your height). When you go out, just act like it's your last day on Earth. | /r/seduction | 26/09/11 05:23 PM |
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