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The pendulum has swung far past center, and I think people are beginning to notice. Google keeps pinging me to apply, and I keep saying "no thanks". Eventually these companies will realize that they're pushing away a significant fraction of their potential employees and customers. ​ Not much for individuals to do, though, but to play the cards they're dealt. Lay low, and figure out how to capitalize on this mess.
/r/MensRights01/05/19 03:59 AM
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You're thinking Pantone.
/r/MensRights01/05/19 03:55 AM
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Poking holes in a condom is far worse, all things considered. But as far as I'm concerned, both are scummy behavior. Legality is almost beside the point--if you're a good person, you don't do these things.
/r/MensRights01/05/19 03:54 AM
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Contemplate the amount of time you're spending thinking about FB. Is it worth it to you?
/r/MGTOW30/04/19 02:41 PM
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Or, "Jesus, third time this year..."
/r/MGTOW30/04/19 02:40 PM
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+1 for "furry"
/r/MGTOW30/04/19 04:21 AM
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Time for a divorce.
/r/MGTOW30/04/19 03:55 AM
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There just isn't anything they make that I particularly need. I thank them for pointing this out to me.
/r/MGTOW30/04/19 03:51 AM
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Powerfully helpless? Or helplessly powerful?
/r/MGTOW30/04/19 03:44 AM
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Who is that?
/r/MGTOW30/04/19 03:44 AM
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Duly noted. Please move along.
/r/MGTOW30/04/19 03:43 AM
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I read that in France they have a saying that translates loosely as "A thot cannot sense cold." :-)
/r/MGTOW29/04/19 02:28 AM
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Congrats dude. Mine's almost 10x that, no kids. Done soon, too, though. Can't wait.
/r/MGTOW29/04/19 02:24 AM
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"No thanks...All of my spare dollars go to my ex for alimony."
/r/MGTOW29/04/19 02:23 AM
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Actually, you can grab half his money even if he loyally slaves away to support your kids for a decade or more while you spend your days lounging and eating bon bons. Really it's an awesome deal. I'd almost call it "privilege".
/r/MGTOW29/04/19 02:20 AM
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Those paragraphs are sympathetic, but the article in its entirety is pretty awful. It's essentially "white men are experiencing problems, and we should be nicer to them so that they stop all being hateful Nazis".
/r/MensRights28/04/19 05:56 PM
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The _real_ fallout to Google isn't the money they'd have to pay him (which they can easily afford), nor the talents of Damore himself (which they can easily replace). Rather, it's from the hundreds and thousands of potential applicants, and current employees, who saw what happened, and will vote with their feet.
/r/MensRights28/04/19 05:50 PM
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I ditched all of my P&G. It's pretty easy, as the name is right on the label, and all of their products have easy substitutes. Cheaper, too.
/r/MensRights28/04/19 05:45 PM
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Snopes itself is not terribly credible these days. But more importantly, the body of tweets that are certain to have been written by Jeong are so awful that it really doesn't matter whether there are a few others that were hoaxes.
/r/MensRights28/04/19 05:37 PM
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If Emily has to die a gruesome death from colon cancer in order for my hamburger at McDonald's to be prepared correctly, that is a price I am absolutely willing to pay. Because that's the kind of generous guy I am.
/r/MensRights27/04/19 08:53 PM
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Finding another living situation (i.e., not living with your girlfriend) ought to be a top priority. You're not going to be able to help your daughter much if your home life is really bad. Also, work on draining the emotion out of your relationship with your girlfriend. Keep it calm, civil, business-like. You don't have to kiss her ass on everything, but just be relentlessly rational. Try to keep her focused on what's best for your daughter, etc. Think of your girlfriend as a force of nature, li…
/r/MensRights27/04/19 03:13 PM
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Been there. Doesn't seem to be any real upper limit on what alimony might be granted. Mine was more than 100% of my salary for a number of years.
/r/MGTOW27/04/19 04:25 AM
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Pretty much. Is there a business reason for the risk you're taking? If not, don't. Even if there is, consider how you can minimize the risk. Email is always better than in-person. Nothing is always better than something.
/r/MensRights27/04/19 04:16 AM
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My deepest sympathies. I can't quite tell if you're married to this woman, but you mention "parenting plan", which makes me think maybe so. You mention missing your daughter a lot, which sounds like you're mostly not living with her and her mother? ​ It's hard to say, but you might need to let it go, at least for a while. Not sure what that would mean. Maybe find someone who'll let you sleep on their couch while you build up some funds. Maybe declare bankruptcy. Not sure, and I really don't know…
/r/MensRights27/04/19 04:08 AM
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"It is difficult to get a man to understand something, when his salary depends upon his not understanding it." -- Upton Sinclair ​ On the whole, you can assume that your teacher, for whatever reason, is not open to seeing the facts here, no matter how convincing they might be. ​ Given the situation, I'd advise not dying on this hill, but rather simply choosing a different, bland topic. It's sad, but the only thing about this course that will matter in even a year will be your grade.
/r/MensRights27/04/19 03:41 AM
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IKR. Are we sure that hasn't been photoshopped or something?
/r/MGTOW24/04/19 05:18 AM
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I for one think it's great that these women are pulling themselves out of the dating pool. It's all for the best, for the men who might otherwise have been snagged in their orbit. ​ Better yet, they should tattoo themselves with some of these "deal breakers"...
/r/MGTOW24/04/19 04:56 AM
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I was there. There were indeed women doing good work in the 80s and 90s. Maybe 10% of the field at most, but they were solid. ​ Unfortunately, the modern PC rewriting of history, together with epic biases in CS programs and subsequent hiring, have completely undermined these women. Back then, you could assume that any woman cutting it was killing it. These days, most women you see in the field are just posers, there largely by dint of their plumbing. Sigh.
/r/MGTOW24/04/19 04:52 AM
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There was a workshop at the local university titled "Leave No Victim Behind". I *so* wanted to troll them... ("Leave No Survivor Behind") ​ Also, really want to see those homicide "survivor" stats.
/r/MensRights24/04/19 04:32 AM
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Seriously consider looking elsewhere. Ting seems as cheap. ​ The thing about Google is that if they decide they don't like you, they will kneecap every single account and service you have with them, all at once. Better to diversify.
/r/MGTOW23/04/19 05:14 AM
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Ha. It's like that episode of MASH where Colonel Potter is consoling Klinger after a harsh dumping: Klinger: This is the worst day of my life!! Potter: Don't fret son. You're going to have way worse days than this one... But laugh--it's funny. Life will suck for a while. Maybe months or years. Then it will let up some. This too shall pass.
/r/MGTOW23/04/19 05:13 AM
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It'd be nice if K-12 teachers, who are almost all women, would stop raping their students. There seems to be *way* more of this in recent years--what gives?
/r/MensRights23/04/19 02:21 AM
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Yeah, this really, really, really sucks. You're not giving many details, but in general, many of us have been there. ​ One answer for the moment: Ride it out for a while. You can always kill yourself later--that's what I tell myself. ​ Beyond that, definitely recommend scrubbing social media, etc. Get ex as far out of your life as possible. Kids and/or alimony make that harder, but do what you can. ​ It's just going to take time. Years. But it can be done. You only have to face one day at a time…
/r/MGTOW22/04/19 06:53 AM
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Indeed, I think this will be the ultimate outcome. The Chinese even have a derogatory word for this: https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=baizuo
/r/MensRights20/04/19 06:22 PM
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Looking good. A bit cash-heavy maybe? But that depends on what expenses you have coming up. Could consider putting some of that in a bond fund, at least.
/r/MGTOW18/04/19 05:29 AM
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It's going to take time. Years. Up to you as to whether you want to go through that, but no threats, complaints, pleas, or anything else are likely to speed up the process.
/r/MensRights17/04/19 02:30 PM
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Probably so. But as a former life-long Democrat, it looks to me like the Dems have swung hard against men in the last five years ago. Part of the reason I walked away is that it's become clear that simply being a man makes me the enemy.
/r/MensRights16/04/19 02:47 PM
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Distribute to worthy Redditors? Seriously, though, no idea. Good luck.
/r/MGTOW15/04/19 03:21 AM
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I'm hardly the expert, but if you know it's coming well in advance, I'd seriously consider getting yourself fired and being "unable" to find another job. The opposite of this (been there) is to be being paid an unsustainably large amount of money at the moment of divorce, and being crushed by the resulting alimony. ​ Could also try converting some of your assets to cash, gold, etc.
/r/MGTOW14/04/19 03:23 AM
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Not sure, but was that a genius move to get her to do a paternity test?
/r/MGTOW11/04/19 01:21 PM
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Been there. If you've got the cash, go get yourself a nice dinner and a few cocktails.
/r/MGTOW11/04/19 01:09 PM
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I would have been pretty fucking happy to have given my ex only 50% of our assets. In fact, I offered her that before our first lawyer consult. (Possibly a strategic mistake, in retrospect.) Her answer: I get more. And she did, a lot more. Hope for the best, but plan for the worst. Go in guns blazing, and scratch for every dollar you can. If you somehow manage to end up with more than your fair share, you can always give some back later. She certainly won't.
/r/MGTOW11/04/19 01:03 PM
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Your wife describing you to someone else as a "child rapist" is the reddest of red flags. ​ You need to consult a serious lawyer and start making serious plans.
/r/MGTOW11/04/19 12:59 PM
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I suspect that woman is slowly dying inside, actually. The coverage is just plain patronizing: "Look, it's a woman! She has a vagina! And woah, she actually accomplished something!" And for the next decade this is what everyone will be thinking of when they meet her.
/r/MGTOW11/04/19 12:58 PM
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That's pretty brilliant, actually. ​ (Also, way to close to home on my last marriage. Ugh.)
/r/MGTOW11/04/19 12:54 PM
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It's kind of annoying considering how much of my money I've given them over the years, yes. The flipside, though, is that all of P&G's products have their name on them, and it wasn't very difficult to switch my purchases to other brands. Get woke, go broke.
/r/MensRights11/04/19 12:36 PM
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I'm on board with this. Read Benatar: Kids suffer, and if you don't have them, they don't.
/r/MensRights11/04/19 03:46 AM
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You're entitled to your opinion. But at least learn to write--the word is "affected".
/r/MensRights09/04/19 04:04 AM
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Hi Karen, I am currently paying 100% of my salary to my ex as alimony. That's a "right" I was born with, I guess. Your sons were as well. You could shame them about their privilege I guess, but if you love them, you'll warn them about what's possible.
/r/MensRights08/04/19 03:13 PM
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Ref please--who is that (on the left)?
/r/MGTOW07/04/19 10:44 PM
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You can never know what the future brings, but that doesn't necessarily sound that bad to me. Check your local laws regarding common law marriage, but in most places, there is no possibility of alimony for living together. If she decides she wants to be married, I'd think long and hard before jumping in. I'm paying 100% of my salary to my ex as alimony, and it sucks. ​ I suppose if she becomes seriously ill, you may very well feel ethically obliged to care for her. I'd decide now how I felt abou…
/r/MGTOW07/04/19 10:43 PM
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Hey, more useful than a gender studies degree...
/r/MGTOW05/04/19 03:06 AM
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Pics or it didn't happen.
/r/MGTOW05/04/19 02:57 AM
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If you're drinking for entertainment, sure, cut down. A lot of us drink to survive another day. ​ If he's made it to 77, that's pretty much gold. I personally plan to check out much sooner.
/r/MGTOW05/04/19 02:45 AM
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Still worth it, to be rid of her...
/r/MGTOW05/04/19 02:38 AM
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In general, yes. But for the purposes of OP's argument, it's the differential rate that matters.
/r/MensRights05/04/19 02:07 AM
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I lived in NYC a couple of years ago. One major annoyance was that women would frequently drop the door right in my face. That is, when a queue of people were walking through a door, each right after the other, most holding the door for a moment for the person right behind, some woman immediately in front of me would slip through without propping the door at all. If you're not careful, you'll literally catch the edge of that door with your face. ​ Never saw a man do this a single time.
/r/MensRights05/04/19 02:02 AM
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The rates that would matter are male suicide versus female suicide, not the total rates. Anyone have those numbers?
/r/MensRights04/04/19 03:19 PM
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Anyone who thinks those tax advantages can somehow balance the real risk of nearly unlimited financial loss in a divorce is a fool.
/r/MGTOW02/04/19 02:54 PM
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Very sad. Possibly he's guilty, but probably not. And I don't think we should be hounding people to suicide because they *might* have done something.
/r/MGTOW02/04/19 02:50 PM
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More from the paper: "In this paper, we examine this question with a novel experimental approach, where we study peoples’ views on income inequalities generated in a labor market. Our main focus is on whether people show less concern for income inequality when a male is falling behind than when a female is falling behind. We provide a simple theoretical framework to guide the empirical analysis, where we show how statistical fairness discrimination against male losers may occur if people perceiv…
/r/MensRights02/04/19 02:31 PM
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Well, a hearty welcome to the club. I suppose you're jumping from one hot pan to another. My personal feeling is that everyone has their burden to carry under the hot sun. Personally, I keep my head down and my mouth shut, especially in the current cultural environment. Good luck.
/r/MensRights31/03/19 10:02 PM
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No idea what's happened, but the UK has become an evil place. I will not step foot there again until things have dramatically changed.
/r/MensRights30/03/19 10:44 PM
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What a shitshow: "I'm protesting this by posting pictures of my ass!" "POC get called on this more, so this is actually about racism!" (and ironic sidebar) "Seven ways the world is not designed for women"
/r/MGTOW29/03/19 11:43 AM
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Since several older women have confided this to me, I'm going with "yes".
/r/MGTOW29/03/19 11:39 AM
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It's like wearing a big sign that says "I'm vapid". Personally, I appreciate knowing that up front.
/r/MGTOW29/03/19 11:32 AM
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Wrong sub, dude...
/r/MGTOW29/03/19 11:06 AM
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Probably matters whether "full custody" is by decision of a court, or just informally between the two of you. And of course, it matters a lot what your relative incomes and financial states are. Consult a lawyer, etc. That said, for the particulars of the situation, I'd be inclined to accept her numbers as long as they seem reasonable and haven't increased significantly over time. Doesn't seem like the hill to die on. But, we don't know all of the details, so, again, consider consulting a lawyer…
/r/MensRights28/03/19 03:12 PM
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Because modern feminism is about hating men, and nothing good can come from such vicious bigotry. ​ https://quillette.com/2018/08/15/why-its-not-ok-to-hate-men/
/r/MensRights28/03/19 03:06 PM
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Could troll a bit on the way out: "Sorry almost boss, I really would have enjoyed working for you. Maybe next time. --Me"
/r/MGTOW28/03/19 03:08 AM
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Why Are So Many Female Teachers Statutory Raping their Child Students with Impunity?
/r/MensRights27/03/19 03:00 AM
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Based on private conversations with various women, in contexts where I think they'd have no reason to lie or exaggerate, I believe that that statistic is true (i.e., approximately correct). This is for the US. ​ That said, I suspect that a rather small proportion of men are rapists. Don't have any stats at hand, but guessing maybe 1-5%. ​ Also have no idea of what proportion of women are rapists. But based on the recent train of stories about female teachers raping their (minor) students, I wond…
/r/MensRights27/03/19 02:53 AM
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To the degree that bad behavior is occurring, it's to be denounced (regardless of the genders of those involved). ​ Self-reports seem like a weak source, though, given that society trains men to ignore and not mention such wrongs and women to amplify them. ​ It's not obvious what would be better. Body cameras for all, perhaps?
/r/MensRights27/03/19 02:38 AM
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Not sure "support" is the word I'd use, but the open viciousness has really been snapping people out of their prior trances (including me). ​ Apparently the whole movement was just a power grab after all.
/r/MGTOW24/03/19 07:23 PM
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Just joined, but have been lurking for a long time. ​ This place has been a true blessing for me.
/r/MGTOW24/03/19 03:07 AM
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