eric_in_cleveland Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	I’m planning on divorcing my wife, what is the most respectable way of doing it? Just a post of my support for you. Marriage isn’t easy. Finding the right mate is extremely difficult and more rare than you think. She will be hurt. You have no control over how she will or does feel. The best thing you can do is be clear with yourself and your boundaries and values while things run their course. Be respectful when she is not, you will be co-parenting for the rest of your lives.	/r/MensRights	06/05/24 01:11 AM
22	About to go from low income, to much higher income, and might get hit with child support case in the next few months. Trying to figure out if I should postpone the job. I might get down voted for this but, I think you should just ride it out. Take the job, live your life. Once the child is born, request a paternity test. If it is yours, support the child as best you can and are able. They didn’t ask to be born, do your best even if they are unwanted.	/r/MensRights	03/04/23 01:40 AM
1	Shared Custody and Post Divorce LTR Outlook I am not there yet, but when I think about a post divorce LTR, I would not want her involved with my kids in any way. For better or worse, kids have the mom they have. They don’t need a new one. I would go as far as calling her Mrs. X and asking that she leave the house when they are around. I would ask that if she has kids, I do the same. I would only entertain marriage after a long time and the kids are all grown. It’s not about her being in their life but protecting the relationship I have wi…	/r/TheRedPill	23/03/23 01:33 AM
1	This is plain out discrimination. (Hy-Vee Pharmacy) If your scrotum has swollen to a size that you can sit on it - I think it is safe to enter.	/r/MensRights	03/02/23 12:37 AM
-2	Tried to tip a waitress where I work. Got called in for “flirting” with a female staff. This thread is disappointing. The posts and comments read just like garbage posts on 2xc. There are no rules for life. Using this as an example of why you wont be nice or tip or whatever because ... women ... is garbage. Your post lacks any context to her reaction or your history with her. Something about your gesture was enough that she had to talk to someone about it. The $10 tip was not the issue -- it was everything else that caused the situation to be misread in some way by her. You made an…	/r/MensRights	15/06/22 04:45 PM
2	Why do some people yell at men that women don’t owe them a relationship, when these men are depressed and just want to vent about their inability of finding a partner? I think I am reading your post differently from other commenters because in my younger years - I was in a similar place. I think it depends on who specifically is demonizing when you are sincerely expressing yourself. If its a male friend... find a new friend. They should be supporting you, not hurting you. If its a female, who you have been doing nice things for, expecting her to reciprocate -- you need to cut that shit out and move on. Those are called covert contracts. Doing something nice fo…	/r/MensRights	02/06/22 09:21 PM
2	We overlook a significant factor in mass shootings: fatherlessness I would add that even if your kids have a father in the home it’s important to be present. Don’t just work, eat and sleep - but be a part of the family or at a minimum spend regular 1:1 time with them to develop a relationship. Also, my favorite non profits to support are those lead by men to help be a father figure to boys. Inner city youth sports and other youth programs lead by strong men is money well spent in my option too try and reverse the abandonment many experience at a young age. Than…	/r/MensRights	29/05/22 05:27 PM
-12	If women can have abortions, so can men. When it comes to child birth it cannot and will never be equal. It takes two. And regardless of the circumstances, here comes a third life to consider in the equation. Fatherless and unwanted children is it’s own pandemic imo.	/r/MensRights	15/04/22 01:12 AM
348	Falsely accused of sexual assault scared and no where to turn Assuming you are in the United States: your appointed attorney is bound by oath to defend you to the best of their ability. They can loose their license to practice law if they do any less. They are likely over worked so be respectful of their time and ask what you can do to help. Maintain your innocence. Don’t talk to police without your attorney. Many cities have public resources for those who are disabled. You might contact them to ask about additional legal resources available to you free of…	/r/MensRights	25/03/22 11:20 AM