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> Sexual and reproductive success has nothing to do with morality; it may even be negative correlated. That matches with what I saw growing up in high school and college. The guys who wanted to get drunk, engage in casual sex and hookup culture got laid weekly. While the guys who wanted families and to get to know the person, got spat on, drinks poured on them, laughed at, looks of disgust and called creeps. Most of those guys are still single looking after parents who can't work anymore, cancer…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 04:58 PM
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Sounds like you'll be renting all your life, due to failing to understand the current housing market. Houses where I live are $1.2 - $1.7 million for a 3 bedroom 1 hour outside of the city and $650,000 2 hours outside of the city. Couples are moving back with a parent to try and save $200,000 for a down payment. If you waste 10-20 years renting, it seals your fate in today's housing market.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 03:14 PM
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No I've heard it used in the office and at speed dating events, it's become pretty normalized in the last 4 years, previously the shaming language used was "Nice guy". It's female shaming language used against men who don't give women what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 02:51 PM
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This sounds like high school clique bullying and crazy talk when coming from adults. The term was hijacked by vile people as shaming language for the purpose of online bullying. These people never grew out of the high school clique phase and just want to continue being a bully outside of high school without facing repercussions. So just like in high school they target a group who's easy pickings and won't retaliate. You don't deserve special treatment just because you hate and bully a group of p…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 11:30 AM
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Pain clinics are already a massive hinderance in Australia just to get pain relief. They continuously fight for you to require a GP or a specialist visit just for regular pain relief. It's all a money making scheme where they all want to add extra fees.
/r/MensRights01/02/24 07:50 AM
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Sounds like the person telling you to go to therapy is gaslighting you. Their help is some thing you know doesn't work from experience, so why even entertain their answer? Call them out on their BS and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 12:48 AM
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Are women the primary motivator in most men's lives? Yes. How true is this though? I think it's very true. Men work hard to support their girlfriend, their wife. their family. Men take promotions more seriously if they have a family for who it would benefit. Men take more risks, like starting a business or pushing for big promotions when they have support to fall back on. Men are accepting of their position in life, it's women who push them to look for that better jobs. It's women used to motiva…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 01:30 PM
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Also is male sexuality demonized? Yes. If you are a player you are demonized but worse if you are inexperienced or a virgin you are demonized even more.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 01:03 PM
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Escorts prob going to destroy your confidence, they want you to keep paying, not get real girls. Quite the opposite. In some places they recommend it as therapy and it can even be government funded under Improved Daily Living because once the person has experienced it a few times their mind stops making sex out to be such a big thing. The experience reduces stress, nightmares, rumination and allows better sleep following the encounter. Another thing you may have missed is all women want a sexual…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 03:13 PM
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Why don't men come together to support each other Women very frequently defund them, ban them or force them to close because they see them as anti-women. It is why you don't see homeless shelters for men. EDIT: Here's just one such example https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/196qzqs/nyc_women_try_to_oppose_the_construction_of_a/
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 05:23 AM
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Thank you for saying it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 05:17 AM
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if he wants to do what's "morally right" That's rich coming out of her mouth after the manipulation and amoral stuff she did.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 04:57 AM
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Are you honestly afraid you may have to settle for a woman who isn't hot for you? That is female shaming language, worded as an attack and we all know it. I was brought up that you should shame bad behaviour, you do not encourage or reward it. I won't settle or marry such women end of story. Marrying such a woman would be rewarding her for over a decade bad behaviour. I would rather choose roommates that pay rent instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 05:29 AM
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Neuroplasticity is not magic, and this whole "women are psychologically damaged by every cock they take" ... mythology with basically no evidence. As someone who's worked both in IVF and early childhood development I can confidently say you are so full of shit and don't know what you are talking about. There is so much fucking evidence they are walking on two legs and have names. They are being looked after by grandparents, aunts and uncles because their broken piece of shit mother wants to go c…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 03:49 AM
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I was brought up that you should shame bad behaviour, not encourage or reward it. Shaming used to be used to disincentive the behaviour. However because so many women engaged in hook-up culture and a 304 phase they have put themselves into the position where they became what was looked upon in shame. So to manipulate the narrative these women started using peoples sexual experience or lack their of as a means of personal attack or to invalidate an argument and it's been made socially acceptable …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 03:24 AM
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Why So Many Young Men Are Abandoning College Degrees Well it used to be when you have a Degree you were guaranteed a job by companies. Now days however those same companies demand 3-5 years experience for a graduate/entry level position. You can also be the best worker, be fired for no reason or have a new manager come in and get rid of you and no amount of working harder will get you a raise or protect your position. However if you study a trade and work for yourself, you have more job security…
/r/MensRights11/01/24 03:48 PM
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There is ever increasing hiring prejudice across STEM fields, especially now in IT. In IT and struggling with this for 10 years, DEI hires. Sometimes they cause more work and downtime than they're worth and they're always the first to get promoted and raises. The ones fixing their mistakes gets told to work harder and be more of a team player. It also doesn't help that the technical job requirements and workload just keep increasing year after year.
/r/MensRights11/01/24 03:39 PM
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Why are people surprised? If you tell someone all their life they are awful for being born and treat them as not human eventually they withdraw from society and isolate themselves. A massive motivator for men used to be marrying young and building a life and a family together. Now days the guy is expected to have everything of a successful 50 year old at 20 while women wait at the finishing line spouting a list of demands. You want to study? Well you need money. You want to earn money? Sorry mos…
/r/MensRights11/01/24 03:31 PM
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You'd have a bunch of rapid fire interviews, not dates. And it's always the same: Hi my name is... What do you do for a living? - This is always to gage income. After the speed dating portion all the women surround the guy with the highest income and the rest of the guys get ignored finish their drinks and go home.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 03:03 PM
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it does feel like less kids are losing their virginity before HS Well... According to the "General Social Survey" The % of single men between the age of 18-29 that are virgins has been a rising trend, however for women it's been stable around 18%. In 2018 it was 28% for men. In 2020 it was 30.4% for men. In 2022 it was 32.8% for men. The GSS will release figures again later this year.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 01:47 PM
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That kind of boy/man gets to understand that he will be seen negatively From my experience the kindest guys receive the cruellest treatment and reactions from women. Receiving that kind of treatment ... teaches you that you're not and will never be good enough .. no matter how much you try to do what "normal" people do, others will always receive you poorly and you will be socially punished for trying. You are spot on, I've seen them go from energetic and hopeful that things will change in their…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 01:30 PM
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Women should give meek, nice guys a chance I know two families in this position. The one guy is a stay at home dad and the other works part-time and looks after the kids. The women are a Doctor and Engineer respectively and they both had children in their mid 20's. Both women I would consider dominant but neither have boss babe energy, give their husband shit or interfere with running of the house. Both claim they are dominant at work and just go with the flow at home, because work is tiring and…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 11:45 AM
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Sad thing is she will be doing the dancing thing while her parents look after the child. She'll be the parent that forgets their kid at school or can't drop them off because she's been out drinking/clubbing and only got home at 3am. I've seen enough of them to know.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/04/23 06:56 PM
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25 is young For a person yes, but for having healthy children without geriatric pregnancy no; She's passed the halfway point assuming her fertility doesn't fall off at 28 which is very common with women who have had a certain STD.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/04/23 06:51 PM
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Single mom, baby boy, he's my world. You'll never be. Every time I see this two things come to my mind: Another not using birth control responsibly Attempted to manipulate the chad into staying with her by baby trapping him. The same women who tries to baby trap a guy once always does it another 3 more times with 3 other guys. It never works, but women keep doing it thinking "I'm an exception to the rule, this time will be different", no you are the rule. I'm now a good christian girl/wanna be a…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/04/23 06:46 PM
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Facepalm, you're right about the money. My own sister has always earned double what I made, but is forever out of money and borrowing money to support her lifestyle. She's borrowed so much from family and never pays us back that we now all refuse to give her anymore money, but to her we're the broke losers. The last time was she was begging and crying she couldn't pay rent, we transferred her money then when we went to clean her place found out she blew it all on takeout, she didn't even try to …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/04/23 07:07 AM
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There's a video going around of a woman dumping a guy on a date because he didn't want to pay for extra cheese on his burger so he went without. She blasted him on social media and then went on about how she in huge debt blah blah blah. As a guy I know to spend within my means but so many women I know have debt and even my own sister who earns double what I make is constantly asking to borrow money it boggles my mind. They blow money on stupid shit like $70 Uber eats take out and $200 flash dinn…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/03/23 08:21 PM
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and when he asks her body count he's vetting her - he's finding out if she's honest. Women just cannot wrap their minds around this. It's like it breaks their software and they cannot comprehend it because they have never had to put themselves in the other person's shoes. he compares these two facts he knows about her doesn't make other men wait she's making me wait Translation: She would literally have sex with any number of strangers who aren't interested in her but for you who is interested i…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/03/23 08:12 PM
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she looked at him unfavorably for taking care of her even after she got better. Who does that?!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/09/22 05:34 PM
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1 in 3 men under 30 are virgins or have not recently had sex. The general social survey from which those figures come, showed it was a sharp rising trend: 2018 - 28% 2020 - 33.2% 2022 - 36.4% EDIT: Based on the trend I would expect around 40% in the 2024 results.
/r/MensRights09/09/22 11:02 AM
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I think therapy for men needs to be action oriented that gets results. In that line of thinking therapy isn't nearly as helpful as a support person or a mentor.
/r/MensRights09/09/22 10:25 AM
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abc.net.au Are like other news companies in australia are not allowed to mention diversity in a negative light. It looks like it got through 9now.nine because this is an episode summary for a talk show called Today.
/r/MensRights09/09/22 10:16 AM
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checked herself into a mental health hospital I'm sure she went on to write a book about it, how inhumanly mental health hospitals treat patients. Forced pills and electroshock therapy that patients couldn't refuse it rarely helped the patients and the regular absence of the actual doctors. Nurses look after the patients but cannot prescribe any medication or treatment and are there to ensure you take the medicine. So if you get sick, have start seeing things from side effects or even a headache…
/r/MensRights09/09/22 09:38 AM
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How is she so bad at birth control that she has 4 kids without a father? That's no accident that's conscious thought and a series of bad choices again and again and again and again.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/08/22 11:48 AM
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Multitasking roles is a great way to do multiple things poorly, especially when said roles are naturally conflicting. Which is generally why you see opposites attract to fill the gap. Those that do very well understand this and usually pair up as one ambitious and one supporter. An executive and a housewife An executive and a personal assistant An business owner and a housewife An business owner and a working wife An business owner with a wife working at the business Generally female executives …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/07/22 01:25 PM
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Similar reports from America - sources: Source 1 Source 2 Source 3 Source 1 between 2000 and 2018. The percentage of 18 - to 24-year-old men who were sexually inactive increased from 18.9% in 2000-2002 to 30.9% in 2016-2018. Similar trends in sexual inactivity appeared among individuals aged 25-34 years but not among individuals aged 35-44 years. Source 2 Between 2000-2002 and 2016-2018, the proportion of 18 - to 24-year-old individuals who reported having had no sexual activity in the past year…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/06/22 04:35 AM
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My biggest take away from him is: If you are average, look for an average person to be your partner. Spending your time over reaching for an exceptional person with many other options is an effort in futility, where you could have better spent your time with people on your level. His questions were always focused on determining if the person was exceptional or average. Exceptional people look for exceptional partners, why would an exceptional person choose you? What value do you add to their lif…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/05/22 10:25 PM
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As many women do, she places all the blame on the man who fathered her child while not showing any sign that she feels any guilt for making such a poor choice. Guys only have condoms as a means of birth control, women have pills, implants, creams and as a last resort abortion. If she decides she wants a baby the guy has no choice in the matter, she can stop birth control without telling the guy and he gets no say in the matter, but if a guy takes off the condom during sex he goes to jail. Yet so…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/05/22 06:05 PM
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I have cool hobbies and interests They never do. It's always travel, shopping, social media and making their current boyfriend entertain them. Many years ago you used to find women who painted, did photography or volunteered. Now days finding a woman with a hobby is so rare.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/04/22 03:14 PM
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The incel's are for all intents and purposes invisible to all women UNLESS they need something from them, then they pay them just enough attention to get what they need and ghost them immediately after. Yikes that is spot on, and it usually leads to the person eventually ceasing their kind acts and slowly becoming bitter when they receive backlash from entitled people. It's no wonder these guys are extremely bitter. Action and reaction.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/03/22 01:29 PM
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If one woman stuck with me in my corner during my struggle and helped me out or cheered for me I would have given the world for her. Too close to home.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/03/22 03:50 PM
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I have a solution: BLOCK Now delete that thread and give it two weeks and then you'll feel better.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/03/22 08:06 AM
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But dating advice treats women as bombs. You have to be extremely careful with everything you do or say or else, you will blow everything up. Not just dating advice: TV, social media, news, work, college. Men have sit through mandatory classes/training for college and work as part of their induction/onboarding process.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 11:55 AM
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That doesn't look right. It isn't inline with what studies reported in previous years, but it could just be the range difference. Here's what was previously reported: Individuals who reported having had no sexual activity in the past year: 18 - 24 Men 18.9%(2002), 28%(2018), 30.9%(2020) Women 15.1%(2002), 18%(2018), 19.1%(2020)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 11:44 AM
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Women choose who they want to have relationships with. Don't forget: The choice to stop taking birth control without informing their partner. The choice to keep the child even if their partner is not ready for children.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/02/22 02:31 PM
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It really shouldn’t be that hard That's super easy, don't go to bars or night clubs looking for good guys. Go to a sports field/club or the gym if you want someone well built Go to the beach, camping or join a hiking club if you want someone who enjoys the outdoors Go to a hobby store or find a club if you want someone who is more introverted Go to a second hand bookstore or a library if you want someone who is well read The above tend to be 99% guys, unfortunately girls choose the night clubs a…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/02/22 01:02 PM
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E. - A majority of successfully fertilized eggs will never implant properly E.2 - The fertilized eggs must take in host womb, which becomes more unlikely with age. E.3 - A surrogate womb may be required for this step.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/02/22 03:30 AM
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egg freezing. TLDR: it is not very successful. The egg is only a part of it, the womb is another then lastly the quality of the sperm. Hormones and a healthy womb are needed for the eggs to even take. Many IVF specialists won't tell people this because they are in the business of selling long odds and expensive hope. Even in farming fertilized eggs of prized animals are put into younger animals because the offspring are more likely to come to term and be born healthier.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/02/22 03:23 AM
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I can tell you right now what is happening. She is dating multiple guys at once. In trying to have many options, she is losing all of them. When she meets a new guy he's interested in her, but he loses interest because she is indifferent, distant and glued to her phone planning the other dates with other guys. The guys are picking up that she's not interested in a 1 on 1 thing and won't get off her phone and invest in them as a couple. So they move on.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/01/22 11:12 AM
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She doesn't fuck any of them. She's playing the good girl with all but one of them, telling the rest she wants to take it slow while making them buy her stuff. Need money for power this week can you send me $50? +$50 +$50 +$50 +$50 +$50 $250 - Easy money It's scary how some women do this and string along multiple guys they don't like along for money.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/01/22 11:05 AM
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degree = prestige/status Ironically they pumped out so many people with degrees that they could push down the wages for these jobs. When I started studying STEM, entry level jobs were 60-80k salary by the time I finished entry level salary had dropped to 40-60k and required 3 years experience.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/01/22 06:42 PM
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what could anyone else offer to make her stay if that didn’t do it. Tingles? She had life set: Partner House Kid 6 figure income I don't understand how you mess that up. I'm guessing one of them cheated or drove the other to leave with extremely abusive behavior.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/01/22 06:34 PM
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what do you gentlemen think of men without women? They are sad and sometimes depressed that they are missing out on a massive part of life others take for granted, but many accept it with a heavy heart and move on. Women sadly have become very quick to attack, vilify, shame and blame guys when they don't get what they want. while continually whingeing about how life is unfair. This is an example of not giving someone a basic level of respect, jumping straight to attacking and putting 0 effort in…
/r/seduction15/12/21 06:45 AM
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"Just be interesting." - Be the clown. "Work on yourself" - This is negative thinking because it always assumes there's something wrong with you. It is a neg used to undercut someone's confidence in order to sell them something. "Just be yourself" - Came up near the top of "What’s some widely accepted bad advice?" in an askreddit that's still active. The place to find single women You will find single and divorced women at Nightclubs and Tinder. You might find single women at College, the gym or…
/r/seduction15/12/21 05:01 AM
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What she is doing is called obtrusion after her feedback was rejected.
/r/seduction15/12/21 04:08 AM
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60% had an STD? That can't be right. We were constantly reminded of it on radio and tv after it was initially reported as a health crisis and again when Durex published their report.
/r/seduction15/12/21 03:48 AM
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If everyone is doing something that you aren't, maybe you need to keep up with the times? Just because everyone is having unprotected sex with strangers and contracting STDs doesn't mean you should. The city I was living during the 2000's had a health crisis, doctors were reporting that 3/5 women in the city had an STD. It was so bad it also showed up in the global Durex health reports.
/r/seduction15/12/21 02:37 AM
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You seem very bitter from just your two responses and it comes across like you're trying to imprint your issues onto others.
/r/seduction15/12/21 02:16 AM
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The cognitive dissonance is astounding. She has 100K people interested in her on Twitter and she won't look or consider even one of them. All they are to her is money, she doesn't even realize that those are real living breathing people interested in her. She automatically now just tunes out guys who are interested in her. I've recently seen this tuning out with a dating coach / matchmaker who went on the radio trying to get guys to turn up for a ball even that they had setup and was charging fo…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/12/21 10:43 AM
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Maybe stop advertising your blog as a source of truth before people catch on and start reporting it.
/r/seduction10/12/21 04:15 PM
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Just because the advice is free doesn't make it good. Especially if the free advice is a neg at a person to create a flaw. For example: You just need to change your....hair, height, weight, personality, job, money, hobbies, clothes, ambition, social life etc...
/r/seduction10/12/21 01:15 PM
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This is gaslighting nonsense. It assumes "Something" being wrong with you as a justification to write you off. You can be an amazing person in many aspects but dating and relationships. People will try to find some flaw with you even if they have to create a fictional one. Do not put up with it, if someone tries to gaslight you, cut them out of your life like a cancer especially if they try to sell you something to fix said flaw, they are creating a fictional flaw to sell you a fix. Know and loo…
/r/seduction10/12/21 12:09 PM
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Honestly... Men who don't watch porn. I'm curious how do you see this happening in real life? The Washington post reported in 2018, 28% of men under 30 reported not having had sex in over a year or more and based on their data it looked like that number was climbing to 36% by 2022. Guys that cannot get regular sex turn to porn and generally when they get regular sex they stop. The only way I really see this happening is if a girl makes a guy hers back in high school and they regularly go at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 05:33 PM
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Most dudes don’t work on themselves A guy that spends his days sitting down and his nights studding is not going to have abs that's fantasy think. Guys that have a job that keeps them active and moving have a flat stomach and if they work out maybe abs. They don’t got the balls to ask out chicks in real life. Lots of guys have experienced extremely cruel rejections or being called a creep and as a result don't approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 09:16 AM
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You have to understand that 80% of men aren’t really dating successfully. I wish women could understand this. r/dataisbeautiful/ is great for showing this this. Here are two such samples using Tinder: F23 M18-22 From the above the F23 got 2434 matches over a year and the M18-22 only got 110 over 4 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 09:02 AM
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This sounds like a lot guys I knew. Women used to call them "Nice" then proceed to hate them and treat them with extreme cruelty. A lot of them now look after their family and friends. They don't have children and tend to be savers so they have money when friends or family have emergencies. A few helped their parents pay off the family home and live at home. They don't feel the need to live on their own or taking out a $500k - $1m loan for the privilege of living on their own. Some used to volun…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 08:37 AM
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A party girl Some eventually get over the party phase, others never leave that phase and their parents / aunts / uncles / grand parents look after their children so that they can keep going to music festivals, partying and looking for a REAL MAN. The real sad thing here is I'm seeing more and more children who were born from mothers who stopped birth control without telling their partner in order to trap their partner. Their partner always tries to stay, they become toxic, entitled and abusive t…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/12/21 01:38 AM
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I see your intention but I disagree on some things. that defeatist thinking Scarcity mindset, defeatist thinking these are all things of egomaniac narcissists. They imprint their negativity onto someone else in order to feel superior and put down others. Defeatist is thinking it won't be better so I won't even try. Realist thinking is I have tried and had this experience and from this experience I can reflect on and predict the future outcome good or bad. Even if you are in the toilet in your 20…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/12/21 07:49 PM
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haven’t touched another human being in 4 years. haven’t touched another human being in 8 years. haven’t touched another human being in 12 years. haven’t touched another human being in 16 years. What do you think that does to a guy? Do you think that person is going to be a motivated individual? or a depressed and lonely person? After all the effort only to be spat on by women and society? This is why guys are withdrawing from society and ending themselves. They don't see things ever getting bett…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/11/21 04:07 AM
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Guy A - Friday. Guy B - Saturday lunch. Guy C - Saturday dinner. I don't owe you anything attitude I'm shocked and disgusted, why would anyone want to marry her? I can see her becoming desperate, lying about birth control then trapping a guy. She's got no consideration for the guys and she will have none for her children. EDIT: Fixed spelling error
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/11/21 03:51 AM
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Rolls eyes another Ad / Coach / Expert trying to sell you something TLDR stop being gullible, to these people you are just a meal ticket. Last place I worked at had 5 men and 130 women. The women were: 1) Divorced (with children) 2) Married (with children) 3) Married (soon to have children) 4) In a relationship Just because you are around a lot of women means nothing. The company engaged in high profile events and fundraisers. The volunteers were men, you did not see single women in the group of…
/r/seduction29/11/21 02:47 AM
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Yep, the others will drag her down make her conform to the group. The more she goes out clubbing with those friends the worse it's going to get for her. She should get a hobby both her and her boyfriend can do or use to meet new people otherwise I don't see her relationship working out.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/11/21 12:12 PM
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For me "learn and grow with you." is a good thing if the person is in their 20's. It's in the same lines as "want to make a life together". But that doesn't stand true when she is 30+ because they've had all those years in their 20's to choose to do so and chose not to pick a guy to do that with. To me if feels hypocritical if you say you want it but your actions show otherwise.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/11/21 01:33 AM
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intellect & mental stimulation Translation: Have lots of arguments and entertain her. Recommendation: Get a hobby. a traveller not a tourist take care of yourself, don't own a flannelette shirt Translation: Have a certain level of wealth and rich lifestyle. Recommendation: Stop with the delusions at 49, look for an average guy who's companionship you enjoy, not what they can buy for you or what short trip they can take you on.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/11/21 01:27 AM
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I'd find one of those meetups or users groups In my experience: Meetup is as dead myspace, it's mainly used for sales seminars now. Users groups are mainly filled with men. Facebook groups vary but most I've come across stopped updating. Snapchat & Instagram have a lot of active women, but the communication is usually one way. a heck of lot of those guys are single I've had that experience too in IT. I also realized something shocking at the time, these guys were awkward but very intelligent, di…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/11/21 03:49 AM
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No need to get a masters degree in "make sure the power is off before stripping the wires insulation with your teeth" at least at this phase of the business cycle there's infinite overtime if you want it, STEM fields really need unions to represent them, it's a massive gap in the market that has yet to be filled. I know so many people who went into STEM fields who burnt out or changed careers because the amount of unpaid overtime demanded of them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/11/21 02:46 AM
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60 people within a year This year... What about the other years...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/10/21 12:26 PM
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Every guy I meet in person ends up just wanting to be physical. Yeah that's called AFFECTION and being INTIMATE. Which she clearly doesn't want with a new partner and seeing that she's divorced I suspect old partner as well. People bond to others, they want shared experiences, to grow and learn with each other and to be able to trust each other has their backs when things get tough. I'm willing to bet she has no personality or hobbies, the only thing she offers is sex. So she goes to bars, gets …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/10/21 09:52 AM
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Most don't even list their interests, Or when they do it's travel, shopping, clubbing, outdoors... This tells me nothing about a person but that they don't know how to handle money or their time, meaning YOU will be their entertainment, their interest and when they get bored of you they will move on. People that actually love travelling will say "I've been to X, loved Y and am saving to go to Z."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/06/21 01:49 PM
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Every single 18-24yo single mother, the first thing in my mind is they tried to baby trap some guy. This is so true. You don't just stop birth control when you are sexually active. It is a thought-out choice, to stop or to lie by omission about being on birth control.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/06/21 01:30 PM
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No most smart people don't move past chess. I don't know. Many take up robotics, 3D printing, automation and programming. There's nothing quite like seeing a bot playing a game completely un-aided while you watch. Or creating an automation to complete a 4 hour job in minutes with the click of a single button. a woman who plays chess is more intelligent than the social media addicted women. I agree with you there.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/05/21 12:08 PM
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Play chess Good at chess Good and understand chess These are different things: Playing doesn't mean you are good. Being good at chess doesn't mean you're smart. Being smart means you get bored. Chess is a game with finite moves and reactions. Most smart people move on to more complicated games.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/05/21 09:10 PM
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In some instances, the grandparents become the parent while said qween goes off partying as they have no responsibilities. In most instances now. It's really sad. Schools are not allowed to send letters out to "the parents" anymore, they have to send letters to "the caregivers." "The parents" are now the minority.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/05/21 04:28 PM
3

I really wish I was a LEGO figure, So that when someone steps on you it brings them instant regret?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/05/21 01:00 PM
1

'Trust me Every person who has said that to me in my life has been the kind of person I knew I couldn't trust. Show don't tell.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/05/21 12:53 PM
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Where I live the schools are no longer allowed to send home letters to "The Parents," it has to be addressed to "The Caregivers" because most of the children are being looked after by aunts, uncles and grandparents.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/05/21 12:21 PM
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She thinks someone is gonna be a daddy to her baby, I'm going to agree with Kevin Samuels here: That child already has a daddy; She should be looking for a step daddy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/05/21 12:09 PM
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Oh that was what that clapping sound was... A group facepalm
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/04/21 12:30 PM
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... and I still can’t find a man who’s 6 feet, 6 inches, and 6 figures, and loyal to me Let me add the start and end to that sentence. I've had my fun with the top 10% in my 20's and I still can’t find a man who’s 6 feet, 6 inches, and 6 figures, and loyal to me while I cheat on him. When you tell a girl, people who make 6 figures are 10% of the population you can see the cognitive dissonance in their eyes, it does not compute, register, hit home or pass go. Very few women understand this or wha…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/04/21 07:36 PM
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Women can still have kids at these ages, it just becomes significantly more dangerous for both them and the child. But just because you can doesn't mean you should, the same goes for men as DNA degrades over time. You might end up fine but the child will more likely as the years go on be born with a disability or impairment.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/02/21 04:43 PM
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We were lucky as chances are 35-40% success during 30-35yrs old. You were very lucky. At 35: Chance of Down syndrome is 1 in 400. By age 45, it is 1/30. Chance of Miscarriages is about 20%. By age 45, it is 80%. CDC have in the last 4 years been reporting a surge in these children experiencing neurological issues such as reduced neuroplasticity which usually manifest as: Slow learning and physical development Partial or full hearing loss in one or both ears
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/02/21 04:35 PM
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So tell me guys of Reddit, where do ya'll hangout? Church? Charity events? Gym? Home, we hang out at home sometimes with friends. We spend the weekend reading a good book, relaxing, playing a video game, building something or outdoors. Some volunteer their time others work on their side projects/business'. We most likely have both a Tinder and Bumble account that you already swiped left on. As someone who does a lot behind the scenes work for charities I can tell you that there are next to no si…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/02/21 08:08 AM
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I'm a mere computer technician and I have learned very early in my life to never say exactly what is my line of work Damn took me 10 years to stop helping others. So many two faced entitled people out there who will make you out to be an asshole for not fixing and repairing their stuff for free, when they should have replaced their stuff years ago. I'm in the jaded burnt out phase. One day after someone had a go at me I just thought why am I doing this for people who don't appreciate it?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/02/21 04:20 PM
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Women find kindness to be extremely attractive. From my experience, men with kindness are treated with extreme cruelty from women.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/02/21 11:24 PM
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Their only care in the world is that they get what they want, now, I'm afraid I see this a lot. Even if the child isn't born with a defect, they usually suffer developmental and learning delays due to reduced Neuroplasticity.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/01/21 12:28 PM
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+1 Actually it hits ~50/50 between 34-36 from the woman's side, been there and seen the stats while building a database for an IVF doctor. You have to combine both the male's chance and the female's chance of defect x from occurring to get the actual and then also look at lineage. Just because you can, doesn't mean you should have children at that age. The quality of life of those children should be a concern for a parent not an afterthought.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/01/21 01:56 PM
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I went and had a look it was local news at the time, they put articles online but it looks like all the the local papers in that region were bought out a few years ago by a news group. The news group had an article purge around 2016, so no luck. The only other place it show up online would be the the Durex's global sex reports, but you would have to look for the full report by year, as they release a full report and multiple summary and research reports and it was only in the full report.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/12/20 03:57 AM
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I remember a decade ago the city I was living in at the time announced a medical crisis. It was reported on TV and radio everyday non stop for a few weeks, that STD/STI rates for women had risen to 3/5. This means according to doctors records, in the city 60% women in the city actively had an STD. Doctors were alarmed and urged women to use protection. I recall it was such big news that the surge also showed up in one of Durex's global sex reports. The rates for men were not a concern for doctor…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/12/20 05:28 AM
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there has been nothing more I've wanted than a relationship. She seems more like a serial cheater to me based on what she has said, it also seems like because of this behaviour she now cannot make a connection with another person.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/12/20 12:25 AM
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ME, in my late 30's: I've been ignored by women my whole life and every day I become less and less desirable. The lack of love and feelings of hopelessness are getting so bad that it's becoming harder and harder not to eat a bullet. I have nobody to talk to about this because nobody cares. This is me right now. Just got out of the hospital, and struggling to return to work with this eating me up.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/12/20 04:15 PM
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still function on a high level in their daily live without experiencing many of the side effects. Patient reviews online of these medicines show a very different story. I also don't understand how we can have doctors issuing out these medicines based on paid studies, but not have the same doctors keep detailed public records on these medicines to show if they work or their side effects.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/12/20 02:17 PM
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She seems to have reasonable hindsight. But admits even though she has the power to pick and choose, she has taken the mindset of set up to fail even though she holds all the cards. She also doesn't go into her behaviour outside of a relationship. "I need to be happy single" - This is bs started by women who wanted to justify leaving a relationship so that they could sleep around. People are driven by different needs to be happy: Some need money to be happy, Some need a family and children to be…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/12/20 02:09 PM
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8 years experience in a programming language that existed for only 3 I've seen this on so many job ads and recruiters that it is not even funny anymore. I stopped learning programming and frameworks of the year. Switched to helpdesk support instead and finally got work. A real waste of my networking and programming skills but it pays in money and not exposure.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/11/20 12:37 PM
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All those non-hot guys that don't benefit from the sexual revolution and actually have a harder time finding intimacy and a good marriageable partner, wise up and stop contributing or attempting to court a woman for those things she is no longer concerned This is what everyone in my circle of friends have been experiencing we just don't get dates. Compared to other guys who married young I can see the our group is less ambitious when it comes to earning potential. Went out in our 20's but never …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/12/19 07:04 AM
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Why is women’s hypergamy bad for men? Women say they want nice guys, good guys blah blah and then go have casual sexual and relationships with bad boys throughout their teens, 20's. Suddenly they wake up around 28-32 that the men they have been choosing are not right for them and now want kids and a nice or successful guy with lots of money. What a lot of women don't understand about men is that they need to be driven by something: Nice guys are driven by people, family, friends, partners and ch…
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