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Have you ever tried asking him? It seems like he is pretty conscious about his choices and would be willing to talk with you about it (considering he owns self-improvement books). Alternatively, you could ask him what of his books most improved his life. I don't know this person, but from the way you describe his interestes, it sounds like he just likes something and delves into it (racing, beer, etc). For you that could be a start; what things interest you that you haven't really explored? In t…
/r/seduction13/09/15 06:40 PM
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What other sorts of hobbies or activities do you think would make you more attractive?
/r/seduction08/07/14 02:52 PM
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if you could write a road-map of sorts, what would this look like?
/r/seduction27/06/14 05:30 PM
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My ex saw /r/seduction in my browsing history (after we split), didn't say anything, but still feels a little weird.
/r/seduction19/06/14 09:14 PM
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Dude, how do you not realize how interesting you already are? Look at all that cool shit you built, I'm sure every project you work on is interesting as fuck too. Really, I bet you're a cool dude. Tacking on hobbies isn't going to fix the issue. As of now, I bet you're slipping into a depression (I know I did when my ex of 5 years split (i'm 25)), so focus on being happy (which is a bag of worms in itself). You mentioned that you read NMMNG and Models, maybe check out Married Man's Sex Life. Rea…
/r/seduction13/06/14 05:13 PM
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If I understand correctly, you mean to express values, hobbies, interests, world-view, while trying to have an engaging conversation where she can open up about the same things, through this process one will find common ground and connect about/through?
/r/seduction13/06/14 05:03 PM
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Any advice for the solution? Other than read Models.
/r/seduction13/06/14 02:53 PM
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What is your job title?
/r/seduction12/06/14 04:59 PM
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48 laws of power? Have you read it? What are your thoughts?
/r/seduction06/06/14 06:53 PM
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Do you mean, if you attract someone by being the life of the party, how do you keep your partner attracted when the party dies down? Well, hopefully, you will have developed attachment with them, connected on different levels (such as personal values), are able to find things to share that isn't partying. Maybe, you get depressed and aren't able to be spontaneous and exciting for a while and the passion dwindles. I imagine she will either look for it else-where, or work to help you through a tou…
/r/seduction04/06/14 09:12 PM
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Did you just start being more social and things clicked, or did you take steps to where you feel like you progressively improved yourself? What things do you think helped most with you being able to regularly close 9s and 10s? I'm in a relationship now, but I know for a while there I felt like I had all my bases covered, consistently pulled 7s and 8s, but girls that I considered to be 9s and 10s, I couldn't close or if I did, they didn't stick around for more. I feel like I'm constantly working …
/r/seduction21/04/14 08:59 PM
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I'd love to hear about your transformation. A lot of people seem to like David Allen's Getting Things Done system. For my implementation, I basically have folders or somehow group areas of interests and projects. As I think of new things to do, I'll log them away. Once a week I will do a weekly review and plan, where I see where I am and where I want to be, time block and schedule appropriately. From there it's mainly about prioritizing, habits and scheduling.
/r/seduction21/04/14 08:19 PM
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I guess what I mean is it largely a goal-setting focus?
/r/seduction15/04/14 01:08 PM
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What sort of approach does your book take?
/r/seduction14/04/14 07:38 PM
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Status Edit: does he dress sort of "interesting"? Does he appreciate art that most people don't care about (music, film, et c.)? He probably is skinny fit, and doesn't work out to the point where his insecurities are showing. Does he come off as pretentious to people that don't know him? Does he know some young celebrities (probably local)? It's all about status, not necessarily machismo.
/r/seduction05/04/14 04:29 PM
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I think you may be right in a sense. I don't think I value parading a girl around and I've rejected girls who would be a 9 or 10 to many people on a physical scale (have been a music video girl, stripper, Heineken shot girl). I take girls for the whole package, compatibility, personality, ambition, et c. I guess it just takes time to find someone who I think is a 10 and it also clicks with.
/r/seduction21/01/14 01:06 AM
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I find it pretty easy to build attraction with 6s and 7s, and occasionally hook up with 8s and 9s, but they don't seem to stay interested enough for a relationship. I'd like to date 9s and 10s. I know the standard advice is to myself become a 9 or 10, but I've got most areas for improvement going well; work out frequently, socially active and leading, doing well with hobbies and career. I don't know what else to focus on to give me that leg up. That or by elevating these women I cause myself to …
/r/seduction20/01/14 11:10 PM
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My style is impetuous, my defense is impregnable, and I'm just ferocious.
/r/seduction20/11/13 04:19 AM
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Married Mans Sex Life talks a lot about applying PUA theory to relationships. Patrons have connections but a lot are looking to fix or cultivate their relationships. I just say that to illustrate that it seems like building a connection doesn't get around the need to learn these behaviors that have lead OP to feel frustrated. I think that there are amazing people everywhere and it is your responsibility to screen for your values. The frustration still stands that one might feel pressure to keep …
/r/seduction20/10/13 06:47 AM
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It would make sense that by focusing on a lot of PUA theory, you're screening yourself for women that need a partner to fulfill these characteristics, but this might cause someone to feel trapped in these behaviors. But if techniques are developed to be in line with social/biological needs of most women, how does one escape needing to fulfill these roles? How do you benefit from studying PUA but not feeling trapped in projecting dominance or other characteristics.
/r/seduction20/10/13 06:14 AM
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It's hard to say. I mean there really isn't much of a blueprint that I find valuable, it is all about your individual values. You can explore religious or non-religious philosophies. Stoic philosophy (see Meditations) seems pretty popular around these parts. A lot of people talk about important habits that contribute to a healthy lifestyle. There are books about living a balanced lifestyle in contemporary society, but really I think the most truthful advice is that you generally have to get out …
/r/seduction05/10/13 09:57 PM
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Which one of these books do you think serves most as a "guide"? I'm not sure where Outliers fits into seduction.
/r/seduction26/08/13 05:17 AM
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This feels a little vague for me. In a relationship what do you feel a woman needs? Good sex? Adventure? Comfort? Personal discovery?
/r/seduction26/08/13 05:13 AM
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Even outside of romantic relationships, I try to be conscious about giving value. For instance, I always try to expand an individual's social circle by inviting him/her to events and actively introducing him/her to like-minded people, or if I know that someone is interested in a pursuit, I go out of my way to let them know of opportunities or connections. However, I can't think of many instances where this is appreciated or has really strengthened my relationships. More often, I end up feeling l…
/r/seduction26/08/13 05:07 AM
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You sound pretty cool. Good luck with everything.
/r/seduction11/08/13 08:08 PM
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What is a rundown of your personal development goals? What area that you've improved has helped the most with your confidence?
/r/seduction11/08/13 07:01 AM
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What are the rules of engagement in a business environment? My leasing agent was displaying IOIs, but I'm not sure that I want to shit where I sleep, if she was just flirting to attract business, or how to escalate beyond a business relationship. There is an open house tomorrow for a house I may rent, and she gave me her cell number to call about the house.
/r/seduction23/07/13 02:26 AM
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Awesome stuff. Any tips for someone new at this that you haven't seen on the side bar?
/r/seduction23/07/13 02:14 AM
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That confuses me a little. I don't mean tabulating #,k, or f closes as much as identifying sticking points or areas of life to focus on. By process do you just mean enjoying having a good time meeting and flirting with girls and the rest will come in time?
/r/seduction17/07/13 04:55 AM
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How systematic are you about tracking progress? I feel like I'm turning into a keyboard jockey and not really internalizing anything. Methodologically, how do you focus on improving various aspects of your inner game and outer game.
/r/seduction16/07/13 05:17 PM
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I don't have much of a problem with this advice, it reflects my current behavior. I'm focusing more on being able to be non-needy yet emotionally vulnerable and excited/passionate about a relationship after I've known them and hooked up.
/r/seduction12/07/13 11:05 PM
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Yeah, it is a little hard to tie my thoughts together on this because it relates to a lot of different things. The thing is, I think that I already do a lot. Outside of school commitments, I play in a band, do a radio show, book shows, and attend/host a variety of social events. I guess if I can try to simplify it, it would be to say to open up (vulnerability) and connect with someone, without feeling like I will push them away (as I have experienced in the past) and also express excitement for …
/r/seduction12/07/13 08:26 PM
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The question isn't really about texting, texting was just an example. A while back there was a thread about Alpha Male models and one example was a quiet but strong type. Much of the discussion was relating to group dynamics looking to this figure as a competent leader, but he isn't a super animated person. I find myself falling into this model, and I've seen a few other figures in my life who also seem to fit this. In our social circles, we're seen a leaders, looked to for advice, and action. W…
/r/seduction12/07/13 08:14 PM
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With texting, I have a tendency to stop responding when I think the conversation has died, and pick it up later, or ask them to hang out at a later time, relating to the whole attraction can't be build through texting mantra. I don't mean passion and excitement for life, more for the person. I enjoy when someone qualifies me, is excited to see me, and is generally an exciting person to be around. I like being able to express how I feel for someone, but I feel like I can't because that makes me e…
/r/seduction12/07/13 07:57 PM
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How do you create vulnerability and excitement without coming across as needy? Sometimes a feel a little too passive by being sure the girl is texting me more than I am her and maintaining a strong frame of outcome independence. The problem is that I begin to feel like I'm not really connecting with them and they end up getting bored. I'd like to express passion and excitement as well as garner it from my relationships. How do I develop these kinds of relationships without coming across as suppl…
/r/seduction12/07/13 07:30 PM
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Sometimes I see "be desireless" thrown around (from Tao of Steve). How do these ideas relate to this? I've noticed in my own interactions that there is a push and pull and I usually have to back off a little and be sure to not come on too strong.
/r/seduction10/07/13 07:06 AM
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I'd be interested to hear your thoughts on the rest of your bro code. What guidelines/rules do you have for building and maintaining strong platonic relationships?
/r/seduction15/06/13 08:40 PM
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The blog is directed to a male audience. I don't think he is placing blame so much as noticing trends and exploring pragmatic solutions.
/r/seduction12/06/13 10:44 PM
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This article directly relates to an experience that lead me to this community. The first point: Commit to being a strong man There is so much writing on these points, but I still seem to have a hard time internalizing them without feeling like I'm becoming emotionally removed and cold. For me, Inner Game, and being committed to developing into a strong man is the most important part of the Game, but I still feel like there are a lot of sticking points. For instance; being assertive and maintaini…
/r/seduction12/06/13 09:30 PM
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I know this article might not be directly relevant to the tenants of this subreddit, but I'm curious what everyone might think about it. I think this community is great for personal and emotional development, but feel pretty hollow when I myself engaging in "hook-up culture."
/r/seduction01/04/13 10:56 PM
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Fair enough. I hear that phrase thrown around ad was wondering how people apply it to their game.
/r/seduction21/03/13 11:53 PM
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It wouldn't feel natural for me. Unless used sarcastically. (SC here)
/r/seduction21/03/13 02:40 AM
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For me, improving social skills is important. A common strategy is to meditate and to journal on your interactions. This sub-reddit has a wealth of knowledge to help you better understand social interactions (also the book How to Win Friend and Influence People or succeedsocially.com), but it doesn't mean you would benefit most from going to club/bars and trying there. Maybe think about your interactions with your close friends and family while actively trying to be a more outgoing/friendly pers…
/r/seduction11/02/13 06:35 AM
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I like this, or maybe a Best Beginners Guide
/r/seduction19/12/12 02:40 PM
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Do you think re-accessorizing yourself is a good way to show someone that you've transformed? I saw a post a little ago about where to "start" with these sort of transformations, and it include more stuff like: read a book/week, work out 4-6 days/week, get on track with professional goals, get a new hobby et cetera.
/r/seduction12/09/12 01:32 AM
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For some reason, I would think that a the most beneficial transformation after a break-up would involve more than protecting assets, bulking up, and cutting ties. Although, I do think this is good standard post-breakup advice.
/r/seduction12/09/12 01:29 AM
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does this "transform" simply mean focusing on inner-game?
/r/seduction11/09/12 02:41 PM
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Can you direct me towards discussions of advice for creating and cultivating real connections. I find that I struggle with this and have wanted to put an end to this for a while.
/r/seduction09/05/12 09:19 PM
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I get this, but what about when they come back? Are you all in? Whenever I start to notice a girl's attraction fading, I back off and they typically come back, but what then? It seems like I make the mistake of being accessible when they come back to me or just continue to hit on them and this pushes them away. Is there truth to this? At the same time, I sometimes get that I'm not making myself emotionally available enough and they feel almost neglected. How does one learn to balance this?
/r/seduction24/04/12 07:47 PM
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