ermenasterum Archive

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1	Why are women doing "body enhancements" seen as normal but men doing it are seen as "insecure"? Yeah and like I said, you don’t need to have an exact solution ready to point something out as a problem. Personally I’d also say that the name toxic masculinity is somewhat of a misnomer. Since being ‘masculine’ is not the problem, the fact that being an emotionality detached douche is seen as masculine is the problem. But hey, they’re making an effort and so far they’re one of the only ones. And now you’re using one person’s statement to say something about 3.9 billion people. Maybe a bit of a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/21 08:06 PM
0	Why are women doing "body enhancements" seen as normal but men doing it are seen as "insecure"? I actually completely disagree with you there. Most feminists I know do try to encourage men to not feel forced to live up to the cultural ideal of ‘masculinity’. Besides, you don’t need to have the complete solution ready to point something out as problematic. And where are you getting it from that most women want men to out-earn them? From personal judgement it’s a minority that’s decreasing in size	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/21 06:28 PM
2	Women aren't attracted to dad-bods. Women are unattracted to the expectations of fit men. Pretty big generalisation that all women who like dad bods secretly just want to “sit on Instagram all day and get fat”. Honest question, would you say that a guy that doesn’t like muscular women just does so because he is lazy and wants to get fat? Also, selection based on lifestyle is quite important in dating. It’s the reason why I’m not attracted to overweight people. I’m also not attracted to guys and gals who have the very muscular bodybuilding kind of physique simply because of aesthetics…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/21 05:17 PM
3	Women aren't attracted to dad-bods. Women are unattracted to the expectations of fit men. Now you’re just drawing your own conclusions about what other people think. Maybe she just isn’t attracted to what most people would consider conventionally attractive. Why wouldn’t she be? Why are you trying to disprove someone else’s preferences?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/21 05:10 PM
2	My son doesn’t want to be a man (part 2) There’s words for that. Being feminine or masculine isn’t tied by or gender. There’s straight femboys. Not being man or woman is non-binary. Gender is starting to be viewed as more of a spectrum lately, which is a good thing imo	/r/MensRights	30/03/21 03:47 PM
-4	I-- Unsolicited dick picks is not something people are happy with though	/r/MensRights	30/03/21 03:24 PM
-18	Don’t allow women who hate men define the men’s rights movement as men who hate women. There’s MGTOW. Loads of crazies over there	/r/MensRights	30/03/21 03:16 PM
3	Being a nice guy is all about being feminine. Masculinity can be toxic, but it doesn’t have to be. If your identity revolves around being masculine, or if what you view as masculine is harmful to others or yourself, then that’s toxic. You can both be masculine and show emotions and vulnerability and be in touch with your feminine side	/r/seduction	31/01/21 09:01 PM
2	Being a nice guy is all about being feminine. If you treat women like women™ instead of like how you would treat anyone else. This post has one of the telltale phrases “women don’t like this” “women do like that” “women always do such” etc. Just treat people like individuals with a complex personality	/r/seduction	31/01/21 07:56 PM
1	How do I stop this unhealthy mindset? Just be aware of what it is that you’re watching, and how porn can mess with your expectations of women and of sex. Here’s great Ted talk about it you’re interested btw: https://youtu.be/DBTb71UzPmY	/r/seduction	31/01/21 03:55 PM
0	How do I stop this unhealthy mindset? Doesn’t mean you can’t fap by the way. Just use your imagination instead and see it as a moment of self love instead of something dirty	/r/seduction	29/01/21 10:33 PM