ernesto_lee Archive

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2	One Question for Currently Separated or Divorcing Guys. It’s mathematical. The amount of money you want to spend on lawyers to fight her vs how uncomfortable you’re willing to be. You’re buying comfort by leaving the house. Learned the hard way.	/r/Divorce_Men	02/01/19 05:14 PM
2	Does it ever end? Im sorry man. I really feel for you. Wish there was a way to just shut off the cycle of legal BS to get some peace. I’m 4.5 years removed. I don’t miss her in a romantic way. I haven’t loved her for probably 5-6 years and am very much moved on from that. I struggle with the anger and resentment I feel regarding the custody fight and her insistence on making every interaction or coparenting decision involve a third party (lawyer, judge, etc). Always am tense around her because of the anger I feel…	/r/Divorce_Men	09/12/18 08:31 AM
3	Need an opinion on a bill the ex sent me "You don't have to reply." This is such a smart way to function. Obviously within reason but you don't have to reply to every petty thing she sends you. Or if you do reply...keep in mind that you have 30+ days to pay for anything she's requesting that is ACTUALLY legally owed. If you don't need to pay it right away...which you rarely do...then just be cordial and know that legally you're in the right and can pay it (even with a small fee) later when it has been filed and requested. Legally the s…	/r/Divorce_Men	04/09/18 04:16 AM