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ernst_starvo_blofeld/r/seduction20/12/19 06:41 PM
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Outer Game ernst_starvo_blofeld/r/seduction20/01/20 07:40 PM
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I'm curious why would you have lack of self confidence with all those good qualities? Do you lack BOTH self confidence AND self esteem?
/r/seduction24/04/21 06:38 PM
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Getting compliments and getting women are two different things. I got plenty of compliments in the past and there are no takers :lol:. Someone can be an excellent cook, making delicious healthy food, but if they can't run a restaurant, they will be broke. McDonalds sells garbage and thrives.
/r/seduction22/11/20 02:40 PM
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Exactly. The "don't feed the animals in the campsite or zoo" argument. That is what is causing all the dating issues today.
/r/seduction18/11/20 04:17 PM
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What is 10/10 to you could be 5/10 to me. And vice versa. No one is perfect and rating people like that is not a good thing.
/r/seduction18/11/20 01:59 PM
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Maybe it has a deeper meaning. She can't see you fight off a lion. I think it is a way to see how you will handle diversity or a difficult situation.
/r/seduction16/11/20 06:56 PM
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Then there are many who say NOT to do random pickup, or even talk to strangers. So if you don't have a good circle of friends, prepare to die alone.
/r/seduction06/11/20 08:01 PM
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Trying to meet women without social skills is like trying to program a computer without a compiler, or even a web browser. I mean, there are some ways on a bare machine, but your life is going to be quite difficult, especially if you are inexperienced.
/r/seduction06/11/20 08:00 PM
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:lol: True. I would suggest C# for him. Something that can give him true structure in his life.
/r/seduction05/11/20 04:50 PM
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Generation X men are really fucked up.
/r/seduction17/10/20 02:00 AM
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I agree about the nice guys stuff, that is very "unattractive" for dating. Not bad or harmful, but it is the way you treat your mom or sister. Don't say that to some women! Many consider themselves fully equal to men!
/r/seduction25/08/20 06:42 PM
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But yet many will go nuts if you say they are different from men...
/r/seduction25/08/20 06:08 PM
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Don't women want to be equal with men though? Seems they would desire a guy with more feminine traits. That seems like a double standard.
/r/seduction25/08/20 04:44 PM
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What part of bklyn?
/r/seduction17/08/20 11:18 PM
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Better get this straightened out ASAP. You will be making this post again at 50 if you don't.
/r/seduction09/08/20 03:22 PM
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I will agree to this. I think 95% of the time men are looking for a quick fuck. So, they get initial attention. But beyond that, the field may level. If they just want dick, then they have an advantage.
/r/seduction09/08/20 01:37 PM
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Dating for men and women is equal. I've grown to learn that.
/r/seduction09/08/20 12:19 PM
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I've spoken to some of those women. I understand where they are coming from. They are 100% ready to be alone with a cat if they can't find what they want. Everyone has a right to their standards. That is the polar opposite of the thirsty mindset many men have. They don't allow men to post in the same way a a men's forum saying they will only date Victoria Secret models wouldn't allow women to post.
/r/seduction28/06/20 03:09 PM
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Next post will be about Tiege Hanley in Safeway :lol:
/r/seduction28/06/20 12:56 AM
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I don't know what to say man. I'm quite a bit older than you and your height/your body type. I'm in shape from active sports (not lifting). I was flat out rejected for height. Maybe look for women who are 5'2". I never thought that one day my height would be considered short. Maybe women use it as an excuse because they are not attracted in other ways.
/r/seduction10/06/20 04:13 PM
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How much improvement can you do? If you take it too far you can start with surgeries and other extreme measures. If you can't meet girls at this point, maybe there is something mental and not physical. I think she has to be attracted you somewhat. I don't think you could magically make someone like you. I think the confidence thing is to keep trying and getting rejected. You may not want to cold approach but you need a good social circle. If it bothers you in any way, rejection, or whatnot, you …
/r/seduction01/06/20 02:47 PM
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Without looks a man could never have self esteem. Especially today. I mean, there are some rare cases, but looks are everything today.
/r/seduction01/06/20 01:23 AM
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There are men with the lowest appearance but attract very hot women. So, you can say two things. Different things are attractive to different people, or women are attracted to money. It is the same with cars. Some people hate the look of the new Lexus cars. Some love them. Some say they are ugly. Meanwhile they are the largest luxury car brand in America. Maybe people overlook the look over the reliability. It is like the advice given all over Reddit..Go to Asia...All of the sudden those guys wh…
/r/seduction01/06/20 01:20 AM
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I think you have to have something going for you. You could say the same about someone who can't get a job. If you can't put yourself out there, and diagnose why things aren't happening, and improve it, you are doomed to be forever alone. When I was in college, there was this older guy who had 2 phds, but he slept on college benches. He just couldn't get a job for whatever reason. This would be equivalent to some Chad who posts on incel forums (there are). He helped me with math and other subjec…
/r/seduction31/05/20 02:44 PM
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How do fat, rich old men with money get women, not always gold diggers, they marry them too. At least they could be in shape. It is like their shitty looks are some asset. That is an extreme case but where do they get the confidence looking like that? It is a good thought experiment. Harvey Weinstien was a piece of shit but he did have an attractive WIFE. They have huge social circles They have status They have confidence, from accomplishments They DON'T GIVE THE LEAST SHIT WHAT OTHERS THINK Wom…
/r/seduction31/05/20 02:36 PM
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So many men are married. I look around my block and they look far, far from what you are saying to become. I read your guide. You are basically telling guys to become a fitness model. Why not say start the next Instagram? There are some women who wouldn't give you time of day if you are poor.
/r/seduction31/05/20 02:31 PM
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Same can be said about money. Some women wouldn't look at guys who aren't wealthy.
/r/seduction31/05/20 01:15 PM
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I'll just say to take action. I'm 48 and my story seems very similar to yours. Just some extra time in between. Trust me, you don't want to be on these subs at my age. Time goes by very fast. 28 was like yesterday.
/r/seduction22/05/20 09:50 PM
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Nothing new. bots were around on dating sites before you were born :lol:
/r/seduction18/05/20 10:06 PM
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I see guys on here saying they are married for years. I guess there are straight guys on the gay sub just for "curiosity" too.
/r/seduction18/05/20 10:04 PM
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Suppose you're socially-challenged guy Its over :lol:. Nothing else to read.
/r/seduction17/05/20 01:55 PM
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Well, I have to say this is good, constructive, information, but theory and practice are different things. It looks nice on paper but implementation is a whole other story. 99% of billionaires were not made because of innovation. They simply took an existing product or process and made it easier/better/convenient/etc. Did you know that Electric cars were a thing over 100years ago? One of the founders of GE, Steinmetz, actually started producing them. But 100 years later Musk/Tesla brought them t…
/r/seduction17/05/20 01:48 PM
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Imagine though if women approached you and your froze up and shut down? Were you attractive enough for them to (figuratively speaking) for them to pull your pants down in the produce aisle of the supermarket?
/r/seduction17/05/20 01:36 PM
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SO learning comedy is a good idea. One dating coach told me to study improv before I see him. He said if you can't banter and interact I won't waste your money.
/r/seduction13/05/20 10:30 PM
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I have to cope with being a virgin in my late 40s. Make sure you get this shit straightened out.
/r/seduction13/05/20 09:34 PM
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What do you think about cold approach?
/r/seduction13/05/20 09:29 PM
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unfortunately yes.I'm planning to rope.There is nothing to enjoy.
/r/seduction13/05/20 03:44 AM
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What advice for a 48yo virgin?
/r/seduction13/05/20 01:20 AM
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haha lets see how you will feel when you are late 40s as a virgin. Don't take action, keep jerking to porn, posting online, and you will end up below a deep oil well in my circle of hell. Times goes by very fast. 25 was like yesterday. At least I'm rich as fuck.
/r/seduction12/05/20 07:35 PM
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I have to do something!
/r/seduction24/04/20 01:40 AM
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This COVID shit is like forcing my lifestyle on everyone.
/r/seduction24/04/20 01:32 AM
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I just feel cut off at this point. I'm kinda desperate :(
/r/seduction24/04/20 01:27 AM
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I used to be religious and now I'm an older virgin. For one reason or another I never met anyone, and I make a very high income. I'm extremely depressed over being alone. I always had social anxiety too.
/r/seduction23/04/20 10:02 PM
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Everything is wrong. Sex before marriage is wrong. But yet everyone does it. I think you have to do what you feel comfortable with.
/r/seduction19/04/20 01:25 PM
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Yes, so any dating advice could be read in that context. Its like some elite country club that accepts only millionaires. Then they look at your golf handicap. So if you make 20K, a year, and improve your handicap, it really means nothing :lol:
/r/seduction19/04/20 01:20 PM
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I don't think women even consider non-model tier men as even human :lol:. They are out of the dating pool.
/r/seduction19/04/20 01:53 AM
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Better than dying alone though.
/r/MGTOW15/04/20 11:10 PM
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A lot of those girls are creepy on social media, exposing themselves like that. Who said that is ok?
/r/seduction12/04/20 11:54 AM
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Not creepy, nothing wrong with valuing your privacy.
/r/seduction11/04/20 09:50 PM
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The whole sub is a fantasy. We are all a bunch of shutins who fantasize about our conquests with beautiful women. Relax Bro.
/r/seduction11/04/20 07:08 PM
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You said a mouthful there. Even an attractive guy with all that would be handicapped. If he has no social circle he has to rely on women approaching him in stores and whatever.
/r/seduction10/04/20 06:00 PM
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There is some truth to this. Seeking arrangement and other sites wouldn't exist if what you said wasn't thru.
/r/seduction10/04/20 04:41 PM
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Many very hot men are left for others or richer men. Look at Brad Pitt and Johnny Depp. Plenty of younger ones too. A women who only cares about looks is no different than one who cares about money. There are women on seeking arrangement that ONLY care about money, and looks is very secondary.
/r/seduction10/04/20 04:39 PM
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There is body language too and many other factors. I would buy all of this but there are hot women with older and unattractive guys. Nothing is absolute. In many cases it is just average guys having problems. The problem arises if you aren't chad and lack in many other areas, have some form of aspergers, social anxiety, etc. Then you are REALLY FUCKED. An attractive guy may be able to drift on his looks. It is like school...IQ may get you up to a certain grade doing absolutely no work. But you m…
/r/seduction10/04/20 04:37 PM
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I'm a bit older, I would say this was early 90s. I don't think it would work today though, with metoo and all. You would probably be kicked out by security.
/r/seduction30/03/20 08:36 PM
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That is why we are born with balls. Men are supposed to have unstoppable confidence.
/r/seduction30/03/20 08:32 PM
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When I was about 18 my grandmother took me to a busy mall and forced me to approach girls. I was extremely uncomfortable. But it was pretty much what RSD was charging 2k for :lol:
/r/seduction29/03/20 04:49 PM
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I make in his ballpark doing engineering/software dev. It is not a stressful either. Working remote for years. First thing is to try some coding/dev tutorials. Some people take very well to it. Start with FreeCodeCamp.org ​ Very, very few people can do what the OP does. It is the same as being an Olympic athlete. Much of it is genetic, but there are other considerations. ​ I don't think I have the brains to work at Jane Street. I can do certain things but I know my limitations. Hats off to the O…
/r/seduction22/03/20 03:13 AM
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Bullshit
/r/seduction10/01/20 10:36 PM
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Its a good field. I run a software company and make close to $2k each day. I'm not convinced about MGTOW, but I can't really attract women even with money.
/r/MGTOW04/01/20 02:37 AM
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If someone has underlying mental problems none of that shit is going to help. One PUA was honest, he said if you can't learn small talk and banter (should have a basic grasp at least) please, I don't want your money.
/r/seduction03/01/20 07:02 PM
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Women could get arrested in NYC for doing what they did. There are soliciting laws, I'm dead serious. Cops could arrest them for soliciting.
/r/seduction31/12/19 06:29 PM
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Yep, they would be calling them creepy and misogynistic.
/r/seduction31/12/19 06:27 PM
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True, I could never RUN faster than him, but I can certainly leave him in the dust on rollerblades :lol:. So there is always a way around things!
/r/seduction30/12/19 12:15 AM
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Maybe if you marry a virgin. It is mainstream knowledge that this is a great way to get throat cancer. Proceed at your own risk! Even some women told me not to do it.
/r/seduction23/12/19 01:02 PM
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In the end though we twist in the wind.
/r/seduction21/12/19 12:34 PM
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What are they doing right? I am in good enough shape to run 20 miles. Or skate 40 miles keeping up with fast bikes. I see guys my age who look like a fat walrus and have a decent wife. Maybe I just have a certain look? But women did like me and said some very nice things, but that was years ago. I know some guys women just pull their clothes off in the supermarket.
/r/seduction20/12/19 11:41 PM
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I don't know, but its too late.
/r/seduction20/12/19 11:00 PM
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nothing is off the table.
/r/seduction20/12/19 08:44 PM
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May come down to that or dying a virgin.
/r/seduction20/12/19 08:43 PM
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How? For one thing it is the threshold that is keeping us from approaching women. It is like being fed fattening junk food. It fills you up but in the long run you are hurting and getting sick. Porn on this level didn't exist in all humanity. Maybe a men peeked at a playboy with a tasteful nude of a lady, but having unlimited porn, and some of it is just sick? It is not healthy.
/r/seduction20/12/19 08:41 PM
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Hookers have such stigma, they took away many sites, I did look at one site and the women scared me :lol:. I would rather die a virgin than be with some of those women. I think many women moved away from it.
/r/seduction20/12/19 08:04 PM
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Not much luck, tried it a few years ago. The quality of women was rock bottom too. Another I paid for a bunch of expensive dates, then she decided that 5'10" is too short for her.
/r/seduction20/12/19 08:03 PM
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Thanks for the advice. I had two coaches and they basically told me this. When it comes to putting the pedal to the metal, nothing happens though :(
/r/seduction20/12/19 08:01 PM
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I'm so neurotic about diseases :(
/r/seduction20/12/19 08:00 PM
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It is going to make women approach me in the supermarket? Doubt it. I'm not rail thin but more of a runners body. I don't think that is horribly unattractive. The women I see around look overweight. I doubt they are looking for magazine model men.
/r/seduction20/12/19 07:59 PM
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Bunny Ranch (to me) is no different from a whole day porn bender. It is so transnational.
/r/seduction20/12/19 07:06 PM
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What about love and connection with someone?
/r/seduction20/12/19 07:04 PM
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Ehh.. not for me.
/r/seduction20/12/19 06:53 PM
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I'm a 48 yo virgin :lol:. I tried some of this advice but I'm messed up in the head. Even being rich don't help me.
/r/seduction20/12/19 06:14 PM
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I'm starting to believe I'm "B" at 48. I never had a male role model.
/r/seduction20/12/19 06:09 PM
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I'm trying +20 your age. Not easy. Better get cracking.
/r/seduction19/12/19 09:42 PM
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I think (not an expert) a form confidence is walking up to a woman and risking rejection.
/r/seduction18/12/19 04:21 AM
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And still have more SMV than half this /r
/r/seduction13/12/19 11:43 PM
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Yep, and women don't want serious relationships either, until they are much older.
/r/seduction13/12/19 10:07 PM
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Exactly. I had so many chats in the past, some even went on a year. The women were extremely satisfied and maybe I was too deep down. A dumb analogy is porn. You watch porn..for most guys they aren't going to go after women. They can fire up a browser when the need comes and let their fingers do the walking. No drama either. Hit the little X at the top right and it never happened.
/r/seduction13/12/19 09:47 PM
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It is just natures dynamics. They have something we want.
/r/seduction13/12/19 09:45 PM
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Yep, look at what women use as "porn." Romance novels, literotica, not even pictures. No guy would read 100 page to get a hint of sex. And few women are trolling thru pages of hung men.
/r/seduction13/12/19 02:02 PM
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Better get your act together, or you will be asking this question at 42!
/r/seduction13/12/19 01:37 PM
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Lots of reasons: Women are there just for reinforcement, maybe "Brad Pitt" will make them bite. They are being spammed constantly, what if there was one winning lottery ticket in your spam folder? Women are in relationships and "just looking" They get asked out in real life, desirable women DO NOT need online dating whatsoever. Lots of fake guys, photoshopped abs, etc. So the most amazing guy with bathroom selfies gets overlooked.
/r/seduction13/12/19 01:37 PM
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