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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
7	Men are better divided into three groups, not two Your insistence on needing surgery signals the real reason here: lack of confidence. You look fine. You're tall. You live in Montreal - no shortage of ethnic guys getting girlfriends there. Your looks are not your problem.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/23 07:06 PM
1	Can you really see yourself with a (much) younger woman? lol @ "successful social sciences". You take yourself too seriously, bud.	/r/TheRedPill	19/03/23 07:02 PM
3	Incel and white knight mentalities both stem from the same blind spot The biggest white knight dude I knew always had girlfriends. They always took advantage of him and he always had excuses for them. His big issue was being raised by a single mom who always had boyfriends who left her. He never wanted to be like those bad men who let his mama down.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/02/23 03:13 PM
2	Alpha widow ? I am friends with a woman who divorced her husband recently and throughout her marriage she talked about a previous boyfriend and her regrets in not locking him down. I always felt sorry for her husband - guy never had a chance.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/23 03:34 PM
2	Oh no sisters! we got too cocky.. Not the laws of nature you ditzy pancake.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/23 03:04 PM
-4	Miserable at 22. You're a stellar man. Working hard to support your family at a very young age. Problem is the wife, not you. Use soft leadership and get her on board - you are a team to raise these kids. What is her family like? Are they deadbeats or decent? Does her mother help out with the kids, in a grandmotherly way?	/r/MarriedRedPill	05/11/22 01:31 PM
8	CMV: It’s a sign of extreme inequality that women facilitating sex work is seen as more and more publicly acceptable, but men using the services of a sex worker is just as taboo for men as its always been I must run in a conservative crowd, because if a woman told a group of my friends that she's sucking a dozen cocks a day for money, we would all view her as a dirty hooker.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/22 06:35 AM
3	How do redpilled men view lesbians? I generally like them. I have one lesbian friend who is basically one of the guys.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/22 03:13 AM
1	Women who sexually like men, are you personally not that visually stimulated by our bodies? Women are also very defensive. I forgot to mention that. :)	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/22 12:28 AM
2	Women who sexually like men, are you personally not that visually stimulated by our bodies? I'm a man, so take this with a grain of salt. But looks are just one of many factors that women focus on in determining if a man is attractive. As far as looks go, consider that there are basically zero strip clubs that cater to women - women just aren't visually stimulated the way that men are. A man's clothing is just as important to women as his actual body, if not more so. Women's attraction to men is partially based on looks, but also on confidence levels, social status and dominance, etc. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/22 03:39 PM
5	CMV: if women's preferences can "evolve" over time, then so can men's. You sound like a "male feminist"	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/22 03:12 PM
1	Being raised with beta mentality I'm not talking head kicks or body slams. But you need to train with real resistance. Otherwise it is just useless kata.	/r/TheRedPill	11/10/22 01:39 AM
3	Being raised with beta mentality Beats me. If you stay and become a leader, you might score some chicks from it (if you care). But you won't improve your own martial arts. Personally, I'd leave if you care about martial arts. I've never trained anywhere that was legit that had more than a few token women, and they rarely lasted more than a few months. Any place with real sparring is too rough for most women; not all, of course. There are some tough girls out there.	/r/TheRedPill	10/10/22 08:44 PM
45	Being raised with beta mentality You're young, you have your whole adult life ahead of you, and most important of all you are self-aware. You're going to be fine but it will take some work. First you need some confidence in order to learn to stand up for yourself. The early bullying is still in the back of your head. Hitting the gym is good, but consider some martial arts as well. Stick to something that has actual hard sparring: boxing, muay thai, judo or bjj. One year of any of those arts will make you a beast compared to the…	/r/TheRedPill	08/10/22 05:56 PM
4	Just because dating pool for career women "shrink" it doesn't mean that they should abandon the opportunity to grow academically/financially. Successful, accomplished women are attractive to any man who isn't insecure. The only time it is unattractive is when the woman overvalues herself because of it. She should also realize that a successful woman doesn't have the same appeal as successful men (which is one of the most desirable traits in men). A man won't disregard a woman simply because her career is mediocre, but all other things equal, a woman with a good career is way more appealing than a woman who works at Walmart.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/22 05:54 PM
1	Women need to stop justifying their life choices and have fun Most women are aware that their actions lead to reputations that follow them around. Not saying it's fair.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/22 07:32 PM
3	CorporateLand: Don’t Kill the Job v. Quiet Quitting. Couldn't agree more. Aim for 10% of your work being high profile projects and bust your ass on them. Slack on the other 90% and just avoid mistakes.	/r/TheRedPill	16/09/22 06:19 PM
194	The most hyper feminist women I've ever slept with are the ones that enjoy being degraded and humiliated the most. A previous submissive I dated taught gender and feminist studies at a local college. She taught young women about the patriarchy during the day, then got humiliated by me at night. Go figure.	/r/TheRedPill	21/06/22 02:58 AM
1	Why are the professions that society is most reliant on also seem to be the least desirable for a man to have from an attraction standpoint? And why does is it seem so important for a man to have a degree? If you're a toilet repair man you will have stinky hands, and chicks don't like guys with stinky hands.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/22 05:49 AM
18	It’s really not that hard for unattractive guys/guys with typically unattractive traits to get sex from women lol @ body count of 9, and all of them fat	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/22 03:12 AM
5	would you be in a relationship with someone if sex is off the table He said nothing at all like that. He talked about reciprocated physical interactions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/22 03:23 PM
1	Men and women both are afraid of being used by the other gender. And there's an easy way to fix this. Not true. Walk through any old graveyard and look at the tombstones - you see TONS of people who died in their 20s, 30s and 40s. People died of all sorts of things before antibiotics and modern medicine. Childbirth alone was a crap shoot for women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/22 03:34 PM
7	How tf can such a huge and widely dissatisfaction of women with their sex life even be a thing?! Women won't communicate their desires for the most part. Many women have fantasies that embarrass them: rape fantasies, submissive fantasies, etc. Plus they only want a man who is "natural" and understands their kinks intuitively. But if we aren't actually rapists, you won't get your rape fantasy fulfilled unless you communicate it to us. Outside of the lack of communication, many women will fake their enjoyment of sex to avoid jeopardizing the "relationship" - cue all the women who fake orgasm,…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/21 12:49 PM
1	Do womens level of intelligence mean nothing? I'm red-pilled but I strongly prefer smart women. If a woman is dumb, she is fine for a fuck toy, but that's it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/21 04:29 AM
3	Wasting my youth? Family is #1. If your parents need help, you help them. They raised you, they helped you along the way, and they would do what they can to help you if they could. They undoubtedly feel bad about this and wouldn't ask for help unless they really needed it. Most of your peers are also "wasting" their youth, just in different ways. If you want to travel or something, tell that to your parents and tell them that you want to start saving some money toward that goal. You might need to defer immediate …	/r/askTRP	26/04/21 05:05 PM
2	People who are using tinder to find dates are idiots. It's a hookup app. Stop using it to "observe female nature". Wise words. Common sense, really.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/21 02:36 PM
2	How do you get rid of a cuckold fetish? Dude, please don't get suicidal over a kink. For real, if you're even slightly serious about that, get help. Life is precious and sex is just a small part of life. Sorry to hear about your marriage blowing up over this. That sucks. But the idea that you won't ever tell a future partner about this is not necessarily smart. I will agree that actually acting it out is stupid and would make 99% of women lose respect for you. But it might be OK to discuss it and make it clear to a woman that you have…	/r/askTRP	10/03/21 02:30 PM
105	Plate of 1yr recently got told she has cancer and is starting treatment soon. I'm experiencing feeling I haven't had before. Possibly not TRP related. Just after some advice or something. I'm a cancer survivor - had advanced stage blood cancer a while back - so I can relate to what she is going through. She is terrified, depressed, and clinging to anything and everything in life. There's nothing like a cancer diagnosis when you are still young. It shakes you to the core. She isn't expecting you to suddenly propose marriage - don't worry about that. If you walked away, she would just eliminate you from her thoughts since she has way bigger things going on. So don't worry about tha…	/r/askTRP	10/03/21 02:17 PM
3	Went thought my girlfriends phone this morning. Found text messages about her having multiple sugar daddy profiles. I live with her and I'm gutted. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ABXtWqmArUU	/r/askTRP	09/03/21 10:58 PM
1	Unpopular opinion: Many mothers give horrible dating advice to their sons Some of the biggest pussies I've ever met are men who were raised by single moms and who internalized the idea from their moms that men are horrible to women. One of my good buddies is like this and the rest of us cringe since he is always being treated like crap by women and he never learns. He actually blames himself when they abuse him.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/21 07:32 PM
3	What are some reasons why you SHOULD get married? If you want kids, a stable family life with both parents is the ideal and that means marriage. If you marry your economic equal, you will live a much better life financially. Less of your income % goes towards basics and shelter, you get a nicer house since you can afford more, etc. Don't marry a woman who is an economic drain. All women understand this instinctively, men need to learn it.	/r/askTRP	04/01/21 09:43 PM
1	Genuinely curious if women can understand where men are coming from Women make no sense. I like to dominate women in the bdsm sense and I once had a slave who was engaged to another guy. She was able to sneak away once every few weeks to come over and "serve" me. She told me that she didn't give her fiance blowjobs, yet she did all sorts of depraved acts for me (I'll save you the details). This other guy was offering to be a life partner to her and she wouldn't blow him, but she would do absolutely anything I wanted even though she was simply a play toy in my ey…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/20 01:26 PM
5	"Be yourself" and pretty much all dating troubles started with Baby Boomers Who mentioned anything about being upset that being a man doesn't automatically give advantages? That's just the soundtrack of your own head.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/20 05:51 PM
11	"Be yourself" and pretty much all dating troubles started with Baby Boomers Gen X took control of society in the 90s I'm Gen X. I was in my 20s in the 90s. We were in control of dick all back then. Don't blame us for today's mess. The boomers mindlessly enforce all the modern bullshit and the millenials actually believe in it. Gen X is stuck in the middle saying 'fuck this nonsense' just like we have our entire lives.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/20 05:38 PM
17	Not primarily physically attracted to women anymore Embrace the dark side and hate fuck them.	/r/askTRP	11/12/20 04:35 PM
3	White Collar vs Blue collar? And/ or 2 year vs everything else? For what it's worth, dude, I'm a successful lawyer and I envy you trades guys. You started making money young, you enjoyed your 20s, you don't have to put up with corporate bullshit, and you mostly work with other men. White collar work is overrated.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/20 08:59 PM
3	Question for Men: What about having a partner whose company you enjoy? If you don't enjoy your partner's company, you most definitely don't love them. So yeah, it's absolutely essential for a long term relationship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/20 07:07 PM
2	How old were you when you first noticed men looking at you sexually? loll... I was just thinking of the mental gymnastics you're doing to avoid admitting you were rejected. Your statement and the math formula means that the oldest you could have been was 32 (maybe younger) and the youngest she could have been was 24. And you thought she was inappropriately young for you? Man, thinking like that is worse than rejection.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/20 05:35 AM
1	For those who actually do believe in getting married; what are your opinions on the idea of "getting the father/parents' blessing" before proposing? Fuck that. What would you do if he said no?	/r/askTRP	19/11/20 09:54 PM
2	How old were you when you first noticed men looking at you sexually? Just busting your balls, man. Then again, if you're turning down hot 24-year old women for being too young for a man in his 30s, then the feminists have already busted your balls.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/20 07:36 PM
1	How old were you when you first noticed men looking at you sexually? I don't understand your comment, Fox.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/20 05:25 PM
1	How old were you when you first noticed men looking at you sexually? I was just joking about blaming women. This is obviously a shortcoming of men, and it is unfortunate since it will fuel a lot of understandable misandry.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/20 02:06 PM
1	Bald guys, is being rich and jacked required to even exist in the dating market? Some women will reject you because of it, and some won't. I'm bald and I don't think it makes any difference whatsoever. I'm a lawyer and make decent coin, so I have status that way. I'm tall and lift weights, so I'm decent that way. But most important of all, I just don't give a fuck. Focus on yourself, work on the things you have control of, and the rest will follow. Hair or no hair.	/r/askTRP	19/11/20 01:29 PM
1	How old were you when you first noticed men looking at you sexually? I believe you. It is disturbing to hear and I still assume it is a small minority of men. As a man, I have no sexual attraction to 10 or 12 year old girls whatsoever. They're kids. I can understand some men finding 15 year olds attractive, if they have matured and grown breasts and are walking around the mall in sexy outfits. It's obviously still grossly inappropriate to stare or ogle them - the golden rule is to look at women like you are looking at the sun, a millisecond only. I'm guessing mos…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/20 01:20 PM
1	How old were you when you first noticed men looking at you sexually? Maybe you're right and I'm underestimating the pedophilia out there. I wonder if most of this creepy shit is happening in poorer areas? (This is definitely a classist statement, but there tends to be more crime in poor areas, more rape in poor areas, hence I could see more degenerate behaviour in general in poor areas). I don't see anything like this in my social circle, though the resounding amount of women discussing this makes me wonder.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/20 01:03 PM
0	How old were you when you first noticed men looking at you sexually? lol @ "mansplaining". Didn't read past that word.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/20 01:00 PM
1	How old were you when you first noticed men looking at you sexually? You still don't understand the math and the subtlety of the rejection. 32/2 = 16. 16 + 7 = 23. She was 22 and telling you to scram, "close buddy, but the rules say I'm too young for your old ass".	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/20 12:59 PM
-3	How old were you when you first noticed men looking at you sexually? You didn't understand her. She was rejecting you with math: (37 - 4) / 2 + 7 = 23.5 years. And for the record, 22 is pure bliss at any age.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/20 03:15 AM
-7	How old were you when you first noticed men looking at you sexually? For the sake of my belief in fellow man, I prefer to believe that it is a rare man that finds 11 year olds attractive. Like 1 in 1,000 so that even if all you women say it happened maybe it was all that same one guy ogling all of you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/20 03:11 AM
41	How old were you when you first noticed men looking at you sexually? As a man, I am disgusted to hear this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/20 01:36 AM
12	Men, why you so thirsty? His point is that her answer of "you must be one of the good ones" implies that the default is that men are bad. He is suggesting that in a discussion of racial stereotypes, if she said "you must be one of the good ones" if would be obviously racist. Hence, notice the insult toward men in the first one.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/20 10:02 PM
13	She Comes First - Male Seductive Mindset I can't decide if this is pedestal pandering or necessary knowledge. Good post.	/r/seduction	03/11/20 12:57 PM
2	How do you handle the "That wasn't funny" shit test? That my first instinct too, something like: "fuck, you're right... it sounded like something you would say"	/r/askTRP	03/11/20 01:51 AM
1	Q4M: Do you have sympathy for men who report being sexually harassed by women you find attractive? OMG... unsolicited nudes! And she touched me!!! Nope, no sympathy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/20 05:14 PM
4	Best city for residency? You're a young doctor. As long as you have a decent personality, you're the prize to women. No need to worry about whether there is an "abundance" of women. Even if there are only four women in town, they will all be interested in you. Choose where you want to live based on your career, your hobbies and your interests. Women will be there no matter where you go.	/r/askTRP	14/10/20 03:13 AM
0	Wealthy girls OK, you give me pause. Curious to see what others think. I can't stand stuck up people - male or female - so my instinct is to bring them down a level.	/r/askTRP	12/10/20 03:17 AM
-11	Wealthy girls Say, "Did no one ever tell you that women are valued for how hot they are, not how rich they are?"	/r/askTRP	12/10/20 03:12 AM
2	Men emphasize character because we understand male machiavellianism. Until women vet for character they will always have bad relationships. I don't care about impressing humourless mongrels.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/20 04:39 AM
-1	Men emphasize character because we understand male machiavellianism. Until women vet for character they will always have bad relationships. I prefer her mouth to be wide open.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/20 04:34 AM
7	Does the prevalence of sex selective abortion contradict the disposable man theory? I don't think your examples reflect society's view of men as disposable. Men do dangerous jobs because they are stronger and more capable of physical labour (such as the dangerous jobs of construction or off shore fishing). Men are the ones who go to war because they are stronger and more capable of the physical demands of battle.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/20 03:00 PM
13	How do you handle frame tests from other guys in groups? Smart reply. I was going to post something similar about lice, but the other way around: "damn bro, you're dirty... you're probably going to give me lice"	/r/askTRP	02/10/20 12:35 PM
1	Do men even get praised anymore for having high n counts? It's the quality and context of the N that matters. A guy who is indiscriminate and fucks a bunch of gross women isn't respected. A guy who cheats on his girlfriend every chance he gets isn't respected. A guy who fucks a lot of women by going to hookers isn't respected. It's only respected if he's able to sleep with a lot of attractive women. The sort of guy who can go to a bar or party and take home the most desirable woman there time and time again. Looks alone won't do that - the guy has to h…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/20 06:57 PM
1	How long does a good physique take It takes a long time. If it was easy, everyone would be buff. Just work on your strength for a couple of years. Get your squat / deadlift up to the 250-300 pound range (depending on your size) before working about cutting or aesthetics. You should be able to do that with one years of consistent training, and it gives you a solid base of strength to branch out from there.	/r/askTRP	22/09/20 02:49 AM
2	would love advice from older, male professionals I'm a lawyer, so it's a different world, but I'll offer my two cents. Get some decent loans so that you can live a decent lifestyle while in medical school. You're going to be a doctor, so you can afford to get some debt to make the next 4 years easier. I'm not talking anything crazy, but certainly get an extra $20K or $25K per year so that you live decently. No point in eating like crap and living in dire poverty. Once you are working you will be able to pay back your debts fairly quickly (as l…	/r/askTRP	22/09/20 02:44 AM
12	People call me buddy? How is it a power move? It's a fairly innocuous term, affectionate even.	/r/askTRP	17/09/20 02:32 PM
4	In the past it was easier for 30+ men to date much younger women, now it's much harder because younger women increasingly see it as creepy. Any woman who dates a guy of any age because he has a "cool car" is a loser. So take that woman's life experience with a grain of salt. I'm an older guy, mid-40s, and easily connect with women in their late 20s, early 30s. I don't think it has anything to do with resources (although I'm a successful lawyer, so maybe I am deluding myself). Instead, I think my ability to connect is simply due to emotional intelligence and facility with small talk. I find a lot of young guys these days are ridiculo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/20 02:29 PM
-1	Is ignoring insults ever a sign of strength? If you're quick witted make a joke about it. "Yeah, you belong on the other side" or whatever. General shit talking. Otherwise, get a haircut, you homo. Leo DiCaprio... shudder	/r/askTRP	31/08/20 12:01 PM
10	AF/BB is perfectly natural and normal for both genders 80-year old men are still attracted to Instagram thots.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/20 02:26 PM
2	Why get into an LTR? Because not all women are like that. The same way that not "all men are pigs" who will abandon a spouse just because a hotter chick arrived. AWALT is bullshit. Women are generally faithful once they've decided that you are the one, unless you give them reason to think otherwise - think of all the women you know who "stand by their man". If you don't know of any, then you need more life experience.	/r/askTRP	09/08/20 01:22 PM
5	Prediction: dating former sex workers will become increasingly normalized in the coming years thetruthishere_ I'm talking about the non-trashy world. Men who go to prostitutes are the minority, and I'm not talking about them. I'm talking about normal guys who don't want a woman who tricks them into a relationship with sex. There's a world of difference between a woman who has lots of sex because she enjoys sex and a woman who has lots of sex since it pays the bills.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/20 09:00 PM
9	Prediction: dating former sex workers will become increasingly normalized in the coming years No way. Men are OK with slutty women since those women have sex because they enjoy it. Enjoying sex is a positive trait in a woman. Men are not OK with prostitutes since those women use sex not for enjoyment but for profit. It leads directly to men's fear of being tricked by women who use sex to manipulate and trap them. Using sex for profit and manipulation is a negative trait. If you can't see the difference, I don't know what else to say.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/20 07:20 PM
1	Would you be bothered if you found out that your SO did not find you physically attractive at all, but just like you for your personality? I love these respones - it shows you can't please women. If you are attracted to them because of their looks, they find you shallow. If you are attracted to them despite their looks, they are emotionally crushed that you don't find them hot.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/20 12:47 AM
1	First date ever at 28 and got rejected next day I think you should follow up with her and get a second date, just for the dating experience. You can say to her, "I have never once had a one-night stand or even casual sex. I was simpy trying to gauge your views on casual sex." You don't need to tell her that you're a virgin.	/r/seduction	18/07/20 04:08 PM
7	First date ever at 28 and got rejected next day Congrats on a positive first step. Everyone you date is going to have more experience in the game than you, so you're going to have to fake it for now. Her judgmental comments about friends and her accusations about sex makes her sound like a nightmare. Chalk it up as some experience, and don't worry about the rejection. Are you certain it was a rejection? Email her and say you had a fun time. See if she responds. Good luck.	/r/seduction	14/07/20 03:22 AM
1	Does height matter? Some of the biggest studs I've ever met were 5'6 or thereabouts. Attitude, facial structure and charm are great equalizers. I'm NBA level tall, it helps with some girls (the female equivalent of guys who go gaga over giant boobs), but other women think I'm too tall. There's no winning, my friend.	/r/seduction	11/07/20 09:38 PM
1	She's Mad That I Don't Want Marriage How long have you been dating? People act differently a few years into a relationship than they do after only 1 year or so. It's easy to get along when everything is great. It's like getting along on vacation. But you need to see how the relationship goes during hard times, how you resolve differences, how you deal with challenges, etc. Wanting to date for 5 years or so before marrying is just smart. And those tears are classic manipulation. It would piss me off.	/r/askTRP	11/07/20 09:35 PM
2	The Red Pill is mostly nonsense It's a grey area, which is probably why you say "mostly" nonsense. I agree that a lot of it is nonsense - I don't think "all women are like that" (people in general are complex), I don't believe that all women are looking to monkey branch (I think women in general are more interested in stable long term relationships than men), marriage isn't the scam that TRP portrays it (just don't marry down), etc. But there's a lot of uncomfortable truths in TRP also. It's a reaction and pushback to some of …	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/20 01:43 PM
1	Considering buying a barbell set and rack. Thoughts? I have my garage gym, and it's awesome. I wll do some yard work, then go and do a set of squats or deadlifts. I work from home a lot, so I will take a break and go do a few sets of presses. It's incredibly convenient and let's you squeeze in a workout whenever you have time. Fuck making a special trip to a gym. What a waste of time.	/r/askTRP	26/06/20 12:59 AM
1	Do you ever get approached sexually? I've had women come on strongly at parties and in bars and stuff, even pushing their boobs into my arm as we're talking. But rarely are they so forward as to ask you to have sex, just like that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/20 05:27 PM
4	24M here trying to find my mission and direction in life. What are some respectable masculine career paths? It is definitely not too late for university. You're still very young, in the grand scheme of life. And to be honest, being 24 or 25 would be an advantage when meeting 18 to 20 year girls in your classes or on campus. Many girls like older guys, and your life experience and maturity will give you a huge advantage over the typical 18 year old pimply-faced boy. And if any girls ask why you are older, you have a compassionate excuse. You're golden.	/r/askTRP	23/06/20 11:07 PM
11	Do you cheat on your ltr/wife ? If you cheat, you'll get caught 99% of the time. Not worth it since you have a family. Your kids are your top priority as a man. Don't let your dick ruin your kids' childhood. Can you talk to your wife about it? How mature is your relationship? Is her sex drive as high as yours? If not, she might be willing to let you have fun on the side, open marriage style. If not, and if you absolutely need some new pussy, pay a hooker. It's gross, so I wouldn't do it, but it's an option that is much safer t…	/r/askTRP	23/06/20 10:59 PM
5	Bulk to gain more muscle or cut to lose facial fat? The suggestion is that he might be mistaken - it's not facial fat, it's puffiness from too much salt. Seems like a long-shot to me, but I think that's what they are saying.	/r/askTRP	23/06/20 12:52 AM
16	Loneliness Enhances Discipline You need some fun in your life, dude. 8 hours for sleeping, 8 hours for working, 8 hours for play. And then there's Sunday.	/r/askTRP	19/06/20 12:47 PM
-4	Where do i look for escorts? Unless you are a total loser, why would you do this?	/r/askTRP	18/06/20 11:59 PM
2	Best instrument to play Bass is needed in every band, from jazz to rock to bluegrass to punk to classical to chamber music. And relatively easy (although no instrument is easy).	/r/askTRP	18/06/20 11:55 PM
1	A question for men who dance Tango looks cool as fuck. It's smart to learn something like that for meeting women. I tried once in both tango and salsa classes but got bored too quickly and went back to the gym and bjj classes. I couldn't do it.	/r/askTRP	18/06/20 12:11 AM
18	How to become attractive in terms of facial features? Of course it does. Fat gets deposited on your face. Look at obese people - their faces are fat. Look at ripped people - their faces are lean. All that other shit, like face exercises, is pretty useless compared to low body fat. And don't smoke, obviously.	/r/askTRP	17/06/20 12:32 PM
4	Plate said I’m too short/ethnic for a relationship but still wants to fuck? She's trash, not worth serious consideration. But lots of chicks have white guilt, so you can accuse her of racism and she'll jump through hoops to prove she isn't.	/r/askTRP	15/06/20 11:19 PM
1	Would it be pathetic to ask your alpha friends advice when you dont get laid? It's pathetic not to ask them - they are shaking their heads at you right now, hoping you'll get your shit together.	/r/seduction	15/06/20 03:51 PM
5	strength gains no muscle gains? You have a lot of maturity and self-awareness. Congrats on that. But I don't think it's healthy for you to be chasing an image of what you think your body should look like in 5 years. You don't need a perfect body to feel good about yourself. You've already made great progress and your lifts are respectable, better than the average guy. To address the self-esteem, you might want to consider bjj, judo or boxing. It will give you a lot of self-confidence, seeing as your low self-esteem come from b…	/r/askTRP	02/06/20 01:52 PM
2	Does it get lonely at the top? I'm a successful lawyer in my 40s. I have a gorgeous house in the countryside and am established enough in my career that I can work from home 3 or 4 days a week. I get my work done fast and so I have lots of time for hobbies, friends and family. Life is good. I worked hard when I was young and so I can relax more now. But I don't feel a sense of "enlightenment", whatever that really is. I feel the exact same as I always did. Same person through and through. I grew up in a tough blue collar area…	/r/askTRP	02/06/20 01:39 PM
15	strength gains no muscle gains? You gained 25 lbs in a year. That's a lot of weight. If you think you haven't seen much change in your body then you're developing typical meat-head body dysmorphia. Adding more body weight will facilitate strength gains, but so what? Your body weight is perfectly fine. Leaner is healthier, and most women don't find powerlifter builds attractive. What's your goal or motivation?	/r/askTRP	02/06/20 01:22 PM
7	Friends didn't invite me to a party and it's not by accident You sound like an emotional woman.	/r/askTRP	21/05/20 11:03 PM
3	How much of being an "alpha" can you actually learn? Get his opinion. Just say to him: "Dad, you are a lot more in control of your life than I am. What am I doing wrong?" But don't use cringey RP language like the "alpha" and similar nonsense. He has been watching you your whole life - he probably has tons of insights, but doesn't tell you them out of respect.	/r/askTRP	07/05/20 01:26 AM
17	Men in your 40s - if you can turn back time, what do you wish you knew in your 30s? Drink less - it's fun to get fucked up, but it's also detrimental to your heath and goals if it becomes a frequent event. Chase natural hghs instead. Learn to surf, rock climb or some other adrenaline inducing rush. Much more satisfying. Don't think you can beat the market - you are usually much better off just keeping yourself 100% invested in index funds and contributing a set amount every month and let time and compound interest work its magic. You don't waste time on trying to learn about in…	/r/askTRP	05/05/20 11:45 AM
1	Random skills/hobbies that YOU are proud of. I did years of bjj and yoga is a good supplement. I like David Swenson's stuff. You can find his 15-minute routine on youtube; it's basically a series of sun salutations.	/r/askTRP	28/04/20 04:42 PM
3	How legit are opinions on our subreddit? If you never listen to anyone's opinion, you are rudderless in the world, trying to make sense of it on your own. So listen to tons of different views, including blue pill views. Avoid echo chambers. But most importantly, try things out on your own. See what works for you personally. I think there is a lot of nonsense in TRP, but there is a lot of truth as well.	/r/askTRP	28/04/20 04:40 PM
7	What kind of effect did moving out of your parents house have on you? I moved out at 18, so I can't truly relate. But as a man in my 40s with kids of my own, I will tell you that 99% of parents love their kids dearly and your folks would welcome you growing up. If you are coming home to your parents' house and locking yourself in your room, you need to mature. If you are living there, don't just sulk and lock yourself in your room waiting for the future. Soak up as much knowledge as you can from them, and practise being a man by helping out and making yourself use…	/r/askTRP	28/04/20 09:19 AM
1	I miss having crushes Crushes are just a form of immaturity. Basically, it means you are falling for a girl without even knowing her. That's just stupid. Save your strong feelings for a woman who deserves it - someone who proves her commitment to you, who proves she is worth those intense feelings.	/r/seduction	19/04/20 05:28 PM
1	RP way to deal with girl that skips you in line It's all in the delivery.	/r/askTRP	17/04/20 05:42 PM
1	RP way to deal with girl that skips you in line I find the best way to deal with any argument is to turn it into a question - "did you know that I was next in line?" You're not making any demands, you're not drawing a line in the sand. You are simply asking a question. It puts the pressure on the other person to explain themselves, to defend themselves. Most times the person will sheepishly say, "sorry" and give you back your spot. If they don't, you can decide how you want to proceed.	/r/askTRP	17/04/20 04:04 PM
3	Best way to increase T in teens? Whatever you do, don't be stupid and do steroids. There are hormonal feedback circuits - you fuck up your system.	/r/askTRP	17/04/20 03:47 PM
1	It bugs me that some women that don't want me now will want me once ive improved to a certain point. Take advice you read anywhere on reddit with a grain of salt. There's definitely a lot of truth in the RP sphere, and anyone who thinks women are sugar and spice is a moron. But women aren't evil for the most part and the idea that "all women are like that" ignores reality. The same way that not all men are dogs who only want one thing, not all women are complete gold diggers who will throw away a good relationship for a better prospect.	/r/askTRP	17/04/20 01:49 PM
3	Has anyone else experienced that blondes and redheads are a lot nicer than women who happen to be "darker"? More likely that you project your attitudes and prejudices and they pick up on them and respond in kind.	/r/askTRP	16/04/20 06:09 PM
3	It bugs me that some women that don't want me now will want me once ive improved to a certain point. You run the risk of turning bitter, and that doesn't help you in any way. Don't hate women for being women.	/r/askTRP	16/04/20 01:17 PM
1	How do you cope with the fact that you need to work your ass off at least 40 hours a week only to survive? Even when working 8 hours a day it seems like there is no time left for yourself after the work, and earning big money also seems like magic. 8 hours a day to work, 8 hours a day to sleep. Still leaves you 8 hours per day to play and have fun. It's way better than it was in the past.	/r/askTRP	15/04/20 02:03 AM
1	How to start yoga Check out David Swenson's stuff for ashtanga yoga. It's on youtube. His 15-minute routine is a good intro - basically a series of sun salutations followed by stretches. I wouldn't call it meditation, though. It's calisthenics.	/r/askTRP	09/04/20 04:03 AM
2	I’m a guy but not going to go after any woman like you see in movies My secret is to always have two things to say before approaching a woman. Expect to get shot down with the first thing you say, and then you are ready with the second and it avoids the awkward silence. If you persist, women seem to respect you or something. I don't understand it, but I've added the 'second opener' to my dealings with women and it helps a lot. If a decently attractive woman approached you, you would do all you could to keep the conversation going. You would give her the benefit o…	/r/seduction	07/04/20 10:50 PM
3	I’m a guy but not going to go after any woman like you see in movies Man up, dude. That's the way of the wild. It's the same for all animals, the male competes for the female's attention and approaches the females and suffers tons of rejection. A lot of male animals have to fight, buck horns, and so forth before they are given the privilege of mating. All us human males have to do is make the first move and display some charm. No blood, no injuries, no big deal. You'll still get rejected a lot, but don't take it personally.	/r/seduction	06/04/20 04:31 AM
1	Is there a point in lifting after a certain amount of time? I think we're talking about different things. The OP was asking about diminishing returns... after lifting for a few years and getting to the point where he would need to put in tons of effort to grind out an extra 3 lbs of muscle per year.	/r/askTRP	05/04/20 04:51 AM
0	Is there a point in lifting after a certain amount of time? Keep in mind that most women find body builders gross. Many men think women find big muscles appealing, but studies show they don't. Women find lean, fit guys attractive (to the extent they care that much about a guy's body). We have limited time. If you're spending all your time in the gym, worried about your diet, bulking and cutting, etc., then it takes a lot of time. A guy might simply do yoga instead - they get 'yoga fit' and meet women in their yoga classes. Don't get me wrong - I lift wei…	/r/askTRP	04/04/20 09:33 PM
1	Is there a single ideal rule to live by, if so, what is it? Do what makes you happy. Once a week, reflect on the week and think about what made you happy and what made you unhappy. Keep a journal if you need to. Arrange your life so that you can do more of the stuff that makes you happy and less of the stuff that makes you unhappy. Rinse and repeat.	/r/askTRP	04/04/20 03:41 AM
1	Is there a point in lifting after a certain amount of time? The brainwashing about lifting is retarded here. Yes, fitness is an element of attractiveness. But killing yourself in the gym for 3 lbs of muscle isn't worth it. Diminshing returns. You'll go a lot further by getting stylish clothes, developing your interests and hobbies, getting ahead in your career, working on your social life, being fun. Look around - there are tons of guys who aren't buff who do just find attracting women. Women are multifaceted and variable and find all sorts of things att…	/r/askTRP	04/04/20 03:32 AM