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2	How much interest is too much interest ? especially when you are getting to make an emotional connection ! That could totally work, especially if it's something that means a lot to you and something you connect over. Salsa is wonderful though. Assuming you're the lead, you could ask her to try a partner exercise meant to build connection. If she's willing, the exercise entails her closing her eyes while you lead her through the dance floor in different directions. Her eyes have to be closed the entire time so the focus is entirely on feeling your subtle hand movement. Your focus is on seeing if she's…	/r/seduction	04/11/16 07:38 AM
1	How much interest is too much interest ? especially when you are getting to make an emotional connection ! I think you nailed it right on the head. Physical escalation really does go hand in hand with conversational escalation. You asked a great question: "What topics would u suggest for me to bring up in a conversation to connect emotionally ?" However, I can't personally answer that as everyone is unique. Honestly, the best way to answer that is to pay attention to what topics scare you. Sometimes these are things you're even afraid to confront internally. Someone I was talking to (who I had though…	/r/seduction	31/10/16 05:58 AM
2	Hey Seditt I'm looking for some new openers and conversation topics that I could use to keep conversations from dying out I feel like I'm mediocre with openers and conversations with girls like I can get them talking to me and interested but I feel like I'm not playful,funny or sexual enough Also, sex and work probably not a good idea man.	/r/seduction	28/10/16 08:59 AM
1	Hey Seditt I'm looking for some new openers and conversation topics that I could use to keep conversations from dying out I feel like I'm mediocre with openers and conversations with girls like I can get them talking to me and interested but I feel like I'm not playful,funny or sexual enough Do you notice your stress levels in these situations? Maybe practice some subtle calming techniques (lengthen your breathing, relax the shoulders, etc) while you're talking to her. It may clear whatever chatter's in your head so you can focus on the convo and get into the flow.	/r/seduction	28/10/16 08:58 AM
1	Some good tips/advice for male sext dancing? Bachata	/r/seduction	28/10/16 08:48 AM
1	Breaking a cold spell Have you tried some social dancing, like salsa, etc.?	/r/seduction	28/10/16 08:47 AM
1	How to deal with heartbrokeness Hope you feel better soon! Being heartbroken has real, established impacts on the body (see Takotsubo cardiomyopathy sometime). Perhaps now is a good time to really listen to your mind and your body. Pay attention to your thoughts without negativity or dismissal and allow yourself time to ask why you feel the way you do. Heartbreaks are painful, yet enlightening in the handling process.	/r/seduction	28/10/16 08:46 AM
2	How much interest is too much interest ? especially when you are getting to make an emotional connection ! You mentioned lack of emotional connection. Do you find it's hard for you to be vulnerable (or able to open up) about the serious stuff with her or is it the other way around?	/r/seduction	28/10/16 08:37 AM
1	What can a woman do to make you talk you her? - Asking for a friend Eye contact and feeling open helps. You really need to channel that being receptive feeling. If you're already in a convo, casually touching; for instance, casually placing your hand on his knee to emphasize certain points, or gently touching his bicep while pointing at something else. "Hey!" touches knee "I dropped my notebook, would you mind ?" Also, just genuinely listening and asking questions seems to work. Everyone loves talking about themselves to some extent.	/r/seduction	28/10/16 08:28 AM