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Or they just don't know if they fit any league and are just outsiders to dating and having sex
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 08:51 PM
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I have a feeling that USA is so different from other countries. A lot of advice given here doesn't work in Europe where I live. But then I'm a shy introvert, so that is probably the main reason for it not working
/r/seduction13/12/25 12:26 PM
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This whole sub is full of pick up artists throwing around random words like "game", "frame", "rapport" etc
/r/seduction29/11/25 05:29 PM
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You're not an introvert
/r/seduction29/11/25 05:25 PM
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Are you an extrovert? How much free time do you spend on this?
/r/seduction23/11/25 12:41 AM
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Only good looking naturally extroverted people get casual hookups. No need to complicate things.
/r/seduction18/11/25 05:09 PM
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Game is just a mumbo jumbo word for people who want other less successful men to believe that there's some kind of set of attributes one should have to be successfully with women. Most of them are just naturally extroverted and good looking which is enough. Others are just narcissistic and manipulative
/r/seduction18/11/25 05:03 PM
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What kind of 6ft tall model looking ubermensch are you?
/r/seduction18/11/25 04:58 PM
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Forgot the most important one: Be good looking. And 6ft tall
/r/seduction18/11/25 04:52 PM
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What is game?
/r/seduction28/06/25 12:10 AM
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How do you learn flirting? I'm an introvert, and kinda ugly, so any concept of flirting is cringe to me
/r/seduction28/06/25 12:09 AM
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Everyone speaks about learning game yet doesn't explain what it is and how you learn it, besides giving basic principles, which are common sense
/r/seduction28/06/25 12:07 AM
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"The best tool here is to blur reality (gaslighting) in order to gain control of their perception of you" - girls do like toxic fellas don't they?
/r/seduction28/06/25 12:06 AM
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I suppose this only applies to extroverts then. Can't imagine myself, an introvert, teasing an unattractive girl, or saying offensive things to her etc
/r/seduction28/06/25 12:03 AM
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You can do everything to improve yourself and still have no luck with women
/r/seduction14/04/25 09:41 PM
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Out of curiosity, would you consider a guy who is in his early 30s and never dated for various reasons a weirdo?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 09:09 AM
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How do you understand that a woman likes you?
/r/seduction30/03/25 02:41 PM
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OP's advice does not really work for introverts. And older guys in their 30s. Just like you said, we can't read situation. It's okay when you're young, but not when you're 30 and are supposed to know this basic stuff
/r/seduction30/03/25 08:16 AM
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This is obvious 101. What about emotional rollercoaster?
/r/seduction19/03/25 09:16 AM
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Who has the time and energy to learn and practice these manipulations?
/r/seduction19/03/25 01:50 AM
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When it comes to creativity the majority of work is forgettable. So not surprised about the results.
/r/seduction16/03/25 06:23 PM
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But it's not written on your forehead duh
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 02:33 AM
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Not an Indian, but I would say that this doesn't work for introverted people first of all. 3000 approaches would take me 10 years to do, maybe more. When I was younger and full optimism I thought I would be able to overcome this disadvantage, but I couldn't. This world is ruled by extroverts.
/r/seduction09/03/25 09:08 PM
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What's great about it?
/r/seduction09/03/25 06:33 PM
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How often do you get rejected? Seems to me that a regular guy working 9 to 5 would have to spend all his free time to get something
/r/seduction04/03/25 10:01 AM
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Is there a textbook or something? I'm too dumb to understand what is flirting and how it's done by trial and error
/r/seduction19/02/25 06:15 PM
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You're an extrovert, right?
/r/seduction19/02/25 06:21 AM
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What's the point of talking to women I'm not interested in? As an introvert it's difficult enough to keep a conversation with one person going without feeling exhausted lol. I hate this conclusion, but I suppose it's over for me. Struggling forever without winning does not make anyone stronger. It just breaks people.
/r/seduction17/02/25 08:23 AM
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Yeah, life with psychological disorders sucks. Good luck :)
/r/seduction17/02/25 07:44 AM
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I read a lot of PUA materials when I was younger and realized that it doesn't help. All that stuff is to sell guys hope and not actually teach them how to do things. At this point I try to attend events where I can just meet people. If something happens - good.
/r/seduction17/02/25 07:41 AM
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I have no clue how to do that, so never. Anxiety and self-esteem issues also prevent from approaching. And I still haven't cracked what flirt is.
/r/seduction17/02/25 07:01 AM
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I have anxiety, but with time (I'm 30 now) it became easier to be around women and engage in basic friendly conversation. Working out helped. Anxiety is still with me, eye contact is a struggle, and I do notice tension in my body, but not as much as it was some time ago. I still have no clue how to approach women though, how to talk and how to escalate
/r/seduction17/02/25 06:40 AM
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It's incredible how easy it is to get good at something other than relationships with women (short, long, no matter). This simulation sucks
/r/seduction15/02/25 10:22 AM
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Had multiple women not leave on the first date but not agree to the second one
/r/seduction15/02/25 12:41 AM
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So basically manipulation
/r/seduction15/02/25 12:37 AM
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But you have to see somehow that she's attracted to you, right?
/r/seduction14/02/25 09:53 AM
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Maybe I'm autistic, but I don't understand flirt. How do you do it? And being playful. What's that? Is it something you're born with or can learn?
/r/seduction11/02/25 12:04 PM
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Where do you find time to explore and keepe trying if you have work, hobbies and some social life
/r/seduction05/02/25 09:24 PM
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Be attractive. Don't be unattractive. Simple
/r/seduction05/02/25 05:29 PM
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Thanks. Maybe one day...
/r/seduction03/02/25 09:02 AM
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So this is all to not feel regret? Because the chances of not getting rejected are still slim if you're a regular dude. IMO it's easier to become desensitized to regret than rejection
/r/seduction03/02/25 09:00 AM
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How do you know they want you to approach them?
/r/seduction31/01/25 06:29 PM
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My biggest fear is not knowing what to talk about with a woman. How do you approach without knowing what to say, how to say something?
/r/seduction31/01/25 06:28 PM
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So you're supposed to approach every girl you like? Regarding missed opportunities, approaching women is only a small part IMO
/r/seduction31/01/25 06:25 PM
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Dude clearly doesn't know the struggle of the average guy
/r/seduction26/01/25 07:39 PM
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What does it mean "she has to qualify to you"?
/r/seduction19/01/25 04:49 PM
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Forget about hot. It's the case with regular girls for me. Not putting girls on pedestal or anything. Either you're attractive or not, I guess. And a lot of guys will never be attractive, no matter what they do
/r/seduction10/01/25 04:10 PM
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I heard somewhere that only women understand women
/r/seduction02/12/24 05:04 PM
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But if you ask and you're not attractive the answer is no 90% of the time
/r/seduction02/12/24 05:02 PM
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Everyone has different understanding of what fun is. You can't learn to be fun.
/r/seduction02/12/24 05:01 PM
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Source: trust me bro. Stopped reading after the example with ginger hair. You're either really good looking or this is complete bs
/r/seduction25/10/24 02:43 PM
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It works for some, doesn't work for others. I doubt that an introvert can overwrite his personality and suddenly start approaching all women he likes. It's simply exhausting
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 08:34 PM
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Yeah, if that's a skill then you are supposed to be able to learn it. That's how humans operate. Any ability doesn't appear out of the blue
/r/seduction01/10/24 06:20 PM
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Not what I experienced. Being logical and introverted, women have never expressed any interest in me in 30 years of my life. Despite the fact that I workout and take care of myself
/r/seduction01/10/24 10:09 AM
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The question is "how" not "when"
/r/seduction01/10/24 10:06 AM
2

Am I cooked if even alcohol doesn't help? I still feel anxiety after many drinks
/r/seduction27/09/24 07:21 PM
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Got a package of adhd / anxiety / depression, so no success at all at 30 years old
/r/seduction27/09/24 07:18 PM
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Army in general could be very beneficial. Getting that discipline habit is very important for guys with adhd. I agree, that attractiveness plays a huge role. That's why I have no success in OLD. 0, nada, niente haha. But then I live in a small country, so that could also contribute to the lack of success
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 05:56 PM
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I have opposite experience
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 05:39 PM
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How do you know you're worth it or deserve ot if you've been single your whole life?
/r/seduction05/09/24 10:17 PM
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Why it's called game? Kinda stupid. Makes it think that you have to play (manipulate) the other person to have sex with you
/r/seduction05/09/24 09:14 PM
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Is it a bad thing if a guy is inexperienced?
/r/seduction02/09/24 09:54 PM
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I doubt this can be learned. If it's how you operate, then it will work for you. For others it will probably not work. I've been reading and trying to implement all this PUA sh*t for a long time. It just doesn't work. I can't fake it. I can't come up with this manipulation pulling away / closer stuff. But I also don't live in an English speaking country. Maybe it only works there
/r/seduction25/08/24 11:22 AM
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It's easy when you have experience. What is it with comparing cold approach with hunting. Men hunt prey. Does it mean you think of women as prey?
/r/seduction01/06/24 07:09 PM
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whit
/r/seduction07/04/24 04:35 PM
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