esak13 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
0	Back and forth		esak13	/r/Divorce_Men	01/02/21 06:16 PM

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7	Do you divorce if there's no attraction left because your spouse aged like milk? Idk man. I’ve never wanted to have sex with a woman’s personality. Physical attraction must be there or else you would never approach her in the first place, but people have different ideas on what’s attractive. I could find a woman beautiful and you find her average or below average. It’s a preference and we all have them.	/r/Divorce_Men	21/10/24 01:08 PM
2	My ex-wife told me she got "raped" by multiple men, multiple times. At first I felt all sympathetic for her, until she told me by who, when and where. Even if she goes to detox and then an intensive rehab program she is going to have to want to get clean. That’s how beating addiction works. You can’t just go to rehab and expect to be cured. She has a long road of recovery ahead of her, but only if that’s what she wants. She going to have to do the work involved and it’s some deep shit. Addiction is brutal and unless you’re really honest about it with yourself and work a program of recovery you’ll be back to sucking dick for rock in no time. If…	/r/Divorce_Men	13/05/23 12:36 PM
2	Fuck it all Fuck it indeed. Now worry about yourself. Go to the fucking gym and get fucking shredded. Buy some guns and train to shoot. Grow a bead. If you lose the house in the divorce buy a chunk of land and a small camper, live in it while you build yourself a cabin. Read books. Learn skills. Don’t tie your life to a female ever again. If you want to have sex once in a while then do that, but don’t let women be involved more than that. Become based.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/05/23 10:39 AM
1	Should I delete pics of my wife? Delete every single thing that she’s in. If it’s pics of the kids crop her out. It’s therapeutic.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/04/22 02:59 PM
3	What 50-50 coparenting is like? No problem. Don't fret about it either. I have always been an active part of my kids lives, so it was easy for me to take on the single dad role when we started joint custody. My ex and I have very different parenting styles and I had to.learn to be a little more flexible while still holding to certain rules that I will not allow to be broken. I am more structured than she is, but I had to decide what battles were worth it for me... bedtime has always been me alone with the kids because of confl…	/r/Divorce_Men	02/03/21 06:42 PM
5	What 50-50 coparenting is like? Depends on the schedule too. We did week on week off. It was ok. You had a couple days to deal with the transition. Then you get to have a normal week with your kid. The adverse is on your week off you miss your kid. Sure you have the time to do the things that need to get done... chores, overtime, hobbies, but you will miss your kid. We switched to a modified 2/5 schedule. I have them Wednesday and Thursday one week then Wednesday through Monday morning the next week. I still get every other we…	/r/Divorce_Men	02/03/21 06:12 PM
5	Any advice She's done. I am not going to bad mouth her, but you should be done with her as well. If she cheated then she was truly unhappy or unfulfilled. If you almost cheated then you know that you felt similar feelings as well. Sometimes it's just best to know when it's over and accept it. This leaving to find myself crap is worthless. My STBXW has been on again off again with me since June. We were supposed to be in a no contact period for 6 weeks so she could work on herself. I just couldn't do it any…	/r/Divorce_Men	26/02/21 03:09 PM
5	She asked to talk You don't owe her anything. If you don't want to reopen old wounds then don't	/r/Divorce_Men	09/02/21 02:27 PM
1	Husband wants divorce but still want to be with me Seperated in June. We live in NC, so we have to have a legal separation of 366 days before we can file for divorce. We sold our house early on because the market is hot here and we wanted to have the extra cash. I found a nice place in my price range. Told her about it and asked if she would be willing to sign something before I made the offer. She said she wouldn't come after my home because we have a child together and it would be good for him. I contacted my closing attorney after the offer w…	/r/Divorce_Men	09/02/21 03:25 AM
1	Husband wants divorce but still want to be with me I'm separated right now, not divorced and I'm closing on a house Friday. My closing attorney drew up an agreement that we both signed stating the house was separate property. My wife claims no ownership and never can.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/02/21 03:13 AM
3	Venting Are you asking her to do things she's just not comfortable with or is she a lame sex partner? If she's just lame you need to get her comfortable and try some vanilla stuff. If you're pushing her out of her comfort zone then I doubt she will ever do what you want.	/r/Divorce_Men	05/02/21 03:43 PM
2	Passive aggressive FB crap Virtue signaling at its finest.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/02/21 02:04 PM
3	why am I hung up on my ex? Because you miss that memory. You miss who that woman used to be. Especially seeing her dolled up.. you miss having someone that knows you intimately. I bet you had thoughts of previous times you made love and blah blah blah. Time is the right answer. Also getting some real physical interaction with someone else, even just a good hug from a woman you find attractive is enough to drive the X out of your mind.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/02/21 05:27 PM
6	Passive aggressive FB crap Block her. You can keep her on messenger and just ask for pictures periodically. I had to do this because of the same reasons. She kept posting quotes about abuse and narcissists. I left her because she became woke as fuck. Block her on everything but the essentials.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/02/21 05:23 PM
2	How women view redpilled men Was told by my STBXW that I had a narcissistic pattern of abuse. When I asked what that was she said " you treat a woman really well, groom her to become your partner, later you become unsatisfied and start to back away from the relationship, then you eventually leave them." To me that just sounds like a relationship that didn't work out.	/r/Divorce_Men	02/02/21 03:30 PM
1	Positive thoughts thread. Just what I needed to see. Trying to remain positive right now and just knowing other people are doing the same is helpful	/r/Divorce_Men	02/02/21 03:25 PM
1	Back and forth Tried that. In NC the cops will not enforce a custody order. They say that it has to go through the court	/r/Divorce_Men	01/02/21 10:32 PM
2	Back and forth We already have a court order for custody. But for some reason she feels like she can dictate my custody rights, and she knows it will take at least a month before we can get in court right now.	/r/Divorce_Men	01/02/21 07:46 PM
3	Why do I feel like this? IMO it sounds like you've already worked through the process. Even if you were still seeing each other and having an intimate relationship you knew it wasn't real on some level. You sound relived to be free finally instead of stuck in some sort of limbo.	/r/Divorce_Men	22/01/21 01:44 PM