esmereldaskysurfer Archive

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39	Red pill men love to talk about how women are weak and cant handle criticism…		esmereldaskysurfer	/r/ExRedPill	01/07/21 01:54 AM

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5	Red pill men love to talk about how women are weak and cant handle criticism… Yes! While trp didn’t exist when i was with my ex, he was very much this kind of man. He was “traditional” in the sense that he refused to cook, clean or even wash his own clothes, but didn’t understand that for a traditional marriage to work, the man has to be a provider. So he stayed home all day “working” for his web design business (that rarely brought in any money because he rarely did any work, he just played wow all day), i worked 10 hour days, 6 days a week to keep a roof over our heads …	/r/ExRedPill	01/07/21 02:34 PM
9	Red pill men love to talk about how women are weak and cant handle criticism… Yup, if there is a post about say a single mother, you will be censored for criticizing the man who knocked her up, because SHE is the whore who had sex with him, and even if they dont know why she is not with the father, clearly it’s because she is a garbage person who left him, or let him use her, she is the one who didnt get married before getting pregnant, it’s all her fault. The man cannot be shamed, he is blameless because he saw that she was a slut and took advantage of that, which is jus…	/r/ExRedPill	01/07/21 04:32 AM
0	Those diapers, doctor bills, daycare, school supplies, meals and other childcare costs add up over time, and how many unsolicited "thank you" blowjobs are you getting providing for another man's kids? My second child was basically accidental, i had to take meds to conceive my first and was told it wasn’t possible to have another without the same intervention. 4 years later of being pretty blasé about birth control and bam- pregnant.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	27/06/21 03:19 PM
2	No job, no money, no nothing but post wall sag want a high value man Reupload At 41 she probably hasn’t even started menopause yet, just FYI	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	25/06/21 06:32 PM
3	Kid isn’t even here yet and she’s already looking for mr perfect to pay her bills That’s like those women who write to/ fall in love with serial killers or men on death row. It’s like a fetish or something	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	23/06/21 08:55 PM
1	Come take care of my kid and pay my bills while I go off to college to ride the CC He also lacked the other characteristics listed above lol. Sadly he put on a good front of pretending to be a decent person until we were married and then the shit hit the fan. And i was a dumbass 20 year old with undiagnosed bipolar disorder so it was just like a perfect storm of shit.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	22/06/21 05:31 PM
2	Come take care of my kid and pay my bills while I go off to college to ride the CC TIL my ex was actually female…	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	22/06/21 04:17 PM
9	Come take care of my kid and pay my bills while I go off to college to ride the CC My husband and I were a similar situation. He was stationed in England, we started dating and then he went to Afghanistan for 6 months, he came home and a couple months later he proposed and we got married about a year after we got together. We only married so fast because his tour in the UK was coming to an end and we agreed it would be easier to do it when we were both in the same country. Looking back, it was way too fast, but we got lucky because we’ve been married 13 years, and have stayed …	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	22/06/21 04:11 PM
1	Meet the 35 year old ex-sex worker who now wants the white picket-fence life!! And also wants to recalibrate who she's attracted to because the guys she finds attractive don't find her attractive, and wants a "professional, clean cut" guy unlike the "lazy assholes" her friends ended up with. I dunno why men think a switch flips on a woman’s 35th birthday and suddenly she cant/ shouldn’t have kids. It’s dependent on many factors, and varies from woman to woman. In my case, my oldest was conceived when i was 34, my youngest when i was 38 and we’re hoping to try for one more if my body will have it. My cousin had her first when she was 41, but on the flipside i’ve known women whose fertility started declining at 23.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	21/06/21 05:45 PM
1	Single mother divorcee can't ""find"" (match*) good guys on dating sites (quelle surprise). So where are they? Must be somewhere else! Oh… im not always great at picking up when people are joking lol	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	20/06/21 06:21 PM
2	Single mother divorcee can't ""find"" (match*) good guys on dating sites (quelle surprise). So where are they? Must be somewhere else! He… killed himself with a Japanese number puzzle? The word you were looking for is Seppuku	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	20/06/21 04:30 PM
10	Post-Wall, self described “commitment-phobic” woman lamenting that all the good men are taken but refuses to lower her standards despite not being relationship worthy Because she probably has different things that she deems important in a partner, so if i were to base my decision to be with someone on the fact that he was dating/ married to someone else, i would be making that decision based off her priorities and not my own. Yeah, the whole getting to know them, figuring out if you’re compatible etc takes time but statistically yields better results. I (before covid came in and fucked shit up) ran a cottage business baking and selling what i baked. One of th…	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	20/06/21 04:50 AM
26	Why are women all the same but men are individuals? I could tell Marco was a woman-hater, because in spite of all the models and TV starlets in the room that night he paid attention to nobody but me. Not out of kindness or even curiosity, but because I'd happened to be dealt to him, like a playing card in a pack of identical cards. Sylvia Plath, The Bell Jar This is the essence of how they see women. Women are not human, are not capable of thought, rationality or reason, they are simply driven by their lizard brain and are slave to it. As they ar…	/r/ExRedPill	19/06/21 04:46 AM
2	Labeling people alpha or beta is so stupid The real guy. The best guy.	/r/ExRedPill	19/06/21 04:34 AM
6	Who's the incel now? (A warning to white knights) Ahh, gotcha. Nope, no sarcasm there, my husband is a cyber security guy and honestly i find it so attractive when he talks about his job or something new he’s learned. My Aunt (who was one of my favourite people ever) told me when i was like 13 that while finding someone physically attractive is important, looks change over time so you shouldn’t pick a husband on physical appearance alone. She said to find a guy who is smart, who is kind and who you respect and respects you. Then challenge eacho…	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	18/06/21 11:30 PM
6	Who's the incel now? (A warning to white knights) Eh? I was saying i find STEM guys more attractive (as in, no contest) than the stereotypical “bad boy”. The whole criminal, drug dealer etc type is a huge turnoff for me. Your response says that even when a woman agrees with you, she is wrong because she is a woman, and therefore will always be wrong.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	18/06/21 05:52 PM
6	Who's the incel now? (A warning to white knights) It can happen, but yes it is usually a sign of an underlying issue. Usually something like PCOS or in some cases endometriosis.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	18/06/21 05:46 PM
8	Who's the incel now? (A warning to white knights) STEM men are where it’s at. There’s nothing more attractive than a hot guy talking about their particular area of interest/ study.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	18/06/21 05:24 PM
0	A beautiful, classic, and articulate 25-year-old woman in NYC wants to marry a man making 500K (200K-250K is too little for her). She knows a woman who is not as beautiful and smart as her yet she's married to an investment banker living in Tribeca, "So what's she doing right?". Im a SAHM, been married 13 years to a wonderful man who is both an incredible husband and father. Im not bitter at all, i just say what i see, and anyone who cheats on their spouse is trash. That’s why I married a man who is not trash, and with whom i have an amazing life.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	17/06/21 02:27 PM
0	A beautiful, classic, and articulate 25-year-old woman in NYC wants to marry a man making 500K (200K-250K is too little for her). She knows a woman who is not as beautiful and smart as her yet she's married to an investment banker living in Tribeca, "So what's she doing right?". O-k then. Doesn’t change the fact that you’re a morally bankrupt garbage person if you screw around on your spouse. You can try to make it sound like she should be grateful she’s being provided for and just accept that her husband is a POS, you can pull the “it’s just the way men are, they have to bury their bone elsewhere (tee hee)” bullshit, it’s just excuses to try and justify being utter trash. “Forsaking all others”, remember saying that?	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	17/06/21 10:02 AM
0	A beautiful, classic, and articulate 25-year-old woman in NYC wants to marry a man making 500K (200K-250K is too little for her). She knows a woman who is not as beautiful and smart as her yet she's married to an investment banker living in Tribeca, "So what's she doing right?". Lol a man isn’t loyal at all if he’s fucking other women. If you’re not satisfied with what you have and feel the need to sleep around, leave the relationship. It’s what a morally sound person would do, male or female.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	17/06/21 09:49 AM
1	3000+ match on tinder and tatted single mom still can't find her soul mate. Likes guys who look like "Morgan Wallen". And if you're short, don't hit her up. Honestly i dont think it’s about that. While i understand the biological drive to “find a mate with good genetics” to have kids with, i dont believe that is at the forefront of anyone’s mind when talking about their kids. Moreso i think it is because over the years society has placed high value on appearance, therefore the first thing that comes to mind is to say they are beautiful rather than smart etc. Because that is what they have been taught is the important factor.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	16/06/21 06:36 PM
12	3000+ match on tinder and tatted single mom still can't find her soul mate. Likes guys who look like "Morgan Wallen". And if you're short, don't hit her up. Not always. Parents love their kids, and most think their kids are beautiful. I’d be more concerned about a parent who thought their kid was ugly/ other negative things.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	16/06/21 05:24 PM
2	A beautiful, classic, and articulate 25-year-old woman in NYC wants to marry a man making 500K (200K-250K is too little for her). She knows a woman who is not as beautiful and smart as her yet she's married to an investment banker living in Tribeca, "So what's she doing right?". A good man wouldnt screw around on his wife, as much as a good woman wont screw around on her husband. If he is just keeping his “aging” wife around for what she can give him, while fucking “hotter” women on the side, how is he any better than the women you lot complain about here, who marry a guy for what he can give her and then fuck “hotter” guys on the side?	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	16/06/21 04:00 PM
2	She's sick of paying all the bills - AND YOU'D BETTER PAY 'EM FOR HER Im aware that proper BDSM is not abuse. From what i have seen, that book does not depict a proper BDSM relationship, just a man abusing a woman with her own issues and calling it BDSM. It paints the whole community in a shitty light and could potentially result in people putting themselves into dangerous situations and thinking it’s what the scene is so going along with it. I have no idea who said it first, it’s just something I’ve thought since that shit came out.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	15/06/21 10:12 AM
2	She's sick of paying all the bills - AND YOU'D BETTER PAY 'EM FOR HER If 50 Shades took place in a trailer park, nobody would call it a romance. They’d call it what it is, abuse.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	15/06/21 09:41 AM
3	If you’re lucky, you can pay child support for someone else’s kid So, everybody? I’ve got 2 kids and neither pregnancy did anyone ever ask me how many months i was, it was always weeks. It’s just how pregnancy is measured.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	13/06/21 07:02 PM
2	If you’re lucky, you can pay child support for someone else’s kid Re: the last one, everything in pregnancy is measured in weeks. Other mums, doctors, pretty much everyone is going to ask how many weeks you are, not how many months. So you get used to using that. Both 36 weeks and 40 weeks are technically 9 months pregnant. But there is a huge difference developmentally between a foetus at 36 weeks and one at 40 weeks, and that influences decisions like whether to induce or treat a condition like preeclampsia so the foetus can develop more. Or whether to stop …	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	13/06/21 06:49 PM
2	No hookups, but she’s got the ONLYFANS link in her bio! Tiny as in young, not small. That baby isn’t more than 3 months old.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	11/06/21 12:27 AM
1	Why does nobody want to marry me? And that’s why my husband and i are Heathens, we dont have to live according to the requirements of a bullshit book and the hypocrites who re-write it when it no longer serves their needs.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	11/06/21 12:10 AM
1	"I know my worth and I’m not settling for less." It’s a game played in the US. Throwing beanbags at a board with a hole in it for points.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	10/06/21 07:59 PM
1	"I know my worth and I’m not settling for less." Cornhole, like Uno, just reminds me of when I spent a lot of time in hospital. Hours playing Uno in the common room or cornhole outside during “recreation”. Never again lol	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	10/06/21 07:22 PM
1	Any more requirements sweetheart? (Easy left swipe) I was born in 82, learned imperial until the uk became part of Europe and metric came in. Then we learned metric. As a result i can switch seamlessly back and forth between the two, use either as needed etc. Which is handy as a baker by profession, because recipes can be in either.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	10/06/21 07:03 PM
1	"Bigger" women is tired of getting pump zoned by Chads, as she keeps punching above her weight. You dont have to bang anyone you dont want to…	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	08/06/21 01:15 AM
2	"Bigger" women is tired of getting pump zoned by Chads, as she keeps punching above her weight. Sounds like a shitty person with hygiene issues who happens to be fat… im a big gal and none of that applies to me.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	07/06/21 11:58 AM
3	For the women asking "WAATGM" I think context plays a big part of it though. Before i met my husband, i had slept with 4 men. Always in a relationship (as in, no ONS), never screwed around. Im 39, we’re celebrating 13 years this month. He’s a very good man, and i have said many times i wish i could have met him sooner so as to avoid those past relationships. He doesn’t care about them, but i do. I think if you have sex with someone you have an established relationship with, thats not the same as fucking a stranger in a pub t…	/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre	06/06/21 04:26 AM
-3	Hypergamous wymyns refuses to lower her standards, to settle with a mere mortal man. I guess she'll just have to slide right past the expiration date on her eggs. Tick tock, eggs rot, inspin snot.... Meh, i think there was a lot of assumptions made there, but that’s just my opinion.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	03/06/21 09:52 PM
-6	Hypergamous wymyns refuses to lower her standards, to settle with a mere mortal man. I guess she'll just have to slide right past the expiration date on her eggs. Tick tock, eggs rot, inspin snot.... Im confused, wanting to marry someone who you see yourself growing old with is “unreasonable” to you people? Or was it not wanting her kids to have an absentee father? Neither of those are unreasonable in the slightest. She doesn’t have a laundry list of unattainable requirements for a husband, she just wants to make sure her marriage has the best chance of surviving. The hilarious thing is, y’all mock women for choosing to marry too rashly, choosing the wrong man, marrying deadbeats etc, then w…	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	03/06/21 09:32 PM
2	No more Mr Nice Guy - a critique Meh, it was what it was. FWIW, the best way to get over a breakup is not booze and casual sex (although im only experienced with the former, the latter never interested me) but LARP. Get out in a field in some chainmail with a foam sword and shield and give some people a good twatting lol. Good exercise, you get the D (vitamin, that is, from the sunshine), you get time hanging out with your mates having a laugh, it’s a total tonic. These days im happily married, so all is good. We have a great l…	/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre	02/06/21 08:32 PM
1	No more Mr Nice Guy - a critique In my experience it’s men who cannot let go of the past. My first bf (i was 15) would talk frequently to me about how he was “in love” with another girl and how he was dating me to get over her because she thought he was an obsessive creep and wanted nothing to do with him. And yeah, i was a fucking idiot with no self esteem for pretty much my whole life lol Another guy i dated, dated me because the girl he actually wanted was a lesbian and wanted nothing to do with him, and he quite literally t…	/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre	02/06/21 10:25 AM
2	No more Mr Nice Guy - a critique Unless she still has feelings for someone in her past, she absolutely can go in 100%. Why can you (who presumably has past relationships) go in 100% but she cant? People arent pie. You dont give a slice to this person and a slice to that person, and by the time you meet your future spouse parts of you are already “given away”. That’s just not how people work. I had relationships before i met my husband. I did not go into our relationship “missing” parts of myself or unable to give parts of mysel…	/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre	02/06/21 05:01 AM
1	Are women aware of red pill tactics? Could’ve fooled me....	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/21 06:43 AM
3	Are women aware of red pill tactics? The fear of being beaten makes me the exact opposite of horny. It makes me scared, nauseated, all kinds of negative stuff. But not horny. If i thought a guy was going to hit me, it would not make me want to have sex with him, it would make me want to get far away. Reading your replies here, i have to conclude that your “knowledge” of women comes from porn, and not from knowing any actual women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/21 03:57 AM
1	What is the ideal male body type? Ideal for me is my husband. Works out (military) but not super buff, bit of a squishy belly, hairy as fuck (men and cats should never be hairless). Like that is the perfect man imo.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/21 12:21 AM
2	Do you still love your wives now that they’re no longer young? Red pill men are incapable of loving a woman because they only love themselves. To them, women are just a pack of identical cards, whatever one you draw it’s all the same. It’s a known trait of woman-haters. A real man will love you even if you are getting older, dont have a perfect figure etc. Because he loves you for YOU, not just your looks. Because women (and men) are more than just their physical appearance, the person they are is more important.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/21 10:45 PM
2	Are women aware of red pill tactics? Lol unless you personally have given birth, might I suggest staying in one’s lane and not talking shit about things you know nothing about?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/21 10:30 PM
2	Are women aware of red pill tactics? Masochists enjoy pain. Being able to tolerate a lot of pain is not the same as enjoying it. I have given birth twice, both times it fucking hurt. Like screaming in pain kind of hurt. While i would go through it again to bring life into the world, i did not enjoy it. Like i did not enjoy the months of extreme pain to the point of barely being able to walk during pregnancy. Also the female body has evolved to forget how bad the pain was. Back home we had a saying “childbirth is like a Chinese meal…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/21 08:33 PM
0	Are women aware of red pill tactics? No. I have never met an abused woman who said “i like that, give me more of the same”. Often women are conditioned by the abuser to constantly seek out people who will abuse them, but it’s not because they enjoy it, it’s because they have been taught that is all they deserve.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/21 08:27 PM
1	The WAATGM phenomenon resolved in terms of creating better women by men holding them accountable and encouraging self-improvement I think the internet makes it look worse than it is. Radfems are very vocal with the “we dont want equality, we want men to submit” stuff, but your average feminist just wants men and women to be equal. For example, i have been subjected to ridicule/ hate by some feminists because i choose to be a housewife. I consider the cooking, cleaning etc to be my job, what i do to contribute to the household. I choose to stay home with the kids. I have been accused of being “anti feminist” but true femini…	/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre	27/05/21 02:01 AM
1	Nobody rules if nobody obeys When i met my husband, he was a SrA in the Air Force. Aint nobody marrying a SrA for their money lol. He is hot, but not in a “traditional” way if that makes sense? And i had just left a relationship with a man who beat the shit out of me on the regular, if my husband had any abusive traits, i wouldnt be with him. And 50 shades is absolute trash, that author has no idea what BDSM is and instead just writes straight up rape.	/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre	26/05/21 09:09 PM
1	Nobody rules if nobody obeys Hopefully you’re being sarcastic... women like all types of men, different strokes for different folks and all that.	/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre	26/05/21 08:18 PM
1	The WAATGM phenomenon resolved in terms of creating better women by men holding them accountable and encouraging self-improvement I guess what i meant was, instead of flipping it from men are the problem to women are the problem, that we have balance. That men are able to hold women accountable, but womem are also able to hold men accountable still, when they have actually done something wrong.	/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre	26/05/21 07:23 PM
1	Nobody rules if nobody obeys Lol i have literally never had a “type” in my life. Women aren’t the Borg, we dont have a hive mind ya know ;)	/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre	26/05/21 07:18 PM
1	The WAATGM phenomenon resolved in terms of creating better women by men holding them accountable and encouraging self-improvement So by the same token, women can hold men accountable, yes? Not saying men are 100% wrong or any of that, but this whole approach seems to just flip it from “men are 100% of the problem” to “women are 100% of the problem” and that doesn’t balance anything. My husband and I spent the last year fixing our marriage. Both of us brought things up that were both good and bad. There were needs not being met on both sides, and now we actively both work towards making sure eachother’s needs are being met.…	/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre	26/05/21 05:45 PM