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Great read. That elicited recollections of this podcast: https://www.artofmanliness.com/people/fatherhood/how-to-turn-a-boy-into-a-man/ in which the interviewee, Jon Tyson, author of The Intentional Father, argues what OP is here, that ritual has been absent, and boys are subsequently directionless as a result. Excellent listen and the show notes for this podcast also have a ton of resources.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/23 06:35 PM
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There are plenty of questions to ask other than something generic.
/r/seduction12/09/22 11:59 PM
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Statements don't elicit responses, questions do. If you want responses, ask questions.
/r/seduction12/09/22 05:28 PM
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Have you actually talked to any women in person? Online dating sites? I mean women wouldn't know of high net worth without you informing them (not that I would).
/r/seduction05/08/22 05:28 PM
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Negative thing happens (he pulls away) can only be concluded its because of a negative thing. He's pulling away because he's mad, hurt, sad etc It's not, he's pulling away because he's romantically interested in me and I should think about romance with him. That's a very narrow interpretation and lacks a lot of nuance. It sounds like you're suggesting that he suddenly has nothing to do with her and she's interpreting it was something is wrong, which is not what I am saying at all.
/r/seduction23/07/22 04:40 PM
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OP should start flirting and showing general indicators of his own interest rather than purposefully throw a wrench in their current dynamic. OP should build off of what's already there and gradually add more flirty behavior that eventually leads up to showing obvious attraction towards her. Absolutely not. See the many instances of women expressing disdain for their male "platonic" friends developing romantic interest toward them. OP should never indicate any interest. Instead, OP needs to piqu…
/r/seduction23/07/22 04:05 PM
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"Yellow? That's a bold choice. Every girl I've known who wears yellow turned out to be a freak." "Wow, you're wearing yellow? That's so 2005!" Etc
/r/seduction23/07/22 07:00 AM
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Why not? You suddenly become "busy" and thus not as available. If she asks for details, you can laugh and say something like "You're so nosy, are you this way with all of your friends?" Keep her guessing.
/r/seduction22/07/22 02:33 PM
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Treat her the same as you'd treat any girl you're interested in. Bust on her, tease her, push/pull. Avoid overly "friend" stuff like listening to her like a therapist, being too available, etc. Don't have long phone convos, use the phone to set up meetups only. Vary response times when texting. Don't be afraid to leave her on "read." Don't be afraid to send her calls to vm.
/r/seduction22/07/22 02:24 PM
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Here
/r/seduction19/07/22 10:00 PM
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I used to feel the same way re social media (and that was over 10 years ago). Best thing to be to a woman is what everyone else isn't, not someone who's the same as everyone else. It's cliche, but be yourself. If social media isn't your thing, you shouldn't feel insecure about that. You shouldn't feel insecure about being who you are, and the boundaries that you decide work for you.
/r/seduction18/07/22 12:45 PM
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A girl I met today had a 2k+ IG following, a snap score of 400K and 1.5k fb friends with heaps of photos, likes and comments. This isn't uncommon anymore. It's an attention -based economy and they love attention (and probably most attempt to monetize it). I wouldn't even bother, I'm not interested in someone who needs that kind of attention.
/r/seduction18/07/22 12:39 PM
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How big are the chances she will actually hit me up for a drink Likely close to 0. Whats should my next steps be? Move on.
/r/seduction11/07/22 09:34 PM
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I followed her out and stopped her. She said she's upset because she thinks I'm a player (I'm not) - I told her I'm not, and offered to show her my phone. She asked me what we are, and I said I'm a relationship guy and am looking for that, but we'll go with the flow. We made up and all was good again. This was your mistake.
/r/seduction20/04/22 01:00 AM
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Try here maybe?
/r/seduction15/04/22 01:47 AM
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It sounds like she might be the type that expects the man to initiate everything, like very submissive and/or "traditional." No matter what this sub says, not all women will respond in literally the same way to our behaviors.
/r/seduction14/04/22 07:11 PM
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Sure thing. I think that makes sense too. Good luck!
/r/seduction15/03/22 03:00 PM
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These interactions can be great learning experiences. You're experiencing behaviors and determining whether they're acceptable to you, which means your expectations and criteria for future prospective women are evolving too. If you think she's attracted to you, maybe don't block her, but don't leave the door open or anything. If she wants you, you'll know, because her behavior will confirm it.
/r/seduction15/03/22 02:57 PM
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If she were into you, none of that would have happened. I'd move on and block her. ETA: If you feel that you have to "convince" her to do anything, you've already lost.
/r/seduction15/03/22 02:49 PM
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She thought about ghosting you? Move on.
/r/seduction15/03/22 02:36 PM
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Yes
/r/MensRights11/03/22 05:36 AM
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Super classy
/r/MensRights14/02/22 03:06 AM
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Well that, and the sub you're in.
/r/MensRights08/02/22 02:50 AM
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I just feared to be disliked or banned in this sub. God forbid.
/r/MensRights07/02/22 02:12 PM
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Here we go.
/r/MensRights07/02/22 02:10 PM
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Get a ZeroWater filtration system. Or something equivalent.
/r/MensRights07/02/22 02:10 PM
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But the good news is that both of you can make a decision together that you're going to put in the hours. Things like this sound good, but aren't actually that viable. PUA has it right; you can't logic or schedule a woman into wanting you. You have to be able to identify what drives her emotions and make her want you (make yourself attractive to her). It seems that some people are lazy and entitled and expect women to have sex with them just for existing after getting into an LTR or marriage. (I…
/r/MensRights31/01/22 12:43 PM
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Daaaaaamn. Good going.
/r/seduction29/01/22 03:29 PM
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He might know the allegations are false, but the public may not. Once someone is labeled, it's difficult to change perceptions. Do you think that if he were front and center in the show that opinions would have reverted back to before he was accused? For example if someone is labeled a pedophile, even if they're cleared, the bell has already been rung, the toothpaste is out of the tube. You can't change that. Real lives are affected.
/r/MensRights27/01/22 01:21 PM
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And Aziz went on a bad date. She didn't sue him or press charges as far as I know. She just said he was a sex pest on a bad date. Is she not allowed to say that for some reason? Season 3 of Master Of None is out. Guess who isn't in it? These accusations have real-life consequences that bas-faith accusers don't appreciate ot care about.
/r/MensRights27/01/22 12:55 PM
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Women who go to all women gym are not saying that all men are harassers. They're saying they can work out more comfortably in the presence of other women. I think that's part of the business model of Planet Fitness. They don't actively exclude men, but they have policies that are designed to screen them out, like the "lunk alarm" (if someone grunts too loud the alarm goes off and I think the person is warned or asked to leave) and they don't have larger weights in either dumbbells or plates. Hmm…
/r/MensRights27/01/22 01:33 AM
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Because being progressive doesnt meant constantly demonizing white males. I totally agree. Ozark Never watched it. Heard great things though. Now I've heard not so great things. Lol
/r/MensRights25/01/22 10:32 PM
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Exactly. Like I can see where some are coming from in general.rwgarding tropes, but it's devolved into straight up bitching. My favorite is how "alpha" some of these posters try to present themselves, like they're so insecure that only being condescending to others satisfies their ego. Yeah, I feel like anyone not in favor of workers rights are just waiting on their turn to exploit others for their own gain. Disgusting really.
/r/MensRights25/01/22 06:47 PM
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It sounds like yours are hurt based on your defensive response. You do you.
/r/MensRights25/01/22 04:56 PM
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Shows are made for different audiences. Otherwise all shows would basically be the same. There is a segment for gay people. I'm not gay, but I'm sure there are some people who enjoy it. And it keeps running so clearly there is a market. Companies are not stupid; if it isn't generating revenue, they wouldn't do it. I avoid shows and movies I'd rather not watch or that I disagree with. The bulk of shows are not "woke," no matter how much culture warriors scream (and even then, they'll make sure to…
/r/MensRights25/01/22 03:17 PM
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So don't watch.
/r/MensRights25/01/22 01:45 PM
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honestly i am progressive Are you sure about that? Your comments sure don't reflect that at all.
/r/MensRights25/01/22 01:37 PM
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The stupid in this post is too much.
/r/MensRights25/01/22 01:35 PM
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OP loved her but now she's just an It. Lol
/r/seduction20/01/22 07:03 PM
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^ This
/r/seduction20/01/22 07:02 PM
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I didn't realize this was Male Dating Strategy. Bullshit like this is why this sub isn't being taken seriously.
/r/MensRights13/01/22 06:03 PM
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Ending the existence of that "few cells" is ending that unique individual genetic code. That unique genetic code could have had the potential to become the next MLK Jr., Dalai Lama, or Mother Teresa. Or Jeffrey Dahmer.
/r/MensRights13/01/22 06:01 PM
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That sub and TDS are nothing but karma farming imo.
/r/MensRights26/11/21 02:15 PM
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Harassment is unwanted. By expressing interest, OP demonstrated that he was okay with it. Once the outcome wasn't what he wanted did he decide it was harassment. Sounds like what some women do to men tbh.
/r/MensRights06/11/21 04:31 PM
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And that's someone you'd want to be with? You think if she was with you that she wouldn't behave that way?
/r/seduction06/11/21 02:43 PM
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It was, until OP returned the interest. Now he's just coming off as jilted.
/r/MensRights06/11/21 02:39 PM
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If you read the post, it states that she was driving on a dark road and came close to hitting a man on a bicycle who was in the road.
/r/MensRights05/11/21 07:40 PM
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I was banned for making a comment about kids who molewy other kids likely being victims themselves, and although they need to be held accountable for their behavior, they need deprogramming instead of jail. ETA: Obviously accountability doesn't mean no punishment, but I don't believe that jailing a kid (like 12-13 or younger) makes sense.
/r/MensRights05/11/21 04:49 PM
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Agreed.
/r/MensRights05/11/21 04:47 PM
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That entire sub is nothing more than karma and award farming. All anyone has to do is make a post that say "Men are horrible" and the karma and awards follow.
/r/MensRights05/11/21 04:35 PM
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I agree that porn isn't healthy, but your comments smack of religious bias.
/r/MensRights05/11/21 02:46 PM
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Except they allow self-hating men to post, as long as they ensure comments contain self-deprecation and apologies for being male.
/r/MensRights05/11/21 02:44 PM
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To be fair I can be guilty AF of that too. I've been better about remedying it in the moment though, especially with social media/online. It's amazing how toxic we can gradually become without even realizing it.
/r/seduction02/11/21 05:27 PM
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Your initial comment was condescending and offered zero constructive value. I can't imagine how anyone would be surprised that a response wouldn't exactly be flattering.
/r/seduction02/11/21 05:24 PM
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I'm in NE Florida. If you're in the area (or even if not), I'll be glad to help with ideas.
/r/seduction02/11/21 05:15 PM
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I'm guessing none of your four degrees are in communication, because you suck at it. Your responses have been condescending to OP from the start. Interestingly the actual content is informative, but the delivery is horrible.
/r/seduction02/11/21 05:14 PM
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Bet 99% of this sub missed this reference
/r/MensRights02/11/21 01:32 PM
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There is a significant difference between some random in a park and someone paid to do a job and has been vetted.
/r/MensRights29/10/21 12:26 PM
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Would you let your kid sit on some strange guy's lap? Serious question. I wouldn't. I also wouldn't let my kid sit on some strange woman's lap either.
/r/MensRights29/10/21 01:01 AM
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In 20 seconds? Damn.
/r/seduction27/10/21 01:21 PM
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Define "the left." Center-right (liberals) are NOT "the left" unless you're to the right of them.
/r/MensRights27/10/21 01:15 PM
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Sending nudes at 14. Unbelievable.
/r/PussyPass07/10/21 08:15 PM
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Came here to say this
/r/seduction07/10/21 07:47 PM
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I think that comment was the suggested response.
/r/seduction07/10/21 07:43 PM
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Leftists don't claim to be liberal. Liberals are to the right of leftists.
/r/MensRights21/09/21 06:50 PM
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Threaten my dominion? You can't be serious with this. And lay off the reverse psychology bit you tacked on at the end, too. Honestly I don't care about this conversation and if it makes your ego feel better about a perceived internet win, you do you.
/r/MensRights14/09/21 09:25 PM
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See exes of former athletes who receive obscene amounts of "child support", with the justification being because they're "accustomed to a certain lifestyle." And judgements agree. It's insane.
/r/MensRights14/09/21 09:20 PM
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That you suggest it's killing a baby says it all.
/r/MensRights14/09/21 09:08 PM
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I'm commenting on a post and sharing my own perspective. I'd rather focus on actual men's rights rather than feminist bogeymen, but I'm clearly in the minority according to virtually all of the comments. Seems people here just want to continually be outraged instead of solutioning.
/r/MensRights14/09/21 09:07 PM
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Yeah, it must be trolling if someone's perspectives diverge from the herd's.
/r/MensRights14/09/21 08:27 PM
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You're a perfect example of a regressive.
/r/MensRights14/09/21 08:26 PM
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I believe in equilibrium. For example, I look at TDS as generally being toxic, focusing on demonizing men and little else, which in my opinion is counterproductive. On the other side, there are those who do the inverse. Neither serves any productive purpose. Men's rights, to me, is ensuring that men have the same rights as women, particularly legally and professionally, not whining about feminazis, which seems to be frequent here. I think that focus takes away from the attention to defending and…
/r/MensRights14/09/21 07:49 PM
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Complaining about feminists and feminism has what to do with men's rights exactly?
/r/MensRights14/09/21 07:34 PM
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"It's not hard to believe" doesn't equal evidence though. Just because there is a higher rate of suicide by men vs women doesn't mean the cause is "radical feminism." In fact, one could interpret that as women possibly having more emotional fortitude than men and are therefore not as prone to suicide.
/r/MensRights14/09/21 06:56 PM
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Men are dying at up to 10 per day because of radical feminists? Source please.
/r/MensRights14/09/21 06:30 PM
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True, you're not OP, my apologies on that one.
/r/MensRights14/09/21 04:31 PM
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Which has zip to do with men's rights. I guess you prefer gaslighting instead of actually discussing, I don't know, men's rights?
/r/MensRights14/09/21 04:27 PM
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Okay, you have a disdain for them. Suggesting that women's issues aren't that bad because slavery is worse is one indicator.
/r/MensRights14/09/21 04:26 PM
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I am a feminist. I believe in women having equal rights. If you think that's a bad thing, you're not a men's rights advocate, you're just a jerk. Presuming you're correct that "most men couldn't vote" at that time...the difference is that women were expressly forbidden to vote by law. Men were not beaten for attempting to vote. You're using a false equivalency here. "Women had access to jobs." Yes, schoolteachers and secretaries. How many of those jobs do you think we're available versus the num…
/r/MensRights14/09/21 04:07 PM
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This is starting to look like the men's equivalent to Female Dating Strategy where the focus is less about the purpose of the group and more about demonizing individual actors. Suggesting that women's suffrage isn't as bad as slavery, so it's not an issue, is disgusting. Women were beaten trying to vote in the 19th century. They finally were allowed to vote in the early 20th century. Women were largely unable to obtain jobs themselves, since that was traditionally viewed as taking a job away fro…
/r/MensRights14/09/21 02:50 PM
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