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Q4M in straight relationships: Do you believe that your gf/wife would have still been interested in you if you were 6 inches shorter? I’m not saying you shrink 6 inches in height right now. I’m saying if you were 6 inches shorter when you first met your now partner, do you think you two would be dating/married right now?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 03:36 PM
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Valid
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 01:34 AM
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And what were you hoping to see?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 01:22 AM
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Q4A: On average, who do you think works harder/does more within heterosexual relationships? Men or women?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 12:49 PM
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If a man doesn’t go down on his gf, is it fair for said gf to stop going down on him? What about vice versa?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 03:20 PM
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Some do, some a very good at hiding it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 03:38 PM
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According to the Bureau of Labor Statistics, 73.9% of American women with children under 18 are in the workforce. You’re spot on there. But according to that same source, 93.7% of American men with kids under 18 are in the workforce. Men are also having kids and working, at a much higher rate than women are. Saying women are “providing value” at a higher rate isn’t backed up by the numbers. Overall about 67% of American men are in the workforce, which is a record low. Meanwhile 57.1% of American…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 01:32 PM
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That’s exactly what a man masquerading as a woman would say…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 05:04 PM
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Q4A: Who do you think is better at performing oral sex? The average sexually active straight man or the average sexually active straight woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 03:37 PM
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I’ve never understood how guys develop this tbh. I understand placing women in different categories in your mind, but not wanting to have sex/do sexual things with your partner because of “how you view her” is completely foreign to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 01:05 AM
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Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 04:21 PM
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Try benching it’s fun
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 03:45 PM
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My gf insisted on sharing each other’s n count. I pushed the “ignorance is bliss” angle on her multiple times but she wasn’t biting. She assumed my count was much higher than it actually was. If she didn’t, I highly doubt she would’ve initiated the conversation. She was suddenly very apprehensive after I shared mine and it took a bit after that for her to say hers. As expected, it made things very weird for a while. At least for me. Really wish we never had that convo lol. But I do appreciate he…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 03:06 PM
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And most of them are lying. Even to themselves. They would be much happier if they did have friends. Humans are social creatures. Our brains are wired for connection and socialization.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 06:32 PM
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People should be free to not hang out with you too. Doesn’t make not having friends suck any less.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 04:32 PM
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And are these women straight?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 04:01 PM
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You gotta stand up for yourself man. It’s happening because you’re letting it happen. Even if this was the first time it happened I’d say the same thing. But three times? Cmon, that’s on you. If you don’t want a party happening at your house, then there will not be a party at your house. End of story.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 03:52 PM
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I’m very surprised by the lack of Mike Vrabel and Dianna Russini talk on this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 12:50 PM
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Q4A: What‘s a double standard that negatively affects the opposite gender that you acknowledge exists?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 04:07 PM
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My girl decided to tell me a month into dating and being integrated into each other’s lives that her n count was 20+. From the way she presented herself, the way she talked about sex and her “process”, and how long it took us to have sex, I assumed it was much lower. Like 3-7 max. Clever move on her part. Don’t assume fellas.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 12:14 PM
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I’m a tall dude, but I’m gonna go out on a limb and say comments like this are exactly why some guys don’t like being the shorter one.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 02:04 PM
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This is definitely a post
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 02:37 PM
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I don’t think they realize how our attraction works, because Brad Pitt has always been the most beautiful man ever but all that attraction was gone when I heard about his DV. Sure maybe that’s how it works for you and other like minded women. But there are literally thousands, dare I say millions of women that still find him very attractive to this day. Chris Brown has millions of female fans, in fact it looks like he’s more popular amongst women than men if you go by the demographics at his con…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 08:47 PM
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Lol the “Man U” auto correct. I know a soccer/football fan when I see one. Hopefully that’s not who you support tho😬.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 05:20 PM
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You and I both know guys swipe desperately and indiscriminately. Using “likes” as metric to test if I’m actually undateable is a moot point. Sure there’s guys that do that, but I didn’t say anything about likes and you’re avoiding my question. Are you telling me that none I repeat none of the guys you match with would want or have wanted to date you? Not one of them? Every single one of your matches is a result of a desperate swipe? As an average woman with lovely curves, long hair, and dresses …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 03:53 PM
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You avarage dude will have problems dating, but to have the same problems you need be totally defunct as a woman This was the comment you responded to, correct? No if that dude has problems dating it is because women don't appreciate how he talks about other women This was your response, right? Using “that dude” in place of the “your average dude”. Or am I seeing things? So it wouldn’t be a reach to assume that you believe that if “your average dude” (which is most men) struggles with women, it’…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 03:38 PM
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Could you name a few of those reasons?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 03:33 PM
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Be honest. If you downloaded Tinder right now and used it for a week, literally just one week for maybe 30 minutes a day. You don’t think you’d match with any men that want to date you? Not one? Edit: And if the answer is yes you could and have matched with plenty of guys that would want/wanted to date you, then you are clear cut example of exactly what OP is talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 02:43 PM
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There’s always going to be some, but the way it’s accepted mainstream to thirst after the guy with little to no pushback? Especially from other women? No. Even if you take out the rape and he just shot her the same exact way he shot the male CEO, he would be viewed much more negatively and not have nearly as many women publicly thirsting for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 05:51 PM
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Q4A: Do you believe in love at first sight? Have any of you experienced it? I’m of the opinion that it doesn’t exist, and what people think is “love at first sight” is really just very strong lust. But I’m open to hearing other perspectives.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 04:46 PM
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Q4W: Would you consider a man insecure if he refused to wear a cock sleeve when his parter asked him to? What if was offended by the request? Edit: Follow up questions. If you do think a man is insecure for not wanting to use one, do you see this insecurity as a bad thing? Or do you think it’s a natural/rational response for a man to have?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 12:05 PM
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Yes they very much do
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 04:47 AM
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I’m sure. Then why has every single woman I’ve dated, either long term or short term, absolutely loved being told how physically attracted to them I was? How come they would get upset when I wouldn’t express it, or at least not as much as they’d like me to? How come one of the most common remedies to a woman’s low confidence is to remind them how beautiful (physically) they are? You keep trying to convince me that most women don’t enjoy being physically desired by the men they love, and even by …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 08:32 PM
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Got it. That’s why women (for the most part) are constantly asking their partners how they look, right? That’s why women are responsible for an overwhelming majority of make up sales, right? Or why they’re an overwhelming majority of plastic surgery patients, right? That’s why women are notoriously known for taking much longer to get ready to go out, due to them spending hours enhancing their physical appearance, right? Or why women are much more likely to take hundreds of pictures/selfies to fi…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 08:24 PM
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But again. They still want to be wanted for their body. Women YEARN to be loved regardless of how they look. You’re making it sound like women just want to be desired even if it isn’t for their looks. This is far from the case. It’s that women want their partner to want their body regardless of how it looks. The need to be desired physically is still very much there. If a guy told his gf that he didn’t find her physically appealing but her personality made up for that, she would be comepletely c…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 07:22 PM
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Q4A: Would you consider it cheating if your partner confessed that they have a crush on someone else? Would how long they’ve had the crush without telling you affect how you viewed the situation? Edit: This is aimed at monogamous people
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 01:53 PM
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Yup, first gf. Ended up dating through the rest of high school and the first month of college.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 04:53 AM
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16 16 16 16 16 6 16-17 16 was a big age for me
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 04:45 AM
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All you people are nuts Now you’re getting it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 03:36 AM
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Absolutely. I think it’s hilarious when I hear women say their literal husbands should not only have no say in what they wear, but they should like it. And anything less than that is sexist, controlling, and insecure. Lol give me a break. I promptly ignore anyone who shares that sentiment.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 11:33 AM
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Imagine arguing about gender dynamics when Bruno Mars has an album on the way. You people need to prioritize.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 01:38 AM
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What else are we not gonna talk about? I mean, anything else that is a sensitive subject for them. What do you mean it never works? If something is a sore spot for one of my friends, or if I know said thing is often a sore spot for people in my friend’s demographic, I don’t bring that thing up unless I know for sure they’re secure in said area. Nor do I bring up things like it. I don’t find it very difficult tbh. I feel like most people do this every day. I wouldn’t go on and on about my body tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 06:52 PM
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I get it. But if I was very rich and one of my friends was struggling to make ends meet, I wouldn’t be shocked if he didn’t particularly enjoy hearing about the lavish vacation I just took or the incredible bump in my salary I just got. These are major events in my life that I would love to talk about with a friend, but I can’t sit here and be shocked when he’s rubbed the wrong way. Especially if he’s insecure about the things I’m specifically “bragging” about. Doesn’t make him any less of a fri…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 06:24 PM
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“Friends share things with each other silly” If I was very rich and one of my friends was struggling to make ends meet, I wouldn’t be shocked if he didn’t particularly enjoy hearing about my the lavish vacation I just took or the incredible bump in my salary I just got. These are major/important events in my life that I would love to talk about with a friend, but I can’t sit here and be shocked when he’s rubbed the wrong way. Especially if he’s insecure about the things I’m specifically “braggin…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 06:19 PM
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Nope, casually dating but have been starting to rethink that recently. Maybe it was the holidays idk. I’d say I’m partial, hence the purple pill flair. There’s some aspects of the red pill that are bat shit crazy to me that luckily stopped me from going full red pill. But there’s also plenty of aspects that I find to be undeniable and uncomfortable truths blue pillers refuse to acknowledge.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 02:05 PM
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You don’t get it. She’s telling you to just stop caring about that stuff dummy. Hope this helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 01:40 PM
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How hard is it understand that a man just wants to be desired by their spouse? I seriously don’t understand what’s so hard to get.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 03:42 PM
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I’m never flattered when a woman needs months/years of knowing me to find me desirable. Quite the opposite actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 02:08 PM
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Apparently that’s too much too ask for lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 01:24 AM
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Literally, and they’ll be the same women that dog men for not performing up to their standards in bed. A lot of women aren’t nearly as good at sex as they think they are because they get no sort of critique or pushback from the men sleeping with them. Men are also far less likely to blab intimate details about their partner to their friends/other people, whereas women for the most part have no problem with this. Another reason why men feel pressured to perform in bed whereas many women believe t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 08:33 PM
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Gotcha. I could be wrong but I’m assuming the post is talking about situations where the man pays for the whole trip and “takes the woman on vacation”
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 03:28 PM
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Did the friend pay for the vacation?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 10:43 AM
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Agreed. I think Emilia Clarke is both hot and cute. Though admittedly more cute. Same with Kristen Bell.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 06:28 PM
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One it’s stupid as fuck. Show, don’t tell. Be don’t say. Act genuine and no one will think it’s fake You’re proving my point. People like you refuse to believe that a genuine man can struggle dating, leading to some complaints. If he even brings up that he believes he’s a genuine guy that treats people with respect, and yet women don’t respond to him, he’s automatically labeled as a fake “nice guy” that needs to stfu. That’s nonsense. Two, by constantly whining about it just like the “Niceguys” …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 05:15 PM
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You lost me a bit. Can you elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 05:03 PM
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I’m not pretending like I don’t understand “nice guys”, or acting like they don’t exist. Of course they do. The problem is people like the ones that comment I linked is describing (like you) automatically labeling every romantically/sexually unsuccessful guy who claims to be a genuinely nice person as a “nice guy”. You’re the one pretending like genuinely good dudes that don’t do well with women don’t exist. They’re all “nice guys” to you. And I don’t see how you can look around you in real life…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 04:21 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/ypEuUEjr7m
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 04:11 PM
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I understand. And I appreciate the honesty/self awareness. It’s just not the norm. Far from it. Look at the comments on this post and see for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 04:01 PM
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Oh you don’t have to tell me, I understand that. I’m in full agreement with you. It’s just that there’s a lot of people that want to act like this is not the case. Especially women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 03:36 PM
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But I thought “Nice Guys” also pretend to be nice in order to get with women? Why doesn’t it work for them? Most men are manipulators? Seriously? Are most women manipulators as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 03:09 PM
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Lol spot on
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 03:06 PM
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But don’t “nice guys” also pretend to be nice to get with women? Why doesn’t it work for them?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 03:04 PM
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Be honest. If a loser unattractive woman fired up a Tinder profile right now, how long do you think it would take her to find a guy to sleep with her? A day? Two days? A week? Now how about for an equally loser unattractive guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 03:02 PM
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Of course. But they were attracted to said asshole enough to sleep with him in the first place. That’s the point. You don’t get to say “I’m not attracted to assholes” when you just got done fucking one.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 02:52 PM
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Yeah this feels disingenuous. How many times have you heard women in your life say “Omg he’s such an asshole” when talking about a guy they’ve either already slept with, already dated, or both? Me personally, as a guy that’s always had female friends, I hear it all.the.time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 02:36 PM
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Is this before or after the dick pic?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 02:38 PM
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<In this case, did you ever thought about kissing a girl? Answer the question
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 02:27 PM
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Average men have sex. They are not struggling. Many of them absolutely are struggling
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 09:11 PM
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What the fuck I just saw this on YouTube maybe 30 minutes ago
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 03:45 PM
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Do you mean being hot doesn’t mean much in general or just to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 12:04 PM
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Brooooooootal
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 04:28 AM
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Are men not expected to perform in the bedroom? Are they often mocked for not doing so? Do women not have a bad habit of sharing sexual details with their friends about their partners and their sex lives? Including comparing current partners to previous ones? Have men not been berated for years for not pleasing their partners and being bad lovers? Shit, there’s comments in this comment section right now doing just that. I find it so disingenuous when women are like ,“Omg why do men even care??? …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 11:55 PM
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Also just the mental weight of knowing my own natural appendage isn’t enough would suck and hurt. No no no no no no you don’t get it. Fuck your mental well being. Right in the ass. You actually care about your penis not being enough for your woman? As an adult? Grow up pussy. You’re really gonna let your declining mental healthy stop your woman from getting off on the dick master 3000? 10 inch edition? Your ego is out of control and you desperately need therapy. Also you deserve to be alone. At …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 11:26 PM
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I know you talk about it a lot, but every now and then the BMI talk just catches me off guard😂audibly laughed when I read this. Not saying you’re wrong or right it’s just unexpected.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 05:22 PM
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“You actually long for a nice date with a guy who adores you.” Totally. And the guys that will take you on those dates are definitely not suckers. I can’t stress enough how they’re not the biggest suckers around, nor should they feel that way. They are lucky. Dare I say they are the luckiest men alive. Blush inducing stories and high libido? In the rear view mirror baby. What a privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 08:10 PM
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Welp, this proves it. Bears are safer than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 02:28 PM
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How she looks is irrelevant. I’d do what I could to kick my cousin out the room so she could spend the night there. Since he caused the mess and it’s only for one night, it’s the least he could do. I’m sure plenty of people in my family would agree. If he’s such a dick that he refuses on sleeping somewhere else for the night (I’d even offer my room), I’d probably give the ex gf my room and find somewhere else to sleep for the night. There’s gotta be a couch somewhere and I have plenty of family …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 08:29 PM
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If it makes you feel better, I just got back from a lovely trip on Sunday and wasn’t sick once🤗Hope this helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 05:51 PM
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Again. You are missing the entire point because you just want to say men use women for sex and men=bad. When men reject their female friends. Still with me? Do they claim to feel betrayed or call the whole friendship a lie the way many women do with the male friends they reject? No they do not. And to say otherwise is to deny reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 05:33 AM
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I’m not trying to dictate how you individually feel. I’m telling you how a lot of, if not most, women operate. And we’re not talking about situations where the man accepts the woman’s romantic/sexual advances, we’re talking about situations where the man turns the woman down (yes I know you think this doesn’t happen because men take sex from any woman offering in your words, but it does indeed happen). Presumably because he’s not attracted to her in that way. Which again, this may surprise you, …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 04:59 AM
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“My lovely girlfriend just told me she’s happy we met after she was done with her hooking up phase, because there’s no way she would’ve given me a shot then. Boy! How lucky am I?!”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 10:43 PM
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What do you disagree with?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 09:04 PM
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I mean I don’t think that’s accurate. If he developed feelings after the friendship began then I don’t think anyone would find that off putting. Women. Women find it off putting. At least when they don’t find the guy attractive. That’s the whole point of the OP. How often have you heard women complain about feeling betrayed by men “they thought were their friends” and “tried to get in their pants” and swear off of male friendships all together for said reasons or similar? Pretty damn often right…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 04:05 PM
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Yes it does matter. Because women will constantly portray men who catch feelings for their female friends as gross and claim they feel betrayed or the whole friendship was a con to get in her pants. Seriously painting the guy in a bad light. When in reality they do not have a problem with it at all when they find the guy friend attractive. And women do the exact same thing all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 03:27 PM
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Yeah he literally just proved OP’s point
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 03:18 PM
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Do you think that guy is getting matches? Do you think he can afford to be that crass and still be successful? Of course there’s gonna be guys that aren’t self aware and think they call pull something like that off, I don’t think many ppd guys would argue otherwise. What we would argue however is that a “Chad” could have that exact same bio, in fact he could have one even more vulgur, and still have a ton of success. Whereas an average to below average guy will have very very very very little to…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 10:36 PM
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So I think this is where the disagreement lies, how common it is. You don’t think it’s very common at all, hence the shark attack points. That’s also probably why you believe the fear is irrational and is self made fantasy not based in reality. While I think it’s much more common than a lot of people (usually women) realize/would like to admit. And a lot of guy’s source material isn’t movies, it’s their lived experience and observations. It looks like we can agree that it does happen at least so…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 04:01 PM
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So you don’t think the sentiment from that post is a real thing? Even if the post itself is made up? You think women never think/act this way? That’s the conversation I’m trying to have. You said “irrational fears” so I’m assuming you don’t think it’s a thing, or at least you think it’s very rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 03:31 PM
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…That’s what I said?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 03:18 PM
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A lot of people in this sub, especially women, assume these posts are fake/larps. Which is very understandable. But let’s just say this is 100% real. Women, do you see why men have an issue with this? Because I can’t tell if women are flat out denying that this is a thing, or if they just don’t see the problem with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 02:55 PM
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“Nah babe your pussy is perfect. Some women out there are wayyyyyy too wet and wayyyyy too tight. The sex would barely last more than a minute. Just sliding it in there would get me close😫, not ideal. Yours is perfect! I can last at least 10-15 minutes with you!”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 08:37 PM
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Brutal
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 08:33 PM
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So you don’t care about people who are currently in poverty right? I mean look at you, you were born poor and didn’t stay poor. Why don’t they just do what you did? If they actually took accountability and tried new things they wouldn’t be poor, why sympathize with any of them at all? In fact, I’m sick of hearing them whine about their “bad situation”. You yourself say you care about homelessness. Why? There’s thousands of stories out there of people being born/spending their youth homeless but …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 07:43 PM
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Oh no I read it dw. It’s just irrelevant to why you don’t have any sympathy at all for struggling men. Which is why I was confused when you insisted on repeating it. Also, your logic (especially as a self proclaimed retired promiscuous woman, who presumably had little to no “barrier to entry” when finding sex, like most women) is like being a trust fund baby and saying I don’t care about poverty at all because everyone is poor until they aren’t. While ignoring the circumstances outside of one’s …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 07:01 PM
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Uh…Ok? Is there a reason why you shared that? Is anybody asking you to make men’s dating problems your #1 priority? Is that your explanation as to why you “don’t even feel bad” at all? Do you think something needs to be your top priority to…sympathize with it? Seriously?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 06:36 PM
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We know you don’t. Women like you either can’t or choose not to sympathize with struggling men in any capacity.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 06:15 PM
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The links in OP’s post do not agree with you
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 11:48 AM
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Believe me, we know. But can you at least sympathize with men who feel that way? Not like “I pity that they’re so stupid/such losers”, I mean actual sympathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 04:16 PM
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“What do you mean you’re worried she’s not as attracted to you as she is to the guys she had an immediate sexual attraction to and slept with much much faster than she slept with you? That doesn’t mean anything. That’s not how women work dummy. She chose YOU didn’t she?” Lol lucky me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 03:02 PM
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I’ve never understood how this is used as a valid criticism against the loneliness epidemic and its existence. “The male loneliness epidemic is just guys complaining that they don’t get laid”. I mean…yeah? That’s definitely a big part of it for a lot of guys. Humans crave sexual validation, not just men. It’s just mostly men who don’t get it so that’s who we constantly hear from. And when it is brought up as a concern/compliant it’s usually immediately shut down and treated like men are demandin…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 12:50 PM
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😂😂😂Laughed out loud at this one. There’s no way this is a genuine comment. OP has to be a troll.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 07:05 AM
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Lol I replied to the wrong comment my b, I agree with you. As you were.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 05:12 AM
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There’s no way you believe this
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 04:51 AM
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So what does your comment have to do with why modern women body shame men and why it’s so accepted? When they are so adamant on it not happening to other women. There is no comparable liberation and acceptance movement among men like women have. Women arguably faced a lot more body shaming, clothing restriction, job discrimination... but feminist women collectively fought against that for centuries. No movement for that exist among men, women shouldn't be expected to fight for men when even men …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 02:33 PM
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This makes it ok for women to body shame men? And for it to be so mainstream, accepted, and often encouraged? And I thought the “stop body shaming” movement over the years was sold as something for everyone, only for it to be enforced almost exclusively for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 01:59 PM
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Nah I’d just get the snip
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 01:34 PM
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Didn’t have being called a Nazi apologist on my bingo card for today. I’ll give this one more go. Listen, it’s not who you’re insulting. It’s the insults themselves. In the “Fuck Nazis! They all have small dicks anyway!” example I said earlier. I’m not defending Nazis (which I thought was quite obvious but here we are), I’m defending guys with small dicks. Just like if you said “Fuck Nazi’s, they’re all short gremlins anyway”. I wouldn’t be defending Nazis, I’d be defending short men. Or if you …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 03:20 PM
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No he’s not. He’s just pointing out how the same people that preach “don’t body shame women” have no problem doing it to men. In fact, it’s mainstream to do it to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 03:02 PM
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He’s not defending Nazis don’t do that. He’s saying that if you say “Fuck Nazis! They all have small dicks anyway!”. The problem isn’t that you’re insulting the Nazi’s, far from it. The problem is small dicks being associated with evil, deplorable, disgusting people. You’re insulting men with small dicks by implying that small dick=bad. That’s clear body shaming. And it’s not only shaming something men can’t control, but it’s shaming something that’s a very well known insecurity amongst many men…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 02:31 PM
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Glad you brought this up. I’m all for age gap relationships. As long as everything’s consensual do whatever you want. However, a lot of guys act like they can’t understand why anyone (mostly women) would have an issue with them. While ignoring the fact that they would 100% not approve of their own 18-22 year old daughter bringing home a man 10-15+ years her senior. At the very least they would raise an eyebrow at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 02:08 PM
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Is wanting an exciting and fulfilling sex life with your wife an unrealistic desire? That’s a big ask? That makes the man entitled? That makes the wife his…sex slave?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 07:28 PM
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It’s 2025, let’s be honest. I just assume the women I’m talking to have hooked up plenty until I’m proven otherwise. I wouldn’t be shocked if a lot of men have this same approach. I’ve been told that women often lie or at best withhold information when it comes to these kinds of things, so asking them directly isn’t really gonna help. So this is the best approach in my mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 12:13 PM
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Wow. Have a good one.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 08:00 PM
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Idk how popular this sentiment is but I feel the exact same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 06:25 PM
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I did an edit and added a bit more. I agree men usually avoid deep thoughts, I just don’t think they need to think that deeply to come to these conclusions. All they have to do is observe how people react.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 06:17 PM
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I actually think he’s spot on. Most men know they can’t complain about not having sex without being ridiculed. And I don’t think they think too deeply to come to that conclusion. Even just advertising that you don’t have sex is a well known no no for most guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 06:14 PM
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Again, you are doing exactly what I accused you of doing in my last comment. Deliberately avoiding the conversation. You refuse to acknowledge the very clear and reasonable explanations about this topic. I will ask again since you managed to not even address anything I said in my last comment. What do you think about the quotes below? Do you agree? Disagree? Why or why not? The point is that "Beta Bucks" are men who are treated less favorably (yes, objectively less favorably) than "Alpha Fucks,"…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 05:48 PM
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Humans crave sexual validation, not just men. It’s just mostly men who don’t get it so that’s who we hear from. And when it’s brought up as a concern/compliant it’s usually immediately shut down and treated like men are demanding women to have sex with them. Nah bro, they’re just upset they’re not having sex. Which is a valid and normal thing to not be happy about. Yet it is constantly demonized especially by women. You’ll often hear, “The male loneliness epidemic is just guys complaining that t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 05:18 PM
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Lol where are these even from?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 03:34 PM
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…Anything? I’ll ask again. Yes I know you don’t think AF/BB is real. You’ve said it multiple times. So please spare me the regurgitation that you believe is a feasible answer.What about the original comment you responded to was incorrect? What did he say that you think is untrue? Besides the cheating thing. Which again, even if what you’re saying is true (that people only ever cheat when they’re unhappy or in an unhappy relationship), what does that have to do with AF/BB? Edit: I took out my que…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 02:23 PM
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It looks like you’re still replying to comments which is cool, just not the ones that clearly explain AF/BB in a way that you can’t purposely act like you don’t get. Or if you do respond, you only address a small part of the comment you that you think you can make an argument against. Regardless of how relative it is to the point said comment is trying to make. For example, you pinpointing and only addressing the “stepdad” portion of the comment you responded to above, while blatantly ignoring t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 01:45 PM
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The point is that "Beta Bucks" are men who are treated less favorably (yes, objectively less favorably) than "Alpha Fucks," who are treated more favorably sexually and romantically. But the problem here is, I repeat, "Beta" men are at a disadvantage from the start. They genuinely enjoy significantly less romantic and sexual success, and what's more, their wives treat them worse from the very beginning, even from the dating stage (like being more cautious with these men, caring less about them, e…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 08:12 PM
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Yes I know you don’t think it’s real. But what about the original comment you responded to was incorrect? What did he say that you think is untrue? Besides the cheating thing. Which again, even if what you’re saying is true (that people only ever cheat when they’re unhappy or in an unhappy relationship), what does that have to do with AF/BB? Edit: Are you implying that the “betas” getting cheated on for the “alphas” are just bad partners? That’s why they get cheated on?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 05:39 PM
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Let’s just act like your take on cheating is 100% correct (of course it’s not lol), what about the rest of the comment you responded to? You only addressed the cheating aspect in your response. Which was only one part of a very clear explanation. What’s your take on his perspective of AF/BB? Specifically from “I’m describing alpha fucks bets bucks from the man’s perspective…” onwards. Do you agree? Disagree? Still think it doesn’t exist? Why or why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 05:13 PM
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This is too clear of an explanation. Prepare to be ignored lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 04:18 PM
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Projecting this morning are we?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 03:37 PM
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I mean…yeah? Most guys have felt ignored by women at some point in their lives, all of it for some. I’m not 9 or 10/10 walking around by any means. I’m not sure what that has to do with my comment or the comment I originally responded to. And I’m not sure how I’m being upset on behalf of other men here. Not that that’s inherently a bad thing, I just don’t see where I’m doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 06:09 PM
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This is the way
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 05:35 PM
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I don’t think I understand your question. Can you elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 05:21 PM
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Too much physical intimacy isn’t the issue. A guy isn’t gonna be grossed out by a woman that’s intimate with him all the time. It’s too much physical intimacy WITH OTHER PEOPLE that causes the ick. Key words being “OTHER” and “PEOPLE”. Unless a guy is extremely not attracted to a woman physically or mentally, they can be physically intimate with said woman with no problem. Even if they wouldn’t date them in a million years dude to their promiscuity.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 04:17 PM
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Agreed. I think most men aren’t used to feeling 100% justified by a natural feeling/reaction without some sort of logical explanation behind it. And they believe that if they lack said logical explanation, then that feeling is then invalid. This causes them to rant about divorce rates and STDs and whatnot, rather than talk about why they really don’t like promiscuous women in the context of long term relationships. It just grosses them out. Women…lol…do not share this same trait for the most par…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 03:09 PM
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Disgust. It just naturally grosses a lot of guys out. More guys than will admit it (I’m looking at you white knights).
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 02:31 PM
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And I completely understand that. I don’t think you should be shamed or insulted for feeling that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 02:21 PM
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The trust fund baby vs self made millionaire analogy is spot on. I’m surprised I haven’t heard it before. And just like I said, the person you originally replied to (as well as the women that agree with her) will conveniently “miss” your comment while responding to other people lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 02:12 PM
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Why? He gets the ick from the thought of dating her, not fucking her.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 01:51 PM
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This. This is the main thing many women either choose to ignore (the majority imo) or don’t understand. Because if they acknowledge this they would have to concede the fact that body count does in fact matter for a lot of people, and it’s ok that it matters. They would also have to admit that a high body count for a man doesn’t mean the same thing as a high body count for a woman. Good luck getting them to admit any of those things lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 01:43 PM
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I’d rather she didn’t do everything, but the average chick every day of the week. Indifference during sex would shrivel me up like the ocean in December. Edit: Oh if by “do everything” you mean she’s down for everything, then yeah that’s a bonus. I was thinking you meant she’s in charge the whole time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 03:35 AM
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Sure not for getting their degree. But for being a typical single college party girl? That goes out a lot? Drinking? Student athlete? Sorority? Frat parties? Oh yeah complete whore 95% of the time, and guys do think and talk like that. I wonder why lol. Surely it’s not through…observation and experiences, now that would be crazy. It was purposely phrased as “guys calling women whores simply because they completed college” to make it sound much worse and irrational. When really it’s their behavio…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 01:20 AM
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For sure. I’d give it a solid 90% chance, high enough where it’s safer to assume that it’s happened at the very least once.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 11:50 PM
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You asked why do so many men look down on sex workers, I answered. You incorrectly framed it as a control and ego thing, I made it clear that it’s disgust for most guys not control or ego. And I explained how the disgust for sex workers doesn’t affect a man’s ability to be aroused by them. It’s just biology I don’t know what to tell you. Especially when said sex workers are going out of their way to be as arousing as possible and are literally getting fucked on camera. You can find more in my re…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 02:33 AM
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It’s not the fluids, and it’s not the “fragile male ego”. It’s the disgust. Being a sex worker disgusts most men. Having sex on camera for the world to see disgusts most men. Selling sex/your body disgusts most men. And the fact that so many get rich while doing it disgusts and frustrates most men even more. It’s like you get rewarded for being a shameless degenerate while billions try to make an honest living and perceivably make far less. But boobs, butts, and sex still turn men on because bio…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 12:42 AM
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Well you don’t just pity me. You pity most people bc they can relate to that, and the sensation is much stronger than you’re describing. Ik plenty of women irl like you who claim they couldn’t possibly be so shallow, usually comparing their altruistic restraint to most men’s lack of restraint. They usually imply or flat out say this is the norm for most women. But then you see how those SAME WOMEN really act in the moment. I’ve seen how those same women act around the guys they’re REALLY attract…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 02:14 PM
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Really? Not one time? I find that so hard to believe. You’ve never seen a guy in public, or an actor in a movie, or a famous athlete, etc. that you didn’t instantly get the hots for? Not ONCE?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 01:46 PM
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Is it contagious?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 02:56 AM
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Holy shit. This is my first time seeing anything about this, haven’t watched Flagrant in years. I can’t believe every time I thought it wouldn’t get worse, it got worse. The masturbating comment. Her reminiscing about her college roster, the frat houses, and all the pussy she popped. Talking about how bad she wants to fuck her friend’s husband TO HER FRIEND’S FACE, HIS FACE, AND HER OWN HUSBAND’S FACE. All for the world to see, straight up vile. And women wonder why a lot of guys don’t want to w…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 05:27 PM
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Oh that’s an easy one. If men refused to date crazy women that would filter out 80% of the dating pool. It’s hard enough for most guys to find a date as it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 12:23 PM
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This should be a civil one
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 06:46 PM
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She seems nice
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 03:31 PM
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Oh please 😂😂😂You can’t see me so I’ll just tell you that I rolled my eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 11:12 PM
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They would feel happier if they felt like they had the same options and received the same amount of sexual attention that juiced up men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 11:11 PM
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Depends on the wo…nvm
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 11:53 PM
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Only front to back
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 10:34 PM
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Right, but to OP’s point it’s sounds like all of those gentlemen aren’t in your life anymore. Hence, their turn being over. Sure they weren’t thinking “it’s just my turn”, but that’s exactly what it ended up being no?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 10:33 PM
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Be honest. If a man took you up on that and insisted that you pay for 50% of the dates, would you date him? Women will “offer” to pay all the time knowing damn well it’s not socially expected or acceptable for the man to take that offer, therefore 99% of guys will say no.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 10:06 PM
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400+ upvotes and counting😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 09:57 PM
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In my experience that question comes up in causal relationships where one party (the woman usually) wants to make things official. Like actually be each other’s public boyfriend and girlfriend. I see what you’re saying in terms of separating going on dates and just having sex though, so I get your perspective. And I can’t speak on the amount of casual partners you’ve had to reject because they wanted something more. But I think a lot of people’s causal relationships involve more than just having…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 05:56 PM
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It definitely happens both ways. But in my experience and from what I’ve heard, it’s far more likely for the woman to want more from the relationship than the guy. There’s a reason why the whole “what are we” conversation is a common joke and implies the woman asking that question.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 05:25 PM
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She’s not gonna fuck you bro
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 01:27 AM
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Beyoncé released “Single Ladies” 6 months after getting married to Jay Z. You can’t make this shit up lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 04:03 PM
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I’m fucking crying😂if I was drinking anything it would’ve been spat out
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 10:45 PM
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<image> 😂This is why a lot of men agree with the sentiment in this pic
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 12:52 PM
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I will never have a romantic or sexual relationship with any of my current friends, or any of my future friends. I don’t care if they “secretly liked me the whole time” or “developed feelings the more we got to know each other” or anything else like that. Either you want me or you don’t, I’m not convincing you to find me attractive. I don’t want to date a woman that I “don’t immediately hit that attraction spot for”, and why would I? That same woman does know men personally and will meet men tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 08:37 PM
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Oh good I thought you were gonna say something unhealthy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 12:51 AM
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