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Agreed. From what is coming out it sounds like it was an incredibly toxic and abusive dynamic between two unstable and emotionally immature people. They both need serious help.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/22 03:45 AM
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Came here to say this!!! Where’s our gold medals and parades for dodging the aerial assault of half-rate dick every scrote under the sun tries to sling at us daily?! If anyone shows self-restraint and should be congratulated for not cheating, it’s women. (But absurd point for this person to make anyway…sigh)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/22 06:19 PM
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I’m in my late 20s and I used to have such existential dread over hitting “tHe wAlL” because of a scrote ZVM ex - but without fail.. Every. Single. Woman. I know that’s in her 30s or beyond now tells me how great life is going and how much less of a shit she gives than in her 20s. HVW age like fine wine. Scrotes can die mad 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/22 03:06 PM
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I would be upset, too. It shows a complete lack of creativity and effort on his part, and who knows what kind of nostalgia that trip will bring for him. The fact that it makes you feel those things (which are totally normal BTW and I’d feel the same) is enough to make it not ok. Is this something he sprang on you without asking? I’d tell him you don’t want to go and be very clear why. If he fights you on it or tries to minimize your very valid feelings… leave and don’t look back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 07:05 AM
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I swear to God these are the same recycled ass sorry profiles (and personalities) on OLD no matter what city, state, country you are in. Gave me a good laugh 🤣🤣 here’s to staying far, far away from low effort OLD 🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 09:41 PM
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Very well said. I’ve heard it firsthand from the horse’s mouth: men generally don’t respect women who approach them first. In their minds, women are prizes to be won. I think part of it is biological, honestly. The other part is conditioning. For (most) men, they believe and have been conditioned that getting a high quality woman shouldn’t be “easy” - after all, getting that prestigious degree or high paying job wasn’t easy, was it? Thus if a woman approaches them and expresses interest first, t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 09:39 PM
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YES! Doubts are your subconscious picking up that something isn’t quite right. Fighting your doubts and settling/staying anyway is only gonna make it worse over time. There doesn’t have to be any red flags in the relationship for you to have these doubts and leave. It could be as simple as feeling unfulfilled or that you want or need something different. Always best to cut your losses and walk away. Make room for yourself first, and the right man (or woman) will come! 💪🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 03:49 PM
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Good for you!! I wish I was this strong when things started out with my LVM ex… he was fresh out of another (4-year-long) relationship, I had just gotten out of a relationship myself, and we kind of rebounded into each other.. He swore he was “over” his ex, but guess who refused to cut her off and slept with her a few months after we started dating? After I forgave him (🤡 I know) and we started dating exclusively, he could not let go of this fucking ex… she was a thorn in my side the entire rela…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 06:36 PM
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Absolutely agree! I love seeing examples of strong, healthy couples like this- it helps reinforce the principle that we should never settle. Love and relationships should feel like a warm secure blanket, not a constant, draining battle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 06:54 PM
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Spot on. “Brutally honest” is code for “I’m a fucking asshole, I am going to neg you and say offensive things about everything under the sun from your appearance to politics… why are you getting upset, I’m jUsT tElLiNg iT LiKe iT iS!!!11” It’s a cop out to push boundaries and be an unfiltered POS under the guise of being edgy and speaking their mind. Hard pass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 09:40 PM
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I’m not dating right now, but when I was on OLD, I used this app called TextFree to text dates. I never ever give out my real phone number anymore… I used to, but the straw that broke the camel’s back for me was when one guy kept texting and calling me until 2 am in the morning DURING THE WEEK(!!!).. woke me up out of a dead sleep when I had a crazy busy week at work, I was so enraged. I immediately texted him asking wtf was wrong with him and telling him that it was inappropriate. He freaked ou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 09:35 PM
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Lundy Bancroft’s book was the wake-up call I needed last month to drop my scrote abusive ex once and for all. I could not put this book down once I started…luckily it was a slow work day. Abusive men thrive in the confusion and chaos that they intentionally manufacture, and LOVE flipping the script back on you. It absolutely is crazy-making behavior, and losers like this will terrorize you with it for the rest of your life if you let them. They chip away at your sense of stability and sanity pie…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 06:06 PM
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I am so sorry. It sounds like he wants you to “submit” to him so he can essentially win by breaking you (depraved, I know). I am a very opinionated woman as well and I’ve been in this situation before. I think you should cut your losses and move on, and find someone who isn’t so insecure of your strength and confidence that he has to play games to get himself the upper hand. It will only get worse with time if you stay with him, now that his mask has dropped.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 02:20 PM
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This is physically nauseating to read. How has she held it in for TWO WHOLE WEEKS???? Sis… call the police, a divorce lawyer, and find a way to tell this girl’s parents. Not only is he an insecure cheating loser, but he is clearly a vile predator. Kick his ass out and never look back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 11:51 PM
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OP, I agree with the other posters here. As someone who has diagnosed ADHD, I doubt that is the issue. In my experience, if a man does this - irrespective if it’s before the first date or after weeks or months - he likely had a second life and you dodged a MAJOR bullet with him exposing himself now. Most likely answer is he is cheating (and either got caught or suddenly felt guilty). This happened to a few of my girlfriends, unfortunately after they’d slept with these scrotes and been “dating” t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 10:51 PM
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